Worst Dates: A&E, Threesomes and a €250 dinner bill #137 — Hold My Drink

[00:00–00:02] Go light.
[00:13–00:16] There's definitely a worst day, but I was the problem.
[00:16–00:22] The man ran away from me, came with a friend and asked for a threesome.
[00:22–00:22] Fair play to him.
[00:22–00:24] I feel like giving him a pat.
[00:24–00:25] No.
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[01:02–01:06] And this week's episode of Helmo Drinkle we talked about worst dates.
[01:06–01:10] So we had a good few interesting dates come in.
[01:10–01:10] Yep.
[01:10–01:14] Men running away which was actually our own one of our own stories.
[01:14–01:15] Yep.
[01:15–01:17] Places of dates that were a bit bizarre.
[01:17–01:20] Men split and mass and split the bill when the bill was at you 24 year old.
[01:20–01:20] Yep.
[01:20–01:21] To begin with.
[01:21–01:25] Bring in an extra partner on the date and ask them for a threesome.
[01:25–01:25] Happy days.
[01:25–01:26] Yeah.
[01:26–01:27] We love that.
[01:27–01:28] Groundhiz Ruby game.
[01:28–01:33] He played shit and broke his nose and went to Aini and the rest was Helia in the episode.
[01:33–01:40] We also had a dilemma about a girl who's got pregnant and she is only seeing the guy six months.
[01:40–01:43] That's still quite fresh and he's asking for it to be an A test.
[01:43–01:44] How do you feel about it?
[01:44–01:44] How do we feel?
[01:44–01:46] And of course I peak and big the week.
[01:46–01:47] I beat their my birthday.
[01:47–01:48] Yay.
[01:48–01:49] Briss.
[01:49–01:50] Yeah.
[01:50–01:50] And the rest.
[01:50–01:51] So enjoy.
[01:52–01:53] I'm just back from my beat.
[01:53–01:54] Yeah, how you feeling chick?
[01:54–01:55] Tired.
[01:55–01:56] Tired.
[01:56–02:00] Well, I'm also happy that I'm up and I feel like I would just spend all day in bed.
[02:00–02:01] It's your way, I love it for that.
[02:01–02:02] I would literally be like, no.
[02:02–02:05] Like last week when I said to you, I was like, no, are you sure?
[02:05–02:08] You don't mind coming in like the next morning on your back and all your like, yeah, no, it's
[02:08–02:09] ground.
[02:09–02:11] I'd be like, not a whole, how dare you even that.
[02:11–02:13] No way.
[02:13–02:15] See, it's been the whole day, yes, say, with the hangover.
[02:15–02:21] With the hangover and like I had my flight was at the half 10 and I so it was so too long.
[02:21–02:22] Yeah, so late.
[02:22–02:23] So long.
[02:23–02:27] But I just spent the whole day at the pool had to do content for a brand and then I actually
[02:27–02:29] was feeling rough and then I got a cold shower.
[02:29–02:30] Love it.
[02:30–02:31] It was actually in the content of the cold shower.
[02:31–02:33] But like then I felt like a new woman.
[02:33–02:35] Yeah, the new lease like really.
[02:35–02:36] Do you ever wake up from an oven?
[02:36–02:39] You're like, I just want to go swim and I just want to be in a body of war and that's
[02:39–02:39] fixed.
[02:39–02:40] Yeah, it really does.
[02:40–02:41] It really worked.
[02:41–02:47] Like and then I had some sushi and green juice and gotten to my airport clothes.
[02:47–02:49] I think that I'm in the airport with Jasmine.
[02:49–02:54] So she was flying earlier than me so I was in the airport for a total of six hours and
[02:54–02:56] sitting around to charge my phone.
[02:56–02:59] Everything just seemed like such a big task because I had to put some of my suitcase and
[02:59–03:01] I was just sitting there looking and I was like, I can't do it.
[03:01–03:02] I was like, what?
[03:02–03:03] Like, I don't know.
[03:03–03:06] Just it was a major big full set of everything I was doing.
[03:06–03:07] Don't take me two seconds.
[03:07–03:07] No.
[03:07–03:10] I just had a transfer of one thing into my suitcase and you forgot to book your flight.
[03:10–03:11] I had to book my home.
[03:11–03:11] Yeah.
[03:11–03:14] Went to check in two days before which I never do.
[03:14–03:16] So I feel like I must have had a something told you.
[03:16–03:17] Something was said.
[03:17–03:19] I don't know why I was like, I'll just be on top of this.
[03:19–03:22] And I wanted to get a nice seat for the plane because I wanted them straight out and
[03:22–03:23] sleep.
[03:23–03:24] So I went to go on.
[03:24–03:26] I was like, where's the return flight?
[03:26–03:27] It's not there.
[03:27–03:31] And I had in my head it was the half-10 flight and it just didn't book it.
[03:31–03:32] I don't know.
[03:32–03:35] At the time I was booking now I remember I only booked the flight going over.
[03:35–03:36] I didn't know what day we were coming back up.
[03:36–03:37] Yeah.
[03:37–03:39] So I had to book it last minute.
[03:39–03:40] Actually wasn't that expensive.
[03:40–03:40] I was going to say I'm going to check on it.
[03:40–03:42] I think it would have been the same.
[03:42–03:42] Really?
[03:42–03:42] Yeah.
[03:42–03:45] Before cases and all it was 170.
[03:45–03:46] That's not it.
[03:46–03:46] We're over the next day.
[03:46–03:48] For the next day flight.
[03:48–03:48] Yeah.
[03:48–03:49] She was about sold out.
[03:49–03:52] So if they both had them sold out I wouldn't have.
[03:52–03:52] Yeah.
[03:52–03:53] I think the one sold out was the time.
[03:53–03:54] People don't like flying the time.
[03:54–03:55] That's not true.
[03:55–03:55] Yeah.
[03:55–03:57] Waiting to let them time at night.
[03:57–03:58] It's herb and so that's.
[03:58–04:00] Seven of the first hour.
[04:00–04:01] I had headphones on.
[04:01–04:02] She's had a neck pillow.
[04:02–04:05] I'm asked why didn't they report for 18 euro.
[04:05–04:07] And but a front row scene.
[04:07–04:08] I was like, this good night playing.
[04:08–04:10] But I didn't do it.
[04:10–04:12] But yeah, it's a really good trip.
[04:12–04:12] Yeah.
[04:12–04:12] Yeah.
[04:12–04:14] Passion looked so good.
[04:14–04:15] Passion was so good.
[04:15–04:15] Passion.
[04:15–04:17] And glitter boxes so good.
[04:17–04:18] I've never been to glitter box.
[04:18–04:19] Have I?
[04:19–04:20] No.
[04:20–04:20] No.
[04:20–04:21] Why?
[04:21–04:23] So we don't miss it or is it?
[04:23–04:23] Yeah.
[04:23–04:24] We do.
[04:24–04:25] We don't end up going because you have to ocean
[04:25–04:28] and then get like to drunk and then
[04:28–04:29] cat beer.
[04:29–04:29] Yeah.
[04:29–04:31] I don't know why but like I'm never
[04:31–04:31] pretty.
[04:31–04:32] I was pretty drunk.
[04:32–04:33] I was pretty oceaned by so into glitter box.
[04:33–04:34] But it was so good.
[04:34–04:36] The music is like disco music.
[04:36–04:37] Oh my.
[04:37–04:39] It's not like heavy track.
[04:39–04:39] Well, yeah.
[04:39–04:39] Yeah.
[04:39–04:40] Like hang on.
[04:40–04:40] I play a clip.
[04:40–04:41] Yeah.
[04:41–04:43] Give us a little taste or there.
[04:43–04:44] Because I can't think of something
[04:44–04:45] I had but when you see.
[04:46–04:48] And then the bathrooms in high where they play
[04:48–04:50] and don't you want me baby.
[04:50–04:51] Oh, no.
[04:51–04:52] Don't you love why?
[04:52–04:53] I don't know.
[04:53–04:53] Where is this?
[04:55–04:56] Oh.
[04:56–04:59] I like that.
[04:59–05:00] Yeah, not when it's really heavy.
[05:01–05:04] That was asked 521 AM in the morning.
[05:04–05:04] Love it.
[05:04–05:05] But yeah, it's all them songs.
[05:05–05:06] The venues are not that we'd be there.
[05:06–05:07] Would highly recommend.
[05:07–05:09] Apparently just seeing us as well
[05:09–05:10] is going to be gone next year.
[05:10–05:10] Oh, why?
[05:10–05:12] Someone told me to be the soul.
[05:12–05:13] And...
[05:13–05:14] I think the whole hotel.
[05:14–05:15] No, I'm like...
[05:15–05:16] Yeah, so it's going to be different.
[05:16–05:17] The venue won't be there.
[05:17–05:19] Like for the for music on.
[05:19–05:20] Oh, yeah.
[05:20–05:21] It was very hot this year though.
[05:21–05:22] Yeah, very hot.
[05:22–05:25] Like just a million degrees.
[05:25–05:26] Met a few of the birds.
[05:26–05:27] The little pot.
[05:27–05:28] Yeah.
[05:28–05:28] Oh.
[05:28–05:29] The ocean.
[05:29–05:30] And...
[05:30–05:31] Yeah.
[05:31–05:32] It's such a good time.
[05:32–05:33] Can I beat this one?
[05:33–05:34] I'm holding it the entire day afterwards.
[05:34–05:35] So a chill?
[05:35–05:35] A lot of fun.
[05:35–05:37] It's just not like you're just so...
[05:37–05:39] I just feel like I wasn't even chill and ever.
[05:39–05:40] Like I was on obviously in this one.
[05:40–05:41] No, but you're not really on the phone.
[05:41–05:42] And then when you're getting ready
[05:42–05:42] and not on the phone,
[05:42–05:44] I feel like I just haven't called.
[05:44–05:45] Yeah, on everything.
[05:45–05:46] Very out of the blue.
[05:46–05:47] I don't know.
[05:47–05:49] I don't know any current affairs the last five days.
[05:49–05:50] I don't either though.
[05:50–05:51] And I've just been at home.
[05:51–05:52] Yeah.
[05:52–05:52] But like...
[05:52–05:54] I need to go upstairs to the music.
[05:54–05:54] Yeah.
[05:54–05:55] To the music.
[05:55–05:56] Yeah.
[05:56–05:57] Have you seen that?
[05:57–05:58] Check stuff.
[05:58–06:00] It's like very demure.
[06:00–06:00] No.
[06:00–06:02] It's just trend now.
[06:02–06:03] I don't know why.
[06:03–06:04] What does demure mean?
[06:04–06:06] I think demure means like...
[06:06–06:06] Why?
[06:06–06:07] I'm going to look a little flashy.
[06:07–06:08] I'm pretty sure...
[06:08–06:10] Well, from what I understand,
[06:10–06:12] I think demure means like classy.
[06:12–06:13] Oh, yeah, okay.
[06:13–06:14] And...
[06:14–06:15] And holds themselves well.
[06:15–06:16] Yeah.
[06:16–06:16] I think I do.
[06:16–06:18] Reserved, modest and shy.
[06:18–06:19] Oh, yeah.
[06:19–06:20] Tip it.
[06:20–06:20] Yeah.
[06:20–06:20] Yeah.
[06:20–06:21] Typically used
[06:21–06:23] of a woman, a demure young lady.
[06:23–06:24] So why is it a trend?
[06:24–06:25] This show...
[06:25–06:27] I was saying it and then there not be
[06:27–06:28] an end demure in the videos.
[06:28–06:28] Kindly.
[06:28–06:29] Yeah.
[06:29–06:29] So like there was...
[06:29–06:31] It was one that I saw and it was this person
[06:31–06:33] smoking like a cigarette and they were like...
[06:33–06:35] You see how I'm smoking this cigarette?
[06:35–06:37] Very demure.
[06:37–06:39] I don't flick my ash on the ground.
[06:39–06:40] I flick it in the ash.
[06:40–06:40] Sure.
[06:40–06:41] Or like...
[06:41–06:43] There be doing something that's just like...
[06:43–06:44] It's this.
[06:44–06:45] Jewels Lebron.
[06:45–06:47] The real classy, real classy.
[06:47–06:48] Demure.
[06:48–06:49] Oh, they're all using that sound.
[06:49–06:51] I'm not like these other girls.
[06:51–06:52] I'm not like these other girls.
[06:52–06:53] Yeah, it's all about like...
[06:53–06:54] I'm not like these other girls.
[06:54–06:54] I'm a loser.
[06:54–06:55] Yeah, yeah.
[06:55–06:57] Everything I do is self-demure.
[06:57–06:58] To people are just taking that now and like...
[06:58–06:59] I'm running with it.
[06:59–07:00] Yeah, running with it and...
[07:00–07:02] Attaching it to everything.
[07:02–07:04] But it still fits not demure.
[07:04–07:04] Kindly, yeah.
[07:04–07:06] There'd be like just mess in the middle.
[07:06–07:07] To be a bit more demure.
[07:07–07:08] Demure.
[07:08–07:08] Why are you reserved?
[07:08–07:10] I'm definitely not like that.
[07:10–07:10] No.
[07:10–07:11] Wish I was.
[07:11–07:12] I know I'm saying.
[07:12–07:12] But definitely not.
[07:12–07:14] I would love to be...
[07:14–07:15] When the people who is mysterious
[07:15–07:17] on social media about unfortunate share my whole life.
[07:18–07:19] Forging I can't be mysterious.
[07:19–07:20] I can.
[07:20–07:21] But then again, on the other hand,
[07:21–07:22] like some of you who's...
[07:22–07:24] Like even people who are popping into my head now
[07:24–07:25] are a bit mysterious.
[07:25–07:27] You find a hard to kind of connect with them
[07:27–07:29] or like find them personable like you.
[07:29–07:30] Like, so to me to be...
[07:30–07:31] Yeah.
[07:31–07:32] I mean, no, I'm thinking more like the average...
[07:32–07:33] Do you ever like follow people
[07:33–07:35] that you kind of know of them whenever and you're like,
[07:35–07:36] what is going on?
[07:36–07:37] Yeah.
[07:37–07:38] Yeah, I mean.
[07:38–07:39] I'm sure...
[07:39–07:40] And like you're like...
[07:40–07:41] You're flying too, right?
[07:41–07:42] Yeah, like...
[07:42–07:43] Who's your one?
[07:43–07:44] Is it Tammy or something?
[07:44–07:45] No, no, no.
[07:45–07:47] It's your one out of fucking twilight.
[07:47–07:48] I'm talking about Bella.
[07:48–07:48] Bella.
[07:48–07:49] Do you ever see people sharing videos
[07:49–07:51] of when they were younger?
[07:51–07:52] And they were like, uh...
[07:52–07:54] Her white heart, I was Bella, whatever her name is.
[07:54–07:55] And when they thought there was a gun
[07:55–07:57] made like a vampire in there.
[07:57–07:58] And they just find them.
[08:00–08:03] I definitely don't like sang in like the oils
[08:03–08:05] of the supermarket trying to get discovered.
[08:05–08:07] Pink and like you're the main character.
[08:07–08:07] Yeah.
[08:07–08:09] Obviously someone's gonna sign me.
[08:09–08:10] I'm 10 years old.
[08:10–08:11] Obviously.
[08:11–08:12] It is super accurate.
[08:12–08:14] No, but do you ever get like to add a concert?
[08:14–08:14] I definitely do.
[08:14–08:15] When I was a teacher at the paper and I was like,
[08:15–08:17] he's looking directly at me.
[08:17–08:17] Do you ever see the memes?
[08:17–08:19] And it's like when you shave for a
[08:19–08:20] undergraduate concert,
[08:20–08:21] when you're like, fucking...
[08:21–08:22] You're a forte, or something like that?
[08:22–08:23] Yeah, yeah.
[08:23–08:24] You think that you can...
[08:24–08:25] All these people...
[08:25–08:27] He's gonna see me...
[08:27–08:27] Pick me.
[08:27–08:28] Yeah, pick me.
[08:28–08:30] Yeah, right.
[08:30–08:32] Do you reckon they actually see even faces at a concert?
[08:32–08:33] Yeah.
[08:33–08:35] And like I tell you, for a few people in front of them,
[08:35–08:36] like...
[08:36–08:37] Definitely.
[08:37–08:38] We went to some paper years ago
[08:39–08:40] and we queued up all day,
[08:40–08:42] try to get to the front and we got to the front.
[08:42–08:43] And it was too squished,
[08:43–08:45] we had to leave before we even came out.
[08:45–08:46] So yeah, I don't think we're mad.
[08:46–08:47] For the...
[08:47–08:48] Yeah.
[08:48–08:48] Like if someone else,
[08:48–08:49] you'd be alright,
[08:49–08:51] but people were like squishing every time
[08:51–08:52] they even thought he was coming on.
[08:52–08:53] I can't tell you what you're doing.
[08:53–08:53] I can't tell you what you're doing.
[08:53–08:54] It was random.
[08:54–08:55] It was the incredible park.
[08:55–08:56] No, it was three real.
[08:56–08:58] He was outdoors for something.
[08:58–09:00] And I brought my sister.
[09:00–09:00] No.
[09:00–09:06] Definitely he was home twice for my world and for a belief. No, Sharon. Tell you know he was outdoors for something
[09:06–09:12] There was something when it was outdoors. No, it was and I was getting at the side. I'm looking it up
[09:12–09:19] Look it up because he's definitely was beaver. We were sitting at the side. I bought tickets for him actually when he was meant to come to the lounge
[09:19–09:26] Oh, yeah, didn't you get me a ticket? Yeah, and then I have to get refund because I'm happy. Oh my god that refund. That just to be where it was
[09:26–09:33] So I'm sure I heard one search singers forced cancel upcoming gigs till you that was first re-reign in February and March 23
[09:33–09:39] So will you have to read why tickets for that now? I don't like his ever come back dragon. No boy. I think he's done
[09:39–09:42] Oh, just be residents to the orDS
[09:42–09:52] Was that what that would have been a maybe orDS purpose world tour. I don't know. We came back again. That was 2017 without a sound right? Yeah, that's my order
[09:53–09:58] I didn't know that was that big. Why am I just thinking of the horror show when I'm like in the beauty show
[09:58–10:03] What order is it can be made you just I know there's all different little sections. I feel maybe it was that I don't know
[10:03–10:12] We've e-peed as we can we do electric picnic. We are not well. I'm not prepared. I feel I have my outfits but I that's all I had
[10:12–10:17] I got so many don't we just do like leggings and hoodies on my time please. Yeah, that's what we do anyway
[10:17–10:20] Yeah, I always bring stuff that I can if she like I'll never want to work on
[10:20–10:24] Yeah, I feel like in case you get the mucky. Yeah, I don't think it will though. What's the matter, dude?
[10:24–10:31] We like lovely. It's it. Yeah, really nice. Yeah, I want to read it because it wasn't a really nice last the last week in Ireland
[10:31–10:37] Like just gone. Yeah, I'm gonna hope it says remember last year was a score even even if it's a straw
[10:37–10:41] I'll never get here. We left one to a hotel. Remember I
[10:41–10:43] I seem to want to take that say if you've survived
[10:43–10:49] Steve P22. Yeah, like a real and that was a washroom. Yeah, we left we weren't we came back. Yeah, we yeah
[10:49–10:53] One I think it must been the second night we just looked at each other was like and that was the year we aren't
[10:53–10:59] Because we had done the glamp and but there was it wasn't about it was just a mattress wasn't it that year? Yeah
[10:59–11:03] I don't know where we were yeah, it was a difference out of where we are now nice. Yeah, it was different
[11:03–11:08] But we went to a hotel and had a shower and going to bed. I've never been so happy. I've never had so good sleep
[11:09–11:12] In all my life, but we hope this week is dry for
[11:13–11:15] So we always end up having a ball. It's so good
[11:15–11:20] So that means I always come with she's never been. Has she never been never been always and care has never been either
[11:20–11:25] Does she know no and she's working out as social see us me it's down there and then she's gone around a golf cart
[11:25–11:29] I didn't believe her when she told me she can pick us up the wall
[11:30–11:32] And after we go is
[11:32–11:37] Honestly like hell on our fill out. I'm gonna pillgum it's hell and I get lost every year
[11:38–11:42] Don't know where to it's really hard to find where to go. Why do you think oh my god? Yeah, and if it's raining or scur-
[11:43–11:47] already hard it's bad but ways yeah, it's long and I've learned lessons from me pee
[11:48–11:53] I know everybody antics talk is doing like that lessons. What's the word in looking for tips? Oh yeah, you bring things
[11:53–12:00] Tips or whatever but like some people are like bring wellies. No shit Sherlock like you know me some of the tips are like
[12:00–12:05] Come off at will you jeet bring a charging bike even might not know. Ah come on now. I've never been
[12:06–12:09] No, because you want my rallies the likes of like long a tear or something to get me
[12:09–12:14] You're in the field in the middle of pot are you importantly actually yeah, no where it is
[12:14–12:21] Traveling everybody yeah, but one of my tips. Okay. My tip might be useless. It don't bring a suitcase. I learned my lesson
[12:21–12:26] What do we use last year? We use my truck. I hope I do when he's taken the jet. Yeah
[12:26–12:30] So will you was that and just pack that again if that was good suitcase such a terrible idea
[12:30–12:34] But then again the Kayla I think told me she was like I brought a suitcase one year and it was ground to end
[12:34–12:38] Oh, heavy it is we just fucking fuck do we have to go back to the car? We got one twice in me. Did we?
[12:38–12:43] I'm maybe not you know we took it all remember that lovely man helped me with it. I trolley. Oh yeah
[12:44–12:49] But the suitcase their wheels just gets stuck full of moors and grass and sounds all and then you just end up
[12:50–12:53] Dragon it along the way good suitcase if you're dealing that no
[12:53–12:57] I'd say if you have it if you have a one-year one throw away minimal is best minimal is like you
[12:58–13:02] Definitely one thing I've learned yeah, but this is gonna be a rough repeat. I'm just thinking
[13:02–13:04] Oh, sure
[13:06–13:09] And then bring your drinking you just have to have it in plastic
[13:09–13:15] Has to be plastic bottles you can only bring one liter of spirits and 48 cans. Yeah, we're caught off at that. Yeah
[13:15–13:22] Bring I think I might bring some snacks this year actually those snacks for yeah, there's nothing why am I bringing some like lovely food places
[13:22–13:26] They're food yeah, it feels really nice. My mom would love to go to Evie really
[13:27–13:30] She loves to go to Evie's family thing though. Yeah, you can get the family camp enough
[13:30–13:36] You bring their kids maybe so stay there for the weekend. The weather's nice. I think it'll be yeah good
[13:36–13:42] It'll be so good. It's good even when it rains. Yeah, I feel like yeah, you get your pics and they look great. Okay, yeah
[13:42–13:45] That's what I love it's nice. Please God
[13:46–13:51] I'm gonna go. Oh, I got my arms waxed. Would you like to feel them? Well now there. Oh my god
[13:51–13:53] So weird oh nice
[13:53–13:59] Now she only waxed from my like elbow down. Oh, right. Okay, so it's a bit a bit a bit of flu
[13:59–14:03] No, but you don't that's all blonde though. Yeah, but got my arms waxed folks. Sorry. No
[14:03–14:09] No, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I love to look at the page after the witch. They were oh yeah, they're cheating
[14:09–14:14] Yeah, I love really sad. Sorry and my friend doesn't wax my arms because yeah
[14:14–14:16] I'm gonna randomly want my arms off. She's like your bikini next
[14:17–14:22] Absolutely, you know, I always get waxed. Oh my fucking god about once and I promised myself
[14:22–14:24] I made promise myself that I would never ever do such thing again
[14:24–14:28] I made a promise that that was last time I made myself the promise that with the time before that the girl who done it
[14:28–14:34] I went to wax in the city. It was all it was so good. She'd done it in four-strip seat. Yeah, it was very fun
[14:34–14:35] It was god, but then the last time I went
[14:36–14:39] Somewhere else coming from what it was, but like she was plucking and I was
[14:39–14:41] Ah
[14:41–14:48] Start taking a tweezer to my hoo-hack you know, I was like to know what leave no, yeah, yeah fine. Lanterns trip. Yeah
[14:49–14:54] No, oh, there's even got shapes and all it like there's different style you can get like a Brazilian is every shape
[14:54–14:59] You can get like I don't shape but you can get like just one strip there like a mohawk down the middle. Yeah
[14:59–15:03] Or you get Brazilian because Hollywood can it's just around
[15:04–15:07] Just on the outside. Yeah, but I don't get that would you just get holding
[15:07–15:09] Maybe that asked the pain true
[15:09–15:13] Yeah, the worst pain is the right up near you still like oh my god
[15:13–15:18] Don't do it around a period of fabric. Oh, yeah, 10 times or because maybe yeah, they just shave and we're asking my friend
[15:19–15:21] Melissa from years ago I remember from time either
[15:22–15:29] She had um older sisters growing up and her older sister waxed her ampits and her hair never ever back
[15:29–15:34] Whatever age she was or I don't know. Yeah, it just meant they were yeah, but waxed her amp
[15:34–15:38] It's I think just for the crack like at home waxed her amp it and they never ever were back
[15:38–15:43] Happy fucking day. I'm fucking lost. I think at amber hair till I was like seven days and even out
[15:43–15:46] I don't really have much. I can't remember when I did I don't like I'd
[15:47–15:48] She's checking her amp
[15:48–15:50] I just have a few little hairs
[15:51–15:55] No, no, no, no, I'm just like here. Remember one time I went to get wax
[15:56–16:03] It was the first wax I ever got and no, I won't even say actually. Oh, no, no, no, I'll tell you after it's sure
[16:03–16:08] I was traumatized oh no, it wasn't that bad, but it was just weird anyway. Okay
[16:09–16:15] Do we is restates have we already? No, we haven't talked about it. Are we gonna kind of over it? Yeah
[16:15–16:23] Yeah, it's fun for 24 hours and then I was like yeah, okay, I'm so full. I think the more time you give exactly things like that
[16:23–16:25] We'll tell you things I'll show you how quickly things online
[16:26–16:28] come up really like
[16:28–16:31] Everyone's in on it and then it's something new next day literally
[16:31–16:36] You're only yesterday's new or whatever is on the essence of what's going on for me anyway, but yeah
[16:36–16:41] Take talk is scary. Social media is scary. Yeah, I don't know what's going on like things can just be like
[16:42–16:47] While far and then it's a ghost and gone. Yeah gone. Yeah, I don't know. I think I don't know. It's just
[16:48–16:52] People need to take everything with a pinch of salt. I think as well
[16:53–16:57] It's not that deep because just because you've seen really nothing because you watch a video or
[16:58–17:01] You hear your friend even saying so it's more anything doesn't mean that it's
[17:01–17:07] But I'm a Bible. Yeah, I treat like you know what I mean people can add bits and Bob's taking
[17:07–17:14] I just think that's like my this situation, but I just mean yeah, like people could just try to I always try to have my own opinion on things and people and
[17:15–17:18] Everything until I actually meet someone or see a situation for myself
[17:18–17:20] If I do have a
[17:20–17:24] Yeah, if I hear someone I'm not gonna hold that against them or like wherever else
[17:24–17:26] I'm like my own opinion of and
[17:26–17:31] Like I think people need to do that a little bit more. Yeah, instead of maybe generalizing people even all together
[17:31–17:36] Like wherever else just because you hear something bad about someone or something doesn't mean it's true
[17:36–17:40] That's a good way of putting it. You know, like if you've never had a bad experience with them and you hear one person saying yeah
[17:40–17:45] Yeah, and I think because we hear so much about ourselves maybe be more conscious about that really like
[17:45–17:50] I've heard fucking shite about myself. So I hear shite with someone else. I'm not necessarily gonna like
[17:51–17:56] I'd be like um, but it's a true though. Yeah, do you know what I mean? Take everything with pinch of salt like everything with
[17:56–18:00] Give the benefit of it's really not that easy. I just think people are taking things
[18:00–18:07] So little kind of like given like coven times when everyone was very honest, I feel like everyone's very
[18:08–18:15] ready to fight or something like just fucking do you know what I mean yeah I feel like everyone is just on there like and everyone is just like ready to
[18:15–18:20] I don't know about some white head off each other like why it's very I don't know everyone's very
[18:20–18:26] highly strong or something yeah I don't get everyone like just relax yeah take a deep breath five seconds
[18:26–18:32] and then out like it's really not that deep yeah I think so we like all need to get offline a little bit more
[18:32–18:38] definitely and more enthusiasm yeah yeah yeah everyone included food knows so 100% yeah
[18:41–18:46] so go into worst states that we've gone on what's worst state have ever done I haven't been on
[18:46–18:51] many first dates you know me now a genuine I first say it worst yeah but worst I think because I
[18:51–18:56] haven't had many first dates I haven't had many worst states something yeah in my opinion I feel like a
[18:56–19:02] worst state would nine cents a time will need to ever go ahead yeah do you know what I mean but I don't
[19:02–19:07] think there's nothing there's nothing really for me anyway that kind of times though sticks out my head as
[19:07–19:14] oh Jesus Christ I feel like there's one where you did you have to pay or something am I make that up
[19:14–19:20] oh I got brought out of my birthday and I paid yeah I know I didn't make that up yeah yeah and having
[19:20–19:25] fight I end up crying and all I'm my birthday that's the word that's pretty bad that was pretty bad
[19:27–19:33] to be honest yeah the day my birthday got brought out and I had to pay for it I mean we don't
[19:33–19:37] ask for more than this life but I know you're booking birthday no no there was definitely it's definitely
[19:37–19:43] a worst day but I was the problem oh what should I got absolutely langers and he didn't drink
[19:44–19:51] yeah and I spent all the jugga war all over him and all yeah got definitely his worst day no no
[19:51–19:57] yeah you went on more no we didn't oh we're like a ghosted after that oh nothing on the right
[19:57–20:03] yeah yeah yeah got ghosted so I was the worst day I don't even give you a ghost though you're still
[20:03–20:08] chatting and so no I'm already didn't yeah it's fine I'm actually taking full responsibility but
[20:09–20:14] so I was the worst phone so yeah I don't even need to give you a full cell phone
[20:14–20:19] oh no we hate to ghost yeah I went I feel like I told somebody time so at the date where the
[20:19–20:24] guy fell asleep and the yeah that is bad went on the date that was my first and last one I don't
[20:24–20:29] like cinema dates anyway that's so awkward especially but like didn't we do that and we were no
[20:29–20:33] now in fairness when we were young and we were gone to cinema but for me anyway we'd get down to
[20:33–20:39] view and if you valley would it be a group of me and the girls and a group of all yeah yeah and you
[20:39–20:44] all go wasn't yeah yeah we were like turkey people yeah what the fuck that was when the cinema was
[20:44–20:48] like eight-year-old or something yeah I know I tell you people coming in seeing us over like four yeah
[20:48–20:55] she is but I think if somebody ever asked you on a first day to cinema don't go no I think when
[20:55–20:59] you're younger it's different but now I'm like there's so much else we could do but like you don't
[20:59–21:05] speak for the hour are you gonna get to know me yeah no just looking like this is really good no I
[21:05–21:08] can't remember what we've been seeing but it was one of them tiny little screens and who've
[21:08–21:12] lived really the tiny like like three rows or something I looked at my right and the man is
[21:12–21:16] facelessly that I was so glad to talk great I couldn't really be a fan of that because it was like
[21:16–21:21] it's like he's talking to me fancy but it was a film true let's just say hey the film but I went
[21:21–21:27] on a date with my boyfriend at the time and we got in a huge fight oh I was sorry but I really
[21:27–21:30] don't even know what it was we were just in middle of actually a different country
[21:32–21:39] way outside of Ireland and we were just walking around fighting the man ran away from me like just
[21:39–21:44] ran ran just took off and ran and left me in the middle of this city by myself we're just
[21:44–21:48] standing that I don't know that I'm just standing I think I tried to run after but I couldn't keep up
[21:49–21:53] just left me in the middle of this country and then I was like bald I was we were actually
[21:53–21:58] drunk we'd been like I've done or something or I had some event and I was bald and crying
[21:58–22:04] these like men come to me like are you okay like I was like like don't you have breath and then
[22:04–22:08] he comes back around the corner I didn't know what I was looking everywhere I wasn't there he comes
[22:08–22:14] back around the corner and then goes mad at me for talking to men that happened me in Paris oh
[22:14–22:17] kind of the same thing I think I went to go and buy smokes I think I was smoking after time or
[22:17–22:22] something and I think he was annoyed that I was gone for too long or something I don't know but he
[22:22–22:28] left me in Paris and he went back to the hotel and I think I had to herb was the other way around
[22:28–22:32] something anyway but I remember being left in Paris being like what the fuck but then I got given
[22:32–22:37] out to for talking to someone while I was getting smoked or something I don't know it was yours or
[22:37–22:42] like he just flipped on and honestly and then that was it then I think we had to come and come
[22:42–22:47] home we come home together but it was like way hours on after we chud up because of all the running
[22:47–22:52] going on who just picks off and sprint to fellow manager to do my office I don't even know like why
[22:52–22:59] it was just like I was just like and I was only like young young like teenage or selling pretty sure
[22:59–23:05] and like it was just so sad so that was pretty bad then I got brought to I said up and on the way
[23:05–23:09] and hit to Daniel in the car like I think Daniels for a first sight was bad he was like yeah did he
[23:09–23:14] yeah he was like I just think like this night replacing go well I was young as well but the worst
[23:14–23:19] part of it was I was doing makeup modeling for someone that day I had like a black smoke yaya
[23:19–23:24] and a full glam like heavy makeup for me to love those so nice but I was like I'm not for myself
[23:24–23:29] makeup yeah I know what Daniels listen you got your wear over there yeah but I just think
[23:29–23:36] Daniels for a first date is no do you ever have a bad date with Daniel no not necessarily obviously
[23:36–23:41] because of Daniel but like that never go wrong or a book and got mixed up or the only one of me like
[23:42–23:45] in the hotel in Mexico that time when there was not a center we can't we're getting literally
[23:45–23:50] murdered oh yeah yeah we went there for one night at number why and booked hotel we cooked didn't
[23:50–23:55] see one person there was only one man working there not sure we went to our room we just had like
[23:55–24:00] that up do you ever feel like the archivel in your belly but it's like this face like this land you
[24:00–24:06] say what it feels like that in your belly yeah like I was like and the two was like no pan for here
[24:06–24:11] we don't we actually left a few twice hotels I have that archivel in Orlando as well
[24:11–24:16] I remember he was saying that was scary yeah he was just so I didn't like how made me feel yeah
[24:16–24:20] and then that next go and there was one man working there it got to the room then we went out
[24:20–24:24] to get some food in the like restaurant that was there no one even worked over and we're just
[24:24–24:27] sitting there at the table now I'm up to us for 20 minutes that's exactly what I've got horror yeah
[24:27–24:31] I've got my stories like it should really even everyone was like yeah I was like do you know what say
[24:31–24:36] like and you never find out why it was so empty no we got refunded I remember giving out when it
[24:36–24:40] was it was not like pictures not wasn't I I didn't see one other person that was even living there
[24:40–24:45] like it was horrible no that's scary and it was another jungle no animals in our no
[24:45–24:51] panel having a fever yeah and they're a huge spider no oh my god it was fucking massive
[24:51–24:55] so I was shocked by that my dad I'll highlight to someone in the ocean beach where I can
[24:55–25:00] eat to add to it oh they're like we're sticking to a sight off one third funny sick
[25:01–25:06] um now that's my only way we're safe so to yeah yeah my friend actually left today she just
[25:06–25:11] spoke with her boyfriend's nothing I'll go and she didn't want to be there with this guy like
[25:11–25:16] just didn't want to be there and she rang one of her friends and he had to ring her to return
[25:16–25:20] that he'd broken his arm that he needed her to bring him to school why is that the first thing that
[25:20–25:25] we think to do is like like get your friend to ring you and make you leave the day yeah it's so
[25:25–25:30] good yeah but like realistically would that ever happen no jump in yeah and I feel like whoever
[25:30–25:34] you're on the date with would know would like know yeah if you're like oh my god I have to go
[25:34–25:39] she just wasn't there yeah they're after ringing me yeah I feel like that I feel like if you're
[25:39–25:43] in a date don't and you don't you're not having a good time can you say I like you're like you're
[25:43–25:47] don't leave in a mean way but I feel like if someone really you're really unvoiced with like I don't
[25:47–25:51] just think you can say come here like not to leave but like maybe could it you have like
[25:51–25:56] could it be shorter like yeah I feel like you have to spend a whole day and like even with them
[25:56–26:01] just cause it's planned yeah I think if you're not home I remember we talked about best first day
[26:01–26:06] front did we sit on like a coffee or something did we say a coffee day better than a dinner date
[26:06–26:10] kind of thing but then I don't think I didn't add rather dinner date that would yeah yeah if I
[26:10–26:14] went I'm five a single now I feel really awkward getting a coffee I think that's work true I think
[26:14–26:19] I'd be panic and over what to wear and I'll like just way that I go for my coffee I look
[26:19–26:23] to shovel yeah what the fuck do you want to do a coffee yeah maybe to spend on the person if I
[26:23–26:28] kind of knew of them I probably go straight into a real day but like a coffee maybe if they're like
[26:28–26:32] a tender person or something yeah I don't know I never want to do a date and it was someone
[26:32–26:38] that I'd known I should go on a tender date I never knew that one that the Sydney oh that oh yeah
[26:38–26:44] I think I was like I think I was in school I think I was six years I was he just 17 or 18 but yeah
[26:44–26:48] I was on I'd just broken a boy by far the time I was like I need some but I knew I'll do yeah
[26:48–26:53] okay but left I'll have you left today early how would you get everybody I think I will tell
[26:53–26:59] when the girls ring me and say I'm emergency now I'm gonna be able to have left today early because I
[26:59–27:01] get so nervous
[27:00–27:04] I just then I found so drunk that like I've never got no way.
[27:04–27:05] Yeah.
[27:05–27:06] I never leave it.
[27:06–27:07] Yeah.
[27:07–27:09] No, I don't think I've ever left it.
[27:09–27:14] I've been on dates where you know this isn't going to go anywhere.
[27:14–27:15] Yeah.
[27:15–27:16] I'd rather than just not be there.
[27:16–27:18] I'm like I need to leave.
[27:18–27:19] Yeah.
[27:19–27:21] I've definitely been in a situation like that where I'm just like, oh, here.
[27:21–27:24] I know this isn't going to work out for whatever reason.
[27:24–27:25] Yeah.
[27:25–27:26] That's my head.
[27:26–27:27] But no, I don't think I've ever left a date.
[27:27–27:29] You know, we're actually knowing you're on a date and you're like, oh, this isn't.
[27:29–27:30] Foxy.
[27:30–27:31] But it's cracked out.
[27:31–27:32] Yeah.
[27:32–27:36] You're just really not feeling them and you're like, oh, no, why am I here?
[27:36–27:39] And you're like, still sad about an ex or something.
[27:39–27:40] Yeah, sitting there.
[27:40–27:41] That should be him.
[27:41–27:46] I think it is good to go on dates when you do feel like I've got to go.
[27:46–27:47] Because you never know.
[27:47–27:48] Yeah.
[27:48–27:49] My mates.
[27:49–27:50] I want to date.
[27:50–27:53] I wonder about dates like more common if you met them online because because you don't know.
[27:53–27:54] I'm like, you don't lie.
[27:54–27:57] When I look at cafes, you'll watch a cafe.
[27:57–27:58] Yeah.
[27:58–27:59] Like all the highlights on YouTube.
[27:59–28:00] Love that.
[28:00–28:03] Like look how easy it is to pretend to be someone who you're not.
[28:03–28:04] Yeah.
[28:04–28:05] Like true.
[28:05–28:06] I mean, that is true.
[28:06–28:08] And I wonder if you're not serious there.
[28:08–28:11] That's a bad expression date as many people as you want.
[28:11–28:12] Yeah.
[28:12–28:16] I wonder if you're an average date or you definitely have more of a word states.
[28:16–28:17] Yeah.
[28:17–28:21] I was going to say like, is it easier than to have a certain standard that you're looking
[28:21–28:23] for because you've been at so many days.
[28:23–28:24] Yeah, true.
[28:24–28:25] Like, yeah, true.
[28:25–28:26] Yeah.
[28:26–28:27] I think that's a good idea.
[28:27–28:28] Yeah.
[28:28–28:29] You're looking at the thing being like a whole on compare.
[28:29–28:31] Yeah, because I compare in them because I think at the time the nine of say for example, I was
[28:31–28:37] young again like teenage or but which actually it was like 20 maybe.
[28:37–28:39] And at the time, I really think it was bad.
[28:39–28:40] I think it's looking back.
[28:40–28:41] Yeah.
[28:41–28:42] Maybe I think when I was 20, it wasn't bad.
[28:42–28:43] Okay.
[28:43–28:45] Now I'm like, oh, when you look back on it, you're like out here.
[28:45–28:48] In my other sort, like any fast food kind of restaurant.
[28:48–28:49] Yeah.
[28:49–28:50] Do you love an handle so?
[28:50–28:51] I just love an Eddie Rock at sea.
[28:51–28:52] Did you.
[28:52–28:53] I know.
[28:53–28:54] I'm going to be a Eddie Rock at sea.
[28:54–28:55] Yeah.
[28:55–28:56] I'm going to be rocker.
[28:56–28:57] I like rocker.
[28:57–28:58] Yeah.
[28:58–28:59] I love that.
[28:59–29:00] Every tender mass would just be by two year old.
[29:00–29:01] I know what the hell.
[29:01–29:02] It was late in Israel and this one.
[29:02–29:03] They were on a real.
[29:03–29:05] I haven't had an Eddie Rock at sea in years.
[29:05–29:06] You mean?
[29:06–29:09] Right, I've actually got a, a, a, the world now.
[29:09–29:10] Oh, sorry, yeah, we got it.
[29:10–29:11] Sorry.
[29:11–29:12] Sorry.
[29:12–29:13] Sorry, do you get that?
[29:13–29:19] And my TikTok complete thing is search for search for every name and all.
[29:19–29:22] I'm like, ah, grams on a little of your organs and some of the things.
[29:22–29:23] Yeah.
[29:23–29:24] He got it.
[29:24–29:26] It's my full name, but he got him.
[29:26–29:27] He got it.
[29:27–29:28] Yeah.
[29:28–29:31] Again, take it like we said, let's touch on one thing.
[29:31–29:32] Yeah.
[29:32–29:33] Yeah.
[29:33–29:34] If you're going to write an article, do your research.
[29:34–29:35] Okay.
[29:35–29:36] Is that not just common sense?
[29:36–29:37] That was the worst reason.
[29:37–29:39] Is that, but is that not your job?
[29:39–29:42] If you're not like illegal throughout that, like run things, isn't it?
[29:42–29:45] Like if this is your job.
[29:45–29:46] Yeah.
[29:46–29:47] Write articles.
[29:47–29:51] Should you not be given that job because of the research that you do and making sure that
[29:51–29:52] it's true?
[29:52–29:53] Yeah.
[29:53–29:56] Like giving like one of the college make it up reference and all me like type and stuff
[29:56–29:57] that wasn't real.
[29:57–29:58] That's the look to what it was.
[29:58–29:59] It was take like it.
[29:59–30:00] None of it made sense.
[30:00–30:05] This article that I saw, it was taken a bit from here, a bit from here, a bit from last
[30:05–30:09] year, a bit from about three different relationships, three different relationships and adding it
[30:09–30:11] into one and saying that's great.
[30:11–30:12] Wow.
[30:12–30:13] Wow.
[30:13–30:14] God love him.
[30:14–30:15] Oh, he's edited.
[30:15–30:16] Yeah.
[30:16–30:17] I'm a friend.
[30:17–30:18] I'll send it to him.
[30:18–30:19] Oh, God.
[30:19–30:20] Very funny.
[30:20–30:21] Yeah.
[30:21–30:24] If you're going to write an article and again, taking things up and start to view see if someone
[30:24–30:25] reads that.
[30:25–30:26] Yes.
[30:26–30:29] Don't always believe what you read because in none of it was that whole thing was wrong.
[30:29–30:30] And it wasn't even like anything that was bad.
[30:30–30:31] It was just wrong.
[30:31–30:32] No, the information.
[30:32–30:35] The whole thing felt was wrong.
[30:35–30:38] The information in that article was 100% wrong.
[30:38–30:39] Post everything.
[30:39–30:40] No, everything is false.
[30:40–30:41] Yeah.
[30:41–30:42] Is that not illegal?
[30:42–30:43] Yeah.
[30:43–30:44] Not like true.
[30:44–30:45] Like you have to do that.
[30:45–30:46] But even super things like down to where he lives.
[30:46–30:51] But the picture that I put up with the pajamas that he got me.
[30:51–30:56] I'm just apparently there was a key ring in that picture and he got her a lovely key ring.
[30:56–30:58] So you went number one.
[30:58–31:00] You just wrote down all the wrong information.
[31:00–31:01] Number two, you went to look at the picture.
[31:01–31:02] There was no fucking key.
[31:02–31:04] I think that AI to write it.
[31:04–31:05] Why?
[31:05–31:06] Chaff BGT.
[31:06–31:07] Yeah.
[31:07–31:11] It was like the Snapchat AI went because people do that.
[31:11–31:12] You can get that right.
[31:12–31:13] I say it's not for college.
[31:43–31:44] Yeah.
[31:44–31:45] You're gonna have a few sips.
[31:45–31:48] I think it's nice to look like everyone's looking up a little bit.
[31:48–31:49] Oh, definitely.
[31:49–31:50] Yeah.
[31:50–31:51] But then you can get to the stage being two loops.
[31:51–31:52] Yeah.
[31:52–31:54] I think me and Graham had four bottles of wine on their first day.
[31:54–31:55] Yeah.
[31:55–31:56] It wasn't good.
[31:56–31:57] 10x8.
[31:57–31:58] Yeah.
[31:58–31:59] He said it was the worst hangover he ever had in his life.
[31:59–32:00] A wine hangover.
[32:00–32:01] Wine.
[32:01–32:02] You can get like organic wine over here.
[32:02–32:03] You know, that does maybe hangover.
[32:03–32:04] Shut the front door.
[32:04–32:05] Yeah.
[32:05–32:06] Kanye.
[32:06–32:07] Yeah.
[32:07–32:08] That would be lovely now.
[32:08–32:09] It has like whatever chemicals and toxins is in it.
[32:09–32:10] It's over.
[32:10–32:11] You don't get hangover.
[32:11–32:12] That would be it.
[32:12–32:14] I could drink as much wine to test it.
[32:14–32:15] Yeah.
[32:15–32:17] Still get drunk and wake up fresh.
[32:17–32:18] Oh my.
[32:18–32:19] That would change the game.
[32:19–32:20] It would.
[32:20–32:21] All together.
[32:21–32:22] I just get to have a problem with feeling.
[32:22–32:23] I'll just the next day.
[32:23–32:24] Like if I didn't feel it,
[32:24–32:25] because I never get a headache hangover.
[32:25–32:26] Ever.
[32:26–32:28] I just get waves of nausea.
[32:28–32:29] That's what it kind of is.
[32:29–32:30] I'm the opposite.
[32:30–32:32] My head would be like I get if I do get to get to it,
[32:32–32:35] but it would never like an eye me choke today.
[32:35–32:38] It's more of my head like I'd be lying there and like feel like I was on a roll of
[32:38–32:39] cold.
[32:39–32:40] So like, yeah, my head would be.
[32:40–32:41] I'm loving vodka.
[32:41–32:42] So I would lie on the bomb actually.
[32:42–32:43] That's good.
[32:43–32:44] Anything I feel like I'm getting very good.
[32:44–32:45] So it's like sparkly war.
[32:45–32:46] It's for.
[32:46–32:47] Yeah.
[32:47–32:48] So like I've actually gotten hydrated.
[32:48–32:49] See?
[32:49–32:50] And she's just.
[32:50–32:51] Hello, see my.
[32:51–32:52] Okay.
[32:52–32:53] We'll do some listening.
[32:53–32:54] Yes, please.
[32:54–32:55] I'm trying to hear these.
[32:55–32:59] Okay, these are some ones that were sent in from this news.
[32:59–33:00] Second date,
[33:00–33:02] the ask me to call much as Ruby match.
[33:02–33:03] Game was shit.
[33:03–33:04] Rogue is knows.
[33:04–33:05] He told me he's going to hospital.
[33:05–33:06] So I left and he called.
[33:06–33:07] Ten minutes later.
[33:07–33:08] Ask where I've gone.
[33:08–33:09] If I bring him to a.
[33:09–33:11] Any spent the night there, it never heard from him again.
[33:11–33:12] She went to a.
[33:12–33:13] Any went man.
[33:13–33:14] He just.
[33:14–33:15] He never.
[33:15–33:16] Never.
[33:16–33:17] Again.
[33:17–33:18] The neck.
[33:18–33:19] Your share of a book before.
[33:19–33:20] Yeah.
[33:20–33:21] Yeah.
[33:21–33:22] Never going to play for anyone.
[33:22–33:23] Go.
[33:23–33:24] Yeah.
[33:24–33:25] You'll never make counting.
[33:25–33:26] No.
[33:26–33:27] I went to the cinema.
[33:27–33:28] A guy from work.
[33:28–33:31] I bought the sweets and the popcorn as he bought the tickets.
[33:31–33:32] I like that.
[33:32–33:33] Okay.
[33:33–33:34] Let's start.
[33:34–33:35] Went to have some popcorn.
[33:35–33:36] He slapped my hand.
[33:36–33:40] I went to the toilet and drove home and left him stranded and blocked him.
[33:40–33:41] What a phone.
[33:41–33:43] I said, no, no for you.
[33:43–33:44] You can't.
[33:44–33:45] Why?
[33:45–33:46] What a phone.
[33:46–33:47] No.
[33:47–33:50] Oh, he fell asleep in the toilet.
[33:50–33:51] How would you find that?
[33:51–33:53] Oh, which I have to ask a waiter like here.
[33:53–33:54] Can you go in and see?
[33:54–33:58] He asked for a light and ordered for me before I had a chance to speak.
[33:58–34:00] How do you feel about it?
[34:00–34:03] Like when you and Diana go up to dinner, I think I've said before.
[34:03–34:04] I think that's nice.
[34:04–34:05] Yeah.
[34:05–34:06] I'd look at the menu.
[34:06–34:07] Yeah.
[34:07–34:08] I'm just so small.
[34:08–34:09] Yeah.
[34:09–34:10] I can't speak up for myself.
[34:10–34:11] Yes.
[34:11–34:12] Like, what?
[34:12–34:14] I just think it's like the mainly things.
[34:14–34:16] I'd be like, you just order for me.
[34:16–34:17] Yeah.
[34:17–34:18] Yeah.
[34:18–34:19] Yeah.
[34:19–34:20] Yeah.
[34:20–34:21] Yeah.
[34:21–34:23] But I'd be like, will you just do all the talk and then?
[34:23–34:24] Yeah.
[34:24–34:26] Oh, so, but this man asked her what she liked and she didn't say I want this and this.
[34:26–34:30] He just asked what she's like to look up and just ordered for her before she got a chance.
[34:30–34:31] I think that's where it is.
[34:31–34:32] No, that's right.
[34:32–34:34] If it's your boyfriend, it's different.
[34:34–34:37] If you'd come out now, food today, actually, yeah, if it's food.
[34:37–34:38] Oh, lovely.
[34:38–34:42] Oh, we're going to take a big dinner already.
[34:42–34:43] Yeah.
[34:43–34:48] Chat was good, but he spoke a lot about himself and see more interest in him in himself than
[34:48–34:49] me.
[34:49–34:50] We went to pay.
[34:50–34:52] He asked me to re-volute him my half.
[34:52–34:54] I lost interest entirely.
[34:54–34:58] I'm not saying men should always pay, but when he asked you, he showed and the bill was
[34:58–34:59] only 24-year-old.
[34:59–35:00] No.
[35:00–35:01] Send him 12, 12.
[35:01–35:02] 12, 12.
[35:02–35:03] Oh, yeah.
[35:03–35:05] You dodged a fucking bullet.
[35:05–35:06] 12, 12.
[35:06–35:08] I just think it might not be the first day.
[35:08–35:09] I'm sorry.
[35:09–35:13] I know that's so we put it up agree, but on the first day, I definitely know.
[35:13–35:14] Yeah.
[35:14–35:17] I just feel like, see, sometimes I can go to my car, I see even a life definitely done
[35:17–35:18] it myself.
[35:18–35:21] Remember, we were talking about like feminine energy and all and that's lovely.
[35:21–35:22] Yeah.
[35:22–35:23] Yeah.
[35:23–35:24] Yeah.
[35:24–35:27] Like a man can be, can be like, put off if the girl is trying to pay whatever, because then
[35:27–35:29] they, it's making them feel less manly, isn't it?
[35:29–35:30] Yeah.
[35:30–35:31] Yeah.
[35:31–35:32] Yeah.
[35:32–35:33] Like that'd be something that I do.
[35:33–35:34] Like, yeah.
[35:34–35:39] What it's not out of trying to make someone feel less manly, it's more like, you just want
[35:39–35:40] to feel like you want to offer out.
[35:40–35:41] Yeah.
[35:41–35:42] You know what I mean?
[35:42–35:43] If they have sex, yeah.
[35:43–35:44] Yeah.
[35:44–35:45] I'm like, yeah.
[35:45–35:48] I think then like the next time, I don't know.
[35:48–35:50] Like I like saying, like, I'm very circumstantial.
[35:50–35:51] Yeah.
[35:51–35:53] I like like, you pay for the dinner.
[35:53–35:54] I'll get the sweets in the way home.
[35:54–35:55] Yeah.
[35:55–35:56] I'll get you.
[35:56–35:57] Yeah.
[35:57–35:58] I like how cute you.
[35:58–36:00] Like I like having something that you can be like, right?
[36:00–36:05] This is my part. Yeah, kind of thing. Yeah, not split in the middle. Yeah, something to give back
[36:05–36:11] But I think on the first day if he's making you pay 12 euro does I think whoever initiates a date pays for it
[36:11–36:15] If you if he asks you on the day. Yeah, he pays. Yeah
[36:16–36:22] Absolutely 12 euro. I offered to hold my money because I know pockets at the end you physically run away with it
[36:22–36:25] Girl how much money did you give him my ex?
[36:25–36:33] Yeah, I want money, but you're pocket. Oh my god. Went for dinner and he went to the toilet and never came back
[36:33–36:37] Leave me with a 250 euro bill. Oh, that's horrible
[36:38–36:43] I don't know if she could feel like someone just left like that very enough for getting your friend to ring someone if you're not in
[36:43–36:48] To put them when you look at like that like it leaves to hate someone to ever feel like sad about
[36:48–36:53] Really even or something like at least ghost me after you drop me home. Yeah, at least pay the bill then go
[36:54–36:59] Yeah, don't do it before you really want to yeah, that man is going around getting freeze in her date
[36:59–37:01] I'll be with 10 to go to the bathroom
[37:02–37:07] He was texted another girl for the whole date. We'd been together a year and a half
[37:07–37:09] That's pretty bad
[37:10–37:11] Fuck sake
[37:11–37:16] For her she found out it was that I'd say they much updates up first every day after a seven year relationship
[37:16–37:23] I got took a few shots before I got there at set of the nerves got there grind but too drunk any end up holding my hair back as I got sick
[37:24–37:30] Oh, great. That's what you need after a seven year relationship though. Oh absolutely needed the shots. Yeah, and all right
[37:30–37:32] You know what I wouldn't even feel bad if I know no no no
[37:33–37:35] That's not even a word I think girl put that in
[37:35–37:37] He tells your hair back true
[37:39–37:48] He took me to a staff priority killing two birds of one stone. There was a metal gig. Oh like a rock metal like heavy metal
[37:48–37:50] Yeah, I wouldn't know it's dance. Let's just
[37:51–37:53] I wonder
[37:54–37:58] I think every day a mosh pit and all so scared. I see in the mat
[37:58–38:03] It was a Travis Scott contact recently and they all eat when it there was a drone footage going up
[38:03–38:06] I need to see all the different mosh pits, but it was give me that type of fovee or
[38:06–38:08] Oh
[38:08–38:14] Oh, make me sick. It was make me feel so sick. Like those metal ones where they are literally run into each other and yeah
[38:14–38:19] I shall be sure to know now. There's no way you're enjoying yourself there pass like you're doing like
[38:20–38:24] Slam body slam yourself into someone what is for no doubt that it's very it's that need to be studies
[38:24–38:27] I'd love to know someone text us if you've ever been to one of them
[38:27–38:31] March it's not a call. Are you okay? Yeah, you're okay girl
[38:32–38:36] Came with a friend and asked for it for you some fair play to him. I feel like I'm giving him a pat
[38:38–38:43] Fuck off. I feel like someone else that is before it was a dilemma that came in a few like a year ago
[38:43–38:48] Some and someone brought a friend to a date come on like that's just really good. Yeah
[38:49–38:52] You don't do that. Would you just surprise surprise?
[38:52–39:00] Shut it. I just surprised them with that like you couldn't know no and then just know like you have no no that's a weird one
[39:01–39:04] Collective me and his mom's car with a bath set as a gift. Oh
[39:05–39:10] Then took me to his house to watch the violent he put his cat in my lap and then told me he had another present
[39:10–39:11] It is room for me and and
[39:12–39:17] Summer set. He said the girls and work guessed my size my Instagram. I sent my mom my location and
[39:18–39:20] That's it. Oh
[39:20–39:24] Oh, he's doing too much there. Was that a first-day thing?
[39:25–39:29] Sure enough. Not the cat and the lap. I think the the bath set. No, huh?
[39:30–39:33] You put your cat near me. No, I hate that
[39:35–39:42] Um the bath set I'd even be like um the bath. He definitely got that was mom for Chris. Yeah, he's definitely been regifted
[39:43–39:46] Regifts to me just help us watch the violent. Okay, that's fine
[39:47–39:49] Even the bad type of like this. Fuck I'm worried. What's he had to shoot the car?
[39:50–39:54] It's over set is not okay. Okay, then imagine him picking up his little pussy
[39:54–39:56] Pushing the pussy in your lap
[39:56–39:58] saying
[39:58–40:00] Pussy
[40:00–40:06] And he whips it when I'm so excited to put that on I think help
[40:06–40:12] No, you're right. I feel like if someone abysign Andre and his new boyfriend that's a bit far. Yeah
[40:13–40:17] I feel like giving fetish or something. Yeah, I just think that I don't I think I feel a bit uncomfortable
[40:18–40:21] That's a little bit yeah, if they kind of none if you're really comfortable with the person but if this is a first-day
[40:22–40:29] I would say world yeah that really adage is that mom's head um and van tines my new boyfriend and all his friends arrive to join us for dinner
[40:29–40:33] I think this is probably not that irregular of an occurrences. You know, oh yeah, I feel like that we kind of
[40:34–40:39] Funny like yeah, what else could you do? I'm just gonna go to Jesus. Yeah, do you have a secret friend surprise in their boyfriends in the airport?
[40:39–40:46] All his friends I think that's adorable. Yeah, like yeah, so like if you were at an old way just like for his birthday or something
[40:46–40:49] Just pretend and stand out there. Yeah, and then all his friends show
[40:50–40:53] Thank you. That's so cute. I see that. I'm just adorable
[40:53–40:57] Went to a guy's house to watch a movie. He looked nothing like his photos
[40:57–40:59] But said I'd give his personality a chance
[40:59–41:03] Let's text them the girls to ring with an emergency, but decided I was grown enough to just
[41:04–41:09] Tell him I wasn't feeling it and leave he stopped me from leaving holding out a plastic container and said
[41:09–41:14] But I've made protein balls in a baby voice. Oh, sorry. Let me rephrase that. What I've made
[41:14–41:16] Put that on my mouth. Oh
[41:16–41:24] I feel sick. What I've made pull in a baby voice girls. I ran from that house. No, I think
[41:25–41:27] That is making me feel fucking sick
[41:27–41:29] Protein balls man make them let me say
[41:29–41:31] I'm sorry
[41:38–41:45] No, I don't think I remember the story can I it was just what's unwanted for his birthday. Oh, yeah me want Louis Vuitton
[41:49–41:52] My hair is on her. I just like jump out my skin like what
[41:55–41:59] I think no, so anything like baby voice like I think I think
[41:59–42:05] Maybe that's a way to avoid bad dates is like don't go. I wouldn't go to a house for a first day. Yeah
[42:05–42:11] I think that's a bit I feel like I knew that one as I was like a little bit younger like I remember I'd be an ass when I was like a teenager
[42:11–42:16] I was like no like I don't know like you're coming over like I just think like I think I'd be scared to get like
[42:16–42:22] Good-naped. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. I feel like you're kind of breaking that barrier straight away of like
[42:22–42:26] Comfort so I feel like yeah, he's obviously going to be very comfortable in his own home
[42:26–42:33] Yeah, it's normal, but then like well, you're kind of skipping if he's around and I think she go on nice like a day and like yeah outside
[42:33–42:38] The home where you're both on the same plane the other's like in his house. I feel like it's um maybe that should be avoided
[42:38–42:40] But fuck me the protein balls
[42:43–42:45] Girls are running that
[42:46–42:48] Yeah, take the balls and run
[42:48–42:54] Oh god now and stop to pee on the street and then left me his friends in a different pub. Oh, you just left
[42:55–42:56] Wait you peed or he peed
[42:56–43:01] He peed who peed stop to pee on the street then left me his friend. Oh, maybe he peed
[43:02–43:04] He peed I think it's him
[43:04–43:09] Fucking bastard. He brought someone else brought his child coffee date and had no one to mine. Oh
[43:10–43:15] I'm old with the child. Right. Okay. Do you think in this scenario should he have texted made me like here? Come here
[43:15–43:23] I'm sorry. Yeah, really sorry last minute. I can't get it or like is it all right if sounds old or even just not even as
[43:23–43:27] I'm afraid to just say him look I have to bring the child we can a squee schedule
[43:28–43:34] Yeah, if that's the issue whatever. Yeah, I think just appearing with the child. Yeah, see it's the same even when your man brought
[43:35–43:41] Someone for a treat some I think the surprise things on it for a stay would be like goods. Yeah, someone's already on edge
[43:41–43:46] You're making them more. Yes, I think sat across from me and Tinder Swapen away. Yeah
[43:47–43:50] I should do no shame. Like honestly how
[43:51–43:54] Let me want to dilemma. So that's a whole batch of dilemmas
[43:56–43:59] So see you from the stars is where we give you a bit of advice from
[43:59–44:02] today's you have kind of conversations to have with the girls in the bathroom nightclub
[44:03–44:07] I'll tell you things I need to hear and share your secrets advice and give you the real talk
[44:07–44:10] And that's why the second is called it's secrets from the stars. They welcome into our email address
[44:10–44:12] It's home. I drink at goloonnow.com
[44:13–44:17] And this is first dilemma myself and my siblings had a phone out a few years ago
[44:17–44:21] I won't bore you with all the details but I called my sister one day to give her a heads up for something bad
[44:21–44:23] And he was coming her way in the next few days
[44:23–44:26] I'd just say that she shot the master is an understatement
[44:26–44:30] We had a bit of an argument on the phone which ended with her saying she doesn't want to speak to me again
[44:30–44:36] And we haven't spoken or seen each other since our other sibling just took her side and never asked me what she'd said or anything
[44:36–44:39] They just spoke up me out. There's been a lot of hurt on my side for truth therapy
[44:39–44:41] I know sharning would be buzzing to hear that
[44:42–44:44] I'm in a much better headspace obviously at the point of my life
[44:44–44:48] where I also don't want to relate to people who are able to cook me out so very easily
[44:48–44:50] And make me feel just both want to work this
[44:50–44:54] Well here's the dilemma. Our dad just got married early next year and wants us to all attend
[44:54–44:56] And if I'm honest I've been rid of the anxiety at the top of seeing them
[44:56–44:58] And haven't spent the whole day with them
[44:58–45:00] I know he's going to want family photos and I'll try the
[45:00–45:04] I just put my own heart aside because it's not my day and I take the shine off my dad
[45:04–45:05] on this big day.
[45:05–45:08] But I just don't feel like I've been a family over the last few years and I feel uncomfortable
[45:08–45:09] at the thought of being in their company.
[45:09–45:13] I love an outsider's perspective on how they navigate through a weird situation.
[45:13–45:15] Okay, so let's put ourselves in the situation.
[45:15–45:16] Yeah.
[45:16–45:18] Keen, Selena and Quiven, Jack.
[45:18–45:19] Yeah.
[45:19–45:20] How would we go about this?
[45:20–45:24] So yeah, we like us, the two of them take insides.
[45:24–45:25] Yeah.
[45:25–45:26] And you being on your own.
[45:26–45:28] I don't know, like why they just, I wonder what it was.
[45:28–45:29] I don't know.
[45:29–45:34] I want to know how big of a deal this is.
[45:34–45:37] I wonder the news that was coming her way.
[45:37–45:41] I wonder did it come because how many shoot to yesterday if someone's looking out for
[45:41–45:44] you and is telling you, giving your heads up of something bad that's going to happen.
[45:44–45:48] The first thing I thought of was like someone she's going to find out something bad.
[45:48–45:49] Yeah.
[45:49–45:52] But like she was obviously the only channeler sister that's a protector sister.
[45:52–45:53] Like letting her give me the heads up.
[45:53–45:54] Yeah.
[45:54–45:55] She's going to happen.
[45:55–45:56] Yeah.
[45:56–45:57] Maybe it was at them.
[45:57–45:58] I don't know.
[45:58–45:59] Well, let's skip forward to the wedding then.
[45:59–46:00] Okay.
[46:00–46:01] What would you do?
[46:01–46:04] I think his army to be grown adults.
[46:04–46:05] It's your dad's day.
[46:05–46:06] They need to be.
[46:06–46:07] Yeah.
[46:07–46:08] Yeah.
[46:08–46:13] And even if it is just for that day, fake it till you make it pull out a smile.
[46:13–46:14] Yeah.
[46:14–46:16] Don't make it about you and the way is I feel.
[46:16–46:18] And maybe who knows?
[46:18–46:21] It could be it could be the maitons.
[46:21–46:24] I feel like a cord actually make your siblings realize.
[46:24–46:25] I think what we fight now.
[46:25–46:26] Well, yeah, true.
[46:26–46:28] Hey, if I'm the field of makes me so sad.
[46:28–46:29] So sad.
[46:29–46:34] I feel like I know it's a terrible that they've like like you said, cut you out and you feel
[46:34–46:35] like disposed on worth this.
[46:35–46:40] But maybe it's worth messaging them beforehand and being like for the one.
[46:40–46:44] Can we try sort this like is it not sort of but like can we just try to be
[46:44–46:47] able to see if you're not going to make exactly anything and I'll want to know what they're
[46:47–46:48] saying.
[46:48–46:50] So flatty about like that's probably what's going to be exactly.
[46:50–46:52] No, no, where's the chat beforehand?
[46:52–46:54] And just say look, I'm not asking to make up.
[46:54–46:59] So I expected for forgive whatever, but can we just put that side for one day for that?
[46:59–47:00] For the sake of that.
[47:00–47:01] Yeah, say that.
[47:01–47:04] Blamers dad like all the pressure on him and on dad's.
[47:04–47:08] Yeah, just be like, yeah, for the sake of that, I really think we should put this
[47:08–47:09] aside.
[47:09–47:10] Yeah, but definitely something has to be said before the wedding.
[47:10–47:13] Don't just go into the wedding and noten been said before that.
[47:13–47:15] I feel like it'll be riddled.
[47:15–47:21] It later blow up on the day or like, yeah, you'll somebody you'll be riddled with and
[47:21–47:22] someone's always more than someone else.
[47:22–47:26] Yeah, yeah, something definitely needs to be said before the wedding weather is a text
[47:26–47:29] a call knocking on someone's door.
[47:29–47:30] The tree is coming together.
[47:30–47:34] And I feel like they're all feeling like they're probably also feeling who you are like
[47:34–47:36] sad and missing you.
[47:36–47:37] It's a family.
[47:37–47:42] The kind of way they probably would, but I think definitely chatting beforehand beforehand,
[47:42–47:43] even if just one text being a look.
[47:43–47:45] Yeah, I don't want to solve it this day.
[47:45–47:48] We don't have to solve it, but I just want to make sure that we're civil for dad and
[47:48–47:52] not take the light off like you said, because you're being sadless by deal and that's
[47:52–47:53] important.
[47:53–47:54] That's important.
[47:54–47:57] I'm going to phone a friend then.
[47:57–48:01] This is the part of our dilemma segment every week where we ask you use for advice.
[48:01–48:07] So we can't sit in the fence and be him and Han and, well, I do this and blah, blah,
[48:07–48:09] we love getting news involved.
[48:09–48:13] So we put up a dilemma on the Instagram stories and we asked our followers for their advice.
[48:13–48:14] So here is the dilemma.
[48:15–48:20] I've seen a guy for six months and as I was always told I couldn't conceive, I never
[48:20–48:21] worried about contraception.
[48:21–48:26] Oh, last week I found out I was pregnant and of course it's his as he's the only person
[48:26–48:27] I've been with.
[48:27–48:32] We're both still in shock and after thoroughly thinking about it from all aspects, I've decided
[48:32–48:35] to keep my baby as I don't know if I can ever have one again.
[48:35–48:39] I have a good job, a great benefit and I have no reason not to keep it and he's not happy
[48:39–48:40] with this.
[48:40–48:44] I'm saying one minute that this isn't a good idea and wishes I would terminate and
[48:44–48:48] then the next he's saying he'll never leave and he'll support me all the way and be there
[48:48–48:49] for his shot.
[48:49–48:54] Last month he did the most horrible thing ever and asked for a DNA test.
[48:54–48:58] I'm so hurt and all I wanted to do was give the baby the best shot at life.
[48:58–49:03] I told him to leave and that after the DNA test I didn't want to speak to him again.
[49:03–49:06] Do you think I overreacted or am I right to be so upset and ask him to leave?
[49:06–49:10] I don't know if my pregnancy hormones are making me dramatic.
[49:10–49:11] I don't know what to do with him.
[49:11–49:15] Do you think him asking me for a DNA test means he might be the one sleeping around?
[49:15–49:18] And here it is, what some of you guys have been saying.
[49:18–49:20] Only thing you need to get rid of is him.
[49:20–49:24] He won't be long running back, congratulations.
[49:24–49:28] To be honest, I would ask too if I wasn't in a long term committed relationship.
[49:28–49:29] Okay.
[49:29–49:31] Not making excuses but I found out myself.
[49:31–49:35] I found out myself in similar situations, two babies and two dads.
[49:35–49:37] They can be so open down with their feelings when it's unplanned.
[49:37–49:40] The DNA test might be someone else getting into a side of his head
[49:40–49:42] and not that he's sleeping around necessarily.
[49:42–49:45] Don't take a person, he will have him pay for it if he wants it.
[49:45–49:48] Yeah, I think I don't think that means he's necessarily sleeping around.
[49:48–49:49] Really?
[49:49–49:52] I think he might just be like someone else might have said that to him.
[49:52–49:54] Yeah, or like the obviously only six ones in.
[49:54–49:57] Like he's just thinking all the time.
[49:57–50:00] If he didn't say that from the get go, if he's like someone else might be like,
[50:00–50:01] have you asked for the DNA test?
[50:01–50:02] Like obviously ask.
[50:02–50:03] Okay.
[50:03–50:04] Not kind of thinking that might be a bit upset.
[50:04–50:05] Yeah.
[50:05–50:07] I think not necessarily that means he's sleeping around.
[50:07–50:08] Really?
[50:08–50:09] No.
[50:09–50:10] Okay.
[50:10–50:11] He just wants paper proof.
[50:11–50:12] Neither are overreacting.
[50:12–50:13] They're just trying to adjust.
[50:13–50:15] Get the DNA test, prove from wrong and wave.
[50:15–50:16] Goodbye.
[50:16–50:17] Girl, get out.
[50:17–50:22] He should trust you 100% and expect your reasons to want to keep the baby.
[50:22–50:25] If he was so concerned about getting pregnant, he should have used a condom.
[50:25–50:26] Mm-hmm.
[50:26–50:27] Yeah.
[50:27–50:29] Six months is short time to trust someone.
[50:29–50:32] It's his trust issue is not you.
[50:32–50:36] He's probably stressed and he might be pressured by his family to ask for a DNA test.
[50:36–50:37] Okay.
[50:37–50:38] It's so often down.
[50:38–50:42] So I know when I read one, I'm like, yeah, and then read the next one again.
[50:42–50:43] Yeah.
[50:43–50:45] I think it's right to have a DNA test on as you know, a money six months, but it's your
[50:45–50:46] right to keep the baby.
[50:46–50:50] And if he keeps changing his mind, tell him to make time to think about it and come back
[50:50–50:51] when he knows.
[50:51–50:54] Sounds like he needs to get his priorities right.
[50:54–50:55] Damn right.
[50:55–50:57] Just respectful and she didn't overreact.
[50:57–50:58] It's so hard.
[50:58–50:59] I know.
[50:59–51:03] Like do you think he should just be like six months in if like he just got all this
[51:03–51:04] news that she's pregnant?
[51:04–51:09] Do you think he's I think he's just so sure and is like yeah, he's just taking everything
[51:09–51:10] off.
[51:10–51:11] But you can't like think out loud like that.
[51:11–51:15] I think if you're if you're one minute saying thing or one thing that I say, say the next
[51:15–51:16] like keep that to yourself.
[51:16–51:17] Yeah.
[51:17–51:18] And you made an actual decision.
[51:18–51:19] So you made your mind.
[51:19–51:23] The question was someone pregnant like that's just huge bringing life into the world
[51:23–51:26] is a huge like thing to do.
[51:26–51:29] Every time you ask if you're not together, but out of order if you are.
[51:29–51:32] Understandable to ask for the DNA test, but you deserve better than someone who keeps
[51:32–51:33] switching it up.
[51:33–51:34] Mm hmm.
[51:34–51:35] Walk away and look after you and your baby.
[51:35–51:40] I was in the same position in with my son sperm donor and six years later, still nothing
[51:40–51:43] would stress and the only one's as much time when a daddy is not around.
[51:43–51:44] Oh, she just called him a sperm donor.
[51:44–51:47] Would you reckon it's an actual no, it's a close call.
[51:47–51:49] Oh, she's not like he's not even.
[51:49–51:50] Yeah.
[51:50–51:51] Yeah.
[51:51–51:52] You overreacted.
[51:52–51:57] It's a scary time for you both and this is unplanned in his life to cut him some slack.
[51:57–52:00] I've been in your situation, but whatever happens with the dad, you and your baby are going
[52:00–52:01] to have an amazing life together.
[52:01–52:06] And then the last one we have is I get why you're upset, but better to get everything
[52:06–52:08] sorted now before the baby comes.
[52:08–52:12] I think I think as well, like should it not just take her word for it?
[52:12–52:13] Like that it is.
[52:13–52:19] Oh, yeah, everyone should, but like I'd say like you said, someone's in his area and
[52:19–52:23] like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, telling them, yeah, all sorts are like,
[52:23–52:27] the fact it is only six months in and yeah, they might have had the conversation where
[52:27–52:30] she might have said, like I can't have kids yet.
[52:30–52:33] We never thought it was going to be something as well in his head.
[52:33–52:34] Yeah.
[52:34–52:35] So how that was helpful.
[52:35–52:38] Let us know and we hope that you are okay.
[52:38–52:39] Another home I drink, baby.
[52:39–52:40] Woo!
[52:40–52:41] A set of some update.
[52:41–52:42] Yeah, too.
[52:42–52:43] Let us know.
[52:43–52:45] You can say no to lambdas and your updates as well to home I drink a goload now dot com
[52:45–52:46] which is that email address.
[52:46–52:51] If you want to be featured from a friend, put that in the sub deadline of the email as well.
[52:51–52:55] And we can get the list there as a vice as well because that is the ease of really good
[52:55–52:56] advice.
[52:56–52:57] Really do.
[52:57–53:01] I'm going to go and think of it as nice as both sides of the coin as well and see both
[53:01–53:02] sides.
[53:02–53:06] Um, but yeah, that's it for phone friends.
[53:06–53:07] Big and big week.
[53:07–53:11] We pick one high and one low every week which is our golden batting.
[53:11–53:12] I don't know if I think it's going to be.
[53:12–53:15] Hello, pick a low pick a low pick a low.
[53:15–53:16] What was that?
[53:16–53:17] Pick a low.
[53:17–53:18] You saw.
[53:18–53:19] I think I said stretch.
[53:19–53:20] I think you stretch your leg.
[53:20–53:21] You jump.
[53:21–53:23] What was the one that you did this for everyone?
[53:23–53:25] Damn, but a river goes.
[53:25–53:29] Thank you, thank you to the next, next, next, next.
[53:29–53:33] I mean, I would just turn it into a circle like I do it.
[53:33–53:37] Yeah, old people sort of circle and you like so put your hand like on my hand.
[53:37–53:39] Yeah, you clap my hand.
[53:39–53:41] I clap someone else's hand and it goes the whole way around.
[53:41–53:42] Yeah, yeah.
[53:42–53:43] Oh, thank you, Tom.
[53:43–53:44] Thank you.
[53:44–53:45] I'm going to do the Christmas poo and soap.
[53:45–53:46] Oh, yeah.
[53:46–53:47] Mr.
[53:47–53:48] Angi.
[53:48–53:49] Mr.
[53:49–53:50] Hey, it's so fast.
[53:50–53:51] I love soap.
[53:51–53:52] I got a hat.
[53:52–53:56] I was at night time and I was in a layered water because it was so rude.
[53:56–53:57] On comedy central.
[53:57–53:59] Yeah, yeah, yeah, so rude.
[53:59–54:00] OK, so.
[54:00–54:03] Blake the week, we'll start with the negative to get that out of the way.
[54:03–54:06] My Blake just hired a girl.
[54:06–54:07] Yeah.
[54:07–54:09] Or my yeah, I can't remember anything completely.
[54:09–54:10] Kind of really good week in a week.
[54:10–54:11] That's kind of.
[54:11–54:11] Yeah.
[54:11–54:12] Rain and.
[54:12–54:13] And.
[54:13–54:14] Yeah.
[54:14–54:15] Yeah.
[54:15–54:16] Yeah.
[54:16–54:17] It's great.
[54:17–54:18] That's brilliant.
[54:18–54:19] No, Blake.
[54:19–54:20] No, love that.
[54:20–54:21] Maybe I had no breakfast this morning.
[54:21–54:22] Pretty hungry.
[54:22–54:23] So that's pretty.
[54:23–54:24] Yeah.
[54:24–54:25] Yeah.
[54:25–54:26] Yeah.
[54:26–54:27] I got your stuff big feed now.
[54:27–54:28] Yeah.
[54:28–54:29] I will.
[54:29–54:30] Thank you.
[54:30–54:34] It's my birthday when I was in Ibiza and I can't believe you're in the old club with me.
[54:34–54:36] I'm in the over 25.
[54:36–54:37] Woohoo.
[54:37–54:41] What I do feel like every age I get, I'm like, I'm going to feel like I actually just
[54:41–54:42] own.
[54:42–54:43] Do you know?
[54:43–54:44] No.
[54:44–54:45] That's good.
[54:45–54:46] I think.
[54:46–54:47] Yeah.
[54:47–54:48] I feel like that.
[54:48–54:49] Every time I turn eight, I'm like, oh, definitely feel.
[54:49–54:51] And then I'm like, now I'm like, now with the next age I will feel love.
[54:51–54:52] But like I think that every year.
[54:52–54:53] Yeah.
[54:53–54:55] I think we feel younger than we are.
[54:55–54:56] It's cold.
[54:56–54:58] Or I'm just absolutely lying to myself and telling myself that.
[54:58–54:59] Yeah.
[54:59–55:01] I'd love to say like 22.
[55:01–55:02] For EVS.
[55:02–55:03] Yeah.
[55:03–55:04] That's a nice age.
[55:04–55:05] 24.
[55:05–55:06] Maybe.
[55:06–55:07] Yeah.
[55:07–55:08] I really like 25.
[55:08–55:09] I feel like that was a nice.
[55:09–55:10] Yeah.
[55:10–55:11] You're in the middle.
[55:11–55:12] Yeah.
[55:12–55:13] I guess that was the last year of my 20s.
[55:13–55:15] I just think I'll never actually feel old.
[55:15–55:18] I think when I hear torrential, I have to plan a torrential.
[55:18–55:19] I know what it's feel like.
[55:19–55:21] It's just what I still want.
[55:21–55:25] Like, I still feel like I have the brain of when I was not in a zymetra way.
[55:25–55:28] But like I just don't feel as I always feel the same inside.
[55:28–55:29] Yeah.
[55:29–55:30] And age is only a number.
[55:30–55:31] Exactly.
[55:31–55:33] You're telling everyone up to 22.
[55:33–55:34] You.
[55:34–55:35] What's your peak?
[55:35–55:36] Yeah.
[55:36–55:37] I don't really think I have.
[55:37–55:40] My bleak is kind of that I'm really unprepared for.
[55:40–55:41] EP.
[55:41–55:42] EP.
[55:42–55:43] Yeah.
[55:43–55:44] It was pissing me off last night.
[55:44–55:45] I was lying there.
[55:45–55:46] It was my fault.
[55:46–55:47] Who have I got to blame?
[55:47–55:48] What?
[55:48–55:49] Me, myself and I.
[55:49–55:50] I don't prepare for that.
[55:50–55:51] I know.
[55:51–55:52] It's like every holiday we go on or whatever.
[55:52–55:53] And I always walk so.
[55:53–55:54] It does.
[55:54–55:55] I mean, the end of the fire in your friend.
[55:55–55:56] Yeah.
[55:56–55:57] And the load.
[55:57–55:58] Yeah.
[55:58–56:00] The peak is actually thought I was down in Brits Bay over the weekend.
[56:00–56:03] And it was just so nostalgic.
[56:03–56:04] It was so nice.
[56:04–56:07] Like it was kind of emotionally being down there.
[56:07–56:08] Yeah.
[56:08–56:13] And so we went up and saw we drove into like the mobile park where we used to say, look
[56:13–56:14] different.
[56:14–56:15] Yeah.
[56:15–56:16] Yeah.
[56:16–56:20] And I sometimes think, well, I'm like, this place used to think this place was huge.
[56:20–56:21] Like when you were so young.
[56:21–56:22] Yeah.
[56:22–56:23] Yeah.
[56:23–56:24] Yeah.
[56:24–56:25] But like we saw our mobile.
[56:25–56:27] And we drove past our mobile.
[56:27–56:28] And I know.
[56:28–56:29] But it was the peak.
[56:29–56:30] It was lovely.
[56:30–56:31] Yeah.
[56:31–56:32] Swimming in the sea.
[56:32–56:34] It was sound like wasn't called at all.
[56:34–56:35] Really?
[56:35–56:36] Oh my god.
[56:36–56:37] Yeah.
[56:37–56:38] Brought my dad to him.
[56:38–56:40] And my dad hasn't been in like the RC in years.
[56:40–56:41] So he was in swimming.
[56:41–56:42] Trying to get Bobby in.
[56:42–56:43] He was having none of the kids.
[56:43–56:44] That's very dark.
[56:44–56:45] I know.
[56:45–56:46] He was terrified of the waves.
[56:46–56:47] It was the noise.
[56:47–56:48] Yeah.
[56:48–56:49] It was like, yeah.
[56:49–56:51] I reckon if he got over like where the waves crash.
[56:51–56:52] Yeah.
[56:52–56:53] He might have been alright.
[56:53–56:54] Yeah.
[56:54–56:56] Like he was going for them and then renovated.
[56:56–56:57] Yeah.
[56:57–56:58] Yeah.
[56:58–56:59] He didn't like it at all.
[56:59–57:00] Oh.
[57:00–57:01] I hate feeling the sounds.
[57:01–57:02] It's for that.
[57:02–57:05] I was like everything I was looking at and all.
[57:05–57:06] I was picturing me.
[57:06–57:07] Been many.
[57:07–57:08] There years ago.
[57:08–57:09] Yeah.
[57:09–57:12] We met one of like our best friends down there.
[57:12–57:13] They lived in the mobile world across the world.
[57:13–57:15] We met their mom, their mom was there.
[57:15–57:16] And also we were talking to her.
[57:16–57:17] And it was just like, oh my god.
[57:17–57:18] I feel like I'm a child.
[57:18–57:19] I know.
[57:19–57:20] I know.
[57:20–57:21] It's just a weird pain.
[57:21–57:23] It's like, I feel like childhood goes so quick.
[57:23–57:24] And you never get to like, yeah.
[57:24–57:26] I hate the way you can't put your childs again.
[57:26–57:27] I know.
[57:27–57:30] You understand like 18 years and the rest of your whole life is an adult.
[57:30–57:34] But like I remember even being down a bridge and like, my mom would literally bring us down
[57:34–57:35] the day after we finished school.
[57:35–57:39] And we wouldn't come back up to Dublin until the day before school.
[57:39–57:41] First we were down there.
[57:41–57:42] Oh my god.
[57:42–57:44] So we never came home like the whole time.
[57:44–57:46] My dad would come down on the weekends.
[57:46–57:49] But I remember being younger and being like, oh, fuck say you can't want to go down here.
[57:49–57:50] Yeah.
[57:50–57:54] And now I do anything in the world.
[57:54–57:55] I know.
[57:55–57:56] To be back out there.
[57:56–57:59] Like just to go back to that time and be like, no, enjoy it in the moment.
[57:59–58:00] I know.
[58:00–58:01] So if anyone's on their 18, listen.
[58:01–58:02] Yeah.
[58:02–58:03] Honestly live.
[58:03–58:04] Live your life.
[58:04–58:05] Live like a child.
[58:05–58:06] Yeah.
[58:06–58:07] That's it for this week.
[58:07–58:08] Thank you so much for listening.
[58:08–58:11] You can go back to listen to our brown set of sold from Monday.
[58:11–58:14] We'll introduce and we're going to come out one day and every Monday.
[58:14–58:18] And then Thursday is our full episode on YouTube as well.
[58:18–58:19] So you can watch us there.
[58:19–58:20] If you're watching.
[58:20–58:21] Hello.
[58:21–58:22] Hello, Kevin.
[58:22–58:25] But have you ever seen anyone lose the of the island?
[58:25–58:26] Does that?
[58:26–58:27] No.
[58:27–58:28] I've seen that.
[58:28–58:29] I just can't get over.
[58:29–58:30] Mani Gray chefs and Karlener Kat.
[58:30–58:31] Um.
[58:31–58:32] Is he?
[58:32–58:33] No, no, no, no.
[58:33–58:34] No, no, no.
[58:34–58:35] No, no, no, no.
[58:35–58:36] Oh, yes.
[58:36–58:37] I'm showing my dad every day.
[58:37–58:38] Oh, it was a good order.
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[58:46–58:47] I'm wearing the...
[58:47–58:48] Oh, the...
[58:48–58:49] Merch, Merch.
[58:49–58:50] Right now.
[58:50–58:51] It says Summer Bird.
[58:51–58:52] Little lobster with a wild wine glass.
[58:52–58:53] And the glass rose.
[58:53–58:54] I do have shorts on.
[58:54–58:55] You blend into the couch.
[58:55–58:56] Oh my god.
[58:56–58:57] The floor is very similar.
[58:57–58:58] Very cute.
[58:58–58:59] Little minty.
[58:59–59:00] Love it.
[59:00–59:01] Love it.
[59:01–59:02] But yeah.
[59:02–59:03] That's it for this week, guys.
[59:03–59:04] We love you.
[59:04–59:05] Love you lots.
[59:05–59:06] Bye.