EXTRA JUICE: "Right Person, Wrong Time?" #5 — Hold My Drink

[00:00–00:04] Hold my drink with Charlene and Ellie. I go light original.
[00:16–00:20] Hello and welcome. Hi everyone. This is our bonus exotes.
[00:20–00:24] Bonus juice. Yes. Which you seem to be lovin.
[00:24–00:26] Yes. Already? Thank God.
[00:26–00:30] Where we answer extra seats in the sauce and help you with some issues.
[00:30–00:34] Yeah. We hope to help anyway. Like we said we're not viable.
[00:34–00:37] No. We always say we're not viable.
[00:37–00:40] But yeah, it's just kind of an extra little snippet of us.
[00:40–00:42] Yeah. Okay. She's my sister throughout the week.
[00:42–00:47] So the first dilemma is, so by the way, I've been with my boyfriend for three years now and I just
[00:47–00:50] constantly feel like I'm left out. For example, I'm literally never invited out with him in his
[00:50–00:55] friend group, which is a mix of boys and girls. I started out with me because it was because I was new,
[00:55–00:59] but it's the same now. One of the girls in the group got a boyfriend six months ago and he's invited
[00:59–01:03] every time without fail. He apologized once for it and said you don't want to bring me along because
[01:03–01:07] some of the other people don't bring their partners or something, but since then, the owners have been
[01:07–01:12] invited. He was recently on the weekend away with some of them and BF and GFs were there, but
[01:12–01:16] unfortunately it wasn't even though I hadn't seen them in over a month due to studying.
[01:16–01:21] I don't know what to do and I'm spoken to him about it numerous times, but he seems to go in one
[01:21–01:29] year out the other. I think it's okay to like, if he wanted to, he would. Yeah, yeah. I don't
[01:29–01:32] like why doesn't he want to? That's how it rooms. If he wanted to. Yeah, but I don't like why doesn't he
[01:32–01:38] want to? Yeah. I know friends are sometimes separate, but like it'd be nice to be getting
[01:38–01:42] by it now and again. Yeah, and how long should it be in three years? Three years. But when she got
[01:42–01:48] one in first, did he not like introduce her to the friend? Yeah, sort of. Maybe he wants to either
[01:48–01:54] just keep his relationship with his friends completely separate, but then again, like that's really
[01:54–01:59] hard thing to do sometimes. Yeah, and it's also like mean because everyone else is bringing
[01:59–02:03] there. Yeah, partners. I need to be a little boy and girl, and then she's just not getting
[02:03–02:06] invited. Fair enough with just the original group and they're like, we're doing something with
[02:06–02:10] just the friends. Yeah. But like if they're starting to bring other boyfriend's girlfriends, why not bring
[02:11–02:18] him here? I wonder, I wonder could she like, I don't know, maybe get close to the girlfriends in
[02:18–02:23] the group, like maybe try and reach out to them. And then, yeah. Yeah. I just don't see why it's
[02:23–02:28] one more than one time. Yeah, why wouldn't you want? If you know, like if he knows that his friends
[02:28–02:33] girlfriends are gone, why wouldn't you want to bring your own girlfriend? Yeah. Does he be a
[02:33–02:38] to think? No, I don't know. I don't know. Oh, no. Like so many things could run to your head when
[02:38–02:42] you're thinking of that. Mine, yeah. The more some feeling left out. No, whichever. So she
[02:42–02:47] buy your own boy, your boyfriend. Yeah. I know. That's just the last thing you should make you feel.
[02:47–02:52] Like, I just feel like he's not making an effort at all. Yeah. If it just goes in one ear and
[02:52–02:54] out the other, he won't judge once. And then that's why she hadn't even seen him in over a month
[02:54–02:59] due to sodium and he still didn't invite her on the weekend away. I'd bring it up with him again
[02:59–03:05] definitely and tell him how much it's like a four year. Yeah. That's a huge thing. And don't let
[03:05–03:10] it make you feel like it's not because it is. Yeah. To not be invited anywhere. Yeah. Like your
[03:10–03:15] boyfriend shouldn't make you feel shit in any way to perform. Yeah. Yeah. I think definitely bring
[03:15–03:23] it up to him. Explain to him how much it goes for a two. And if he continues to do it. Boy, bye.
[03:23–03:29] Boy, bye. Yeah. So one continues to do something that they know her. Yeah. Yeah. That's like
[03:29–03:34] and no, no. Yeah. Because that's then them doing it. No, it's hurting you. Yeah. You shouldn't have
[03:34–03:38] to tell somebody more than once that something's hurting you because then they just don't care
[03:38–03:45] about how they're affecting you if they continue to do it. Yeah. And then it shows lack respect for
[03:45–03:54] you. Yeah. No. Definitely. Definitely. Definitely. The next one we have them is. Hi, girls. I would
[03:54–03:58] like to get your opinions on this. When I was with my ex, I got us tickets to a festival.
[03:59–04:03] It wasn't a birthday present or anything like that. I just took it upon myself to order two tickets
[04:03–04:09] at the time. We've now broken up. It's been about two months and it was quite quite a civil breakup.
[04:09–04:14] But he texted me that they're looking for his ticket. I told him that he could buy it off me as I
[04:14–04:19] was the one who bought it. When I told him this, he got very tick. Oh, he got very tick and said,
[04:19–04:23] I was selfish as I had bought it for him when we were together so he shouldn't have to pay for it now.
[04:23–04:27] The ticket wasn't cheap and I have other people who would be interested in buying it. Should I give
[04:27–04:31] it to him free of charge since it was initially bought for him or should I stand my ground and tell
[04:31–04:40] him he'll have to pay for it? I don't want to seem like a bitch. Oh, I'm like in this situation.
[04:40–04:49] I have tickets bought. Oh, shit. He's not getting them tickets. I'd yeah, I don't know. You bought
[04:49–04:54] them your money. You're not together if he wants to buy it off. I think yeah, I agree. Well,
[04:54–04:57] if it was like say what she said it wasn't but if it was like a birthday present or something,
[04:57–05:02] I'd be like now giving my ticket like you bought me out of the present. Oh, if it was a gift.
[05:02–05:07] It was a gift. It was a gift. Yeah, that's true. No, I'd make a buy it. And say to him,
[05:07–05:11] I hear there's other people who buy it off me so what makes you feel so special in my ex? Yeah,
[05:11–05:19] that's true. No, sorry. So you know, I feel in violence. Yeah. We're choosing violence for the last
[05:19–05:24] few days. I don't know. No, I tend to buy it and if it was an expensive ticket as well,
[05:24–05:30] they're not going together anymore. They were sipping for the first while and as soon as he's not
[05:30–05:34] getting what he wants, which is the free ticket. Oh, yeah. We's getting tickets. Yeah, I think
[05:34–05:39] actually you should pay. No, pay for it. Unless I say, if you want to buy the children, I'll give you
[05:39–05:44] a discount. I give you a 10 or off by the school of the market. I'll send it to your house. Yeah.
[05:44–05:49] No, affect that. Like you're not you're not together. So I mean, like I think it's kind of where
[05:49–05:54] they are. So he expected it for not. Yeah, yeah. I just be like, I'm just, let's get new ticket.
[05:55–06:01] I'd be more satisfied to ask. I think no, no, it's there. Yeah. I like, if anything, if I was in his
[06:02–06:05] shoes, I probably would have reached out and been like, yeah, if there any chance, I can buy it,
[06:05–06:10] I'd ask you to get off you. I know you got it from me, but yeah, can I buy it? I actually did that.
[06:10–06:15] I asked one time for tickets back. It was very rare. I got them as a present for you know,
[06:15–06:24] okay, for my birthday and I loved the band like and a gaming. Yeah. Oh, yeah. He just said,
[06:24–06:31] I'm gonna have them. I was like, can you send me them tickets? Like, picture this. Yeah. No, I think definitely,
[06:32–06:36] you're not being a bitch. You bought them with your money when you were together. Even just
[06:36–06:40] pretend to be like, I don't know. Nevermind. I can say every hand that you've already sold it.
[06:40–06:45] I wouldn't want to go to jail. Sorry. I can't say that. Oh, sorry, I say that. You don't want that. Yeah.
[06:45–06:48] I wouldn't get kicked back when I'm because that's probably what you took with us and I went off. Yeah.
[06:48–06:53] So I just literally just be like, here are people who want to buy it off me. If you want to buy it off
[06:53–07:01] me, you can't. Yeah. If you don't want to buy it. Then. Then. Yeah. Yeah. Well, they're not in
[07:01–07:05] up gone like if the tickets were bought together, like what if they're like, see it and tickets?
[07:05–07:09] They're in opposite. It was like, did you know? I feel it's shake with her a festival. Oh, is it?
[07:09–07:14] My hang on. Yeah, I think so. Yeah, a festival. Okay. No, you can't see it. Thank God. Thank God. No,
[07:14–07:19] definitely. I'd say keep it simple. We'll just be like now. Listen, pal. I cough up. My money might
[07:19–07:25] take it. Yes. Hi, girl. My dilemma is me and this boy last summer. We were proper mad about each
[07:25–07:29] other, but it was right person wrong time. We were about out of abuse of relationships at the same
[07:29–07:33] time and didn't want to rush. We talked for over a year and we're obsessed with each other.
[07:33–07:37] And then I stopped talking to him about the frustration of it never going anywhere but missing him
[07:37–07:41] terribly lately. And everyone's telling me to text him, but I don't want the wrong reaction.
[07:41–07:45] I don't know what to do. He definitely doesn't care anymore and probably would just tell all of
[07:45–07:52] me to please help the girl out. Oh, I think I think you could text someone up and like, hey,
[07:53–07:57] I really miss you. I think just playing it like not very cool, but like yeah,
[07:57–08:02] like how have we been or like yeah, we're fine with story like a check it in. Yeah,
[08:02–08:06] a subtle way of making him realize that you're still kind of yeah, interested. There's not
[08:06–08:11] a problem with that. Like what's so wrong with that? What's going to have his friends? Oh, she's
[08:11–08:14] after a pint of story like no one's going to make good one. Yeah. Yeah.
[08:15–08:19] Do you know what I mean? No, definitely. I think reach back out again because you're
[08:19–08:25] alone if you don't, you're lonely. We sit and they're saying what if I hate that? Do you believe
[08:25–08:28] in a right person the wrong time? I don't know. Sometimes I think this saying is a bit of a
[08:28–08:34] couple. I agree. I don't know. I don't know. And they're like yeah, to make you we would be together
[08:34–08:39] one day. Yeah, it would it leaves these girls on like and slashing. It's left me on a stream
[08:39–08:43] like like maybe one day like and you're always waiting for this person and you're like what the
[08:43–08:49] fool? I do believe everybody has like a soulmate out there. I really believe that. Yeah, I believe like
[08:49–08:55] this one. I didn't maybe not one but I believe like when we were born like God put one person here
[08:55–08:59] and one person there and they were finding each other. Yeah, and they were going to find each other.
[08:59–09:00] Yeah, but it'd be bitch.
[09:00–09:02] Shit, if one's an Australian, one's an Ireland or something.
[09:02–09:04] Yeah, but they'll say, if they sell me, it's not funny today.
[09:04–09:05] Yeah.
[09:05–09:07] But I did out the right person wrong time thing.
[09:09–09:10] Yeah.
[09:10–09:14] I don't know, because if it was the right person, anything would make it work.
[09:14–09:15] Yeah, I agree.
[09:15–09:17] Time wouldn't be a thing of...
[09:17–09:21] Except for if someone sent us a DM, we talked about this for it, and then they were like,
[09:21–09:23] oh, this was the right person wrong time.
[09:23–09:26] Or a right person wrong time was a very very, very, it wasn't that situation.
[09:26–09:29] Sometimes it can be, but most of the time, it's a copy of it, I think.
[09:29–09:30] Yeah, so something that they say.
[09:30–09:34] If it works for people, and that was the thing behind it, then great.
[09:34–09:35] Yeah.
[09:35–09:39] It's a thing that for porous use to make you still be there.
[09:39–09:41] And the background is there, or want you back?
[09:41–09:42] They don't want you right now.
[09:42–09:43] Yeah.
[09:43–09:47] They're like, not really interested now over other options, but I want to keep you around also.
[09:47–09:48] Yeah.
[09:48–09:49] Just in case my options don't really work.
[09:49–09:50] So I can slide back in.
[09:50–09:51] Yeah.
[09:51–09:52] And they always slide back in.
[09:52–09:54] Oh, they always come running back.
[09:54–09:55] Every single one.
[09:55–09:56] They do.
[09:56–09:57] Honestly, like...
[09:57–09:58] I think reach out.
[09:58–09:59] I think reach out too.
[09:59–10:03] So all things like Charlotte and I like, I'm sorry.
[10:03–10:05] You're when I wonder when it was last.
[10:05–10:08] It doesn't have to be any big like, spay, love a thing.
[10:08–10:11] Cause who knows if you do end up getting back to all of it, and you don't know how he feels now.
[10:11–10:15] I know she said that like he doesn't care, but you don't know.
[10:15–10:18] He could be saying that about you or she doesn't care.
[10:18–10:19] Yeah.
[10:19–10:21] So I'm not reaching, like the two of you could be thinking the same things.
[10:21–10:22] Essentially, you know what I mean?
[10:22–10:23] So I think.
[10:23–10:24] Slide back in.
[10:24–10:25] Slide back in.
[10:25–10:26] It was so slow away.
[10:26–10:27] Yes.
[10:27–10:28] We don't like to be like all the way straight away.
[10:28–10:29] Yeah.
[10:29–10:30] And then what like, send him like a tick tock.
[10:30–10:31] I don't know.
[10:31–10:32] Like that.
[10:32–10:33] I'm over practice.
[10:33–10:34] Oh, good.
[10:34–10:35] Yeah.
[10:35–10:36] I think so.
[10:36–10:37] Definitely.
[10:37–10:38] Definitely do.
[10:38–10:39] Like, what's the worst thing that nothing bad happened?
[10:39–10:40] You went.
[10:40–10:41] Like, am I only so taken up these?
[10:41–10:42] I'll just hop for over a year.
[10:42–10:43] Well, we need to also take these chunks of them.
[10:43–10:44] Then I'm like, it never came from it.
[10:44–10:45] I'm like, should she even go back there?
[10:45–10:46] But she really loves it.
[10:46–10:47] Yeah.
[10:47–10:48] Let this be your last time.
[10:48–10:49] Like, let this be your.
[10:49–10:54] If you're really strong, like, if you feel really strong, me about him, let this be the last
[10:54–10:55] time that you say, right, give it a go.
[10:55–10:57] If it doesn't work, it wasn't meant to be anything.
[10:57–11:03] The next one that we have then is I've been on and off with my ex boyfriend near a year
[11:03–11:06] now and he wants to get back with me properly.
[11:06–11:10] I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like,
[11:10–11:14] I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm
[11:14–11:17] a ex boyfriend near a year now and he wants to get back with me properly.
[11:17–11:20] But my family don't like him because he's very shy.
[11:20–11:23] And my friends don't like him with me.
[11:23–11:27] But I always love to talk to him and everything since we broke up a year ago.
[11:27–11:31] I don't know what to do because he said he has changed and I do love him so much, but he always
[11:31–11:34] gets annoyed at me for stupid stuff and then he can do whatever he wants.
[11:34–11:38] By the way, I love you and Ellie of saved my life since listening to you.
[11:38–11:39] You're so relatable.
[11:39–11:44] We love you, we love you, OMG!
[11:44–11:46] Well thank you so much.
[11:46–11:48] Um, bless you very shy.
[11:48–11:50] She's shit like that.
[11:50–11:51] What did you say when you done wrong?
[11:51–11:52] What did you say?
[11:52–11:53] She's changed.
[11:53–11:54] Yeah.
[11:54–11:56] He said I don't know what to do because he said he has changed and I do love him but
[11:56–12:00] he always gets annoyed at me for stupid stuff and then he can do whatever he wants.
[12:00–12:03] I don't know what stupid stuff means.
[12:04–12:08] You can like someone and appreciate them from afar.
[12:08–12:11] You can be like okay that was a good time for him.
[12:11–12:14] I like him speaking to him and I like catching up where he is but I'm not going to go back
[12:14–12:15] there but myself and stuff.
[12:15–12:16] It depends on how the race should be.
[12:16–12:17] Do you feel?
[12:17–12:20] Yeah, how did you feel at the end of it or how did you feel while you were in it and
[12:20–12:23] so also don't let people get into your head too much either.
[12:23–12:29] Like I know family is such a huge part of your life and you never want to fall out with
[12:29–12:31] your family over being with someone.
[12:32–12:34] But I think just maybe sitting them down and I've had to do it.
[12:34–12:40] Sitting them down and talking them and saying how you feel and like this is your journey
[12:40–12:42] or path.
[12:42–12:46] Like you have to see it from both sides and I know they just aren't like them because
[12:46–12:47] they shy.
[12:47–12:48] Like that's not the thing.
[12:48–12:51] I wonder if they see things she doesn't see.
[12:51–12:52] Yeah, can you be blind?
[12:52–12:53] Yeah.
[12:53–12:55] And the friends also don't like them.
[12:55–12:57] Usually the majority isn't wrong.
[12:57–12:58] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[12:58–12:59] In that sense.
[12:59–13:03] They probably have a good sense for you because you can't see it in it.
[13:03–13:04] Yeah.
[13:04–13:07] But I don't know.
[13:07–13:10] I think if someone says they've changed, you have to back it up with actions.
[13:10–13:11] Yeah.
[13:11–13:14] And if the actions are the same is what they were.
[13:14–13:15] Yeah.
[13:15–13:18] And I think leave them in the past.
[13:18–13:19] Don't leave me.
[13:19–13:20] Do?
[13:20–13:21] Yeah.
[13:21–13:23] They're running off the whole time off for a year.
[13:23–13:24] The first year should be like the best.
[13:24–13:25] Is it the honeymoon phase?
[13:25–13:28] Yeah, if that's what you're like the first year, I would just knock it back.
[13:28–13:32] If the red flags are popping up in the first year, that's how it's going to go for the
[13:32–13:33] next 10 years.
[13:33–13:34] Yeah.
[13:34–13:36] So I don't know.
[13:36–13:41] Like I said, it was such a thing though that you just like block out everything else.
[13:41–13:42] Like you purposely sabotage yourself.
[13:42–13:46] You block out everything else just because the feeling of love is so much stronger than
[13:46–13:47] like everything else.
[13:47–13:48] Yeah.
[13:48–13:50] But you have to put yourself first.
[13:50–13:51] Yes.
[13:51–13:52] This is our selfish year, girls.
[13:52–13:53] Okay.
[13:53–13:54] We're having a selfish year.
[13:54–13:55] We're all going to be selfish little sluts.
[13:55–13:56] Yes.
[13:56–13:57] No.
[13:58–14:00] No, don't be like that.
[14:00–14:01] But you know what I mean?
[14:01–14:02] Yeah.
[14:02–14:03] Somewhere along those lines.
[14:03–14:04] Yeah.
[14:04–14:05] Okay.
[14:05–14:06] Hockerous summers.
[14:06–14:07] Yes.
[14:07–14:08] Yes.
[14:08–14:09] Okay.
[14:09–14:10] That's how it's better.
[14:10–14:11] I think, yeah, leave them in the past.
[14:11–14:12] Yeah.
[14:12–14:13] I wouldn't say go back there.
[14:13–14:14] I'm not for the first year.
[14:14–14:15] No one likes them.
[14:15–14:16] Not nice first in the scene.
[14:16–14:17] The world's better.
[14:17–14:18] He seems bad.
[14:18–14:19] No, not that.
[14:19–14:20] No, we don't really like that.
[14:20–14:21] But like the family red stuff.
[14:21–14:23] Like very hard when you're family and friends don't like them.
[14:23–14:24] Very, very hard.
[14:24–14:25] Yeah.
[14:25–14:28] Like you're walking on eggshells.
[14:28–14:29] Like, don't even mind my mention.
[14:29–14:30] His name sometimes.
[14:30–14:31] Yeah.
[14:31–14:35] I used to lie when I used to leave the house sometimes and go out to someone.
[14:35–14:36] I used to lie and say I'm gone somewhere.
[14:36–14:38] Because I just didn't want to deal with that.
[14:38–14:39] The people, yeah, I know.
[14:39–14:40] The disappointment.
[14:40–14:41] Yeah.
[14:41–14:42] It wasn't even I.
[14:42–14:43] It was a dream of yours.
[14:43–14:48] When your mother tells you she's disappointed in you, it's like a dagger in the chest.
[14:48–14:53] I'd rather my mom say I hate you so much than like, then I'm disappointed in you.
[14:53–14:56] It just feels like you don't them so wrong.
[14:56–14:58] It's just like you're about to just sink into your eyes.
[14:58–14:59] Seriously?
[14:59–15:00] It's tragic.
[15:00–15:03] But, cherish as leave.
[15:03–15:04] Yeah.
[15:04–15:05] I'm a lover of those.
[15:05–15:08] I think you're done with him over a year.
[15:08–15:09] Don't go backwards on it.
[15:09–15:10] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[15:10–15:12] You're only going backwards in yourself.
[15:12–15:14] You're not taking stuff forward.
[15:14–15:17] I think, girl, it's May.
[15:17–15:18] We're coming into June.
[15:18–15:19] Yeah, come on.
[15:19–15:20] Come on now.
[15:20–15:21] Come on now.
[15:22–15:23] Get your hug, girl.
[15:23–15:24] So my hat on.
[15:24–15:26] We need to be thinking of summer.
[15:26–15:29] If you really want to, you can go back on them and win it.
[15:29–15:30] Just wait until then.
[15:30–15:31] Yeah.
[15:31–15:32] You need to like someone to cuddle in the winter.
[15:32–15:33] I think just focus on yourself.
[15:33–15:34] Yeah.
[15:34–15:35] That's what plan is anyway.
[15:35–15:37] First round test for your podcast.
[15:37–15:39] I've been binging them loads last few weeks.
[15:39–15:43] I've been seeing this fella the last two months and he was making so much effort at the
[15:43–15:44] start.
[15:44–15:45] Like seeing me every other week.
[15:45–15:48] The last week he's been so off with him and he's making any effort.
[15:48–15:51] He's deciding to change in a job and helping him with that.
[15:51–15:54] But my guts telling me the things are off and I've messed them twice.
[15:54–15:57] I got no one sentence answer back and he didn't register the main thing.
[15:57–16:03] I've actually asked him, which is what if he's lost interest?
[16:03–16:05] If he's ignoring you and you're asking questions like that, I think he's.
[16:05–16:06] Sorry, hang on.
[16:06–16:07] There's more.
[16:07–16:08] Oh, shit.
[16:08–16:10] You've always said numerous times that we like each other and are only seeing each other.
[16:10–16:11] So I don't know if I should see how things go.
[16:11–16:15] The next while I call it off, I'm not really happy with that too.
[16:15–16:19] Like, the PS instance needs to make these responses longer.
[16:19–16:24] I had a situation like this where like I think it's just a typical thing that like for
[16:24–16:26] boys, I'm sorry, like they do.
[16:26–16:31] They just they like will like bombard you with like meshes and like compliments like the
[16:31–16:32] first two weeks.
[16:32–16:36] And then they just go cold and it makes you like really deep into it and then when they
[16:36–16:39] go cold, it's like someone take your field away.
[16:39–16:40] Yeah.
[16:40–16:41] Yeah.
[16:41–16:42] And you're like, where is it going?
[16:42–16:43] And you're like, you feel so I remember just feeling so shit.
[16:43–16:46] But I was like, I haven't let myself feel that shit.
[16:46–16:49] But I think you've answered your own question that she said I'm not going to do it.
[16:49–16:50] Is that true?
[16:50–16:51] Does that what it was?
[16:51–16:52] Yeah.
[16:52–16:53] You've answered your own your you've answered yourself.
[16:53–16:57] They're saying that like these but you sound as true colors here because if he's being
[16:57–17:00] like this, I glue the interest this soon into it.
[17:00–17:03] I'll be worried about what he's liking a few months and it's not in to do with you with
[17:03–17:06] probably just him being a shithead.
[17:06–17:07] Yeah.
[17:07–17:09] They all are getting called fee being a fuck boy.
[17:09–17:10] Maybe it's senior people.
[17:10–17:11] Yeah.
[17:11–17:14] So many options, but somebody makes you doubt yourself and doubt is not.
[17:14–17:17] The ratio in is oh, no, no.
[17:17–17:19] They're meant to be a bonus on to your life.
[17:19–17:22] Like you know, and maybe feel good about yourself.
[17:22–17:24] I'm not sitting there with yourself.
[17:24–17:27] It shouldn't be like seeing someone and staring at you, but someone who's staring something
[17:27–17:28] shouldn't be the hard part.
[17:28–17:31] The hard part is when you get a few years in and things happen and all, but like this
[17:31–17:35] will be easy and fun and that's just a foul.
[17:35–17:36] Yeah.
[17:36–17:38] That's always the full part.
[17:38–17:39] I think you answered.
[17:39–17:41] I think you know what's right to do.
[17:41–17:44] I think I would call it off because over the next while it's kind of just knock on your
[17:44–17:46] confidence and make you feel shit.
[17:46–17:47] We don't want that.
[17:47–17:48] We don't want that.
[17:48–17:49] We're not about that here.
[17:49–17:50] No, no, I think run.
[17:50–17:52] I only said it can't.
[17:52–17:53] Yeah.
[17:53–17:54] It's so shit boys, just do that.
[17:54–17:57] They just like show you this fake side of them for a few weeks and then you think that's
[17:57–17:58] the real them.
[17:58–18:00] So when it's gone, you keep thinking of the fake side, going to come back in an hour.
[18:00–18:02] I've never do it. No, no, no, they forgot everything.
[18:02–18:02] They forgot everything.
[18:02–18:03] Return. No.
[18:04–18:05] That was an act.
[18:05–18:06] It was an act.
[18:06–18:07] They all do it.
[18:07–18:08] They're brilliant actors.
[18:08–18:09] They're brilliant actors.
[18:09–18:10] Brilliant actors.
[18:10–18:12] Yeah. Just be aware of that girl that you have another yet.
[18:13–18:14] Someone nice they might index right.
[18:14–18:16] It's a real cynical way looking at a book.
[18:16–18:17] It's also a protection like.
[18:17–18:17] Yeah.
[18:17–18:18] You have to some nice baby.
[18:18–18:19] Keeping your guard up sometimes.
[18:20–18:20] I've been selling.
[18:20–18:21] I even asked it so far.
[18:21–18:22] Yeah.
[18:22–18:22] And say,
[18:22–18:23] I'm in love.
[18:23–18:24] I'm in love.
[18:24–18:25] Yeah.
[18:25–18:26] No, no.
[18:26–18:28] Just catch yourself before you fall girl.
[18:28–18:28] Oh, well done.
[18:28–18:29] I like that.
[18:29–18:30] I'm so good.
[18:30–18:31] Very good.
[18:31–18:32] I'm so glad.
[18:32–18:33] I'm so glad.
[18:33–18:34] How do we go to do it?
[18:34–18:35] And that was it.
[18:35–18:36] Yep.
[18:36–18:37] That was our little snippet.
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