(This is Supposed to Be) How To Be A Bad Bitch #37 — Hold My Drink

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[00:23–00:27] He collected me for the thing. It was basically a spin with a walk attached to it.
[00:27–00:33] I was like, what a really that went on here. I got a spin on a walk. Oh god.
[00:33–00:37] But also I could just feel like awkward that he's always right there and tough.
[00:37–00:42] And if you know the life you knew, put a safe to one of his hands.
[00:42–00:45] Get out of my way. Yeah, it's pretty good to count. Yeah.
[00:45–00:48] That was me back. Oh my god. Oh, jeez. Did you even read it?
[00:48–00:52] Oh my god. What is it? Oh!
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[02:12–02:17] head into the store. So on this week's episode of the Hover Drink. The self-insurling and
[02:17–02:21] chat about what we grew up to this weekend. I was wearing a hand. Shirley and had a great
[02:21–02:30] L-time and tempo bar. Tempo bar. Tempo bar. We did obviously see some distorts. Yes. We hope
[02:30–02:36] juice help is the main word there. Okay. Tries. Yeah, try to wait some of your dilemmas and
[02:36–02:40] to be sure to listen out for them. We also wanted this week's episode to touch on
[02:41–02:46] Bad Bitch Era. Oh my god. We need to start this. Yeah, no more sad bitch. No more sad bitch. We're
[02:46–02:51] giving up sad bitch era and we need bad bitch era. Which slowly then turned into horny bitch era.
[02:51–02:56] We only got it. Oh my god. It turned into chaos. Chaos. What you'll hear. You'll understand why
[02:56–03:00] Google Google does a sturdy and we did a German word of the week. We did our super skips.
[03:00–03:05] All the usual stuff and just cut up on life with each other. And our way to Italy, I have
[03:05–03:10] my friends been. They were like the psycho accents for me. They're expired.
[03:10–03:14] They're expired. Literally. So we hope you've enjoyed. We hope you've enjoyed. Love you.
[03:15–03:21] So we are home over. I think it's because we record on a Monday.
[03:23–03:26] It's just the day where you know what I'm kind of glad that because if you like record on Monday
[03:26–03:30] get you start for the week. Yeah. Because if it wasn't for this I probably wouldn't lie about
[03:30–03:33] all Monday. I'd serve your sleep probably. And it probably wouldn't be productive. Yeah.
[03:33–03:38] I'd serve your sleep definitely. So when was the day? I don't actually sleep for this one here.
[03:38–03:40] Oh I know. The kitchen back. No I showed up at the clock. What I found in the night so when
[03:40–03:47] last night is I like the beach waves. Now where isn't there? What was traffic? It was really
[03:47–03:52] weird. You liked traffic. No one in the town is listening to traffic. Oh I suppose if you live
[03:52–03:57] like you're used to let's say E and E in my PO in the country sides. Is that what it is? Maybe.
[03:57–04:01] Is that like Reese? The can't see why anyone would want to listen to Beaton Curry's heard in there. No.
[04:02–04:04] Right the one that I fell asleep to apparently was this one.
[04:11–04:16] Oh my god I feel like I'm in an island. See you. Yeah. Yeah. That's like I'm doing a little
[04:16–04:20] every night or a taking clock. Love the sound. I hate the sound or taking clock. I think this is when
[04:20–04:24] I was younger I had this big huge clock. I wasn't a big huge it was a plastic white clock in my wall
[04:24–04:32] and I could hear it. You're used to it yeah yeah. Yeah. I always find myself counting to go to
[04:32–04:37] sleep. Is that really weird? No. I can't see. I literally just like there and I'd be like
[04:38–04:42] I'm just I need to forget. Yeah. It's fun to end in what I do. I wait until I'm late
[04:42–04:47] until I'm really tired to go sleep. I hate lying there and waiting to go sleep. Try to
[04:47–04:52] watch yourself. Yeah. And the last few days my mom's had me where I am listening to podcast
[04:52–04:56] go sleep. Really? I hate to sound like obviously you'd say the house is quiet and we're in a
[04:56–05:00] two when asleep but like I just like to sound something like that. Yeah. I just feel like that when I was
[05:00–05:06] younger if I heard if I heard the tele on downstairs I knew my mom and dad were still awake so it was
[05:06–05:10] like I was safe to go to sleep. Come for thing. Yeah. Yeah. But I still like I remember I'm free
[05:10–05:13] going to know it's younger since I heard the tele go off and I know they were gone to bed I'd
[05:13–05:19] free go free go because I like I don't know. You know they're still in the house. Yeah. They're
[05:19–05:23] in the room or whatever like something. Yeah. Are you sure I was out? I don't know why it's coming to my
[05:23–05:27] head. Do you have an irrational fear when I was younger? Being locked in the shop? Why? I don't know.
[05:27–05:34] I don't like the last one there. Oh god. That was scary. We need to go. We need to focus.
[05:34–05:38] And then I started working in shops and you have to close the shop. It's not a big deal.
[05:39–05:42] Let me do it. Why are you being in that? I don't know. It's a matter of shit you've
[05:42–05:47] Oh no. Yeah. And as well when you lose your mom and like I see workers. Oh I used to
[05:47–05:52] lose my mom and probably my car time and I used to have to go to the I used to go to them and ask
[05:52–05:55] me. I don't know. She's your name but I used to give her her mate. They're her maiden name. I don't
[05:55–06:00] know why she used to kill me so I'd be sitting there and it'd be like can a Helen Ward please come
[06:00–06:07] to the customer service. She's like Jesus Christ. She's lost again. Yeah. In Blanche. So I can
[06:07–06:11] last in the Blanche one. I think they're not allowed to say well obviously we're
[06:11–06:16] companies like you're not allowed to say that like your child is found if they have to just say
[06:16–06:21] didn't you come to come to come yet. Why? Because then people know if it's a P.E.R. or like
[06:21–06:26] a kid app or like a child on the wrong. Yeah. Oh yeah. Isn't that mad? Oh you should. They
[06:26–06:33] have to think about that like oh my gosh. But we spent weekend parts. I would just hit my nose.
[06:35–06:40] And we had different adventures. We did. What did you do? Sometimes you're like five in the
[06:40–06:44] hour. I know. Yeah. Oh you can't even. I feel like I was a very time to hit in 10th of
[06:44–06:49] where I was at when I was there. Potentially. Wait I don't know. Maybe not. If you're on a show
[06:49–06:53] and we see it apologize to you. Why? Because when you were on face something like she just
[06:53–07:00] could go shelling. Shelling. Shelling. Shelling. Shelling. I don't remember. And the flight
[07:00–07:03] yes she was like will you please apologize to her. I think she's probably going to remember the phone
[07:03–07:07] got on the phone. Oh yeah anyway. Yeah. I'm so worried. She was like all I kept people
[07:07–07:11] were taking the phone and singing that song. Oh my god. No people are always seeing this.
[07:12–07:17] If you say your name Charlie and those are singing it. Singing it. But it's Jodie. Yeah no.
[07:17–07:22] It's just because of the rhymes. That's like me rhyme and something like just anything random. Yeah.
[07:24–07:30] Anyway. You went to Hans. I went on Hans. How's your angle actually? A bit folks to be honest. I was
[07:30–07:35] wondering why you had black socks on but actually the angle right there. It's like compression
[07:35–07:40] and it's actually getting better. No. Oh. Yeah. I probably shouldn't know why I'm here. Oh you
[07:40–07:45] can't. Yeah. Because then every like we were here during the day and so but then at night time
[07:45–07:49] like it was just like it's just like it feels a fluid now. It just gets swollen. Yeah. It just gets
[07:49–07:54] like you're on it. Yeah. And the heels definitely didn't help. I think drinking as well like it doesn't
[07:54–07:58] help. Anything doesn't. Yeah exactly. Just drink it. Just drink it. Anything at all. No. I feel like
[07:58–08:03] when you have like even like my nose still swells when I drink. So if you've any if if any type of
[08:04–08:08] any of your it will just swell. Really? Or even they say I have to get it up soon to not
[08:08–08:13] um. Don't drink it. Yeah. True. I need a fly around. So the fly probably is there?
[08:14–08:17] Definitely. Yeah. I also feel like I can even show up with me. I've been to the
[08:17–08:22] prelude. I need to go. Oh yeah. I'm happy to go. I know. It's so close. But I feel like I
[08:22–08:26] got to look back. Come here. I'm so firm already. You're going to have a long show of this guy.
[08:26–08:31] Oh yeah. I know. We're going out for you. Yeah. Definitely. And the flight takes pretty
[08:31–08:37] less. I know. Yeah. So. Yeah. Same for my face. Isn't it? So good. Yeah. I have to go. But we had a ball.
[08:37–08:40] It's just one of the places that you have to go. We went Friday. How does the hands work? I've
[08:40–08:45] never been on the hands. I don't know. No. Look how does it work? Like what? Like do you do?
[08:45–08:49] Today? The game on it? No. The game's not. Yeah. The main of honor kind of
[08:49–08:53] just organized it. Yeah. Yeah. And then the rest of the ride's way is kind of helped. I was
[08:53–08:58] very bad. I made most of action for the last six years. Yeah. So I didn't really help much.
[08:58–09:00] Really sorry about that. Yeah.
[09:00–09:10] Yeah, we just have games and we all met in the call house on Friday morning. Yeah, I made food in the air fire loads food and brought around like
[09:10–09:14] Jambam, my job, so I think I did my job, okay?
[09:14–09:20] Yeah, start drinking there. Yeah, got a pink homework to the airport. I think when you're getting the morning, you get full. Oh, we were full. So you get so
[09:20–09:28] drunk so quick. I have read all the light was delayed. It's a layer of upper two hours or absolute bamboozles. Oh my gosh. Bamboozles.
[09:28–09:35] I don't know if I took the lane. I've seen that. But got the air or yeah, got the airport drinking air. I was getting we got some sort of
[09:35–09:46] Sam, which is something I think I know we had straight level got ready. Straight out. Out of the on stuff. Six. I'm not going to the only thing and I'm sorry.
[09:46–09:55] I was hanging out of my hole to be honest. I was in a hill hoop. I was trying to make myself sick and I thought it was better, but it wasn't working.
[09:55–10:02] I just used it and say like this like rattling, rattling. And I was like, right, I'm going to go home and sleep for two hours to be ready for
[10:02–10:09] Saturday night then. But we just didn't have to know we just ended up back on the drink again. But I feel like that we didn't. Yeah, and you don't feel as bad the next day because it's like you.
[10:09–10:17] Your body's used to get down. Yeah, it's the hangover and Sunday wasn't half as bad as yeah. Saturday's one. I don't know what it was. Someone told me that like.
[10:17–10:23] It was but like that basically your body saving on drink phrase and then you drink. Do you ever get like the worst hangover?
[10:23–10:29] So your body is used to the drink on the second night. So you don't get as bad a hangover. Yeah.
[10:29–10:35] You just put like toxic things into your body. Then we had a drink the airport yesterday before we came home.
[10:35–10:40] Did you know we did the help some. Yeah, I had to have a drink yesterday. I had a drink last night as well. The pub. Oh yeah.
[10:40–10:48] What's wrong with me? Our veins are just fuller to kill. I was like, oh, again, but it was great crack. Very, very funny. I have my stomach.
[10:48–10:53] I don't think I've laughed. I thought my very long time was hilarious. I had so much actual to kill. Just normal to kill.
[10:53–10:59] I got the girl's killing the. They were in the bathroom and they came out and I had them six things to kill.
[10:59–11:02] And they hate like Rosenthal even like getting carried on it and she.
[11:02–11:06] Because my grandma the way but she done it and got sick on the round. Oh no.
[11:06–11:10] Oh yeah. She was like, you know, I hate these.
[11:10–11:18] But she immigrated then today. So yeah. So basically, I'm trying to be friends with the whole country.
[11:18–11:25] We went to her first. I was locked by Tommy left first. Then we went to the Camden.
[11:25–11:29] Is that something? We went out. We could only get a bookings for so early.
[11:29–11:35] Six. I broke one six tonight and it was like, there was like a some match being played sports kind of.
[11:35–11:40] I like so that was kind of shit. And then it was good. Other than that, but the fact that there was a match.
[11:40–11:44] I was here. But it's gorgeous. The bathroom's on or something. Oh my god.
[11:44–11:47] The one's foot looks lovely. And then went to the hamble bar.
[11:47–11:51] Because he wanted to get a good Irish experience. Or she left. So it was actually a ball.
[11:51–11:55] I don't know if it was. Went to a couple of them just popped as if you.
[11:55–11:58] Yeah. I think it was like the temple in or something.
[11:59–12:01] Would that red one on the corner? Yeah. We went to it. I don't know.
[12:01–12:06] I went about three of them. And it was actually so good. It felt like I was in like,
[12:07–12:09] I felt like a tourist. Like in a good way. It was nice.
[12:09–12:13] Very, very nice. Yeah. Because everyone around was like from different countries. And like,
[12:13–12:17] now it was a rip off. I think I've had like 60 year old for six shots.
[12:18–12:22] Can I reach? Yeah. Sick. The camera was actually not expensive.
[12:22–12:24] No. It was like 30 there. For six shots. That's actually good.
[12:25–12:27] Before I reach. But yeah. Yeah.
[12:27–12:30] Did it go yellow? No. We backed it up. How are you done?
[12:30–12:33] Oh yes. And I went to another party. Just to collect my friend.
[12:33–12:36] And then we went to him to my next. Girl.
[12:36–12:38] But I would recommend it. I would go again.
[12:38–12:42] What would you? Yeah. 100%. It's just our, it always reminds me of going to sand.
[12:42–12:44] Why? Because you don't go after the sand. Yeah.
[12:44–12:50] And go to sand. No, just pop right out of the doors. I think I've been there twice maybe.
[12:50–12:53] Yeah. Go and have a drink. Like I'd never ever think to go there.
[12:53–12:57] Well, like, it's hard to see. Oh my god. Also, I just got, I just got a flashback.
[12:57–12:59] This man came up to a sand. And we're in.
[12:59–13:02] Made us feel like it's for like a mostly for take talk or something.
[13:02–13:05] For YouTube. It was like, you know, when you were like on the street asking question.
[13:05–13:08] And it was like in a quiz about Africa. Oh, for.
[13:08–13:12] That's a bit like African flags. Like different countries in Africa. And I'll, what is?
[13:12–13:15] Is Africa? What are you going to say now?
[13:15–13:17] Like, country.
[13:17–13:21] Think Africa is a continent. Yeah, but so is every part in Africa a different country?
[13:21–13:24] It's a continent. It's like Europe. Yeah, but then every, every
[13:24–13:28] part in that is a country. Is it? Yeah. Okay. Yes. I was right. Yeah. Yeah.
[13:28–13:33] So is that something like different flags? No, I don't see them up. Okay. But any of the girls
[13:33–13:37] were getting them all. It's like, how fuck? Like flags of different countries in Africa?
[13:37–13:41] Like, that's what the sand writes on. It should be like counties in Africa.
[13:43–13:48] It's just a certain dranny like. You know, like, why is it county in Dublin? Why is it
[13:48–13:52] now counties in England? There's counties in England. Oh, they call counties there.
[13:53–13:56] I'm having a blonde. I just don't think in England they put the little counties.
[13:56–14:01] That's why we do like borders. No, we do like county. Like we do um,
[14:01–14:04] county London. Yeah, they don't, I don't think they say that. No, they wouldn't.
[14:04–14:08] County London County, Manchester. I don't see any place. It's just some use.
[14:08–14:13] That's culture. But yeah, so then yeah, we're doing what I don't know what else.
[14:13–14:17] Oh, then I had to do dare. I had to spin around 10 times and try walking straight
[14:17–14:19] nine. Now I only got to five and I couldn't even walk.
[14:19–14:23] Could you? So God, I love it. No, we had we had we had dare cards. I'm sorry.
[14:23–14:26] I thought I said no to everything. I don't know what you're doing.
[14:26–14:30] It was like, get a man to sign your chest and all the girls could have given me that
[14:30–14:33] card because the new did it. Yeah. And I was like, no, actually, I was a
[14:33–14:38] brother. Was there a pen? Yeah, I love that.
[14:38–14:41] Do you like it? Yes. There's another and it's like a kiss to force man.
[14:41–14:45] The walk sense the bar. I was like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
[14:45–14:46] Clicked anyone. It couldn't.
[14:47–14:52] Everyone's right. But it was my ad one's I don't know. It was hectic, but
[14:52–14:54] and that's the thing about you play games and all that. Yeah.
[14:54–14:58] One of them was um get the bride to get a free drink off the bar, man.
[14:58–15:02] Okay. And like where we were was like full of hands and full of stags,
[15:02–15:06] you know, like it was the pure, the touristy days really go. Yeah. Did you have to wear
[15:06–15:10] a certain color? No. A Friday we wore a black one. Yeah. Only Friday night. And but
[15:12–15:16] I was going to go to the bar with a card that said like get the bride to get a free drink off the
[15:16–15:21] thing and your mom's like, no, I think oh, we're just playing like give her a fucking shot or
[15:21–15:24] some fun. No. I was like, we're just playing a game. It's just a hand game. You like it
[15:24–15:29] have a shot even like, no, you're not going to get a free drink. I was like, all right.
[15:29–15:32] I wonder does he get it alone? I'd say that. But like,
[15:32–15:36] when the call had like all her bridey so far, no, like I'll see if they're spending obviously,
[15:36–15:40] like hands and I'll spend so much more in places like that, at least play along.
[15:40–15:43] We went to another bar then as well and it was like a rooftop bar and it looks really,
[15:43–15:48] really fancy from anywhere hotel. When we walked in, they were like, always just have a book
[15:48–15:52] and we were like, now it's about six o'clock. Very, um, just have a book. Oh no, it's
[15:52–15:55] before or clock in the day. Just have a book and we were like, now they're like,
[15:55–15:58] upstairs or downstairs. Like just want to go to the rooftop and we're like, yeah, the rooftop.
[15:58–16:02] So we all walked in and the call was called back then by one of the like,
[16:03–16:05] receptionist people and was asked to take off her, uh,
[16:07–16:12] her veil and her like hand, sort of shed like a willy whistle around her neck. No.
[16:12–16:16] And she was like, uh, sorry, you just have to take off all like the hand stuff. Why?
[16:17–16:21] Because it's fancy and it looks like bad. That's what I put a bad vibe in the place.
[16:21–16:24] All together, we walked upstairs and just walked straight back to her and I was like, that's
[16:24–16:30] shit. You don't deserve her, Emily. I know. It's maybe in case you don't actually know what it was,
[16:30–16:35] what the point of it was. I could just put a sour, to a chosen, yeah. I never heard of the
[16:35–16:39] happens. You have to take off all your hand memorabilia or something. She said it was a lot.
[16:41–16:44] Well, as if it would turn people off coming in or something like. Or in case it was
[16:44–16:49] rude or something. Or something. Let me use the willy whistle. Yeah, the willy whistle. It's
[16:49–16:54] grey crack. That's a bad name. I didn't see any hands in town. Can I see any hands?
[16:55–17:01] There wasn't any hands in the number. I feel like. It's always stagged. It's always stagged.
[17:02–17:11] Is it? Yeah. You need to turn stags. So for way to tell you, it's where we tell you
[17:11–17:16] something. It's about a little bit drama or a story or anything. Basically.
[17:17–17:20] I'm going to give this to more. All we've said in that question box actually about them,
[17:20–17:26] like in this section. Yeah, they're like just like hearing more about like us and her life.
[17:26–17:30] So they're always like from the past. They're like something from the week. I very see what.
[17:30–17:36] This week we have no specific stories from the weekends. For I have one that I was saved and
[17:36–17:45] in the bank. So basically when myself and an ex broke up a few years ago, I only finished that
[17:45–17:49] once later by the way. The girls. I was just the girl. Yes, the girls sat me down. They were like,
[17:49–17:56] we have something to tell you. I was like, oh my god, what? And they said that they basically,
[17:56–18:00] he had me blocked at the time whenever like, I'll show you after the breakup and he
[18:00–18:04] got a story of a girl, a girl's and a girl's nail, isn't it?
[18:04–18:07] Like one nail or a hand or something like that?
[18:07–18:08] And it was for dinner.
[18:08–18:09] So the girls were all together.
[18:09–18:11] I think they were like, I don't know if they were studying
[18:11–18:13] for like college, I don't know, whatever.
[18:13–18:14] They were all together.
[18:14–18:15] And they obviously were sending,
[18:15–18:16] or Tony should have been a couple of the folks
[18:16–18:21] and the place was tagged of like where he was.
[18:22–18:27] So the girls went off in the guy that was four,
[18:27–18:29] went off in the guy that to go
[18:29–18:31] and fit like, say, very well.
[18:31–18:33] Like a fancy restaurant?
[18:33–18:34] No, like a local place.
[18:36–18:39] And they went in, when they went in,
[18:39–18:42] and they ended up saying a reason for you to an air.
[18:42–18:43] And then,
[18:43–18:47] and oh my god, I think she said, I can't wait.
[18:49–18:51] She said something about, oh, she was happy to be there,
[18:51–18:55] she had to look at a menu or something for someone's birthday.
[18:55–18:57] And I was really like, I don't,
[18:57–18:59] I think she just wanted to see if he's ever
[18:59–19:01] then underbubbs he'd run into him like,
[19:01–19:02] I have funnier, sir.
[19:02–19:03] I like that.
[19:03–19:04] Like, who was the girl?
[19:04–19:05] Oh, and a bling just in the sister.
[19:05–19:06] Oh, hello.
[19:06–19:08] Yeah, who was the family?
[19:08–19:09] Oh, that made it even worse.
[19:09–19:11] Like, how did I have a girl though?
[19:11–19:12] But they told me that she wanted to,
[19:12–19:14] like, I think that was the best thing I've ever heard.
[19:14–19:15] They went to the restaurant.
[19:15–19:16] They wish she went.
[19:16–19:17] What good friend?
[19:17–19:18] Well, I was just gonna say,
[19:18–19:19] what good friend?
[19:19–19:20] What, I was so brilliant, sir.
[19:20–19:21] I was like, I wish you had took me,
[19:21–19:23] which is like, what if I'm the owner?
[19:23–19:24] So funny though.
[19:24–19:26] And they thought it was a girl and it was the sister.
[19:26–19:27] Yeah.
[19:27–19:28] I think my boom d'inch on my boom,
[19:28–19:30] I'd want the ground to swallow me up like,
[19:30–19:32] if I was, yeah, yeah, yeah.
[19:32–19:32] Yeah.
[19:32–19:34] You'd die funny though.
[19:34–19:35] Oh, hilarious.
[19:35–19:36] Just things.
[19:36–19:37] See you ever now.
[19:37–19:38] Oh, I don't know.
[19:38–19:39] I just, you should tell them.
[19:39–19:41] Someone's trying to defend to me.
[19:41–19:42] And when they tell me I was,
[19:42–19:43] if she was on the deck,
[19:43–19:45] I think that's the funniest thing I've ever heard.
[19:45–19:46] I was like, when you tell me forward,
[19:46–19:47] I really couldn't help.
[19:47–19:49] Why didn't they bring you?
[19:49–19:50] I know, yeah.
[19:50–19:52] But I think I was still, I was still very raw.
[19:52–19:55] I would like, stormed in.
[19:55–19:55] Oh, yeah.
[19:55–19:57] I think I was like,
[19:57–19:59] I was very unhinged if I say to probably
[19:59–20:03] wouldn't have been a good time to do that for.
[20:03–20:04] Love you guys.
[20:06–20:08] Love islands.
[20:08–20:09] Love islands.
[20:09–20:10] You're not in that spirit.
[20:10–20:11] Well, I miss.
[20:11–20:12] Oh, you miss them?
[20:12–20:13] Yeah.
[20:13–20:14] What's your last name?
[20:14–20:15] But I did miss Friday.
[20:15–20:16] Wasn't it?
[20:16–20:17] Was that what I missed?
[20:17–20:18] Yeah.
[20:18–20:19] I wonder what Damien and India,
[20:19–20:20] by the time this is how,
[20:20–20:22] obviously there'll probably be something
[20:22–20:25] that will have happened by one of the Damien and India.
[20:25–20:26] I think so.
[20:26–20:27] Oh, credo, isn't it like a little bit?
[20:27–20:29] Did you see last night when Amber walked out?
[20:29–20:30] It's Amber, isn't it?
[20:30–20:31] Oh, that was so awkward.
[20:31–20:33] When she was like, I feel really comfortable
[20:33–20:34] as I get to meet her.
[20:34–20:35] I wondered did they edit it to make it up more awkward?
[20:35–20:36] I wouldn't be able to sit there.
[20:36–20:38] Everyone was just looking around like this and all that.
[20:38–20:40] But she was like, no, nothing.
[20:40–20:41] Everything's fine.
[20:41–20:42] What do you mean?
[20:42–20:43] I thought she was ready to say something.
[20:43–20:45] Yeah, I thought she was like, oh no,
[20:45–20:46] she's not this, right?
[20:46–20:47] Is she like,
[20:47–20:49] well, I actually, I liked it.
[20:49–20:52] And so, but then I didn't like how she,
[20:52–20:55] like did you think she was gaslighting to be like so much?
[20:55–20:57] Oh, I just walked away from the locker.
[20:57–20:59] And then trying to make her make it feel.
[20:59–21:01] You did, yeah, you did the bad thing, not me.
[21:01–21:02] And what?
[21:02–21:03] Yeah.
[21:03–21:05] No, she gaslighted the fuck out of me.
[21:05–21:06] That was really bad.
[21:06–21:07] It was just the lion.
[21:07–21:09] And then she was like saying something and,
[21:09–21:10] um,
[21:10–21:12] Andrew was like, no, friends, but you did lie.
[21:12–21:14] And she's like, oh, it was very time she,
[21:14–21:15] she was like, he was like, no, you did.
[21:15–21:17] It's the lion.
[21:17–21:18] The whole thing, it's just mental.
[21:18–21:18] How the thing, that's.
[21:18–21:21] But what do you think of Jay?
[21:21–21:22] Uh, he's hot.
[21:22–21:23] I don't know.
[21:23–21:24] Something that was not clicking for me.
[21:24–21:26] I don't think I don't think it's ever looking.
[21:26–21:27] No, not even messing.
[21:27–21:27] Yeah, not that.
[21:27–21:29] I think he's hot, but.
[21:29–21:31] I've seen that thing that he talked about.
[21:31–21:32] It was X's coming out,
[21:32–21:34] but he left me for the violin.
[21:34–21:36] But I think people just come out and say that.
[21:36–21:37] I was like, every, every year,
[21:37–21:38] there's always someone.
[21:38–21:39] Yeah, he left me in.
[21:39–21:43] I think I'm a bit mad about Jack's.
[21:43–21:44] We have.
[21:44–21:45] Oh, yeah, he's nice.
[21:45–21:46] It's me.
[21:46–21:47] Yeah.
[21:47–21:49] It's very my type kind of thing.
[21:49–21:50] Very much your type.
[21:50–21:51] Yeah, very pretty.
[21:51–21:52] Yeah, why?
[21:52–21:53] I like a pretty boy.
[21:53–21:54] Why?
[21:54–21:55] I don't know.
[21:55–21:56] Because they're adults.
[21:56–21:57] Yeah, they actually are.
[21:57–21:58] Because they always look after themselves.
[21:58–21:59] They know that they're going to look
[21:59–22:01] and then they enter in their assholes.
[22:01–22:04] So you go just come the way before anything.
[22:04–22:06] Do you know what I'm pretty boy or not?
[22:06–22:09] Men sometimes come here ourselves anyway.
[22:09–22:10] I've been with people who aren't like,
[22:10–22:13] who aren't much like an old man.
[22:13–22:15] And they're still the same.
[22:15–22:16] So you may as well get in.
[22:16–22:17] Go look at that, at all.
[22:17–22:18] Yeah.
[22:18–22:19] That's the best thing.
[22:19–22:20] It's the best thing.
[22:20–22:21] Yeah.
[22:21–22:22] Yeah.
[22:22–22:23] Yeah.
[22:23–22:24] Yeah.
[22:24–22:25] Because you can't be like, yeah, they're okay anyway.
[22:25–22:26] Yeah.
[22:26–22:27] No.
[22:27–22:28] You're like, oh, I'm so good.
[22:28–22:29] They're gorgeous.
[22:29–22:30] Who else am I thinking of?
[22:30–22:31] That new girl.
[22:31–22:32] What's her name?
[22:32–22:33] Donica.
[22:33–22:34] Yeah, Donica when she stole.
[22:34–22:35] Doica of.
[22:35–22:36] She was being a prick, I thought.
[22:36–22:37] I thought that was so unnecessary.
[22:37–22:38] Put her head in his hands, and I'll lick.
[22:38–22:39] She's not ripping her away from it.
[22:39–22:40] She's still in the middle of it.
[22:40–22:41] Yeah.
[22:41–22:42] I thought that was very smart.
[22:42–22:43] Did you?
[22:43–22:44] Yeah.
[22:44–22:45] Cause I was all over the vine.
[22:45–22:46] Like I tell you, she was really told to do that.
[22:46–22:47] It's just where we're trying.
[22:47–22:48] Yeah, it was so sad.
[22:48–22:51] Now I tell you, it was like now that's me to like shake the open
[22:51–22:52] a little bit.
[22:52–22:53] Yeah.
[22:53–22:55] But you hear what jama said to her when she was like, there was two
[22:55–22:56] single guys there.
[22:56–22:57] You could've taken one of them.
[22:57–22:58] Like I know she went from them.
[22:58–22:59] Yeah.
[22:59–23:00] It's all over the vine.
[23:00–23:01] Like that was the real world.
[23:01–23:02] Yeah, obviously.
[23:02–23:03] But yeah, true.
[23:03–23:05] I tell you she was told to search it.
[23:05–23:06] Um, yeah.
[23:06–23:07] Definitely.
[23:07–23:08] Who is the single best?
[23:08–23:09] Um, I think she was a single.
[23:09–23:10] I think she was a single.
[23:10–23:11] I think she was a single.
[23:11–23:12] Yeah.
[23:12–23:13] I think of us.
[23:13–23:14] Um, and Remy.
[23:14–23:15] Yeah.
[23:15–23:16] I also feel so bad for my mother.
[23:16–23:17] Like they go and they're like, yeah, I'm going to steal this.
[23:17–23:18] Not and then they go home.
[23:18–23:19] They're like so sad.
[23:19–23:20] I say, well, I feel it as well.
[23:20–23:21] So sad.
[23:21–23:22] It's my, I thought we went on their page.
[23:22–23:23] I mean, the girls when we were watching when she left.
[23:23–23:24] She went like 50 and K.
[23:24–23:25] All of us.
[23:25–23:26] 50.
[23:26–23:27] Yeah.
[23:27–23:28] After being on the vine.
[23:28–23:29] Yeah.
[23:29–23:30] Not much.
[23:30–23:31] I don't know.
[23:31–23:32] I don't know if it's like getting less popular.
[23:32–23:33] I don't know.
[23:33–23:34] I don't know if it's like getting less popular.
[23:34–23:35] I don't know.
[23:35–23:36] I don't know if it's like getting less popular.
[23:36–23:37] I don't know if it's like getting less popular.
[23:37–23:38] It's like.
[23:38–23:39] They're like, what?
[23:39–23:41] But I feel like normally have way more.
[23:41–23:42] When I'm.
[23:42–23:43] I'm sorry for its like.
[23:43–23:46] And he wanted to watch it on his Saturday.
[23:46–23:47] Really?
[23:47–23:48] I miss it.
[23:48–23:49] Why?
[23:49–23:50] I just like having something to do.
[23:50–23:52] Everything on his Saturday because they purposely now people will be out and won't be watching
[23:52–23:53] it.
[23:53–23:54] I don't know.
[23:54–23:55] I don't think they have a day off film or something.
[23:55–23:56] or something.
[23:56–23:57] They go out or something.
[23:57–23:58] I love watching our last years.
[23:58–23:59] People that run out.
[23:59–24:00] They're tick-tock's people.
[24:00–24:01] And then they're asking questions.
[24:01–24:02] They.
[24:02–24:03] Why is it so addictive?
[24:03–24:05] I was on Sharon's live this morning.
[24:05–24:06] I was watching it.
[24:06–24:06] I heard.
[24:06–24:08] I thought I was like, let me talk about the,
[24:08–24:09] someone talked about the pill.
[24:09–24:11] They were like, why do we never see you in the pill?
[24:11–24:13] Oh, and and she was like, it's because we obviously
[24:13–24:14] have to check our mics off.
[24:14–24:14] They kept calling them.
[24:14–24:16] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[24:16–24:17] She was like, what we use the pill every day.
[24:17–24:19] We just don't.
[24:19–24:20] We just don't.
[24:20–24:21] Oh my god, it's so trans.
[24:21–24:24] I can actually help someone we know goes into.
[24:24–24:24] Shink.
[24:24–24:25] Yeah.
[24:25–24:27] We heard a few rumors.
[24:27–24:30] Yeah, every, every rumor is about that.
[24:30–24:31] So I would look, it's just so much better
[24:31–24:32] because you're coming out.
[24:32–24:32] I know.
[24:32–24:35] I'm a jealous little bitch.
[24:35–24:37] So I'd be like, oh, it's not what's made me so.
[24:37–24:37] What did you do?
[24:37–24:38] No, I wouldn't do it.
[24:38–24:40] So wouldn't do it, but like, oh, we should have been in it.
[24:40–24:40] No, I know.
[24:40–24:41] In another way.
[24:41–24:43] It is a good, if you do it right, it's a good thing.
[24:43–24:45] It's a career-wise, it is a good thing.
[24:45–24:47] But there's also at the same time,
[24:47–24:49] think about the amount of people that have been on it
[24:49–24:50] and how many actually are doing well now.
[24:50–24:51] Yeah, true.
[24:51–24:53] There's not that that many.
[24:53–24:54] Yeah, it dies down a lot.
[24:54–24:55] I think a lot of people are on it.
[24:55–24:57] You're like hot for a year sometimes.
[24:57–25:00] Maybe in my last show, he's going back to his job.
[25:00–25:03] Oh, who?
[25:03–25:05] He was like bald tattoos.
[25:05–25:06] Was it last year or before?
[25:06–25:08] Paul's.
[25:08–25:09] What's your balls?
[25:09–25:11] He just had really, really shorter.
[25:11–25:12] Can't think of what was he on?
[25:12–25:14] Start like, he was the way.
[25:14–25:15] So I don't know.
[25:15–25:18] I just recognize the face.
[25:18–25:19] And he was talking to me.
[25:19–25:21] Like when I came out of the villa, I went straight back into the room.
[25:21–25:23] And Danny.
[25:23–25:23] Is it Danny?
[25:23–25:24] Yeah.
[25:24–25:25] Yeah, but that's because he got like,
[25:25–25:27] handsled it from me in there.
[25:27–25:27] What happened to him?
[25:27–25:29] He was like, all these bad tweets came up
[25:29–25:30] when he was in there.
[25:30–25:31] Oh, yeah.
[25:31–25:32] Oh, sorry.
[25:32–25:33] Didn't know that.
[25:33–25:34] Yeah.
[25:34–25:36] I always thought he just went to came out of it and just like fell off the wagon and went
[25:36–25:37] back to work.
[25:37–25:38] Yeah.
[25:38–25:39] Yeah, it's not.
[25:39–25:40] I just, I don't know.
[25:40–25:41] That's a risk you take.
[25:41–25:42] I go in there because you're always going to be known.
[25:42–25:43] Is that even if you don't do that well?
[25:43–25:44] Mm.
[25:44–25:46] Anyway, anyway, was that a little violent recap?
[25:46–25:47] Yeah.
[25:47–25:48] This week.
[25:48–25:52] So, Dermond Word the week is where I teach you a Dermond Word and I actually ask
[25:52–25:57] an Instagram what your favorite of the podcast was and some of you said this.
[25:57–25:58] How cute.
[25:58–25:59] Oh my god, my skin is so dry.
[25:59–26:00] I need some moisturized.
[26:00–26:01] Oh, girl.
[26:01–26:02] Feel not.
[26:02–26:03] Oh, girl.
[26:03–26:07] It's going to be all over the soul for like the garlic shedding light.
[26:07–26:08] It's like a snake.
[26:08–26:12] Um, well, for this week's Dermond Word the week.
[26:12–26:13] Okay, I have one.
[26:13–26:14] Had to cook.
[26:14–26:15] What?
[26:15–26:16] I've never had a last thing.
[26:16–26:17] I'm going to sit in here.
[26:17–26:18] My father will give us a sheet of beer.
[26:18–26:19] Yeah, yeah.
[26:19–26:20] Cause I use to take guys.
[26:20–26:23] Um, so yeah, basically yelling us the guess is the word.
[26:23–26:24] What is the word is?
[26:24–26:25] Howt.
[26:25–26:26] Howt.
[26:26–26:27] Yeah.
[26:28–26:29] Howt is a place in Dublin?
[26:29–26:31] No, howt.
[26:31–26:32] Howt.
[26:32–26:37] Does sound like I'm supposed to sound like a reverse ain't howt.
[26:37–26:38] Howt.
[26:38–26:39] I can't.
[26:39–26:40] I can't.
[26:40–26:41] I can't.
[26:41–26:42] I can't.
[26:42–26:43] I'm here, don't know.
[26:43–26:44] Howt.
[26:44–26:45] I'm going to howt.
[26:45–26:47] Hey, are you see?
[26:47–26:48] Howt.
[26:48–26:52] Um, he can't say howt.
[26:53–26:54] It'suhetera's.
[26:57–26:59] .
[26:59–27:02] I've done he put it in its own.
[27:00–27:03] Oh, sorry, okay.
[27:03–27:06] Hoots is in this room.
[27:06–27:07] Yeah, light.
[27:07–27:08] Oh yeah.
[27:08–27:11] It's not really out in the zoo with that.
[27:11–27:15] More like, oh, more like, humans.
[27:15–27:17] Humanistic, is that words?
[27:17–27:18] Humanistic, is that words?
[27:18–27:19] Hawkers.
[27:19–27:20] No.
[27:20–27:21] I'm pretty sure.
[27:21–27:24] But there is Hawkers, but real.
[27:24–27:25] No.
[27:25–27:27] Does it sound like the word now?
[27:27–27:28] Not all.
[27:28–27:30] It sounds like an S.
[27:30–27:31] Six-year-old.
[27:31–27:32] No.
[27:32–27:33] No.
[27:33–27:34] Hey.
[27:34–27:36] There I'll send.
[27:36–27:38] I was just talking about it.
[27:38–27:39] It's okay.
[27:39–27:41] No.
[27:41–27:42] Skin.
[27:42–27:43] Oh.
[27:43–27:44] Yeah.
[27:44–27:45] Hout.
[27:45–27:46] Yeah.
[27:46–27:49] So I just say, I very try.
[27:49–27:51] I have a z-er truck in a house.
[27:51–27:53] Oh, what's a truck in a house?
[27:53–27:54] Oh, there.
[27:54–27:55] That's a nice one.
[27:55–27:57] So I wouldn't mind how does z-er truck in a house.
[27:57–27:58] I'm very sure.
[27:58–28:01] So, hey, haven't tried z-er.
[28:01–28:02] Um, yeah.
[28:02–28:03] Very good.
[28:03–28:04] It's good to know.
[28:04–28:05] Very quick.
[28:05–28:06] It means love.
[28:06–28:10] This week we want to talk about how to be a bad bitch.
[28:10–28:11] Yeah.
[28:11–28:16] Because this morning we didn't feel like we still don't really feel about bad bitches, but we are sadbitches.
[28:16–28:17] Yeah.
[28:17–28:19] But we're getting to the results.
[28:19–28:20] Yeah.
[28:20–28:22] And it's too much of, we're in the middle of summer.
[28:22–28:23] We've now time to be sadbitched.
[28:23–28:24] No.
[28:25–28:27] And you need to also be happy.
[28:27–28:28] Or what's the health?
[28:28–28:29] I have something happy bitch.
[28:29–28:30] Bad bitches too.
[28:30–28:31] Happy bitch.
[28:31–28:33] So, and we, I was saying, I was like, we're doing an episode.
[28:33–28:34] I'm like, have you, Bobbitch?
[28:34–28:36] And then then he was like, we actually don't even know.
[28:36–28:37] Yeah.
[28:37–28:39] She was like, when we do it on Bobbitches, I was like, I'm a sad bitch.
[28:39–28:41] I don't know if I can actually say it.
[28:41–28:42] And I was like, you're actually saying it.
[28:42–28:47] So we're going to read out tips that you found in the article from Amorosa's book.
[28:47–28:50] And we're going to discuss them and see if they, we can help you.
[28:50–28:52] It was for all of our selfs.
[28:52–28:53] Yeah.
[28:53–28:54] So we're all learning together.
[28:54–28:55] How's we back?
[28:55–28:56] Oh my god.
[28:56–28:57] Oh, jeez.
[28:57–28:58] Did you hear me?
[28:58–28:59] Oh my god.
[28:59–29:00] Oh my god.
[29:00–29:01] What is it?
[29:01–29:02] Oh, jeez.
[29:02–29:05] I think this is a bit hard to get flow.
[29:05–29:10] I think it's a bit, oh my god.
[29:10–29:11] No, it's really sexual.
[29:11–29:17] Oh, I thought I thought how do you, Bobbitch, was going to be like, you're going to come
[29:17–29:18] and snob it.
[29:18–29:19] It's not about man and sex.
[29:19–29:20] Show me.
[29:20–29:22] Don't be afraid to show them what you want.
[29:22–29:27] Grab his hand and lick the soft pocket of skin between his toy and toy.
[29:27–29:31] Oh, okay.
[29:31–29:33] Somebody's getting removed.
[29:33–29:34] This is a rosy pocket.
[29:34–29:35] We need a sex pocket.
[29:35–29:36] Yeah, sex pocket.
[29:36–29:37] Actually.
[29:37–29:38] Oh my god.
[29:38–29:41] The next one is stop everything in your blow jobs.
[29:41–29:45] The biggest hurt I've heard from Oscar is wearing red looking ugly while going down on the
[29:45–29:46] man.
[29:46–29:47] Guys, I think every that at all.
[29:48–29:49] Okay.
[29:49–29:50] Actually, I'm going to blow job.
[29:50–29:52] These are all sex.
[29:52–29:57] No, well, we'll just go to the many because they might be happy.
[29:57–30:00] Okay, you just want to skip out the blow job ones.
[30:00–30:03] Well, I mean, I just told them to get so girls don't worry.
[30:03–30:05] You know, I never worry about that.
[30:05–30:07] Would you worry about it?
[30:07–30:08] Look out for each other.
[30:08–30:09] Maybe parallel.
[30:09–30:10] Like I have to lie off.
[30:10–30:11] Not even that's just sex.
[30:11–30:12] Not like that.
[30:12–30:13] Yeah.
[30:13–30:14] Yeah.
[30:14–30:15] No, look at me.
[30:16–30:22] Have you never got a blow job in the light?
[30:22–30:26] Probably, yeah, but I just wouldn't be my cup of tea.
[30:26–30:27] No.
[30:27–30:31] Well, this says this literally just for you stop overthinking relax.
[30:31–30:34] Amber says listen to Amber.
[30:34–30:36] Okay, next one.
[30:36–30:41] I can't believe I can't believe I didn't read truth is I literally really got the fight
[30:41–30:42] of my life.
[30:42–30:45] I'm seeing a lick between it's like the grab his hand lick the soft.
[30:45–30:49] Yeah, sorry, actually, let's actually go after this one grab his hand.
[30:49–30:59] Okay, lick the soft pocket of skin between his thumb and point your finger in order to show him this.
[30:59–31:02] Girls, if you are anyone who loses this, do it.
[31:02–31:05] What is that?
[31:05–31:07] And don't lie.
[31:07–31:13] Oh, if there's something down like don't pretend you're into it because it just gets harder with time to voice you're just like.
[31:13–31:14] That's true.
[31:14–31:17] Yeah, that's true because you ever be saying that you're in someone and you're like.
[31:17–31:20] They are you're like.
[31:20–31:23] Why is everything just as crazy?
[31:23–31:27] Okay, don't ever sleep with a guy because you a company for this is a track.
[31:27–31:28] It's such a turn.
[31:28–31:33] Don't ever sleep with a guy because you feel like you should or you have to in order to make him like you.
[31:33–31:34] Men love a challenge.
[31:34–31:38] Amber says girls worry too much about making people especially guys like them.
[31:38–31:39] Okay, yeah.
[31:39–31:43] Yeah, I want to see someone do hope that they like me.
[31:43–31:46] I feel like I see I've already I feel like I see I've already I feel like I've already I've already.
[31:46–31:50] When you see someone they don't like it anymore.
[31:50–31:52] I just want to see the men get the post not clarity.
[31:52–31:53] Oh shit.
[31:53–31:54] Yeah.
[31:54–31:58] But yeah, don't sleep with a guy because you feel like you should have.
[31:58–31:59] Yeah, no, God no.
[31:59–32:03] Four never ever send nude photos to guy.
[32:03–32:09] When I say never I mean fucking never was when you break up face of the fuckers probably gonna put it on the internet.
[32:09–32:11] That said, there's not wrong sex thing.
[32:11–32:14] They give you an opportunity to tell them what you're into.
[32:14–32:15] I don't send dudes.
[32:15–32:22] I was years ago like did you like to like someone I have to like my exes but no one else.
[32:22–32:24] I just feel like it's like when you're this day.
[32:24–32:25] I just wouldn't know.
[32:25–32:28] Oh, I think I think it's everyone did when they're younger.
[32:28–32:30] Yeah, I was always a part of it.
[32:30–32:33] I'm getting because I used to obviously people's things get leaked.
[32:33–32:36] And I was like I'm not sure when you're like 16.
[32:36–32:37] Yeah.
[32:37–32:40] No, but I definitely know that like my exes pictures of me.
[32:40–32:41] Yeah.
[32:41–32:46] Like not even like sexual ones like me standing there fresh out of the shower like stuff like that.
[32:46–32:47] Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
[32:47–32:50] Like, yeah, he'd have definitely have naked picture to me now like.
[32:50–32:51] Yeah.
[32:51–32:56] And I remember my management doctor or my management doctor like is there anything that could come out in Kate and I was like that he'd never do that.
[32:56–32:58] I know right whatever else that boy.
[32:58–33:00] I know he'd never got a yeah.
[33:00–33:05] And because it's obviously only be from him and also you'd get when you get aggressive, you know.
[33:05–33:07] Oh, yeah, I think you do like yeah, pressure.
[33:07–33:09] It's revenge for yeah, yeah, yeah.
[33:09–33:12] But yeah, that would be until sexy pics.
[33:12–33:14] I think that I'll go to take something.
[33:14–33:17] Also, once you listen to dick pics, can you keep them in your mouth?
[33:17–33:19] You don't need them.
[33:19–33:21] Yeah, off looks.
[33:21–33:23] Yeah, now, demanding the day.
[33:23–33:31] I'm just a random oh yeah, yeah, I had someone send someone.
[33:31–33:33] Yeah, yeah.
[33:33–33:41] Yeah, and I went mad obviously and she was like it was just a teaser.
[33:41–33:43] That was a new to just.
[33:43–33:46] I was like, okay, she's crazy.
[33:46–33:48] I'm at his bald.
[33:48–33:49] But yeah, no, I didn't.
[33:49–33:50] I wouldn't.
[33:50–33:51] No, not now.
[33:51–33:54] It's just like.
[33:54–33:55] What's the point?
[33:55–33:57] Like yeah, just see me in the flesh.
[33:57–34:00] I'm like, when you're in the moment, my view I write it here, but like then after that.
[34:00–34:03] You're like, oh, God, yeah, what the fuck?
[34:03–34:04] Right.
[34:04–34:05] Five.
[34:05–34:07] These are all my god.
[34:07–34:08] I'm a fucking.
[34:08–34:11] Having sex with someone on this, we thought this is going to make us not be a sad bitch, but instead.
[34:11–34:13] This made me want the shot.
[34:13–34:14] Already.
[34:14–34:16] Jesus.
[34:16–34:22] Having sex with someone on the off chance chance they might do something for your career is stupid as fuck.
[34:22–34:26] In the school's in her days, working as a music video star, I'm just saying there's a time and place for everything.
[34:26–34:28] I'm alpha girls feeling free to sleep, whoever they want.
[34:28–34:34] But a moment like that is never getting so much about being a bad bitch and they in the groundwork for more connections and income.
[34:34–34:37] So she's saying to shag someone to get a job?
[34:37–34:39] No, no, she said don't.
[34:39–34:40] Okay.
[34:40–34:41] Yeah.
[34:41–34:42] Well, I say that happens a lot.
[34:42–34:46] It's like like American, like Hollywood and all.
[34:46–34:47] Definitely.
[34:47–34:48] Yeah.
[34:48–34:50] Shag and directors and I'll try to get an accent.
[34:50–34:52] Oh, no, it's end.
[34:52–34:53] People use sex.
[34:53–34:55] People don't use sex to their advantage.
[34:55–34:56] Yeah.
[34:56–34:57] Whether it's convenient.
[34:57–34:59] That was not really actual to us.
[34:59–35:00] No.
[35:00–35:03] Who do we need to shag to get a nomination for an award?
[35:03–35:04] Actually, never know.
[35:04–35:05] Yeah.
[35:05–35:07] Who's top of all them?
[35:07–35:08] Six.
[35:08–35:13] Day in is not going over to a guy's house and chilling with his friends while they drink beer and play video games.
[35:13–35:16] The bad bitch only goes on real dates.
[35:16–35:17] Yes.
[35:17–35:20] The comfortable hangin' out time is great but that comes later on when you're in a relationship.
[35:20–35:22] Okay.
[35:22–35:25] Also, if a date isn't going the way you think it should, just be honest and tell them.
[35:25–35:28] A bad bitch doesn't eat your McDonald's when she was promised no.
[35:28–35:30] This is good.
[35:30–35:31] Oh, yeah.
[35:31–35:32] I agree.
[35:32–35:35] No, I don't like, I wouldn't want like a first date to be like.
[35:36–35:37] Right, sure.
[35:37–35:38] Yeah.
[35:38–35:39] Oh, I would say like a first date.
[35:39–35:40] Well, not brown.
[35:40–35:43] I got back to a nun, those boys, not that.
[35:43–35:46] I feel like when we're younger, first dates were spins.
[35:46–35:47] You coming out of a spin?
[35:47–35:48] Oh, yeah.
[35:48–35:49] Yeah.
[35:49–35:50] That's true.
[35:50–35:51] Just sitting your girl.
[35:51–35:52] What am I doing?
[35:52–35:54] I think I was like, maybe 17.
[35:54–35:56] Is it you coming to my house?
[35:56–35:58] I was like, I haven't even spoke to you before.
[35:58–36:00] Like, what may I think I'm going to rock up at your house?
[36:00–36:01] Sing down.
[36:00–36:02] You're literally coming first, I think.
[36:02–36:04] No, I think no.
[36:04–36:05] No, no, no.
[36:05–36:07] You're gonna pick me out when they're like, no.
[36:07–36:08] No, for fuck's sake.
[36:08–36:13] Yeah, but I think you need to have your, you know, like, have your sandwiches as if I got in the day.
[36:13–36:14] No, you're warm.
[36:14–36:15] Yeah.
[36:15–36:19] And the bad bitch, like Amber says, a bad bitch, I only got a bad realty.
[36:19–36:21] So that's a good one.
[36:21–36:22] I like them.
[36:22–36:25] Seven, don't settle for booty calls unless that's all you really want to be.
[36:25–36:27] On the flip side, never booty calls someone who likes you.
[36:27–36:29] That's a disaster right into happen.
[36:29–36:30] Yeah.
[36:30–36:36] If you don't like them, it's a booty call always when you're like, you don't have any feelings.
[36:36–36:38] I feel like that's what it is.
[36:38–36:41] Oh, you just don't want them to go further than a shotgun night out like?
[36:41–36:42] Yeah.
[36:42–36:43] Yeah.
[36:43–36:44] Well, no.
[36:44–36:46] Why do you sound like extra shaggers?
[36:46–36:47] Yeah, I know.
[36:47–36:49] I've never even done booty call in my life.
[36:49–36:52] I don't know what it is.
[36:52–36:53] A booty call?
[36:53–36:56] Well, you just bring them for your sex, like, isn't it?
[36:56–36:58] It's, it's like actually get a far from the market.
[36:58–37:01] Yeah, but it's not like a one night.
[37:01–37:03] It's not like a one night's ads.
[37:03–37:04] I go with it.
[37:04–37:05] What is a booty call?
[37:05–37:08] This Google loves giving us definitions for things.
[37:08–37:14] So in urban dictionary.com, it defines a booty call as a late night summons often made
[37:14–37:24] be a telephone to arrange clandestine sexual liaisons on an on an ad hoc basis.
[37:24–37:25] I don't know how to add.
[37:25–37:32] It's not like a scheduled sex time.
[37:32–37:33] Yeah, yeah.
[37:33–37:37] Why do people do because men said they accepted mostly it was a desire for sex.
[37:37–37:41] Well, women were mostly like to accept because of the past friendship or compatibility.
[37:41–37:42] That's really sad.
[37:42–37:44] I actually think I have.
[37:44–37:45] Okay, actually.
[37:45–37:48] I have a booty call.
[37:48–37:50] Yeah, but maybe I'm gonna look back now.
[37:50–37:51] I'm like, yeah, that's pretty big.
[37:51–37:52] I didn't think that's fine.
[37:52–37:58] Someone who you have no emotional attachment to who's only used for sexual encounters.
[37:58–38:02] Sex always better than when you do have emotional connection.
[38:02–38:03] Actually, a couple of work.
[38:03–38:05] Hopefully she quickly became his booty call.
[38:05–38:06] No.
[38:06–38:08] No, no, no.
[38:08–38:10] I'm still in there.
[38:10–38:11] It's not good.
[38:11–38:12] Yeah, she's getting more in the Google.
[38:12–38:13] Okay.
[38:13–38:18] Next, if you really like a guy asking me a bad bitch is cool and confident and both.
[38:18–38:20] I feel like we need to do listens to that more often.
[38:20–38:22] I'm sick of waiting a man to make their force mail.
[38:22–38:23] Fuck off.
[38:23–38:24] He's like lazy.
[38:24–38:25] I would never wait for a man.
[38:25–38:26] Would you know how?
[38:26–38:27] See, I do.
[38:27–38:28] I prefer sitting there like, yeah.
[38:28–38:29] You like something you go, right?
[38:29–38:30] What's he saying?
[38:30–38:31] To your show?
[38:31–38:33] Yeah, I've just said hi before.
[38:33–38:35] I only texted two miles first.
[38:35–38:36] Did you?
[38:36–38:37] Yeah.
[38:37–38:38] Me and his relationship with the two of them.
[38:38–38:39] Yeah.
[38:39–38:40] No, no, no, no, no.
[38:40–38:41] Oh, the first one.
[38:41–38:42] The first one I said hi.
[38:42–38:45] Just literally, hey, Ty.
[38:45–38:48] Okay, if you own it like any reply, then I went.
[38:48–38:49] Actually, no.
[38:49–38:51] Yeah, I went on a walk.
[38:51–38:52] Oh, no.
[38:52–38:53] Was it weird?
[38:53–38:54] That was actually the worst day I was.
[38:54–38:55] But no, it's actually nice.
[38:55–38:56] We got on my web.
[38:56–38:58] But like, I just didn't want to track it to him.
[38:58–38:59] No.
[38:59–39:00] But like a walk.
[39:00–39:02] That kind of gave me the egg.
[39:02–39:03] What the fuck do you wear?
[39:03–39:04] Like he brings it out of her walk.
[39:04–39:05] What do you like to say?
[39:05–39:06] Like, he's like his dog.
[39:06–39:07] I got it.
[39:07–39:09] Honestly, I feel like I'm fucking lazy.
[39:09–39:12] I like, think about why I even like, what?
[39:12–39:14] He collected me for like, it was basically a spin.
[39:14–39:16] Would a walk attach to it?
[39:17–39:19] And I wasn't really that way.
[39:19–39:22] I got a spin on a walk.
[39:22–39:23] Oh, God.
[39:23–39:26] He was a load of Jesus.
[39:26–39:29] Yeah, that was only an eyewatery three years ago.
[39:29–39:30] What was I, 2020?
[39:30–39:32] I should have been brought on the day.
[39:32–39:36] Oh, yeah, it didn't work out.
[39:36–39:37] No.
[39:37–39:38] No.
[39:38–39:39] So do sweet your eyes.
[39:39–39:41] Forget sex and dirty talk or sexier.
[39:41–39:43] It's the number one way to do some man is sick.
[39:43–39:46] I don't want to cross on him and gaze right into his eye
[39:46–39:47] with that certain look.
[39:47–39:49] Touch your leg or arm and he's complete ears.
[39:49–39:52] I still can't look, get over the fact that she had to lick this part.
[39:52–39:54] So sick, but sick.
[39:54–39:55] So sick.
[39:55–39:56] So sick.
[39:56–39:57] So sick.
[39:57–39:58] So sick.
[39:58–39:59] Touch your leg.
[39:59–40:00] No, you're meant to lick this.
[40:00–40:01] You're meant to lick his.
[40:01–40:02] I look at him.
[40:02–40:03] No.
[40:03–40:04] You're meant to lick his.
[40:04–40:05] I'm just being like.
[40:05–40:08] Then what?
[40:08–40:09] No.
[40:09–40:10] I'm a sadist of her face.
[40:10–40:11] He's sad.
[40:11–40:14] She knows we're being a wonderbud.
[40:14–40:15] She's sad.
[40:15–40:16] Touch your leg.
[40:16–40:17] Lick your eyes.
[40:17–40:18] Look at her eyes.
[40:18–40:19] What?
[40:19–40:20] Hi, Emily.
[40:20–40:21] Oh, okay.
[40:21–40:22] Um, so, okay.
[40:22–40:25] So, what's the certain look that you have to get?
[40:25–40:27] I don't think I'm very good at this.
[40:27–40:28] Hey, yeah.
[40:28–40:29] Touch your eyes.
[40:29–40:30] Touch your eyes.
[40:30–40:31] Touch your eyes.
[40:31–40:32] Touch your eyes.
[40:32–40:33] She wants.
[40:33–40:35] She wants to make sure we never get a shadow.
[40:35–40:36] I get my eyes.
[40:36–40:37] Touch your eyes.
[40:37–40:38] Touch your eyes.
[40:38–40:39] Touch your eyes.
[40:39–40:40] Touch your eyes.
[40:40–40:41] I never get a shadow.
[40:41–40:42] I never get a shadow.
[40:42–40:43] Never.
[40:43–40:44] No.
[40:44–40:46] The certain look for a shadow.
[40:46–40:48] You're just giving me all nod.
[40:48–40:51] I think I find a hair, I still got a man that I have that I'm attracted to in the eyes.
[40:51–40:52] I get really lost.
[40:52–40:53] I'm like.
[40:53–40:55] So, I'm sorry.
[40:55–40:56] I'm pretty happy.
[40:56–40:57] I don't think I could do that.
[40:57–40:59] So, do you set your eyes?
[40:59–41:00] Maybe I'm drunk.
[41:00–41:01] I got good.
[41:01–41:02] No, you close one eye.
[41:02–41:03] Oh yeah.
[41:03–41:04] I can go.
[41:04–41:05] Okay.
[41:05–41:06] You have the sadist.
[41:06–41:07] First drug.
[41:07–41:08] I suddenly get really drunk.
[41:08–41:10] my child ain't got really drunk
[41:10–41:11] won't I just do it?
[41:11–41:13] what I just know is that
[41:13–41:15] i thought he'd be one i glowed
[41:15–41:17] lick your hand, touch your leg
[41:19–41:20] failure!
[41:20–41:21] i just failed!
[41:21–41:23] oh my god
[41:23–41:24] i'm gonna be shot
[41:24–41:26] is that tip of your worst
[41:28–41:29] what is she doing?
[41:29–41:30] i think she's your friend
[41:30–41:31] how about a favor?
[41:33–41:34] she might want to take her home
[41:34–41:36] or do something to him, man!
[41:36–41:38] is she okay?
[41:40–41:42] okay, dude, slow up
[41:42–41:43] and just think you're fine
[41:43–41:45] we're just trying to seduce you, man!
[41:46–41:47] i love you, dude!
[41:47–41:49] aha! i was trying to get home!
[41:50–41:51] go, god!
[41:51–41:53] oh please, okay
[41:53–41:54] i'm crying
[41:54–41:57] ten, your second pale or bui isn't defined by anyone else
[41:57–42:00] you were your own audience, your own VIP
[42:00–42:02] with that in mind, feel free to die
[42:02–42:04] around the house and own in a sexy brown on the verse set
[42:04–42:07] the same for actual health, reinforce your sense of power
[42:07–42:09] my name is like what?
[42:09–42:10] yeah, actually
[42:10–42:12] i've actually, yes, they were like
[42:12–42:14] do you know you have every day in a hearsake?
[42:14–42:16] well, yes, they're seeing a nice panic
[42:16–42:17] because i was like, oh, what the man?
[42:17–42:18] for me and myself only
[42:18–42:19] i felt the race
[42:19–42:21] and you're lovely and aggressive to my eyes
[42:21–42:24] and he's got my bills, but i'm actually swinging that nice
[42:24–42:26] but he could even get stuff that's like
[42:26–42:27] small minimum average
[42:27–42:29] so i thought a setter like that
[42:29–42:30] yeah
[42:30–42:33] so i found one when i got one with too much pav and it's like
[42:33–42:35] that way
[42:35–42:36] chin
[42:36–42:38] well, yeah, that's nice, that's what i do
[42:38–42:40] even just way like matching set for yourself
[42:40–42:41] yeah, you better
[42:41–42:42] and feel hot
[42:42–42:43] if you're not going to love yourself
[42:43–42:44] who will?
[42:44–42:45] who will?
[42:45–42:46] yeah, that's cool
[42:46–42:48] and eleven, if you have sex with a guy
[42:48–42:49] and he wants to leave right away
[42:49–42:50] don't stress about it
[42:50–42:51] don't ask him to stay and don't beg
[42:51–42:53] have some pride girl
[42:53–42:55] would you be annoyed if someone lives left straight away?
[42:55–42:57] i've never really lived that
[42:57–42:59] yeah, but if you could imagine yourself and it
[42:59–43:01] imagine he was just like, right?
[43:01–43:03] that was nice
[43:03–43:07] i'm pretty sure i've left right away
[43:07–43:09] yeah, yeah
[43:09–43:11] i probably feel, yeah, i think i'd be sad
[43:11–43:13] you'd probably feel a little bit like
[43:13–43:14] i don't know
[43:14–43:16] well, but also could just be like
[43:16–43:18] awkward these avoidable side-hand talks
[43:18–43:19] and like
[43:19–43:20] if you know them like
[43:20–43:21] if you knew
[43:21–43:22] but if saved one or something
[43:22–43:23] get out
[43:23–43:24] yeah, of my own
[43:24–43:25] yeah, speak as you can
[43:25–43:26] do the walk shane
[43:26–43:27] yeah
[43:27–43:28] yeah
[43:28–43:30] well, a lot of people never mess with
[43:30–43:31] another
[43:31–43:34] a bad bitch never messes with another woman's man
[43:34–43:35] oh hell no
[43:35–43:36] mm-hmm
[43:36–43:38] that's going to be bad bitch tip
[43:38–43:39] i can't believe we thought these
[43:39–43:41] i thought these tips were in lick
[43:41–43:42] right in your journal
[43:42–43:43] i'm gonna walk out here say
[43:43–43:45] i'm feel a million dollars
[43:45–43:46] well, we are
[43:46–43:47] we're at least for now
[43:47–43:50] how to live to choose a man
[43:50–43:52] honestly
[43:52–43:53] a bad bitch use
[43:53–43:54] oh, i thought it said
[43:54–43:55] a bad bitch never use condoms
[43:55–43:57] a bad bitch uses condoms
[43:57–43:58] always if the guy says no
[43:58–43:59] tell him to go fuck himself
[43:59–44:00] oops
[44:00–44:01] oops
[44:01–44:02] sorry
[44:02–44:04] at the end of the day
[44:04–44:06] if you want to fuck a guy do it
[44:06–44:07] a bad bitch is in the shane
[44:07–44:08] of her desire
[44:08–44:09] man go out and get some other time
[44:09–44:10] without anyone make the fuss about it
[44:10–44:11] it's not our problem
[44:11–44:13] there's a double standard in our culture
[44:13–44:14] yes
[44:14–44:15] today
[44:15–44:16] yeah, that's like the
[44:16–44:17] people lick the leg in
[44:17–44:18] but she's a slut kind of thing
[44:18–44:19] oh my god
[44:19–44:20] and you know he would tell say it's women
[44:20–44:21] yeah
[44:21–44:22] like even like a comment
[44:22–44:23] that was my,
[44:23–44:24] did i say that
[44:24–44:25] this one
[44:25–44:26] someone say in that
[44:26–44:27] i obviously have said my body hands
[44:27–44:28] before on this one
[44:28–44:29] cause which isn't
[44:29–44:30] i don't know cause that's how i
[44:30–44:31] and people are saying
[44:31–44:32] like she's had more
[44:32–44:34] when i danced and hot
[44:34–44:35] in her
[44:35–44:36] you never said that about a boy
[44:36–44:37] and it's like women
[44:37–44:38] that are the women
[44:38–44:39] down
[44:39–44:40] you couldn't like having sex
[44:40–44:41] you can want to have sex
[44:41–44:42] it doesn't matter
[44:42–44:43] fucks that matter for
[44:43–44:44] like
[44:44–44:46] you can just do it
[44:46–44:47] and men don't get
[44:47–44:48] anything
[44:48–44:49] no
[44:49–44:50] like the back class
[44:50–44:51] they're like
[44:51–44:52] who legend and then it's like
[44:52–44:53] girls
[44:53–44:54] like what the fuck
[44:54–44:55] yeah, she can't
[44:55–44:56] do you have a single
[44:56–44:57] body in the man
[44:57–44:58] and all their like
[44:58–44:59] guessing their numbers
[44:59–45:00] and like 100%
[45:00–45:01] and then when a girl has a
[45:00–45:04] 20 for like yeah, it's sex the sex it's normal like
[45:04–45:08] Stop making a bad thing. Oh, there's more rubbish
[45:08–45:12] It's okay if you want to let him go let him go if you hit it and you find that you want to quit it
[45:12–45:15] It's important to be strong and we're says don't see put him again
[45:15–45:19] Oh, yeah, it's a good one. Yeah, I think I would so it wasn't the same like no
[45:21–45:26] Okay, there's actually we already seen this now five bad bitch tips. I have nothing to do with man
[45:26–45:31] Okay, a bad bitch has her own say if you look and doesn't give a shit about beauty norms
[45:31–45:35] Don't worry about being normal. I'm a size of bad bitch gives herself to be free women herself
[45:35–45:39] One right what's in or what they should do it can be hard to break free from that mold
[45:40–45:42] Oh, that's nice. That's nice. I like that. Yeah
[45:43–45:45] Women should be ashamed of their size. I'm not how big a smile there
[45:45–45:49] Oh women should feel entitled to wear the shortest tight sexiest clothes they want
[45:49–45:54] But I'm retrusting slangs do spanks takes the best of you makes it better. Oh, yes, yeah
[45:54–45:59] That even this I feel I was good to like if you're in any way like dress a little bit like
[45:59–46:02] Have that Richard. Yeah, like I remember firm mk
[46:02–46:06] I was obviously in a relationship and I wore a bikini top
[46:07–46:11] bikini bottoms sticking out of like low waist trousers, which obviously I was going to festival and
[46:11–46:16] Sony girls one one two accidentally sent to rents and her friend and we're like
[46:16–46:19] Oh my god, she has a boyfriend. She's wearing that and then one of them
[46:19–46:22] Text me be like you should have like a calm down my features
[46:22–46:25] I'm like have more strippers out on all this like put like your boyfriend thought you looked hot
[46:25–46:29] So what like I wear for anyone else. Yeah matter what I'm wearing
[46:29–46:32] Yeah, good. Yeah, you you are for you. It's not affecting you
[46:33–46:38] Yeah, why is that and like it's so noisy like that if you get triggered by seeing someone else wearing so
[46:38–46:40] Actually, and actually noisy that's a problem when you
[46:40–46:45] Seriously look at it because like go to therapy because that's a reflection on something in you. Yeah
[46:46–46:51] Anything or someone someone's too loud or they're like something and designed it's actually reflection on you
[46:52–46:58] Take really big wrists and act when inspiration strikes one of the moments she shaved her heads and
[46:58–47:02] Creators taking her look amber says I had so much confidence because I wasn't hiding behind anything anymore
[47:03–47:09] Would you ever shave your head? Never I was going to I wanted to get my hair cut off when I was younger for and don't I?
[47:09–47:15] I don't want to let me do it. Oh shit. No, no, I don't think I wrote so many more rocket
[47:15–47:21] No, I don't know. I don't know. Well sure she has a shave. I've done it's amazing. I'm not a wreck
[47:23–47:29] To be a garbage you need set confidence just like you need an inspired polish look that's completely and totally you and then
[47:30–47:32] It says practice talking yourself in a new more positive way
[47:32–47:39] It might take years to undo all the negativity but on undo all the activity but a bad bitch is nothing if not patient
[47:39–47:45] Oh, and the last one fairytosis is what is attractive to most people rather than being a side or two
[47:46–47:51] Having the late's purse or drive in a tricked out car a bad bitch don't give a fuck about what people think period
[47:52–47:57] Yeah, but we've it even shows that when we do all the X and stuff like the only reason they're ever X is if a man gets like
[47:58–48:02] Mara's fire or something like to know like like runs for those but if someone like
[48:03–48:06] I find it so I'm just doesn't care. Yeah, yeah
[48:07–48:09] If they're an egg in the on it. Yeah
[48:09–48:15] I still know like yeah, you're actually fair enough. Yeah, I fear like I am and it's like yeah Jamie always has these
[48:15–48:17] He's like I'm walking. Oh, you don't like
[48:18–48:22] So like half half a bottom and they keep going exactly if you own exactly
[48:23–48:25] And we're gonna do our
[48:26–48:29] So by the way also we have extra juice every Monday where we answer more dilemmas
[48:29–48:36] So if you haven't listened to that this week's one yet or I'm only just gone and then obviously once more other week's that are already
[48:36–48:42] And so the first one is I was snoop when I found all messages from my BF and his ex when they were still talking
[48:42–48:46] They were they were saying awful things about me him calling me rank etc
[48:46–48:50] I confronted him and he told me it was lies how young and stupid you are etc
[48:50–48:56] So undecided on whether to know my worth or saying believe it was a long time ago. We've been together for almost six years
[48:56–49:00] I love some advice. Oh, no, that's awful. Oh
[49:00–49:05] I can't imagine if she felt reading them after every month. Yeah, I know. I wonder how long though they were
[49:06–49:10] Not so that well it any better like it was from when they were he was extra silly together
[49:11–49:13] Okay, so she wasn't in or no no no
[49:14–49:21] And like it could be like him obviously the words are horrible like him to try to throw the X off the scent that you actually fancy you
[49:21–49:26] It's fine or something potentially maybe baby. That just may look like we're the good. Yeah cool
[49:28–49:31] It's it depends on whether you can get over that or not. What did you can forget?
[49:32–49:36] All the questions when we were able to get everything some people will never stop thinking about it and never
[49:36–49:43] Stuff bring an open fights, and it's really hard if you think that it's always gonna be a thing in the back your head like if you if you can
[49:43–49:47] Think I do that a lot a lot. Yeah, I'll try and bottle stuff down but at the end of the day
[49:48–49:52] You just end up getting angry after because it's something that sticks in your head all day. Yeah, that doesn't go away
[49:52–49:55] Yeah, so I think it's all down to like shadow inside if you can
[49:56–50:02] Move on from it. Yeah, I think so too and also it would probably if your 30 six years it would have been a long time
[50:02–50:04] You'll probably eat whatever you
[50:04–50:08] So he was younger. It's like to people change to people like
[50:09–50:13] I don't know. It's not how he reacted as well and stuff. Yeah, her saying it
[50:14–50:19] But you think it would you say something to break up over? No, no, no
[50:19–50:22] I'm an argument like yeah, yeah, definitely but
[50:22–50:29] That's multiple multiple if you aren't yeah, yeah, I think sleep on the couch or I like but I don't think it's something I break up over
[50:29–50:32] And I think sometimes man when they're in a situation where someone
[50:33–50:36] I think sometimes they say things just to please like a press
[50:37–50:43] I'm really like what are people yeah, yeah, yeah, or if like to please the other person because that's that might be how they feel
[50:43–50:49] So they might just go along with a kind of thing. That's not making excuse from her or if he meant that he's a dickhead like yeah of course
[50:50–50:56] I don't know. I think we're smarter than men to be honest. Sorry. Oh, that's a given yet. Sometimes I just think they don't use their heads. No
[50:57–50:59] I think if you can get over
[51:00–51:04] Then I would try to but if it affects your confidence and stuff with them or like you feel self conscious around and stuff then
[51:06–51:12] I think you'd have to reevaluate the ratio. Yeah, or if you cannot look at them same because that's all things that are like so important
[51:12–51:19] Next and then is what do you do when a boy is very interested one night and ask different the next time
[51:20–51:24] Well ask different the next time you ask different mix signals a f
[51:24–51:29] Don't know what to do. Yes, and the next time you see him. Oh, sorry. Sorry. What do you mean? Yeah, so actually yeah
[51:29–51:31] So if he's interested one night and then ask different the next time
[51:32–51:34] mix signals I
[51:34–51:39] Would take him for the second night take that as who we actually is would you yeah why
[51:40–51:44] Because you can't hang on to us. I want to like the first time he's there
[51:44–51:48] Hmm because maybe he's like I've been there done that
[51:48–51:50] Do you know yeah
[51:50–51:51] Eventually
[51:51–51:56] Yeah, I think I think you need to like I need to even learn myself like you need to take people's
[51:57–52:01] What people do have you back towards you as I have they feel yeah, yeah, because I used to like
[52:02–52:07] Like when I was younger and I'm like oh maybe like it's just that he's like shot like no like he doesn't you have to be really honest
[52:07–52:14] I feel like no look at what he's acting like and that's take that as what you do yeah action speaks the most that's how he feels yes
[52:15–52:20] So I think yeah take second night and back away a bit maybe that yeah, yeah
[52:20–52:25] He sounds like bookboy to me boy boy. I don't know. Maybe if you see him like one more. I don't know was it my ill
[52:26–52:28] I'm always getting his one night accident
[52:30–52:32] Yeah, yeah, I take him for the second night because
[52:33–52:37] The managers are not knowing there too confused and anyway don't even try figure out what they're doing
[52:37–52:39] I don't think and just take their actions and
[52:40–52:42] Take that as their word basically
[52:42–52:44] Okay, so one last one is
[52:46–52:50] Can you school the topic of a fellow of staying or leave in your fellow who do it prison sentence?
[52:52–52:55] Depend on how long and like what for oh no
[52:55–52:57] No, actually, no doesn't really matter for to this
[52:58–53:04] I think it's all down to the individual yeah, I think it's down to just a pan yeah down to each kind of
[53:04–53:06] Kind of a long distance relationship in a way
[53:07–53:09] Yeah, but there's some
[53:09–53:11] Harder because you can't really come yeah prison
[53:12–53:14] It's very hard
[53:14–53:19] You have to like think of like the toll it will take on you yeah as well as obviously want to make something work
[53:19–53:22] And you don't want to be that girl who like gives up on a relationship
[53:22–53:26] But also you have to put yourself first yeah, and think of your happiness like
[53:26–53:30] Is that gonna be always you're gonna be spending all days missing all like worrying about them like
[53:31–53:33] Is that so many selfish say no
[53:33–53:37] Told you were having self is not selfish gross for me. Yeah
[53:37–53:42] Yeah, it depends on how long you're invested into like if someone you're newly with
[53:43–53:47] I don't know yeah, I think and I feel like anyone in his position who's going away
[53:48–53:52] Should be like I don't want to be like I don't want to be used you for you. Yeah, they should really give you that
[53:53–53:58] Like say that to you and so really what they want you to be like yeah, no, no, I don't think I don't think it's very
[53:59–54:01] To ask someone that
[54:00–54:01] Yeah.
[54:01–54:05] Where they're someone on to do that, not in a volunteer themselves to do that, that's
[54:05–54:10] completely different but like to say, are way free and expect you to, like, think that's
[54:10–54:11] hard.
[54:11–54:13] And put a lot of pressure on someone.
[54:13–54:16] And to what have you waited and then he got out and then he broke up with you after
[54:16–54:17] that.
[54:17–54:18] Yeah, I know someone that happened actually.
[54:18–54:19] Oh, no.
[54:19–54:20] Yeah.
[54:20–54:21] Do you know what I mean?
[54:21–54:22] I don't know.
[54:22–54:23] I think each individual is different.
[54:23–54:24] Yeah.
[54:24–54:27] And you can only go on how you feel.
[54:27–54:33] Yeah, actually feel about him and the fact that like you all go to see him most of the
[54:33–54:34] time.
[54:34–54:35] Yeah.
[54:35–54:36] What if it did work though?
[54:36–54:38] It will probably be like really make it much stronger.
[54:38–54:39] It's things don't always work out.
[54:39–54:42] And what you want them is that they don't.
[54:42–54:43] So yeah, that is all.
[54:43–54:44] We haven't done really a resolution.
[54:44–54:46] It was just a discussion topic anyway.
[54:46–54:47] Well, um, no solution.
[54:47–54:48] Just some options for you.
[54:48–54:52] So, super skate is where we do a topic of the week's episode and sift if we agree.
[54:52–54:53] And skip if we disagree.
[54:53–54:56] And if you listen and you have a drink right now, you can sift along as well.
[54:56–55:07] This week's topic is sex with the light on or like in daytime.
[55:07–55:08] Sift is agree.
[55:08–55:09] Yeah.
[55:09–55:10] Sifting.
[55:10–55:11] Do you never do that?
[55:11–55:14] I just feel like I feel very conscious like really.
[55:14–55:15] Yeah.
[55:15–55:19] I don't think people care when you're like like it's only in your head.
[55:19–55:21] You think that they're looking at you like in a certain way.
[55:21–55:22] Like they're just horny.
[55:22–55:28] I think we just like I just don't think they care.
[55:28–55:31] Well, I think boy, I think if you said a certain boy they'd be like, what?
[55:31–55:32] Really?
[55:32–55:33] They'd be like, I'd never look.
[55:33–55:35] Let's say if you're conscious of something in particular, they'd be like, I've never
[55:35–55:36] looked at it.
[55:36–55:38] I'm like, I love it.
[55:38–55:39] I would say sift.
[55:39–55:43] If you can't see them, like what's what you need to do pitch black like.
[55:43–55:44] No, I'll pitch black.
[55:44–55:45] Just don't.
[55:45–55:46] Yeah.
[55:46–55:47] I would.
[55:47–55:48] Yeah.
[55:48–55:49] You can do it.
[55:49–55:50] It's really on.
[55:50–55:51] Yeah.
[55:51–55:55] It's something about like, now maybe I'm just conditioned to be the player.
[55:55–55:56] Yeah.
[55:56–55:59] Well, next time you're sexy, I'll get to one.
[55:59–56:01] That's a bad bitch challenge.
[56:01–56:02] Put a ring like.
[56:02–56:03] Amber Rose set.
[56:03–56:04] Oh, a ring.
[56:04–56:05] No, ring like.
[56:05–56:06] Oh my gosh.
[56:06–56:07] Like when they don't come on.
[56:07–56:08] Don't want me to be out of sexy day time.
[56:08–56:12] You just put the blind and they're like, I like, I like sexy days off.
[56:12–56:17] Sometimes they're not for that reason, just because it's like, I don't know.
[56:17–56:19] Close, really.
[56:19–56:20] Yeah.
[56:20–56:21] Yeah.
[56:21–56:22] We need to hold sex episodes.
[56:22–56:23] Let me tell you what I'm not just into it.
[56:23–56:24] Yeah.
[56:24–56:25] Well, this one was very, if you're on this and there's going to learn how to.
[56:25–56:26] Oh, yeah.
[56:26–56:27] Yeah.
[56:27–56:28] I think it up.
[56:28–56:29] No, actually feeling.
[56:29–56:30] Yeah.
[56:30–56:31] So.
[56:31–56:32] Okay, thanks for listening.
[56:32–56:33] Thank you.
[56:33–56:34] We hope you enjoyed.
[56:34–56:35] And we have to talk about our.
[56:35–56:37] Well, Amber Rose is really sweet about bitch.
[56:37–56:38] Yeah.
[56:38–56:39] I'm going to say this.
[56:39–56:40] Yeah.
[56:40–56:41] I'm going to say this.
[56:41–56:42] Yeah.
[56:42–56:43] I'm going to say this.
[56:43–56:44] I'm going to say this.
[56:44–56:45] I'm going to say this.
[56:45–56:46] I'm going to say this.
[56:46–56:47] I'm going to say this.
[56:47–56:48] I'm going to say this.
[56:48–56:49] I'm going to say this.
[56:49–56:50] I'm going to say this.
[56:50–56:51] Okay.
[56:51–56:52] Yeah.
[56:52–56:53] Can you hear me?
[56:53–56:54] You can hear me.
[56:54–56:55] You can hear me.
[56:55–56:56] You can hear me.
[56:56–56:57] I can hear you.
[56:57–56:58] Yeah.
[56:58–56:59] I can hear you.
[56:59–57:00] I can hear you.
[57:00–57:01] Yeah.
[57:01–57:02] That's something we could.
[57:02–57:03] Try.
[57:03–57:04] Okay.
[57:04–57:05] Yeah.
[57:05–57:06] Look.
[57:06–57:07] I'm going to say it.
[57:07–57:08] Look at the soft pad.
[57:08–57:09] Between the, I'm finger.
[57:09–57:10] Jesus.
[57:10–57:12] Go back and listen to excerpt from Monday.
[57:12–57:13] And we help you stay out with.
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