LOVEBIRDS: Perfect Profiles with Ciara Ryan #170 — Hold My Drink

[00:00–00:02] Go Lade!
[00:12–00:13] Any updates?
[00:13–00:14] So I made a hinge.
[00:14–00:15] For?
[00:15–00:16] A hinge profile.
[00:16–00:17] We like that.
[00:17–00:19] I kissed someone that's weekend.
[00:19–00:22] Oh my goodness!
[00:22–00:23] Welcome home, morning.
[00:23–00:25] Couldn't stop crying.
[00:25–00:26] Oh.
[00:26–00:28] He has got a chocolate milk addiction.
[00:28–00:30] He has four days at least.
[00:30–00:31] Hello!
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[00:57–00:59] What once a month is called extra spice.
[00:59–01:01] And it gives spicy dilemmas.
[01:01–01:03] And it has both.
[01:03–01:04] And it has both condoms.
[01:04–01:06] And it has both sex.
[01:06–01:07] And it has both.
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[01:08–01:09] Well.
[01:09–01:10] Everything's bedroom, really.
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[01:11–01:12] All the bedrooms.
[01:12–01:13] All the staffs are spicy.
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[01:14–01:16] And these dilemmas you've got going on there.
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[01:28–01:29] Mm-hmm.
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[01:43–01:44] Yeah.
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[01:51–01:52] Please go.
[01:52–01:53] Include no.
[01:53–01:54] That's a total.
[01:54–01:55] It's just it's a ball.
[01:55–01:56] It's holes on.
[01:56–01:57] It's fun.
[01:57–01:58] You can come get dressed up.
[01:58–01:59] But it's something different as well.
[01:59–02:00] I think to do.
[02:00–02:01] Yeah.
[02:01–02:02] For people like it's not a concert.
[02:02–02:03] It's not.
[02:03–02:04] It's got a nice kind of middle.
[02:04–02:05] Yeah.
[02:05–02:06] It's a nice girl.
[02:06–02:07] Yeah.
[02:07–02:08] It is.
[02:08–02:11] And we spill some secrets and stuff on live shows that we don't necessarily spill here.
[02:11–02:12] So you get a three real.
[02:12–02:13] Three of a half tee.
[02:13–02:14] The hot live shows.
[02:14–02:15] Yeah.
[02:15–02:19] We got a dilemma in during the week and we have to read it out because it was that I seen this comment.
[02:19–02:20] Actually, it was adorable.
[02:20–02:21] Oh, did you?
[02:21–02:22] So hey, girlies.
[02:22–02:24] I know you have your live show in the history and the eighth of May.
[02:24–02:28] I just want to let you know that on the eighth of May last year I was brought into my baby boy.
[02:28–02:30] After a whole day of nothing happened.
[02:30–02:31] I hadn't died late.
[02:31–02:33] I decided to listen to your pod to help me go sleep.
[02:33–02:34] 30 seconds in your podcast.
[02:34–02:35] My water's first day.
[02:35–02:36] I don't know where.
[02:36–02:38] And then I relate it after midnight.
[02:38–02:39] My baby boy was here.
[02:39–02:42] I listened to live show as I used to celebrate this first birthday.
[02:42–02:46] But it just feels like a whole full circle moment that it be a year exactly.
[02:46–02:47] It's one to the share this week.
[02:47–02:48] Oh my.
[02:48–02:49] It's all so gorgeous.
[02:49–02:51] Oh, I wonder where we still play.
[02:51–02:53] And as you were given birth to her.
[02:53–02:54] Where are we?
[02:54–02:55] Oh, I know.
[02:55–02:56] I was in the top of God.
[02:56–02:57] Oh, that is so sweet.
[02:57–02:59] That's actually mad that it was.
[02:59–03:01] It's an actual exactly your later.
[03:01–03:02] That is so so now.
[03:02–03:04] I have the first birthday to your little boy.
[03:04–03:05] Happy first birthday.
[03:05–03:06] That's adorable.
[03:06–03:07] So cute.
[03:07–03:09] Oh, thank you for sharing that with us.
[03:09–03:12] I just remember that coming in my heart just broke a little bit.
[03:12–03:13] That is so sweet.
[03:13–03:17] So maybe like maybe I think babies like hear things.
[03:17–03:18] Yeah.
[03:18–03:20] Don't want to use to listen to something during pregnancy.
[03:20–03:21] Yeah.
[03:21–03:22] Maybe it was a voice.
[03:22–03:25] There's specific voice that you think get to talk to baby.
[03:25–03:26] Yes.
[03:26–03:29] What you meant to say are music apparently music babies.
[03:29–03:30] Yeah.
[03:30–03:31] And they know their mom's voice as well.
[03:31–03:32] Yeah.
[03:32–03:33] So sweet.
[03:33–03:34] Yeah.
[03:34–03:35] So cute.
[03:35–03:36] I love it.
[03:36–03:38] And they can be like, they can be hand by songs that they heard when they're in the room.
[03:38–03:40] I think it's mad when you see a bit like they're still like,
[03:40–03:42] or your room like move.
[03:42–03:43] Yeah.
[03:43–03:44] I know.
[03:44–03:45] Fascinating.
[03:45–03:46] That might just be what I've already put the book.
[03:46–03:47] And it's like, imagine how that feels in the inside.
[03:47–03:48] Yeah.
[03:48–03:49] What if you're like,
[03:49–03:50] I don't know.
[03:50–03:52] Someone is literally in someone like, yeah.
[03:52–03:53] Well, it's so magical.
[03:53–03:54] It's lit.
[03:54–03:55] Yeah.
[03:55–03:58] Not me trying to take, we're taking credit for this baby.
[03:58–03:59] Baby heard that boy.
[03:59–04:02] Women are just like, congratulations on your gorgeous day before.
[04:02–04:03] So sweet.
[04:03–04:06] And what a nice, what a like actual full circle.
[04:06–04:07] I want to be a wild days near.
[04:07–04:08] Yeah.
[04:08–04:09] The wild days.
[04:09–04:10] The wild days.
[04:10–04:11] Happy birthday.
[04:11–04:12] Happy birthday, boy.
[04:12–04:13] I had a really awesome again.
[04:13–04:14] That's again.
[04:14–04:15] You did your rain.
[04:15–04:16] Schnee.
[04:16–04:17] I flew down.
[04:17–04:18] You're not terrified of the chaos.
[04:18–04:19] No, sure.
[04:19–04:20] They weren't out in the open.
[04:20–04:23] Yeah, but I just feel like you'd be terrified of the chaos.
[04:23–04:24] Anyway, they were kind of scary.
[04:24–04:25] Yeah.
[04:25–04:26] I thought it was a bull.
[04:26–04:27] But it wasn't.
[04:27–04:29] They had horns, but it's called a short horn.
[04:29–04:30] Chaos or something.
[04:30–04:31] Was the bulls or some bulls?
[04:31–04:32] They're like, vicious.
[04:32–04:33] Really?
[04:33–04:35] The red-legged ones that are in the, they hold the red flag.
[04:35–04:36] Oh, fuck yeah.
[04:36–04:37] That's a bull.
[04:37–04:38] That's a man.
[04:38–04:39] Chaos, isn't it?
[04:39–04:40] Yeah.
[04:40–04:41] Are they just antagonized on those?
[04:41–04:42] That's what that is.
[04:42–04:43] Well, yeah.
[04:43–04:44] But they're like, I think they're aggressive.
[04:44–04:46] They're most snappy because they belong on bulls.
[04:47–04:49] I did think it was going to lick my hat or bite my hat or something.
[04:49–04:52] Well, they all come over down to the little baby.
[04:52–04:55] The baby cows and the most gorgeous things I was saying.
[04:55–04:56] Can you touch them?
[04:56–04:57] No, they wouldn't let me.
[04:57–04:58] Oh, they were scary to me.
[04:58–04:59] No.
[04:59–05:03] I was trying to be like, I was just moving my hand and they just slowly went.
[05:03–05:04] Move it.
[05:04–05:05] But they're adorable.
[05:05–05:06] But it did smell.
[05:06–05:07] Okay.
[05:07–05:08] It was obviously them.
[05:08–05:11] You know, probably little ones that wouldn't smell the very either part and parcel.
[05:11–05:12] If it was left on the ground.
[05:12–05:13] Yeah.
[05:14–05:17] But they were so cute and then we, I needed to get a care.
[05:17–05:18] Okay, for my TikTok.
[05:18–05:21] For the Hannah Montana one and I'm not you messing.
[05:21–05:23] When we were looking for cows, there was none.
[05:23–05:26] I went drive and it creeps my eyebrows around.
[05:26–05:27] It was not.
[05:27–05:28] Well, obviously was sheep.
[05:28–05:30] And then the way back to the airport then I'm not you messing.
[05:30–05:32] I'd say we seen about 200 cows.
[05:32–05:33] Oh no.
[05:33–05:34] Don't want to get in there and you're not looking for it.
[05:34–05:35] Yeah.
[05:35–05:36] And there we go.
[05:36–05:37] Like anything in life.
[05:37–05:38] Like you're looking for it or like if you have money that you want to spend,
[05:38–05:39] you want to go shopping, you know.
[05:39–05:40] You will find.
[05:40–05:42] No, it's when you don't have money or you.
[05:42–05:43] Yeah, you'll never.
[05:43–05:44] You won't be able to.
[05:44–05:45] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[05:45–05:46] Someone texting.
[05:46–05:48] She's like sharing more views on my dad's cows.
[05:48–05:50] In her TikTok was not my bingo crowds.
[05:50–05:52] And then her sister and then text me.
[05:52–05:54] She's like, I love the same surname.
[05:54–05:55] Oh, cool.
[05:55–05:56] And Steve knew the surname.
[05:56–05:57] She's like, yeah, probably like.
[05:57–06:00] Oh, did you have to ask someone can we go in here?
[06:00–06:01] Like, we didn't go in.
[06:01–06:02] We just feel the pressure.
[06:02–06:03] Oh, sorry.
[06:03–06:04] Yeah, yeah.
[06:04–06:05] There was a guy.
[06:05–06:06] So we didn't go in.
[06:06–06:07] But then for the picture that I got.
[06:07–06:08] Yeah.
[06:08–06:09] We asked that forever.
[06:09–06:10] And he didn't even quit.
[06:10–06:11] And turning on the car.
[06:11–06:12] So yeah, just hot.
[06:12–06:14] I didn't even question why you not.
[06:14–06:15] Off you go.
[06:15–06:16] Yeah.
[06:16–06:18] So like sense of community.
[06:18–06:20] I feel like that Dublin.
[06:20–06:21] Doesn't have.
[06:21–06:22] Or maybe used to have.
[06:22–06:23] And doesn't as much anymore.
[06:23–06:25] Yeah, or maybe only in specific areas.
[06:25–06:26] Yeah.
[06:26–06:30] I feel like people in Dublin like wouldn't know.
[06:30–06:32] No, they're neighbors a lot of time.
[06:32–06:33] Yeah, I don't.
[06:33–06:35] Well, like I like I would now.
[06:35–06:37] From when I was younger, I was like real quick.
[06:37–06:39] My dad, my mom would be closer and stuff.
[06:39–06:41] If I was to move to the state now, I feel like how do you meet your neighbor?
[06:41–06:42] I know.
[06:42–06:43] Do you just not like that now?
[06:43–06:44] I feel like it's different.
[06:44–06:45] I don't know.
[06:45–06:46] Yeah.
[06:46–06:49] It's not as much sense of like you would knock in for a bit of what do you like.
[06:49–06:50] Like the milk.
[06:50–06:51] Milk.
[06:51–06:52] Yeah.
[06:52–06:53] But it was really awesome.
[06:53–06:54] Oh, lovely.
[06:54–06:55] And.
[06:55–06:56] That's name cream.
[06:56–06:57] From Rhinies.
[06:57–06:58] What's name cream?
[06:58–06:59] Oh, oh my God.
[06:59–07:01] I thought I'd tell it was unreal.
[07:01–07:02] They had to buy.
[07:02–07:04] I tried every flavor.
[07:04–07:05] That tastes.
[07:05–07:06] I thought every single layer.
[07:06–07:07] But your bike.
[07:07–07:09] I thought it was something that had to crunch in it.
[07:09–07:10] Ooh.
[07:10–07:11] It was really nice.
[07:11–07:12] I haven't had my chocolate now in a while.
[07:12–07:14] Do my chocolate is coming out of my room.
[07:14–07:16] But that's what's making me like where's the good one then?
[07:16–07:20] If there's so many of them everywhere, we best is my I know I make it.
[07:20–07:21] Would you make them regularly?
[07:21–07:22] Yeah.
[07:22–07:23] Okay.
[07:23–07:24] It's the best.
[07:24–07:25] Because you have to make it.
[07:25–07:26] You can't reach chocolate like.
[07:26–07:27] Yeah.
[07:27–07:28] You need the real stuff with it.
[07:28–07:30] You need the reals it like that's what makes it so nice.
[07:30–07:31] Yeah.
[07:31–07:32] And I love it being really crunchy like maybe like.
[07:32–07:33] Oh, that stuff.
[07:33–07:34] Yeah.
[07:34–07:35] And it.
[07:35–07:36] Someone said it reminds them of fingernails.
[07:36–07:37] Oh, oh, I can see that.
[07:37–07:38] I remember who it was.
[07:38–07:39] Yeah.
[07:39–07:40] Oh.
[07:40–07:41] Oh, no.
[07:41–07:45] Oh, I hate that when you get tired and you're ahead about something and you're like,
[07:45–07:46] I can never eat that again.
[07:46–07:47] Yeah.
[07:47–07:48] I've eaten it since I was a little sorry.
[07:48–07:49] It's a minute like a moment of that.
[07:49–07:50] But I don't know.
[07:50–07:51] Flues carry shoes.
[07:51–07:52] I'll very quick.
[07:52–07:53] Yeah.
[07:53–07:54] It was a very long way back.
[07:54–07:55] It's 25 minutes gone.
[07:55–07:56] I already 45 come back somehow.
[07:56–07:59] I think he went down around in the sea and up.
[07:59–08:01] Because we're over the sea at some point.
[08:01–08:02] So he must have went that way.
[08:02–08:03] A different way.
[08:03–08:04] Yeah.
[08:04–08:06] I was going to go around the counties with a paying was packed.
[08:06–08:08] It's a 35 seat right now playing.
[08:08–08:09] My row and he had two seats.
[08:09–08:10] Yeah.
[08:10–08:11] I had one then plays.
[08:11–08:12] I had multiple merch.
[08:12–08:13] Yeah.
[08:13–08:14] Because it's not just in the middle.
[08:14–08:15] I was like, it was massive.
[08:15–08:16] I was packed.
[08:16–08:17] What the hell?
[08:17–08:18] Yeah.
[08:18–08:19] And what was career for like time?
[08:19–08:20] Is it time?
[08:20–08:21] My name back home.
[08:21–08:23] I was told it was everyone else's because everyone else obviously goes really late.
[08:23–08:24] Right.
[08:24–08:25] So it was closed at five.
[08:25–08:27] I got there like 10 to five.
[08:27–08:28] But like so did I.
[08:28–08:30] Like it wasn't just me like the queue wasn't like massive.
[08:30–08:32] I think I only believe in the queue was for doorbell.
[08:32–08:33] Okay.
[08:33–08:34] That was the only flag going out that evening.
[08:34–08:35] What did they say?
[08:35–08:39] And Charlie and I think yeah, yeah, big like but it was a long list of people.
[08:39–08:40] I don't know why the other stuff.
[08:40–08:41] You know, your insecurity.
[08:41–08:42] Yeah, you're there.
[08:42–08:43] Anyway, the plane.
[08:43–08:44] I don't need to let you down.
[08:44–08:46] So I didn't hold anyone up.
[08:46–08:47] No.
[08:47–08:48] And for my Hannah Montana clip, I waited.
[08:48–08:52] So everyone was off to play and did you and came off last so that I was.
[08:52–08:53] Bogen, no one behind me.
[08:53–08:55] Why did someone try and say that you were someone come to me like.
[08:55–08:56] Yeah.
[08:56–09:00] She know it was someone joke when she was like, oh, someone was definitely coming now saying.
[09:00–09:02] that you held up again, then getting off the plane,
[09:02–09:04] like, by way, did I ever go?
[09:04–09:05] Me?
[09:05–09:06] Mine.
[09:06–09:06] Mine for girl, mirror.
[09:06–09:09] Urgent, mine for lady.
[09:09–09:10] How was your weekend?
[09:10–09:11] It was good.
[09:11–09:13] Did nothing, did I?
[09:13–09:15] Hung around my sister on, sorry.
[09:15–09:16] It went to be your house actually.
[09:16–09:17] Oh, yes.
[09:17–09:19] Yeah, and I'm sectional, you know.
[09:19–09:23] Like, house prices kind of, the price at Selenport,
[09:23–09:26] never, ever believe it's gonna go for that.
[09:26–09:27] Never.
[09:27–09:29] The house price went up like 80 grand
[09:29–09:30] or something like the highest bid on it,
[09:30–09:32] it was like 80 grand, it was just like 80 grand more
[09:32–09:34] than the price at Selenport.
[09:34–09:35] So that was fun.
[09:35–09:38] But I just want to get into my swing of going to View
[09:38–09:41] and like, I was speaking to the man that was shown to View
[09:41–09:44] and then he was just telling me what to do and to look for.
[09:44–09:45] Yeah.
[09:45–09:47] But it's really time to meet with other people in the house
[09:47–09:48] because you really feel like you're in competition with them.
[09:48–09:50] Yeah, I, because you're like, if they want it,
[09:50–09:51] you want it, you're like,
[09:51–09:53] Oh, no, you're kind of like,
[09:53–09:54] the fuck are you here for?
[09:54–09:56] Yeah, I know.
[09:56–09:57] I don't think much.
[09:57–09:58] Imagine like that was your home.
[09:58–09:59] Like, everyone's just been walking around.
[09:59–10:00] I know.
[10:00–10:03] Because that was the second view on that week
[10:03–10:05] of that specific house because I missed the first one.
[10:05–10:06] I focused up the time anyway.
[10:07–10:10] But I just walked around my sister and I said,
[10:10–10:11] where's this family go?
[10:11–10:14] Like, but then again, I paid the view on what's on for half now.
[10:14–10:15] Yeah.
[10:15–10:16] They just got to clean.
[10:16–10:17] Yeah.
[10:17–10:18] Well, having to have your whole house clean.
[10:18–10:21] And I'll, but it would also be a bit like,
[10:21–10:24] I kind of just end up, like it was some hair and room.
[10:24–10:25] Like it's, yeah, I just end there room.
[10:25–10:27] I know.
[10:27–10:28] I know it is mine.
[10:28–10:28] Yeah.
[10:28–10:30] Like on like, yeah.
[10:30–10:32] It's just a bit of, yeah.
[10:32–10:36] And when for a meal went shop and then Mcqueeva got a bit
[10:36–10:37] brachy.
[10:37–10:39] I knew the cold parts, you know, there's a lot of new jewelry.
[10:39–10:44] But we came clean and a new diamond spark or something.
[10:44–10:45] Yeah.
[10:45–10:46] Got a new diamond put into it.
[10:46–10:48] Oh, shine.
[10:48–10:50] And I got some rings and other cladder.
[10:50–10:51] Oh, go ahead.
[10:51–10:53] And this is called what's a cult.
[10:53–10:54] Signet ring.
[10:54–10:55] Yeah, go ahead.
[10:55–10:56] This is a signet ring.
[10:56–10:57] Am I never new?
[10:57–10:59] I think that's a big is it?
[10:59–11:00] Yeah.
[11:00–11:01] Yeah, I've had that on since my communion since I'm eight.
[11:01–11:03] I've had that on 21 years.
[11:03–11:04] Am I?
[11:04–11:05] Yeah, 21 years.
[11:05–11:06] I've had that on for.
[11:06–11:07] So that's a signet ring.
[11:07–11:09] So I said I'd get another one on that hand.
[11:09–11:10] What else do I do then?
[11:10–11:11] Nothing.
[11:11–11:12] Cleaned.
[11:12–11:13] Cleaned the house.
[11:13–11:14] Yeah.
[11:14–11:15] Milled around the makeup room.
[11:15–11:17] Got myself a little ward fire last night.
[11:17–11:21] Oh, so we just, oh, I get to buy on this one.
[11:21–11:23] Oh, I like, but I do like a bone doing.
[11:23–11:24] No.
[11:24–11:25] Has to be flat.
[11:25–11:26] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[11:26–11:27] Yeah, yeah.
[11:27–11:28] Like so many people will.
[11:28–11:32] Yeah, I lead to the ones last if I'm like, you know, all the flats.
[11:32–11:34] But, but I'm just handy.
[11:34–11:35] Yeah, yeah.
[11:35–11:37] Yeah, that was, that was kind of it.
[11:37–11:39] Welcome to morning.
[11:39–11:40] Couldn't stop crying.
[11:40–11:41] Oh.
[11:41–11:43] Watching all the Maritante talks.
[11:43–11:46] Oh, they got me last night watching my face.
[11:46–11:47] I was ball.
[11:47–11:48] Oh, my eye.
[11:48–11:50] The guy holds not a big tree to see him.
[11:50–11:51] Jesus.
[11:51–11:52] Oh, I can't.
[11:52–11:56] And there was another one I watched this morning and it was a fella after the Maritante.
[11:56–11:59] He was coming down the escalator in the tube and I'm like, oh, when everyone's clapping
[11:59–12:00] for him, they're all clapping.
[12:00–12:01] Oh, my God.
[12:01–12:02] I was balling.
[12:02–12:04] Ball and he's like, I'm so balling.
[12:04–12:08] Like, ball the comments were like, if we were only all so kind to each other all the time.
[12:08–12:09] I said, that's so true.
[12:09–12:10] I know I've seen that.
[12:10–12:11] Something about the Maritante.
[12:11–12:14] Graham is over in Madrid and he did the Maritante.
[12:14–12:15] Yes.
[12:15–12:16] Well done, love.
[12:16–12:17] You did it.
[12:17–12:18] Good.
[12:18–12:19] Amazing.
[12:19–12:20] Well done.
[12:20–12:22] But because I was saying to him, I was like, I want to fly over and I want to like,
[12:22–12:23] yeah, yeah, yeah.
[12:23–12:24] I want to be there at the end.
[12:24–12:26] Like no one else, girlfriend is going to like, don't.
[12:26–12:27] I was like, okay, okay.
[12:27–12:30] Well, this time for he said to me that he's going to do a full.
[12:30–12:33] He's going to do another one and he's like, I want you there for the next one.
[12:33–12:34] I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
[12:34–12:35] Yeah, awesome.
[12:35–12:36] It's amazing.
[12:36–12:38] Very played at anybody doing Maritante.
[12:38–12:42] One thing that would get me really sad though, I didn't know at the very end of a Maritante
[12:42–12:47] is a car and there's like a poster on top of the car and it's like race finishing here.
[12:47–12:49] So it's the very like you have to beat the car.
[12:49–12:52] The car is the very last thing that comes through.
[12:52–12:56] Like if the car passes you or like you're behind the car, do you just walk off?
[12:56–12:57] Oh, yeah.
[12:57–13:02] Because I've seen a few TikToks of so many people giving like big boulebles to the people.
[13:02–13:04] The last two very last person.
[13:04–13:06] Like that's such an achievement as well.
[13:06–13:08] Like to even say you did it.
[13:08–13:09] Yeah.
[13:09–13:10] What if you're behind the car?
[13:10–13:12] Do you just, oh, you know what I mean?
[13:12–13:14] Oh my god, that's heartbreaking.
[13:14–13:17] No, someone said just they were like, it's a hard day to be an empath.
[13:17–13:19] And I was like, yeah, literally.
[13:19–13:23] Everyone I see and it's the songs and all I just hold your's yell song in the background.
[13:23–13:24] Yeah, yeah.
[13:24–13:28] I just can't, it's far them running for that long.
[13:28–13:29] I don't understand it.
[13:29–13:30] Like I do a breath ever.
[13:30–13:31] Do they get everything?
[13:31–13:32] Like when?
[13:32–13:33] I don't get it.
[13:33–13:34] Is it like harder on your legs?
[13:34–13:36] Like what's going on in your mind?
[13:36–13:41] I just would love to pick someone's friend and just say, like the longest I was in the
[13:41–13:42] gym the other week.
[13:42–13:45] And I was like, I really want to like try and run.
[13:45–13:46] I was running on the treadmill.
[13:46–13:48] The longest I did it for was five minutes consistently.
[13:48–13:51] So I ran for five minutes consistently.
[13:51–13:52] And I was like, fuck this.
[13:52–13:54] How do you run for like two hours?
[13:54–13:56] How do you keep going?
[13:56–13:57] It's a very much a mind game.
[13:57–14:02] Is it even when I ran like, I just think where even when you feel like you want to stop,
[14:02–14:04] you can, you actually can keep going.
[14:04–14:05] Like you can.
[14:05–14:10] I think my mind is too much to be like, girl, you're going to die.
[14:10–14:12] You need to stop.
[14:12–14:14] I'm back running now a little bit.
[14:14–14:16] I can do like, I haven't tried a five K.A.
[14:16–14:17] Yeah, but I've done like four.
[14:17–14:19] I've never ran that my life.
[14:19–14:23] But like I've never like the breed in whatever they tell you to, I can't do that.
[14:23–14:24] I spent over two hours.
[14:24–14:25] I was doing it most.
[14:25–14:26] And with the more I try and do that, I got.
[14:26–14:28] I can't get enough rest in my into my nose to breed.
[14:28–14:30] And I breed out too much when I get dizzy.
[14:30–14:31] And I'm like, do you know what?
[14:31–14:32] I'll just keep doing whatever.
[14:32–14:33] A lot of people use them.
[14:33–14:34] No, things.
[14:34–14:35] Oh, yeah, true.
[14:35–14:36] Things that open up.
[14:36–14:37] Maybe you can breed them more.
[14:37–14:38] But yeah, true.
[14:38–14:39] But yeah, I'd love to.
[14:39–14:40] Fair play to anyone.
[14:40–14:41] My uncle does it without trying.
[14:41–14:42] Yeah.
[14:42–14:43] Just for the crack.
[14:43–14:44] Yeah.
[14:44–14:46] That's that's like what like I do think.
[14:46–14:49] Maybe love to hear more of it than other and like have that natural.
[14:49–14:53] Yeah, I said them, but I also think it's if you have a strong mind, you can just go.
[14:53–14:55] Yeah, look at Jamie Lang.
[14:55–14:56] He hadn't trained much for them.
[14:56–14:57] The wreck and he definitely didn't.
[14:57–14:58] Not much.
[14:58–14:59] Really?
[14:59–15:02] He was in bits when you still got on because obviously you were so motivated by everything.
[15:02–15:03] Yeah.
[15:03–15:04] You need a reason excruciating.
[15:04–15:11] You would need something really like motivate you to do it and like give you a cook
[15:11–15:12] up the arctic.
[15:12–15:13] Yeah.
[15:13–15:14] Fair play to anyone that did it.
[15:14–15:15] Yeah.
[15:15–15:16] It's very well.
[15:16–15:18] She is obviously couldn't do it.
[15:18–15:22] So if you listen to last week's podcast, you'd have heard our first episode of our new
[15:22–15:25] mini series, love bird.
[15:25–15:26] Woohoo.
[15:26–15:29] We have our love bird in the chair.
[15:29–15:33] No, we want to mission to find love for here.
[15:33–15:35] We're playing Q for basically.
[15:35–15:36] Yeah.
[15:36–15:40] We taught who asked us to get in and the one alone name is camera.
[15:40–15:45] I think I've been last week apart from any updates.
[15:45–15:48] So I made a hinge for a hinge profile.
[15:48–15:49] We like that.
[15:49–15:51] I kiss someone that's weekend.
[15:51–15:55] Oh my goodness.
[15:55–15:57] And they were 24 so we've gone up a little bit.
[15:57–15:58] Okay.
[15:58–16:00] We're going up the younger side.
[16:00–16:01] Yeah.
[16:01–16:03] We're definitely getting closer to 25.
[16:03–16:04] We're coming up a little bit more.
[16:04–16:06] Yeah, and that's it really.
[16:06–16:07] Okay.
[16:07–16:08] Can you tell us who you are?
[16:08–16:09] No.
[16:09–16:11] Where did you find them?
[16:11–16:14] I literally said I'm going to be a little bit more.
[16:14–16:17] I literally said I know I'm going to be a podcast.
[16:17–16:18] Yeah.
[16:18–16:19] Yeah.
[16:19–16:20] Yeah.
[16:20–16:23] So I was like, oh shit, I can't make no.
[16:23–16:24] Do you know them?
[16:24–16:26] Yeah, obviously I had my tongue down his throat.
[16:26–16:28] No, I mean, you know, no.
[16:28–16:29] No, no.
[16:29–16:30] Yeah.
[16:30–16:31] Okay.
[16:31–16:32] Is he in there or worlds?
[16:32–16:33] No.
[16:33–16:34] Okay.
[16:34–16:35] I don't know.
[16:35–16:36] What's in the other?
[16:36–16:37] What's in the other?
[16:37–16:38] School?
[16:38–16:39] No.
[16:39–16:40] School, no.
[16:40–16:41] Okay.
[16:41–16:42] You're school.
[16:42–16:43] Like when you're school.
[16:43–16:44] You're school.
[16:44–16:45] No.
[16:45–16:46] Okay.
[16:46–16:47] No.
[16:47–16:49] It's like I've never been guest here without a game.
[16:49–16:50] Yeah.
[16:50–16:51] Yeah.
[16:51–16:52] Yeah.
[16:52–16:53] Yeah.
[16:53–16:54] Okay.
[16:54–16:55] Any more hint?
[16:55–16:56] Happened to be in the same place as you or is this like a set up thing?
[16:56–16:57] Yeah.
[16:57–16:58] We happened to.
[16:58–16:59] We happened to.
[16:59–17:00] Get the words.
[17:00–17:01] No.
[17:01–17:02] No, no, no.
[17:02–17:03] We just bumped into each other and I was like, and you know, we're just like, no.
[17:03–17:04] Okay.
[17:04–17:05] I don't know.
[17:05–17:06] I'm long at all.
[17:06–17:07] But I just was like, I kind of felt it.
[17:07–17:08] Oh my god, I really want to know.
[17:08–17:09] I'm going to get some sober.
[17:09–17:10] I think it was a joke.
[17:10–17:11] She's so good.
[17:11–17:12] I feel like we know.
[17:12–17:13] No, he's don't.
[17:13–17:14] I promise he's don't.
[17:14–17:15] It's just really, really funny.
[17:15–17:16] Why?
[17:16–17:17] It's funny.
[17:17–17:19] It's just like how we met was really funny.
[17:19–17:22] Did you probably bump into each other?
[17:22–17:23] Yeah.
[17:23–17:26] Like I was leaving the venue and he was coming in.
[17:26–17:27] To re-kissing on the street.
[17:27–17:28] No.
[17:28–17:29] Oh.
[17:29–17:31] You're like, I'm going back in.
[17:31–17:37] No, like I was like leaving and he was coming in and I was like, oh shit, I kind of fancy him.
[17:37–17:40] And then I left and then I was like, right, I'm going back.
[17:40–17:41] Yeah.
[17:41–17:43] Did you feel my heart itself?
[17:43–17:44] No.
[17:44–17:45] I don't know.
[17:45–17:46] I was like, I'm going to go on the garage.
[17:46–17:47] I imagine I was walking back in my mind.
[17:47–17:48] I'm like, you're my myself.
[17:48–17:49] I got on him.
[17:49–17:50] Okay, I like this.
[17:50–17:55] Did you kiss themselves or like it was just one of them drum things.
[17:55–17:57] No, no, don't kiss themselves.
[17:57–17:59] Did you text you the day after?
[17:59–18:00] Uh.
[18:00–18:02] We're gonna have to cancel the tell show.
[18:02–18:04] No, I'm not.
[18:04–18:06] We're not.
[18:06–18:08] He texted me like two days later.
[18:08–18:09] Okay.
[18:09–18:11] I'm gonna do say what was his shout?
[18:11–18:12] Oh my god.
[18:12–18:13] Fuck my like, okay.
[18:13–18:16] I'm like, I'm panicked that people are gonna know who it is.
[18:16–18:18] But I'm like, he's only gonna know who he is.
[18:18–18:19] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
[18:19–18:21] I'm gonna do you know that you think.
[18:21–18:22] Yeah.
[18:22–18:28] So he just sent me a photo of his dominos and was like, have you ever had this before?
[18:28–18:29] I did it on the other side.
[18:29–18:30] He's on the other side.
[18:30–18:31] Oh yeah.
[18:31–18:32] Okay.
[18:32–18:35] I like that because it's something to do with you and like he's funny.
[18:35–18:36] Yeah.
[18:36–18:39] Aware of things you do for a work or whatnot.
[18:39–18:40] Okay, we like this.
[18:40–18:42] We don't need us at all.
[18:42–18:43] Fucking hell.
[18:43–18:44] No, but it's fun.
[18:44–18:46] Like I'm still like, I just kissed him.
[18:46–18:47] Like we're not like there's no problem.
[18:47–18:48] In a red love.
[18:48–18:49] No, no, no, no, no.
[18:49–18:50] We're gonna see him again.
[18:50–18:51] Maybe.
[18:51–18:52] I don't know.
[18:52–18:53] Okay, will you show us some laughers?
[18:53–18:54] I will.
[18:54–18:55] Okay, okay.
[18:55–18:56] Very much.
[18:56–19:01] I'm so thrilled through it and have a scan as if we're experts in hinge, but we are today.
[19:01–19:04] Yeah, I want you to like rate my profile and tell me if you'd like slides.
[19:04–19:05] If I would.
[19:05–19:06] Yeah, I would.
[19:06–19:07] Okay.
[19:07–19:08] Okay, let me see.
[19:08–19:09] Is that why hinges slide and slide?
[19:09–19:10] I don't know.
[19:10–19:11] I know.
[19:11–19:13] So obviously I never had it before.
[19:13–19:15] So I downloaded it to try and figure out how to use it.
[19:15–19:17] Oh my god, I have 50 plus likes.
[19:17–19:20] I just need you.
[19:20–19:22] I'm like, what are you doing here?
[19:22–19:23] I'm not doing something.
[19:23–19:25] How did I just stop?
[19:25–19:26] How did you?
[19:26–19:27] Hello.
[19:27–19:28] I'm out of here.
[19:28–19:29] Oh my god.
[19:29–19:32] I think I suppose the only thing I will say about hinges.
[19:32–19:36] So I basically went and I was playing it with my friend and like hinges desperate.
[19:36–19:37] Easy.
[19:37–19:38] Yeah.
[19:38–19:40] As I end the challenge compared to other ones.
[19:40–19:42] Yeah, I thought that it was a lot better.
[19:42–19:46] Like I understand the frustration from the girls just because like, okay.
[19:46–19:49] It's more so like this, this slide-ins and stuff like that.
[19:49–19:50] Like some of them are just.
[19:50–19:54] actually the people it's like oh no like whatever like there's all sorts
[19:54–19:57] there's plenty of fish in the sea like you can't do it like it's not necessarily
[19:57–20:02] that either but it was everything yeah I just was like oh and then some of them
[20:02–20:07] like people can like you I haven't actually liked anyone yet on hinge okay so
[20:07–20:12] like if you like someone it pops up for them that I've liked them so I haven't
[20:12–20:16] liked anyone yet so can you just text anyone if to match together you can reply
[20:16–20:20] to their prompts so that's what your prompts are for so your prompts are like
[20:20–20:24] things to get people to reply to you but you obviously don't want to make your prompts
[20:24–20:29] like serious like it's obviously kind of like show yeah sorry I did reply to one guy
[20:29–20:36] and he was like he was pretty he might have been there yeah he was 37 and I replied to him
[20:36–20:40] one of his prompts where I'm convinced that so you have like loads of different ones so like I'm
[20:40–20:46] convinced that I think that this is yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
[20:46–20:51] so he was like I'm convinced that there's no such thing as a good leg tattoo and I was like
[20:51–20:57] the elephant on my ankle would beg to differ do you have a lot of power yeah did you get it in
[20:57–21:05] Thailand no I got it so I said that and then he matched with me from that reply that's better
[21:05–21:09] flying and he was like I'll have to have a look my generalizations might be too sweeping but then
[21:09–21:14] I haven't replied yet because I was like I like he's very good grammatically
[21:14–21:18] and that's not that sweet big word I think an English teacher or something yeah I like the way
[21:18–21:24] the hinge is like that though it's like your first initial text and is icebreakers like it's yeah
[21:24–21:28] yeah yeah just hi yeah were you like do you know what I mean there's something to spare
[21:28–21:32] a conversation instead of being real awkward yeah yeah that's true that's kind of good so now I'll
[21:32–21:41] give you my profile okay okay I feel like it's gonna be no no sexy yeah let me see gal
[21:41–21:48] reading the thing or yes that's the picture okay I would swipe so here it says together we caught
[21:48–21:54] and you filled in the next part yeah that would be a bit too much about your height that's a good one
[21:54–22:01] it is man air I never realized the guys lied about their heights like yeah like I kind of I knew
[22:01–22:06] that like save someone's like 5 11 they might say they're six four grams but like I never realized
[22:06–22:10] that they actually like but then I was like how the fuck would I know what six four days anyway
[22:10–22:14] I know yeah I know yeah I know yeah I would just be no but I wouldn't know what how top like yeah
[22:14–22:21] like I'm telling on a wall no like one sees Tyler knew I don't really hear by how much I mean yeah
[22:21–22:26] like I feel like a lot of girls they don't necessarily need a man chair run over them just once you're
[22:26–22:32] tall or yeah I'd be out well I think I'm really sound because like I go through the shorter
[22:32–22:38] kings because well I'm five five you do go for the shark king yeah it is really you're taking
[22:38–22:42] over the team what like I'm I'm leaving all the tall guys for the tall girls because I know the
[22:42–22:46] struggle of what like for my friends I have friends who are really tall and they're literally like I
[22:46–22:51] can't get with someone's order them so I'm like I'll go for like I just met a five seven guys just
[22:51–22:56] my type like fine I think I'm only five and a bit I'm not I wouldn't care for a really tall man
[22:56–23:02] as long as it's taller than me that was not that much like he's five eight yeah yeah yeah maybe
[23:02–23:05] the taller than that he says he's five ten I don't know see they all just add on and out
[23:05–23:16] on a few yeah am I start adding on I'm taking away no I'm sorry okay self-employed baddie did you
[23:16–23:21] really able to put in yourself yeah love love I love that this is your second pictures this is
[23:21–23:29] the care care on a our mom's bar yeah dance and we care what how like that's just very you you yeah
[23:29–23:35] but then I gave it to my housemates boy friends go through and review the profile as well and he was
[23:35–23:40] like I had a few other photos in it and he was like oh you look like you're a little bit too much fun
[23:40–23:48] oh you mean and he was like he was like because I basically had all like fun picks from like events
[23:48–23:54] and stuff okay he was like you look like a little bit too much crack like we might like yeah like
[23:54–23:59] he was like left because he was like you're into the gym like put in a gym pick but then I was
[23:59–24:04] like I don't want to put in a gym pick and be like oh like look at me I like the man yeah yeah
[24:04–24:08] that's the kind of vibe I got but I let them convince me I did it but I don't know if I should
[24:08–24:11] see but that's just how different me men and women think like the man would look at you having a
[24:11–24:17] good time and thinking like you she's a mad thing yeah you're a mad bitch you can't weed look at it
[24:17–24:22] as in a completely different way as in like she's mad bitch in a good way yeah yeah well I feel like
[24:22–24:26] the right man is gonna be like love her yeah ball wow yeah if someone's like oh no like then he's
[24:26–24:32] not your man yeah well I think you've got I feel like okay so gorgeous first picture good then
[24:32–24:39] fun thank you more I'm sexy and then he also show your family woman yeah you and your man yeah but
[24:39–24:45] someone replied to the photo of me and my mom and was like is your mom single your mom in the
[24:46–24:52] she is she oh my god and the makeup is on there for the award yeah oh my god great
[24:52–24:59] cry then you and a lemma wasn't it yeah yeah love a homer a homer I love that picture and the
[24:59–25:04] little play boy wait what's going to move that the right I'm really attracted to Peter Dinklage
[25:04–25:10] oh my god girls you know your man from Game of Thrones no you never watch John Snow look
[25:11–25:16] he's honestly don't tell me it's the Irish fellow with the whitebird no worst idea I've ever had
[25:17–25:24] using the guards as an uber explain you asked for it I did it before someone did tell me where
[25:24–25:28] they're like the guards have if you go up to a guard and you're like I have no money or my phone
[25:28–25:32] said like they have to give you a little we're really yeah I can imagine a lot of the
[25:32–25:38] ones for off they like half they're like Lee Lee it's funny I'm true it was just years ago someone
[25:38–25:44] tell me that ring the local official it wasn't that no it was you ring no basically I know someone
[25:44–25:50] in the guards and I was having like on a medical emergency but like kind of a medical emergency
[25:50–25:55] and like I could have probably just gotten a taxi to the um hospital but I was like having a panic attack
[25:57–26:01] wait that was the medical emergency ring no no no no I was having I was having a panic attack
[26:01–26:08] over the medical emergency and then my basically the guard that I know like picked me up in the squad
[26:08–26:14] car brought me to the hospital this is okay that's fine oh so you're in the guard car yeah I'm
[26:14–26:19] with you in uniform yeah blue light yeah no blue lighter for sirens or anything like that no
[26:19–26:23] no no no that's fine it was just a friend picking it up okay yeah yeah he might have been unjudged
[26:23–26:30] he bought like your what's the word on the floor hell yeah was that risk yes so like so it's fine
[26:30–26:34] he was doing the large work he's doing a shop yeah I thought I was going into toxic shock oh oh
[26:34–26:39] tampon yeah yeah tampon yeah tampon yeah and it was literally like a panic attack like I literally he
[26:39–26:42] was like and I couldn't move I was like lying on my bedroom floor and I was like I'm gonna die I'm
[26:42–26:45] gonna die I'm gonna die and they were like okay we'll bring you to the hospital yeah I'm really
[26:45–26:51] fine no I was grand after yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah okay that's fair yeah it was scary it actually
[26:51–26:55] is when fear that happened yeah that's scary if I whenever I sleep when I'm yourself but that's a good
[26:55–27:00] thing to put in like that's something that someone could ask you about like in a story to tell
[27:00–27:03] Evertona is like do I actually want fellas to ask me about that really well?
[27:03–27:06] I can just feel like you're like your ankle or something.
[27:06–27:08] I feel like you could change that.
[27:08–27:08] Yeah.
[27:08–27:12] Because if they were to ask if a lady needs to tell imagine how long you'd have to type that in.
[27:12–27:15] Yeah, it needs to be like a short and sweet response.
[27:15–27:18] You need to get into your response that you can really really win the end.
[27:18–27:18] Yeah.
[27:18–27:21] So I feel like of all things I would change this one.
[27:21–27:23] Can you send voice notes?
[27:23–27:25] Yeah, but on all my, are we doing a voice note?
[27:25–27:26] Definitely.
[27:26–27:28] Oh, because then you'd be like, oh, I'm a totally sexy.
[27:28–27:30] Oh, you can add a voice note onto your page, can't you?
[27:30–27:32] Yeah, but God, you liked it.
[27:32–27:35] I went through all the voice notes and you only had a voice note on there.
[27:35–27:40] So I was like clicking it and listening to them and someone had on their hinge.
[27:40–27:44] My biggest fear is when someone's face doesn't match their voice.
[27:44–27:46] Oh, there.
[27:46–27:47] I looked up down on YouTube before, man.
[27:47–27:48] I have to know what you sound like.
[27:48–27:51] Yeah, I kind of get like that as well.
[27:51–27:53] Like sometimes if I don't think you're facing your voice,
[27:53–27:58] yeah, because you have this image in your head about you think someone will sound like.
[27:58–28:01] Do you ever get your first voice note like from Graham, definitely did it.
[28:01–28:02] I'm not calm at all here.
[28:02–28:03] He definitely did it.
[28:03–28:05] Like the first voice note team said, you're like, oh, no.
[28:05–28:07] Yeah, I'm on the way.
[28:07–28:09] I like, I'm going to meet you there.
[28:09–28:10] And I was like,
[28:10–28:11] Hello.
[28:11–28:13] I'm not leaving.
[28:13–28:16] We have a language for each other along.
[28:16–28:17] So it's so.
[28:17–28:19] And then we were all like, yeah, like, yeah.
[28:19–28:23] I think like listening to a back and be like, you don't have to do that again.
[28:23–28:24] No, you, you record it like that.
[28:24–28:25] I need to try to be on the actual.
[28:25–28:27] I need to keep redoing it on or something.
[28:27–28:28] You're like, oh, sorry.
[28:28–28:31] I'm re-giggling again.
[28:31–28:32] Okay.
[28:32–28:34] The next picture is a unit friend that I gig.
[28:34–28:35] Love.
[28:35–28:36] She loves her music.
[28:36–28:37] Yeah.
[28:37–28:39] And then you're over the gym pick.
[28:39–28:40] Yeah.
[28:40–28:41] That needs to go up higher.
[28:41–28:42] Did you think?
[28:42–28:43] Yeah.
[28:43–28:44] Yeah.
[28:44–28:45] I would put that.
[28:45–28:46] I just think it's so potent.
[28:46–28:47] I know that like it's literally our job.
[28:47–28:49] I think you have a wild.
[28:49–28:50] And then you've wild again.
[28:50–28:52] So I think put one wild down for it.
[28:52–28:53] Just about and put the gym up closer.
[28:53–28:54] Okay.
[28:54–28:55] Yeah.
[28:55–28:56] I would switch that to the gym.
[28:56–28:57] I would switch it over.
[28:57–28:58] Yeah.
[28:58–28:59] Yeah.
[28:59–29:00] Yeah.
[29:00–29:01] We're going to put up a green shot.
[29:01–29:03] So if I was a man, I would swipe.
[29:03–29:04] Yeah.
[29:04–29:06] I know one three fifty likes.
[29:06–29:07] It's quite left.
[29:07–29:09] Oh, you put in if you drink or not.
[29:09–29:10] Yeah.
[29:10–29:11] You can put in if you drink.
[29:11–29:13] You can put in if you like smoke weed.
[29:13–29:14] If you like do drugs.
[29:14–29:16] Well, you can like take them out if you don't.
[29:16–29:17] You don't have to.
[29:17–29:18] You do like not visible on my profile.
[29:18–29:19] Okay.
[29:19–29:20] Okay.
[29:20–29:21] Yeah.
[29:21–29:22] So I just I just put like the drink one.
[29:22–29:23] Because that's all I do.
[29:23–29:24] So I was like, I don't think I need to buy the rest.
[29:24–29:25] Yeah.
[29:25–29:26] Okay.
[29:26–29:28] So how can I edit your to change the order?
[29:28–29:29] So I think we got to have a.
[29:29–29:30] Yeah.
[29:30–29:31] Okay.
[29:31–29:32] We're going to change.
[29:32–29:33] We're going to go sexy awards image pick.
[29:33–29:34] Okay.
[29:34–29:35] Wild on the bar.
[29:35–29:36] Okay.
[29:36–29:37] Alice.
[29:37–29:38] Who's your mom?
[29:38–29:39] The family.
[29:39–29:40] And Jim pick.
[29:40–29:41] Okay.
[29:41–29:42] Friend.
[29:42–29:43] Yeah.
[29:43–29:44] And then wild again.
[29:44–29:45] Yeah.
[29:45–29:46] Okay.
[29:46–29:47] Okay.
[29:47–29:48] I like that.
[29:48–29:49] That's a good order.
[29:49–29:50] Okay.
[29:50–29:51] And then let's.
[29:51–29:52] Will we change the prompt?
[29:52–29:53] Yeah.
[29:53–29:54] Okay.
[29:54–29:56] I feel like a recently discovered that as a good one.
[29:56–29:57] A life goal of mine.
[29:57–29:58] My greatest strength.
[29:58–29:59] A random fact.
[29:59–30:00] I feel like you've a good random fact.
[30:00–30:01] Yeah.
[30:01–30:02] A random fact.
[30:02–30:03] I'm usual skills.
[30:03–30:04] I thought we must have like a hidden talent.
[30:04–30:05] I wish.
[30:05–30:06] I wish.
[30:06–30:07] I wish.
[30:07–30:08] I wish.
[30:08–30:09] I wish.
[30:09–30:10] I can't plan to literally.
[30:10–30:11] I can do this place when I'm almost.
[30:11–30:12] That's a good one.
[30:12–30:13] Yeah.
[30:13–30:14] Then I feel like that.
[30:14–30:15] I like my dream.
[30:15–30:17] Like I just think that's so attractive.
[30:17–30:18] When someone do this.
[30:18–30:19] I would do any.
[30:19–30:20] I would always do it.
[30:20–30:21] I would always do it.
[30:21–30:22] Any occasion just.
[30:22–30:23] I literally act to our contours.
[30:23–30:24] Zinner.
[30:24–30:25] You'll be well able to do this place.
[30:25–30:26] I'd say no.
[30:26–30:27] My hip stretches.
[30:27–30:28] No.
[30:28–30:29] My hips are the highest things.
[30:29–30:30] If you did stretches for a month.
[30:30–30:31] Really.
[30:31–30:32] You'd be well able to do this.
[30:32–30:33] Do this.
[30:33–30:34] It challenged 30 days.
[30:34–30:35] Yeah.
[30:35–30:36] You're glad.
[30:36–30:37] Yeah.
[30:37–30:38] I'm a bit more bendy now from that.
[30:38–30:39] But like not.
[30:39–30:40] Not stretch.
[30:40–30:41] Not hips or feet.
[30:41–30:42] What's called?
[30:42–30:44] Maybe I'll do it on TikTok and do it every day.
[30:44–30:45] Yeah.
[30:45–30:46] Because like I'm like a good case study.
[30:46–30:47] Because I can.
[30:47–30:48] Do it.
[30:48–30:49] You sure?
[30:49–30:50] If you know your lunges on the reformer.
[30:50–30:51] Like if you've used them back really far.
[30:51–30:52] You're like basically.
[30:52–30:53] I think it's.
[30:53–30:54] I don't know which way my hip is.
[30:54–30:55] Like when my arm fine.
[30:55–30:56] I didn't like this.
[30:56–30:57] But then there's the out way.
[30:57–30:58] Kind of.
[30:58–30:59] It was different.
[30:59–31:00] I can't go out.
[31:00–31:01] That's what my.
[31:01–31:02] For you to show.
[31:02–31:03] I don't.
[31:03–31:04] I'll be able to do it.
[31:04–31:05] But not sideways.
[31:05–31:06] Right.
[31:06–31:07] Yeah.
[31:07–31:08] Imagine your pelvis.
[31:08–31:09] Like.
[31:09–31:10] I'm going to do it.
[31:10–31:11] I'm going to do it.
[31:11–31:12] I'm going to do it.
[31:12–31:13] I'm going to do it.
[31:13–31:14] I'm going to do it.
[31:14–31:15] I'm going to do it.
[31:15–31:16] I'm going to do it.
[31:16–31:17] I'm going to do it.
[31:17–31:18] I'm going to do it.
[31:18–31:19] I'm going to do it.
[31:19–31:20] I'm going to do it.
[31:20–31:21] I'm going to do it.
[31:21–31:22] I'm going to do it.
[31:22–31:23] I'm going to do it.
[31:23–31:24] Imagine your pelvis.
[31:24–31:26] Like, I think only certain people can do that.
[31:26–31:27] I don't have any tears with that.
[31:27–31:28] Yeah.
[31:28–31:29] My most irrational fear.
[31:29–31:30] I'm terrified of birds.
[31:30–31:31] Oh.
[31:31–31:32] Love birds.
[31:32–31:33] I'm terrified of birds.
[31:33–31:34] I'm terrified of birds.
[31:34–31:35] I am.
[31:35–31:36] Birds.
[31:36–31:37] I am.
[31:37–31:38] Birds spiders.
[31:38–31:39] Anything like that.
[31:39–31:40] I'm like, if there's a bird,
[31:40–31:42] I'll come beside me on the pavement dog grass throughout.
[31:42–31:43] Really.
[31:43–31:44] You know my bird.
[31:44–31:45] Are you afraid of them?
[31:45–31:46] in the middle of the world.
[31:46–31:47] Yeah.
[31:47–31:48] In London, it flew.
[31:48–31:49] Yes, it had touched my hair.
[31:49–31:50] Yeah, no.
[31:50–31:51] I thought it was just a bird.
[31:51–31:52] Yeah.
[31:52–31:53] Mine's whales.
[31:53–31:54] Wales.
[31:54–31:56] Never been in contact with a whale or a whale.
[31:56–31:59] I am terrified of whales.
[31:59–32:00] My dream.
[32:00–32:01] Yeah, that is.
[32:01–32:02] No, I could.
[32:02–32:05] I think I'd be afraid if I was on a boat and there was whale beside me.
[32:05–32:06] Imagine being in the ocean.
[32:06–32:07] Like in the top of the side of a whale.
[32:07–32:10] I can't even imagine what I do.
[32:10–32:13] No, even thinking about whales, I'm terrified of them.
[32:13–32:14] I'm terrified of whales.
[32:14–32:15] I'm terrified of whales.
[32:15–32:16] I'm terrified of whales.
[32:16–32:17] Yeah, I saw that.
[32:17–32:19] I kind of hate anything in the ocean.
[32:19–32:22] When I went to Barbados, we were going snorkeling.
[32:22–32:23] You were the stingray?
[32:23–32:25] They were like, let's go down to the stingrays.
[32:25–32:26] I was like, let's go down to the stingrays.
[32:26–32:28] Does no one remember Falcon's steve urine?
[32:28–32:29] Yeah.
[32:29–32:30] Why are we going to rest ourselves?
[32:30–32:31] We're going to go over it's hair.
[32:31–32:33] That's why if it had a storm,
[32:33–32:35] any rails, other than it's hard to be found.
[32:35–32:36] Oh, really?
[32:36–32:37] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[32:37–32:38] So you don't actually die from sting.
[32:38–32:40] It's just because it's the longest hair I gave my hair attack.
[32:40–32:41] Oh, really?
[32:41–32:42] Yeah.
[32:42–32:43] Really?
[32:43–32:44] Yeah.
[32:44–32:45] It's strongly on the floor that we find.
[32:45–32:46] Oh, you're fine.
[32:46–32:47] Like, obviously, it's sore.
[32:47–32:48] Oh, I was literally on the floor.
[32:48–32:49] I was literally on the floor.
[32:49–32:50] I was literally on the floor.
[32:50–32:51] I was literally on the floor.
[32:51–32:53] And they don't cut really completely yet.
[32:53–32:55] I don't know, in his case, what he was doing.
[32:55–32:58] But my mom was just like, they're not afraid of you and you are of them.
[32:58–32:59] About everything.
[32:59–33:00] I'm like, I got a fire.
[33:00–33:03] I'm like, imagine the porous fire, they're looking at you.
[33:03–33:06] I'm like, I'm like, I'm kind of a fan of moths.
[33:06–33:07] Oh, yeah.
[33:07–33:08] I don't like how fast they are.
[33:08–33:09] I don't like butterflies.
[33:09–33:10] I'm actually kind of afraid of butterflies.
[33:10–33:11] I have one fucking tattoo on my shoulder.
[33:11–33:12] Oh, that's a bit silly.
[33:12–33:13] I never got a fat air.
[33:13–33:14] The butterfly hose in there.
[33:14–33:15] Oh, my dear.
[33:15–33:16] Oh, yeah.
[33:16–33:17] I saw it on the outside.
[33:17–33:18] Hell no.
[33:18–33:19] Not happening.
[33:19–33:20] Okay.
[33:20–33:21] Is that a rational?
[33:21–33:22] I think a rational is more like something niche.
[33:22–33:23] A rational is like mayonnaise.
[33:23–33:24] You're turning it in.
[33:24–33:27] I think I'm like, I'm going to be like, oh, irrational fear of men.
[33:27–33:28] Yeah.
[33:28–33:30] Dating me is like, I feel like that's a goal.
[33:30–33:31] Oh, what do you say?
[33:31–33:32] I'm like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be
[33:32–33:33] like, OK, I think the best crack ever.
[33:33–33:34] yeah.
[33:34–33:35] Ab lush or virtual.
[33:35–33:36] Okay.
[33:36–33:38] I do understand it.
[33:38–33:39] Yeah.
[33:39–33:40] Am in bras for sure.
[33:40–33:41] I am with you.
[33:41–33:42] It was not that kind of transformation.
[33:42–33:43] I'm nervous.
[33:43–33:44] Um, it was fun.
[33:44–33:45] You might be surprised if you had a baby.
[33:45–33:46] Oh, yeah.
[33:46–33:47] You know what?
[33:47–33:48] I don't pow wrong.
[33:48–33:51] Yes, but that was random is the Christmas Wolters and the World of
[33:51–33:52] England.
[33:52–33:53] Oh, it feels like forever.
[33:53–33:54] A bit like that.
[33:54–33:55] I like that extra scheduled day.
[33:55–33:56] Yeah.
[33:56–33:57] It's crazy.
[33:57–33:58] You feel like.
[33:58–33:59] Yeah.
[33:59–34:00] Is soughtayn andание.
[34:00–34:01] Yeah.
[34:01–34:04] pop rock we need you don't want to be like too serious
[34:04–34:08] no no no but I want to what a pop rock nothing to put your mouth they're all sweet
[34:08–34:11] it's starting to go
[34:11–34:16] it's very crackling and all the chicken and the crackheads yeah yeah
[34:16–34:20] taking me is like I'm trying I'm trying to describe you as like a a thing or a
[34:20–34:22] food yeah something that
[34:22–34:25] em
[34:25–34:28] it's really hard come up with my palms
[34:28–34:33] I'm trying to think what it will be and then we can put it into the food after that like phone
[34:33–34:36] exhilarating that's why yeah that's fun
[34:36–34:42] so I am definitely keep a man on his toes yeah yeah I was trying to think of my
[34:42–34:47] type as well right so yeah I'm gonna spend the weekend I said what is my type like what is the like
[34:47–34:54] common team that I have personality it is that's what I realize it because no one really looks the same
[34:54–34:59] I'm like that they all look really different my news to be tattoos really yeah but then I found
[34:59–35:06] I'm not really none of my exes had oh I used to like a tattoo was really really deal for me not
[35:06–35:09] at tattoo but like tattoos and then it was only when I started my from tattoos I finally find
[35:09–35:22] that I've realized yeah but I think that like what my type has been like overall is like men who
[35:22–35:28] are slightly terrified of me oh yeah so like they have to be a little bit afraid of me from
[35:28–35:36] me to be attracted to them yeah yeah they can be like more comfortable yeah I don't know what it is
[35:36–35:41] but there's a real like there's a real certain type of guy like they have to I have to feel like they're
[35:41–35:50] slightly scared scared yeah I'm like I'm like I'm like do you think that like you have like mommy
[35:50–35:55] issues like no I've a really interrelationship with my mom like what's that and she was like no you go
[35:55–36:00] for guys with like mommy issues is in like they're afraid of like getting in trouble with you so they like
[36:00–36:01] I ignored it.
[36:01–36:02] Oh, I don't know.
[36:02–36:04] And I was like, I thought that it was my therapist.
[36:04–36:06] And half of them got?
[36:06–36:09] No, but they all have really good relationships with their mother.
[36:09–36:10] Oh, that's important.
[36:10–36:11] Oh, that's good.
[36:11–36:12] Yeah.
[36:12–36:13] Yeah.
[36:13–36:19] Some of them might have been like, what is the mind of Italy's edging on a little bit too close
[36:19–36:20] with their mother?
[36:20–36:21] Oh, we've talked about that for years.
[36:21–36:22] We hate her.
[36:22–36:25] Yeah, I'm saying, the man thinks he can do no wrong in life.
[36:25–36:26] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[36:26–36:27] I don't actually mind.
[36:27–36:29] I actually, obviously, really don't know what to think of.
[36:29–36:32] I go into relationships with their mother, but like, I think there's definitely like a
[36:32–36:33] fine line.
[36:33–36:34] There's a line.
[36:34–36:37] Like when their mother gets involved in the relationship kind of, yeah.
[36:37–36:38] I've had that happen.
[36:38–36:39] Oh, God.
[36:39–36:40] Yeah, and it really was a nice.
[36:40–36:41] Like, you can handle themself.
[36:41–36:42] Yeah.
[36:42–36:43] I'm just like, you're an adult.
[36:43–36:44] Like, why?
[36:44–36:45] Yeah.
[36:45–36:46] I've had like someone's mom give out to me.
[36:46–36:47] I have an argument with her.
[36:47–36:48] I'm like, yeah.
[36:48–36:51] And I was like, like, that's a line that you can't.
[36:51–36:52] Yeah.
[36:52–36:58] Any, any mother that's ever, I'm trying to think any mother that's ever like gotten involved
[36:59–37:02] in, like, a relationship with me, they've always taken my side.
[37:02–37:03] Yeah.
[37:03–37:04] Like, love that.
[37:04–37:05] Yeah.
[37:05–37:06] Give it to me.
[37:06–37:07] Yeah.
[37:07–37:08] Like, yeah.
[37:08–37:09] That's what I'm like.
[37:09–37:10] My mom would be like that as well.
[37:10–37:11] Yeah.
[37:11–37:12] And obviously, really close to my brother.
[37:12–37:14] Like, they're literally like, we have a sport.
[37:14–37:16] She'd be on the girls.
[37:16–37:17] Yeah.
[37:17–37:18] Yeah.
[37:18–37:19] What did you do to upset her?
[37:19–37:20] Yeah.
[37:20–37:21] Yeah.
[37:21–37:22] Yeah.
[37:22–37:23] Where is I had it where she was like, give it up to you.
[37:23–37:24] She was giving you to me.
[37:24–37:25] Yeah.
[37:25–37:27] She was like, you're being a little bitch in the airport or some shit like this.
[37:28–37:30] And I was like, uh, okay.
[37:30–37:31] Yeah.
[37:31–37:32] Yeah.
[37:32–37:33] It was like proper.
[37:33–37:34] Yeah.
[37:34–37:35] It ended very shortly after that.
[37:35–37:36] I was like, this is you.
[37:36–37:37] Yeah.
[37:37–37:38] What do we have in that now?
[37:38–37:40] I was thinking like on on the edge keeping on her toes.
[37:40–37:41] Like, what about dating me?
[37:41–37:42] It's like a bungee jump.
[37:42–37:45] Or something where your toes are over the edge.
[37:45–37:46] Or keeping on your toe.
[37:46–37:47] Ballet.
[37:47–37:55] What do you think this is?
[37:55–37:58] Like a
[37:58–37:59] like a puppet.
[37:59–38:01] Like, what is I don't know what it means.
[38:01–38:05] I love I would love so much here at public public.
[38:05–38:09] I would love one of my ex's come out of me like, what was that?
[38:09–38:10] What happened?
[38:10–38:11] Yeah.
[38:11–38:13] Do you reckon someone would send in voice message?
[38:13–38:14] Is there anything again?
[38:14–38:15] Good terms.
[38:15–38:16] Any of them.
[38:16–38:19] Um, I'm on like, I would say I'm on good terms with all of them.
[38:19–38:21] I don't know if they did the same back.
[38:21–38:24] But it's in I think that I'm like, I don't have any issues with it.
[38:24–38:27] Yeah, if I thought any of them out, I'd be like, hey, how are you?
[38:27–38:28] Yeah.
[38:28–38:32] Like, I don't like hold any hold any grudges, but I don't know if anyone.
[38:32–38:36] Maybe we can hold that for a future episode to send you get in contact with someone
[38:36–38:39] here as access and ask what was it like today?
[38:39–38:40] Care.
[38:40–38:41] We can put a voice effect on you.
[38:41–38:42] It goes.
[38:42–38:43] Yeah.
[38:43–38:44] Public Carla.
[38:44–38:45] We won't name a shame.
[38:45–38:46] It's don't worry.
[38:46–38:47] But we need the ins and outs of what.
[38:47–38:48] You know, the mouth document.
[38:48–38:49] Yeah.
[38:49–38:50] The documentary.
[38:50–38:53] They're facing like those toys.
[38:53–38:54] That was a bit of a point.
[38:54–38:55] I'm not wearing a mask.
[38:55–38:56] I'm so funny.
[38:56–38:57] Okay.
[38:57–38:58] We're going to ask the listeners.
[38:58–38:59] Instead to help us.
[38:59–39:01] I feel like it's on the tip of our tongues.
[39:01–39:02] Yeah, we're.
[39:02–39:03] It's hard.
[39:03–39:04] You'll come away from it.
[39:04–39:06] And then you'll be like, oh my god.
[39:06–39:07] Yeah.
[39:07–39:08] Okay.
[39:08–39:11] So we have we're going to give us two options that you can send winning for.
[39:11–39:12] I'm options of what you can say.
[39:12–39:15] So one of them is dating me is like blank.
[39:15–39:16] That's what you think today.
[39:16–39:17] It's like.
[39:17–39:18] And what was the other one was that.
[39:18–39:19] I was talking about Irish.
[39:19–39:21] The rest of them have to be like, maybe I just do that one.
[39:21–39:22] Yeah.
[39:22–39:23] The other one is stuffy about you with that.
[39:23–39:24] People are not like, yeah, here's the stuff.
[39:24–39:26] And ideally if one of my X's could ride into that question.
[39:26–39:27] That would be.
[39:27–39:28] Yeah, that's.
[39:28–39:38] So dating me is like, blank and make it like.
[39:38–39:39] We're in for.
[39:39–39:40] Because obviously we can.
[39:40–39:41] What's the one just wrote in?
[39:41–39:42] I was like, shit, take me is like.
[39:42–39:43] Shit.
[39:43–39:44] Okay.
[39:44–39:46] Take me as like, shh.
[39:46–39:48] I'm like, forever.
[39:48–39:50] That's your opinion.
[39:50–39:52] Yeah.
[39:52–39:53] Okay, so I've sent them into us.
[39:53–39:55] Send them into us and let us know when then next week.
[39:55–39:57] Welcome back.
[39:57–39:58] Finish the profile.
[39:58–40:01] Actually, in the meantime, maybe you should reply to some wee
[40:01–40:03] planet and let us know next week as well.
[40:03–40:04] Okay.
[40:04–40:07] Is there a problem if you get people to send your voice notes?
[40:07–40:08] I think that would be hilarious.
[40:08–40:10] Yeah, I think taking reply voice notes about stuff,
[40:10–40:11] right?
[40:11–40:13] But is there something that you can put up that they have to
[40:13–40:14] reply a voice note?
[40:14–40:18] Oh, you should think of something to say that they have to send a voice note back.
[40:18–40:21] Okay, like, think they're favorite lyrics or something or like,
[40:21–40:22] you do.
[40:22–40:25] I recently discovered that and then you could say, you could send, no.
[40:25–40:26] Nevermind.
[40:26–40:26] But it's not.
[40:26–40:27] I don't know.
[40:27–40:27] It's not my heart.
[40:27–40:29] Oh, voice first.
[40:29–40:30] Yes.
[40:30–40:30] Can you do it?
[40:30–40:32] You cannot do my best, dad Joe.
[40:32–40:33] My best, lever impression.
[40:33–40:34] Oh, it must be yours though.
[40:34–40:36] Yeah, I have to do the voice notes.
[40:36–40:37] Oh, no.
[40:37–40:38] No, thank you.
[40:38–40:39] Thank you.
[40:39–40:39] You can do that.
[40:39–40:42] I think, well, I'm sure they can send them back.
[40:42–40:44] Some of them are so funny.
[40:44–40:46] The voice notes are actually the best part to be honest.
[40:46–40:48] Yeah, I think they're a profile and I see a voice note.
[40:48–40:49] I'm straight away.
[40:49–40:50] I'm like, let me see.
[40:50–40:52] She's came to her romantic thought.
[40:52–40:53] No.
[40:53–40:54] She's crazy.
[40:54–40:55] She's an awesome person.
[40:55–40:56] Thank you for that.
[40:56–40:59] She re-enacts the voice notes on it.
[40:59–40:59] No.
[40:59–41:01] It's the funniest thing ever.
[41:01–41:02] She's Irish.
[41:02–41:03] I know she's not Irish.
[41:03–41:05] I don't know where she's from, but she basically like,
[41:05–41:08] so she gets voice notes off guys on hand.
[41:08–41:09] And then she does like an entire show,
[41:09–41:13] social dress up as what she thinks the guy looks like.
[41:13–41:16] And like, does a voiceover like a...
[41:16–41:16] Oh my god.
[41:16–41:18] My voice note is so fucking funny.
[41:18–41:20] Does she like, proper like, act like them and all?
[41:20–41:21] Like, really?
[41:21–41:22] Yeah, like what she imagines their life.
[41:22–41:23] Oh my god.
[41:23–41:24] I would love to do that.
[41:24–41:27] I want to do it because I feel like we're going to scare people away.
[41:27–41:29] I think we should strive for voice notes.
[41:29–41:31] Oh, Kera's exes.
[41:31–41:34] This one might be FF's reason for why you should date me.
[41:34–41:35] Why don't we do it?
[41:35–41:36] Voice message.
[41:36–41:36] Do you want to?
[41:36–41:37] Yeah.
[41:37–41:38] You can do it.
[41:38–41:39] Yeah.
[41:39–41:40] Oh, right answer.
[41:40–41:41] Why is that?
[41:41–41:42] It's better.
[41:42–41:43] Let me just write it.
[41:43–41:44] It's not, let me do the voice.
[41:45–41:45] Why is it not?
[41:45–41:46] Let me do that.
[41:46–41:46] Oh.
[41:46–41:47] To be honest, I'm really new to it.
[41:47–41:49] I don't really know how it works.
[41:49–41:49] Yeah.
[41:49–41:49] Oh, sorry.
[41:49–41:50] I'm hinge.
[41:50–41:51] I could try figure it out.
[41:51–41:51] Yeah, try it.
[41:51–41:53] And then next week we can do that as well.
[41:53–41:53] Yeah.
[41:53–41:55] And we'll get voice notes and Kera's exes.
[41:55–41:55] Okay.
[41:55–41:57] Come back next week for an update.
[41:57–41:58] And Kera's lovely.
[41:59–41:59] FF now.
[42:02–42:05] Red flag radar is where we get to see.
[42:05–42:05] The side.
[42:05–42:07] Yeah, decide if what you've seen
[42:07–42:08] in someone is a red flag or not.
[42:08–42:09] Yeah.
[42:09–42:11] So are we a little give a hint for the live show?
[42:11–42:13] If you're coming to the live show.
[42:13–42:13] We're doing this.
[42:13–42:15] We're doing this.
[42:15–42:17] What it's going to be so fun.
[42:17–42:17] Yeah.
[42:17–42:19] Okay, your alarm valve.
[42:19–42:19] That's all I'll say.
[42:19–42:20] Yeah.
[42:20–42:21] It's going to be so fun.
[42:21–42:24] So this is today's first red flag radar.
[42:24–42:27] He has got a chocolate milk addiction.
[42:27–42:28] He has four a day at least.
[42:28–42:30] That's a lot.
[42:30–42:32] Well, he's getting his calcium in.
[42:32–42:34] He likes his chocolate milk.
[42:34–42:35] I'm also chocolate milk.
[42:35–42:36] It's nice.
[42:36–42:37] Lord's a chocolate milk.
[42:37–42:38] I do like chocolate milk.
[42:38–42:39] I don't really like milk.
[42:39–42:40] Before a day.
[42:40–42:41] Before a day is a lot.
[42:41–42:42] That's excessive.
[42:42–42:44] Listen, there's worse addictions to have.
[42:44–42:44] True.
[42:44–42:45] Come here.
[42:45–42:46] Is there hurt in anyone really?
[42:46–42:49] This addiction probably is bells, but probably is bells.
[42:49–42:51] Surely if you drink that much milk,
[42:51–42:52] yeah, he might want to run.
[42:52–42:54] I wish I was as not lactose intolerant it is.
[42:55–42:56] My God.
[42:56–42:57] God.
[42:57–42:59] I think it's not hurt in anyone.
[42:59–43:00] Why?
[43:00–43:00] You're trying to cue.
[43:00–43:02] I feel like chocolate milk is real like.
[43:02–43:03] Oh, yeah, in it.
[43:03–43:04] Chocolate milk.
[43:04–43:05] It's real.
[43:05–43:06] Childishness is not missing.
[43:06–43:07] Oh, green flag.
[43:07–43:08] Yeah.
[43:08–43:09] Oh, it's real sweet.
[43:09–43:11] Like, the man just loves his chocolate milk.
[43:11–43:12] He just loves chocolate milk.
[43:12–43:13] A man just loves chocolate milk.
[43:13–43:15] It's just a sweet thing for the day.
[43:16–43:17] Fortized.
[43:20–43:20] Sweet.
[43:20–43:22] I'm not saying right.
[43:22–43:22] I'm saying green.
[43:23–43:25] He's got a teddy on his bed.
[43:25–43:27] Tucks it in when he makes the bed and everything.
[43:28–43:29] I have a teddy on my bed.
[43:30–43:32] But if Dan I'll have one on his bed,
[43:32–43:33] we can't be sexist here about teddy's.
[43:33–43:34] Yeah.
[43:34–43:36] I have one and I expect Dan I'll treat you fine.
[43:36–43:38] And he just took it in for me when I'm not there.
[43:38–43:38] Dozy.
[43:39–43:41] Yeah, if it was one of them raggedy things we've talked for a part
[43:41–43:44] that like stings and like this is a fresh teddy like that.
[43:44–43:45] Yeah, I got it.
[43:45–43:46] I don't know.
[43:46–43:46] That's not okay.
[43:46–43:49] It's me a teddy every time he goes to a trip.
[43:49–43:50] That's so sweet.
[43:50–43:51] I know he got me one in the back.
[43:51–43:53] You know the dog in a ham bag.
[43:53–43:54] No, yeah.
[43:54–43:55] You know when people like
[43:55–43:57] it's the thing you showed me on your back.
[43:57–43:57] No, no, no.
[43:57–43:59] That was a tag with dogs on it.
[43:59–44:00] You know when people carry your dogs the bag.
[44:00–44:00] Yeah.
[44:00–44:02] But it's like a teddy version of that.
[44:02–44:03] Oh.
[44:03–44:03] I know.
[44:03–44:04] It's a little ham bag.
[44:04–44:05] I got.
[44:06–44:06] So.
[44:07–44:07] I don't know.
[44:08–44:12] So you can't say ref like they're like I think it shows he's.
[44:13–44:16] If that's the only thing he's doing what her.
[44:16–44:19] That means he'll be not like imagine talking to your kids in bed.
[44:19–44:20] That's why I think.
[44:20–44:22] Just don't watch him talk it in.
[44:22–44:23] But then if yeah, yeah, yeah,
[44:23–44:25] I'd like to see it like it would be really like precise.
[44:25–44:26] Yeah, talking it in.
[44:26–44:30] I think if he's doing a few other things with long with that.
[44:30–44:31] But I think green.
[44:31–44:33] Yeah, yeah.
[44:33–44:34] Do you think green now?
[44:35–44:35] Red.
[44:35–44:36] I let you take that one.
[44:36–44:38] Not red for just kind of in the middle.
[44:38–44:38] Yeah.
[44:38–44:39] What's red in green mix?
[44:39–44:40] Get it.
[44:40–44:42] Red and green makes purple.
[44:43–44:45] Mix but no, I'm singing the color song.
[44:45–44:49] You mix red pink and red for pink.
[44:49–44:51] No, I think you're making this opposite.
[44:51–44:53] No, the color mix and song.
[44:53–44:55] Never heard of that in my life.
[44:55–44:57] Blue and green for purple.
[44:57–44:58] It was like some English song.
[44:58–44:58] Sure.
[44:58–44:59] Oh, yeah.
[44:59–45:00] Mix.
[45:00–45:02] Nice and red for pink.
[45:02–45:05] All I'm thinking of is the, is it in Barney, the rainbow song?
[45:05–45:06] Barney, yellow.
[45:06–45:08] Oh yeah.
[45:08–45:11] Purple and orange and blue.
[45:11–45:12] I just love Barney.
[45:12–45:13] I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say,
[45:13–45:14] remember sleeping on my summer?
[45:14–45:15] Have you seen Barney recently?
[45:15–45:16] You know what I'm saying, boy?
[45:16–45:17] He just looks so good.
[45:17–45:19] Oh, he just looks a-o, he's skinny.
[45:19–45:21] Oh, my mom's face on me and American
[45:21–45:24] showed me like a Barney teddy in the shop.
[45:24–45:25] I was like, well I guess that.
[45:25–45:26] I was like, he doesn't look like real Barney.
[45:26–45:27] Don't get him.
[45:27–45:28] Yeah, change.
[45:28–45:30] No, I like the old original.
[45:30–45:31] I can't hollywoods.
[45:31–45:32] Yeah, he's got a real like, I can't look.
[45:32–45:33] Oh no.
[45:33–45:34] Oh, it's sad.
[45:34–45:36] Oh, he needs to look cool.
[45:36–45:39] And last one is, he doesn't talk to his sister.
[45:39–45:41] Ooh.
[45:41–45:42] I need to know the reason.
[45:42–45:46] Yeah, stuff like this, they need to be like,
[45:46–45:49] we need extra information here.
[45:49–45:51] Like, is it that he's held the girl driver something stupid?
[45:51–45:52] Because that's probably red flag that he held
[45:52–45:54] to so much.
[45:54–45:55] Or like, if it's something fair, if it's something
[45:55–45:56] that's fair, don't tell the girl
[45:56–45:58] to over, I think that's a green flag.
[45:58–46:00] Or what if it's a case of that?
[46:00–46:01] Nothing actually happened.
[46:01–46:03] And he just doesn't know.
[46:03–46:04] Do you just genuinely know?
[46:04–46:05] Don't know.
[46:05–46:06] Don't talk to my sister.
[46:06–46:08] That would be a red flag.
[46:08–46:08] Yeah.
[46:08–46:11] If he just is willingly not, if he doesn't,
[46:11–46:11] it's family.
[46:11–46:12] Yeah.
[46:12–46:13] And if you can like cut someone off like that.
[46:13–46:14] Yeah.
[46:14–46:15] That's red flag.
[46:15–46:16] He can then even probably cut someone else off.
[46:16–46:16] Yeah.
[46:16–46:20] If there's a reason, like a justified reason
[46:20–46:21] for it and something actually happened,
[46:21–46:23] okay, I'd be like, yeah.
[46:23–46:24] This all happens when I, everyone's having a...
[46:24–46:25] Yeah.
[46:25–46:27] Like, able to say in touch.
[46:27–46:28] Yeah.
[46:28–46:29] Yeah.
[46:29–46:31] I would say it's not a...
[46:31–46:32] I don't know, because it's not on the context.
[46:32–46:33] Need more details.
[46:33–46:34] I'm gonna say, yeah.
[46:34–46:35] I'm sure of that one.
[46:35–46:36] Yeah.
[46:36–46:37] We're saying that to side.
[46:37–46:38] Yeah.
[46:38–46:39] Need more details.
[46:39–46:40] We are doing six-and-a-sales next.
[46:40–46:41] So we answered dilemmas and try to help you
[46:41–46:44] with some queries or questions or dilemmas you have.
[46:44–46:47] So this one is, me and my ex-boyfriend broke up
[46:47–46:48] nearly four years ago.
[46:48–46:49] We were together for three years
[46:49–46:51] and I just convinced I'd be with him forever.
[46:51–46:53] But I broke up with him because he was lying to me
[46:53–46:54] all the time and was so lazy,
[46:54–46:57] which just all caused me to mentally check out.
[46:57–46:58] For around a year after the break up,
[46:58–47:00] he tries best to make amends, send me flowers,
[47:00–47:03] but me things, et cetera, but it was too late.
[47:03–47:04] Around two years ago, I found myself wondering
[47:04–47:06] why he was up to.
[47:06–47:07] He lives two minutes away from me
[47:07–47:09] and I'd started to see him around quite a lot
[47:09–47:11] and he started working where I work.
[47:11–47:12] We ended up following him on Instagram
[47:12–47:14] and eventually got talking and catching up.
[47:14–47:16] He changed a lot when we broke up in a good way
[47:16–47:18] and I re-enjoys company.
[47:18–47:19] We bent out together a few times.
[47:19–47:21] I've always talked it as friends.
[47:21–47:22] We would message quite frequently
[47:22–47:24] and he'd ask if we were getting back together.
[47:24–47:25] I'm still dealing with the hurt
[47:25–47:26] that he caused me last time
[47:26–47:29] on the serious cross issues he gave me.
[47:29–47:30] I had another boyfriend after him,
[47:30–47:33] but he has never had another relationship.
[47:33–47:34] I really enjoy having him as a friend
[47:34–47:36] and when we don't speak for a while,
[47:36–47:38] I always find the urge to message him again.
[47:38–47:39] But he said he loves to me too much
[47:39–47:41] to continue to just his friends
[47:41–47:42] and it would be all or nothing,
[47:42–47:43] but I'm just not there.
[47:43–47:44] I don't find myself watching a boyfriend
[47:44–47:47] all of a minute as I enjoyed my own company a lot
[47:47–47:48] and still working on myself.
[47:48–47:49] But if I can imagine my future,
[47:49–47:51] I can only imagine myself getting married
[47:51–47:53] to having kids, et cetera, with him.
[47:53–47:54] But is this because I find confident him
[47:54–47:56] and just haven't met my person?
[47:56–47:57] I just don't know if I'm doing more hard,
[47:57–47:59] but with my continuing to reach out
[47:59–48:01] to try and keep some sort of relationship.
[48:01–48:02] Or is it some way to tell me
[48:02–48:04] that we're supposed to be together?
[48:04–48:05] Any depending,
[48:05–48:06] I would tell depending,
[48:06–48:07] not my family friends will open a lot
[48:07–48:08] and I always talk about what's getting back together,
[48:08–48:11] but obviously don't realize how much he hurt me.
[48:14–48:16] I feel like you can see it from both sides like that.
[48:16–48:20] Yes, it probably is a comfort to you because, you know,
[48:20–48:22] yeah, but then also what?
[48:22–48:24] How can you definitely say,
[48:24–48:25] no, I shouldn't go back there?
[48:25–48:27] Because there has been stories of that happening
[48:27–48:28] and like, and it works.
[48:28–48:30] Sometimes that genuinely does work for some people.
[48:30–48:32] So how can you,
[48:32–48:34] how can you rule out that either?
[48:34–48:36] Like it's hard to know where to sit with it.
[48:36–48:38] Like, I feel like he could have
[48:38–48:40] he might have actually changed.
[48:40–48:41] She's a can.
[48:41–48:43] Like, I don't know why he lied about that.
[48:43–48:45] I wish I did know.
[48:45–48:48] Hey, Lauer, that's the only thing.
[48:48–48:50] And girls really do mentally check out like that.
[48:50–48:50] Oh, yeah.
[48:50–48:52] Like when we're mentally gone,
[48:52–48:54] where there's no, there's no getting back.
[48:54–48:56] It just clicks one day, I think.
[48:56–48:58] Every year he sent flowers.
[48:58–48:59] Part of things.
[48:59–49:00] What was too late?
[49:00–49:05] I feel like I think.
[49:05–49:07] I think you'd know if you felt like that.
[49:07–49:10] I don't think you'd have to like ask, is this going to be?
[49:10–49:12] You'd be like, it is.
[49:12–49:13] I know.
[49:13–49:15] I'm sick of my pack of dinner like I just,
[49:15–49:17] it was just a knowing feeling.
[49:17–49:18] Yeah, you didn't have to question that.
[49:18–49:21] I wasn't like, oh god, like, like, yeah,
[49:21–49:22] I just knew I was like,
[49:22–49:25] well, it was just instant.
[49:25–49:26] But maybe that's not all the time.
[49:26–49:29] But I feel like if you knew you would know,
[49:29–49:31] I do think it's worth her trying.
[49:31–49:35] Or is she doing more damage to herself than in the future?
[49:35–49:36] I don't know.
[49:36–49:39] But if you don't try, you'll never know.
[49:39–49:42] I'd rather try and failed.
[49:42–49:45] Then not try to tell and said, what if I hate a what if?
[49:45–49:48] Yeah, but if she's not wanting a boyfriend right now,
[49:48–49:49] I'm like, what's the rush as well?
[49:49–49:51] Like, if you're liking your single time,
[49:51–49:54] you could just still continue on with your single time.
[49:54–49:55] And see where that takes you.
[49:55–49:56] And if something happens to me,
[49:56–49:58] time it happens, but don't like overthink it.
[49:58–50:00] So don't rule out anybody else in your life either.
[50:00–50:01] No, yeah, I don't think.
[50:01–50:04] And I think don't think about only because you can see him
[50:04–50:05] as having a future for him.
[50:05–50:07] It's probably just because you've been with him.
[50:07–50:09] And like, he's your most maybe longer straight.
[50:09–50:12] You should remote most like steady that you've put
[50:12–50:13] a scene that's so now you can't imagine anyone else.
[50:13–50:15] Because it's hard to imagine anyone else
[50:15–50:17] when your brain doesn't know that person.
[50:17–50:20] Yeah, you can't put them into your brain.
[50:20–50:21] Yeah, never met them.
[50:21–50:23] So that person obviously is going to stick
[50:23–50:24] more in your brain then.
[50:24–50:28] So I think, I don't know.
[50:28–50:30] I think keep our options open girl.
[50:30–50:32] Don't be real and out anybody else coming into your life,
[50:32–50:36] but also like, and don't leave it up.
[50:36–50:37] See, look, I'm just controversial as I was going to say,
[50:37–50:39] don't leave it all up to you to be the one trying.
[50:39–50:42] Like if he's, see, he's saying he can't be friends
[50:42–50:45] or anymore, he's like, he loves her too much.
[50:45–50:47] I'll go back with him, will you?
[50:47–50:48] I think you should put yourself in a situation
[50:49–50:52] where imagine your heads, he says to you,
[50:52–50:54] right, we can't ever see again.
[50:54–50:56] I don't want to let it hurt me too much.
[50:56–50:57] Would you kind of have said,
[50:57–50:58] but not, not obviously we can,
[50:58–51:00] but or be together like, how would you feel?
[51:00–51:02] Or how would you feel if you see him with someone else?
[51:02–51:03] Yes.
[51:03–51:04] Or he said to you, look, I'm after you're at the girl
[51:04–51:05] but like we can't talk anymore.
[51:05–51:09] Like, you're so used to having him there and having him handy.
[51:09–51:11] Like he's, he's always going to be there for you
[51:11–51:12] because he like, you love him.
[51:12–51:15] So I think it's imagine if that was taken away,
[51:15–51:16] like that might make it feel a bit clearer.
[51:16–51:17] Yeah, what would you do then?
[51:17–51:18] What would you do?
[51:18–51:19] Yeah, you decide then.
[51:19–51:20] Yeah.
[51:20–51:21] Let us know though.
[51:21–51:22] Yeah, please.
[51:22–51:23] I'm just off-tated.
[51:23–51:24] And see how it goes.
[51:24–51:26] I like to all your family, like my brother.
[51:26–51:27] That is a good sign.
[51:27–51:29] Yeah, but they also don't know him
[51:29–51:30] what she's hurt in the past.
[51:30–51:31] Oh, I take that back.
[51:31–51:32] Yeah, take it back.
[51:32–51:33] Take it back.
[51:33–51:34] We take it back.
[51:34–51:36] Let us know though and give us an update on how it goes.
[51:36–51:37] Yes, please.
[51:37–51:41] Phone friends, we get illisterous advice.
[51:41–51:42] Just grace.
[51:42–51:45] So this is the dilemma that was sent in.
[51:45–51:48] I'm 18 and I still have my V card.
[51:48–51:49] Did we call it that way, we're younger?
[51:49–51:50] No.
[51:50–51:51] No.
[51:51–51:52] Unless she, I think you would do.
[51:52–51:54] Thank you.
[51:54–51:55] Oh, not neither Dublin or now.
[51:55–51:56] What are your singles, please?
[51:56–51:57] Yeah.
[51:57–51:58] A lot of time, I'm very single, so you say,
[51:58–52:00] I have to do a Dublin.
[52:00–52:01] Yeah, that was a real satisfying thing.
[52:01–52:02] Oh, hello.
[52:02–52:03] Hello, pal.
[52:03–52:04] I just like the dust.
[52:04–52:06] Mine is.
[52:06–52:07] Great.
[52:07–52:08] She's an inner spread nurse.
[52:08–52:09] Yeah, you're loving me.
[52:09–52:09] Sorry.
[52:09–52:11] OK, phone friend.
[52:11–52:13] I'm 18 and I still have my V card.
[52:13–52:15] I feel so behind from everyone else.
[52:15–52:17] All my friends have lost it and I haven't.
[52:17–52:19] I still have never even had a boyfriend.
[52:19–52:22] I'm so embarrassed, especially when I get asked about it.
[52:22–52:24] I even lied once saying that I lost it.
[52:24–52:25] We've all been there girl.
[52:25–52:26] So don't be embarrassed.
[52:26–52:28] I don't know why I'm so ashamed about it.
[52:28–52:30] I don't even want my closest friends asking.
[52:30–52:33] I feel like I'm somehow less wanted than my friends,
[52:33–52:35] which I know isn't the case.
[52:35–52:37] We're all gorge and they have boyfriends.
[52:37–52:39] And I've done my fair share of pulling.
[52:39–52:40] I just haven't lost it.
[52:40–52:42] I need advice on how to manage this though,
[52:42–52:44] because I feel like I'm at the point now.
[52:44–52:46] I lose it to anyone just to get it done with.
[52:46–52:48] Oh, don't do that.
[52:48–52:50] So here I am that it's not a place.
[52:50–52:51] Girl, you're still so young.
[52:51–52:52] It'll happen when it happens.
[52:52–52:54] Don't procrastinate yourself.
[52:54–52:56] I felt the same, girl, but I met my boyfriend at 19
[52:56–52:58] and two and a half years together now.
[52:58–52:59] I wouldn't change a thing.
[52:59–53:01] Oh, I'm so respectful.
[53:01–53:03] I'm a jealous of people who have never lost it.
[53:03–53:04] I wish that I waited.
[53:04–53:05] Oh, wow.
[53:05–53:08] That's good to hear from someone who like you wait and is.
[53:08–53:10] Yeah, that's good too.
[53:10–53:12] Oh my god, absolutely do not feel bad about it.
[53:12–53:15] I lost mine at 18 to a loser and I regretted so much.
[53:15–53:19] Honestly, like think of that loser.
[53:19–53:21] No one that he has that like.
[53:21–53:22] Yeah, yeah.
[53:22–53:22] I see it.
[53:22–53:24] No, no, definitely.
[53:24–53:27] Like don't just let go for anyone.
[53:27–53:27] Yeah.
[53:27–53:30] I was 23 and still had mine and fell this way too.
[53:30–53:33] I waited for my boyfriend and we're 10 years together now.
[53:33–53:34] I'm so glad I waited until I was ready.
[53:34–53:35] There's absolutely no rush.
[53:35–53:37] See, they're lovely stories as well.
[53:37–53:38] Then because like imagine me and went in your part
[53:38–53:40] for 10 years and me and like, nope.
[53:40–53:41] That's the only one.
[53:41–53:42] Yeah.
[53:42–53:43] Yeah.
[53:43–53:45] Your buddy camp doesn't do to her and your work the way till you're ready.
[53:45–53:46] So true.
[53:46–53:50] I think everyone around you like just because they're doing it doesn't always mean.
[53:50–53:52] Whatever they're doing, you don't need to do what they're doing.
[53:52–53:54] Yeah, I know at that age it feels like that though.
[53:54–53:57] My mom was just to say and if they took the part of the day to do it.
[53:57–53:58] Yeah, yeah.
[53:58–53:59] Yeah, yeah.
[53:59–54:00] Yeah, man, probably.
[54:00–54:02] That age probably would be, yeah.
[54:02–54:02] Literally.
[54:02–54:05] When you're that age, you just want to blend in what everyone else
[54:05–54:07] and be the exact same as everyone else.
[54:07–54:11] But flip it on its head and really listen to what people are saying here now,
[54:11–54:13] because I feel like that will help you along with it.
[54:13–54:17] I was in a similar situation at 18 and it used to get to me.
[54:17–54:21] I waited until I met someone who I was comfortable with and was 21 when I lost it.
[54:21–54:25] When I started, you only found out that most of my friends also had their bee card
[54:25–54:27] and it made me feel so much better.
[54:28–54:29] Girl, nothing to be ashamed of.
[54:29–54:31] Sex is all right at anyways.
[54:31–54:33] We need to have put in timeline.
[54:33–54:37] Yeah, I went like at that your first time.
[54:37–54:38] It's not like in the movie.
[54:38–54:43] No, we need to have put in timelines on ourselves for things in life
[54:43–54:44] and just go at our own pace.
[54:44–54:48] I lost my V at 21 and I can beat you on a stand if the sister feels.
[54:48–54:51] I was surrounded by people especially at 17, 18, 19.
[54:51–54:55] That would just talk about sex constantly and it was like something that made me feel
[54:55–54:56] always so insecure.
[54:56–55:00] Everyone knew I hadn't and I dreaded games like never have ever et cetera parties.
[55:00–55:02] But I'll set 21 of my first boyfriend.
[55:02–55:03] I even liked him instead.
[55:03–55:05] I had sex for now, 27.
[55:05–55:06] I'm so grateful.
[55:06–55:07] I was on the other side.
[55:07–55:10] I was able to make wise decisions on who I let have my body.
[55:10–55:12] No one talks about sex as much as they did at that age anymore.
[55:12–55:15] So it'll pass and it will happen when it's meant for you.
[55:15–55:16] That's so true.
[55:16–55:17] Yeah.
[55:17–55:21] Like even at this age now, like we would not be around each other and be like.
[55:21–55:24] So yeah, you know what I mean?
[55:24–55:26] It's not something that when you're younger,
[55:26–55:29] it's not comfortable conversation because there's so much pressure on it.
[55:29–55:32] Whereas when you're older, no one barely talks about it.
[55:32–55:32] Yeah.
[55:32–55:33] Yeah.
[55:33–55:35] Don't be embarrassed so many girls the same.
[55:35–55:37] It's all about when you are ready to have sex.
[55:37–55:38] Yes.
[55:38–55:39] Everyone has a different timeline.
[55:39–55:41] Nobody is behind at any age.
[55:41–55:42] Don't rush things.
[55:42–55:43] You will own your credit in the long run.
[55:43–55:46] If they're real friends, they will stop asking true.
[55:46–55:47] That's true here.
[55:47–55:49] But that age is like you just want me.
[55:49–55:51] You so badly want to fit in.
[55:51–55:51] Yeah.
[55:51–55:53] But like the older you get then you're like,
[55:53–55:55] you don't have to do that.
[55:55–55:56] Like Joseph Mann and he's like,
[55:56–55:59] you're actually like, it's really cool to not fit in.
[55:59–56:00] Yeah, you're the cool one.
[56:00–56:01] Yeah.
[56:01–56:01] You're cool to them.
[56:01–56:02] Yeah.
[56:02–56:03] You're different.
[56:03–56:04] Yeah.
[56:04–56:05] And I know what that is.
[56:05–56:07] You might feel like different is bad, but different is no.
[56:07–56:08] Different is your super parent.
[56:08–56:09] Yeah.
[56:09–56:11] Wait until you meet someone that you like.
[56:11–56:12] That's it for this week guys.
[56:12–56:13] That's so spent anyway.
[56:13–56:15] We have full video episodes on YouTube as well.
[56:15–56:18] So every Thursday at 12, they get released.
[56:18–56:19] We have a few tickets for our life.
[56:19–56:21] So like we said, available now and take them out.
[56:21–56:22] They're for eight of me.
[56:22–56:23] Yes.
[56:23–56:27] So every Monday extra spice is every first Monday month.
[56:27–56:28] Share a block on all this new yorkalo.
[56:28–56:29] That's because this is a lot.
[56:29–56:30] There we are.
[56:30–56:31] Yeah.
[56:31–56:32] We're always here.
[56:32–56:34] Just fresh or something new out.
[56:34–56:36] And we will see you on Monday.
[56:36–56:37] See you then.
[56:37–56:37] Love you.
[56:37–56:38] Bye.