Switching_Off_From_Work_And_Breakup_Regrets_#152 — Hold My Drink

[00:00–00:05] Hi there, it's Mario Rosenstock, host of the Mario Rosenstock Podcast.
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[01:09–01:12] I never feel how hot I am.
[01:12–01:13] Yeah, same.
[01:13–01:23] I'm like a big, cozy, cozy bitch.
[01:23–01:26] I'm like, wow, you're literally like a radiator.
[01:26–01:27] Oh my God.
[01:27–01:30] You will never ever hear me and like, oh, yeah, I have that tone.
[01:30–01:31] Never.
[01:31–01:32] Yeah.
[01:32–01:33] Could never be me.
[01:33–01:34] Are you mad at me?
[01:34–01:35] No.
[01:35–01:36] Role, crispy Role.
[01:36–01:37] Poor chicken gravy.
[01:37–01:38] Salth.
[01:38–01:39] Oh, yeah.
[01:39–01:40] No meat.
[01:40–01:44] So on this easy episode, how much drink we talked about work like balance, being busy,
[01:44–01:50] how does one juggle life, friends, family, boyfriends, work, dogs, extra critteries, dogs.
[01:50–01:51] Yeah.
[01:51–01:52] Get your 10,000 focus.
[01:52–01:54] Exercise mental health.
[01:54–01:55] Cooking.
[01:55–01:56] What is appointments?
[01:56–01:58] This way you get one error free.
[01:58–02:00] Yeah, we just not pleased.
[02:00–02:03] We got some really good advice in people of how they manage work like balance, how we
[02:03–02:08] manage errors, little bits and barbs, where we're job and that's health and employment
[02:08–02:11] is a little bit different to the time management that sense.
[02:11–02:16] We had a dilemma about a girl who regrets making up with her boyfriend who she broke up
[02:16–02:20] because she wanted me to be able to his home country and then she regret it.
[02:20–02:24] And then also a dilemma that was really such nice the answer by use of my friend.
[02:24–02:25] Oh, no.
[02:25–02:30] About finding mommy friends and how to find them and we got some offers of people who
[02:30–02:31] listen to what to be friends.
[02:31–02:32] That's so cute.
[02:32–02:37] We're going to try and organize some kind of weird meat opera, butter group or something.
[02:37–02:39] Of course we always chat.
[02:39–02:40] Normal at start.
[02:40–02:41] Mm-hmm.
[02:41–02:42] Chat.
[02:42–02:43] Tired girls this week.
[02:43–02:44] Tired girls.
[02:44–02:47] The top right laughland and a few other rites as well.
[02:47–02:49] Yeah, that was it this week and I hope you enjoyed.
[02:49–02:50] Thank you.
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[03:02–03:03] Hello.
[03:03–03:04] I wonder because I feel every Wednesday at 12.
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[03:14–03:17] And yeah, we've already made it in today.
[03:17–03:18] Very, very, very.
[03:18–03:19] God love us.
[03:19–03:20] Very tired.
[03:20–03:23] Really had it in my head that I wasn't inside and I'm like, yeah, why?
[03:23–03:24] Shit.
[03:24–03:25] I don't know.
[03:25–03:26] You checked me.
[03:26–03:27] Are we in the water?
[03:27–03:28] Yeah.
[03:28–03:29] You're like, yeah, we're in the water.
[03:29–03:30] Yeah, it's like 20 to 10.
[03:30–03:31] I was in the chair.
[03:31–03:32] I'm still in bed.
[03:32–03:33] So, it was a day off.
[03:33–03:34] Yeah, I don't know what happened.
[03:34–03:37] It's because we work about, I think it's because we're doing a back week look.
[03:37–03:40] Yeah, whenever we record, we always have one already recorded.
[03:40–03:41] Yeah.
[03:41–03:43] Which is good if like something was, if someone was to be sick or something.
[03:43–03:44] There's no one there.
[03:44–03:45] Yeah.
[03:45–03:48] There's always one there, but we've to catch up then after it's, but I think that's
[03:48–03:49] why we're very confused.
[03:49–03:52] I think we have a few weeks off of our Christmas.
[03:52–03:53] Yes.
[03:53–03:54] A couple, I think.
[03:54–03:55] Smaller Christmas break.
[03:55–03:56] Just a tie.
[03:56–03:57] Just a two week go.
[03:57–03:58] Please.
[03:58–03:59] Yeah.
[03:59–04:02] We have another race since January.
[04:02–04:03] January, yeah.
[04:03–04:04] Which is long.
[04:04–04:06] But January was the only break we ever talked in the past.
[04:06–04:07] Yeah.
[04:07–04:08] And that was an accidental one.
[04:08–04:09] Yeah.
[04:09–04:10] How long was it again?
[04:10–04:12] I think it was like January, April.
[04:12–04:13] What?
[04:13–04:14] Three months.
[04:14–04:15] Yeah.
[04:15–04:16] Wow.
[04:16–04:17] I January to March.
[04:17–04:20] It wasn't just a month of January.
[04:20–04:21] Oh my god.
[04:21–04:22] Sorry guys.
[04:22–04:23] Yeah.
[04:23–04:24] It was accidental.
[04:24–04:25] It didn't mean it.
[04:25–04:26] It was sorry.
[04:26–04:27] These things happened.
[04:27–04:28] For like, for like, yeah.
[04:28–04:29] Yeah.
[04:29–04:31] We are just back from our live show in Limerick.
[04:31–04:32] Mm hmm.
[04:32–04:33] Ball.
[04:33–04:34] Ball.
[04:34–04:35] So it's a good time.
[04:35–04:36] Too much of a ball.
[04:36–04:37] Craig was so nice.
[04:37–04:38] Meet me.
[04:38–04:39] We were so lovely.
[04:39–04:40] Everyone was so glam.
[04:40–04:41] Loved it.
[04:41–04:42] I was just so lovely.
[04:42–04:43] It's just, and we became by themselves.
[04:43–04:44] So I'm behind the ones.
[04:44–04:45] I know.
[04:45–04:46] I'm so lovely.
[04:46–04:47] But yeah, we were all so nice.
[04:47–04:48] And we're just, excited to more.
[04:48–04:53] Sarah told me there was a girl at the Limerick live show that has been to every single one of
[04:53–04:56] her live shows saying, yeah, yeah.
[04:56–04:57] I don't want your name.
[04:57–05:02] If you can let us know for you, I really want to find and you find who it is.
[05:02–05:03] Yes.
[05:03–05:04] She's been to everything of our live show.
[05:04–05:06] I'm like, my God, please I canto.
[05:06–05:07] I'll speak it out.
[05:07–05:08] Yeah, we need to find out who you are.
[05:08–05:11] So if this is you and you were listening, please send us a message.
[05:11–05:12] Please let us know that it's you.
[05:12–05:13] Yeah.
[05:13–05:15] Because that is just mega look.
[05:15–05:21] easy, unbelievable. So when I see it, you literally can give us a full review. Yeah, what do we do better?
[05:21–05:26] I just make your opinion on 100% fully. Out of everyone, I take your
[05:26–05:31] everyone. Yeah. We went to house and after it. We did. I had a good time.
[05:31–05:36] They told the very end. And it was just a ball. Great crime. We're very
[05:36–05:40] remote. Still. Still. I think it's just, I think everything's actually good. This
[05:40–05:43] month for us is crazy. Yeah. We're black Friday everything. I just think
[05:43–05:48] November is always this time. The year always is very busy and just
[05:49–05:53] it I feel like a all goes really, really fast. And then there is like a little period of
[05:53–05:57] it's kind of down. I think November's works in December now for me. Yeah.
[05:57–06:01] Especially this year we had three live shows. Yeah. Hallelujah. We had laugh lands.
[06:02–06:06] And then everything between like work. Yeah. That was when I look back that month, I'm like, how
[06:06–06:10] do I do that? How are you? You're a trooper. Oh god. Yeah. You're like a sureselabony.
[06:10–06:13] But I don't know. One day I'm just going to be like, you're
[06:15–06:18] getting to that stage. Yeah. I think it's the age to put out the
[06:18–06:21] limmer because amazing. So thank you so much for so much everyone who came.
[06:21–06:25] I did Dublin as well. Yes. So all of the girls actually came down from Dublin to
[06:25–06:30] Limerick. I did it. Some thanks for it. Yes. My family were there.
[06:31–06:37] cousins. My mom and dad. Thanks guys. And I need to say a massive thank you to House
[06:37–06:42] Alana who did my hair. Oh yeah. Bad old nice. I had a ball before even got to Lysha. What
[06:42–06:46] you mean? A ranger and I was in the car. The owner of House decay Laura.
[06:46–06:53] It would drop me to get me tan and drop me up to you. Yeah. Got you a tail.
[06:53–06:55] She was like, say your cousins. I said, no, no, that was girls from the House of
[06:55–06:59] K. She was like, what? Yeah. I was so I was touched. She's got other cousins. I had a ball.
[06:59–07:04] An absolute ball. Oh. So thank you so much for that. Alana. Liz, you had my hair done like
[07:04–07:10] half an hour for us. I was so lucky. So nice. So nice. Amazing. So thank you so much for doing that.
[07:10–07:16] You're a sweet heart. So. We stayed in the strands. The strands? Yeah. Lovely room.
[07:16–07:21] Lovely hotel. Very, very like their staff lovely. Very nice. Didn't actually eat anything there.
[07:21–07:26] Nope. In the end. Didn't family shine there? No. Because we only checked in. Yeah. We didn't get to go
[07:26–07:30] to the show. We got to go to the bathroom and then didn't get breakfast right in the next
[07:30–07:36] morning. I didn't even until throw his for chicken that I got. Tisuna. Not properly. You know, I had
[07:36–07:40] like a snack and they go, we had to somebody see we were in the shop where like, is there any
[07:40–07:44] chickens coming out? Which are like 20 minutes? Do we wait? We just get home rolls. Now we need to
[07:44–07:53] wait. So we got them and roll. Krispy roll. Four chicken gravy. Salt. Oh yeah. No meat. I always
[07:53–07:56] forget when somebody asked me my death, tell me like what would it be? That would be.
[07:57–08:03] Have you seen people making the boards? No. Of like grocery street food? Yeah. So they have like
[08:03–08:10] their boards with their chicken, their gravy, their stuff and their bread. Like my, this is
[08:10–08:17] this you are. Bless you. It's basically like a charcoot rebord but Rochis street chicken chicken style.
[08:17–08:23] Yeah. Oh god. Very good. My mental disease style. Just be kind of vegan.
[08:23–08:30] Just for the live show I was in Lapland. Yeah, fill me in about oh my god. And like so magical.
[08:30–08:36] Did you feel like a child? I felt like yeah. Yeah. So the first thing that was like so we
[08:36–08:40] traveled we had to get stuff out of like because there was no direct flight Sunday we flew or back.
[08:40–08:47] So we flew to Milan. Milan? Milan. You went down it. You went down to go off. So we flew three hours
[08:47–08:53] down and then three hours up. So getting there in the end but like we've lined up from Dublin
[08:53–08:56] six three hours. Oh okay. So it looked doable. So if I tell me to check back in, put our bags
[08:56–09:00] back on and things like that. So enter Coca-Cola. Yep. And when I
[09:00–09:02] think of Christmas I do think I'm going to be at the end.
[09:02–09:03] You do!
[09:03–09:04] And the rest.
[09:04–09:04] Oh, the discipline.
[09:04–09:05] Yeah, yeah.
[09:05–09:09] So we went for a small to send us post office,
[09:09–09:12] which I didn't realize it was actually a real fully functioning post office.
[09:12–09:13] Oh, yeah.
[09:13–09:14] Oh, the letters have to go somewhere.
[09:14–09:15] Oh, the letters have to go somewhere.
[09:15–09:18] And we've seen all of Elves sort in them into little boxes.
[09:18–09:21] And they were in like easy, every country's letters and the thing.
[09:21–09:24] And they said that even, which is the matter of fact,
[09:24–09:29] I cried, they were like people even gone beyond the age of, you know,
[09:29–09:31] should you teenager a child will say right to Santa?
[09:31–09:35] The young adults and adults will say right and tell Santa about their troubles
[09:35–09:37] and they tell about their different wishes.
[09:37–09:40] And there were the elves are saying like how different it is from someone who lives
[09:40–09:43] in the country with a lot of poverty or like a terrible country compared to,
[09:43–09:47] like a, you're a first for a first for a country.
[09:47–09:49] And I was home with it.
[09:49–09:53] So I was all crying and then I, did you post your letters to Santa?
[09:53–09:54] Or did you leave them on the mantelpiece?
[09:54–09:56] I think I don't know a bit about.
[09:56–09:57] Did you?
[09:57–09:58] I don't know, yeah?
[09:58–10:03] I remember doing more of the mantelpiece I think because I used to draw on pictures.
[10:03–10:04] Yeah.
[10:04–10:06] And then you used to save the money from now to join me.
[10:06–10:08] Oh, show Mrs. Clothes and make them toys.
[10:08–10:09] Yeah.
[10:09–10:15] And then we had to write postcards at home to our family so I wrote on Dorea.
[10:15–10:17] I went down and I was crying right into it.
[10:17–10:19] I was like, we just all love each other so much.
[10:19–10:23] I can't believe it's only like your second Christmas here,
[10:23–10:25] but feels like she was just forever really.
[10:25–10:27] Yeah, you can't imagine when she wasn't there.
[10:27–10:28] Oh, that's so cute.
[10:28–10:31] And I can't wait until she can understand Christmas more.
[10:31–10:32] Yeah.
[10:32–10:34] She doesn't know, obviously, like she's only one half nearly.
[10:34–10:36] But Hannah was even saying that about Maryly, like,
[10:36–10:40] when they get to an age of actually understanding the mantelpiece.
[10:40–10:41] Yeah.
[10:41–10:43] I really haven't a child around really does.
[10:43–10:44] It's made Christmas I think.
[10:44–10:45] So cute.
[10:45–10:46] And then we went to meet Santa.
[10:46–10:48] I cried with me Santa obviously.
[10:48–10:50] We sang on the Ratland Bar.
[10:50–10:52] She was like, can you, do you have any songs for Ireland?
[10:52–10:55] And like, he was able to, we're like on the doorbelly,
[10:55–10:58] like Black Rock, like, I think his name and everywhere.
[10:58–10:59] Santa knows everything.
[10:59–11:00] And I was everything up.
[11:00–11:03] And I cried with me in here and that friend then went to the co-holocris
[11:03–11:04] was struck.
[11:04–11:08] So to ball there, I sent it again.
[11:08–11:09] Then he came to our dinner.
[11:09–11:12] He was so giftsy, I had lapish food, which was the.
[11:12–11:13] Yeah, what was it like?
[11:13–11:14] It was fish.
[11:14–11:15] Is that what we call it?
[11:15–11:16] Lapish lapish lapish.
[11:16–11:17] So boat night was fish.
[11:17–11:20] Okay, but they obviously have really fresh fish.
[11:20–11:21] Yeah, unreal.
[11:21–11:24] They don't think they'd have chickens when we had to vibe.
[11:24–11:28] And so I feel like we're thinking about what food they'd have.
[11:28–11:30] I feel like they don't eat chicken like really.
[11:30–11:32] And we just more fish.
[11:32–11:34] Yeah, how would they survive and that weather?
[11:34–11:35] So chickens.
[11:35–11:36] But the chickens couldn't.
[11:36–11:38] But the reindeer, we'd have a reindeer.
[11:38–11:41] The reindeer and the fish, that's like their main things.
[11:41–11:42] And everything was just unreal.
[11:42–11:45] And then what else do we do?
[11:45–11:46] That's Santa.
[11:46–11:52] Oh, we packed up bags for the Red Cross in laplands, which is like a charity.
[11:52–11:54] There's a pack of food essentials bags to give out the next day.
[11:54–11:55] Then to people who need them.
[11:55–11:59] And like, if that was just reneal, we'll see how happy people were over.
[11:59–12:01] Literally essentials of food.
[12:01–12:02] Yeah.
[12:02–12:04] And like, you think we take for granted?
[12:04–12:05] Yeah.
[12:05–12:06] But she's a time of year.
[12:06–12:09] Like, I just think over the year they've gotten so much.
[12:09–12:11] I couldn't care about what gift I got.
[12:11–12:13] I just wanted to be happy and healthy at my family friends.
[12:13–12:14] Yeah.
[12:14–12:17] When you're younger, it's so you think you're so very insecure.
[12:17–12:20] I remember crying being disappointed on Chris's one.
[12:20–12:21] The neck of me.
[12:21–12:25] How did my mom not absolutely slap you about?
[12:25–12:26] I don't know when you get older.
[12:26–12:31] I, I vividly remember being so upset with my brother.
[12:31–12:32] Did she?
[12:32–12:34] For me, like, yeah, that is so bold.
[12:34–12:35] I know.
[12:35–12:36] I know this year.
[12:36–12:37] I've asked for two things.
[12:37–12:38] I've asked for it.
[12:38–12:39] Hoover.
[12:39–12:40] Great.
[12:40–12:42] Because I want to cut my own Hoover upstairs.
[12:42–12:43] Yeah.
[12:43–12:45] And then eventually when I get the hair, I was like, I'm really good.
[12:45–12:47] And I asked, Graham, will you get me a slow cooker?
[12:47–12:48] Oh, that's a great.
[12:48–12:49] Yeah.
[12:49–12:50] I really want one.
[12:50–12:51] I don't have one.
[12:51–12:52] No room for appliances.
[12:52–12:53] No, but I really want one.
[12:53–12:54] Yeah.
[12:54–12:55] I want to make slow cooker meals.
[12:55–12:56] Yeah.
[12:56–12:57] What's the amount of money I have?
[12:57–12:58] A whole lot of parts.
[12:58–12:59] Yeah.
[12:59–13:00] It's a real tender.
[13:00–13:02] You know, you're touching on towards you when you ask for a Hoover and a slow cooker.
[13:02–13:03] I've, it's all I want.
[13:03–13:07] I've asked for a pair of broken socks off Dano.
[13:07–13:08] Okay.
[13:08–13:11] And then whoever has me goes to Chris Ken, but I've asked for a portable charger.
[13:11–13:12] You do.
[13:12–13:13] Actually, yeah.
[13:13–13:15] But I don't, there's not no other one.
[13:15–13:16] Honestly.
[13:16–13:17] Not my need.
[13:17–13:18] Not my need.
[13:18–13:21] I love, I love giving presents more than I love getting them.
[13:21–13:22] Yeah.
[13:22–13:23] I love seeing people say.
[13:23–13:24] Yeah.
[13:24–13:25] I love surprise people.
[13:25–13:26] Yeah.
[13:26–13:27] That's so fun.
[13:27–13:28] Yeah.
[13:28–13:29] I can't remember the time when I actually, we, we do Chris Ken, let home.
[13:29–13:30] Oh, yeah.
[13:30–13:31] You still get everyone?
[13:31–13:32] No.
[13:32–13:33] And I have a feeling my dad has me.
[13:33–13:34] Okay.
[13:34–13:35] He was fucking a fiam when he pulled out the night.
[13:35–13:36] Yeah.
[13:36–13:38] So I just said I just want to Hoover.
[13:38–13:39] Hoover.
[13:39–13:40] Really good.
[13:40–13:41] That's it.
[13:41–13:43] I then, Jack, who actually is really good.
[13:43–13:44] Is it?
[13:44–13:45] Yeah.
[13:45–13:46] It's like a cordless one.
[13:46–13:47] Yeah.
[13:47–13:48] Yeah.
[13:48–13:49] I'd be so excited.
[13:49–13:50] Don't you got me one year back clothes?
[13:50–13:52] He got me for, um, that's good.
[13:52–13:53] Isn't it?
[13:53–13:54] See?
[13:54–13:55] You know, you're getting old.
[13:55–13:56] You know, yeah.
[13:56–13:58] I asked for a white and green back clothes.
[13:58–14:00] They're really, really nice ones.
[14:00–14:02] No, like the brand is called white and green.
[14:02–14:03] Yeah.
[14:03–14:04] Oh.
[14:04–14:05] They're really, really nice ones.
[14:05–14:06] Is it Christmas friends?
[14:06–14:07] No.
[14:07–14:08] I don't know where you get them.
[14:08–14:09] And I don't even know how I found them.
[14:09–14:12] But I found them online and they're like, good spending ones.
[14:12–14:15] But then I moved beds and I don't actually think anymore.
[14:15–14:16] Yeah.
[14:16–14:17] Oh my God.
[14:17–14:20] They're close, slow, cookers, who overs folk, man.
[14:20–14:21] Yeah, for God's sake.
[14:21–14:22] Get all on here.
[14:22–14:27] Oh, we're going to do a full Christmas episode, though, as well, obviously, about everything Christmas.
[14:27–14:28] Mm-hmm.
[14:28–14:30] So we will get more into all that.
[14:30–14:32] That's going to fly in, I feel.
[14:32–14:36] I think the fact that I'm away as well in December, it takes like a chunk.
[14:36–14:37] Yeah, it takes a chunk out of it.
[14:37–14:40] So when I come home, it'll be the 16th.
[14:40–14:41] Yeah.
[14:41–14:42] Nine days later, it's Christmas.
[14:42–14:43] Where do I go?
[14:43–14:44] To get Christmas presents.
[14:44–14:47] I'm going to try and get some bits on Black Friday.
[14:47–14:48] Yeah.
[14:48–14:50] If I know what I'm getting people, I'm like, that's actually a good time to buy things.
[14:50–14:51] Sure.
[14:51–14:52] I get electronics.
[14:52–14:53] It's good to buy.
[14:53–14:55] Nine, oh, it says good discounts.
[14:55–14:56] Mm-hmm.
[14:56–14:57] I'm like, there.
[14:57–14:58] But I don't know what I'm getting anyone.
[14:58–14:59] No, no, no, no.
[14:59–15:00] Have anyone thought of clubs?
[15:00–15:01] To see.
[15:01–15:02] Yeah.
[15:02–15:03] And we said we're not doing that in my life.
[15:03–15:04] Were you going to store them in the house?
[15:04–15:05] Yes.
[15:05–15:06] We usually go up to the top of the tree to the first place.
[15:06–15:10] But we just want to save for ten sheep whenever we get time to go in here.
[15:10–15:11] Yeah.
[15:11–15:12] Like, our dad just put that one into something.
[15:12–15:15] Or I obviously think something is going to do together a trip.
[15:15–15:16] Yeah.
[15:16–15:17] I'd more try to trip.
[15:17–15:19] Book trips into the evening as one time a year off.
[15:19–15:20] Sorry, girl.
[15:20–15:24] I'm sorry, I walked you for all the way in 2020.
[15:24–15:25] I don't know.
[15:25–15:26] We don't know what you're doing for a while.
[15:26–15:28] So we're going to want more freaks together and things.
[15:28–15:30] So I owe you a trip.
[15:30–15:31] Yeah.
[15:31–15:32] I owe you a trip.
[15:32–15:33] Sorry.
[15:33–15:34] I've been wanting.
[15:34–15:37] But yeah, how are you to get one gift?
[15:37–15:38] So I'm stressed.
[15:38–15:40] And then just maybe you forget about the annual.
[15:40–15:41] I'm like, I'm not going to.
[15:41–15:42] I know.
[15:42–15:43] What next day do you have?
[15:43–15:46] Have you ever re-gifted a gift?
[15:46–15:47] No.
[15:47–15:48] Never.
[15:48–15:50] I didn't re-gifted a bit.
[15:50–15:54] Like, if you got like a set or something, you didn't really think like, what for?
[15:54–15:55] Where's the next year?
[15:55–15:57] Or like around the Christmas time?
[15:57–15:58] Oh.
[15:58–15:59] No.
[15:59–16:00] No.
[16:00–16:01] I'm not sure.
[16:01–16:02] I'm not sure.
[16:02–16:03] I definitely have.
[16:03–16:07] I definitely, I actually have one this year.
[16:08–16:09] I might give, but I wouldn't get.
[16:09–16:13] I'd also give some it as a bonus gift that I would have otherwise.
[16:13–16:14] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[16:14–16:15] I would use that as the gift.
[16:15–16:17] You just know you're not going to use it and just say, I'll give that to them as well.
[16:17–16:18] Yeah, I'd talk about it.
[16:18–16:19] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[16:19–16:20] Yeah.
[16:20–16:21] Why are you re-gifted?
[16:21–16:22] No, I definitely have.
[16:22–16:23] I have to be.
[16:23–16:24] Yeah, yeah.
[16:24–16:25] Just something like that.
[16:25–16:27] I'd rather give it to somebody who I know will use it.
[16:27–16:28] We'll know better.
[16:28–16:29] Yeah.
[16:29–16:30] Yeah.
[16:30–16:31] Yeah.
[16:31–16:32] Don't I.
[16:32–16:33] I am.
[16:33–16:36] I don't have to pop your opinion by hate.
[16:36–16:38] I just this year I've gotten a hate for it.
[16:38–16:39] I've been counting this.
[16:39–16:41] Okay, I've been out of chocolate ones.
[16:41–16:43] The ones with the heat to shine in it.
[16:43–16:44] Yeah, I'm sorry.
[16:44–16:48] I have seen a few online and there was actually a video I watched last night.
[16:48–16:55] Oh, I'm sorry while it is, but there were six of like the same products in it in like
[16:55–16:58] half a shade of a different color and they were all minis.
[16:58–17:00] They were like, no, time.
[17:00–17:03] No, the only one I've seen.
[17:03–17:05] I don't know if it's out this year, but it was one year.
[17:05–17:06] It was just out of sale.
[17:06–17:07] Everyone.
[17:07–17:08] And that was good.
[17:08–17:09] It was at the box.
[17:09–17:10] It was the low.
[17:10–17:11] It was gold.
[17:11–17:12] Yeah.
[17:12–17:13] And it actually full size products.
[17:13–17:14] Yeah.
[17:14–17:15] And many of the stuff that you'd actually want.
[17:15–17:18] But like, so one of me say, and you're like, oh my god, it's like worth 900.
[17:18–17:20] And it's now 100 like it was.
[17:20–17:21] It was a shy.
[17:21–17:22] Yeah.
[17:22–17:23] Sashas of testers.
[17:23–17:24] There was one actually.
[17:24–17:25] It's chlor.
[17:25–17:26] And I can't have worked.
[17:26–17:27] I think we got it.
[17:27–17:28] One year it was a body shuffle.
[17:28–17:30] Oh, that was two years ago.
[17:30–17:31] I think.
[17:31–17:32] We got it.
[17:32–17:33] It was nice.
[17:33–17:34] And I gave it a half that's up to my mom.
[17:34–17:35] Because I was never a guy who had true love.
[17:35–17:36] That was nice.
[17:36–17:37] But like, then there's ones that make, wow.
[17:37–17:38] I do want to do it on this year.
[17:38–17:39] I'm safe.
[17:39–17:41] Now he's got me.
[17:41–17:42] I don't know what one of them.
[17:42–17:43] I usually say, I don't want one.
[17:43–17:45] No, I do like one fucking coin of.
[17:45–17:46] Yeah.
[17:46–17:47] I said, it's only a second.
[17:47–17:48] I'm back eating, going down six.
[17:48–17:49] I said, it's December.
[17:49–17:50] That's right.
[17:50–17:52] I'm waiting in January and putting this on.
[17:52–17:53] Oh, yeah.
[17:53–17:54] Now I'm enjoying myself too.
[17:54–17:55] Almost can't be ours.
[17:55–17:56] Yeah.
[17:56–17:57] Don't get it.
[17:57–17:58] I'm going to America.
[17:58–18:00] Comp yours. Yeah, don't go into it.
[18:00–18:01] Okay, come on.
[18:01–18:02] I'm in rude.
[18:02–18:04] And I have a list of places I need to go.
[18:04–18:06] Very felt so sick, I think, my trip.
[18:06–18:08] Do you know what I mean?
[18:08–18:11] So, I do raise the cans right now.
[18:11–18:12] I need to try it, yeah.
[18:12–18:13] Oh my gosh.
[18:13–18:14] It is nice.
[18:14–18:17] Oh, Jay is such a chicken, I wanna try that one too.
[18:17–18:20] I really wanna try a gym typhoon.
[18:20–18:23] Yeah, that's in the Chili's mozzarella stick.
[18:23–18:26] Yeah, but I'm probably not a little girl there.
[18:26–18:28] So it would be very upset for me if they see me go on a shoot.
[18:28–18:30] Oh, because he went, because I made my...
[18:31–18:33] I don't know if she Lee's in New York, is it?
[18:33–18:34] I don't know.
[18:34–18:36] I love the names of the stuff in America.
[18:36–18:38] Oh, that's a bagel place.
[18:38–18:39] Pop-up?
[18:39–18:40] Yeah.
[18:40–18:42] But I don't think I like cream cheese.
[18:42–18:43] I don't know.
[18:43–18:44] Do I like it?
[18:44–18:45] I love cream cheese.
[18:45–18:46] Would I like it?
[18:46–18:47] Yeah.
[18:47–18:48] Would I like it?
[18:48–18:49] Yeah.
[18:49–18:50] Would I like it?
[18:50–18:51] Yeah.
[18:51–18:52] Would I like it?
[18:52–18:53] Yeah.
[18:53–18:54] Would I like it?
[18:54–18:55] Yeah.
[18:55–18:56] Would I like it?
[18:56–18:57] Yeah.
[18:57–18:58] Would I like it?
[18:58–18:59] Yeah.
[18:59–19:00] Would I like it?
[19:00–19:01] Yeah.
[19:01–19:02] I don't like cream cheese.
[19:02–19:03] Oh, a schmarin.
[19:03–19:04] Like a piglish schmarin.
[19:04–19:05] Oh, I like that word.
[19:05–19:06] Yeah.
[19:06–19:07] That's a good one.
[19:07–19:08] So, yeah, you'll like it.
[19:08–19:09] Okay.
[19:09–19:10] And if...
[19:10–19:11] Oh, yeah.
[19:11–19:12] I need to try.
[19:12–19:13] I love a jalapeno.
[19:13–19:14] I'm like, yeah, what did you say?
[19:14–19:16] I was in cinema and I had popcorn and ice cream.
[19:16–19:18] And then I had jalapenos and nachos.
[19:18–19:19] And I ate all my nachos.
[19:19–19:20] I had all these jalapenos.
[19:20–19:21] I felt like, what did you say?
[19:21–19:22] So I was like, hmmmm.
[19:22–19:24] jalapeno and ice cream.
[19:24–19:26] Ben and Jerry's chocolate brownie slapped.
[19:26–19:27] We're jalapenos.
[19:27–19:28] I will say it over.
[19:28–19:29] I'm sure.
[19:29–19:32] I got a new tic tac on it and I will make people up off.
[19:32–19:35] I thought you were at least going to say vanilla or something.
[19:35–19:36] But jalapenos.
[19:36–19:37] That could be nice.
[19:37–19:39] I feel like that would be nicer than chocolate.
[19:39–19:40] No, it was nice though.
[19:40–19:41] What was it?
[19:41–19:42] jalapenos ain't that strong.
[19:42–19:45] It's like a spice bit crunch.
[19:45–19:46] Yeah.
[19:46–19:47] Really?
[19:47–19:49] I sent you a pregnant all these weird things are you fun?
[19:49–19:51] This has always been me.
[19:51–19:52] All these crazy things.
[19:52–19:54] I'm going to be one of the people who eats the fucking inside of a coat
[19:54–19:55] and the fragrance.
[19:55–19:56] Yeah, it's somewhere.
[19:56–19:57] If this is what I eat now.
[19:57–20:00] Do you ever see the girl who I dry while she was obsessed eating dry while?
[20:00–20:01] Yep, that would be me.
[20:01–20:02] Yeah.
[20:02–20:03] Yeah, or something that you're not meant to eat.
[20:03–20:07] Wasn't it cold back in the day when I was a good little pregnant little cold or chocked
[20:07–20:08] or something?
[20:08–20:09] Or soap?
[20:09–20:13] Do you ever see the videos I love when tic tac when they could soap?
[20:13–20:14] Yeah, yeah.
[20:14–20:16] But they do well in nice squares and then they go.
[20:16–20:19] I'm like feeling anxious to watch something.
[20:19–20:20] Okay.
[20:20–20:21] I watch people eat.
[20:21–20:22] Oh yeah.
[20:22–20:23] Love that.
[20:24–20:26] Sometimes football makes me angry.
[20:26–20:29] From time to time it's made me follow where everyone and me friends.
[20:29–20:30] And me brothers.
[20:30–20:31] And me dad.
[20:31–20:35] That's why when the biggest games are on, I need the biggest telly.
[20:35–20:37] So they have to watch with me.
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[21:23–21:26] Valent for five years and emailed in minutes.
[21:26–21:33] So just last week I mentioned my wish for the new year is to be less busy.
[21:33–21:37] And I might just think about how often we hear people complain about poor work life
[21:37–21:38] violence.
[21:38–21:40] Like we hired to recognize in yourself.
[21:40–21:43] We'll have to sell for worse sometimes.
[21:43–21:47] What does a bad work life balance look like for you?
[21:47–21:48] A bad one.
[21:48–21:51] If you're having a bad work of hands, what would that feel like?
[21:51–21:54] I look like you're like, what's in your heads?
[21:54–21:58] She I feel like we're completely on two different wavelengths here.
[21:58–22:01] We really are and I'm having a first in this.
[22:01–22:02] I.
[22:02–22:03] Yeah.
[22:03–22:05] Like great work.
[22:05–22:08] No, life is my priority to me.
[22:08–22:09] Yeah, I take the piss of it.
[22:09–22:14] I know I do completely like I will leave everything to your work until the last minute.
[22:14–22:15] Yeah.
[22:15–22:16] I know.
[22:16–22:19] No, but I'm just like.
[22:19–22:21] I'm too horizontal for my own good.
[22:21–22:25] I say I'm just too.
[22:25–22:26] Chilled.
[22:26–22:27] Yeah.
[22:27–22:33] I wish I was more strict with myself about work and like actually getting up and like giving
[22:33–22:38] myself the hours of like a nine to five and being like right.
[22:38–22:39] Yeah, sick into that.
[22:39–22:43] I did all from work from nine to five at home and then switch off and then have a good time.
[22:43–22:44] Yeah.
[22:44–22:46] No, I'm home all the time living my best.
[22:46–22:50] It's boring to have no desire because you have that choice of what you want to do.
[22:50–22:51] Yeah.
[22:51–22:54] It's like in the morning, if you wake up in your hours to do something first thing, you don't
[22:54–22:55] have to wear it in your own app.
[22:55–22:56] You're in work.
[22:56–22:57] You kind of do have to like.
[22:57–22:59] I definitely more better in the evenings at home.
[22:59–23:00] Really?
[23:00–23:01] Yeah.
[23:01–23:02] Definitely.
[23:02–23:03] I used to be like I'm under the opposite name.
[23:03–23:04] No.
[23:04–23:09] I like to get up and I like to have my brecky, hang around my dog, chill with my dad.
[23:09–23:12] A Friday for me is me and dad's day.
[23:12–23:16] We go for a little coffee and all like that's so cute.
[23:16–23:17] Yeah.
[23:17–23:18] I just, yeah.
[23:18–23:19] Yeah.
[23:19–23:23] If I can put something off, I'm the biggest procrastinator in the long thing.
[23:23–23:24] Oh my god.
[23:24–23:26] I've been on this finger in Ireland.
[23:26–23:27] I swear to God.
[23:27–23:28] Yeah.
[23:28–23:33] If I can put something off, you would until I the last second until I need it, I will.
[23:33–23:34] Yeah.
[23:34–23:35] I know I will.
[23:35–23:37] You will never ever hear me be like, oh, yeah, I have that tone.
[23:37–23:38] Never.
[23:38–23:39] Yeah.
[23:39–23:40] Could never be me.
[23:40–23:41] Are you mad and that?
[23:41–23:47] I would then when I'm so busy, it's like I actually have to do things in advance because of everything
[23:47–23:48] to you on the same day.
[23:48–23:49] Yeah.
[23:49–23:50] I can't do them all in there before.
[23:50–23:51] Yeah.
[23:51–23:52] No, no, you can't fit them all in.
[23:52–23:54] If you're looking at someone else, you have to have to work like friends.
[23:54–23:55] What is their life?
[23:55–23:57] Life look like a bad one.
[23:57–23:58] Yeah.
[23:58–23:59] Just working all the time.
[23:59–24:00] Yeah.
[24:00–24:01] No.
[24:01–24:03] Obviously, I know we are like, we all need to work.
[24:03–24:04] We all need to make money.
[24:04–24:06] It's all, it's the way we all survive.
[24:06–24:07] I get in there.
[24:07–24:12] I think putting your job above anything else in life and everything.
[24:12–24:17] My fast doesn't seem, and I know some people are going to listen to this and like, oh God,
[24:17–24:19] I'll report, I'll implement such Jesus.
[24:19–24:20] I completely want to plan out.
[24:20–24:21] I have these job laurels.
[24:21–24:22] I know it.
[24:22–24:30] I cannot ever complain about the privileged position I'm in for my job.
[24:30–24:33] But like, say if it was like a lawyer or something.
[24:33–24:37] They work for like 12 hours a day on the weekends.
[24:37–24:39] I don't know.
[24:39–24:45] Should there be like a set amount of hours a day, like, should it be half and half?
[24:45–24:46] Work and life.
[24:46–24:47] Yeah.
[24:47–24:48] Yeah.
[24:48–24:52] The only place I've seen a great work life balance is Sydney.
[24:52–24:54] They have a bloody, a great work life balance.
[24:54–24:56] They all go on Sunday nights.
[24:56–24:58] Don't worry about being on an open air.
[24:58–25:00] They all hang around with each other after working off.
[25:00–25:01] Yeah.
[25:01–25:04] I think it's because they start walking so early.
[25:04–25:05] Remember that cafe we went in?
[25:05–25:06] It was open from like five.
[25:06–25:07] Yeah.
[25:07–25:09] True, and they're off, probably for 12.
[25:09–25:10] Yeah, I mean, lovely.
[25:10–25:11] Yeah, you have the whole day free.
[25:11–25:12] True.
[25:12–25:13] That would be lovely.
[25:13–25:14] Yeah.
[25:14–25:17] But what does the bad work life balance look like to you?
[25:17–25:20] Yeah, I think someone is working more than their life.
[25:20–25:24] But then if people who enjoy that and actually, like, yeah, true.
[25:24–25:29] I do like, most of the time, I do really like working, but then sometimes when I take you
[25:29–25:30] out, I don't like it.
[25:30–25:31] Because I like doing that.
[25:31–25:35] I think if you're prioritizing your job and you hate it,
[25:35–25:38] it would be a big sour, crumbly.
[25:38–25:39] Show me.
[25:39–25:40] Yeah.
[25:40–25:43] If you're enjoying what you do and you have no problem with being like, oh, no, I'll take on an extra job.
[25:43–25:44] I'll take on.
[25:44–25:45] Yeah, yeah.
[25:45–25:47] You're obviously reaping the benefits that you're going to be paid more and stuff like I get.
[25:47–25:48] Yeah.
[25:48–25:50] So if you're doing it and you're enjoying what you're doing, that's fine.
[25:50–25:51] That's your decision to do.
[25:51–25:52] Yeah.
[25:52–25:54] Put your down it and like, tread it.
[25:54–25:55] Yeah.
[25:55–25:56] That would not be fun.
[25:56–25:57] I think it's for your head.
[25:57–26:01] So that's important to not always have work on the brand.
[26:01–26:02] Yeah, just switch jobs.
[26:02–26:07] Sometimes jobs can be not saying ours is necessarily that stressful, but like, so now they're very high pressure,
[26:07–26:08] very high stress.
[26:08–26:09] Yeah.
[26:09–26:12] That like if you don't have that balance, that can really affect your outside of working.
[26:12–26:14] And maybe factor around health.
[26:14–26:15] Yeah.
[26:15–26:19] It used to scare me when I remember when I left second year's school, are you, are you
[26:19–26:23] used to scare me the fact of being in a full time job all year?
[26:23–26:24] Yeah.
[26:24–26:27] Because in my head, I was so conditioned obviously for all those years and skills to have like
[26:27–26:28] the summer all the Christmas all.
[26:28–26:29] Yeah.
[26:29–26:30] Are you single?
[26:30–26:31] Do you think like that?
[26:31–26:32] Yeah.
[26:32–26:34] And then like, I remember getting to the age of like, when I was going out, summer all day.
[26:34–26:35] Yeah.
[26:35–26:36] And being like, yeah.
[26:36–26:37] Yeah.
[26:37–26:38] Yeah.
[26:38–26:39] Yeah.
[26:39–26:40] Yeah.
[26:40–26:41] Yeah.
[26:41–26:42] Yeah.
[26:42–26:43] I work all year.
[26:43–26:44] I was watching me and I work all year.
[26:44–26:46] Like, what about, what about two weeks after Christmas?
[26:46–26:47] Yeah.
[26:47–26:49] So in its height of August, I have to go to work.
[26:49–26:50] I'm going to work.
[26:50–26:51] I'm going to work.
[26:51–26:52] I have to work.
[26:52–26:53] I was just, what ...
[26:53–26:57] I remember not understanding that, like, I couldn't picture that.
[26:57–26:58] I couldn't get it at all.
[26:58–26:59] It was so strange.
[26:59–27:00] It really ...
[27:00–27:02] It's nice and skilled to have to work.
[27:02–27:03] Oh, yeah.
[27:03–27:04] Just me.
[27:05–27:06] Just exist?
[27:06–27:07] No, I didn't.
[27:07–27:10] I wanted to work in school by coming at job.
[27:10–27:11] Really?
[27:11–27:12] Oh, no.
[27:12–27:17] Well, yeah, that's weird.
[27:17–27:19] And kids and young adults just exist.
[27:19–27:21] They have to work so hard.
[27:21–27:23] You just do your life and go home.
[27:23–27:24] I was like, what's the scale tomorrow?
[27:24–27:25] I want to say it all the time.
[27:25–27:27] Easy peasy, lemon squeezy.
[27:27–27:28] Really?
[27:28–27:29] We have to work.
[27:29–27:30] Then I have to learn.
[27:30–27:31] I can't really.
[27:31–27:33] You just go and have fun.
[27:33–27:34] Yeah, true.
[27:34–27:35] What was the biggest worry?
[27:35–27:37] You're busy working in there, for the day or the day.
[27:37–27:38] So fun.
[27:38–27:40] Just hang around with your friends.
[27:40–27:43] Yeah, I wish I kind of knew where I was at.
[27:43–27:45] School was so fun to me.
[27:45–27:46] I swear to God, I'd go back tomorrow.
[27:46–27:47] Yeah.
[27:47–27:49] Your biggest worry was your homework.
[27:49–27:51] God, okay, sir.
[27:51–27:52] Sorry.
[27:52–27:53] Good one.
[27:53–27:54] I forgot.
[27:54–27:56] I think it's a good thing to do it.
[27:56–27:58] I find it hard to like.
[27:58–28:01] I think as an adult thing, we all feel like there's like.
[28:01–28:04] To not be able to excel in everything at all at once.
[28:04–28:06] So it's always has to give.
[28:06–28:07] Oh, yeah.
[28:07–28:10] I would love to meet someone who has a perfect worker balance
[28:10–28:13] and can be in the gym five days a week.
[28:13–28:15] See all the friends much as they want their family.
[28:15–28:18] They're doing the work really well.
[28:18–28:19] Like I feel like whenever.
[28:19–28:20] There's not a fairers in the day for that.
[28:20–28:21] I'm sorry.
[28:21–28:22] Whenever I'm doing something well,
[28:22–28:23] I'm always so friendly.
[28:23–28:24] I hate that.
[28:24–28:25] Okay.
[28:25–28:27] And I also feel like I want to see some like, oh, works going
[28:27–28:28] really well.
[28:28–28:30] I'm like, book I haven't seen my friends in a few days.
[28:30–28:31] Yeah.
[28:31–28:32] Yeah.
[28:32–28:34] And I'm nearly forgetting what I'm doing that because I'm self.
[28:34–28:35] I'm self-poked.
[28:35–28:36] I'm so my forget her from seeing my friends.
[28:36–28:37] I was a load of plans.
[28:37–28:39] I'm like, I can post an Instagram with three days.
[28:39–28:40] For how do you get free?
[28:40–28:41] So I'll be like, that.
[28:41–28:42] How do you?
[28:42–28:44] Like, you can't like, maybe you can't.
[28:44–28:45] I don't know.
[28:45–28:47] I think planning pre-plan is important.
[28:47–28:49] Like, if I look at my week, feel like, right.
[28:49–28:51] What does week look like?
[28:51–28:52] Where am I working, Grant?
[28:52–28:53] Okay.
[28:53–28:54] Where do I see my friends, Grant?
[28:54–28:56] Where do I fit into my family, Grant?
[28:56–28:57] Where do I go to the gym?
[28:57–28:58] Working it that way.
[28:58–28:59] So at least I have it in advance.
[28:59–29:01] Where it's in my soul, finish a week and be like, shit.
[29:01–29:02] I didn't do that.
[29:02–29:03] Yeah.
[29:03–29:04] And then a lot of people had to wear it in advance.
[29:04–29:05] If you know, okay, this is really busy week.
[29:05–29:06] I've less time for this this week.
[29:06–29:08] Like, that's fine.
[29:08–29:10] But when it's when I look back, or like, I get to the Wednesday,
[29:10–29:12] my fucker haven't thought about even exercising.
[29:12–29:15] I feel so bored when I do that, like, from my heads.
[29:15–29:18] Like, if you can acknowledge it before, going into the week.
[29:18–29:19] Yeah.
[29:19–29:20] It's not too bad, because you know it's common.
[29:20–29:21] Yeah.
[29:21–29:23] So then if you look backwards at it, you feel worse.
[29:23–29:24] Because it's the worst with myself.
[29:24–29:25] Okay.
[29:25–29:26] Yeah, I guess.
[29:26–29:27] Yeah.
[29:27–29:34] It's hard to divide time for us because we, with self-employedness,
[29:34–29:36] one thing we're obviously not saying it's a hard job.
[29:36–29:37] Like we just said that.
[29:37–29:38] Yeah.
[29:38–29:39] It's easy, but.
[29:39–29:40] No, it would take it easy.
[29:40–29:42] It's, yeah, what's the word I'm looking for?
[29:42–29:47] It's easy in the sense of some things, but then some things are really hard.
[29:47–29:54] And people question you as a person, and that, that's a side of work that a lot of people don't have to have.
[29:54–29:58] I think it's more of a case of, and say me things, you know.
[29:58–29:59] Yeah.
[29:59–30:04] I think it's more of a case of, it's not so much a job that you dread.
[30:04–30:09] It's not so much a job that I, I would never complain about what we do.
[30:09–30:13] No, I could never, ever, apart from trolls.
[30:13–30:14] Yeah, yeah.
[30:14–30:16] That's probably the worst part of it, but I could net, like,
[30:16–30:18] that wouldn't feel right to me.
[30:18–30:19] I feel like a dickhead.
[30:19–30:21] Yes, I'm complaining about what we do.
[30:21–30:22] Yeah, never.
[30:22–30:23] But.
[30:23–30:25] Yeah, I take back saying that it's easy.
[30:25–30:28] I don't know what kind of word I'm looking for.
[30:28–30:29] It's.
[30:29–30:32] What you trying to say, easier, hard.
[30:32–30:33] No.
[30:33–30:40] Yeah, not that it's easy, but it's definitely like.
[30:40–30:42] The easiest.
[30:42–30:43] I don't know.
[30:43–30:44] I'm fucking up.
[30:44–30:45] Yeah, that's brain is on a tree.
[30:45–30:46] And I hang over there.
[30:46–30:47] It can't.
[30:47–30:50] It's job I'd never complain about, but it does have its pros and cons.
[30:50–30:51] Yes, definitely.
[30:51–30:52] Yeah, definitely.
[30:52–30:53] But it's hard.
[30:53–31:00] I think when you're coming from college and school, like you have to set routine, then you go
[31:00–31:03] to a job and we decide we're doing other jobs, hours, the F clock, then whatever.
[31:03–31:06] Then when you're self employed, it's like, shit, I make them errors.
[31:06–31:07] Oh, fuck.
[31:07–31:09] Yeah, you're like, I pick what I want to do.
[31:09–31:12] And then you can move things around and like, it's nice.
[31:12–31:17] It's really, really nice if you're having a shit day or like your sick and you can just pick
[31:17–31:19] and say, oh, look, I'm able to do it for you.
[31:19–31:20] And it's always fine.
[31:20–31:21] Yeah.
[31:21–31:24] That also is better than the course because then you're like, you can put everything on the
[31:24–31:25] long.
[31:25–31:26] Yeah, then you do procrastinate everything.
[31:26–31:28] Yeah, because no one chasing probably into the last day.
[31:28–31:29] No.
[31:29–31:30] Yeah.
[31:30–31:32] You've no one to answer to accept yourself.
[31:32–31:33] Yeah.
[31:33–31:36] And by procrastinate and putting everything on the long finger, the only person you're hurting
[31:36–31:38] is yourself is yourself.
[31:38–31:39] Yeah, it's so true.
[31:39–31:40] Yeah.
[31:40–31:45] And how do you switch off from your job and phone and also sorry, we have to be able
[31:45–31:46] to have a good.
[31:46–31:52] You're always, when you're in a stereotypical job, you clock off and like there's things you
[31:52–31:57] can do to better yourself or get like promotions, but like with us, we have the power to always
[31:57–32:02] do more and and post more in our hands at all times in our phones.
[32:02–32:06] So it becomes a pressure of like, you're sitting there watching, well, I was sitting there
[32:06–32:07] watching them making.
[32:07–32:10] Making this video edit and this have this set like it's really hard to switch off and
[32:10–32:11] something that's right.
[32:11–32:14] Yeah, sometimes when it's in your hand, it's like, you see everything.
[32:14–32:16] And then you see other news content.
[32:16–32:17] You're like, there's more you can be doing.
[32:17–32:18] There's always more you can be doing.
[32:18–32:21] Of course, being self-employed, you can always post in every video and like, that's, I find
[32:21–32:25] that I heard because you're kind of in this hamster, you look like, should I be doing more
[32:25–32:26] and I'll, I never feel like I'm doing enough.
[32:26–32:27] Say enough.
[32:27–32:28] Never feel like doing enough.
[32:28–32:29] Ever.
[32:29–32:30] I don't like, I don't like I ever will.
[32:30–32:31] I think that's just.
[32:31–32:32] No, I think you will.
[32:32–32:33] No, I do.
[32:33–32:34] I think you will.
[32:34–32:35] I don't like I will.
[32:36–32:37] I think that's just me in life.
[32:37–32:40] I think I'll just always think that.
[32:40–32:44] Because there is always more to post and there's always things in my draft is like, I never
[32:44–32:46] feel don't are finished.
[32:46–32:47] Ever.
[32:47–32:48] You never feel like satisfied.
[32:48–32:50] What you do like, no, not that.
[32:50–32:51] Nothing.
[32:51–32:51] I'm happy with what I do.
[32:51–32:54] My work that I do, but like.
[32:54–32:56] I'm like, I could have done more today.
[32:56–32:56] Didn't do that.
[32:56–32:58] Like I'm just re-heard myself.
[32:58–32:59] I think you're very hurt yourself.
[32:59–33:00] Girl, what the hell?
[33:00–33:01] No, no.
[33:01–33:05] I wish I wish I was more like that.
[33:05–33:06] Really?
[33:06–33:07] Oh, yeah.
[33:07–33:08] No.
[33:08–33:09] I don't find a heart to switch on.
[33:09–33:10] I find it so hard.
[33:10–33:11] Oh, no.
[33:11–33:12] Telly goes on.
[33:12–33:13] The phone goes down.
[33:13–33:14] Good luck.
[33:14–33:15] Good night.
[33:15–33:17] Like, do you ever watch watch telly?
[33:17–33:19] Maybe you just have a phone series.
[33:19–33:20] Look at my fucking fluffy socks.
[33:20–33:21] I'm like, I'm going to go out.
[33:21–33:27] No, I don't find it too hard to switch off or like.
[33:27–33:29] I do have things I do that will.
[33:29–33:32] Do you know if you're still a scroll and do you not think you're still kind of switched
[33:32–33:35] on in a sense because you're still on your page and your job.
[33:35–33:37] You're scrolling and Instagram and tick tock.
[33:37–33:38] No.
[33:38–33:41] I think you're your brain a secret like what could I post next?
[33:41–33:44] Or I could do that I'll say that video because that's like what we are.
[33:44–33:46] I don't think I've ever done that my life.
[33:46–33:47] No.
[33:47–33:49] Save the video.
[33:49–33:51] I save videos because I just like watching them.
[33:51–33:53] I don't say even if you're like, I'm going to do that.
[33:53–33:54] Or like that's a good recipe.
[33:54–33:55] Or like I can.
[33:55–33:57] I'll never make it like.
[33:57–33:58] Really?
[33:58–33:59] But I'll save it.
[33:59–34:00] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[34:00–34:03] Or like a trend and say on if you see that, like I say that.
[34:03–34:05] When you ever see a video in front of yourself.
[34:05–34:06] I'm useless.
[34:06–34:08] I'm useless when it comes to shit like.
[34:08–34:09] I'm not super.
[34:09–34:10] Yeah, no.
[34:10–34:11] Never.
[34:11–34:14] I'm shit at that like scrolling time to me is like switch off.
[34:14–34:15] That's switch off time.
[34:15–34:16] Yeah.
[34:16–34:17] Yeah.
[34:17–34:19] That's like I'm horizontal in the bed.
[34:19–34:20] Yeah.
[34:20–34:22] My brain isn't even probably consumed and have to shut and watch them.
[34:22–34:24] But to me that's it's switched off.
[34:24–34:25] It's quite a bit.
[34:25–34:26] Yeah.
[34:26–34:27] But then I feel bad sometimes like.
[34:27–34:29] I obviously are really bad now hang around my family.
[34:29–34:30] I think I've sent this before.
[34:30–34:31] Yeah, yeah.
[34:31–34:36] If I know my mom sitting downstairs and around watching Tally and I'm upstairs in my room watching Tally, I feel really bad.
[34:36–34:38] So I'll go down and sit with her like.
[34:38–34:39] Yeah, yeah.
[34:39–34:41] Something in my head just and then my mom's like, fuck off.
[34:41–34:42] I can't wait.
[34:42–34:43] Yeah, you're working on time.
[34:43–34:44] You were wrecking my head.
[34:44–34:45] Well, you're working on time.
[34:45–34:46] Yeah, literally.
[34:46–34:47] Well, yeah.
[34:47–34:49] Now I don't find it too hard to to switch off.
[34:49–34:50] No.
[34:50–34:52] I definitely am coming across like a ladies bitch.
[34:52–34:53] You don't work.
[34:53–34:54] No.
[34:54–34:55] I know I do.
[34:56–35:00] They said this to me in school, as well, she just enough to get by, but she has so much more potential.
[35:00–35:01] Now, I'm searching.
[35:01–35:03] Yeah.
[35:03–35:04] I'm sure they're reporting.
[35:04–35:05] Departure.
[35:05–35:06] Yeah.
[35:06–35:07] Yeah.
[35:07–35:08] I think I switched off.
[35:08–35:09] In Pilate.
[35:09–35:11] I think it can't be any phone.
[35:11–35:12] I knew breathe and I cut.
[35:12–35:13] Oh.
[35:13–35:14] Oh, that's lovely.
[35:14–35:15] Yeah, I love that.
[35:15–35:16] That's for me.
[35:16–35:17] That's it just for me.
[35:17–35:18] It's Okay.
[35:18–35:20] It's nice.
[35:20–35:21] I see.
[35:21–35:22] You have something that you can choose to go to where you know you're going to switch off.
[35:22–35:27] Yeah, yeah, I love it. I mean, I just so broke your heads. Um, it's saying no, something
[35:27–35:38] you're so good with. No. Yes. God, no. Like it'll work. Send. Yeah. No. Or in any sense.
[35:39–35:44] But I don't say no to people who say, because I'm like, oh, that sounds fun. Or like, yeah,
[35:44–35:49] if something, if something sounds fun, I'll say, yeah, if something makes apps and it definitely
[35:49–35:53] happened with both of us before as well. Like something like another makes no sense for us. Yeah.
[35:53–36:00] Yeah. So I say no if it's genuinely something that makes no sense for us to do or like, yeah.
[36:00–36:02] don't like what it is.
[36:02–36:06] I'll say yeah, even if I'm like back to that busy,
[36:06–36:07] but something really exciting comes up,
[36:07–36:09] I'm like, oh, that sounds really fun.
[36:09–36:09] That's different though.
[36:09–36:11] Yeah, because it's exciting and you want to do it.
[36:11–36:12] Yeah, but yeah, and I'm stressed myself
[36:12–36:14] and put myself in.
[36:14–36:15] Yeah, you do do that.
[36:15–36:16] And I love it.
[36:16–36:17] Yeah, I do.
[36:17–36:19] Just a summer year, never again.
[36:19–36:21] No, yeah, maybe this is a learning lesson for lecture.
[36:21–36:22] Yeah.
[36:22–36:24] To even say, yes, that's fine.
[36:24–36:26] So yes, everything, but spread the mail.
[36:26–36:27] I know.
[36:27–36:28] So yeah, granted, I can do that, but I can't do it
[36:28–36:29] this week.
[36:29–36:31] And actually, yeah, I was overachieved.
[36:31–36:33] I'm like, I can film this business one day,
[36:33–36:35] I'm like, realistically, takes so much longer than people think.
[36:35–36:39] Can you take me like, yeah, something took me one video,
[36:39–36:42] 20 seconds, yes, say, from start to finish editing
[36:42–36:44] and getting ready was five and a half hours.
[36:44–36:47] So it takes me, yeah, so I overanalyze everything as well.
[36:47–36:50] Then I, yeah, and I over explain things a lot.
[36:50–36:53] That's what my learned I do in like jobs and so forth.
[36:53–36:55] Yeah, I over explain things like,
[36:55–36:57] you do not need to go into that much.
[36:57–36:59] Yeah, I mean, I put something on screen.
[36:59–37:02] I mean, no, yeah, doesn't need to, doesn't need to.
[37:02–37:06] But what's your one-a-go show will me time during the day?
[37:06–37:08] Do you have that like, plateaus?
[37:08–37:09] OK, yeah.
[37:09–37:11] But it's not I was going to go for the kind of,
[37:11–37:14] I was put in, but what I do, yeah, I like to do before and
[37:14–37:16] nine o'clock because I feel like that's my time in the world.
[37:16–37:18] So like before life starts,
[37:18–37:22] knowns like my phone's not being everyone's sleep.
[37:22–37:24] Yeah, I'm a friend there texting the group to that.
[37:24–37:27] Like everyone's just, just mind a little space.
[37:27–37:29] But I don't always get up at that time, so I need to start again.
[37:29–37:30] Get up early.
[37:30–37:32] I just got up at seven every morning.
[37:32–37:33] I don't feel me.
[37:33–37:35] But I love when it's bright, it's too dark right now.
[37:35–37:36] It's pitch black.
[37:36–37:39] Yeah, I love to be so we go out for five a.m.
[37:40–37:42] No, I'm sorry, how?
[37:42–37:43] It's that's middle of night vibes.
[37:43–37:45] That's I'm rolling over on my 10th dream.
[37:45–37:48] Yeah, now when Graham wakes up at six and when I,
[37:48–37:51] yeah, when I get up at six for him, you're actually fine.
[37:51–37:54] I'm grand, like, and he even says that he's like,
[37:54–37:55] you're actually not my only in the morning.
[37:55–37:57] I really thought you'd be like a weapon at this time.
[37:57–37:59] I'm like, no, I can get up and I'd be grand.
[37:59–38:00] Yeah, yeah.
[38:01–38:03] But I got home and I could go sleep again.
[38:03–38:03] Yeah, yeah.
[38:03–38:04] So no, yeah.
[38:04–38:06] No, but then I'm more tired.
[38:06–38:08] The session I'm awake up taking a nap.
[38:08–38:10] But like when I come home, I have six in the morning.
[38:10–38:12] Everyone in my house is obviously asleep.
[38:12–38:13] I'm not gonna start fucking barge and around.
[38:13–38:18] Yeah, I'm not gonna, but whenever I'm, you might have more.
[38:18–38:21] Yeah, that's what I'm really learning what your routine is.
[38:21–38:21] What?
[38:21–38:22] My real routine.
[38:22–38:24] I go off the routine of my mom and dad now.
[38:24–38:25] I know I do.
[38:25–38:26] Yeah, she's hurting.
[38:26–38:29] And she's gonna cause her mom and dad's routine.
[38:29–38:30] But I know I do.
[38:30–38:33] Like I know the days my mom works during the week.
[38:33–38:34] I know the days she doesn't.
[38:34–38:36] I know that my dad look forward to it Friday with me.
[38:36–38:38] And that's half of kind of a switch off day.
[38:38–38:41] And like, we have dinner every single night,
[38:41–38:42] I have six together.
[38:42–38:44] Yeah, that like you're like following me.
[38:44–38:47] Yeah, and it's been like that since I'm living in that house.
[38:47–38:48] Yeah, yeah.
[38:48–38:50] So no, maybe it might be a case of what I do.
[38:50–38:51] Move out.
[38:51–38:53] I will get my home routine.
[38:53–38:54] Yeah.
[38:54–38:55] Have a strong wake enough of it.
[38:55–38:57] We'll still keep some things that you're like,
[38:57–38:58] maybe in the end of your time or something like that.
[38:58–38:59] Yeah, I feel like that.
[38:59–39:00] Like I always say my life would have a white.
[39:00–39:01] Yeah.
[39:01–39:02] Yeah.
[39:02–39:03] We don't have my own routine.
[39:03–39:04] Yeah.
[39:04–39:05] Yeah.
[39:05–39:06] Yeah.
[39:06–39:07] And you see, and you can share with everyone.
[39:07–39:08] What?
[39:08–39:09] Dry your hair.
[39:09–39:10] Not wake anyone up.
[39:10–39:12] I turned the hair dryer on a half six more than my dad would.
[39:12–39:13] Yeah.
[39:13–39:14] Hair dryer.
[39:14–39:16] He'd get down turned the fields, wore it off.
[39:16–39:17] He'd switch.
[39:17–39:18] Oh, no.
[39:18–39:19] He'd help me.
[39:19–39:20] No way.
[39:20–39:23] And we also have listeners to talk about the managed daily work
[39:23–39:24] by balance.
[39:24–39:26] And here's what they have to say.
[39:26–39:29] This is also like if they're struggling and if they aren't
[39:29–39:34] managing really struggling at the moment, I started a level eight for your course in psychology.
[39:34–39:36] It's only too nice a week, but I work the other day.
[39:36–39:40] As my days go too fast to college work as well as job and friendships, boyfriends and family
[39:40–39:41] time.
[39:41–39:42] That's always that as well.
[39:42–39:45] It's just like you're like, you're like, always running after something, but I think
[39:45–39:50] you have to give yourself a bit of time without saying this like leeway because everyone
[39:50–39:51] feels like that.
[39:51–39:52] Yeah.
[39:52–39:55] And like, you imagine if that's a that they're genuinely isn't enough hours in the day,
[39:55–39:59] but then you do hear on the other side of it like somebody, somebody could just like,
[39:59–40:00] well, just get up earlier.
[40:00–40:01] Well, fuck off.
[40:01–40:02] No, like, yeah.
[40:02–40:03] Yeah.
[40:03–40:07] There's some sort of like, there's something that if you get up at 5 a.m. every morning
[40:07–40:11] and you're actually giving yourself an extra week in the year.
[40:11–40:12] Yeah.
[40:12–40:13] Yeah.
[40:13–40:16] There's some, maybe it's five, maybe it's a, I don't know.
[40:16–40:19] There's some math behind it that if you're getting up that early, you're giving yourself
[40:19–40:21] an extra week on top of everyone else in the year.
[40:21–40:23] But you know, let's sleep then though.
[40:23–40:26] No, no, you're a little bit ball of shirt, crank your neck.
[40:26–40:27] No, yeah, you do.
[40:27–40:28] Someone does that and it works.
[40:28–40:29] So please let's know.
[40:29–40:31] I look to hear like how their life changed or something.
[40:31–40:33] But like, what time do you go to bed?
[40:33–40:34] I don't go to bed really.
[40:34–40:35] It's just 12 hours.
[40:35–40:36] So that's normal for me.
[40:36–40:39] Like if I got to bed 4 to have like wow early nice.
[40:39–40:42] Yeah, I'm like, oh my god, I get so much sleep like eight hours.
[40:42–40:46] No, women need eight tenors to get like full rest.
[40:46–40:47] I couldn't tell you that.
[40:47–40:48] I got eight or ten hours.
[40:48–40:50] I got eight last night actually.
[40:50–40:51] Did you?
[40:51–40:52] Yeah.
[40:52–40:53] Did you get a lovely A?
[40:53–40:54] Didn't make up one.
[40:54–40:55] I was six.
[40:55–40:57] I woke up to 10 hours, boom.
[40:57–40:58] Never does that.
[40:58–40:59] I didn't see it.
[40:59–41:03] It was not a spoon or it's too hot warm.
[41:03–41:07] It was too much for two months before I got sleep and then turn around.
[41:07–41:08] Yeah, yeah.
[41:08–41:09] Back to you.
[41:09–41:12] Back to actually the man is in the neck, not one piece of clothing on this body.
[41:12–41:13] Boyland off, boy.
[41:13–41:14] Boyland.
[41:14–41:15] I'm the radier.
[41:15–41:16] I was with no, I'm not.
[41:16–41:18] I'm with no open getting a little creeped garlic.
[41:18–41:21] That's well, I'm the radier and I love a cold room.
[41:21–41:22] Yeah, but I don't get what radier.
[41:22–41:24] I never feel how hot I am.
[41:24–41:25] Yeah, same.
[41:25–41:26] I was like, your big, toasty, cold bitch.
[41:26–41:28] Yeah, I'm like, wow, you're literally like a radiator.
[41:28–41:29] Oh my god, my.
[41:29–41:31] I feel like I'm not.
[41:31–41:32] Yeah, I know.
[41:32–41:33] Yeah, radier heat.
[41:33–41:34] Maybe we just.
[41:34–41:35] So lovely.
[41:35–41:36] We're just so toasty.
[41:36–41:38] Um, I have three kids work part-time.
[41:38–41:41] Look after my dad with dementia at me time as a morse.
[41:41–41:42] I yeah.
[41:42–41:44] I really feel like me time is something that we all should prioritize.
[41:44–41:45] And our lives are 100%.
[41:45–41:46] We need it.
[41:46–41:51] And it sounds toxic, but I work my wage.
[41:51–41:55] I'm a teacher and I love my job and try my best for my students, but I have to remind myself
[41:55–41:59] that it's a job and I'm not being paid for errors beyond my contract.
[41:59–42:03] I don't get, but if I don't get to it during school time, it's not getting done.
[42:03–42:07] It's sad, but I'm actually much happier now when I leave work.
[42:07–42:08] I'm finished.
[42:08–42:10] I don't bring my stress or work home.
[42:10–42:11] Life goes on.
[42:11–42:14] My kids in school are happy and loved in school.
[42:14–42:16] I really do get this.
[42:16–42:17] Yeah.
[42:17–42:18] Work your wage.
[42:18–42:22] Like no one's going to give you a lot of jobs.
[42:22–42:25] Most jobs will see as an umber and will not pat down the back for doing extra things.
[42:25–42:26] No.
[42:26–42:27] I'm putting yourself under so much pressure.
[42:27–42:28] Yeah.
[42:28–42:30] I think people do that and they work their.
[42:30–42:32] Asked off too much for for nothing.
[42:32–42:33] You don't ask.
[42:33–42:34] Yeah.
[42:34–42:35] Appreciate it.
[42:35–42:36] Like that.
[42:36–42:37] Like you say the skills don't appreciate it.
[42:37–42:38] No, no, no.
[42:38–42:39] Yeah, that just made in general.
[42:39–42:40] Like that.
[42:40–42:43] So many people do go up over beyond and left for your real life.
[42:43–42:45] If you left today, they've replaced it tomorrow.
[42:45–42:46] Yeah.
[42:46–42:47] So like, yeah.
[42:47–42:48] Yeah.
[42:48–42:49] So many discussions that I don't take.
[42:49–42:50] Isn't there?
[42:50–42:51] Yeah.
[42:51–42:52] About like five o'clock homes.
[42:52–42:53] I clock off.
[42:53–42:54] Yeah.
[42:54–42:55] Yeah.
[42:55–42:56] The morning is mine.
[42:56–42:57] I'll say Jim or walk a coffee before work.
[42:57–42:58] Always your own.
[42:58–42:59] Oh, and your morning.
[42:59–43:00] Scaries.
[43:00–43:01] That's so nice.
[43:01–43:02] That like set you up for the day.
[43:02–43:03] I really feel like that.
[43:03–43:04] You're a time and no one else can.
[43:04–43:05] Yeah.
[43:05–43:06] I like that one.
[43:06–43:08] I used to think I had no time and then I checked my screen time.
[43:08–43:10] And saw him which time I wasted scrolling.
[43:10–43:13] I set limits on apps and they close after 15 minutes.
[43:13–43:16] It forces me to decide if I want to keep looking or would rather do
[43:16–43:19] something I'd be more fulfilled by love that would because it
[43:19–43:20] kind of makes your brain think very way.
[43:20–43:22] And you can go back out if you want.
[43:22–43:23] Yeah.
[43:23–43:24] You can also be like, okay, that's enough.
[43:24–43:25] Yeah.
[43:25–43:27] Because you might as well get in a trance where you're like, oh, yeah,
[43:27–43:29] yeah, and an hour or two ago, buying your like, oh, fuck.
[43:29–43:32] I kind of have me essay told myself all day.
[43:32–43:33] I was going to good up and showered.
[43:33–43:34] That's why I didn't get into the four o'clock.
[43:34–43:35] Good off showered.
[43:35–43:37] Change my bag close because I wanted to close the night.
[43:37–43:38] Eventually did at four o'clock.
[43:38–43:42] But when I was when I was clipping my little bag close together and all
[43:42–43:43] I was like, I feel so much better.
[43:43–43:44] Why didn't I do this early on?
[43:44–43:45] Yeah.
[43:45–43:46] Yeah.
[43:46–43:47] Yeah.
[43:47–43:48] Like what?
[43:48–43:49] Yeah.
[43:49–43:50] Take your lunch break and get outside for a bit of air.
[43:50–43:52] I see so many colleagues work through at their exhaust at the end
[43:52–43:53] of the day.
[43:53–43:54] You need a break and you work better after it's whatever it is.
[43:54–43:55] Come way to laughter.
[43:55–43:56] I looked at it.
[43:56–44:00] There's loads of studies behind that like that apparently.
[44:00–44:03] Your brain doesn't actually like operate to like 10 minutes.
[44:03–44:08] 10 o'clock in the morning and stuff for an Anakin only consumes so much information
[44:08–44:11] for a certain period of time and then at and stuff.
[44:11–44:12] Yeah.
[44:12–44:13] And then after that it stops.
[44:13–44:18] So like it's better to take regular breaks and like actually be it fully.
[44:18–44:19] Yeah.
[44:19–44:20] Yeah.
[44:20–44:21] Come back to it.
[44:21–44:22] Yeah.
[44:22–44:23] I guess.
[44:23–44:25] I always plan my week out on a Sunday as a trainees list.
[44:25–44:28] It can be tough to manage the workload when you're going to be in court in the office.
[44:28–44:30] I used to find myself staying late in the office after hours.
[44:31–44:34] I plan a day where we pick a pick day is going to stay late and days I'm leaving
[44:34–44:35] a five for four and actively.
[44:35–44:36] That's good.
[44:36–44:37] That's like you said earlier on.
[44:37–44:38] I plan it in advance.
[44:38–44:39] Yeah.
[44:39–44:40] Yeah.
[44:40–44:41] Doesn't you feel like you own the week in the week doesn't own you?
[44:41–44:42] Yes.
[44:42–44:43] I hate that.
[44:43–44:44] I hate when I'm like, oh, I can't.
[44:44–44:45] Not once fun for me in the week.
[44:45–44:46] Yeah.
[44:46–44:47] You any sort of activity can't do a res.
[44:47–44:49] And I put that in for myself, which is I didn't think it'd be.
[44:49–44:50] Yeah.
[44:50–44:51] I'm really.
[44:51–44:52] Learn to say no.
[44:52–44:55] Whether it's a thing you don't want to do going out.
[44:55–44:58] Work events are hanging around people you don't actually want to hang around with.
[44:58–44:59] Protect your piece.
[44:59–45:00] Protect your piece.
[45:00–45:04] I definitely struggle by starting on today and before work last year to be changed my outlook.
[45:04–45:08] It feels like I have a whole day to go once I finish work and have that time for me.
[45:08–45:11] Also, Journalism's help is that personal boundaries of work and helps it off a lot.
[45:11–45:16] That's good. Very good. I used to always wait until 5-3 even if I was finished my work,
[45:16–45:20] I would hang around. I've started leaving when I'm finished even if it's at 5,
[45:20–45:24] I feel so much better for it. It's motivation to get my work done first thing and I'm more
[45:24–45:28] productive at work and have more time at home. That's good.
[45:28–45:31] One more. I stack things together when I'm ready with you.
[45:31–45:34] Meet a friend and get the both to work together, catch up and communicate together in one,
[45:34–45:36] or walk the dog to school guys to collect the kids.
[45:36–45:39] It's small change, feels good to take two things off at once.
[45:39–45:43] That's good. If you're like having a friend and one and you do like a walk together,
[45:43–45:48] if you're feeling the size of it. Yeah, you can both add something in that you can do one or two things off.
[45:48–45:51] Or like say you're doing your gym class but you drive up together and like
[45:51–45:55] that's not about it. You know, that's a very good tip. I love that one.
[45:56–45:58] Seeks and the styles we always want to help you and give it advice, kind of,
[45:58–46:01] conversations you have with the girls in the bachelor's and the nightclub.
[46:01–46:04] Just tell you everything you need to hear and give you the real talk.
[46:04–46:09] So these are today's Sixth and the Stalls and I hope you will give you some advice.
[46:09–46:14] So the first dilemma is I've made the biggest mistake of my life and I need some guidance from you.
[46:14–46:18] I'm 21 and just graduated college. I met my ex-boyfriend in college three years ago.
[46:18–46:20] He's from Norway and I was made clear he wanted to go home.
[46:22–46:25] Oh, he made it clear he wanted to go back there after graduation.
[46:25–46:28] Live in the countryside and work from home because he's homeward.
[46:28–46:32] But I've always had it in my head that I could persuade him to stay in Ireland.
[46:32–46:37] He's from a tiny world village in the Fire and War to Norway and wanted me to move there with him.
[46:37–46:39] But I didn't go because I felt like there was probably nothing there for me.
[46:39–46:44] So we broke over at three months ago. I instigated it and now I'm regretting it because I can
[46:44–46:48] and can't stop balling my eyes out. I've come to realise this is love my life and the only boy I've
[46:48–46:52] ever loved. I don't know what I do without him. I also part of the reason I do want to go was because
[46:52–46:57] I have to give up my life there here. But since he broke up and he went home I found out I have two
[46:57–47:01] of my best friends moving away in the new year and I got to think that I should have went with him.
[47:01–47:05] We had a graduation ceremony last week and I was really hoping to see him but he wasn't there.
[47:05–47:09] I've been thinking about contacting him too but I don't know if it's totally fair on him.
[47:09–47:13] Should I reach out to him or is it too late? I hate feeling that I've lost the love of my life
[47:13–47:16] and I also hate feeling like my stupid decision to end it means I'm being left behind.
[47:16–47:21] My friends are all travelling abroad with their boyfriends and some girls are on solo.
[47:21–47:24] What have I missed my chance to have real love? What should I do?
[47:26–47:30] Reach out. Oh life's too short. You were a witt and tree years. It's not as if it was like a
[47:30–47:36] fling of a thing and like you feel like a freak. Absolutely. This life is genuine. You are too short.
[47:37–47:42] What have you got to lose? I think at least you'll know the answer. Yeah. The living in limbo I feel
[47:43–47:48] will be so much harder. I'd rather reach out and him to be like, no sorry, don't see myself
[47:48–47:51] gone back there at least then you know. Okay, Grant, that you can move on with your life.
[47:51–47:58] Yeah, but in this part of do I don't I? Sure. If it's worse. Yeah and it's okay to make a
[47:58–48:03] mistake like that. Like if you just didn't think that you wanted to live where he lived and that's not.
[48:03–48:08] That's not wrong with that. That's no. Do not wrong with that and to make to realise your mistake
[48:08–48:16] afterwards. Like that happens sometimes and like it's a thing of like you might turn it away.
[48:16–48:20] Is the only thing and you know to kind of live with that but like I also think everything happens
[48:20–48:25] for a reason. Yeah and that's it. If he doesn't want to be with you then then that's okay too.
[48:26–48:34] Like if you stayed with him at the time. Yeah and did go there. You could have hated it. Yeah,
[48:34–48:38] you would have been so unhappy. You did what you taught was right for you in that moment and that's
[48:38–48:44] absolutely allowed. Exactly. But you're allowed to change your mind like. Yeah and you're allowed to
[48:44–48:49] what's right for you. Yeah and what you want but I think I don't think it's unfair and him reach
[48:49–48:55] out. No, but I do think if you're going to reach out and you feel and you feel and make sure it's
[48:55–48:59] been three months I feel like your ass. Sure but I'm not panic after and it's something like
[48:59–49:03] I was at the right thing like oh actually would you act for him or like this like I actually should live
[49:03–49:08] there but like you might actually feel it so make sure you're sure. Yeah and then voice that
[49:08–49:12] to him because you don't want to lead him on or lead him to Australia. Guys, how's up?
[49:12–49:14] Mm-hmm. Thinking that she wants to live here and then saying.
[49:15–49:19] Oh, shit, actually don't. Actually, actually. I'm just panic and I made the wrong decision.
[49:19–49:25] Um no, I feel like three months is like if you're still feeling that yeah and it's not only because
[49:25–49:29] your friends are moving away and so make sure you're doing it for the right reason. But I said
[49:29–49:32] we've known to lose. I was really sorry. I was like you really don't. Yeah.
[49:32–49:39] At least you will know. I'd rather know. I'd rather know and be hurt even. Yes.
[49:39–49:44] Then sitting in this we all have lived in Dululu land. Sitting in the middle of Dululu land and being like
[49:45–49:50] what if yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah what if it's worse than actually knowing then try yeah yeah
[49:50–49:56] so the answer yeah. Oh please reach out. Oh let us know. I don't know if you're moving to Norway
[49:56–49:59] but yeah and I feel like if he doesn't want to like you have to prepare yourself for that
[49:59–50:04] eventually is that you might say look I'm not I don't want this anymore like it's been
[50:04–50:09] if you want and yeah this not so prepare yourself for that but also I think if you never try
[50:09–50:14] you never know. Mm-hmm. If you genuinely feel this is a real mistake that you you made
[50:14–50:19] then just explain that to him and I think we should understand that as well. Mm. I think like
[50:20–50:27] yeah just do it. Oh let us know please do. So moving on to fun friends this is our dilemma segment
[50:27–50:31] every week where we put up a dilemma on the Instagram story so if you're not following us
[50:31–50:36] follow us and these are some we put up a dilemma on the way out and delicious. Yeah. We ask
[50:37–50:41] listeners for advice sometimes use but the majority of time you probably have a better advice
[50:41–50:45] than we do to be honest. They're honest here it's really nice to see different people's perspectives
[50:45–50:51] yes and we usually always get like both sides of it kind of thing yeah um so here is the dilemma
[50:51–50:55] so I'm a 24 year old say at home I'm me and since having my little girl and struggling to make
[50:55–51:00] friends I've two incredible girl friends but as they don't have kids they're talking about traveling
[51:00–51:05] and moving away and it's making me scared because I know as soon as they go I'll have no one. I've
[51:05–51:12] joined baby groups and classes to try to mingle but I felt like no one's looking for friendships
[51:13–51:18] there. Any advice would be amazing as I'm scared to have no support network at home when my friends
[51:18–51:24] do move on with their lives and travel or move away and here's what you such a say. So first
[51:24–51:28] thing is social media is on Z great way to make friends as long as you're careful about it.
[51:29–51:33] I'm the same I bought a house away from my friends and family but I kept myself busy and focused
[51:33–51:37] on myself and I've learned that that's what that what's for me won't pass me.
[51:37–51:43] Oh except in embrace the time you have your little with your little family kids are on a
[51:43–51:49] younger short period of time. Invest time with your family maybe your mom sister aunties or cousins
[51:50–51:53] Pilates is great if she's able to catch a child minor for a while.
[51:53–51:59] True. Join mom groups on Facebook reddit groups or try a new hobby. Just keep trying Pilates,
[51:59–52:04] mommy's groups swimming for mommy and baby and give yourself time. My sister-in-law met some of
[52:04–52:08] her closest friends through peanut. Oh my sister did too. Did she? Like someone she's
[52:08–52:13] just a friend that now and the boat gave birth in the same week in the same hospital and it's like
[52:13–52:17] yeah it's a tender for her. And they're still friends? Yeah yeah yeah. Who's that raised birthday? No.
[52:17–52:24] It's like tender for moms to meet other moms. That's so cute. Yeah so cute. Oh I like that.
[52:24–52:28] Peanut it's called it if anyone's isn't. I don't know if it's an iron though. This is the England.
[52:28–52:35] I feel like it wants to be. Yeah maybe. Surely. Yeah if not they need to get on it.
[52:35–52:39] That's over. Makes it. And even if you're into addressing sport I'd recommend going to your local
[52:39–52:43] GAA club to see if they have a mother's and others team. Just being involved can have
[52:43–52:50] them make friends you don't even have to play. Ask for a baby play date or one of the other moms to
[52:50–52:55] get a coffee after a group. Having one two friends can uplift. You can lift the phone to
[52:55–53:01] resolve the needs. Yeah. And there's a mom's and Arlene Facebook group and mommy's often post
[53:01–53:05] looking to meet up and make friends. Mommy friends are such a blessing she should definitely show.
[53:07–53:13] Yeah this is definitely it's such a thing when you have babies that like people who especially
[53:13–53:18] you have some before their friends. Yeah. How related them. It's a different way. Different
[53:18–53:23] friendships would be. So having mommy friends is definitely really important. It's hard but the only
[53:23–53:28] friend you'll ever need is your door. Oh no. I joined a book club before and it was a nice
[53:28–53:33] cheer away to meet people. Bumble BFF and that's definitely an art great for meeting new friends.
[53:34–53:40] All my friends left when I was a young man. It's hard but you'll be okay. Oh my god the last one
[53:40–53:44] says also so many girls have offered to be her friend and said that they're in the same boat. Oh
[53:44–53:49] my god my heart asks their balls. Oh my god. Girl we can set you up on a mommy play date. Oh my god
[53:49–53:53] I wonder should we try get like their contacts as someone send them on tour and send mommy's
[53:53–53:59] mail so it will be in the same place. Girl we're gonna try it. I made a little water group. Yeah even.
[54:00–54:02] What do we sell friends?
[54:02–54:04] We sell it, we have a separate, any couples know.
[54:04–54:07] So we can sell it friends easier.
[54:07–54:09] No, we should definitely try and do something.
[54:09–54:11] That's so lovely.
[54:11–54:12] I think it's so to,
[54:12–54:14] kind of to like how nice,
[54:14–54:16] and mammy's who listens to that.
[54:16–54:17] Oh, my friend.
[54:17–54:20] One doctor in health and these are all such lovely girls.
[54:20–54:21] You really are.
[54:21–54:22] And some men too.
[54:22–54:25] So you can send in your
[54:25–54:28] six and a half or your phone a friend every week
[54:28–54:30] to homeaduringgokaladnow.com.
[54:30–54:31] If you want to buy some other people,
[54:31–54:33] phone a friend in the caption or this,
[54:33–54:34] simply fine.
[54:34–54:37] And because their advice is really fucking good.
[54:37–54:39] And it's very nice.
[54:39–54:41] And peak and bleak of the week is where we give you one peak,
[54:41–54:42] which is a high and one bleak,
[54:42–54:44] which is our love week.
[54:44–54:46] And that's happened within the last week in our lives.
[54:46–54:47] And it's only right to get the negative out of the way.
[54:47–54:50] I think yeah, for the positive.
[54:50–54:53] And I would just say be tired.
[54:53–54:56] Yeah, great bleak to have.
[54:56–54:57] Yeah.
[54:57–54:59] Can't complain, but I'm just.
[54:59–55:02] My eyes are jammy eyes are glassy from my entire.
[55:02–55:03] Yeah, still.
[55:03–55:06] Yeah, just my bleak was the hangover.
[55:06–55:08] Yeah, they're really they really are just getting worse.
[55:08–55:08] I was I don't know.
[55:08–55:10] I wasn't even hungover.
[55:10–55:11] Yeah, I was just tired.
[55:11–55:14] No, I was definitely not really the hangover.
[55:14–55:16] Didn't hit me too late on the day.
[55:16–55:17] One no, Monday.
[55:17–55:20] Oh, because I obviously got such little sleep on Saturday night.
[55:20–55:23] It was nearly like I was basically still drunk on the day.
[55:23–55:24] Yeah.
[55:24–55:24] So yes, they did.
[55:24–55:26] Yeah, say it was hard.
[55:26–55:28] Yeah, yes, it was still supposed to be.
[55:28–55:30] I had to work so I had to get up and pull myself.
[55:30–55:31] Oh, I can't.
[55:31–55:35] So you know, I'm so tired that you're like, yeah, I was like, zombie.
[55:35–55:38] No, so the bleak, yeah, bleak is that where it bleakly tired?
[55:38–55:42] Yeah, but that's every good complaint of life and peak.
[55:42–55:45] So I shifted up land magical.
[55:45–55:46] Good night.
[55:46–55:50] It was and then there was firework for better for a self fire.
[55:50–55:53] Show like everything was just like magic and I was like,
[55:53–55:56] it's so nice to feel so many emotions.
[55:56–55:57] So awesome.
[55:57–56:01] Yeah, I just kept crying out to tears and I get so nice that we're able to feel these.
[56:01–56:02] That's so cute.
[56:02–56:03] Yeah.
[56:03–56:06] And my feet are not like off this weekend.
[56:06–56:08] Oh, they look like a white shrill.
[56:08–56:09] It's a breakaway.
[56:09–56:13] No, I'll come a hall going to go back on a really chill.
[56:13–56:16] Actually, I want to find really good oysters and it's like.
[56:16–56:17] It's like on the west coast.
[56:17–56:18] Yeah, it is.
[56:18–56:19] Yeah, it's like on the west coast.
[56:19–56:23] I feel like the west coast of Ireland has the best they do oysters.
[56:23–56:24] They do.
[56:24–56:26] So I always are even around November.
[56:26–56:27] I don't really know.
[56:27–56:28] I'm going to find out.
[56:28–56:30] I've seen them in Superlid today in my fish.
[56:30–56:32] Yeah, my local one in the fish.
[56:32–56:33] Munger part where it's like fit.
[56:33–56:35] You know, fish laid out.
[56:35–56:36] There was oysters.
[56:36–56:37] I was like, I'm on oyster.
[56:37–56:39] Shirley, are you serious?
[56:39–56:41] I'm like, I might need to go see oyster value.
[56:41–56:42] Yeah, yeah, fuck.
[56:42–56:43] Yeah, superlid slap.
[56:43–56:44] That one does oyster sense.
[56:44–56:45] Superlid.
[56:45–56:46] My needs to taste this.
[56:46–56:48] I might be like the 10 fish man now.
[56:48–56:49] Yeah, yeah.
[56:49–56:50] I'm going to start.
[56:50–56:51] Yeah, it's just.
[56:51–56:52] Oh god.
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