What I Wish I Knew In My 20s #122 — Hold My Drink [00:00–00:02] Go light! [00:12–00:14] I remember I turned 15, I was like... [00:14–00:15] 15! [00:15–00:16] I was like, yeah, like... [00:16–00:18] I was like, oh my god! [00:18–00:19] No! [00:19–00:20] I loved me a lot. [00:20–00:22] Yeah, I don't like how I love me, it's... [00:22–00:25] I think I'm more confident when I'm with someone. [00:25–00:27] Girl, tell me. [00:27–00:30] Yeah, no, I have fucked up with this in my brain. [00:30–00:32] Welcome to our DrainGrid Charley and Ellie. [00:32–00:35] Our podcast is a group that's been in your rest friends. [00:35–00:38] The girls back in the night out where you spill all the gossip on... [00:38–00:40] Ray, Shipped dilemmas. [00:40–00:41] And you're life! [00:41–00:42] Yeah! [00:42–00:44] And we're back again, set up your return and to us. [00:44–00:45] Welcome back, hey yeah! [00:45–00:47] Thanks for coming back again. [00:47–00:49] And if you're new... [00:49–00:50] Welcome. [00:50–00:52] Alright, I still have other cameras on. [00:52–00:53] Yeah, I know. [00:53–00:54] Hi guys! [00:54–00:58] On this heat episode, we talked about things we wish we knew in our 20s. [00:58–01:00] There's a lot of things. [01:00–01:01] A lot of things. [01:01–01:04] A valuable lesson that we wish we had a known, that we... [01:04–01:07] You know, we've shared with other people that are younger. [01:07–01:08] Yup. [01:08–01:09] You've shared some of us. [01:09–01:10] Yup. [01:10–01:13] We have friendships, money, relationships, life, everything. [01:13–01:14] Yeah. [01:14–01:15] The hindsight is great. [01:15–01:16] Yeah. [01:16–01:19] It's great looking back, but like, Shuredild Nashur, the world of Kodai, and you just... [01:19–01:20] Yeah. [01:20–01:21] No, we're not experts. [01:21–01:22] We're not. [01:22–01:23] We are 12. [01:23–01:24] We're sure these may be in 2018, we're 25. [01:24–01:25] Yeah. [01:25–01:26] But, from what we've learned so far. [01:26–01:27] We want to share that. [01:27–01:29] And we can do another one when we're... [01:29–01:30] In the 30s. [01:30–01:31] Ah. [01:31–01:32] Probably during 30s' edition. [01:32–01:34] For a phone friend, you helped us work dilemma about [01:34–01:36] a girl who's boyfriend's friend... [01:36–01:37] and has been lodging in her new home for a long, little... [01:37–01:38] Literally. [01:38–01:39] ..for a long... [01:39–01:40] Four months. [01:40–01:41] And he's eating their Buds. [01:41–01:42] Ma! [01:42–01:43] Turkeyma! [01:43–01:44] He's just on the making of... [01:44–01:45] Yeah. [01:45–01:48] Okay, Magnapyrs, and she's wondering how she can approach situations and get [01:48–01:50] more in the nice ways possible. [01:50–01:52] Maybe it is playing this episode, maybe not. [01:52–01:53] Yeah, we'll see. [01:53–01:54] But enjoy. [01:54–01:55] Enjoy. [01:56–01:57] I've just come from Egypt. [01:57–01:58] Lichy. [01:58–02:00] I literally fresh off of like anyone watching our video. [02:00–02:02] So we're now on YouTube as well. [02:02–02:03] We have full video episodes. [02:03–02:05] I literally have my airport open. [02:05–02:06] I was like, I can't wait like, [02:06–02:07] I think there were two airports. [02:07–02:08] Or back-back airports. [02:08–02:10] I'm sitting here on showereds. [02:10–02:11] It's fine. [02:11–02:12] I had no time. [02:12–02:15] I literally have to, I landed a half, [02:15–02:17] or 20 to one. [02:17–02:18] Kases took ages to come out. [02:18–02:19] I had to come straight. [02:19–02:21] There's a showered here actually. [02:21–02:22] There is a showered here. [02:22–02:23] Yeah, it could be, isn't there? [02:23–02:26] Well, like a showered about 12 hours ago. [02:26–02:27] You're fine, obviously. [02:27–02:29] Honk, and that's fine. [02:29–02:32] No, I don't think I was just about to go. [02:32–02:37] It literally looks like two type of friends in a best friend group. [02:37–02:39] There was Egyptian girl. [02:39–02:41] Pink and colorful and bright and beautiful. [02:41–02:42] And then there's me. [02:42–02:44] Who's just always looking like she's rocking around. [02:44–02:45] I always like her very new, [02:45–02:46] but I don't look nice in them. [02:47–02:50] I always look like I'm going to a funeral or like just... [02:50–02:52] Oh, that necklace's really nice. [02:52–02:53] Thanks so much, Bird. [02:53–02:54] Is it your name, honey? [02:54–02:55] Yeah. [02:55–02:56] Oh, Lynne. [02:56–02:57] So cute. [02:57–02:59] Really cute. [02:59–03:00] Cute. [03:00–03:02] Yeah, no, I'm a neutral girl. [03:02–03:03] I wish I could. [03:03–03:05] I don't feel confident in colors. [03:05–03:06] Do you know? [03:06–03:08] I don't feel confident in neutrals. [03:08–03:09] Oh, I'm the opposite. [03:09–03:11] I just like to blend into the crowd. [03:11–03:12] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [03:12–03:14] But I don't think it's even that for me. [03:14–03:15] Like, I just... [03:15–03:16] They look... [03:16–03:17] They like wash me out. [03:17–03:18] I think. [03:18–03:19] Probably just sounds me, but I just... [03:19–03:20] No, it just doesn't... [03:20–03:21] I just don't... [03:21–03:22] It just doesn't... [03:22–03:23] I look weird. [03:23–03:25] I also think that was so many years of being a makeup artist. [03:25–03:26] I even just attracted to black. [03:26–03:27] Your use. [03:27–03:28] Yeah. [03:28–03:29] Yeah. [03:29–03:30] Like, true. [03:30–03:31] That was your whole water. [03:31–03:32] Oh my god, even when I wasn't in work, like... [03:32–03:33] I'd always just grab a pink one. [03:33–03:35] I felt really like... [03:35–03:37] Oh, professional. [03:37–03:38] Always wearing black. [03:38–03:39] Yeah. [03:39–03:40] I still remember the full outfit of... [03:40–03:42] Did you have to wear like a certain thing? [03:42–03:44] We were actually out of our toes. [03:44–03:45] Oh. [03:45–03:46] Yeah, we were open toes shoes. [03:46–03:47] Oh, that's just healthy, safety. [03:47–03:49] Like, wearing a dress on your foot? [03:49–03:50] Yeah. [03:50–03:51] Yeah. [03:51–03:52] I don't think it'd be very... [03:52–03:54] I just do you know who's that? [03:54–03:55] Yeah, probably not. [03:55–03:56] Yeah. [03:56–03:57] I don't imagine having a big, like, fun guy tone, yeah? [03:57–03:58] Or something? [03:58–03:59] Yeah. [03:59–04:00] Would ring around, look at your counter. [04:00–04:03] What, you swear it was big chunky black boots with... [04:03–04:04] The new... [04:04–04:05] Is that over the new ones, no? [04:05–04:06] Yeah. [04:06–04:07] Both. [04:07–04:08] Yeah. [04:08–04:09] Over the new ones and the shower Chelsea ones. [04:09–04:11] The chunky ones with the heel. [04:11–04:13] This is where the... [04:13–04:15] Is it the Johnny jeans? [04:15–04:16] Oh, I... [04:16–04:17] Oh, I... [04:17–04:18] No, I prefer Johnny jeans. [04:18–04:20] I prefer skinny black Johnny jeans. [04:20–04:23] And, like, just some sort of a black top. [04:23–04:25] But I used to stretch really for value with that trolley kick. [04:25–04:27] I was the dog's bollocks. [04:27–04:29] And then having your brush belts on you, you know? [04:29–04:30] Yeah. [04:30–04:31] I always felt the brush belts. [04:31–04:32] It felt so professional. [04:32–04:33] I remember I got one when I was younger. [04:33–04:34] I got one when I went with my brats stuff. [04:34–04:36] But it was like a... [04:36–04:37] Hair dress and belt. [04:37–04:38] And I loved wearing it. [04:38–04:39] I loved recent shoes. [04:39–04:40] I still have. [04:40–04:41] I've been working eight years away. [04:41–04:43] She's like, nice to meet you. [04:43–04:45] I still have my England when I found it the other day. [04:45–04:46] So... [04:46–04:47] Yeah. [04:47–04:48] And we all... [04:48–04:49] Do you know how to say it? [04:49–04:51] Well, we never finished the bookles. [04:51–04:52] Well, I did anyway. [04:52–04:53] I never finished my bookles. [04:53–04:54] So I'd know who's the shoes. [04:54–04:55] Oh, my God. [04:55–04:57] I'd like to put it on and just... [04:57–04:59] Looking back to Johnny jeans and weren't actually... [04:59–05:00] Well, on me, they weren't flat-run. [05:00–05:01] They were like... [05:01–05:02] They were terrible. [05:02–05:03] They were terrible. [05:03–05:04] You know what I saw? [05:04–05:06] I took something with a girl and she was... [05:06–05:08] I think she was English, but she was like... [05:09–05:10] I'm going to bring his way back. [05:10–05:13] If you know this outfit, if you had this outfit, please come to let me know. [05:13–05:17] As soon as she put it on, it brought me the whole way back. [05:17–05:20] The American apparel leggings. [05:20–05:21] The disco leggings. [05:21–05:22] The disco leggings. [05:22–05:23] Yeah. [05:23–05:24] We had them from catch, though. [05:24–05:25] Yeah, yeah. [05:25–05:26] I think I had one pair of the... [05:26–05:27] Of the L.W. [05:27–05:28] Yeah. [05:28–05:30] And the body suit that they sold in American apparel. [05:30–05:32] So they're like halter and echo and it was backless. [05:32–05:33] Oh, my God. [05:33–05:34] That... [05:34–05:35] If you had to outfit, you were... [05:35–05:37] You were the iconic... [05:37–05:38] Oh, my God. [05:38–05:39] Lady House. [05:39–05:45] Me and the girls all used to have like a different pair of the leggings each and we'd all rotate [05:45–05:46] yeah. [05:46–05:49] I remember my friend had a gold pair and I was obsessed with them. [05:49–05:50] Yeah, boy, gold. [05:50–05:51] I had a red... [05:51–05:52] I didn't have a real one. [05:52–05:56] I think I had real black ones and then I had fake red ones and I... [05:56–05:57] They have a button on them. [05:57–05:59] Or were they just a leg? [05:59–06:00] Yeah. [06:00–06:01] No, they had a button on them. [06:01–06:02] Because I just had a leg from like, catches them. [06:02–06:03] Yeah, I think that's... [06:03–06:04] Where are my red ones were from? [06:04–06:06] But I remember going to an 18th or something at the time. [06:07–06:11] I think I was only been like 16 though, going to an 18th and I had the red leggings on [06:11–06:13] with a pair of fake Jeffrey Campbells. [06:13–06:14] Oh, yeah. [06:14–06:15] So I had fun. [06:15–06:16] We're a cropped... [06:16–06:20] There's little cropped off the shoulder top that had loads of colorful butterflies on it. [06:20–06:21] And then my hair... [06:21–06:24] I did my hair myself into a bow. [06:24–06:25] Remember? [06:25–06:26] Oh, my God. [06:26–06:27] Yeah. [06:27–06:28] Was it huge? [06:28–06:29] Yeah. [06:29–06:30] Yeah, I think we probably had my own natural hairs all the time. [06:30–06:31] But we did my own little bow. [06:31–06:32] That was like... [06:32–06:34] If someone had a bow back in the day, there was shit. [06:35–06:37] I thought I was so cool. [06:37–06:38] I think mine... [06:38–06:41] When I think of an outfit like that, like I wore a striped leggings. [06:41–06:42] Yep. [06:42–06:43] Terrible. [06:43–06:44] No C-through. [06:44–06:45] Oh. [06:45–06:46] And then like a little... [06:46–06:49] I had a band, like a little band top that was like... [06:49–06:50] You know, like a little bootleg. [06:50–06:51] Literally just... [06:51–06:52] Yeah, it was an American flag. [06:52–06:54] And bands with socks. [06:54–06:55] Oh! [06:55–06:57] I mean, the girls used to wear like white combers with socks. [06:57–06:58] Proper like a sick and out. [06:58–07:00] Like the socks above the comber? [07:00–07:01] Combers. [07:01–07:03] Like with like wave of... [07:03–07:05] The problem wasn't that it was all wear... [07:05–07:07] Everything one of us had to wear. [07:07–07:08] Oh yeah. [07:08–07:09] And they were pretty filthy, we didn't care. [07:09–07:11] We were all just clones of each other. [07:11–07:12] Yeah. [07:12–07:14] I remember someone was like, oh, use all wear white comers and we were so offended [07:14–07:16] because they were saying that we all wear them like... [07:16–07:19] That we got like a saying in a bad way that we're all the same. [07:19–07:20] That was like... [07:20–07:21] That was like... [07:21–07:22] Yeah, I know. [07:22–07:23] We all wanted to look like each other. [07:23–07:24] Yeah. [07:24–07:25] Yeah. [07:25–07:26] We all just wanted to look like a little girl band in. [07:26–07:27] Yeah. [07:27–07:28] It was cute though. [07:28–07:29] I know. [07:29–07:30] Or the work... [07:30–07:32] I was like, I was like, I was just a dress girl. [07:32–07:33] I was a rosary b girl. [07:33–07:34] Them and vans and... [07:34–07:35] Or combers was... [07:35–07:36] The shit. [07:36–07:38] I was a rosary b girl and a holy bracelet kind of girl. [07:38–07:40] I was holy bracelet and that rosary bids. [07:40–07:41] I was rosary bids. [07:41–07:42] I'm rosary bids now. [07:42–07:43] Are you rosary bids now? [07:43–07:45] Yeah, I got rosary bids like... [07:45–07:48] My granny always said, fashion always makes it come back illiterate, [07:48–07:49] it comes back illiterate, it comes back illiterate, [07:49–07:51] it comes back illiterate, it comes back illiterate, [07:51–07:52] in a cooler way like... [07:52–07:53] Yeah. [07:53–07:54] Because now I wouldn't be wearing the plastic one. [07:54–07:57] I'd wear a pair of American and a pair of leggings out now. [07:57–07:58] They're... [07:58–07:59] I know, they kind of remind me of the ones... [07:59–08:00] The cuckoo... [08:00–08:01] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [08:01–08:02] That's my outfit. [08:02–08:03] It's the same. [08:03–08:04] Yeah. [08:04–08:05] I don't know, yeah. [08:05–08:07] Happy to have anyone selling American. [08:07–08:09] And they sell around actually. [08:09–08:11] No, these we won on the end of grass. [08:11–08:12] I know. [08:12–08:13] I remember going in a bit like... [08:13–08:14] Oh, pink. [08:14–08:15] And I was so young that I could... [08:15–08:16] I don't know, I could have forward anything. [08:16–08:17] Oh, I got one thing literally. [08:17–08:18] No, one thing. [08:18–08:19] Probably rock. [08:19–08:22] What time have I got Johnny James after you pop as a... [08:22–08:23] Is there still a fence? [08:23–08:26] I probably rub my mask first to go in and buy them like... [08:26–08:27] That's curious. [08:27–08:28] I don't think I was working around. [08:28–08:29] Jesus. [08:29–08:32] Well, today I'm wearing an outfit straight from Egypt. [08:32–08:33] It's beautiful. [08:33–08:34] I'm really glad. [08:34–08:35] What does it say? [08:35–08:36] It says Egypt. [08:36–08:37] Charmer shake. [08:37–08:38] Charmer shake. [08:38–08:39] Yeah, which is where it was. [08:39–08:40] But basically what is it? [08:40–08:41] Caramel shake. [08:41–08:42] This one. [08:42–08:47] This I had no outfit for the desert right, so I wore my shorts and then I got this top. [08:47–08:49] I cut off the end and I cut off the neckline. [08:49–08:50] That's what I'm saying. [08:50–08:51] Did you like... [08:51–08:53] This had an neckline I just cut off. [08:53–08:54] Do you know why I dropped it? [08:54–08:56] Yeah, and then I got these apparently these are Egyptian cotton. [08:56–08:57] I don't know. [08:57–08:58] I don't know. [08:58–08:59] I have two of those. [08:59–09:00] It's both very comfy pantaloon. [09:00–09:05] They're beautiful. They're watching on video you can see them. I really like them. Yeah, you better go to wear them again [09:05–09:09] Now I will I wear them on the beach. Yeah, I mean wear them in each of our bottom for like [09:09–09:14] You know, all the yeah, what I do is spanner from them go on give us a video. We're on video on full you [09:14–09:17] I know full video on YouTube. Give us a hello. Oh, T.D. [09:18–09:19] Egypt [09:20–09:22] Cotton [09:22–09:24] I love [09:24–09:28] Beautiful on your little hand touch tell me about them. So I got Hannah's done [09:28–09:33] So these are like one brown it goes on like a dark and there you look black [09:33–09:37] It's that dark brown and then it just fades. So this one I got a day before [09:37–09:41] Or two maybe then this one I got after so that one's still a bit darker [09:41–09:44] It's so great. It's so great. So he's so quick. Would have made you want to have tattoos? [09:45–09:49] No, no, I'd get sick of them. Yeah, yeah, if you were looking at them somewhere too long [09:49–09:53] But it was so relaxing. That's one I didn't want to get. I just wanted to because it was so relaxing. Yeah [09:53–09:55] I see them as people are like I like the two come out [09:55–10:01] I'm here giving Rick no, I love yeah, very cute. Yeah, I had a lovely time. Did you? [10:01–10:04] I cried so much all the hotel stuff. There was two when I [10:04–10:09] And they just like I've never been to Africa before. I didn't realise there's an Africa. I didn't know you're an Africa. [10:09–10:14] I didn't know that yeah until like we were there a couple of days and I copped it. So Egypt is on the continent. [10:14–10:18] What on? It's attached to Sudan like like them. Yeah [10:18–10:23] But Sharmel she she she she I know and [10:23–10:29] It's like a town they built just for like tourists apparently they're saying. Oh, so like all [10:29–10:33] Everyone who works there is not from there. So no one is there's very few that are actually [10:33–10:37] In there like a small amount of workers that would live there but they're often a chiro [10:37–10:43] Which is a little bit up but like there's also not really so nice and just like their culture and like [10:43–10:47] Everyone just so it's like I feel like the place the people make a place [10:47–10:50] Of course yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so nice but I got [10:50–10:55] Sashed on one day it was absolutely terrible. Oh, why? It was just really sore. I waited back off. Yeah [10:55–10:59] It wasn't even relaxing. I was so like and she said crack him in I was like I don't know what you went to be [10:59–11:03] No, I don't think my suit was meant to be crackney though. Oh, yeah, maybe she wasn't [11:04–11:10] And at the start first of all, but hell my face down in the bed was fine. [11:10–11:13] Raps a tail around my head so I was like, right, it's pitchfax air now [11:14–11:17] Then sits on my back and I was like watch it's going on [11:17–11:22] I thought you're kind of like I don't know. No, what was going on and I had someone sit on my back before it was expensive [11:23–11:29] No, it was like 60 for us both energy. We had a got to cozy steam room sauna massage [11:30–11:32] and uh oh [11:36–11:41] Hmm, I don't know what the name is. Well, I can't remember. Just go over to me. We had a night. It's like you basically get all the dead [11:41–11:44] Skin peeled off and you just see the ground after to solve your dead skin [11:45–11:49] But that I got with some room. I guess that was so fresh. Yeah, but the pain of like this group [11:49–11:51] Yeah, and then they put like a big foam and it was cold [11:52–11:53] That's gonna annoy me [11:53–11:55] But anyway, it's a Turkish thing apparently [11:55–11:58] Rubbed it off and then massage because massage was just so unrelaxing [11:58–12:02] I mean, I don't know when the same room was each other. We were just like oh, yeah, I'm like, Lauren [12:02–12:06] How do you get down? She's like good. It was and then he was massage my heads, but they were like [12:08–12:10] I don't want that on my heads [12:11–12:16] Did you know? Could you not tell her like I was like softer softer? Oh, did you say so? Yeah? No, but Lauren said it first and I was like [12:16–12:21] God, it's obviously as a me too. Please no cracking no cracking and she's like you want more crack? Oh [12:22–12:26] No, she's like cracking it like a pretzel like rub my hair like that [12:27–12:32] See I'd say some people like it like that and then others but when Lauren my last year she got you got a lovely [12:32–12:37] Relax and so that's what we went again to that and kept the same place. I wish she just wanted to charge [12:38–12:41] For the day that was never having a laugh. Yeah, she said you know what they actually were [12:41–12:46] It's absolutely big to hold on. Oh cracking your toes. Well, it wasn't not those crack on [12:46–12:48] She's like why she's pulling my tutsies [12:49–12:51] She's banking your looking [12:53–12:55] Oh [12:55–12:58] Yeah, no so good yeah, I think what else I'll miss my flight [12:58–13:03] Yeah, I still don't really understand. I don't either. I don't know how you got that sorrow [13:03–13:06] So basically let me look at the candidates because I'll be confused [13:07–13:11] So we booked to fly home we booked the hotel until [13:13–13:18] Sunday so the 21st of their last night there so we check we're checking out in the 22nd [13:18–13:21] Mm-hmm, but then the flight we booked was [13:22–13:31] The 22nd at 1240. Yeah when you're still asleep. Yeah, yeah, I guess it but we talked at 12 for it like we was that [13:31–13:35] We were digging up the date not the time so obviously the 21st night is the 22nd [13:36–13:41] Yeah, you should have flown the night before we went to the whole day. Yeah, so I went rock to the airport [13:42–13:44] Like sad to go home whatever [13:44–13:48] How did you know I get notified that you didn't go on the flight? Why isn't I was like I was like oh [13:49–13:52] Let me check in. I was like, I'm just thinking we get there like two different [13:52–13:56] No, I didn't even check. I just was like yeah, I ran and went rock to a positive [13:56–14:01] I have curiosity and which is a total grade because it's just on the same yeah, and they they put me after like a side little [14:02–14:07] Till or whatever in order check in guy, and he's like upgrade your flight was yesterday [14:08–14:10] I was like wow [14:10–14:14] And I just knew straight away what what we'd all like to mistake we've made but anyway had to pay for new flight [14:14–14:16] Which was the new flight it was [14:17–14:19] It was gonna be 450 [14:19–14:21] Economy or 600 business [14:22–14:28] Six for business. Yeah, I mean it was worth a lot. I would have slept at all and I had to come straight to the podcast [14:28–14:34] Yeah, if I hadn't have had that like there wasn't even flat seats. It was just like a little bit just more spacious back [14:34–14:36] Was like you you could lie like [14:37–14:39] Who'd you fly like a ninth acute angle? Oh [14:39–14:45] Like no obtruth is bigger. I think yeah of shoes angle is I choose or truth of shoes of shoes [14:46–14:51] I was love to use angle on the plane and accused of what my leg every time I went my left of this this leg died [14:51–14:53] Oh, no, it's this leg this leg died. So you fly with [14:54–15:00] Turkish Airlines both ways. Yeah. Yeah. No, no, I've gone over to purchase a wrist to London and then start went over but [15:01–15:04] Yeah, go now we have to pay two extra nights in the hotel as well [15:05–15:06] At least you got two extra days [15:07–15:12] One extra one extra day but I fly it down with that 445 this morning. So we had to sail the key toll room for the whole day [15:12–15:14] Oh, that's kind of how we paid a different. Yeah [15:15–15:19] For look, but look you won't be waiting that mistake again girl. I've made it before I'm pretty sure [15:19–15:25] Not I haven't showed up there for I've copped it before it is an easy way to make though. I feel like once it's an AM time [15:25–15:30] But it's like 12 a.m. I've never flown like that time. I don't think yeah, it's a really weird time to fly [15:32–15:35] Still confused like just I think to open airport closes [15:36–15:41] Between certain times like I think double airports only opens at like 3 a.m [15:41–15:47] Yeah, I don't think you can fly after like 11 or 12. I think you can land. Yeah, but I don't think you can fly oh no [15:47–15:53] So maybe we're just gonna share my point is not but like basically then that night we're we thought like [15:53–15:56] We were like I might just go on like this flight then because they're the flight [15:57–16:03] There was the same flight at that time on the next day and we arrived. Yeah, so we like rans we might just go on this and then they were like [16:03–16:05] Yeah, the flights full and we're like oh [16:05–16:08] The flight from Istanbul to Dublin, we're full and after the other one [16:08–16:13] Um, so we could have got to Istanbul we were in stuck there. So that was fine. Then we were trying to walk a new flight and [16:14–16:16] We were like trying we were like singing to them [16:17–16:19] Right [16:19–16:24] No, you know, Lauren taught me these like Arabic songs. Yeah, all our songs are Arabic and I love them all [16:31–16:37] Oh, we were singing and then we're like special price and the guys there were like folk off and then they gave a special price [16:37–16:41] Oh, so it's good. Yeah, but like that's it didn't go cry for business [16:41–16:45] I kind of wanted to go because it was dollars. What would you what would you have done if you'd have been like [16:46–16:48] girls there's no flight for another like week [16:50–16:54] Swim home now. I hate that feeling of being trapped somewhere. I was like yeah, that's what's good [16:54–16:58] But two funnily we showed up back up with the airport at the hotel [16:58–17:03] They were like what are these two guys right and they they work in the hotel, but they work as the taxi men [17:03–17:09] Okay, like they like they were on they get the airs kind of person and we met and there were two funnily like two and we're just so happy and like [17:10–17:15] Just like best friends and they had the same name and all and I was like they remind me at some I don't know what it is [17:16–17:22] It's the two fellas like shark's head. It's found the two jellyfish. No, do you not know who to I probably wasn't that so I was like a no [17:23–17:29] I'm sorry. I'm here. There it is like they're just them. Okay, they probably bought knowledge and all they're literally she then bought they were pissed them [17:29–17:32] So I was just seeing this rock my gop out. I was a taxi being like hi [17:32–17:38] And then next day everyone was like what the fuck like why you spout the taxi fare from the airport to the hotel? No, it's fun [17:39–17:48] But yeah, so good. See no sharks. Oh, yeah, I got bitten by sand my never seen you would tell me by to my life [17:48–17:50] I do cameras. Do you want to see all my fights? [17:51–17:54] For the bigger ups, I think she is bitten a bit [17:55–17:58] It needs to be my friend. I've never seen you like that. Oh [17:59–18:01] Or sand my [18:00–18:01] That's very sand fleas. [18:01–18:03] Oh, it's custom. [18:03–18:04] They literally have a sand. [18:04–18:05] Yeah. [18:05–18:07] And it was nighttime on the beach. [18:07–18:09] It was like a beach at a cafe, anything. [18:09–18:11] And we were sitting on a rock, so that would be fine, [18:11–18:12] but I just feel like I'm still getting. [18:12–18:13] Oh, no. [18:13–18:15] It's you now, I just feel itching and scratching, bro. [18:15–18:17] Itching and scratching. [18:17–18:18] What's itching and scratching again? [18:18–18:19] That's the other car too? [18:19–18:20] Simpsons. [18:20–18:22] Oh, it is it is. [18:22–18:24] And then went to school with the I'm the first time? [18:24–18:25] It is. [18:25–18:27] Did you lie and say that you've never painted before? [18:27–18:28] Yeah. [18:28–18:29] Wait, no, no. [18:29–18:31] It's just like you've been absolutely what I said. [18:31–18:32] She lied and laughed all over. [18:32–18:33] I wasn't loud in the very prior reef. [18:33–18:34] Yeah. [18:34–18:35] That's fine. [18:35–18:37] But like it was a sheet white system, [18:37–18:39] and I was like, yeah, I think they're just trying to save [18:39–18:40] and save. [18:40–18:41] And also they like, proper hold on to the house. [18:41–18:44] Like I had to wrap my, so his hand is out at this. [18:44–18:48] And like, I don't know what I'm just going to do. [18:48–18:48] Hold on. [18:48–18:49] He's fast in a sand scanner. [18:49–18:50] Yeah. [18:50–18:51] And then I had to cast my hands through his, [18:51–18:53] so we're going to hold on like this. [18:53–18:54] So we went around. [18:54–18:54] So we went around. [18:54–18:57] But like one time I was like, if you think about it, [18:57–18:58] you want to be free, carry a little bit. [18:58–19:00] Yeah, if I was like, look, I was like, oh, [19:00–19:02] I started thinking about the water on top of me. [19:02–19:04] Yeah, I could just be a bit nervous. [19:04–19:06] But then when you see other divers, I feel very, [19:06–19:07] I was eight meters down. [19:07–19:10] And it kind of freaked me out. [19:10–19:11] And I feel like that's really that change of reef [19:11–19:14] and was much more extreme than the Egyptian one. [19:14–19:15] For those people. [19:15–19:15] Maybe I don't know. [19:15–19:18] I don't know if Egyptian were more laxiaeasy [19:18–19:19] or if I started anywhere like, [19:19–19:20] because they remember they were like, you cannot, [19:20–19:21] like swim straight up. [19:21–19:22] Oh, we had a quiz, no. [19:22–19:24] In Australia, yeah. [19:24–19:25] I never saw the swim, so I'm straight up. [19:25–19:27] But I still was careful because I didn't want to get [19:27–19:30] the bends called when you like come up too quick. [19:30–19:31] Your ears and say, um, [19:31–19:33] I said, I think you've got to go by the way, [19:33–19:35] down on my ears have to have to have some stuff. [19:35–19:36] It's fine now. [19:36–19:37] I was fine now. [19:37–19:38] I think hell maybe a pop. [19:38–19:38] Yeah, yeah. [19:38–19:39] People have helped. [19:39–19:41] Maybe the water, the pressure of it actually helped your... [19:41–19:43] And then I got drops in Egypt and they were hydrogen peroxide, [19:43–19:45] which I think is bleach. [19:45–19:45] Isn't it? [19:45–19:46] Just bleach the fogo, yeah. [19:46–19:47] And it worked. [19:47–19:49] And then since that and the people have been fun. [19:49–19:50] Totally. [19:50–19:54] Then I went to his sand deserts, drove cars. [19:54–19:56] Yeah, we were driving 20 miles an hour. [19:56–19:57] Yeah. [19:57–19:58] And I couldn't drive. [19:58–19:59] It was really slow. [19:59–20:00] I didn't even know how to drive. [20:00–20:03] And I said, she is being the most careful. [20:03–20:04] She has ever been in her life. [20:04–20:06] I could just picture you two hands in the wheel. [20:06–20:08] No, it was too hand, it was just making sure. [20:08–20:11] I was quite far down the dough now. [20:11–20:12] No, no. [20:12–20:14] But it wouldn't go quick. [20:14–20:17] It was very like, like laggy. [20:17–20:18] Yeah. [20:18–20:18] Did you get down here? [20:18–20:20] It was not really. [20:20–20:22] No, no, not really. [20:22–20:24] And then there was a Valley Dance Show. [20:24–20:25] And I was like, I hate it. [20:25–20:26] It took an hour to come on. [20:26–20:27] And we were getting really out of it. [20:27–20:29] Sitting there, we were like, we have to leave. [20:29–20:30] Hate it. [20:30–20:31] I've been really antsy. [20:31–20:31] Yeah. [20:31–20:35] And the food, and you just was like, I had a meal. [20:35–20:36] Number one on my list. [20:36–20:38] Every day I had an armoured record that I loved. [20:38–20:40] And they make a various detail on what you want. [20:40–20:42] And I had an armoured little head present. [20:42–20:45] And she is, then I had a tune sandwich with chips [20:45–20:48] and the special season and cocktail sauce. [20:48–20:50] The everyday dinner, you just like pass it or something. [20:50–20:51] And they make a free in the wolf face [20:51–20:52] so you can pick what you want. [20:52–20:56] And again, but some of the food I tried [20:56–20:57] was a bit weird. [20:57–21:00] I had an Asian restaurant and that was kind of... [21:00–21:01] Not same. [21:01–21:02] No. [21:02–21:04] But that's kind of hit miss on Halloween. [21:04–21:05] Yeah, yeah. [21:05–21:07] I just like my routine about it. [21:07–21:08] Oh, you do. [21:08–21:09] Even on holiday, I was like the same. [21:09–21:11] You should have bought your bagels and your rashes [21:11–21:13] and your air fryer away, which I missed them so much. [21:13–21:15] Yeah, I really did. [21:15–21:16] And what else is weird? [21:16–21:17] Oh, yeah, you can't use the top wire. [21:17–21:18] Can drink it? [21:18–21:20] No, we can't drink it. [21:20–21:21] Even for like, push your teeth and all. [21:21–21:22] Oh, fuck. [21:22–21:23] Yeah. [21:23–21:24] I just push your teeth. [21:24–21:25] Butler wore. [21:25–21:26] Oh, shit. [21:26–21:28] I see my toothbrushes like your worst nightmare. [21:28–21:29] No, it's not. [21:29–21:30] It is. [21:30–21:31] Is it a giki? [21:31–21:32] Well, I couldn't run out under the pressure of the trap, yeah. [21:32–21:33] So it's... [21:33–21:34] You got a makeup wipe sort of. [21:34–21:35] I did, but it's not the same. [21:35–21:37] It's like, it needs like hot water, like, [21:37–21:38] like, boiling and kettle. [21:38–21:39] Boil that when you go home. [21:39–21:40] Yeah, that's bad. [21:40–21:42] But I had some of the Egyptian chicken and rice. [21:42–21:43] That was nice. [21:43–21:44] Yeah. [21:44–21:45] Really nice. [21:45–21:46] And then... [21:46–21:47] Any desserts? [21:47–21:48] We're not deserted. [21:48–21:49] Oh, not really deserted. [21:49–21:50] I had, oh, fried banana with cinnamon. [21:50–21:51] Oh, that was nice. [21:51–21:52] Was that nice? [21:52–21:53] And your ice cream was really nice. [21:53–21:54] That sounds nice. [21:54–21:56] I'm saying an all-inclusive though. [21:56–21:57] Is it? [21:57–21:58] Yeah, I'm just saying one more. [21:58–22:00] I stayed in one in Cancun years ago. [22:00–22:01] Yeah. [22:01–22:02] What did you think? [22:02–22:03] I was well-eat all the time. [22:03–22:04] Well, actually, I was out. [22:04–22:05] No, I'm lying to you. [22:05–22:06] I remember being well-eat all day. [22:06–22:07] I was in one day. [22:07–22:08] Because I had... [22:08–22:10] Well, I only ever had two drinks, but like, I feel like they're not strong. [22:10–22:11] And when you're all in close-up, like... [22:11–22:12] Yeah, if anyone... [22:12–22:16] I think the novelty of it wears off that you can just get everything for nothing. [22:16–22:17] Yeah. [22:17–22:20] So, Cancun is all you're kind of told to not leave your resource. [22:20–22:23] That's why a lot of them are inclusive over there. [22:23–22:24] Yeah. [22:24–22:25] Yeah, true. [22:25–22:26] And it was years ago. [22:26–22:28] Like, when I lived in Toronto, we went to Cancun. [22:28–22:29] That's how many years ago. [22:29–22:30] Wow. [22:30–22:31] So, I don't really remember. [22:31–22:32] Yeah. [22:32–22:34] I went...we went out twice a few times to the tours and then just to... [22:34–22:36] Actually, we were off the street and I was actually safe. [22:36–22:37] Was it? [22:37–22:38] Yeah, I didn't feel on the... [22:38–22:39] You lived in the tourist town, like... [22:39–22:40] Yeah, I didn't feel on safe. [22:40–22:42] I felt on safer and for condominants. [22:42–22:43] Yeah, to do. [22:43–22:44] At times, like... [22:44–22:46] But even just, like, around town, I'll just be... [22:46–22:47] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [22:47–22:48] But, yeah. [22:48–22:51] Went out to the club twice, but the team from the hotel [22:51–22:52] come with you, the animation team. [22:52–22:53] That's cool. [22:53–22:54] That makes it real nice. [22:54–22:55] Yeah, they bring it. [22:55–22:57] But I hate it though, because you have to talk to everyone. [22:57–22:58] Yeah, you have to be... [22:58–22:59] Yeah, no, you don't need it. [22:59–23:01] I'm a friend with these two... [23:01–23:02] And we're doing daughter from Georgia. [23:02–23:03] We're gonna go visit them. [23:03–23:04] Oh! [23:04–23:06] I never talked about Georgia, but like now... [23:06–23:07] Georgia. [23:07–23:08] Yeah, we're gonna... [23:08–23:09] We're gonna talk about Russia. [23:09–23:10] Sorry, I'm... [23:10–23:11] So, most of us, I think, George was in America. [23:11–23:12] There is a Georgia in America. [23:12–23:13] Oh, okay. [23:13–23:14] Yeah. [23:14–23:15] Matthew were on some Saudi Arabia. [23:15–23:16] Lovely. [23:16–23:18] And then the animation team were all Egyptian. [23:18–23:19] You just... [23:19–23:20] They just mind you, make sure you're okay. [23:20–23:21] And so... [23:21–23:22] That's nice. [23:22–23:24] I tried to find my stories for sausage fest. [23:24–23:25] I was like, what? [23:25–23:26] I said, what's wrong with that man? [23:26–23:29] All the men are like 90% men. [23:29–23:32] Because I don't think the women probably go out there. [23:32–23:33] That's right. [23:33–23:34] They're cultures. [23:34–23:35] Yeah, exactly. [23:35–23:36] Yeah. [23:36–23:40] Because even what work wise, a lot of them would be saying at home, and the men would work. [23:40–23:41] Okay. [23:41–23:43] So I don't know if that's what I was there, just because it wasn't tourist men. [23:43–23:44] Yeah. [23:44–23:46] Like if the only women that were there were tourists. [23:46–23:47] Right. [23:47–23:49] So the men were all like, would have been Egyptian. [23:49–23:52] But like they were characters of us as if we were like... [23:52–23:53] Blancs? [23:53–23:54] Yeah. [23:54–23:55] Yeah. [23:55–23:56] Let's see like, Q and O. [23:56–23:57] I don't know why. [23:57–23:58] Well, because you were like, blonde from the... [23:58–23:59] Yeah, yeah. [23:59–24:00] I was like, blonde. [24:00–24:01] Yeah. [24:01–24:02] But we should remember Blancs. [24:02–24:03] And Laura is like, eyes. [24:03–24:04] Or blue eyes. [24:04–24:05] Yeah. [24:05–24:06] Remember we got a blowdry in... [24:06–24:07] Turkey. [24:07–24:10] Did you have extensions at the time or something? [24:10–24:12] We both had blonde hair anyway. [24:12–24:13] Yeah. [24:13–24:14] Which remember the staff or call another staff officer. [24:14–24:15] They look at the blonde. [24:15–24:16] Yeah. [24:16–24:17] They were like, well... [24:17–24:18] Yeah. [24:18–24:19] But... [24:19–24:21] My hair bleached off my head when you got me in the sun. [24:21–24:22] And so as I'll... [24:22–24:23] They... [24:23–24:26] If you have like red hair or blonde hair, yeah, pictures everywhere. [24:26–24:27] Yeah. [24:27–24:28] Like if you're a ginger. [24:28–24:29] Yeah. [24:29–24:30] I'm like, well, you got to do with the picture of me. [24:30–24:31] Yeah. [24:31–24:32] I'll picture of me. [24:32–24:33] And just like, are you gonna frame? [24:33–24:34] I'm real awkward like that. [24:34–24:35] Hi. [24:35–24:36] But... [24:36–24:39] And the culture of theirs as well, like... [24:39–24:40] Traditionally. [24:40–24:41] Mm-hmm. [24:41–24:42] Is you can have more than... [24:42–24:44] You can have four wives. [24:44–24:45] Oh. [24:45–24:46] I think I'm pretty sure it's four. [24:46–24:47] Is it? [24:47–24:48] Yeah. [24:48–24:50] But a lot of them were like, God no, I couldn't... [24:50–24:51] Couldn't have more than one. [24:51–24:52] Yeah. [24:52–24:53] Yeah. [24:53–24:54] Yeah. [24:54–24:55] But staff, I think I need to go back. [24:55–24:56] Yeah. [24:56–24:57] Two. [24:57–24:58] Is it one of those places that you'd go back to? [24:58–24:59] Yeah. [24:59–25:00] You wouldn't just take it off. [25:00–25:01] No. [25:01–25:02] And 100 cents. [25:02–25:03] Even just for like... [25:03–25:05] It's time of year to have guaranteed nice weather. [25:05–25:06] Like every day was nice. [25:06–25:07] Was it? [25:07–25:08] Yeah. [25:08–25:09] Yeah. [25:09–25:10] We're April. [25:10–25:11] We wouldn't get that anywhere really late. [25:11–25:12] True. [25:12–25:13] Yeah. [25:13–25:14] It's fine. [25:14–25:15] It's always hit miss. [25:15–25:16] So you'd go back. [25:16–25:17] I loved it. [25:17–25:18] I didn't see the pyramids. [25:18–25:19] Yeah. [25:19–25:20] The reminds way for me, you know, is that? [25:20–25:21] Yeah. [25:21–25:22] Were they? [25:22–25:23] They're very bolster, something. [25:23–25:24] Ah, mommy. [25:24–25:25] Or a one-air flight, but it wasn't very long at all. [25:25–25:28] I've seen check-shocks of people go into the pyramids and like... [25:28–25:31] It's kind of one of places that you go to go out to say events. [25:31–25:32] Yeah. [25:32–25:33] I don't know if I can... [25:33–25:34] Yeah. [25:34–25:35] If you want something, I'd ever like... [25:35–25:36] She's had like, Cairo's mad. [25:36–25:37] It's like, busy. [25:37–25:39] Like the pyramids is just like... [25:39–25:41] Now you think it's gonna be any... [25:41–25:42] Yeah. [25:42–25:43] But like, it's absolutely nice to see it. [25:43–25:44] It's a man of the wonders of the world. [25:44–25:45] Bill's them. [25:45–25:46] But how does it... [25:46–25:47] How did... [25:47–25:48] How? [25:48–25:49] I don't know. [25:49–25:50] How? [25:50–25:51] I don't got it. [25:51–25:52] Did enough cranes? [25:52–25:54] Like, so how did they get the last brick up so high? [25:54–25:55] Stepping on it probably. [25:55–25:56] Oh yeah, actually. [25:56–25:57] But aren't the bricks folk in here? [25:57–25:58] Like, they're not like... [25:58–25:59] Yeah, true. [25:59–26:00] Join. [26:00–26:01] Someone's dodgy there. [26:01–26:02] I don't know. [26:02–26:03] And the big cats and all. [26:03–26:04] And like... [26:04–26:05] I know. [26:05–26:06] So, like that in the world freaks me out. [26:06–26:07] How did... [26:07–26:08] Tells and zers go... [26:08–26:09] Like, people... [26:09–26:10] And even the earth. [26:10–26:11] Do that. [26:11–26:12] Yeah. [26:12–26:13] So, when he learned how to... [26:13–26:14] Had an Egyptian... [26:14–26:15] And then he changed. [26:15–26:16] He got it in Turkey. [26:16–26:17] And everyone was reading up and he... [26:17–26:18] Larus. [26:18–26:19] And she was like, no, it's Lauren. [26:19–26:21] So, whoever had done it obviously done it right. [26:21–26:22] So, it said Larus and so... [26:22–26:23] I've seen that with Tatoo. [26:23–26:24] It was actually a saga where she had... [26:24–26:25] Oh, no, Tatoo. [26:25–26:28] Yeah, she had something tattooed on her in Chinese. [26:28–26:29] And she... [26:29–26:31] I think she went into like a restaurant or something. [26:31–26:32] And I asked somebody to translate it for her. [26:32–26:33] And it meant like... [26:33–26:34] Fog off or something. [26:34–26:35] Like, it just meant like... [26:35–26:36] It meant nothing. [26:36–26:38] And she thought it meant something else. [26:38–26:39] Oh my god. [26:39–26:40] That's wonderful stuff. [26:40–26:41] Oh, it'd be fun. [26:41–26:42] Oh my god. [26:42–26:43] And it's still kind of for life. [26:43–26:44] Yeah, especially. [26:44–26:45] And the necklace that you can just take off. [26:45–26:46] Oh no, yeah, that you can just take off. [26:46–26:47] How was your week? [26:47–26:48] You have... [26:48–26:49] New hair. [26:49–26:50] I have new hair, guys. [26:50–26:51] Yes. [26:51–26:52] Oh, I forgot my extensions. [26:52–26:54] When will we ever keep our hair the same way I have? [26:54–26:55] Never. [26:55–26:56] We love changing our hair. [26:56–26:57] I love it. [26:57–26:58] I think it's great crack. [26:58–26:59] Yes. [26:59–27:00] I guess so... [27:00–27:02] I'm bored of staring at myself. [27:02–27:03] Do you think it's because of my job? [27:03–27:05] Step we get more boards. [27:05–27:06] When I was younger, I was kind of like that. [27:06–27:07] I always wanted to change. [27:07–27:08] I always wanted to do her. [27:08–27:11] Yeah, I loved experimenting. [27:11–27:12] Yeah, I loved doing something. [27:12–27:15] I was like, yeah, I just get really, really browned off [27:15–27:17] with the same thing. [27:17–27:19] And I haven't browned off. [27:19–27:22] And I haven't had my extensions out in so long. [27:22–27:23] Yeah, when did I start? [27:23–27:24] Was it cold? [27:24–27:24] Cold? [27:24–27:25] Yeah. [27:25–27:27] 2020 warm was last time I had no extensions. [27:27–27:29] And I don't go. [27:29–27:30] When I get my extensions out usually, [27:30–27:32] I get them back in the same day. [27:32–27:34] So I go into platinum for like 9 or 10 hours. [27:34–27:35] I would have, yeah. [27:35–27:39] We do all the one day, get all done with. [27:39–27:42] But, yeah, I don't know what came out for me to say to them. [27:42–27:43] Yeah, you just kind of wanted to. [27:43–27:44] Yeah. [27:44–27:45] Yeah. [27:45–27:46] You just had fucked up. [27:46–27:49] Because I'm scared of being dependent on them forever. [27:49–27:50] Forever. [27:50–27:52] I don't want to be 40. [27:52–27:53] Not if you have 14 have extensions. [27:53–27:54] That's what I think. [27:54–27:57] I've literally been getting them since I'm like 20 more or something. [27:57–27:57] Yeah. [27:57–27:59] I don't want to just always have to spend none of them. [27:59–28:00] Yeah. [28:00–28:02] And I want to scrape my hair off. [28:02–28:04] But I want to look after my hair as well. [28:04–28:05] Get it to the point at the brown. [28:05–28:06] Yeah. [28:06–28:07] Get it to the healthier. [28:07–28:09] The bleach was killing me. [28:09–28:10] Yeah. [28:10–28:12] You were getting used on quite bleach quite often. [28:12–28:13] Oh, killing me. [28:13–28:16] And every time I'd ask, if it in platinum, [28:16–28:18] I'd be like, can I get like money pieces? [28:18–28:19] She's like, no. [28:19–28:20] That's the worst. [28:20–28:21] Oh, she's in the front. [28:21–28:23] Your hair comes to fall out. [28:23–28:25] Will you stop every time I go and bleep bleach? [28:25–28:25] Blank. [28:25–28:27] Oh, yeah. [28:27–28:28] But I had to lay it. [28:28–28:29] It's like the bleach over bleach. [28:29–28:30] Oh, my God. [28:30–28:32] I had so much nice hair when I was younger. [28:32–28:33] I'm so sad. [28:33–28:34] I went to home. [28:34–28:35] I wouldn't mind. [28:35–28:35] I went to home that day. [28:35–28:36] And I sang to my mom. [28:36–28:41] I was like, when I have kids, I'm not letting them touch their hair. [28:41–28:42] Like, no way. [28:42–28:42] They're not dying. [28:42–28:43] They're not doing that. [28:43–28:45] And they're going to have all lovely lateral hair. [28:45–28:47] She goes, yeah, you just wait. [28:47–28:49] She had used scourge me when you were younger. [28:49–28:52] Like scourge me when you were younger to do something. [28:52–28:53] Yeah. [28:53–28:56] She goes, I'll never forget bringing you when you were, [28:56–28:57] it was for your confirmation. [28:57–29:00] That was the first time I ever bleached on my hair as 12. [29:00–29:02] Yeah, Dan and Britis, I went and I got, [29:02–29:04] I think, do I do my confirmation money or something? [29:04–29:07] I think, I don't know, but I went and got highlights. [29:07–29:10] And I thought I was so cool. [29:10–29:12] But yeah, she was like, yeah, you just wait and you have kids. [29:12–29:13] Yeah, no. [29:13–29:14] And then you want to make them happy. [29:14–29:15] Yeah. [29:15–29:16] And then you said bleach in your own hair at home. [29:16–29:18] I left a guy bleach my own hair at home. [29:18–29:20] And I didn't have enough bleach. [29:20–29:24] And I bleached it from, did I have kind of purple in it? [29:24–29:25] I don't know what I had in it. [29:25–29:28] But I tried to bleach it myself. [29:28–29:31] And I remember going to a car and of all that night. [29:31–29:32] Like, what are my friends? [29:32–29:34] And when I walked into the car and of all one of the boys laughed [29:34–29:37] at me and I was more terrified. [29:37–29:38] I was really put on that arm. [29:38–29:40] Oh yeah, it was all patchy and orange and all of them. [29:40–29:42] I didn't have enough bleach to bleach it. [29:42–29:44] I had no tone or I didn't know what and about that. [29:44–29:45] Like, yeah. [29:45–29:48] He used to just slap bleach on it, but no repercussions. [29:48–29:50] No, yeah, I'll never forget him laugh. [29:50–29:50] Not me. [29:50–29:53] I can still feel the fit they've arisen. [29:53–29:55] Like, oh no. [29:55–29:56] Little orange hair. [29:56–29:58] What are you having, like, put them? [29:58–30:00] Yeah, so Thanos came out. [30:00–30:01] Yeah. [30:03–30:04] Yeah? [30:04–30:05] Yeah. [30:05–30:05] Great car. [30:05–30:06] I've trippin' some. [30:06–30:07] Oh, yeah. [30:07–30:08] Yeah. [30:08–30:09] We need them. [30:09–30:10] You can just puff them in. [30:10–30:11] And they're fucking gorgeous, wouldn't know at all. [30:11–30:14] Your picture on the weekend of inside your toilet. [30:14–30:15] Oh, yeah, yeah. [30:15–30:18] I went to and then I pulled my hair left inside the toilet. [30:18–30:19] Like a little pile. [30:19–30:20] Yeah. [30:20–30:23] But I was like, what's that wig doing in the bathroom? [30:23–30:25] I don't know. [30:25–30:26] Daydream, and Zanger's. [30:26–30:27] Oh my god. [30:27–30:28] Did you go out? [30:28–30:29] Oh, after it snow. [30:29–30:30] No, we just went to a pub. [30:30–30:33] Oh, and then I got off. [30:33–30:34] Yeah. [30:34–30:35] Yeah. [30:35–30:36] Yeah. [30:36–30:37] OK, great. [30:37–30:38] No, not mad. [30:38–30:39] Yeah. [30:39–30:40] Put it up. [30:40–30:41] Yeah, I was like, yeah, I was like, yeah, I was like, yeah. [30:41–30:44] So, when the sun comes out in Ireland, I just get the H. I'm like, oh, why? [30:44–30:46] A little cold glass of rose. [30:46–30:47] Oh, that's gross. [30:47–30:48] Yeah. [30:48–30:49] Oh, and then I went on to the second one. [30:49–30:50] I was drinking a bottle. [30:50–30:51] Oh, no. [30:51–30:52] We weren't doing glasses. [30:52–30:53] How many bottles of gel? [30:54–30:55] Yeah. [30:55–30:56] I remember about, yeah. [30:56–31:00] I remember I had a tree, and then in the second pool, I got another one. [31:00–31:01] Yeah. [31:01–31:02] Yeah. [31:02–31:03] Well, that's, of course. [31:03–31:04] Great rack. [31:04–31:05] What, like, bad for the head. [31:05–31:06] Bad for the head. [31:06–31:08] But I got just so bad for your head. [31:08–31:12] I mean, yet to find a drink that doesn't make your head feel like it's going to explode. [31:12–31:14] My head doesn't ever feel breathing. [31:14–31:15] Oh, no. [31:15–31:18] When I, what turns me off, drinking is my belly. [31:18–31:19] Yeah. [31:19–31:20] Just feel a little nauseous, the next day. [31:20–31:22] I just have a stomach, a seal. [31:22–31:23] Don't run me. [31:23–31:26] If I, if I didn't feel nauseous, I'm gonna rub you drunk, I'll just run. [31:26–31:28] But I don't get older symptoms, really. [31:28–31:30] I'm hanging over my head, just to be happy. [31:30–31:33] I have to, I have to, like, make myself on my head. [31:33–31:37] Well, I will be, like, once in a very, very long, my head will be sore, but otherwise. [31:37–31:40] On my head, be like, feels like a wave. [31:40–31:41] Hop in. [31:41–31:44] We can just take a bank and at least, yeah. [31:44–31:48] Yeah, I took two of my dad's bank and there's no, it was bouncing around there. [31:48–31:49] It was fresh. [31:50–31:51] So what in them? [31:51–31:55] We need to, we were talking in our group chat at the weekend. [31:55–31:57] Everyone's getting engaged. [31:57–31:58] Oh my God. [31:58–31:59] Have Miss Mary Mullins. [31:59–32:00] Yeah. [32:00–32:01] We have Sophie Marie. [32:01–32:02] Did I have Sophie? [32:02–32:03] Did I have anything? [32:03–32:04] Yeah. [32:04–32:05] What? [32:05–32:07] 80 and 70 and when it, like, before she first finished, like, half new. [32:07–32:08] I was like, I actually prefer to hear it all. [32:08–32:09] She's so cute. [32:09–32:10] I'm delighted for the two of them. [32:10–32:14] Because I feel like, um, that's very, it's like a running joke. [32:14–32:15] Not a running joke. [32:15–32:16] You hear me? [32:16–32:17] I feel like, um. [32:17–32:18] People always say today about, uh, Eddie and like, uh, wait. [32:18–32:19] Come on. [32:19–32:20] Yeah. [32:20–32:21] I think so. [32:21–32:22] Yeah. [32:22–32:23] Yeah. [32:23–32:24] Yeah. [32:24–32:25] No. [32:25–32:27] I feel like you have that in gate, like, engage in bubble death. [32:27–32:30] They're like, yeah, imagine they just go on home, like, yeah. [32:30–32:31] No. [32:31–32:32] I mean, you want to live with them. [32:32–32:33] I'd say it's so exciting. [32:33–32:35] You just feel the happiness of them. [32:35–32:36] Yeah. [32:36–32:37] Literally the week of love. [32:37–32:38] Yeah. [32:38–32:39] Yeah. [32:39–32:40] It's random week, though. [32:40–32:41] April, isn't it? [32:41–32:43] Is there something like, mad? [32:43–32:44] Some significance in the back? [32:44–32:45] That's the big quince. [32:45–32:47] There's a three different lives. [32:47–32:48] I would have. [32:48–32:49] Yeah. [32:49–32:50] That many are too. [32:50–32:51] Wouldn't mind it. [32:51–32:52] It's my mom. [32:52–32:53] That's wedding anniversary. [32:53–32:54] The same week, I think. [32:54–32:55] Yeah. [32:55–32:58] So it's not as early like weddings and engagements and stuff for [32:58–32:59] a thing and eight from. [32:59–33:00] Yeah, maybe. [33:00–33:01] Spring. [33:01–33:02] Is it just that time? [33:02–33:03] I knew. [33:03–33:04] I think I'll have a summer engagement. [33:04–33:05] Yeah. [33:05–33:06] I told her I was like, don't do this summer. [33:06–33:07] I was enough and have white nails. [33:07–33:08] And enough as there. [33:08–33:09] Okay. [33:09–33:10] So. [33:10–33:11] So, I'm taking my usual next one. [33:11–33:12] 2025. [33:12–33:13] I can't not have white nails. [33:13–33:14] It's white nails. [33:14–33:15] No, sorry, French. [33:15–33:16] Oh, yeah. [33:16–33:17] I think that's really important. [33:17–33:18] That's what you actually never was like. [33:18–33:19] I mean, French. [33:19–33:20] Like, French. [33:20–33:21] Or, like, something new to a white. [33:21–33:22] Never. [33:22–33:23] I was like, not I just started getting them in case. [33:23–33:24] In case you pop the question. [33:24–33:25] Yeah, like I feel really old when I'm engaged. [33:25–33:26] Really? [33:26–33:27] Yeah. [33:27–33:28] For. [33:28–33:29] No, but you know what I mean? [33:29–33:30] It's like, that's something when you're like, oh, when I'm old. [33:30–33:34] You're like, you start calling Diana then your fiance, not your boyfriend. [33:34–33:36] Yeah, he's your fiance. [33:36–33:37] Yeah. [33:37–33:38] Oh. [33:38–33:39] Yeah. [33:39–33:40] Hold it off for a while. [33:40–33:41] I don't like that word. [33:41–33:42] Fiancé. [33:42–33:43] Oh, my God. [33:43–33:44] No way. [33:44–33:45] Is the girl in a fiance as well then? [33:45–33:46] Yeah. [33:46–33:47] So, boy, Anna-Gurliancé. [33:47–33:48] Oh. [33:48–33:49] Oh, no, don't. [33:49–33:50] Don't. [33:50–33:51] Don't call Diana. [33:51–33:52] Just be. [33:52–33:53] Just be a fan like. [33:53–33:54] And then it wasn't. [33:54–33:55] Yeah. [33:55–33:56] Fuck me. [33:56–33:58] We're going to sit ahead and say. [33:58–34:00] And then when you call them your partner. [34:00–34:01] Yeah. [34:01–34:02] Yeah. [34:02–34:03] Yeah. [34:03–34:04] Yeah. [34:04–34:05] Yeah. [34:05–34:06] Fuck me. [34:06–34:07] Yeah. [34:07–34:08] But I'm not going to go ahead and say, and then when you call them your partner. [34:08–34:10] I think if you're like, old and not married. [34:10–34:11] Yeah. [34:11–34:14] Not also hearing people like I think if you're like, past, I don't really think you can be like [34:14–34:15] 50 and call them your boyfriend. [34:15–34:16] It's a bit weird. [34:16–34:17] Yes, true. [34:17–34:18] Yeah. [34:18–34:19] My partner. [34:19–34:20] Yeah. [34:20–34:23] The top of Diana organized in a great way. [34:23–34:24] I'm getting excited. [34:24–34:25] He'll be fine. [34:25–34:26] I just like. [34:26–34:27] I don't know. [34:27–34:28] No, he'll be grand. [34:28–34:29] He needs to be sunny. [34:29–34:30] Good light. [34:30–34:31] Yeah, darling. [34:31–34:32] Listen in quick. [34:32–34:39] Anything you're lovin' in life for. [34:39–34:42] And I know it was just products last week. [34:42–34:44] Okay, I'm in a really good mood today. [34:44–34:45] Really? [34:45–34:46] Yeah. [34:46–34:47] That's good. [34:47–34:48] Isn't it? [34:48–34:49] You're lovin' life in general. [34:49–34:50] Yeah. [34:50–34:51] Things the weather and just. [34:51–34:52] Yeah. [34:52–34:53] Things are going good. [34:53–34:54] That's good. [34:54–34:55] Yeah. [34:55–34:56] That's not what it feels like. [34:56–34:57] Good. [34:57–34:58] Yeah, happy for you. [34:58–34:59] Thanks. [34:59–35:00] But that's your good thing of me. [35:00–35:01] I'm so good. [35:01–35:03] My products are the week. [35:03–35:04] Jesus. [35:04–35:05] Mine. [35:05–35:06] Oh, no. [35:06–35:08] I do have products of the week. [35:08–35:09] Oh. [35:09–35:11] And I actually got it in PR. [35:11–35:12] And I'm so delighted. [35:12–35:13] Smooth, stick tank. [35:13–35:14] Guess again. [35:14–35:16] What am I never without? [35:16–35:17] You're me. [35:17–35:18] I'm trying again. [35:18–35:20] It's not my handbag. [35:20–35:21] I always have. [35:21–35:22] Always. [35:22–35:24] It comes on every night out with me. [35:24–35:25] It comes. [35:25–35:26] Oh, it's hangouties. [35:26–35:27] It's hangouties. [35:27–35:28] It's hangouties. [35:28–35:29] Oh, it's hangouties. [35:29–35:30] It's hangouties. [35:30–35:31] It's not in PR. [35:31–35:34] Oh, my life is a little bit. [35:34–35:35] You want? [35:35–35:36] Yeah. [35:36–35:37] I got a few different ones. [35:37–35:38] You know, I'm like with my hangouties. [35:38–35:39] And you lose a lot of time. [35:39–35:40] I do lose a lot of time. [35:40–35:41] I kill. [35:41–35:42] I lose a lot of time. [35:42–35:43] What the fuck am I doing today? [35:43–35:44] I'm trying to harm. [35:44–35:45] Always. [35:45–35:46] Yeah. [35:46–35:47] I've lost a table for now. [35:47–35:48] A little one. [35:48–35:49] But the hangouties are. [35:49–35:50] I love my life. [35:50–35:51] It's the only hairbrush about my ears. [35:51–35:52] I love the Denman. [35:52–35:53] Do you really use them? [35:53–35:55] I used to use them when I was younger. [35:55–35:57] I think my mom had one of them for years. [35:57–35:58] I was three and a half when I home. [35:58–35:59] I since I got my extensions out [35:59–36:00] I was brushing my hair with a few of my. [36:00–36:05] I was washing her hair and I'm like, this is heaven. [36:05–36:08] I'm loving my hair dryer since I got it. [36:08–36:11] So I was like, oh, yeah, I'm really good. [36:11–36:12] Yeah. [36:12–36:14] I just, the airbrush didn't work for me. [36:14–36:15] What you doing with it? [36:15–36:16] Well, your airbrush. [36:16–36:17] I don't know. [36:17–36:19] Maybe I should try again at that bump. [36:19–36:20] Yeah. [36:20–36:21] She'll flick her under and off. [36:21–36:23] If you sell it to someone else, I'll kill you. [36:23–36:24] Sell it to me. [36:24–36:25] Okay. [36:25–36:26] I buy it off you if you do sell it. [36:26–36:27] Really? [36:27–36:28] Yeah. [36:28–36:29] You really want it? [36:29–36:30] Yeah. [36:30–36:31] I think I'd love it. [36:31–36:32] Really? [36:32–36:35] I know I've never now stand on something like this anymore, but I could still use my clip-ins. [36:35–36:36] Yeah, true. [36:36–36:37] Yeah, I don't know. [36:37–36:40] I always remember hair like stand up or something. [36:40–36:41] That a key lecker. [36:41–36:42] Yeah. [36:42–36:43] Did it? [36:43–36:44] Yeah. [36:44–36:45] So your product of the week is your dice and. [36:45–36:46] I love it. [36:46–36:47] Yeah. [36:47–36:48] Bo-care related. [36:48–36:49] Yeah. [36:49–36:50] It's really light travel as well. [36:50–36:51] Yeah. [36:51–36:52] I hope it's in my suitcase. [36:52–36:53] Please God. [36:53–36:54] I hope it is too. [36:54–36:55] Yeah. [36:55–36:56] She's very clever. [36:56–36:57] Wait, it's on as well. [36:57–36:58] Just check your phones. [36:58–36:59] Yeah. [36:59–37:01] I brought them in my little hand luggage. [37:01–37:02] Go, Carol. [37:02–37:05] Because I also actually dole fucking annoying. [37:05–37:08] I brought my, I saw I got a new phone obviously from Lace the Stirlman. [37:08–37:09] Yeah. [37:09–37:13] And Brian, you just put me, no this is the same one. [37:13–37:17] But I brought to Egypt and I couldn't set it up because I needed internet connection [37:17–37:20] and the WiFi was too bad to even connect to a sojuice had phone. [37:20–37:21] I don't know. [37:21–37:24] So you were just looking at it like, couldn't even use it? [37:24–37:25] No. [37:25–37:26] Oh no. [37:26–37:27] Could you try and get past the like set up? [37:27–37:28] It's weird. [37:28–37:29] I thought I was like, oh yeah. [37:29–37:30] It's okay. [37:30–37:31] It's okay. [37:31–37:32] It's okay. [37:32–37:33] It's okay. [37:33–37:34] So I just bought for no reason. [37:34–37:36] Why did I just put it up before? [37:36–37:38] And then I brought my GoPro no charger. [37:38–37:39] I said, don't worry. [37:39–37:40] Oh. [37:40–37:41] And you brought it for the love. [37:41–37:42] No, then. [37:42–37:43] Oh. [37:43–37:44] The guy in the boat had a charger. [37:44–37:46] I think it's quite universal. [37:46–37:47] Yeah. [37:47–37:48] It's good. [37:48–37:49] It's so good. [37:49–37:50] So clear. [37:50–37:51] Of course so clear. [37:51–37:52] Yeah. [37:52–37:54] And you bring it on the water and I'll probably like, no case. [37:54–37:55] No. [37:55–37:56] But it was actually dad for the school. [37:56–37:57] So I got no no no. [37:57–37:59] But the camera man could make me do wear poses. [37:59–38:00] I saw her yesterday. [38:00–38:01] That's what they got on there. [38:01–38:03] I was like, she's a Christian girl. [38:03–38:04] Yeah. [38:04–38:07] She's doing her how holy pose is under the wash. [38:07–38:08] I don't know why. [38:08–38:11] And I was like trying not to laugh, but I was like, I fell off. [38:11–38:12] I'm used for my oxygen. [38:12–38:13] I'm used to it. [38:13–38:14] I'm used to it. [38:14–38:15] Come here. [38:15–38:16] Can we touch on trends? [38:16–38:17] Yeah. [38:17–38:18] Can we touch on a trend that I hate? [38:18–38:19] What? [38:19–38:21] I just I just want to be a hate or for a minute. [38:21–38:23] Just in the mood to be a hate or even though I'm in a really good mood. [38:23–38:24] Yeah. [38:24–38:25] Ballerina pumps. [38:25–38:26] Oh my god. [38:26–38:27] That's exactly what I thought you were going to say. [38:27–38:28] Right. [38:28–38:29] Fucking hate. [38:29–38:30] I don't hate them. [38:30–38:31] I just can't bulls off because I can't. [38:31–38:33] Hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate. [38:33–38:34] Ugly ugly ugly. [38:34–38:35] Don't worry them. [38:35–38:37] I think there's some that are nice. [38:37–38:38] Absolutely not. [38:38–38:39] Really? [38:39–38:40] No. [38:40–38:41] Really. [38:41–38:44] I think there's some that are ones and all and like the Ghani was a nice scene of Prada pair. [38:44–38:45] Ugly. [38:45–38:46] We're a little proud of stand from. [38:46–38:47] Written. [38:47–38:48] They were eye-move school shoes. [38:48–38:54] I just know they might they remind me of like like like like kids shoes. [38:54–38:55] Yeah. [38:55–38:58] School when you're in school like like at the age of five or yeah. [38:58–38:59] A little slow fun. [38:59–39:00] Yeah. [39:00–39:04] I just I've seen the styles really nice but I can't because I can't because I can't. [39:04–39:05] Yeah. [39:05–39:07] When I see someone who looks unreal and them. [39:07–39:08] Yeah. [39:08–39:09] Like you pull them off. [39:09–39:10] You look deadly. [39:10–39:11] Yeah. [39:11–39:13] I couldn't you couldn't pay me to put them on me. [39:13–39:15] It's and they also look nearly you'll make me a storm. [39:15–39:16] Yeah. [39:16–39:17] My legs would look this way. [39:17–39:21] My legs would actually go they'd actually be the opposite way. [39:21–39:22] No. [39:22–39:23] No. [39:23–39:26] But they also they also look really really bad for your fee. [39:26–39:28] The way that they're so bad. [39:28–39:29] Really flat. [39:29–39:30] Isn't that really bad for me? [39:30–39:31] Mm-hmm. [39:31–39:32] You get your hair. [39:32–39:33] Childish. [39:33–39:34] Yeah. [39:34–39:35] Yeah. [39:35–39:36] I don't yeah. [39:36–39:37] Not fun of the ballerina pumps them. [39:37–39:38] I like them. [39:38–39:39] I don't know. [39:39–39:40] I don't know. [39:40–39:41] I don't know. [39:41–39:42] I don't know. [39:42–39:43] I don't know. [39:43–39:44] I don't know. [39:44–39:45] I don't know. [39:45–39:46] I don't know. [39:46–39:47] I don't know. [39:47–39:48] I don't know. [39:48–39:49] I don't know. [39:49–39:50] I don't know. [39:50–39:51] I don't know. [39:51–39:52] I just want you to hate on them for a minute. [39:52–39:53] I've been hate on them for a while. [39:53–39:54] I have. [39:54–39:55] Yeah. [39:55–39:57] Then I see I've like that's nice but I just couldn't. [39:57–39:58] I need some. [39:58–39:59] I find a platform girl. [39:59–40:01] Then how the fuck can I wear something? [40:01–40:02] Can you go to the minus platform? [40:02–40:03] And like ballerina. [40:03–40:06] That's even less than a gazelle which is already like flat. [40:06–40:07] Yeah. [40:07–40:08] Just don't see what I thought. [40:08–40:09] No. [40:09–40:10] I don't think I hate anything. [40:10–40:11] I love blamershorts. [40:11–40:12] I'm sorry. [40:12–40:13] You love what? [40:13–40:14] Blamershorts. [40:14–40:15] Oh yeah. [40:15–40:16] You come wear them. [40:16–40:17] I couldn't. [40:17–40:18] Why not? [40:18–40:19] Because I would look like Comty Domty. [40:19–40:20] I'd look like fucking. [40:20–40:21] Shame on you. [40:21–40:22] Something I was surecklic. [40:22–40:23] You know. [40:23–40:24] You know. [40:24–40:31] And they go to that big castle with Lord Farquad and all his people are wearing them. [40:31–40:34] That's what I'd look like. [40:34–40:35] Yeah. [40:35–40:36] So little people. [40:36–40:37] I'll be back. [40:37–40:38] I love some. [40:38–40:39] No. [40:39–40:40] I think when they're style nice. [40:40–40:41] Why do they call that? [40:41–40:42] They look like blamers. [40:42–40:43] What's blamers? [40:43–40:46] I was the thing that baby wear under their dresses. [40:46–40:47] Yeah. [40:47–40:48] Exactly that. [40:48–40:49] I love them. [40:49–40:50] I like your own stuff. [40:50–40:51] They look adorable. [40:51–40:52] They're like intensely. [40:52–40:54] What did someone say? [40:54–40:55] How they slower something. [40:55–40:56] They're just poofy shorts though. [40:56–40:57] Are they? [40:57–40:58] Poofy half pants. [40:58–41:00] Someone was like, oh my god you have all your legs out and all your stomach out. [41:00–41:03] I was like, first time my leg is half cold by a boo. [41:03–41:04] So it's my tie. [41:04–41:05] It's your knee and your tie. [41:05–41:06] Grab, hop me out. [41:06–41:07] Oh take it out for you. [41:07–41:08] Honestly. [41:08–41:10] But it doesn't concern anyone else. [41:10–41:11] It's so funny. [41:11–41:12] I just don't get it. [41:12–41:14] I'm hating on people who hate on people. [41:14–41:15] That's a good one. [41:15–41:16] Yeah. [41:16–41:17] Okay. [41:17–41:18] Just let people wear it. [41:18–41:19] It's not hermeneer. [41:19–41:22] And here's me after giving a half an hour round about bothering them. [41:22–41:24] No, but you're not saying anything for her. [41:24–41:25] No. [41:25–41:26] You don't make them forget. [41:26–41:27] For all Jesus now. [41:27–41:28] No. [41:28–41:29] I'll go to the next. [41:29–41:32] I see in a cute little pair that we're like pink. [41:32–41:37] But I just think I'd rather if I was to pick a shoe, I just wouldn't go for that. [41:37–41:38] No. [41:38–41:39] That's where I'm doing. [41:39–41:40] You don't do see pimples in here. [41:40–41:41] You? [41:41–41:42] You've got to see pimples. [41:42–41:43] Yeah, I'm really cold. [41:43–41:44] Cold guard. [41:44–41:45] I can hear the air coming out. [41:45–41:46] I'm just using the Egyptian weather. [41:46–41:47] Oh. [41:47–41:48] She's climatized. [41:48–41:49] She did. [41:49–41:51] So we're doing what I wish. [41:51–41:52] I knew in my 20s. [41:52–41:53] Yeah. [41:53–41:56] So in episode 101, we done an episode on things we usually knew in our teens. [41:56–41:57] Yeah. [41:57–42:00] Which I feel like it's quite different things we usually know in our 20s probably. [42:00–42:01] Yeah. [42:01–42:05] Because you're spending small stuff more on your teens, I feel. [42:05–42:06] To think. [42:06–42:07] Yeah. [42:07–42:08] Yeah. [42:08–42:09] It's more like 20s you kind of lack a little bit to you. [42:09–42:10] Yeah, you too. [42:10–42:14] And I knew a listen that is in their teenagers right now or even if you're not, it's nice to know [42:14–42:16] that sometimes we're all worried about saying things. [42:16–42:20] I had times where you're into just to hear someone else say something that you might need to hear. [42:20–42:22] It kind of takes the pressure off you. [42:22–42:23] Yeah. [42:23–42:24] You should feel. [42:24–42:25] Listen to. [42:25–42:26] Yeah. [42:26–42:27] Yeah. [42:27–42:28] I'm just swindling it. [42:28–42:29] Yeah. [42:29–42:34] So we're going to go into things we wish we learned we knew in our 20s. [42:34–42:35] So I'm 25. [42:35–42:36] So this is like so far. [42:36–42:38] If I was to go back to 20 year old, me. [42:38–42:39] Yeah. [42:39–42:40] Your half weight. [42:40–42:41] What? [42:41–42:42] I would tell. [42:42–42:43] And I'm. [42:43–42:44] Of the cusp of being tertiary. [42:44–42:46] Well, I'm eight years into my 20s. [42:46–42:47] Yeah. [42:47–42:49] So, yeah, it's definitely a lot. [42:49–42:51] But we could learn how to go into ours. [42:51–42:52] Yeah. [42:52–42:53] Okay. [42:53–42:56] So one of mine is actually from thinking about hair extensions. [42:56–42:58] Don't get fucking extensions. [42:58–42:59] Don't do it. [42:59–43:00] Yeah. [43:00–43:01] Don't need to. [43:01–43:02] Don't start. [43:02–43:03] Yeah. [43:03–43:04] One tramp tank when I got to birth. [43:04–43:06] I actually short hair and I got the first. [43:06–43:07] So they were very long. [43:07–43:08] Okay. [43:08–43:09] So I need loads in and then it was just. [43:09–43:10] Yeah. [43:10–43:11] It's just a cycle. [43:11–43:14] If you have lovely hair, just don't. [43:14–43:15] And I know what's the time. [43:15–43:16] It makes you feel. [43:16–43:22] Because I only started like dying my hair and bleaching it and getting extensions and doing all the shit to my hair. [43:22–43:23] I was everywhere. [43:23–43:24] So around me was doing, hey. [43:24–43:25] Yeah. [43:25–43:27] You just want to blend in what everyone and do. [43:27–43:28] What everyone else is doing. [43:28–43:30] Especially at the start of your 20s, that's what you want to do as well. [43:30–43:31] Yeah. [43:31–43:32] Yeah. [43:32–43:33] So, yeah, that's a good one. [43:33–43:34] I like that one. [43:34–43:35] Just don't do it. [43:35–43:37] Don't do it because it wasn't even that I was trying to be. [43:37–43:43] It was like, when I actually started working in panties, if Valley, I had never known extensions were a thing. [43:43–43:46] It just wasn't like the world. [43:46–43:49] And then everyone in panties, I was like, I don't know, and that's not their real hair. [43:49–43:51] I could have their hair like in my hat. [43:51–43:54] And short of like my collarbone length, I'd say. [43:54–43:55] And I was like, needs. [43:55–43:56] Yeah. [43:56–43:57] That's the reason you get them. [43:57–43:59] Like they say in her hair, you've long hair. [43:59–44:01] Like that was like the dream. [44:01–44:02] That's the bottom. [44:02–44:03] Yeah. [44:03–44:04] I like that one. [44:04–44:05] I was trying not to talk to anyone. [44:05–44:07] I was so tempted to get a pair of clipens, please. [44:07–44:08] Yeah. [44:08–44:09] You better cut better investments. [44:09–44:11] And one of mine was not a rusher of 20s. [44:11–44:12] Yeah. [44:12–44:13] I rushed the start of it. [44:13–44:14] Definitely. [44:14–44:15] What did we rush to do? [44:15–44:16] Like to grow up quickly. [44:16–44:17] Yeah. [44:17–44:18] Yeah. [44:18–44:19] I thought I was so much older than I was. [44:19–44:22] Like when I was 21 and 22, thought it was. [44:22–44:23] Yeah. [44:23–44:24] Way older than I actually was. [44:24–44:25] Yeah. [44:25–44:28] And now that I'm on the other end of it and I'm 28, I'm like, oh my god. [44:28–44:31] I wish I like acted like a 21 year old nearly. [44:31–44:32] Yeah. [44:32–44:33] Don't know if I did like. [44:33–44:34] I feel like I did like. [44:34–44:35] Okay, that's so. [44:35–44:36] Yeah. [44:36–44:37] Okay, I've put stuff you can get away when you're 21. [44:37–44:38] Yeah. [44:38–44:39] You think that he couldn't. [44:39–44:40] Yeah, I don't know. [44:40–44:42] I, yeah, I definitely rush the first kind of. [44:42–44:43] Mm. [44:43–44:44] Pores. [44:44–44:45] Yeah. [44:45–44:46] Yeah. [44:46–44:47] That's one of mine is you're not, you're not old. [44:47–44:48] I'm capitalitis because. [44:48–44:50] Yeah, every year I've taught him old. [44:50–44:52] I don't remember I turned 15. [44:52–44:54] I was like 15. [44:54–44:55] Like 15. [44:55–44:56] Yeah. [44:56–44:57] Like no. [44:57–44:58] I fall on. [44:58–44:59] I see like 22. [45:00–45:05] Your old auntie is talking all about me and like, get ready for me for my 22nd birthday and they're like, [45:05–45:07] I'm so old, can't believe I'm French. I'm like, bitch! [45:07–45:08] I know! [45:08–45:10] Are you taking the piss? [45:10–45:14] Yeah, so stop taking her all day every night. Even now when I think I'm still not thinking about it, [45:14–45:16] but then I'm like, you're not in comparison to like, [45:16–45:20] when I look back on him for, so you have like, fuck her as a baby. [45:20–45:24] Yeah, spring chicken like 20's best years of life. Don't waste it thinking you're a fucking old. [45:24–45:26] Yeah, you'll never be as young as you are today. [45:26–45:27] Yeah, it's not weird. [45:28–45:31] I feel like life's going too quickly. I feel a little bit... [45:31–45:33] No! I don't think it's going too quickly. [45:33–45:35] I think April's a mad weird month. [45:35–45:37] I feel like it's going at 170,000 hours. [45:37–45:40] April shouldn't be a month. It should just go marriage me. [45:40–45:42] No, that would make it even chore in my family. [45:42–45:43] I can't be any more busy. [45:43–45:46] I don't really get, I don't really understand April. [45:46–45:47] No, it's a bit random on things. [45:47–45:49] Yeah, I don't know. [45:50–45:52] One of mine is happiness isn't what you have. [45:53–45:55] Ah, that's cute. [45:55–45:58] Like your material thing. [45:58–46:01] Not that ever was materialistic, but like, just not. [46:01–46:02] Yeah, not money, it's not. [46:02–46:06] It's like having your family friends, you being happy like that is... [46:06–46:07] That's... [46:07–46:08] Yeah. [46:08–46:12] Not now, so I could live to be on a desert island with days pantaloon. [46:13–46:14] These Egyptop... [46:14–46:16] You love her, pantaloon. [46:16–46:18] And my family friends, I'm just being happy. [46:18–46:19] Happy being, yeah. [46:19–46:21] I just think when you're young, I think... [46:22–46:24] More so in your teens, maybe, but also in your 20s, [46:24–46:26] he's like, you want everyone else has, or like, you want... [46:26–46:30] Like, it's all about image, but I'm not just one piece. [46:30–46:31] Yeah, it's happiness. [46:31–46:33] Yeah, you really realise that I'm as old as you are. [46:33–46:34] You do, you do. [46:34–46:35] Yeah. [46:35–46:38] Also, it's not waste time on people. [46:38–46:40] I mean, I thought, am I done on this, anyone? [46:40–46:41] So he's not waste time, but like... [46:42–46:45] For that even, maybe you feel like 20, like, just... [46:46–46:48] You know, don't waste your time on people. [46:48–46:49] Yeah. [46:50–46:50] It's not worth... [46:50–46:52] These are your golden years. [46:52–46:54] I think they say 30s are golden years. [46:54–46:54] Yeah, I can't wait for that. [46:54–46:59] But your venties are so good, that's not worth spending time crying over. [46:59–47:01] Or for some friendship, but you know, [47:01–47:02] we're going to carry true like... [47:02–47:03] For that. [47:03–47:03] Yeah. [47:03–47:04] Yeah. [47:04–47:05] It's not good. [47:05–47:06] It's not really worth your time. [47:06–47:07] No. [47:07–47:08] I mean, your time is your time. [47:09–47:10] I think I've gotten better at that too, but like, you know, [47:10–47:12] you do what you want to do. [47:12–47:13] Yeah, stop trying to please everyone else. [47:13–47:14] Yeah. [47:14–47:16] Maybe stop being such a people, people, please. [47:16–47:17] Yeah. [47:17–47:18] I could be a good... [47:18–47:19] I think that comes at age. [47:19–47:20] Yeah. [47:20–47:21] Because like, you just end up... [47:23–47:25] just being able to say no more. [47:25–47:26] I think I'm still... [47:27–47:29] You say no to nothing when you stop. [47:29–47:29] No. [47:29–47:30] No. [47:30–47:30] And you're getting better, like... [47:30–47:32] You're getting better, yeah. [47:32–47:32] Yeah. [47:32–47:33] I was just... [47:33–47:35] I just have to keep running, you're starting? [47:35–47:36] Yeah, I can't say no to anything. [47:36–47:37] Burning the candle now. [47:37–47:38] I know. [47:38–47:38] I know. [47:38–47:40] But you're undoing things for yourself. [47:40–47:41] I think that's a big one. [47:41–47:44] Having something for you, like, whether that's... [47:44–47:45] I don't know. [47:46–47:47] Like a hobby or like... [47:47–47:48] Yeah, if mine, I feel like [47:48–47:48] was like running. [47:48–47:49] That was like... [47:49–47:49] Oh yeah. [47:49–47:51] For me, now I like to do even the gym. [47:51–47:52] Yeah. [47:52–47:53] I like a hobby that is like not... [47:54–47:55] for anyone else. [47:55–47:56] It's not something like... [47:56–47:58] Like, I would never document gym or anything. [47:58–47:58] I never like... [47:58–48:00] Putting time into yourself. [48:00–48:00] Yeah. [48:00–48:01] Do you time? [48:01–48:01] That's just me. [48:01–48:02] That's nice. [48:02–48:02] Not work. [48:02–48:04] It's not family stuff, friends. [48:04–48:05] Like, I loved them all. [48:05–48:05] Yeah. [48:05–48:07] Not my heart, but it's nice to have something for you [48:07–48:08] to remind yourself. [48:09–48:12] One of mine was to go out as much as you can [48:12–48:13] at the start of your 20s. [48:13–48:15] Because the hangovers... [48:15–48:17] It is really true what they say. [48:17–48:18] They get... [48:18–48:21] So I remember 100% not gonna lie. [48:21–48:22] Probably being out till... [48:23–48:25] 4 or 5, 6 in the morning. [48:25–48:26] In my early 20s. [48:27–48:28] And you're a workout, 9 or 10. [48:28–48:29] Same. [48:29–48:30] Like... [48:30–48:30] No sleep. [48:30–48:31] Oh yeah. [48:31–48:31] Yeah. [48:31–48:32] Fresh. [48:32–48:32] What? [48:33–48:34] I could... [48:34–48:34] Now I could... [48:34–48:36] I'd have to ring an ambulance for myself [48:36–48:37] if I tried to do that now. [48:37–48:38] Like, I would need... [48:38–48:39] Like, the hangovers get... [48:40–48:42] a million times worse as you get older. [48:42–48:42] Yeah. [48:42–48:44] You just can't hack... [48:44–48:45] Like, I couldn't go out to your night's number, oh no. [48:46–48:47] Good smell. [48:47–48:48] No! [48:49–48:49] I don't... [48:49–48:50] I don't know. [48:50–48:50] No. [48:50–48:51] I've gotten that much worse. [48:51–48:52] Oh my. [48:52–48:52] I do enough. [48:52–48:53] Is it still yet to hit? [48:54–48:54] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [48:54–48:56] Maybe it's when you hit like 27ish. [48:57–48:57] Yeah. [48:57–48:59] Maybe mine started getting bad then. [48:59–49:01] Because I feel like mine was kind of in the same. [49:03–49:04] I think one time I drank and... [49:05–49:06] was I a woman's school for? [49:06–49:07] Fuck off. [49:08–49:09] It was Paddy's day in school. [49:09–49:10] I don't know if I'm over. [49:10–49:11] And the school on the next day, like... [49:11–49:12] Yeah. [49:12–49:13] It shouldn't be used to do that with your zoom, [49:13–49:14] so it results... [49:14–49:15] You'd have to come in the next day. [49:15–49:16] After results night. [49:16–49:16] Yeah. [49:16–49:17] Go away. [49:17–49:20] Well, I think Paddy's day had like half an agnobod. [49:22–49:24] Oh, I wish I had not pissed and half an agnobod. [49:24–49:25] Oh, I was... [49:25–49:26] Oh my god. [49:26–49:27] You'd have such a cheap night out. [49:27–49:28] That'd be so good. [49:28–49:29] I'm the first meal in the being drum. [49:29–49:30] Like how were it? [49:30–49:32] No, because I ended up in hospital, so yeah. [49:33–49:35] And one of mine says, [49:35–49:37] this is kind of niche, but start eating better [49:37–49:39] your stomach will tank you. [49:39–49:40] Because I just like... [49:40–49:41] My stomachs and ribbons all the time. [49:41–49:43] I'm not a stomach problem girl yet, at all. [49:43–49:44] Mine used to be much worse. [49:45–49:46] Much better than I have. [49:46–49:47] I know what's good about... [49:47–49:49] You know what's good about... [49:49–49:50] And I know... [49:50–49:51] Dumbledack noodles. [49:51–49:52] Nope. [49:52–49:53] Kind of make you sick. [49:53–49:55] So if you eat them, you're gonna have to see your three questions. [49:55–49:56] That's a good one. [49:56–49:56] Yeah. [49:56–49:56] Yeah. [49:56–49:57] And you will puke. [49:57–49:58] Yeah. [49:58–49:59] Yeah. [49:59–50:00] Do you think maybe we spend [50:00–50:02] in less time on relationships in your 20s? [50:02–50:03] In your early 20s? [50:03–50:04] Yeah. [50:04–50:05] Five months. [50:06–50:07] T-B-H. [50:07–50:07] Yeah. [50:07–50:08] Yeah. [50:09–50:10] That's a good one. [50:10–50:10] Yeah. [50:10–50:11] I don't know. [50:11–50:13] Because you learn a lot. [50:13–50:13] That's... [50:13–50:16] I think that's what I take from the start of my 20s. [50:16–50:17] Yeah. [50:17–50:18] That I'm... [50:18–50:19] Put like now that I'm 28. [50:19–50:21] Going 29 and a few months, [50:21–50:22] like I'm at that age now, [50:22–50:22] I'm kind of like, [50:22–50:23] right... [50:23–50:24] To your lessons. [50:24–50:25] Yeah. [50:25–50:26] It's lessons that I look back on now. [50:26–50:27] And I'm like, okay. [50:27–50:28] Well, you did all that. [50:29–50:31] You learned like... [50:31–50:32] I was in relationship with six and a half years. [50:32–50:33] With my 20s. [50:33–50:33] With my 20s. [50:33–50:34] Yeah. [50:34–50:35] So I basically only had like... [50:35–50:37] Two and a half years of my 20s. [50:37–50:38] And also, someone's COVID. [50:38–50:39] So... [50:39–50:40] True, actually, yeah. [50:40–50:42] I mean, I COVID robs. [50:42–50:43] COVID robs of years. [50:43–50:44] So I'm basically only 25. [50:44–50:44] Fine. [50:44–50:45] Yeah. [50:45–50:45] Yeah. [50:45–50:46] 22. [50:46–50:47] Yeah. [50:47–50:47] Yeah. [50:47–50:48] Perfect. [50:48–50:49] But yeah, I think just... [50:50–50:51] Relationships that are... [50:51–50:52] Like, if it's a good one. [50:52–50:53] Oh, yeah. [50:53–50:53] Then a grant. [50:53–50:54] But like, don't... [50:54–50:56] Or even people like actively start... [50:57–50:58] Trying to find a way from panic and have to start [50:58–51:00] the trend to think there's time. [51:00–51:00] Yeah. [51:01–51:02] Ampliment at the time. [51:02–51:03] Yeah, I think as well, don't... [51:05–51:07] Because I have to definitely find myself doing this this year, [51:07–51:07] especially now, [51:07–51:09] when that I'm touring in 29. [51:09–51:11] Putting so much pressure on where my life is now, [51:11–51:13] like, panicking over it. [51:13–51:13] Yeah. [51:13–51:14] Like, panicking. [51:14–51:15] Oh, my God. [51:16–51:17] But I would do it around that now, [51:17–51:18] and I can't be asked. [51:18–51:19] Yeah. [51:19–51:19] But like... [51:19–51:20] It will happen, do I? [51:20–51:21] Yeah, yeah. [51:21–51:24] I just need to thrusting God. [51:24–51:24] Yeah. [51:24–51:27] And believed that my path is already written for me, [51:27–51:28] and I will follow down it. [51:28–51:30] So wherever I am today, hot girl. [51:30–51:31] Yeah. [51:31–51:32] Wherever I am today, [51:32–51:33] I'm meant to be here, join me. [51:33–51:34] Yeah. [51:34–51:34] Yeah. [51:34–51:35] I don't sit around and like... [51:35–51:37] Because I know people who sit around and [51:37–51:39] wallow about their life and give out about [51:39–51:40] and mount about and... [51:40–51:41] We're all on different paths [51:41–51:42] and different journeys. [51:42–51:44] And just because if you're the way that you wanted to go [51:44–51:45] hasn't happened yet, [51:45–51:46] yeah. [51:46–51:48] You're on that path. [51:48–51:49] There's something better. [51:49–51:50] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [51:50–51:50] Yeah. [51:50–51:51] So you don't even realise. [51:51–51:52] That yellow brick road, [51:52–51:52] not that... [51:52–51:54] I'd live in Lepic Halls. [51:54–51:54] Yeah. [51:54–51:55] Yeah. [51:55–51:56] No, yeah. [51:56–51:56] I was a gingerbread. [51:56–52:00] I've stopped panicking about life a lot. [52:00–52:02] It just makes things worse when you panicked. [52:02–52:02] Oh, my God. [52:02–52:05] And yeah, you're really enough just settling for... [52:05–52:06] Around that time, probably, [52:06–52:06] when we... [52:06–52:07] When we... [52:07–52:09] had the break for the podcast. [52:09–52:10] Yeah. [52:10–52:11] It was around that time when we were talking about the break. [52:11–52:13] So around Christmas last year. [52:13–52:13] Yeah. [52:13–52:15] Hated the talk of... [52:15–52:16] Of everyone. [52:16–52:16] Yeah. [52:16–52:17] Yeah. [52:17–52:17] Yeah. [52:17–52:18] Fed up like... [52:18–52:20] Because I was putting so much pressure on where my life is [52:20–52:21] and... [52:21–52:22] Uh-oh. [52:22–52:23] But if they have that, why don't I have that? [52:23–52:24] And if... [52:24–52:25] She has that and... [52:25–52:26] Like, should I mean? [52:26–52:26] Yeah. [52:26–52:27] You can't do that. [52:27–52:28] Everybody's life is different. [52:28–52:29] For comparison, is... [52:29–52:30] For comparison is... [52:30–52:31] Oh, my God. [52:31–52:33] It's a horrible thing to have. [52:33–52:34] Yeah. [52:34–52:34] We all do it. [52:34–52:35] We're all good. [52:35–52:35] You've done it. [52:35–52:37] But like, if there's a way of getting yourself over, [52:37–52:39] I was comparing yourself to other people. [52:39–52:40] Please do. [52:40–52:41] It means muting them. [52:41–52:42] Yeah, like... [52:42–52:43] Loved me a lot. [52:43–52:43] Yeah. [52:43–52:44] I don't like having a mute. [52:44–52:45] I do. [52:46–52:47] It's different from other people. [52:47–52:48] It's all compared. [52:48–52:48] Yeah. [52:48–52:49] Yeah. [52:49–52:49] Yeah. [52:49–52:50] It can't be asked to drama of... [52:50–52:51] Yeah. [52:51–52:51] New. [52:51–52:52] So I don't want to give... [52:52–52:53] That's actually... [52:53–52:53] Yeah. [52:53–52:54] Why would I do that? [52:54–52:55] Yeah. [52:55–52:56] You've still followed me, like, too. [52:56–52:58] But you definitely still have me mute, too. [52:58–52:58] Really? [52:58–52:59] Yeah. [52:59–53:00] It's definitely people that... [53:00–53:00] Yeah. [53:00–53:01] I'm so stubborn. [53:01–53:02] I'd rather just... [53:02–53:03] On follow. [53:03–53:04] Then it looks like I'm... [53:04–53:04] No. [53:04–53:05] I'm not bothered, but I'm like... [53:05–53:06] I just... [53:06–53:06] Yeah. [53:06–53:09] It's definitely people in my life that I have them mute [53:09–53:10] and they have me mute, but we just... [53:10–53:11] Please do too, so... [53:11–53:11] Yeah. [53:11–53:13] We just so far, we just can't be here. [53:13–53:13] That's drama. [53:13–53:14] Honestly. [53:14–53:15] It was... [53:15–53:16] That's both that smithere. [53:16–53:17] Yeah, that's on the list. [53:17–53:17] It's on the list. [53:17–53:18] It's on the list. [53:18–53:19] You know what I mean? [53:19–53:20] Um... [53:20–53:21] And then I have... [53:21–53:23] Don't be afraid to stand your ground for stuff. [53:23–53:24] Or like... [53:24–53:24] Oh yeah. [53:25–53:26] Clap back. [53:26–53:28] Yeah, I was a bitch. [53:28–53:29] I was a... [53:29–53:30] I was a bitch. [53:30–53:31] I was... [53:31–53:32] I was... [53:32–53:33] Aravied. [53:33–53:33] Say... [53:33–53:34] I feel like I'm a pure... [53:34–53:35] No, I'm not a carrot. [53:35–53:37] No, but like if something's an eye me now, [53:37–53:38] I'm gonna speak up and say it like... [53:38–53:38] Yeah. [53:38–53:39] Mmm. [53:39–53:40] Yeah. [53:40–53:40] You just... [53:40–53:41] You just deal with... [53:42–53:42] A lot less. [53:42–53:44] As you get older if that makes sense. [53:44–53:44] Like you just... [53:45–53:47] You're gonna take a lot less. [53:47–53:47] Yeah. [53:48–53:49] Like a before, if I... [53:49–53:51] Someone's done something wrong to me. [53:51–53:51] I'd be like, [53:51–53:52] Sorry. [53:52–53:52] I'd say sorry. [53:52–53:53] Yeah. [53:53–53:54] But now like I don't... [53:54–53:55] I'm more... [53:55–53:56] I don't like competition sale, [53:56–53:58] but I'd be more inclined to be like... [53:58–53:59] Town. [53:59–54:00] Well, if something's up in the knowing me, [54:00–54:00] you're like... [54:00–54:06] because I just can't, if I felt like I was annoyed by something, I just can't be normal [54:06–54:07] with that person then. [54:07–54:09] Yeah, I'd have to say something and then I feel better and then I don't. [54:09–54:13] Yeah, again I feel like I'm having fun and I'm sitting in the burning flames. [54:13–54:16] But that's what I mean, this is hard because I can't find, I'm just laying. [54:16–54:18] Yeah, you bought everything off then. [54:18–54:23] Yeah, yeah, I think you deal with a lot of less shit as you go older. [54:23–54:25] Yeah, you just have to have time. [54:25–54:26] No, we're all very busy. [54:26–54:29] We are so really short life is as you go older. [54:29–54:33] Maybe at the start of your 20s year, which is a cool thing at the start of your 20s, [54:33–54:39] you're living your life in like, yeah, you nearly feel like, not free as a board. [54:39–54:41] Oh, invincible kind of. [54:41–54:42] Yeah, I don't know. [54:42–54:47] And then as you start creeping towards your late 20s, you're kind of like, hmm, yeah, [54:47–54:49] it's kind of saddest in the way. [54:49–54:53] The older you get, the more you realize that bad stuff about the world. [54:53–54:54] Yeah, isn't it? [54:54–54:57] It's just that your innocence is nearly taken away a little bit. [54:57–55:00] And like people like maybe die, but you're thinking you're live. [55:00–55:02] It's like that all comes with it. [55:02–55:05] It doesn't it like nice sense of time at all. [55:05–55:09] And like you just kind of get more aware, but it's not always in a nice, [55:09–55:13] the way where we're like, oh, shit. [55:13–55:14] What's that? [55:14–55:16] That's me, love. [55:16–55:20] Fucking, what an end candle, talking to Kylie. [55:20–55:22] She's like, I just want you to experience things because you're in the aerobics and [55:22–55:23] you're experiencing it. [55:23–55:24] Is that what you're saying? [55:24–55:25] Yeah, yeah. [55:25–55:26] Because you need to experience it. [55:26–55:29] No, that's what you need to do. [55:29–55:30] Yeah, yeah. [55:30–55:31] Go on, I'm bad. [55:31–55:36] And then last thing I have is stop letting the tart inside someone's puny brain stop [55:36–55:38] you from doing what you want to do. [55:38–55:39] Yeah. [55:39–55:41] I see in the TikTok, I was like, that's so smart. [55:41–55:44] The guy was like, so you're not doing what you want to do because of a tall, [55:44–55:45] intellectual tart and someone. [55:45–55:46] I do that now. [55:46–55:48] That's I do that now. [55:48–55:51] Well, I don't talk on Instagram or at in case that I'll never get a fella. [55:51–55:52] Is that so terrible? [55:52–55:54] Is that so shallow of me? [55:54–55:55] Yeah. [55:55–56:00] I literally start I found the reason why I like I used to always talk on Instagram and like [56:00–56:02] I was, but do you think a fellow will be turned off? [56:02–56:04] I think I'm more confident. [56:04–56:05] Yeah, yeah. [56:05–56:08] I think I'm more confident when I'm with someone. [56:08–56:09] Girl, online. [56:09–56:10] Yeah. [56:10–56:13] No, I have booked up for this in my brain. [56:13–56:18] I think I'm more confident online when I'm with someone because that's like security. [56:18–56:20] I mean, I'm with someone. [56:20–56:21] Yeah, yeah. [56:21–56:25] Where if I'm not with someone or I'm not seeing anyone or speaking to anyone or whatever, [56:25–56:29] I'm like, oh, God, well, like I can't be like that because I'm never going to get someone [56:29–56:30] then. [56:30–56:31] I mean, I can't be myself. [56:31–56:33] Do you think that they? [56:33–56:34] I know what you mean. [56:34–56:35] I've definitely got a powerful. [56:35–56:36] Yeah. [56:36–56:40] And I've been like, I heard like these are my job. [56:40–56:43] And like also they love you for that. [56:43–56:44] Then they love it. [56:44–56:45] Yeah. [56:45–56:49] Well, I don't think because I used to be like for what is is it any like for? [56:49–56:50] Yeah. [56:50–56:54] I'm like, I'm not nearly talking on their Instagram stories about. [56:54–56:57] I can make up for whatever is that Nick? [56:57–56:58] No. [56:58–56:59] That's your job, girl. [56:59–57:00] Can I make them? [57:00–57:01] No, yeah. [57:01–57:02] Yeah. [57:02–57:03] No, I don't know. [57:03–57:04] Yeah. [57:04–57:06] And anyone who loves you will love you. [57:06–57:07] With that. [57:07–57:09] If you came on talking about it, God knows what. [57:09–57:10] Yeah. [57:10–57:11] Yeah. [57:11–57:12] Yeah. [57:12–57:13] Yeah. [57:13–57:15] I kind of realised that I was like, oh my God. [57:15–57:16] Yeah. [57:16–57:17] I like shy away. [57:17–57:19] What if my future was worth watching this? [57:19–57:20] What if your future was worth it? [57:20–57:22] And if you end your future was when he will love that. [57:22–57:24] Yeah, he'll say, you look gorgeous, God. [57:24–57:25] Yeah. [57:25–57:26] Oh, girl. [57:26–57:27] Yeah. [57:27–57:28] We need to get that really bad. [57:28–57:29] I don't know. [57:29–57:30] Yeah. [57:30–57:31] That's a real shallow way of thinking as well. [57:31–57:32] I don't know. [57:32–57:33] I think shallow. [57:33–57:34] It's like shallow hell. [57:34–57:35] What's that on the movie? [57:35–57:36] Yeah. [57:36–57:37] I've seen, I also had that film with like horror film. [57:37–57:39] Then I realised Adam Sandley's in. [57:39–57:40] Just now they got it. [57:40–57:41] Yeah. [57:41–57:43] I was like a shallow hot like a. [57:43–57:44] No. [57:44–57:45] What is the name? [57:45–57:46] Yeah. [57:46–57:47] I mean, shallow. [57:47–57:48] I got the shadow hall. [57:48–57:49] No, no, no. [57:49–57:50] Silly girl, no. [57:50–57:57] But I think, yeah, that's like, if he is to be ending to you. [57:57–58:01] Also, he's also your, gonna say all your past stuff. [58:01–58:05] So what's the difference between you talking and your story and him seeing a real where you're [58:05–58:06] talking from? [58:06–58:07] You're gonna go. [58:07–58:08] Yeah. [58:08–58:09] You're gonna kill them. [58:09–58:10] Yeah, exactly. [58:10–58:12] But anyway, he should be fine with boats. [58:12–58:13] True. [58:13–58:14] It's a job. [58:14–58:17] I think there's definitely people who. [58:17–58:21] But I don't think it's being allowed for such people who would say I would never want to [58:21–58:22] be with. [58:22–58:23] I'm gonna do a step. [58:23–58:24] Yeah. [58:24–58:29] I know I think it's only people who have a pre-conception about that were up. [58:29–58:30] Or on holes. [58:30–58:33] Or, you know, whatever else. [58:33–58:34] Yeah. [58:34–58:36] I think that would be. [58:36–58:37] The only reason. [58:37–58:38] But I think what did not? [58:38–58:39] I don't think. [58:39–58:41] Would you like carry someone's job? [58:41–58:42] No. [58:42–58:43] No. [58:43–58:44] No. [58:44–58:45] It's okay. [58:45–58:46] So, it's okay. [58:46–58:47] It's okay. [58:47–58:48] What you do, one kind of. [58:48–58:49] We love employed men. [58:49–58:50] We love employed men. [58:50–58:51] We love employed men. [58:51–58:52] We love employed men. [58:52–58:53] We love the landlords. [58:53–58:54] Yeah. [58:54–58:55] Anything that shows that they are. [58:55–58:56] Yeah. [58:56–58:57] We love employed men. [58:57–58:58] Is it plough? [58:58–58:59] Yeah. [58:59–59:04] We're gonna go through some things that came into the question box on the Instagram. [59:04–59:05] We did say we wanted. [59:05–59:07] Was it a curry cake on Instagram? [59:07–59:09] I think we nearly had it. [59:09–59:10] Girl, I think we did it. [59:10–59:11] I thought it wasn't. [59:11–59:12] No, 29.9. [59:12–59:13] It was 30.4. [59:13–59:14] No, no. [59:14–59:15] What? [59:15–59:16] 20.4. [59:16–59:17] No, it was 29.4. [59:17–59:18] I think it's after I got that. [59:18–59:19] Oh, it was. [59:19–59:20] Hang on, I'm checking the exact. [59:20–59:21] Did you say? [59:21–59:22] Okay. [59:22–59:23] What did you get any unfollowers? [59:23–59:24] I can't. [59:24–59:26] See if you have to unfollow up. [59:26–59:27] Why would you? [59:27–59:28] No. [59:28–59:29] Oh, yeah. [59:29–59:33] Why would you want to hurt your own feelings and see if you can find that out. [59:33–59:34] That's horrible. [59:34–59:35] No. [59:35–59:38] So, we have 29, it has 939. [59:38–59:39] Okay. [59:39–59:40] I think we have 16 more. [59:40–59:41] 16 more. [59:41–59:42] Maybe by time this comes out. [59:42–59:43] Um, I'm sorry. [59:43–59:44] Oh. [59:44–59:45] So, you need a blessing. [59:45–59:46] Bless you. [59:46–59:47] Yeah, sorry. [59:47–59:48] Thank you. [59:48–59:49] Um, we have people's in. [59:49–59:50] People's in. [59:50–59:51] People's lessons. [59:51–59:52] Okay. [59:52–59:53] Oh, where are the loads? [59:53–59:54] I love reading. [59:54–59:55] Is this something? [59:55–59:57] Yeah, it's something you hold to my personality. [59:57–59:58] Yeah. [59:58–59:59] Um, oh, still gone. [59:59–60:02] I keep loading it and I think it's throughout. [60:02–60:03] I'm going to read it. [60:03–60:04] I'm going to read it. [60:04–60:05] I'm going to read it. [60:05–60:06] I'm going to read it. [60:06–60:07] I'm going to read it. [60:07–60:08] I'm going to read it. [60:08–60:09] I think it's throughout. [60:09–60:10] Oh, wow. [60:10–60:11] Jesus. [60:11–60:13] Is that long? [60:13–60:14] I love that you love these. [60:14–60:15] Wow. [60:15–60:16] Oh, I like this one. [60:16–60:18] Nobody has a figured out. [60:18–60:20] So, I'll put pressure under yourself. [60:20–60:21] Ah. [60:21–60:22] So true. [60:22–60:23] And then so true. [60:23–60:24] Mm-hmm. [60:24–60:25] I can't get to the bottom of these. [60:25–60:26] There's so many. [60:26–60:28] Don't put effort into people. [60:28–60:30] That don't put effort into you. [60:30–60:31] True. [60:31–60:32] That's a good one. [60:32–60:33] Because life is too short. [60:33–60:34] Oh. [60:34–60:35] Way too short. [60:35–60:36] Too short. [61:07–61:08] One life and live it. [61:08–61:09] True. [61:09–61:13] So you'll be okay in your own and everything happens for a reason. [61:13–61:14] Oh. [61:14–61:17] Yeah, I taught my life as a mover when I came over. [61:17–61:18] You were single, yeah. [61:18–61:19] Oh, my God. [61:19–61:21] I think I could be forever, you know. [61:21–61:23] No, I think I could. [61:23–61:24] Yeah, it's time. [61:24–61:25] That's good. [61:25–61:26] Christ. [61:26–61:27] You taught forever and not alone. [61:27–61:28] Oh, my God. [61:28–61:29] I taught. [61:29–61:30] I would never get over that phase of my life. [61:30–61:31] It matters now, like, one day. [61:31–61:32] And then when you wake up and it's like, [61:32–61:33] it's, yeah, that pain is gone. [61:33–61:34] And you're like, yeah, yeah. [61:34–61:35] You don't fear that anymore. [61:35–61:36] Yeah. [61:36–61:37] It's just a dream. [61:37–61:38] And you're waiting for it to come back. [61:38–61:39] Yeah, it doesn't. [61:39–61:40] Yeah. [61:40–61:41] So I haven't seen it. [61:41–61:42] I haven't seen it. [61:42–61:43] Actually, that I died. [61:43–61:44] Oh, please. [61:44–61:45] Not that long ago. [61:45–61:47] And then the next day, like, everything was just so nice in my life. [61:47–61:49] Because I was like so grateful for everything. [61:49–61:50] Because you were dead. [61:50–61:51] And I woke up. [61:51–61:52] No, when I woke up. [61:52–61:53] Oh, sorry. [61:53–61:54] So I was like, I felt like I knew what I felt like. [61:54–61:56] I said I didn't, but like, do you know what I mean? [61:56–61:57] I just appreciated everything. [61:57–61:58] Yeah. [61:58–62:00] And like, even just looking at everything was just so nice. [62:00–62:01] Absolutely. [62:01–62:02] I felt like I got a second chance of like, [62:02–62:03] maybe I didn't even know. [62:03–62:04] I can't really think. [62:04–62:05] She's not dramatic on it. [62:05–62:06] No, no, no. [62:06–62:07] Not one bit. [62:07–62:08] Keep a baby picture of yourself as your phone wallpaper. [62:08–62:09] That's who you are. [62:09–62:10] Be nice to her. [62:10–62:11] Oh, that's beautiful. [62:11–62:12] I think Hannah Jenner said that she didn't. [62:12–62:13] Yeah, she had an affair. [62:13–62:14] Yeah. [62:14–62:15] Yeah. [62:15–62:16] That's a cool run. [62:16–62:17] My little boy, you should have seen it. [62:17–62:21] Well, he had a picture of my mom and him in like, um, [62:21–62:22] I have a photo booth. [62:22–62:23] That you being like, you know, [62:23–62:24] I used to have a photo booth. [62:24–62:25] Yeah. [62:25–62:26] Yeah. [62:26–62:27] That's a cool run. [62:27–62:28] My little boy, you should have seen it. [62:28–62:29] Well, he had a picture of my mom and him in like, um, [62:29–62:30] I have a photo booth. [62:30–62:31] That you being like, you know, [62:31–62:32] Yeah. [62:32–62:33] Yeah. [62:33–62:34] You know, yeah. [62:34–62:35] They got all the way there. [62:35–62:36] Like when my brother was a baby. [62:36–62:37] Oh my God. [62:37–62:38] That's so nice. [62:38–62:39] Here's another one. [62:39–62:41] I always put 10% of your pay slip away. [62:41–62:42] I wish I had the head to do that. [62:42–62:43] I wish that. [62:43–62:44] Yeah. [62:44–62:46] I say they are like, you have a saying like, [62:46–62:47] wish is good. [62:47–62:49] But remember, probably we still used to have that little A-coron account. [62:49–62:50] It's the little post office A-coron account. [62:51–62:53] Are the stamps or something, wasn't it? [62:53–62:54] Yeah. [62:54–62:56] You saved money, true stamps or something. [62:56–62:57] What? [62:57–62:58] And the post office. [62:58–62:59] No, I had a credit union. [62:59–63:00] Oh, I was not good. [63:00–63:01] I saved. [63:00–63:02] I don't know where I saved her. [63:03–63:05] Where is all my confirmation money? [63:05–63:09] I bought a bike, my bike out of mine and then I got robbed. [63:09–63:11] Oh my shed, my back garden. [63:11–63:15] And then we saw the bitch who robbed the bike in super value. [63:15–63:16] Yeah, in a back? [63:16–63:19] No, I was coming out of the shop and I was like, man, that's my bike. [63:19–63:20] I knew it straight away. It's practically pink. [63:20–63:23] I had a beaker bottle like. [63:23–63:24] I don't know the same one. She did. [63:24–63:25] She did? That was my bike. [63:25–63:26] What did she do? [63:26–63:27] Why did she buff? [63:27–63:28] No, no, no. [63:28–63:30] No, no, no, no, no. [63:30–63:32] I definitely knew she robbed it 100%. [63:32–63:33] I was like, man, I'm going out my bike. [63:33–63:34] My hand was like, fuck off. [63:34–63:35] I'm not going to get the bike. [63:35–63:38] Yeah, my hand was like, no, we'll buy you a new bike. [63:38–63:39] It's okay. [63:39–63:41] But it's my... [63:41–63:42] I'll never say it. [63:42–63:45] But with a little thing you put on for keep a little darling. [63:45–63:46] A little seat for the dog. [63:46–63:47] There are tassels on your underwear. [63:47–63:48] Oh my God. [63:48–63:49] Love plays. [63:49–63:52] You don't have to have your own house be getting married or having kids. [63:52–63:54] Go and travel. [63:54–63:56] Look there. [63:57–63:59] What? But I want the house. [63:59–64:01] I love traveling. [64:01–64:04] I still want to keep traveling in my life as much as I can. [64:04–64:06] People are fighting like each other in the coat. [64:06–64:07] Yeah, I come into my post. [64:07–64:08] Fight. [64:08–64:09] I love when they fight each other. [64:09–64:10] It's great. [64:10–64:13] It's like not me for once, yay. [64:13–64:14] What's not my father's? [64:14–64:15] It's like random. [64:15–64:18] The video went on the explorer and it's all these people who I've not known either there. [64:18–64:19] They're just like, eight me shoulder in the cover. [64:19–64:20] Yeah, I think they're from America. [64:20–64:21] Work away. [64:21–64:22] Yeah. [64:22–64:23] Someone said to never work a retire. [64:23–64:25] But I really think retire taught me. [64:25–64:26] So much in life. [64:26–64:27] Same. [64:27–64:28] Oh my God. [64:28–64:29] I retire taught me about you. [64:29–64:30] I go out to you. [64:30–64:31] Yeah, but it taught me how to. [64:31–64:32] Three people who work in retail as well. [64:32–64:33] Yeah. [64:33–64:34] Like, yeah. [64:34–64:37] I hate when you see somebody giving out from me and Rita. [64:37–64:38] Yeah, fuck off. [64:38–64:39] They didn't make that. [64:39–64:42] Or they did not like if it's a clotheshop or something or. [64:42–64:43] Yeah. [64:43–64:44] Oh, I can as day handcrafted. [64:44–64:45] Yeah. [64:45–64:46] I can teach her for them. [64:46–64:47] No, Retail. [64:47–64:49] You can tell people who work from retail who didn't. [64:49–64:50] Yeah. [64:50–64:51] 100%. [64:51–64:52] Yeah. [64:52–64:53] Teach you so much. [64:53–64:54] And they're just it's just fun. [64:54–64:55] It's not like I love to when you're young. [64:55–64:56] It's good. [64:56–64:57] Loved it. [64:57–64:58] Yeah. [64:58–64:59] Yeah. [64:59–65:00] Yeah. [65:00–65:01] I think to do it. [65:01–65:03] I think you learn good lessons and jobs like that. [65:03–65:04] Different jobs. [65:04–65:11] And someone said if someone has a problem with you, it's their problem and not yours. [65:11–65:15] I heard a saying like that before and it was like someone asked the opinion is none of my business. [65:15–65:16] Someone asked the opinion of me. [65:16–65:17] It's been my business. [65:17–65:18] It creates. [65:18–65:19] Keep talking your head. [65:19–65:20] Yeah. [65:20–65:21] Grant. [65:21–65:22] Yeah. [65:22–65:26] Oh, also, I don't know when I ran it was like you could do. [65:26–65:30] I wasn't a quote, but I guys think it like you could do everything right in life. [65:30–65:33] And like someone is still going to find something. [65:33–65:36] Pick people, pick out bads in anything. [65:36–65:37] Say it again, girl. [65:37–65:38] Yeah. [65:38–65:39] Where did you go? [65:39–65:40] Literally be. [65:40–65:41] Yeah, be the part where you go. [65:41–65:43] And somebody loves something to say. [65:43–65:44] Maybe not him. [65:44–65:45] I don't know why he came from. [65:45–65:46] Pretty sure he's. [65:46–65:53] Pretty sure that side of. [65:53–65:54] Let's keep going. [65:54–65:55] You could be. [65:55–65:56] Maybe. [65:56–65:57] Who's perfect? [65:57–65:58] No one. [65:58–66:04] But that's the thing we can't even think of someone to say. [66:04–66:05] Nelson Mandela. [66:05–66:06] Yeah. [66:06–66:07] Yeah. [66:07–66:08] Okay. [66:08–66:11] But you could be him and someone would say find something to say. [66:11–66:12] Yeah. [66:12–66:13] You're never perfect. [66:13–66:16] Not that we are not that any of us are in Nelson Mandela or with ever been. [66:16–66:17] No, we in life is. [66:17–66:18] You don't mean? [66:18–66:19] Yeah. [66:19–66:20] No. [66:20–66:23] Oh, you look back and wish you weren't so mean to yourself because you look amazing. [66:23–66:24] Oh, yeah. [66:24–66:25] You think I'm so fat and ugly. [66:25–66:26] And I never look back myself. [66:26–66:28] I'm like, girl, you were adorable. [66:28–66:30] Even that starts my twenties. [66:30–66:31] I know. [66:31–66:32] I'm skinny. [66:32–66:35] And now at the time we don't think it like. [66:35–66:36] No, but come here. [66:36–66:39] Here's another lesson is your body changes so much. [66:39–66:40] Yeah. [66:40–66:41] As well within your twenties. [66:41–66:42] Oh, we need a whole app on that. [66:42–66:43] Oh, my God. [66:43–66:46] Your body is just you preparing to give birth, isn't it? [66:46–66:50] Isn't that what happens for your hips, loyden and all and four child because my hips are [66:50–66:51] like. [66:51–66:52] Not nanny. [66:52–66:54] And your body just changed so much. [66:54–66:59] What you can change in other ways, like even remember that the video is just showed [66:59–67:00] it in my face. [67:00–67:01] Yeah. [67:01–67:04] And which my face slimmed down in the last two years. [67:04–67:05] Yeah. [67:05–67:06] I never had cheekbones with that. [67:06–67:08] My face was a moon football head. [67:08–67:09] It wasn't that. [67:09–67:10] But it wasn't. [67:10–67:11] It was a beautiful, cool, awesome. [67:11–67:12] You allowed me to. [67:12–67:13] No, genuinely. [67:13–67:14] Yeah. [67:14–67:17] Was when I put the video side by side of my face now, my dad two years ago. [67:17–67:18] Very different. [67:18–67:19] I didn't know. [67:19–67:20] Yeah. [67:20–67:21] What happened yet? [67:21–67:22] Trauma. [67:22–67:23] I don't think that's. [67:23–67:24] That's trauma. [67:24–67:25] Sort of. [67:25–67:27] I don't know, but I'd say so. [67:27–67:28] I'm sure it's a girl. [67:28–67:29] A trauma. [67:29–67:30] That is. [67:30–67:31] Your face was fathom. [67:31–67:33] The blood is not thicker than water. [67:33–67:35] If I'm near toxic, build them. [67:35–67:36] I'll also block them. [67:36–67:37] I would live for yourself. [67:37–67:38] Oh, see, I'm just so familiar. [67:38–67:39] I know when you're interested in. [67:39–67:40] Yeah. [67:40–67:41] Yeah. [67:41–67:42] And have you ever seen something like that? [67:42–67:43] Yeah. [67:43–67:44] Yeah. [67:44–67:45] I don't understand that. [67:45–67:46] Yeah. [67:46–67:47] Yeah, in your 20s. [67:47–67:48] I don't really. [67:48–67:49] It's not. [67:49–67:50] Like. [67:50–67:51] It's not thicker than more. [67:51–67:52] No, yeah. [67:52–67:56] You're into enjoying your own company and learn this your solo travel. [67:56–67:58] I love my own company. [67:58–67:59] Yeah. [67:59–68:00] Would you ever sell your travel? [68:00–68:01] I go somewhere by yourself. [68:01–68:03] Staying for your days. [68:03–68:07] Where's the forecast I've done that. [68:07–68:09] You used to fly back and forth to Canada on my own. [68:09–68:11] But like I was gone home like jumping. [68:11–68:13] Oh yeah, I never go somewhere. [68:13–68:14] Explore. [68:14–68:15] Just to be there, like yeah. [68:15–68:18] Oh, I went to Liverpool for a few days on my own. [68:18–68:18] Actually. [68:18–68:19] Yeah, what you do? [68:19–68:20] Yeah, yeah, yeah. [68:20–68:21] I remember you doing that. [68:21–68:24] It's like I'm probably not. [68:24–68:26] If you don't love or respect yourself, [68:26–68:28] how can you expect anyone else to? [68:28–68:29] True. [68:29–68:30] In fact, I go to. [68:30–68:32] Yeah, yeah. [68:32–68:32] Because you accept. [68:32–68:33] You learn that the hard way. [68:33–68:34] Yeah. [68:34–68:36] You accept the love you think you deserve. [68:36–68:38] Look at this like financial response. [68:38–68:40] The ability something we should have all learned in school. [68:40–68:42] But anyway, come here. [68:42–68:44] Me and Quaver only had this exact conversation this morning. [68:44–68:47] I was filling farms out at home. [68:47–68:49] Quaver looked at me and was like. [68:49–68:52] I if there were these mortgage things anyway. [68:52–68:54] And she was like, I wouldn't know. [68:54–68:55] I couldn't even start reading that form. [68:55–68:58] She's like, why isn't this shit that we learned in school? [68:58–68:59] I don't know. [68:59–69:01] Why you teach me A plus B equals C equals. [69:01–69:03] I don't know if you put a maths paper, a maths exam paper [69:03–69:04] in front of me right now. [69:04–69:05] I'm failing that thing. [69:05–69:06] Yes, I am. [69:06–69:10] Why didn't we why isn't there a class on how to start [69:10–69:12] with bank account when I leave school? [69:12–69:14] How to apply for a passport? [69:14–69:15] How to do my driving lessons? [69:15–69:16] I know some school. [69:16–69:17] I have a passport. [69:17–69:18] I'm just putting it in there. [69:18–69:19] I'm reading glue. [69:19–69:20] You know, I have to post that off somewhere. [69:20–69:21] Well, you use that post. [69:21–69:23] I don't know if I can do that. [69:23–69:24] Are you telling me? [69:24–69:25] If I was like 18, I would not have to. [69:25–69:26] Yeah, yeah. [69:26–69:27] Applying for a mortgage. [69:27–69:33] Yeah, the mortgage bank counts revenue stuff. [69:33–69:35] Like your tax stuff. [69:35–69:35] Tax back. [69:35–69:36] Tax saw you the thing. [69:36–69:37] Yeah. [69:37–69:38] I wouldn't have known any of that in school. [69:38–69:39] Yeah. [69:39–69:40] The mortgage especially. [69:40–69:42] Like instead I had a rock and rivers. [69:42–69:43] A PE class. [69:43–69:45] Where has that taken me? [69:45–69:46] Hey, a PE. [69:46–69:47] Don't I mean? [69:47–69:48] I don't get it. [69:48–69:49] I think this is a little curriculum. [69:49–69:50] Yeah, I think it is. [69:50–69:53] You learn so you spend so many years there. [69:53–69:55] And what do you really come out with? [69:55–69:57] Obviously you got people's skills and friends. [69:57–69:59] What's a book that I learned in 17 years ago? [69:59–70:00] You used to have something. [70:00–70:01] 17 years back. [70:01–70:02] More college. [70:02–70:03] And all I can say is I'm well, [70:03–70:04] I can talk to the other learners. [70:04–70:05] Yeah. [70:05–70:06] That's pretty bad. [70:06–70:07] That is all I can say in Irish. [70:07–70:08] Yeah. [70:08–70:09] Like, you know what I mean? [70:09–70:10] Isn't that so bad? [70:10–70:12] And I can add just about add up math. [70:12–70:13] I don't. [70:13–70:14] Because they can't read the clock clearly. [70:14–70:15] Oh, it's like. [70:15–70:21] But I was like 16, 17, 18 learning about like financial stuff in the big bad world. [70:21–70:23] And like we'd have a bit of a head start. [70:23–70:24] You know what I mean? [70:24–70:25] Yeah. [70:25–70:26] Oh, it must be nice. [70:26–70:27] Anyway. [70:27–70:30] We just have to learn MBS 6 for the reference. [70:31–70:35] So we're going to do our secrets and styles, which is where we give you a bit of advice to [70:35–70:36] to them as a comment. [70:36–70:39] These are all fresh in our emails and so we started back. [70:39–70:41] So we have a dilemma that we send them for and we didn't answer. [70:41–70:43] Then you can send it again. [70:43–70:47] So we have a new part of season styles every week called Founder Friends. [70:47–70:50] It's fired by who wants to be moved. [70:50–70:51] I'm sure you know. [70:51–70:53] Unfortunately, no one's going to be a millionaire. [70:53–70:54] Yes. [70:54–70:58] But we basically put a dilemma up on our Instagram stories and ask our followers to offer their advice. [70:58–71:00] So this is the dilemma that we put up. [71:00–71:01] You've got a very insightful people. [71:01–71:02] Very. [71:02–71:06] And you say things that like, oh, yeah, never thought that makes sense. [71:06–71:09] Or like it's good if they've experienced something similar to. [71:09–71:13] And I only think the best advice is when you've gone through something you can do advice. [71:13–71:16] So this dilemma is as follows. [71:16–71:20] Hi, Charlie and Eddie, remind to four months ago me and my parent and her brought our first home [71:20–71:22] after years of saving and sacrifices. [71:22–71:25] Two weeks after we moved in, my boyfriend's friend moved home from living abroad [71:25–71:28] and asked if you could say it was for three weeks until he got back on his feet. [71:28–71:31] As me and his fans, I wanted to say no because we'd only moved in ourselves. [71:31–71:35] And I want this to be special for us but I agreed with my boyfriend's sake. [71:35–71:38] Let's get forward to now and he's still living with us. [71:38–71:39] Oh, we have only one. [71:39–71:40] Four months. [71:40–71:41] Four months is still there. [71:41–71:43] There's an elementary school for three weeks. [71:43–71:47] It's gone too long now when he's starting to take advantage, like taking food he hasn't paid for. [71:47–71:49] And not cleaning up after himself. [71:49–71:52] I brought his partner, my boyfriend, he said not to make a big full set of it. [71:52–71:56] And he said that his friend doesn't know how to live with women because he's only ever lived with lads for the last decade. [71:56–71:57] Ah, stop that. [71:57–72:00] I'm annoyed that my boyfriend is not on my side but now he wanted to... [72:00–72:04] friend out for gods. How can I go back to doing this in a nice way of possible? [72:04–72:07] Also, it's present and just getting in the way over in Tennessee and I really don't want to lose [72:07–72:11] this connection with my partner. Any tips you have for kicking someone out would be helpful, [72:11–72:20] thanks girls. Get out of my house. Is this man a payment? I thought it was a sale. He living [72:20–72:26] in a great place. I like it. There's no mention of rent going on there. See, living for free. [72:26–72:34] Okay, so this is what you said. Make comments like, oh, where's my yogurt or whatever he took? [72:34–72:39] Why do you send the room? Make him feel so uncomfortable. Where's my gnawler? [72:41–72:46] That's a good one. What the fuck? He can't be taking your gnawler and stuff. Why is he taking that? [72:46–72:50] No, I'm sorry, but he's, he, I'd say he knows he's taking the piece and he's just trying to see [72:50–72:56] how long he can get away with it for. I don't know. No, that's more divine. I'd be actually ashamed [72:56–73:01] if I was him. You're not being like, oh guys, I'm planning on moving like, I wonder how much of a [73:01–73:08] say she feels like she has if her boyfriend bought the house. Show me. Yeah. Like if he's [73:08–73:12] solely paying for everything. Did he buy the house? Well, he said my wife and wife. Oh, they bought [73:12–73:18] together. Is it brand move? Oh, okay. So three week eve, I think even I'm sorry for you, but [73:18–73:24] him saying when they just after moving in to the house, do you think that's enough? Yeah. I know, [73:24–73:30] I finally, you'd still left them, but like it wouldn't be, you've been a dreamy squad. Yeah, [73:30–73:34] like that. You have to leave by that point. Or someone said come up with an agreement, [73:34–73:39] timeline to move out or conditions that if he stays. So a sit-out and conversate. Yeah, [73:39–73:43] I don't want you saying. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'm on the cons of my elves. I'm not getting [73:43–73:49] any friends. I'm sorry. What's like, and what about her limit position is like, is he really [73:49–73:53] that stuck or did he just think? I'm in it. I got a new graph. I'm gonna live with my mates. [73:53–73:59] Like, yeah. She's like, no, I'm sorry. She needs to, she should explain to her boyfriend that [73:59–74:04] this isn't her friend. It's his. He needs to talk to him. Tell him she would do the same for [74:04–74:09] her friend and say try to pull himself and her shoes. Yeah, I tried to write. The boyfriend seems [74:09–74:13] too laxidazzy. Yeah, yeah. He's just like, that's fine. Yeah. He's just living here. Yeah. [74:13–74:19] So, let's just turn it in and start then and him job accommodation adverts and offer to help him [74:19–74:25] get back on his feet. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. I might give him a hint. Yeah. Some people just don't go [74:25–74:30] ahead. I don't get it. No. They don't understand. Yeah. Or maybe he's choosing not to. [74:31–74:35] This happened to me in a very similar situation. Someone who I talked with my best friend moved [74:35–74:39] into my family home during lockdown. I'm gonna beat you up advantage in the same way. It got to [74:39–74:43] a point. She was fed an author. I went with my family and painted my family in a bad light. [74:43–74:47] My advice is to bring it up the issue soon or rather later and to give him a fair note [74:47–74:51] was period to find somewhere else to move out. If things are heading this way, he never did or [74:51–74:56] will respect you or your home. That's so true. What is it respecting? Yeah. It is. Like I wonder [74:56–75:00] what he was like the first week he got there compared to now. Yeah. It's not fair. Like they're [75:00–75:04] enjoying their new home together. Like I'm sorry, but just he and I feel really uncomfortable. That's [75:04–75:10] why he always thought yeah he is obviously like the make-e her. I feel so uncomfortable. Yeah. [75:11–75:14] Someone said the way he only lived with that the excuse that he's only lived with [75:14–75:21] that is laughable doesn't allow her doesn't allow for her. Doesn't allow for just disrespect to her [75:21–75:25] and her home. Yeah. No, that's just a couple. Yeah. Whatever the fuck that means. Let me just [75:25–75:31] put all this stuff out and change the locks. I love it. No. These are culture. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. [75:31–75:36] I love them. She needs to get a speaker and Blair this episode was in the house so we can hear it. [75:36–75:42] Yeah. That would be brutal. Accidentally put it on a rent. Well purposely accidentally put it [75:42–75:46] on around them and just read out a dilemma and maybe he'd be like hmm is this his name? [75:46–75:53] Maybe. Am I the draw? Yes. Yes he went for ice. Someone said okay sorry to be a bitch but [75:53–75:58] make your boyfriend choose. You were his friend. Oh wow. Bitch and cop and hop there. [75:58–76:02] So you were a friend. If he can decide then he isn't the one girl. No partner should ever make [76:02–76:06] you feel comfortable in your own house. You've paid for a house so you get to say sweetest friend [76:06–76:13] and tell him he has a week or two to move out. Well, I think that's fair. I really do. Yeah. Yeah. [76:13–76:18] And as well it's yeah your partner should respect your feelings as well and like understand that [76:18–76:23] you don't want this other friend living here. Yeah. It's not like something like you know [76:23–76:27] yes circumstances where he can't. Very something. He just has to remember how he needs to put [76:27–76:30] him back on his feet. He's being lazy because he has somewhere to live. He's just being [76:30–76:36] laxier. He's like where am I? I was getting a funny one. You're wrong. [76:39–76:47] Someone said get hit man. The more you give some people not. Not what the God's not [76:47–76:52] roting hit man. Not by the love from her. No any numbers. But someone said the more you give [76:52–76:56] some people the more that they take. That's it. What's the respect? He's the singer and [76:56–77:00] the way that way with it. Why would I live here for free? Eat there or no. They're yogurt. [77:00–77:07] They're turquoise. I think they're turquoise. If someone ate my f*** turquoise. Imagine. No. Yeah. Imagine [77:07–77:11] imagine one of the girls like coming in a shirt. Can I move in? Sleeping in the couch for a while. [77:11–77:14] And you were waking up from the morning. You're a turquoise and you're bagels were gone. Well, Diana's [77:14–77:18] going to live with me for some reason. Oh f***. Yeah. We'll see. We'll see you. We'll have to [77:18–77:22] put you on a boat. We have to live together before my mom dads. It's not my own. Yeah. And this is [77:22–77:27] like my sacred girly pop space. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Barbie drew your house pink. And he's going [77:27–77:34] to be like, doooooosh. Coming in with all his mouth. Yeah. Oh. Give him a little corner and that's it. [77:34–77:41] I'm washing. Sorry. Oh yeah. No. I'm happy. I'm sorry. I'm one of my DMs. Anyone can fall on [77:41–77:46] hard times. But they've saved their own money and sacrifice a lot. They need to sit together and [77:46–77:50] let him know that it's time for him to move out. The boyfriend needs to cop on just because it's [77:50–77:55] his friend. I'd be snappin if that was my boyfriend. It's time for the friend to go. Yeah. [77:56–78:00] I think it needs to be a thing where it's like, it's me or your friend. Like just tell him to be [78:00–78:05] if he's here. Yeah. Like it's so much extra time. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So you can send your [78:05–78:10] to them as into home I drink a go learnau.com. If you want your to learn who featured in the phone [78:10–78:15] of friends segment, you can put that in the subject on the email. So you'll get our advice. But also [78:15–78:21] the words like general public advice. I'm really good at this. Really good. Really really good. [78:23–78:27] So peak and bleak of the week is when we pick one peak and one bleak of the week so high and [78:27–78:33] a low. And we always start with the negative because then we can get the positive and feel better [78:33–78:40] about ourselves. And it's just more. Yeah. More better. So my bleak is the sand my sand fleas that are [78:40–78:47] all up my leg. They are really, really annoying. And I just feel sick that there was stuff bite me. [78:47–78:52] Yeah. Yeah. It's disgusting. Yeah. All of my legs. I just feel like they're all in my [78:52–78:56] shirt. You put that on for them? No. They're not really that it like they're a bit itchy. [78:56–79:02] I feel like they just keep. Yeah. I feel sick. That's my big. I'm already bad. [79:03–79:07] My bleak isn't really bleak anymore because it was only bleak for a day last week. So I count. Yeah. [79:08–79:16] Bobby was really, really sick. Yeah. Oh, wow. We don't know. Didn't eat all day. Didn't drink all day. [79:16–79:19] And a dog needs water. Yeah. Dog needs water more than it feels. [79:20–79:24] Didn't eat all day. Like, wouldn't you know what he's like when you walk into the house like [79:24–79:29] jump. Oh, like, wouldn't even look house. Like, he wouldn't even lift his head to look house. [79:29–79:34] I was so scared. And just for the day and things like that. Freshly. Yeah. I say it was a little [79:34–79:41] bug. Like, you know, you don't want to talk to anyone like it was like that. Yeah. He just had a day off. [79:41–79:47] My dad kept saying he's just having a day off. Leave him alone. I'm here. I'm so like. I'd say what was that? [79:47–79:51] He picked up somewhere like, even off a year when you can get a public. It was really scary. [79:51–79:55] And the main quave brought me to the park and I'd say and he was last at your lane. Yeah. It's fine. [79:55–80:02] Yeah. The usual show. He needs day off again. Yeah. He needs a day off. Just just one on your peak. [80:02–80:09] And my peak of the week I kind of have to. Yeah. Well, one. Yeah. Well, we already kind of spoke [80:09–80:13] about it was that I got my extension. So and I just feeling oh, and I had an accidental [80:13–80:18] globe week last week. Oh, got my hair done. My nails done. My eyebrows and my eyelashes are done [80:18–80:23] in one week. Love that. Accidentally. Yeah. Yeah. Felt amazing. But I'm going to get them [80:23–80:27] after. For goods. Yeah. But last just. No, not for good. Just for a while. Yeah. I just missed [80:27–80:34] putting on eyeliner and eyeshadow. Yeah. And it's hot. Yeah. And I'm off our family [80:34–80:40] minutes tonight. Oh, yeah. Big week in in the family. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Some good news with [80:40–80:46] the Kelly's. So yeah. We're going to go. Yeah. We're not meant to go in place. And then [80:46–80:49] somebody asked them the family guys, no. And then we say somewhere else. And that's like, [80:49–80:53] fine. Is that fair? Yeah. So we're at home now. All organized next up with time. I got home now. [80:54–80:58] Yeah. So we had a good positive week here with the Kelly's news. [80:58–80:59] Cheers. [81:00–81:02] Oh yeah we did! [81:02–81:04] Yeah it was a good week for the Kelly but cheers to that. [81:04–81:05] Yay! [81:05–81:06] You're so good news. [81:07–81:11] Um my peak is that someone tell me look like Dave Beckham and I'm putting on my CV. [81:12–81:14] It was a very handsome one. [81:15–81:16] You were doing James! [81:16–81:17] Yeah, come. [81:17–81:18] Yeah. [81:18–81:19] I don't care that I don't look like him. [81:19–81:21] I'm still taking this to the grave. [81:21–81:22] What the hell was I like? [81:22–81:23] I don't know. [81:23–81:24] I'm not sure. [81:24–81:26] I've had some of these hours come so my check-tops that asked for this. [81:28–81:29] Dave Beckham. [81:29–81:30] Yeah. [81:30–81:32] Just call me Beckes. [81:32–81:33] I can be. [81:34–81:35] Have we really watched that? [81:35–81:37] We watched the whole documentary about. [81:38–81:39] Oh yeah. [81:39–81:41] Darling's in the street. [81:41–81:43] That is what we are. [81:43–81:44] Yeah. [81:44–81:45] So I'm here. [81:45–81:47] We got pan express and I'm in a bed. [81:47–81:49] I'm afraid we're all going to have to leave. [81:49–81:50] And Dr. Riffon's. [81:50–81:52] Like, did you ever come up for holidays once? [81:52–81:53] Like it? [81:53–81:54] Yeah, what are you gonna do? [81:54–81:54] I don't know. [81:55–81:57] You don't like it when I'm feeling the Maywest. [81:57–81:58] I've had an arm learned. [81:58–82:00] It's just so you know she is a lion. [82:00–82:00] Maybe she's good. [82:01–82:02] Yeah, that's for an all-reliable. [82:04–82:05] But guys, thanks so much for listening. [82:06–82:06] As always. [82:06–82:08] You can go back and listen to our Bones episode, [82:08–82:11] which is a little bit more in hinge these days. [82:11–82:12] They come out on Monday. [82:12–82:12] Monday's. [82:12–82:13] What? [82:13–82:14] Monday's? [82:14–82:14] What? [82:14–82:16] And they're called how we drink ex-juice [82:16–82:18] and the anime episode comes out when it says. [82:18–82:20] And then Thursday's a full video. [82:20–82:20] If you're waiting for it, [82:20–82:20] Yeah. [82:21–82:23] Thursday is a full video. [82:23–82:23] Yeah. [82:23–82:24] 12 o'clock. [82:24–82:26] So you want to see my pantonones and my [82:26–82:27] flea lights. [82:28–82:29] Ew, we have fleas. [82:29–82:30] Basically. [82:30–82:30] You don't. [82:30–82:31] I do. [82:31–82:32] Just make sure you're not bored into your skin. [82:32–82:33] Oh! [82:33–82:34] No, I'm saying that now. [82:34–82:34] You'll be home. [82:34–82:35] Good luck. [82:35–82:35] Okay. [82:35–82:36] Don't forget to like, [82:36–82:37] written, subscribe to the podcast. [82:37–82:38] And we love you. [82:38–82:39] Yeah. [82:39–82:40] Love you. [82:40–82:40] See you soon. [82:40–82:41] Bye. [82:41–82:42] Bye. [82:42–82:45] Subscribe to this podcast for free on the Go Light Up.