EXTRA JUICE: "My boring boyfriend is giving me THE ICK!" #136 — Hold My Drink

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[00:50–00:52] We're going to stop giving it everything.
[00:52–00:57] So we're going to get to get out of here with something that really pissed us off.
[00:57–00:59] Somewhere annoyed at something makes no sense.
[00:59–01:04] First, what a problem or anything that we just want to be annoyed at really.
[01:04–01:05] Mm hmm.
[01:05–01:12] Mine would probably be myself sometimes because I'm really bad.
[01:12–01:17] I always have been at like no, like I can't do something until it needs to be done.
[01:17–01:21] Like until the deadline is literally in one minute, one point two seconds.
[01:21–01:25] Or I have no other time to date to like I have to squash it in somewhere.
[01:25–01:26] Yeah, I'd rather stress myself out.
[01:26–01:27] I'm just going to be honest.
[01:27–01:28] Sorry, I'm going to distract a bit.
[01:28–01:29] Beautiful.
[01:29–01:31] I suddenly get into them and they're like seven or seven.
[01:31–01:32] Oh, they're gorgeous.
[01:32–01:33] Yeah, the sex, I think.
[01:33–01:34] Love.
[01:34–01:36] So like my deadlines.
[01:36–01:39] Yeah, like that in school and cardinal though.
[01:39–01:40] Yeah, yeah.
[01:40–01:44] I can't, I actually physically cannot do someone to it needs to be linked.
[01:44–01:46] There's no other choice but to do it.
[01:46–01:51] Like have you ever gotten something done like like pre need to do it when you feel like?
[01:51–01:52] No.
[01:52–01:53] Doesn't it say?
[01:53–01:55] Doesn't it the same as the last?
[01:55–01:56] I think like the rush.
[01:56–01:59] Yeah, but actually makes it feel sick as well.
[01:59–02:00] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[02:00–02:05] You're getting the adrenaline of like I haven't got this done, but also then that makes me get
[02:05–02:06] done.
[02:06–02:07] Yeah, it's not with a choice.
[02:07–02:09] No, that's what I have to do.
[02:09–02:10] That's okay though.
[02:10–02:12] That's my rent is myself for once.
[02:12–02:13] Is that a bit more?
[02:13–02:14] No one else.
[02:14–02:15] Is this me off?
[02:15–02:16] What are you doing with me?
[02:16–02:17] It doesn't even rain.
[02:17–02:18] I mean, I'm just like.
[02:18–02:19] Yeah, like heavy bet.
[02:19–02:20] No, I feel like I'm going to be sure.
[02:20–02:21] No, sure.
[02:21–02:23] You should be having more productive if I don't.
[02:23–02:24] Things are advanced.
[02:24–02:25] Yeah.
[02:25–02:26] Try not to suck.
[02:26–02:28] I'm doing exactly what last minute.
[02:28–02:30] Ah, last minute, I know.
[02:30–02:31] Later on, fuel or like me.
[02:31–02:32] I need to be more.
[02:32–02:33] Yeah.
[02:33–02:34] Just what every day.
[02:34–02:37] And like I see like like this morning, for instance, when I do my makeup, I got an email
[02:37–02:38] about tax on my car.
[02:38–02:39] Yeah.
[02:39–02:43] Like why didn't I just click that when I came in and do it and do it?
[02:43–02:44] No.
[02:44–02:45] I think I'll wait until the day before it needs to be.
[02:45–02:46] When do you know you'd assume emails?
[02:46–02:47] Yeah, you got an email.
[02:47–02:48] Got a camera for you last.
[02:48–02:49] I mean, I'm fully tired.
[02:49–02:50] I can't run well.
[02:50–02:51] How long does it last for?
[02:51–02:52] I think it's a year.
[02:52–02:53] Is it?
[02:53–02:54] I hope.
[02:54–02:55] Yeah, it's a year.
[02:55–02:56] I remember.
[02:56–02:57] Probably was.
[02:57–02:58] I thought it's surely I'd be getting letters in the door.
[02:58–02:59] I would.
[02:59–03:00] Yeah.
[03:00–03:01] It's not quite a police holiday.
[03:01–03:02] They have like scanner things.
[03:02–03:10] I saw a chick doctor's morning and it was like this girl that she was saying.
[03:10–03:13] Um, this is for on guy to she had a.
[03:13–03:14] And I'm only.
[03:14–03:15] Yeah.
[03:15–03:22] She was like, I'm just basically like proposing the new things when she was like just the next
[03:22–03:23] time you saw you stop a female.
[03:23–03:25] About her tax or insurance.
[03:25–03:29] And she's on her own and it's female.
[03:29–03:33] Whatever she was saying is she was like, just ask them is their father a life.
[03:33–03:38] And she was like, basically, there's no one else in your life who's going to remind you
[03:38–03:40] if your tax or insurance is you accept her father.
[03:40–03:41] And you're dead.
[03:41–03:42] Yeah.
[03:42–03:43] So if you're dead.
[03:43–03:45] I think she was just in the yard.
[03:45–03:46] Okay.
[03:46–03:47] And she was just taking the piss.
[03:47–03:50] She was like, so like give them a little leeway if their dad isn't around like give them a
[03:50–03:51] bit of grace.
[03:51–03:52] So true.
[03:52–03:54] My mom that it was right.
[03:54–03:55] Yeah.
[03:55–03:56] Oh, dad.
[03:56–03:57] My dad wouldn't have a clue.
[03:57–03:58] No, definitely.
[03:58–03:59] I don't know.
[03:59–04:00] A little water and all that.
[04:00–04:01] I've never felt my car.
[04:01–04:02] I was still watering.
[04:02–04:03] I don't know.
[04:03–04:05] Your water tank in the car.
[04:05–04:07] I saw someone use someone secretly.
[04:07–04:08] Fill up.
[04:08–04:09] Not sure.
[04:09–04:10] Do you use it?
[04:10–04:11] No.
[04:11–04:12] I always use my.
[04:12–04:13] No, do I?
[04:13–04:14] It smells but funny.
[04:14–04:17] It's something really strong, hygiene smell.
[04:17–04:19] That could be the little dishwasher thing.
[04:19–04:21] Like, do you ever go to get a valid?
[04:21–04:22] Maybe they pull.
[04:22–04:23] No, maybe.
[04:23–04:24] Water and a.
[04:24–04:25] Yeah.
[04:25–04:26] That could be.
[04:26–04:27] I've done that twice.
[04:27–04:28] Really when I.
[04:28–04:29] Maybe.
[04:29–04:30] I think it's all easy.
[04:30–04:31] Yeah.
[04:31–04:32] I was so watering.
[04:32–04:33] I'm baffled by this.
[04:33–04:34] I don't know.
[04:34–04:35] My weight's all the time.
[04:35–04:36] I got a maybe a thing.
[04:36–04:37] When they when I get a service.
[04:37–04:38] No, because that's only like one year.
[04:38–04:39] Like.
[04:39–04:40] I love to know that night.
[04:40–04:41] Put.
[04:41–04:44] Yeah.
[04:44–04:45] Really.
[04:45–04:46] That can suck.
[04:46–04:47] I forgot.
[04:47–04:49] I forgot.
[04:49–04:50] I took the moment.
[04:50–04:51] Soi put the.
[04:51–04:52] Blood leaf.
[04:52–04:53] 체 art.
[04:53–04:54] I have no.
[04:54–04:55] I've never.
[04:55–04:56] death.
[04:56–04:57] Music it.
[04:57–04:58] 27?
[04:58–04:59] Yes.
[04:59–05:00] Howard go.
[05:00–05:02] Doesn't.
[05:02–05:04] This week's.
[05:04–05:05] The if.
[05:05–05:06] There's ***BŞ like.
[05:06–05:07] You're one of.
[05:07–05:09] I probably did,
[05:09–05:14] Um, entitled people, long story short, Acocetief.
[05:14–05:15] Two.
[05:15–05:16] Wild Teven.
[05:16–05:17] Wild Teven.
[05:17–05:18] And you know what I did?
[05:18–05:20] I rattled on them.
[05:20–05:23] I caught you, he said right.
[05:23–05:24] I echo carbonate.
[05:24–05:27] And I rattled, yeah, because I said you know what?
[05:27–05:30] Why is everybody else here entitled to all that free stuff
[05:30–05:31] you're trying to guess?
[05:31–05:32] Why are you taking the free?
[05:32–05:33] Makeup.
[05:33–05:35] Where?
[05:35–05:36] Airport.
[05:36–05:37] What?
[05:37–05:38] Yes.
[05:38–05:41] Shard of Tilbury to be in fact, and that's something cheap.
[05:41–05:42] What were they?
[05:42–05:43] How were they roaming it?
[05:43–05:44] Self-scanners.
[05:44–05:47] Where's the self-scanners new?
[05:47–05:49] Self-scanners near for us.
[05:49–05:51] In, yeah, in Tenerife Airport.
[05:51–05:52] Oh Tenerife, sorry, sorry.
[05:52–05:53] Way home.
[05:53–05:56] Where do they get they don't stop scant?
[05:56–05:59] They just say to do scant them, which was baffling to me.
[05:59–06:02] They were nice with something they before and they seemed like lovely women.
[06:02–06:03] Oh, you're living.
[06:03–06:04] Oh, there are.
[06:04–06:05] Like, no, where are you?
[06:05–06:07] Oh, I'm just like,
[06:07–06:09] but you'd they run your flight.
[06:09–06:10] No, the one time I found out.
[06:10–06:11] Oh, sorry.
[06:11–06:12] There was a airport.
[06:12–06:13] I'm not going to the day before.
[06:13–06:15] Oh, in Tenerife, like, sorry, I thought they're in concert.
[06:15–06:17] No, no, no, definitely gonna hear them.
[06:17–06:21] No, I'm just like, that's gonna fall back on the man who was working on the desk.
[06:21–06:22] I know.
[06:22–06:25] That might have to then come out with somebody else's pocket or like, you know what I mean?
[06:25–06:26] Yeah.
[06:26–06:28] No, not saying like, what were they doing?
[06:28–06:29] They were fake scanners.
[06:29–06:30] They were scanners.
[06:30–06:32] They were both on two different scanners.
[06:32–06:33] Okay, so they had separated.
[06:33–06:34] Yeah.
[06:34–06:35] Judgy, real number one.
[06:35–06:37] If you're gonna teeth don't separate.
[06:37–06:38] No, just go alone.
[06:38–06:39] I'm peev alone.
[06:39–06:41] Oh, but they were two separate scanners.
[06:41–06:43] And me and Quibba were waiting to go next onto the scanners.
[06:43–06:44] They were really, really busy.
[06:44–06:46] And there was just one man working there, like, running around.
[06:46–06:48] The other way they have to always fucking type in.
[06:48–06:49] Yeah.
[06:49–06:50] They're very far away with them.
[06:50–06:52] And one girl had scans.
[06:52–06:53] Something.
[06:53–06:55] And I looked at the screen and it was like the flawless filters.
[06:55–06:57] Already for like, quite a few.
[06:57–06:58] Yeah.
[06:58–07:03] She had someone that she had scanned it and just walks away from it.
[07:03–07:07] So it was just still on the screen, still on the part where you click like card or cash or whatever.
[07:07–07:11] I think it was on the card, but actually, like she just scanned it and walks up to her friend.
[07:11–07:15] So because me and Quibba were next in line, I went to say, right, Quibba, you go use that one.
[07:15–07:16] Yeah.
[07:16–07:18] Obviously she couldn't because there's an, I used them on it.
[07:18–07:19] Like, it's not ready for the person.
[07:19–07:20] Yeah.
[07:20–07:21] Yeah.
[07:21–07:22] Yeah.
[07:22–07:24] And I said to Quibba, they were trying to chase them.
[07:24–07:25] She goes, fuck off.
[07:25–07:26] I don't know.
[07:26–07:27] Yeah.
[07:27–07:30] The other one then had scanned way more stuff.
[07:30–07:33] And they were just boat up further away one.
[07:33–07:35] And they both just walked away.
[07:35–07:37] They just both walks away.
[07:37–07:40] And your man, it was I turned to use those ones.
[07:40–07:42] Then exactly one thing because they're still funny.
[07:42–07:47] So me and Quibba, me and Quibba goes, sorry, they never paid for them.
[07:47–07:48] And your man goes, where are they?
[07:48–07:50] And Quibba goes round their to the left.
[07:50–07:52] And he ran after them and got them.
[07:52–07:54] Girls, come back, come back.
[07:54–07:55] You have to pay for them.
[07:55–07:56] Pay for them.
[07:56–07:59] And the children came back and they were saying, that's so weird.
[07:59–08:02] That's so weird that both their cards didn't work.
[08:02–08:04] You never even tried.
[08:04–08:06] You didn't even press check out.
[08:06–08:09] No, but they put them in bags and all into walk away.
[08:09–08:13] And I'm like, on one hand, I'm like, no, actually, I was going to say on one hand, I'm like,
[08:13–08:14] farewell.
[08:14–08:16] So if you have the confidence to do that, like, do you know what I mean?
[08:16–08:17] No, I'm not.
[08:17–08:18] I'm just a break.
[08:18–08:19] Yeah.
[08:19–08:20] She is definitely so little to talk to her when I was younger.
[08:20–08:22] And I probably still carry that girls with me.
[08:22–08:23] Yeah.
[08:23–08:24] Well, I'm just like, that's not fair, Ron.
[08:24–08:25] I know.
[08:25–08:26] On everyone else.
[08:26–08:27] Yeah.
[08:27–08:28] I'm just like, oh, I'm a little sad.
[08:28–08:30] That man could have probably had to pay for them.
[08:30–08:31] I don't know what we are.
[08:31–08:33] But they probably would have gone under his, that's his shift.
[08:33–08:34] And this stuff was robbed.
[08:34–08:35] And I paid for it.
[08:35–08:37] And I was just like, oh, oh, oh.
[08:37–08:39] So, did you tell them?
[08:39–08:40] Yeah.
[08:40–08:41] Oh, my god.
[08:41–08:42] Am I going to get in trouble for this?
[08:42–08:43] No.
[08:43–08:44] You know what?
[08:44–08:46] I give them the benefit of this.
[08:46–08:48] Maybe their cards actually didn't work.
[08:48–08:50] They were allegedly trying to steal.
[08:50–08:51] Allegedly.
[08:51–08:52] Yeah.
[08:52–08:53] Allegedly.
[08:53–08:56] So maybe there was genuinely a problem with the machine and it didn't scan their cards.
[08:57–08:58] In my case, sorry.
[08:58–08:59] Yeah.
[08:59–09:00] They were allegedly entitled.
[09:00–09:04] to yaking and not entitled to free some.
[09:04–09:05] Just not nice.
[09:05–09:07] No, I just don't like meany bobe, you know.
[09:07–09:10] I never so Latin as part of my friend,
[09:10–09:10] my friend says when I was young,
[09:10–09:13] she had this fake two-year coin in her fake cash answer.
[09:13–09:15] And you still, and I really wanted it.
[09:15–09:17] And I felt sick.
[09:17–09:19] Like, we were, I'm a good, I couldn't sleep.
[09:19–09:20] No, I think I definitely do.
[09:20–09:21] That's a choice.
[09:21–09:23] I never had, I think that was only one thing
[09:23–09:24] that I would never do.
[09:24–09:27] I think when I'm old, I'm like, oh, lady.
[09:27–09:28] You don't have more balls to do with them.
[09:28–09:31] I think I'll just do it for like, if you're bored.
[09:31–09:32] If I'm like, eight, you ruffery.
[09:32–09:34] Yeah, if I'm eight, you go around.
[09:34–09:35] Not much to do.
[09:35–09:36] I probably will.
[09:36–09:37] Yeah, yeah.
[09:37–09:38] Still a few talk about it.
[09:38–09:39] See how much you get away.
[09:39–09:40] See how much you owe, hey.
[09:40–09:41] Oh, sorry.
[09:41–09:43] What I actually think of as fictional robbers and all.
[09:43–09:44] Let's just say, hey.
[09:44–09:45] No, it's hell.
[09:45–09:47] I know.
[09:47–09:47] Hell.
[09:47–09:48] It's crazy.
[09:48–09:49] I'd be terrified.
[09:49–09:50] Yeah.
[09:50–09:51] Yeah.
[09:51–09:52] I had someone on the street three days
[09:52–09:54] trying to sell me, yeah.
[09:54–09:55] Skincare.
[09:55–09:56] Oh, yeah.
[09:57–09:59] What's a nice skincare though?
[09:59–10:00] Sorry.
[10:00–10:01] But it was so surprised.
[10:01–10:03] Most definitely.
[10:03–10:04] Oh, definitely.
[10:04–10:06] Yeah, definitely.
[10:06–10:09] Yeah, so that's my alleged annoying rant of the week.
[10:09–10:10] Yeah, that is annoying.
[10:10–10:13] I hate to type people in any way as well.
[10:13–10:14] I know.
[10:14–10:15] Stop robbing.
[10:15–10:16] Just not nice.
[10:16–10:18] We are a solid deer.
[10:18–10:21] Yeah.
[10:21–10:24] We just feel fake to your coins from friend cash register.
[10:27–10:29] Um, we have a second color.
[10:29–10:31] I was you so we get to be very honest and raw advice.
[10:31–10:34] But what we do if we were you in your situation,
[10:34–10:36] we can't sit on the fence and give you some babies
[10:36–10:38] or if you have to tell exactly what we feel.
[10:38–10:39] These are all sent into our email address.
[10:39–10:40] Home I drink a girl.
[10:40–10:41] Learn now calm.
[10:41–10:45] And this is today's so I'm 21 and having doubts
[10:45–10:46] about my boyfriend three years.
[10:46–10:48] I've been getting these feelings that I want to be single
[10:48–10:49] and that we're here many more.
[10:49–10:50] He's the absolute best.
[10:50–10:52] But I feel I want what I can't have.
[10:52–10:54] We never go on that date night.
[10:54–10:55] So I even do a poor bonus of the party.
[10:55–10:57] I'm always up for a night out.
[10:57–10:58] I love getting dressed up like any girl.
[10:58–11:00] Well, he has no interest.
[11:00–11:02] I'm a big foodie and love going to new restaurants.
[11:02–11:04] Well, he won't go or if we order food,
[11:04–11:05] he only orders chips.
[11:05–11:06] He's not a vegan or anything.
[11:06–11:09] He just won't eat anything else and it's starting to give me the egg.
[11:09–11:10] Carrot.
[11:10–11:11] I'm joking.
[11:11–11:12] Carrot.
[11:12–11:14] You're just not even that bad.
[11:14–11:15] No, yeah, I care.
[11:15–11:16] My venture off.
[11:16–11:16] Yes.
[11:16–11:17] You get chicken.
[11:17–11:18] Yeah.
[11:18–11:20] We do go in hot lives and weekends.
[11:20–11:23] The odd time, but that's me booking and saying stay at home.
[11:23–11:24] You don't want to come.
[11:25–11:27] I feel like we have to stop myself living and enjoying life.
[11:27–11:29] But if I leave him, I have nobody.
[11:29–11:31] I distance myself from all my girlfriends when I got with him,
[11:31–11:33] which is my biggest regret.
[11:33–11:35] I also have three hours away from home for college
[11:35–11:37] and I feel I've no friend to ask her for advice
[11:37–11:39] or talk to you, order them him.
[11:39–11:42] I rely on him so much to do things with like going out and stuff.
[11:42–11:45] If you just want to, I can't because of no one else to ask.
[11:45–11:47] I often find my mom saying that I can get better
[11:47–11:49] and my brother is saying it's time to move on.
[11:49–11:52] I'd love to get ready at the weekend, go on for date nights,
[11:52–11:54] but you can just sit at the local for a drink,
[11:54–11:56] but it's always on his terms when he wants to,
[11:56–11:59] which is never all there then a quiet drink with the boys.
[11:59–12:00] I really don't know what to do.
[12:00–12:02] I might just be in dramatic and want
[12:02–12:04] and what I can't have or should I leave.
[12:04–12:05] I feel if I leave, I'll never find someone.
[12:05–12:07] He always comes to mind, which I don't mind.
[12:07–12:09] I'd love to have to go to his house,
[12:09–12:10] but I just don't feel comfortable.
[12:10–12:13] I'd say in three years, I've been to his maxed 10 times.
[12:13–12:15] He doesn't talk to his dad and his sister,
[12:15–12:17] who's the same age as me.
[12:17–12:18] And I only spoke to me a handful of times,
[12:18–12:20] so I find it awkward there.
[12:20–12:21] His mom and brother make an effort,
[12:21–12:22] but I just don't feel comfortable in the house.
[12:22–12:24] And he finds that hard to get.
[12:24–12:25] I'm a big family girl and dormant family,
[12:25–12:27] as we are also close.
[12:27–12:28] I really don't know what to do, girls.
[12:28–12:31] If I leave on my own, I've no one to text me or with.
[12:31–12:33] I find our questions sometimes as to why I have no friends,
[12:33–12:36] because all I do is try to do is please people.
[12:36–12:38] I think you're saying it yourself,
[12:38–12:40] girl, you're a people, please.
[12:40–12:42] And who's getting hurt in this?
[12:42–12:43] You.
[12:43–12:45] You can't say with someone just because,
[12:45–12:48] as scary as the thought of being alone,
[12:48–12:50] you can't be like, I'm depressed in this,
[12:50–12:51] but I can't be myself.
[12:51–12:53] Yeah, I'd rather be depressed in a relationship
[12:53–12:55] than happy and alone.
[12:55–12:55] Yeah, what I'd pick.
[12:55–12:57] Yeah, happy.
[12:57–12:59] There's nothing wrong with your own company
[12:59–13:01] or I get it scary to feel alone,
[13:01–13:04] but you'll always end up meeting a friend
[13:04–13:07] or you'll always have somebody to call or vent to.
[13:07–13:09] Yeah, I mean, and even if it is,
[13:09–13:12] let me shout your old friends and saying,
[13:12–13:14] I booked up, sorry, friends up.
[13:14–13:17] Yeah, I distance myself, but I'm, I don't like,
[13:17–13:18] you don't want them to be like,
[13:18–13:20] I should crawl back now either.
[13:20–13:22] So maybe like, I don't know,
[13:22–13:24] is there other friends that can even reach out as well?
[13:24–13:25] First.
[13:27–13:28] And like as well though, you could like,
[13:28–13:30] as well as crawl back to interior,
[13:30–13:31] you just be like, look,
[13:31–13:33] it is my biggest regret everything for a long time.
[13:33–13:36] It's not just because we are in and now,
[13:36–13:38] it's just as I was in something that I've been thinking about.
[13:38–13:39] Thinking about him.
[13:40–13:42] He sounds boring.
[13:42–13:44] He sounds like, I did watch her,
[13:44–13:47] you go check out actually, he's 21, why aren't, yeah.
[13:47–13:49] Why are that is that age like so boring?
[13:49–13:52] Yeah, she's having video actually about that.
[13:52–13:53] Yeah, yeah.
[13:53–13:54] That people don't drink.
[13:54–13:55] They were giving out what we're saying.
[13:55–13:58] Like, we don't have your income.
[13:58–13:59] She was like, I literally sobering
[13:59–14:00] like, I'm into the light look.
[14:00–14:01] That's what I mean.
[14:01–14:02] And like, you have in your own ways around things.
[14:02–14:04] I think it's just the, like,
[14:04–14:06] not, sorry, I've called him more important,
[14:06–14:09] but I think the cultures are just different now
[14:09–14:12] that there's no, like, it's very different when we grew up.
[14:12–14:14] There's no, you like club scouting.
[14:14–14:15] I know, yeah.
[14:15–14:16] I don't know where to show.
[14:16–14:17] Like, that's the one thing,
[14:17–14:21] but also everyone's very just, I don't know, healthy.
[14:21–14:23] I don't know, it's a healthy thing.
[14:23–14:24] I even know, I think it's just,
[14:25–14:27] who would have been me where something like,
[14:27–14:28] we don't need to drink.
[14:28–14:30] We're all like in a field.
[14:30–14:33] No, I mean, there's a fairer old days.
[14:33–14:34] Oh no.
[14:34–14:35] Like, everybody needs that.
[14:35–14:36] And you're like, you need that phase.
[14:36–14:37] I feel like.
[14:37–14:38] You're half to not saying everyone needs to,
[14:38–14:42] not even drinking, like, just to go out and go out.
[14:42–14:44] Like, it's like they don't even go out.
[14:44–14:45] Like, leave your house.
[14:45–14:46] Yeah.
[14:46–14:47] Yeah.
[14:47–14:48] Like, you can go on night out.
[14:48–14:49] Yeah.
[14:49–14:49] Won't hurt.
[14:49–14:50] Yeah.
[14:50–14:52] This family sounds like he's just not even bothering anymore.
[14:52–14:55] I feel like in his head, he's not even like,
[14:55–14:56] in a relationship.
[14:56–14:57] He's just being sure just there.
[14:57–14:58] Yeah.
[14:58–15:00] Like, tonight, you can go to the local pool.
[15:00–15:01] Yeah.
[15:01–15:02] No date nights at all.
[15:02–15:04] That's not a relationship then.
[15:04–15:05] I knew together three years,
[15:05–15:06] and he haven't even two cents ten times.
[15:06–15:07] That's scary.
[15:07–15:08] That's scary.
[15:08–15:09] You need to date your parent
[15:09–15:10] and ever the rest of your life.
[15:10–15:11] Yeah.
[15:11–15:15] You always had, like, you need to constantly date each other.
[15:15–15:16] Yeah.
[15:16–15:17] Grangers' section, it's a can't wait to date the whole of you.
[15:17–15:18] Oh.
[15:18–15:19] It's big, yeah.
[15:19–15:20] Yeah.
[15:20–15:22] Half of that though.
[15:22–15:24] Like, how do you job with what are you then just?
[15:24–15:25] Empower friend.
[15:25–15:26] Yeah, mate.
[15:26–15:27] Yeah.
[15:27–15:28] But he made states.
[15:28–15:30] So it's like, yeah.
[15:30–15:31] You need to make effort with things like that.
[15:31–15:34] If he's not doing that, I don't like it as a means.
[15:34–15:35] Does it love you about anything?
[15:35–15:36] He's just not asked.
[15:36–15:37] He thinks he's asking you there.
[15:37–15:38] It's a boy with a mother.
[15:38–15:42] He sounds very comfortable that he's just like, don't need to put any effort in.
[15:42–15:43] Far too long.
[15:43–15:44] He'll always be there.
[15:44–15:45] I don't know.
[15:45–15:47] Maybe like it is a thing about breaking up with him.
[15:47–15:49] Maybe he'd be like, shock shit.
[15:49–15:50] Yeah.
[15:50–15:53] It might turn around to be that because he doesn't seem like a bad person.
[15:53–15:55] Just that he's really settled and really bored.
[15:55–15:56] Like he might be a nice boyfriend.
[15:56–15:59] And I think the hosting as well.
[15:59–16:01] Like an assistant not talking to you.
[16:01–16:02] It's the same age.
[16:02–16:03] It's just so weird.
[16:03–16:04] Is it a strange thing?
[16:04–16:05] Isn't it?
[16:05–16:06] I feel like if I...
[16:06–16:07] How do you know it?
[16:07–16:08] I'm like, you're brother.
[16:08–16:09] Yeah.
[16:09–16:14] I feel like if I was that sister and my brother had a girlfriend.
[16:14–16:15] Like, oh my god.
[16:15–16:16] Friends.
[16:16–16:17] Yeah.
[16:17–16:18] No, when girls are like that.
[16:18–16:19] I think it's...
[16:19–16:20] I'm like, there's an issue.
[16:20–16:23] When the girl of the brother, like you.
[16:23–16:24] Yeah.
[16:24–16:25] You've had fear when I...
[16:25–16:26] Oh yeah.
[16:26–16:27] Okay.
[16:27–16:29] Unless you've done so bad, when she hasn't.
[16:29–16:31] There's no reason why the boy doesn't talk to you.
[16:31–16:32] Like, never.
[16:32–16:33] She's literally your age.
[16:33–16:34] Literally your age.
[16:34–16:37] Oh, I think you need to wash her hands with this situation.
[16:37–16:38] Yeah.
[16:38–16:39] It sounds like a pain in God.
[16:39–16:40] It does.
[16:40–16:41] It does.
[16:41–16:42] I'm really, really draining.
[16:42–16:43] I don't have...
[16:43–16:45] Obviously, you said you have no one.
[16:45–16:46] Like you don't have him.
[16:46–16:47] But like, what even is he...
[16:47–16:48] What's he...
[16:48–16:49] Yeah.
[16:49–16:50] He's giving you nothing.
[16:50–16:51] He's giving you something.
[16:51–16:52] He's giving you something.
[16:52–16:53] Call some company.
[16:53–16:54] But you can...
[16:54–16:55] Do that.
[16:55–16:56] Give that to yourself.
[16:56–16:57] Honestly, rather than braabbling it out with someone.
[16:57–16:58] Yeah.
[16:58–16:59] I think he needs to go in the bin.
[16:59–17:00] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[17:00–17:01] Having said that in the one.
[17:01–17:02] Yeah.
[17:02–17:03] Yeah.
[17:03–17:04] Yeah.
[17:04–17:05] You need to move them.
[17:05–17:06] Click them off.
[17:06–17:07] No, I don't like him.
[17:07–17:10] So, last week we had a power up about last week's dilemma.
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