EXTRA JUICE: "Do I tell my boyfriend that my boss kissed me?" #6 — Hold My Drink

[00:00–00:04] Hold my drink with Charlene and Ellie. I go light original.
[00:15–00:18] Welcome to Hama Drink with Charlene and Ellie.
[00:18–00:20] Extra juice. Extra bonus juice.
[00:20–00:22] Brought to you by girl over how much bar is podcast.
[00:23–00:25] Welcome to another bonus episode.
[00:25–00:25] No.
[00:25–00:26] On Monday.
[00:27–00:28] What a great way to start your weeklads.
[00:28–00:30] What a great we're actually great for.
[00:30–00:34] We really are. We've had a coffee, a whole not derri milk bar.
[00:34–00:34] What do you got here?
[00:34–00:35] Skips.
[00:36–00:36] And water.
[00:36–00:38] My combo.
[00:38–00:40] My combo works.
[00:40–00:41] We're having a great time.
[00:41–00:44] Chris, I hate snacks.
[00:44–00:45] I love snacks.
[00:45–00:46] They're here to eat first.
[00:46–00:47] They're so nice.
[00:47–00:49] And they remind me of kids when they wash them in.
[00:49–00:50] Yeah.
[00:50–00:51] And they're all white chair.
[00:51–00:53] Do you know why they get their eggs?
[00:53–00:55] They're kids because they go mushy.
[00:55–00:57] They get like when they're sliver hits.
[00:57–00:58] I love a pack of snacks.
[00:58–01:00] If I get chicken fillet, I'll buy snacks.
[01:01–01:04] I love babies but when they have food, I'll go down the street.
[01:04–01:06] I don't know what I'll do when I have a child.
[01:06–01:07] With all the doors.
[01:07–01:09] No Chris, no.
[01:09–01:09] They're sliver.
[01:09–01:10] They're slums.
[01:10–01:11] No.
[01:11–01:11] No.
[01:11–01:12] Ah, they try to touch it.
[01:12–01:14] I'm like, I'm going to wave.
[01:14–01:18] You know Chris, I'm a little girl who tries to try to get a little girl.
[01:18–01:19] We're tired again.
[01:19–01:19] And left.
[01:19–01:21] I've never bought a pack of hunky doors in my life.
[01:22–01:23] What?
[01:23–01:24] No.
[01:24–01:24] No, I don't.
[01:25–01:26] I need to make something else.
[01:26–01:27] I thought I wouldn't.
[01:27–01:27] I wouldn't.
[01:27–01:29] I've never bought a pack of hunky doors.
[01:29–01:30] I thought they were not regularly.
[01:31–01:33] I was in avid mainies look for years.
[01:33–01:36] I love all the weird like mainies, monster monies.
[01:36–01:36] Hot lips.
[01:36–01:38] My rings.
[01:38–01:39] All the cheap crisps.
[01:39–01:40] Why are there so much nice things?
[01:40–01:41] They're in a big blue house, Chris.
[01:41–01:41] Yeah.
[01:42–01:44] Do you remember the burning ice pops?
[01:44–01:44] No.
[01:45–01:47] Fat frog guys, remember them?
[01:47–01:47] They were good.
[01:47–01:48] They were nice.
[01:48–01:49] And now it's alcohol.
[01:49–01:50] So was that always the case?
[01:50–01:52] I was going to say, are they the same thing?
[01:53–01:53] Maybe.
[01:53–01:55] Maybe they just were like, fuck what my gals call instead.
[01:56–01:57] Because they took them off.
[01:57–01:58] They were done too.
[01:58–01:58] I have goosebumps.
[01:58–02:01] Oh, I think about Lolly who have sick.
[02:01–02:02] In between your teeth.
[02:03–02:04] I think now look at my arms.
[02:05–02:06] Oh my god.
[02:06–02:07] Rubbing the Lolly, it's one of my, I hate it.
[02:07–02:10] You know when you accidentally bite the stick?
[02:10–02:10] Oh my god.
[02:11–02:13] Because the fat frog ones had two sticks in them.
[02:13–02:14] They used to have two.
[02:14–02:14] One of them.
[02:14–02:15] Oh yeah.
[02:16–02:17] No, I just remember from a feast.
[02:17–02:20] I used to love these because not a way there was a hard bit of chocolate in the end.
[02:20–02:22] Because you know when you bite, you bite out your,
[02:22–02:23] and your bite your Lolly who have a stick.
[02:23–02:25] Do you know what I think fat frog did?
[02:25–02:26] What?
[02:27–02:28] When they took them off the Marriott.
[02:28–02:30] So when we had them, we were obviously a lot younger.
[02:31–02:33] So when they took them off the Marriott, they realized, okay,
[02:33–02:36] those people are probably now with alcohol age.
[02:36–02:37] That's true.
[02:37–02:39] Or else it's just not the same product as all of them.
[02:39–02:40] We're just absolutely.
[02:40–02:41] That might be, that's true.
[02:41–02:42] Yeah, I think that's a good one.
[02:42–02:44] Marriott in behind that is probably,
[02:44–02:45] no, I've never said, I don't think.
[02:46–02:47] It's nice to alcohol.
[02:47–02:47] Three good.
[02:47–02:49] Yeah, it tastes like that, then.
[02:49–02:50] Literally a lot of.
[02:50–02:50] Yeah.
[02:50–02:51] So good.
[02:51–02:54] But anyway, let's get into our dilemmas.
[02:54–02:56] Yes, so we try out these with dilemmas each week.
[02:56–02:58] So we obviously don't have the main podcast as well,
[02:58–03:01] but the bonus episode, which is what is the now,
[03:01–03:03] is gonna be just dilemmas.
[03:03–03:05] Yes, we get social influx of them.
[03:05–03:05] What do you do?
[03:07–03:11] First one is boyfriend of a year going traveling for a year.
[03:11–03:13] Don't know what to do about the relationship.
[03:13–03:14] Where are we?
[03:15–03:18] That's hard because it's like, it's your own interior.
[03:18–03:19] So new, yeah.
[03:19–03:20] And he's going away for the same length of time
[03:20–03:22] that he's a renaugater or shit.
[03:23–03:26] I wonder was it a case of you knew when you met him?
[03:26–03:27] He was like, I was traveling in two years.
[03:28–03:30] If it was something you always knew,
[03:30–03:32] like, I feel like you can prepare yourself for it more.
[03:32–03:34] Like, it doesn't make it, it doesn't make the sting,
[03:34–03:35] and he lasts kind of.
[03:35–03:35] Yeah.
[03:35–03:39] But if it was something that he always kept it in the loop about,
[03:40–03:42] I think you just have to let him do his thing.
[03:43–03:44] Would you say what's all?
[03:44–03:44] Yeah.
[03:44–03:47] Well, depending on how much you love them,
[03:47–03:48] and if you, if you saw a future with them,
[03:48–03:49] definitely, like, if you're.
[03:50–03:52] In your older years and so on,
[03:52–03:54] that age matters, but like,
[03:54–03:56] if you're, if there's, if that's the,
[03:56–03:58] oh, if there's no complaints in the relationship,
[03:58–03:59] if everything is.
[04:00–04:00] Great.
[04:00–04:02] Like, why not?
[04:02–04:03] Why not?
[04:03–04:05] Yeah, I think they're like, you'd,
[04:05–04:07] just like, you hate it if you held them back.
[04:07–04:09] Remember, yeah, you couldn't tell this.
[04:09–04:10] So, yeah, look at it.
[04:10–04:11] Like, this is going to happen.
[04:11–04:12] He's gone away for the year.
[04:12–04:14] He's going to either try and make a work,
[04:14–04:15] or you can say, uh,
[04:15–04:16] let's leave for even a minute.
[04:16–04:17] Where we try.
[04:17–04:19] We've answered these questions,
[04:19–04:21] but the girl wants to go away.
[04:21–04:23] And we've always had.
[04:23–04:25] We've always said, go.
[04:25–04:27] Yeah, you can't say any.
[04:27–04:30] I think her dilemma is more so to break up.
[04:30–04:31] Did they say together?
[04:31–04:31] Did they break up?
[04:31–04:32] I think try.
[04:32–04:33] Like, what's the herm and try it?
[04:33–04:34] Yeah.
[04:34–04:35] So, I mean, yeah, try it at the beginning.
[04:35–04:36] If it doesn't work, you can say,
[04:36–04:38] you did give it a go, and it didn't work out.
[04:38–04:40] And I think it's a big test, the ratio,
[04:40–04:41] because I think if you can't,
[04:42–04:43] I don't know.
[04:43–04:44] It's a different, different situation.
[04:44–04:45] I've been in the situation,
[04:45–04:47] but if you can't last year without,
[04:47–04:49] you see, like obviously, you have to see each other.
[04:49–04:50] Yeah, but if you can't, like, people go to like,
[04:52–04:53] jobs, not a rough like six months now,
[04:53–04:56] but if you can't go even one year without living each other,
[04:56–04:58] since you're all the time, then maybe it's not meant to be.
[04:58–04:59] Yeah.
[04:59–05:01] If you're not meant to be, then it'll work out perfectly.
[05:01–05:02] And who knows?
[05:02–05:04] You might, wherever he's gone,
[05:05–05:08] you might end up going over and you don't know what way things work out.
[05:08–05:10] So, I think always given something to go,
[05:11–05:14] but not like, don't put yourself in the pressure for things,
[05:14–05:15] or if something doesn't fear,
[05:15–05:18] right, don't keep down, but I always like to think,
[05:18–05:20] give it a go and see what happens.
[05:20–05:20] Yeah.
[05:20–05:22] And don't look at it as if like, oh, my friend,
[05:22–05:25] or living with her boyfriend, the mind's moving away.
[05:25–05:27] I think you're actually at an advantage,
[05:27–05:29] because he gets his cabinet the way.
[05:29–05:30] Say he does come out after the year,
[05:30–05:32] and he's like, loved it, and like, he's end up setting down.
[05:33–05:36] You actually have such an advantage in your race of the two years.
[05:36–05:37] Yeah.
[05:37–05:38] Because he's done that.
[05:38–05:39] He's never going to sit around when he's 35,
[05:39–05:40] and like, oh, we should do that.
[05:40–05:41] Yeah.
[05:41–05:43] I need to just do something by myself now and then leave it.
[05:43–05:44] Oh, yeah.
[05:44–05:45] He's doing, he's not, he's not that he's leaving, you know.
[05:45–05:48] He's doing his self kind of goals now,
[05:48–05:50] which is adorable for anyone who does that.
[05:50–05:51] Yeah, I think.
[05:51–05:52] And if the race should work so.
[05:52–05:54] Yeah, so I don't know.
[05:54–05:56] Yeah, you might find your way back to you today.
[05:56–05:57] Definitely.
[05:57–05:59] But yeah, I think it's a good thing to see.
[05:59–05:59] Definitely.
[06:00–06:02] So myself and my housemates recently fell out
[06:02–06:04] with one of the girls in the house.
[06:04–06:06] We have a house together again for the next college year
[06:06–06:07] to positive, it's already paid.
[06:08–06:11] She is very manipulative and lied behind all of our backs.
[06:11–06:14] We've confronted her about it.
[06:14–06:16] Do we try and put it all behind us for the sake of the next year?
[06:16–06:18] Or do we stand our ground and coher off?
[06:18–06:21] She really hurt us and some of, and some,
[06:21–06:23] and said some awful stuff about us.
[06:24–06:25] Eek.
[06:25–06:26] Oh, Eek.
[06:26–06:29] Forgive her to pause back and find someone else.
[06:29–06:29] Give her the boo.
[06:29–06:31] It's a year, like, it's not like a few weeks
[06:31–06:32] you can deal with it.
[06:32–06:33] That's a whole another year being with someone
[06:33–06:35] who no one gets along with.
[06:36–06:38] Who's horrible, say it by the sense of it.
[06:38–06:41] Like, yeah, I think if it was like, if I've never been in
[06:41–06:43] like a situation of sharing a house or sharing a space with,
[06:44–06:47] multiple girls, but I think if it was a case of,
[06:47–06:50] say if there's five girls living in a house,
[06:50–06:51] if two of them didn't get along,
[06:52–06:56] I think it would be something that you could try fix.
[06:56–06:59] Yeah, try either fix or just keep the two of them away from each other
[06:59–07:00] or whatever, but if it's literally
[07:01–07:04] one girl fighting with everybody else in the house.
[07:06–07:07] It's very different.
[07:07–07:08] Yeah.
[07:08–07:10] And someone just saying awful stuff about all of this,
[07:10–07:12] and they're like, why would you want that in your house
[07:12–07:13] and why do I want someone seeing it?
[07:13–07:14] Why don't you have that energy around you?
[07:14–07:15] Yeah, and like, you're obviously going to be talking
[07:15–07:17] chat in a way like who knows what they're telling your business to
[07:17–07:19] if they don't even like it.
[07:19–07:20] You don't really live so much.
[07:20–07:21] I don't know what she said about them.
[07:21–07:22] I know.
[07:22–07:24] Why would you go into space like on your own
[07:24–07:27] and just just bite the back off people
[07:27–07:28] that you're going to have to live with?
[07:28–07:29] Knowing that you're going to live with them.
[07:30–07:32] Maybe she's just a computational person.
[07:32–07:35] Like maybe she just, I don't know, enjoys the drama.
[07:35–07:37] See, she might like demand to like not leave.
[07:37–07:39] She might be like, no, I'm saying use can go.
[07:40–07:41] But in that case, you can be like, right?
[07:41–07:43] Use compared to you can be heard of us back.
[07:43–07:45] And you can find new housewares.
[07:45–07:46] Yeah.
[07:47–07:48] I just wouldn't want to live with someone for that long.
[07:48–07:49] A year.
[07:49–07:51] You'll be walking on a big shelf.
[07:51–07:54] No, you just be like, you want to be in a comfort.
[07:54–07:56] You think of your home as somewhere you're safe and comfortable with?
[07:56–07:57] Your home is your safe,
[07:57–07:58] yeah.
[07:58–08:00] And if someone there who's been talking shit about you,
[08:00–08:01] who I don't know if he's going to fix it,
[08:01–08:03] whatever, I don't know if it's fixable,
[08:03–08:04] but if it's not fixable,
[08:04–08:06] you're going to live in a hostile environment
[08:06–08:07] and it's not going to be a very comfortable place to live.
[08:08–08:09] And you want that in college,
[08:09–08:10] especially if you're for constressed,
[08:10–08:11] your eyeballs all the time.
[08:11–08:15] I think maybe give her, like if you and the rest of your house,
[08:15–08:18] my dog agreed, maybe give her the option of saying,
[08:18–08:21] we either need to improve on this work on it,
[08:21–08:23] leave a sort of, sort it, yeah.
[08:23–08:26] And move on from it in a positive way or
[08:28–08:31] she potentially maybe could find somewhere else to live
[08:31–08:34] or use can if you if you're able to do that kind of thing.
[08:34–08:35] Yeah.
[08:35–08:36] Only how much of the positive is.
[08:37–08:38] Like I feel like college,
[08:38–08:40] it's not that hard to find people today,
[08:40–08:42] which is because people are not very personal.
[08:42–08:43] Yeah, I'm sure it could be easy for him,
[08:43–08:44] but it's obviously a stress,
[08:44–08:46] especially when you're already living in a house,
[08:46–08:48] I'd say no one wants to live because there used to be in there.
[08:48–08:49] Yeah, that's probably where they're like,
[08:49–08:50] what would you want to live in?
[08:50–08:53] Yeah, you nearly feel like then she got her way.
[08:53–08:55] Yeah, if they are the one that was being there.
[08:55–08:58] Yeah, she pushed them out and she got her way kind of thing.
[08:58–09:00] If he's can't sort it out, I would.
[09:00–09:05] would not be living. I wouldn't be just sticking it out for the sake of living there.
[09:05–09:07] No. Because it's a whole year.
[09:07–09:12] Mm-hmm. Is it bad if your boyfriend paid for an only fan's account?
[09:12–09:13] Eat, yeah.
[09:13–09:15] We talked about this before a little bit, didn't we? Definitely.
[09:15–09:17] Yeah. Yeah.
[09:17–09:20] Fuck yeah, he got to buy you an ice cream or something like that.
[09:20–09:22] What is it, like tree or roll?
[09:22–09:23] Like, he could have, you know what I mean?
[09:23–09:25] Yeah. I would defend it on how much it is, I don't know.
[09:25–09:26] Yeah, it's a fan thing on the back.
[09:26–09:28] Yeah, it's bad.
[09:29–09:34] What do you look, unless it's a fucking cooking mama show or something or like one of them secret chefs?
[09:34–09:35] Oh yeah.
[09:35–09:36] And only fans.
[09:36–09:37] Yeah, different things only fans.
[09:37–09:39] Yeah, it's not just the boobies and the butts.
[09:39–09:41] Like I know, boys obviously.
[09:41–09:43] I'm a giant party waltz.
[09:43–09:44] Right, there's three pawns like.
[09:44–09:48] No, but I know they watch point, but then it's like when you see them paying for something that's like,
[09:48–09:49] so much worse isn't it?
[09:49–09:50] Yeah, that's what I mean.
[09:50–09:51] That's pretty pawns like.
[09:51–09:52] Yeah. What you buy it are for?
[09:52–09:54] Yeah. Yeah. Why do you want to see that one girl?
[09:54–09:55] Yeah. That's the thing.
[09:55–09:57] It's a bear being very specific.
[09:57–09:58] Yeah.
[09:58–10:00] It's kind of like cheating in a way.
[10:00–10:01] It's not like.
[10:01–10:03] Yeah, you can't stop for money to see her.
[10:03–10:04] Oh, her.
[10:04–10:06] Las Anise Philly is in board is the new thing.
[10:06–10:07] Okay.
[10:07–10:08] Shelly was so confused.
[10:08–10:10] Board came out of nowhere in New York.
[10:10–10:11] And Quiever.
[10:11–10:14] Quiever I just kept calling everyone board and then I started calling Quiever board.
[10:14–10:15] And now everybody is board.
[10:15–10:16] So shelly and his board.
[10:16–10:17] Lyanna's board everyone's board.
[10:17–10:18] Okay.
[10:18–10:19] So board is the new thing.
[10:19–10:20] So she hears the word.
[10:20–10:21] That's why that's not it.
[10:21–10:22] And yeah, right?
[10:22–10:23] So this birds.
[10:23–10:24] This bird.
[10:24–10:26] You're it's very personal.
[10:26–10:27] It's very personal.
[10:27–10:28] Isn't it?
[10:28–10:29] I think it's more of a thing as well.
[10:29–10:32] Like I don't think the girls on their own fans know who's paying.
[10:32–10:34] But you really feel like I don't know.
[10:34–10:35] I don't know.
[10:35–10:37] I don't think there's like a way you make your own use.
[10:37–10:38] I don't know.
[10:38–10:41] But like I'd say the girl who finds out we're boyfriend's paying for it makes me like I don't
[10:41–10:42] like it.
[10:42–10:43] I wouldn't say it.
[10:43–10:44] I know.
[10:44–10:46] I would say it is bad.
[10:46–10:47] Yeah.
[10:47–10:48] Definitely bad.
[10:48–10:49] Definitely bad.
[10:49–10:52] Like I said, there's other ways of.
[10:52–10:53] Yeah.
[10:53–10:54] It's just a little bit too specific for me.
[10:54–10:56] Yeah, there's other ways of.
[10:56–10:57] I don't even know.
[10:57–10:58] Yeah, yeah.
[10:58–10:59] Pulled it out for free.
[10:59–11:00] I mean, it itself.
[11:00–11:01] He does have a girlfriend.
[11:01–11:02] She doesn't.
[11:02–11:04] Yeah, never mind the free porn.
[11:04–11:05] So it's.
[11:05–11:06] Yeah, he has you.
[11:06–11:07] Yeah.
[11:07–11:08] Girl girl.
[11:08–11:12] Like no, I would definitely say it's.
[11:12–11:13] It's bad.
[11:13–11:15] I think it can be forgiven though.
[11:15–11:19] Maybe he's just one of these boys that just doesn't see like the wrong in it.
[11:19–11:22] Yeah, if it like most boys are fucking like.
[11:22–11:24] Things like this can be so broad.
[11:24–11:28] Like, you don't mean it could be some big American like.
[11:28–11:30] You don't know who it is that he's paying for.
[11:30–11:33] Not that that does make it any better, but like maybe she does now, don't make it.
[11:33–11:34] Yeah, but that's what I mean.
[11:34–11:35] Yeah, yeah.
[11:35–11:36] Like what if it's some girl from Dublin that.
[11:36–11:37] That yeah, good.
[11:37–11:43] If these people are even from Dublin, what if it's someone from his area who he might potentially bump into or something or like.
[11:43–11:44] I don't know.
[11:44–11:45] Would you admit to something like.
[11:45–11:47] Yeah, I got your only fans.
[11:47–11:48] A bread.
[11:48–11:49] Thank you.
[11:49–11:50] Thank you.
[11:50–11:52] I don't know.
[11:52–11:53] Oh, sticky.
[11:53–11:56] But I think why was in your shoes.
[11:56–11:57] I would lose the rack.
[11:57–12:00] I think it's break up with her like material though.
[12:00–12:02] Well, I'm a fucking gob shite.
[12:02–12:05] So don't ask me that question.
[12:05–12:08] Yeah, it's fine.
[12:08–12:10] I'd lose the head though.
[12:10–12:12] Yeah, wouldn't be into that.
[12:12–12:14] I think it would really depend on their reaction to it as well.
[12:14–12:16] Would they be like, oh my god, is it really nice how bad that was?
[12:16–12:18] Yeah, hopefully that's or if they're like.
[12:18–12:19] I want to encourage you.
[12:19–12:25] Yeah, if the defense I always always always find as soon as they get defensive when they know they're in the wrong.
[12:25–12:28] They will never ever admit to ever being in the wrong.
[12:28–12:34] Yeah, the whole defense thing and manipulate you to think that like you're bleeding crazy or whatever like it's.
[12:34–12:35] That's nice.
[12:35–12:37] Oh, it's fine.
[12:37–12:41] It's definitely fair to lose the head a little bit.
[12:41–12:42] Yeah, I would.
[12:42–12:43] I would.
[12:44–12:45] Yeah.
[12:45–12:49] So me and my boss commute up and down to an office outside Dublin.
[12:49–12:53] Sometimes we have to stay overnight together early the next day for meetings, etc.
[12:53–12:57] We were having a few drinks one night and he got a bit drunk and kissed me.
[12:57–12:59] I was in shock but then pulled back.
[12:59–13:00] He's a married kid.
[13:00–13:04] He's married wicked and I'm in a committed long term relationship.
[13:04–13:08] Oh, I'm highly tangled in it as I own some of the business.
[13:08–13:10] I've no interest in him and I told him.
[13:10–13:16] I've no interest and told him that and we agreed that it was a drunk mistake on his part.
[13:16–13:23] I swear by honesty in the relationship, but I don't know whether to tell my boyfriend as I still have to spend a lot of time on my boss.
[13:23–13:27] And I don't want him thinking that that that he will try again.
[13:27–13:31] Yeah, because the boy friends are going to think, um, actually the worst of it.
[13:31–13:33] He's probably not going to believe that it was like just.
[13:33–13:34] Yeah, I'm done.
[13:34–13:36] He'll think that that was going on for months.
[13:36–13:39] Yeah, his mind will go and if he's already maybe already has this fish.
[13:39–13:40] I don't know.
[13:40–13:42] Like he might be already thinking things.
[13:42–13:46] That's really, really hard.
[13:46–13:49] Because you're entangled in it with business business.
[13:49–13:51] Yeah, it's your livelihood.
[13:51–13:54] It's your job.
[13:54–14:01] I think if both of you know that there's never a chance to happen in again.
[14:01–14:02] Sorry, the last part doesn't affect.
[14:02–14:03] Do I try?
[14:03–14:05] I don't want him thinking all this time.
[14:05–14:06] He'll try again.
[14:06–14:07] Do I tell him or not?
[14:07–14:08] I didn't do anything wrong.
[14:08–14:10] Oh, you didn't do anything wrong.
[14:10–14:11] I don't think that you did.
[14:11–14:12] You pulled away.
[14:12–14:13] Yeah.
[14:13–14:16] So it'd be different if you were like one thing that's another.
[14:16–14:19] Yeah, yeah, to get out of that night or whatever we did.
[14:19–14:21] You literally said you pulled away.
[14:21–14:26] The fact is both agreed it was a drunk mistake like.
[14:26–14:29] I really don't know.
[14:29–14:30] When is that?
[14:30–14:31] She's all about honesty.
[14:31–14:34] She said, yeah.
[14:34–14:37] I think if you and your boyfriend have that kind of like trust and relationship.
[14:37–14:38] Yeah.
[14:38–14:43] He will believe what you say as in like your shock that you pulled away.
[14:43–14:44] All that.
[14:44–14:45] So.
[14:45–14:47] Maybe tell him.
[14:47–14:48] Yeah.
[14:48–14:51] And if you're not ready on first and that's going to weigh in your conscience like.
[14:51–14:52] I'll hang over you.
[14:52–14:53] Yeah.
[14:53–14:54] So.
[14:54–14:59] I think say it, but I just don't.
[14:59–15:00] No, I come to the movies.
[15:00–15:04] Then what you still go away with him or still in a business where I'm like.
[15:04–15:08] It's going to make things a bit difficult that way.
[15:08–15:09] Yeah.
[15:09–15:11] Depending on what type of person he is.
[15:11–15:12] Like I think.
[15:12–15:17] Like it would be different if she said like I have feelings from now and like I don't
[15:17–15:18] want to do something like that.
[15:18–15:21] The fact that they both literally agreed that it was a drunk mistake.
[15:21–15:22] If you think.
[15:22–15:26] That maybe it won't weigh on your conscience.
[15:26–15:27] Yeah.
[15:27–15:28] Then don't.
[15:28–15:29] Then I maybe wouldn't risk it.
[15:29–15:31] The fact it was literally.
[15:31–15:35] I don't know, but then again, I always say like being drunk is not an excuse.
[15:35–15:36] Yeah.
[15:36–15:37] So 100%.
[15:37–15:39] I think I'm taking that back actually.
[15:39–15:40] Yeah, I take all that back.
[15:40–15:42] So you say tell I think so.
[15:42–15:43] Yeah, yeah.
[15:43–15:46] I think he will understand as well because you're telling him.
[15:46–15:47] Yeah, honestly.
[15:47–15:51] Yeah, policy and telling exactly what happened how happened like.
[15:51–15:53] And just.
[15:53–15:54] Yeah.
[15:54–15:57] And whatever happens business wise after that is.
[15:57–15:58] Is work.
[15:58–16:01] So I mean it's he has to understand that as well.
[16:01–16:02] I think understand that too.
[16:02–16:03] It's hard to.
[16:03–16:07] Like would you bring your man in with with your fellow.
[16:07–16:09] And the two years explain.
[16:09–16:10] Oh,
[16:10–16:16] would that make him without making better or worse to think worse to think men are really like
[16:16–16:17] with mother man.
[16:17–16:18] They're the ego says.
[16:18–16:20] Yeah, they probably end up in a fist fight.
[16:20–16:21] Sure.
[16:21–16:22] Yeah, okay.
[16:22–16:23] Maybe don't do that.
[16:23–16:24] But I think do tell him.
[16:24–16:25] Okay.
[16:25–16:27] I think I feel like she sounds like a very nice person.
[16:27–16:30] He's going to be nice and that I hope you'll understand.
[16:30–16:31] Yeah.
[16:31–16:33] Yeah, because you didn't do anything wrong.
[16:33–16:35] No, you feel better about yourself for telling.
[16:35–16:36] Yeah.
[16:36–16:38] And at the end of the day, that's kind of all that matter.
[16:38–16:39] Yeah.
[16:39–16:41] So keep us updated.
[16:41–16:43] Yeah, please do actually.
[16:43–16:47] Hey girls, I'm still changing the idea of traveling or saving and building a house.
[16:47–16:49] I'm single, but would love to head off.
[16:49–16:50] Maybe teach a broad for years, too.
[16:50–16:52] But I really want to start saving to build my own house.
[16:52–16:54] I'm 25, but I'm just unsure.
[16:54–17:01] So I set off and explore the world for a year or live abroad and stay at home and live abroad or stay at home and save.
[17:01–17:03] You were also helped me with a previous term.
[17:03–17:04] So thank you so much.
[17:04–17:06] Oh, girl, you have good dilemmas.
[17:06–17:07] Wow.
[17:07–17:09] Oh, God's travel.
[17:09–17:10] Yeah.
[17:10–17:15] I know that I know I get that dilemma that because it's like a sony that just in the same bro.
[17:15–17:19] When I started here in a forest, I thought she meant like she had the money to build a house now kind of thing.
[17:19–17:20] Yeah.
[17:20–17:26] If that was the case and you were like, I don't know whether to travel this year or literally build my house this year, I'd say build a house.
[17:26–17:32] But the fact that like you're putting off traveling to be able to start the saving process and so on.
[17:32–17:36] That is an absolute fucking joke of a country for houses.
[17:36–17:37] We know that.
[17:37–17:41] So I wouldn't stay at home for save for a house.
[17:41–17:42] You'll find your feet.
[17:42–17:44] You'll build a house.
[17:44–17:45] Yeah.
[17:45–17:47] You'll actually really save more by living abroad.
[17:47–17:48] You would find a farmer.
[17:48–17:49] Yeah, yeah.
[17:49–17:52] Save more living abroad especially since you see some of our people do that.
[17:52–17:53] I think save something.
[17:53–17:54] It's a nice having a roof.
[17:54–17:55] Yeah.
[17:55–17:57] I wonder then when you come back from Dubai, do you have to pay tax?
[17:57–17:58] Wait a minute.
[17:58–17:59] That you made over it.
[17:59–18:00] I don't know.
[18:00–18:05] How long do you really have the money? So I don't know I don't have it easy as making it come straight back
[18:05–18:09] Yeah, I know I just go out for there and do that. It's probably like a Dubai bank can't that
[18:10–18:17] There's definitely ways that you can show his ways that people do it and legal ways obviously yeah like
[18:17–18:21] You don't have to stay here to save like I said you can go
[18:22–18:25] Abroad and still be saving and have a great experience
[18:25–18:30] Yeah, it might not be as much as you as you might like to save while you just be sitting in Ireland
[18:30–18:34] But like you're then upgo over a great and it's almost drawing you 25 100%
[18:34–18:36] Um
[18:36–18:39] Yeah, you need to see the world. Mm-hmm. That's how myself that as well
[18:40–18:42] Yeah, traveling is literally like
[18:42–18:45] priceless. I put a price on traveling and it's also
[18:46–18:49] You're not a password time. No, not timeless
[18:50–18:53] Like you can't really deal for your whole life because yeah, once you kind of advocate
[18:53–18:56] Obviously some people do okay then wherever else but
[18:56–19:01] There's kind of a stage where your life isn't all about you anymore. There's a part where it's easier to travel
[19:01–19:03] Yeah, especially your single
[19:03–19:05] Yeah, go out you might meet nice
[19:06–19:07] My friends
[19:07–19:10] I'm a world of land in Ireland and then he'll be like oh yeah
[19:11–19:15] That's my mom. I'll just get a farmer and just build a guy just have a little to land
[19:16–19:22] Like, ma'am that's terrible. Like just for his land. Any farmers listen. Let's know just for his land
[19:22–19:25] Yeah, I think definitely
[19:25–19:31] To live your life, too. Please do even if you're not saying as much even your life not saving at all at least travel for like a year
[19:31–19:35] Do it. It's a year and you'll always think about not doing it. Yeah, you'll be sitting on your porch
[19:35–19:39] We're 80 on your rock and chair and I wish I didn't
[19:39–19:43] I wish I went traveling and you get an American accent
[19:45–19:48] I'm gonna move to America. You probably never come back to Ireland wasn't you
[19:49–19:54] No, damn you girl travel. Yeah, do it. Yeah, 100% thanks for listening. Thank you
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