EXTRA JUICE: "I'm pregnant but now my sister won't talk to me" #138 — Hold My Drink

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[01:21–01:24] Rant of the week, we get to get out with something that's happened last recently.
[01:24–01:25] Something that's peed us off.
[01:25–01:29] Makes no sense for us or problem or anything really.
[01:29–01:30] Mine.
[01:30–01:32] It's just such an old woman rant.
[01:32–01:34] I'm just going to say briefly, because it's not meant to talk about it.
[01:34–01:36] Wait, what did you say, an old woman rant?
[01:36–01:37] Oh, I'm just feeling real old.
[01:37–01:38] Oh, oh.
[01:38–01:39] Oh, no.
[01:39–01:40] Oh, no, no, no.
[01:40–01:41] She do.
[01:41–01:42] No.
[01:42–01:44] And the traffic in Dublin, I'm sorry.
[01:44–01:45] It's bad.
[01:45–01:46] It's because of all these lanes.
[01:46–01:49] They're making, I understand why they're doing it, but I still, it's still not ideal.
[01:49–01:50] Then for the driver.
[01:50–01:51] No.
[01:51–01:53] And then the road transport isn't good.
[01:53–01:55] I would get pulled transport if it was any use.
[01:55–01:56] Yeah, it's not.
[01:56–01:57] It's not a lot of time.
[01:57–01:58] It's just not come.
[01:58–01:59] No.
[01:59–02:05] Just cares and then you say, tree will just throw away like, and that's a really common bus.
[02:05–02:07] That keeps coming like, is there no other way on?
[02:07–02:11] That's why I was on a was traffic so bad today because that happened to her.
[02:11–02:12] It only happened before.
[02:12–02:14] Oh, it's more and I started going to space.
[02:14–02:16] I got a taxi in, but I was in traffic.
[02:16–02:17] I was in traffic.
[02:17–02:18] I was in traffic.
[02:18–02:19] I was in traffic.
[02:19–02:24] There was miles, queues, cars, back all the way, but it was like not after only clocks.
[02:24–02:25] I think my mom.
[02:25–02:26] Are you guys not in work?
[02:26–02:27] I know what I've got to work.
[02:27–02:31] My mom always says, once me, one red truck, you'll meet my store.
[02:31–02:32] Yeah.
[02:32–02:33] Yeah.
[02:33–02:35] Hey, it's only when you're in a rush.
[02:35–02:36] Yeah.
[02:36–02:39] And also, do you ever know it's actually fact is not even like that when you're look over a taxi.
[02:39–02:40] You're in a rush.
[02:40–02:44] You can't count one, but if you like, if you've, if you get to still do when you're hoping a few minutes,
[02:44–02:46] you'll be like, oh, Joe was arriving.
[02:46–02:47] Yes.
[02:47–02:48] Right.
[02:48–02:49] Don't say he's actually at your door already.
[02:49–02:50] No.
[02:50–02:51] No, it's pretty much that book.
[02:51–02:52] It's couldn't be true.
[02:52–02:53] Yeah.
[02:53–02:54] It's all right.
[02:54–02:55] Yeah.
[02:55–02:57] And I always think I'm a manifest and that, but I'm like, no, we're actually just one, two,
[02:57–03:00] one to protect each and he's outside bringing the door back.
[03:00–03:01] It is traffic and dumb.
[03:01–03:03] It is just what a fucking little lady ran.
[03:03–03:08] Why don't I, I take out my car clean for the first time yesterday and about eight months
[03:08–03:09] though.
[03:09–03:14] And then the sun was out today and I was driving around the clean car and I felt like the
[03:14–03:16] whole is carland Dublin.
[03:16–03:18] Is everyone look at me?
[03:18–03:19] Look at my shiny car.
[03:19–03:20] Yeah.
[03:20–03:21] My dad even when he rang me.
[03:21–03:28] Or did you, oh, he rang me when I was upstairs earlier on getting ready and he rang me and he
[03:28–03:30] was down in the garden, like, leaving or something.
[03:30–03:31] It's like, the car looks fabulous.
[03:31–03:32] Love.
[03:32–03:33] I was like, tada.
[03:33–03:36] So mine, you could write it like, watch me.
[03:36–03:37] Oh, mine was.
[03:37–03:39] And you know, I got into it really bad habit.
[03:39–03:40] Try on Bobby in the build.
[03:40–03:41] My car.
[03:41–03:42] I went now like, cover on it.
[03:42–03:44] The thing was just covering the hair.
[03:44–03:45] Right.
[03:45–03:46] Barber fight.
[03:46–03:48] The back window and all you'd be like, slobbering all over the back windows.
[03:48–03:52] It was just marx of every, I had to ask the lady I say who, I like, books in the clean.
[03:52–03:55] And I was like, strange, I was like, can you just clean the inside of that window?
[03:55–03:56] Yeah.
[03:56–03:57] A big dog and he's like, no.
[03:57–03:59] It's just a tongue mark.
[03:59–04:00] Okay, really?
[04:00–04:02] But now I do lately actually a bit of trouble.
[04:02–04:03] Yeah.
[04:03–04:04] It's just bad.
[04:04–04:06] It literally takes me quicker to get to like, want to go.
[04:06–04:07] Oh, yeah.
[04:07–04:08] Oh, yeah.
[04:08–04:09] And I love driving.
[04:09–04:11] It's my favourite hobby in the entire world, but it's not fun when I'm just not doing it.
[04:11–04:12] I'm just not doing it.
[04:12–04:13] No.
[04:13–04:14] It's just really literally.
[04:14–04:15] Oh, also run.
[04:15–04:18] I paid 82 euro to get help with the tree renal.
[04:18–04:19] I think I got scammed.
[04:19–04:21] I've also got scammed.
[04:21–04:22] Really look back.
[04:22–04:24] Okay, Basie went, tried to get a poor tunnel.
[04:24–04:25] It was closed.
[04:25–04:30] He had to like, probably charge it for the, it's a tenor after seven o'clock.
[04:30–04:31] Yeah.
[04:31–04:33] I think it, or because I'm sorry, it's no way.
[04:33–04:34] It's between certain times.
[04:34–04:39] It's like three euro during the day and then like, out of these certain hours, it's ten euro.
[04:39–04:42] If I have a toll tag even when I go through it, it's a tenor.
[04:42–04:43] He had a done.
[04:43–04:46] But you probably added it on and just didn't say I didn't even go on.
[04:46–04:51] And then I went, so then we ended up in the year 50 anyway, from some other exit like so.
[04:51–04:54] Obviously, it would have been expensive because the alter term was blocked up.
[04:54–04:56] And I was so ill feeling that I was like, I don't care.
[04:56–04:57] I got a heart.
[04:57–04:59] Yeah, get me home for the extra 20 euro ever is usually.
[04:59–05:00] And it was.
[05:00–05:03] I'd say he added on the poor tunnel and then.
[05:03–05:04] Not the rest.
[05:04–05:05] And the M50 toll.
[05:05–05:06] Yeah.
[05:06–05:07] 80 blips.
[05:07–05:08] Yeah.
[05:08–05:11] I got a flight for that return.
[05:11–05:14] I was going to say, I'm back to Manchester.
[05:14–05:15] That's.
[05:15–05:16] Scammed.
[05:16–05:17] Endemic.
[05:17–05:18] That's the real.
[05:18–05:19] Scammed.
[05:19–05:20] Oh, that's really sad.
[05:20–05:22] No, that was a real taxi.
[05:22–05:28] And right to the week this week, I'm going to read actually a listeners run.
[05:28–05:30] Yes, this came in from a.
[05:30–05:35] My ex reached out to me after months saying he was doing better and to see if I'd be up for a
[05:35–05:36] go for a drink.
[05:36–05:39] I was in Australia at the time visiting friends and living my best life.
[05:39–05:43] I saw the message when I woke up, but we were busy packing and traveling to a new area.
[05:43–05:48] I went to reply when I got Wi-Fi next a few hours later, but he had deleted the message.
[05:48–05:53] Oh, I was confused, but didn't want him to think I just not reply because things had.
[05:53–05:54] Because.
[05:54–05:57] Oh, things between us hadn't ended that badly.
[05:57–05:59] So I texted and just explained that I'd seen the message.
[05:59–06:03] I had not been able to get back because I was abroad.
[06:03–06:07] Sorry, and I was abroad, but that I was open to meeting up.
[06:07–06:10] He still hasn't texted me back an hour week later.
[06:10–06:11] What the fuck?
[06:11–06:15] Honestly, thank God because if we'd gotten that drink, I'd probably have gotten back together
[06:15–06:17] with him and this whole experience has reminded me here.
[06:17–06:19] We really just aren't compatible.
[06:19–06:20] So childish.
[06:20–06:24] You didn't text him back straight away as we deleted the whole message.
[06:24–06:28] I reckon he was drunk, sendin' it and thought it was great idea to time.
[06:28–06:30] And then walk up and said, oh no.
[06:30–06:32] But that is not what you need in your life.
[06:32–06:34] Someone who's going to think that that's a mistake.
[06:34–06:35] You were the prize.
[06:35–06:36] Yeah, that's not like Caesar, yeah.
[06:36–06:37] Yeah, what the fuck?
[06:37–06:38] What a dick.
[06:38–06:39] And to not reply then.
[06:39–06:41] He sort of just ground the valve and be like, oh, sorry.
[06:41–06:42] Sorry, sorry.
[06:42–06:43] Yeah.
[06:43–06:45] That text was this really sorry, I hope you were well or something.
[06:45–06:48] At least, how, like she said, so childish.
[06:48–06:53] At least she's self-aware enough to be like, actually, thank God, because probably what it had.
[06:53–06:55] Yeah, so you're the bigger person in this.
[06:55–06:56] You dodged the bullet.
[06:56–06:58] It's actually a sign that you had no Wi-Fi.
[06:58–07:00] Yeah, like you had no...
[07:00–07:01] That was the universe.
[07:01–07:05] Yeah, when you reply got no Wi-Fi a few years later, you need to do the message.
[07:05–07:09] So that was the universe saying, girl, I'm not letting you text you back.
[07:09–07:12] Because maybe you still would have been drunker, thought it would have actually made up the meal.
[07:12–07:13] Yeah.
[07:13–07:15] So the universe don't need a favor today.
[07:15–07:16] Protected you.
[07:16–07:17] Yeah, literally.
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[07:37–07:40] And this is today's, if I was you.
[07:40–07:42] I'm 23 and currently 5 months pregnant.
[07:42–07:47] This is my first and was unplanned, but my boyfriend and I have been together for eight years.
[07:47–07:49] So I felt at ease at the situation.
[07:49–07:52] My sister, 30, has been trying for maybe three years with no look.
[07:52–07:55] Ever since I told her I was pregnant in October, things have been the same.
[07:55–08:01] We were always close growing up and always kept in touch over the phone when she moved to her away.
[08:01–08:05] When she moved up to her away until now, she hasn't checked on me in on me at all.
[08:05–08:06] Not once.
[08:06–08:09] I saw her for a birthday last month and asked how she was getting on with everything.
[08:09–08:12] Like any look at pregnant, I asked about her IVF consultation.
[08:12–08:16] She gave me short answer, but never once asked how I was and how my pregnancy was going.
[08:16–08:20] I didn't think it would get to me but it does, especially since everyone around me is so supportive and excited.
[08:20–08:22] She sticks out like a sore thumb.
[08:22–08:26] I know she's probably struggling with the situation and I get it, but I wish she could be there for me too.
[08:26–08:29] My boyfriend thinks I should talk to her, but I don't want to upset her.
[08:29–08:32] I just don't think she realizes how much this has affected me.
[08:32–08:39] I think she's just obviously she's so jealous and like triggered.
[08:39–08:44] Yeah, and it's a hard thing to talk about from her point of view.
[08:44–08:48] That it's so trigger for her that she's not seeing how it's affecting you.
[08:48–08:50] That's because she's so blind.
[08:50–08:52] Yeah, because she's so interoperable.
[08:52–08:54] She's so sad that she's so upset.
[08:54–08:56] She's struggling with it.
[08:56–08:58] And it don't mean jealous in a way of like a petty jealous.
[08:58–09:00] I mean like that's what she wants.
[09:00–09:04] or like, and to be like, I've never been in this situation,
[09:00–09:01] Yeah.
[09:04–09:06] but three years is a long time to be one in some
[09:06–09:09] of the city, your seven year younger sister.
[09:09–09:12] Yeah, maybe that's quite, I don't know if it's,
[09:12–09:14] it was on plan, so like, obviously not even trying.
[09:14–09:16] That must be really hard for her.
[09:16–09:17] And I can't put it down how you feel about
[09:17–09:19] how you're upset about her not to board,
[09:19–09:22] and you're about think of like her,
[09:22–09:24] yeah, thing as well, but I think the only reason,
[09:24–09:27] the only way it's gonna be sorted out is if you talk to her.
[09:27–09:28] Oh, there has to be a conversation.
[09:28–09:29] Yeah, so you should.
[09:29–09:31] I want your big sister around for your pregnancy,
[09:31–09:34] and like, you want to be fun, exciting,
[09:34–09:36] and like, be able to talk.
[09:36–09:38] I wonder, I wonder, I don't know,
[09:38–09:40] I've never known, I'm just being around in book.
[09:40–09:43] Does it drive a, can I drive a wedge for like,
[09:43–09:45] for longer than that?
[09:45–09:47] I like, I wouldn't even know.
[09:47–09:49] I've never, I've never, like, is it gonna be,
[09:49–09:51] yeah, is it gonna be even worse when,
[09:51–09:53] yeah, I don't know, I've never seen this situation
[09:53–09:55] where like the older sister,
[09:55–09:55] I know.
[09:55–09:56] the younger sister can.
[09:56–09:58] Yeah.
[09:58–09:59] I think you just need to bring it up,
[09:59–10:00] or don't just feel like this,
[10:00–10:02] but like, come at it in a way of like,
[10:02–10:05] not like, fuck your wife, you ask me more about me now,
[10:05–10:08] yeah, life, like it needs to come in a very like,
[10:08–10:10] gentle way, and kind of like,
[10:10–10:13] it would be lovely to have you around a bit more,
[10:13–10:14] and chatty a bit more, come here,
[10:14–10:17] like, and just let her know that you understand
[10:17–10:18] where she's coming from as well,
[10:18–10:20] but you'd like her to understand where you're coming from.
[10:20–10:23] Yeah, and I think as well, like tell her that like,
[10:23–10:26] look, if I'm like, you don't need to be like worried
[10:26–10:27] about hanging around,
[10:27–10:28] because they have seen that scene, sure, as much,
[10:28–10:30] but I'm not going to be talking about it.
[10:30–10:32] Like she'll probably be mindful now when talking to her,
[10:32–10:33] like, not, yeah, I can see that much.
[10:33–10:36] Like, obviously she's hoping the sister will start asking
[10:36–10:37] the things, but like, it's not going to be a thing
[10:37–10:39] where all that's discussed is really important.
[10:39–10:41] Sure, yeah.
[10:41–10:43] And, but that is really hard.
[10:43–10:44] It's hard for you, sister and tear for you as well,
[10:44–10:46] because it's like, jump all sides.
[10:46–10:49] It's good, yeah, so it's a shit situation, really.
[10:49–10:51] And but I think, yeah, speak into her,
[10:51–10:54] and maybe broken on her sandwich,
[10:54–10:55] she'll just come in from as well,
[10:55–10:58] and have a re-open conversation about it.
[10:58–11:00] Just even texting, we're like, I miss you,
[11:00–11:02] I feel like I'm talking to you properly or something.
[11:02–11:03] Yeah.
[11:03–11:04] And see kind of where that leads to.
[11:04–11:06] It doesn't need to be like, you have been there for me.
[11:06–11:07] Yeah, yeah, exactly.
[11:07–11:09] Because your sister sent it, and the day,
[11:09–11:10] like, you're meant to be best friends.
[11:10–11:12] Yeah, oh, three sads.
[11:12–11:14] Thinking of a boat is, yeah, a lot of snow.
[11:14–11:16] Yeah, please let us know.
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[11:22–11:24] so please send us in any bedrooms dilemmas you're having.
[11:24–11:26] And I'm sure these are going to be.
[11:26–11:27] I know.
[11:27–11:29] I'm just, I feel like these will be funny.
[11:29–11:29] Yeah.
[11:29–11:31] And if there's anyone in your life that you think
[11:31–11:32] might be showing red flag,
[11:32–11:34] it could be the smallest thing or the biggest thing,
[11:34–11:35] we will decide what it is.
[11:35–11:37] Yeah, because sometimes red flag will be green.
[11:37–11:39] We're just being the judge's duties.
[11:39–11:41] We're just saying, yeah, no.
[11:41–11:42] What's the thing with it?
[11:42–11:43] What do they say when they smash the hammer?
[11:43–11:44] So I look, yeah.
[11:44–11:47] Oh, is that what it is for?
[11:47–11:48] It's a few other things, I think.
[11:48–11:49] So I was just showing people up.
[11:49–11:50] Is it?
[11:50–11:51] All right, at the end, when they do one,
[11:51–11:53] like, quarter-journed, done.
[11:53–11:54] Yeah, that's like the official dawn.
[11:54–11:55] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[11:55–11:57] Yeah, that's everything for today.
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