The Secret Life of an Influencer: Part 2 #9 — Hold My Drink

[00:00–00:04] Hold my drink with Charlene and Ellie. I go light original.
[00:16–00:22] Why do people want to say that number is going to be deal with them. They get the 100k balloons and they hit 100k or whatever.
[00:22–00:28] Because I think it's important as well as numbers not being your main focus. It's also important to celebrate yourself.
[00:28–00:37] Yeah, somebody that was in the bathroom went down to the counter and reposted to the manager like there's two employees up there like fighting with each other.
[00:37–00:45] Bad boys and a full stop. Why slash why not? I don't know. They're never a collusion. They're fucking a grey crack.
[00:48–00:54] Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of Hell My Drink with Charlene and Ellie.
[00:54–00:59] This is a podcast where I feel like it's all the time but we just talk about a bit of everything.
[00:59–01:07] Literally. Just gurly cats. Like your two best friends, two big sisters or two where we're eight sisters.
[01:07–01:15] We just talk about dilemmas, relationships, like topics. I've got the casual topics but I don't like it.
[01:15–01:21] Two, I have two cats. And yeah, we just want to create like a little safe space for you to listen to. I'm easy-listened.
[01:21–01:26] We hope you love this and I love when people tell us that they're listening to the car. Say, I don't know what I'm up to.
[01:26–01:34] I'm up to the gym. I listen to it. Really? Yeah. Plug it in in the car. I always listen to stuff when I'm doing something in my room because I have to be listening to something to be able to do something.
[01:34–01:42] To occupy your head kind of. Cause I can't. If I cannot do one task about having something playing. Really? Yeah. Even a YouTube video in the background I'm not watching.
[01:42–01:46] I still find this very other one I'm in the car and it's just me and your voices over the car.
[01:46–01:51] I just try to smile and laugh and I'm like, oh, I'm so funny. Yeah.
[01:51–01:59] We're hilarious. So we have some segments that are reoccurring in our episodes. We have German word in the week where I teach you a little bit of German.
[01:59–02:07] We have the secret from the stalls. So I'm actually asked what secret stalls is. We kind of made it around a bathroom stall. A drug bathroom.
[02:07–02:15] Yeah. So if you tell a girl on my out, she'd help you with dilemmas, confessions, whatever. And we help you as well. We try help you.
[02:15–02:20] Try and try and word. Maybe fail. How many do we do?
[02:20–02:31] Oh, yeah. Why so tell it? Yes. We do. We do tell it as well. And so we see it gives you a story of something that would be in a group chat, something exciting or ridiculous or something that you're annoyed at in the world.
[02:31–02:38] Yeah. You know. But today's episode we're actually in a part two of secret life of influencers because we got a really good reaction the first time.
[02:38–02:41] We even loved that. Yeah. And there was someone who would nan to. I know.
[02:41–02:48] Because it is. I feel like it's because it's such a new job that people are recuring. It's so broad. That was like, you can look at it in so many different directions.
[02:48–02:57] Yeah. Everybody's experienced with it. Obviously, it's so different. So definitely we can obviously only share our own experience with it. But yeah, people loved it.
[02:57–03:01] Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's a juicy question. There was very juicy questions.
[03:01–03:08] As of right now, I'm actually in Mexico. I'm so sad that she's not here. Yeah. Well, I'm here. I'm here. I'm here right now.
[03:08–03:12] Well, when you listen to this, I'll be on a beach in Mexico. I'm so. Yeah.
[03:12–03:16] It will come out my god. It's the episode. It's going to come out really early. Mexican time. I have to get up and listen.
[03:16–03:22] Maybe there and Wednesday will it arrive on Wednesday? No, I arrive on Tuesday. Oh, because you go back in time. Don't you? Sorry.
[03:22–03:29] Oh, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Wait, wait, wait, wait. Where do you go back in time when you go on holidays? No, you do because because Mexico's five errors behind. No.
[03:29–03:38] So you go back in time. Yeah. I have never heard of it. I feel like that. No. Because I land when I went to New York there last week.
[03:38–03:50] My flight from Ireland was at 11 a.m. and I landed in New York at 1 p.m. But that was definitely two errors. It was five errors. Do you get me? Oh my god. So you actually do try it though? Yeah. Yeah. Well.
[03:50–04:08] Basically, yeah. Is it going to be hot in Mexico in December? Yeah. Does we have? Yeah, it's real. Yeah. But you mean 20th? I think I think 25. Oh, that's a little early though. Yeah. Yeah. It's not like, Sizzling weather. Yeah. It's like. So I'll be sipping on the Margarita lessons that's podcast back. Yeah. She's leaving me for the home on December.
[04:08–04:19] And then we're doing my army after 10 days. As you do. And then Orlando. I didn't like my army when I was there. I didn't get a good feeling about it. I don't know.
[04:19–04:49] I'm kind of half thinking like, will we want to stay in Mexico for a little bit longer? Yeah. I just didn't really like my army. I just thought it was, I don't know. Really? Yeah. It just didn't give me a good like. It's not somewhere ever in my head that I'd be like, oh, back there. No way. And I've never been off. I've never been offered cocaine. So I'm much of my entire life. I'm on the streets. I want to buy it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I just drive. Why it was mad. Oh my god. Orlando was amazing. I've been. Okay. See you back more.
[04:49–05:01] Orlando. Oh, yeah. Okay. That was great. I thought, yeah, I don't know about my army. I was just like, oh, no. I wouldn't run back there. Yeah. Maybe I did it wrong. I don't know. Maybe there was a better way to do it. But Mexico is unbelievable. Yeah.
[05:01–05:18] Yeah. I think it's called the number thing wrong. That's how I'm doing. To loom. To loom. To loom. To loom. It's the right way to say it. I think it's just like another island or another place in another place. It's like an aeroplane. It's like an aeroplane. I don't even recognize it. Well, I will have my nail bought away from the taxi to the hotel. There's a hotel.
[05:18–05:44] It's an aeroplane. No, that's fine. Like where it's definitely fine. I didn't know it was like kidding up right now. We were listening to every last resort once. Yeah, once. Wow. Yeah. And we went to a nightclub and it was a bit dodgy. Yeah. Yeah. But I'm afraid that I'll leave for now.
[05:44–05:47] Did you know you were at the same time with my army?
[05:47–05:48] I didn't know.
[05:48–05:50] I was in January 2020.
[05:50–05:52] Probably Florida.
[05:52–05:56] When we did Cancun, we went, we were living in Toronto at the time.
[05:56–05:58] So wasn't that my army?
[05:58–05:59] We were flying or something.
[05:59–06:00] Ah, 10 for me.
[06:00–06:02] It was something just really quick.
[06:02–06:04] I feel like we didn't have to do that whole thing.
[06:04–06:05] Yeah, yeah.
[06:05–06:08] And for, I'll just probably do that though.
[06:08–06:09] Yeah.
[06:09–06:11] How long did you think you'd need there?
[06:11–06:12] Two weeks.
[06:12–06:13] So.
[06:13–06:14] Really?
[06:14–06:15] Definitely.
[06:15–06:16] We rented a car the last time we were there.
[06:16–06:17] Ah, see I'm not going to drive that.
[06:17–06:18] I don't know.
[06:18–06:19] I'm going to drive that.
[06:19–06:20] I don't know.
[06:20–06:21] I don't know if it's a license.
[06:21–06:22] I've been driving my army.
[06:22–06:23] And I did most of the driving over there actually.
[06:23–06:24] I was really comfortable over there.
[06:24–06:26] And I don't know why we were driving a big four by three.
[06:26–06:27] I was.
[06:27–06:28] A big second.
[06:28–06:29] Yeah.
[06:29–06:30] And I was like, I have to drive over there.
[06:30–06:31] I'm not really.
[06:31–06:32] Oh yeah.
[06:32–06:33] Am I?
[06:33–06:34] Yeah, I think you're a good driver.
[06:34–06:37] Until I absolutely really play every bicyclist on the road.
[06:37–06:38] Jesus.
[06:38–06:40] I just don't know where to go.
[06:40–06:41] Oh god.
[06:41–06:42] I don't know.
[06:42–06:44] But so you don't two weeks in Orlando.
[06:44–06:47] Oh, I don't think I do two weeks, but you'd need two weeks.
[06:47–06:48] Oh yeah.
[06:48–06:49] Like we could have stayed longer to fill in.
[06:49–06:50] So I'm not working.
[06:50–06:51] I think I'm doing six days.
[06:51–06:52] My every six days around.
[06:52–06:53] That's so fun.
[06:53–06:54] Is that enough?
[06:54–06:55] Yeah.
[06:55–06:56] I'm going to send you actually to.
[06:56–06:57] I'm going to want you to vlog.
[06:57–06:58] I want to go to volcano bay.
[06:58–06:59] I remember you're still.
[06:59–07:00] Oh yeah.
[07:00–07:01] Tap the tap.
[07:01–07:02] You get these little wristbands.
[07:02–07:03] You get these wristbands.
[07:03–07:04] Oh, they look apple watches.
[07:04–07:05] Yeah.
[07:05–07:06] They look more.
[07:06–07:07] Yeah.
[07:07–07:08] They look more.
[07:08–07:09] You can tap like to.
[07:09–07:10] If you want to buy a team.
[07:10–07:12] To behave and the lazy river in volcano bay.
[07:12–07:13] Oh my god.
[07:13–07:15] I think we stayed in a for like an hour and a half.
[07:15–07:16] It's so nice.
[07:16–07:17] Oh my god.
[07:17–07:18] Yes.
[07:18–07:19] For them.
[07:19–07:20] I love it.
[07:20–07:21] Oh no.
[07:21–07:22] For a long time.
[07:22–07:23] But then come home.
[07:23–07:25] Like I'd love to do like a few months over there.
[07:25–07:26] I would love it.
[07:26–07:27] Like if.
[07:27–07:28] Yeah, I don't.
[07:28–07:29] I don't think one's actually in Boston.
[07:29–07:30] Is you?
[07:30–07:31] Yeah.
[07:31–07:32] I have an uncle living in Florida.
[07:32–07:33] Yeah.
[07:33–07:34] And he's just living his best life.
[07:34–07:35] I know.
[07:35–07:36] Every time he's on the phone to my dad.
[07:36–07:37] And he says another day in paradise.
[07:37–07:38] And I'm like, oh.
[07:38–07:40] I think America is very different culturally.
[07:40–07:41] You think they're not but they are.
[07:41–07:42] Oh, you're such a food.
[07:42–07:43] Oh yeah.
[07:43–07:44] Oh my god.
[07:44–07:45] I'm not mad on the food.
[07:45–07:46] It's nice, right?
[07:46–07:47] But then.
[07:47–07:48] Could you eat every day?
[07:48–07:49] No.
[07:49–07:50] Get a fight.
[07:50–07:51] You could.
[07:51–07:52] Yeah.
[07:52–07:53] No.
[07:53–07:55] Because the food in Toronto is kind of more or less.
[07:55–07:56] Here.
[07:56–07:57] Yeah.
[07:57–07:58] So.
[07:58–07:59] I love the snacks.
[07:59–08:00] The American snacks.
[08:00–08:01] No.
[08:01–08:02] Guay, the milk.
[08:02–08:03] The beef jerky.
[08:03–08:04] Cheetos.
[08:04–08:05] Oh my god.
[08:05–08:06] Oh, I got flamin' out.
[08:06–08:07] Cheetos.
[08:07–08:09] I like the original Cheetos.
[08:09–08:10] Isn't it so weird?
[08:10–08:11] My mouth actually warring.
[08:11–08:12] I hate cheese.
[08:12–08:13] But I love Cheetos.
[08:13–08:14] I love cheese strings.
[08:14–08:15] I love easy singles.
[08:15–08:16] They're fakes.
[08:16–08:17] They're fakes.
[08:17–08:18] Cheetos.
[08:18–08:19] Fake.
[08:19–08:20] I hate reeds.
[08:20–08:21] Reeds.
[08:21–08:22] Reeds.
[08:22–08:23] They're strong.
[08:23–08:24] It does something that fell out your bum.
[08:24–08:25] I don't like it.
[08:25–08:26] It does.
[08:26–08:27] It depends on what type of cheetos you get.
[08:27–08:28] But, um, no, I love cheetos.
[08:28–08:30] But it gives me very bad stomach problems.
[08:30–08:31] Problems.
[08:31–08:32] I do your problem.
[08:32–08:33] Yes, cheers.
[08:33–08:36] So, what you tell you is a segment we do every week.
[08:36–08:37] If you're new here.
[08:37–08:42] So, if you're in for like a bit of drama, like scandal or madness,
[08:42–08:45] basically something that someone pop in the wheelchair.
[08:45–08:50] Um, and because this week is an about influencers and about our careers basically,
[08:50–08:53] I thought I'd do a little story about my first event.
[08:53–08:57] As an influencer, I kind of get an in the industry and all that kind of thing.
[08:57–09:00] So, I went to my first event when I had...
[09:00–09:05] I think 10,000 followers. It was. And I remember getting invited and I was like, oh,
[09:05–09:09] enough to, like, cannot wait. I didn't know what it didn't know anyone at that point.
[09:09–09:15] I feel like back then there was a less, what's the word, like saturation? Like maybe less
[09:15–09:19] bloggers in general. Yeah, that were especially smaller ones. They're definitely there's way
[09:19–09:25] more now 100% so I was like, oh my god, I'm going to go. So warm these little like pink
[09:25–09:30] are we show this? And then it was called grey. So dressed like the color of the blue.
[09:30–09:37] Oh, dude. And then a black, um, black body suit and black heels. I remember walked in and
[09:37–09:40] I was like, come on, I don't know. So I walked right up to this girl that I actually
[09:40–09:45] still talk to now. And I was like, I don't know anyone so can I just tell you? And she
[09:45–09:50] was so nice. We were just on your own. I still don't like on place. I don't think I do
[09:50–09:55] that now. I don't know. I hate going to events on my own. I hate hate hate hate.
[09:55–09:59] Yeah, it is nerve wrecking. It just, uh, but then when you're in it, it's fine, but
[09:59–10:02] I, it's the initial walk and in thinking of it. Yeah. That's why I like when brands invite
[10:02–10:05] you to things in there, like you can bring someone if you want. Yeah. Doesn't have to be
[10:05–10:10] another blogger person like, I bring my mom to so much. Oh, yeah. And she loves it. But
[10:10–10:14] it's nice to always have that option. Yeah. If you were a bit nervous going around that
[10:14–10:17] you could bring that. That is there. Yeah, exactly. And then there's my dress like a
[10:17–10:23] tambourine. I was coach at a event. And I remember there were doing something there
[10:23–10:27] or doing like a demo on stage and they were having a fixed surprise for everyone here.
[10:27–10:31] I was like, Oh my god. I'm going to go challenge. Oh my god. You did. No, in my head, I was
[10:31–10:36] thinking I always think that like the best ever, which is bad sometimes. Like remember my
[10:36–10:41] mom dad texted me. She left down a lot. Yeah. No, they texted me and I was coming back
[10:41–10:44] from home. They said, I think I'm going to go for the day or something. I'm around
[10:44–10:47] that bow text and separately be like, when are you coming home? And I was like, Oh my god,
[10:47–10:54] I'm going to have a puppy. I'm grieving. Oh god. I would have asked someone to join. And
[10:54–11:00] I was like, she was like, that's just the difference about it too. I'm not allowed to see
[11:00–11:03] what you were. They wanted to see my thing because they were going away. So I was like,
[11:03–11:09] for fun. I'm getting a puppy. But yeah, that was my first little event. And I think it
[11:09–11:15] went on for where I was. I said it to girls then. And I felt like from there, though, that's
[11:15–11:20] when my career took off. But like, once you're seeing it, I get it makes people like take
[11:20–11:23] a bit more seriously. My mom always says, anytime I'm invited to something because some
[11:23–11:26] of this stuff you're invited to, like, it just wouldn't be your cup of tea. Some of the
[11:26–11:31] things I'm like, Oh, I don't know. I was like, go, it's good for your reputation. You
[11:31–11:36] see. But it's also not good to see it at every. No, I don't think. No, it's a bit like
[11:36–11:40] not leechy, but like, I don't know something about. I'm just like, yeah, who do you actually
[11:40–11:43] support? You're going to every time they can have a reason. It's like when someone goes
[11:43–11:49] to someone else for their stuff all the time, like, be each other. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
[11:49–11:52] like every week. Oh, different. And you're like, that's not the, but you're saying that's
[11:52–11:56] the best person. And then next week, this is the best person. Yeah. I mean, she was
[11:56–11:59] like, not sure if some of them were there. There's so many events on December. I'm so
[11:59–12:05] devastated. You're on your hunt goat. Oh, this is December. Oh, it is, isn't it? Yeah.
[12:05–12:13] There's actually too many. But yeah, that was my first little event.
[12:13–12:17] Curely. Wait, what was the surprise that they had for you? Oh, it was just a bottle of
[12:17–12:21] to coat, a bottle. So they changed the bottle and purpose of folks say, oh, you're a
[12:21–12:29] fucking pink. I dressed like the bottle and broke and they changed it. Okay, so for German
[12:29–12:33] word of the week, this week, you can clearly tell this is not sharding. Some people get
[12:33–12:41] mixed up. I heard yeah. I know. That's what you said. Why my Google maps? Anyway, we're
[12:41–12:45] going to switch things off this week. And I'm going to try and say something in German.
[12:45–12:49] Okay. Yeah. So we're still going to learn anyway. Yeah. Of course. We're just going
[12:49–12:55] to try and flip the script for a little minute. But do you want to say like a sentence that
[12:55–13:00] I'll write in and then I'll try and say it? You tell me it in English. Oh, sorry. Yes.
[13:00–13:07] In English, yeah. I was like in German. You could say I really enjoy recording my podcast.
[13:07–13:14] Google, you try to learn how sentence is German words of the week. Yeah. I really enjoy recording
[13:14–13:25] my podcast. Recording my podcast. Okay. Are you ready? How do you pronounce the B thing
[13:25–13:32] again? That's the word. Right. I'll just give it a go. If I can't let me just enjoy it.
[13:32–13:46] Let's listen to what Google translate says. It is okay. Let's try again. If I can use
[13:46–13:55] it. Oh, Ganesh. Yeah. Ganesh is my name podcast. What's the name? Name and name.
[13:55–14:01] Name and name. Name and name. Ganesh is my name podcast. I'm so name. Now you say it.
[14:01–14:10] Ganesh is my name podcast. I'm so name and name. I'm German in here. Yeah. We can have a sentence
[14:10–14:17] or a listener. So anybody wants to repeat that. You love people in the car and I'll repeat trying to repeat.
[14:17–14:25] Yeah. I know. So say it out loud. Yeah. That was the name. That was the name. And what's that
[14:25–14:33] mean? To record. Also record. Yeah. I like that word. Yeah. Thank you. But we're going to go into
[14:33–14:38] our questions again. Yeah. That we had for the last time. So someone said, do you ever
[14:38–14:43] get anxious to do and everyday things due to how many people know you guys never know
[14:43–14:48] because I don't realize that people know me. Yeah. I'm like, I didn't mention around,
[14:48–14:52] walking around, like, I'm wondering if I feel not then someone's like, oh my God, I'm
[14:52–14:55] like, what? I'm like, my man. People could be looking at me like, and I'm like, I'm
[14:55–15:00] worried more than I would. Really? Like you're going out like that. Yeah. If I went out, I'll
[15:00–15:04] lead up to my eyeballs every day. So I don't need to be doing myself like an injustices.
[15:04–15:09] Yes. I agree. I don't. I'm not like that. So you'd actually make yourself insecure.
[15:09–15:14] I remember me and I used to be cautious smoke and actually, I'd you know what I get there?
[15:14–15:18] Yeah. I used to be a bit dodged smoking. Yeah. I remember I was in Diva one like, like,
[15:18–15:24] there's her lung over Diva and Carnot text me saying, your smoke and I was like, yeah,
[15:24–15:28] well, like, he knew I, like, smoke when I drink. And I was like, yeah, why? And he was like,
[15:28–15:32] someone's after sending me a picture of you having a smoke and I was like, that is so weird.
[15:32–15:37] It's hell. I knew like, as if he'd never knew or something. As if it was going to cause chaos,
[15:37–15:40] he was like, he found it weird. He was like, you're having a smoke like I can see.
[15:40–15:43] You're kind of thinking I was like, what? He's like, yeah, someone's after sending me a picture of you.
[15:43–15:46] So I used to be cautious smoking. I'm not talking about it. No, I'm not talking about it.
[15:46–15:49] No. That's just some people dealing. Yeah. And then it's your choice.
[15:49–15:52] Other than that, no. I don't think there's anything that I can do. Me and Diana went to the
[15:52–15:57] drive, she was in a day with two, two was addressing me as, I wrote a sick, listen.
[15:57–16:01] But now I don't think so. No. But it's helpful. You're everything someone doing like a double take.
[16:01–16:04] Oh yeah. When you know that they know who you are.
[16:04–16:06] I don't think. And yeah. Yeah. And they try to make it really early.
[16:06–16:10] I feel like I don't know. It's much like my friends would know it was before I would.
[16:10–16:13] Yeah. So just if I met with someone that I haven't really been before, I feel like Jesus.
[16:13–16:17] Where's everyone looking? I said, I'm like, I don't, I ran a first-minute down.
[16:17–16:19] No. Don't know. It was like what do people pop up or say?
[16:19–16:22] Because they obviously recognize it. And I'm like, I don't really.
[16:22–16:26] I don't really take this. No. No. This is not a question.
[16:26–16:31] It's like a, I don't know. When influencers not you, it's try too hard to be perfect.
[16:31–16:35] Example too much filter act posh and per slips.
[16:35–16:37] Per slips. Per slips. Like, what's that?
[16:37–16:38] Oh, like how? Yeah.
[16:38–16:39] Kisses.
[16:39–16:40] Um.
[16:40–16:44] I love a good filter. That just follow filter.
[16:44–16:47] But I think I think we all put on a lit what's called?
[16:47–16:50] I put on a work accent. It's like a work style.
[16:50–16:54] Yeah. Your phone voice. You know how everybody's parent has a parent.
[16:54–16:57] Oh my God. Yeah. My mom's is so full. Yeah. I'm saying.
[16:57–17:01] Everybody has that phone, boy sir. If you've ever worked in a job where you had to even use a phone.
[17:01–17:03] Yeah. You have that boy. Yeah.
[17:03–17:08] So I do find myself sometimes if I look back on things, I'm like, why are you trying so hard to pronounce you?
[17:08–17:10] Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Your words.
[17:10–17:13] Especially for a page. You want to be professional.
[17:13–17:14] Yeah. Of course.
[17:14–17:18] There's an aspect of it that you have to, you want to just try and be your best self.
[17:18–17:23] Yeah. So I think when you're just chatting on your stories regularly, like you're just, you know, not no worries.
[17:23–17:26] But like you're just kind of relaxing or relaxed obviously.
[17:26–17:28] Yeah. You're not thinking of what to say next. Yeah.
[17:28–17:35] When it's a hard work, I feel like so I the voice thing I do get sometimes like and hopefully it's not too bad if I ever do do that too much.
[17:35–17:38] What do you think? Do you use filters? Yeah.
[17:38–17:41] You know, always though. Not always, but I know.
[17:41–17:43] You know, over go boomerang filter when you're all done up.
[17:43–17:46] Yeah. So do I. I do like that. I do use it sometimes.
[17:46–17:50] I do. I found when I stopped using filters, I felt was right by myself.
[17:51–17:56] Did you? Because when I sat when I was using them, I'd be like, put you in a building and then we'll go off for a second.
[17:56–17:57] Like, oh my god. Ew.
[17:57–18:00] And I was like, oh my god. This filter actually make me fit.
[18:00–18:04] it like, but I took me in, it was making me feel bad without it then.
[18:04–18:07] So I just stopped, I was like I'm gonna culture.
[18:07–18:09] No, I don't rely on them, no I'm gonna put a bit of Paris.
[18:09–18:12] If I don't do a film, I'm sorry I'm gonna do a bit of Paris just to kind of,
[18:12–18:17] just to smooth everything, if I don't feel my best for, I don't know.
[18:17–18:22] Maybe I think I have it in my head, my DMs will be even more dry.
[18:22–18:24] If I stop too much.
[18:24–18:26] No, good Christ.
[18:26–18:30] But I think some of them like alter your face so much.
[18:30–18:33] No, I don't, I think there's different ones that, you know, the ones that like give you,
[18:33–18:34] give you big lips.
[18:34–18:35] Give you big lips.
[18:35–18:37] Yeah, like I don't like them.
[18:37–18:39] I like the ones that just give a color to the screen.
[18:39–18:42] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, a gray retro car.
[18:42–18:45] Yeah, you know, while those ones, it just gives a bit of a, those ones I kind of like.
[18:45–18:49] Yeah, but there's some that are like, that I'm sure make people end up getting serious
[18:49–18:50] or like that.
[18:50–18:51] Like that's so weird.
[18:51–18:53] Definitely, like 110%.
[18:53–18:54] Is it?
[18:54–18:58] And someone asked what's the worst hay come into you ever gotten?
[18:58–19:03] Um, I don't think it's ever like, I feel like I've been called everything under the
[19:03–19:04] sun.
[19:04–19:06] So yeah, that would be a big problem.
[19:06–19:10] It's actually like fat, ugly, or shit, makeup, you're like none of that really bothers me
[19:10–19:11] anymore.
[19:11–19:15] But I think I know you're going to agree with me on this when it's to do with somebody
[19:15–19:16] who is.
[19:16–19:17] Oh, thank you.
[19:17–19:21] When it was torn on my family and I was told like that my family were going to be murdered.
[19:21–19:25] Like they were going to like, just imagine when, when that started.
[19:25–19:26] Yeah.
[19:26–19:27] That was probably the worst part of it.
[19:27–19:30] Yeah, anything about me, I couldn't give a shite any shot.
[19:30–19:32] Yeah, I really don't care.
[19:32–19:33] Yeah.
[19:33–19:34] No.
[19:34–19:37] Have you ever been scammed by a brand or company?
[19:37–19:39] Um, scammed.
[19:39–19:43] Um, is that the words you use?
[19:43–19:44] Yeah, I suppose.
[19:44–19:50] Anyway, I don't know if I'd called scammed, but at one point some brands will take too long
[19:50–19:51] to pay.
[19:51–19:53] Oh, that's an advantage of you.
[19:53–19:54] Oh, yeah.
[19:54–19:56] I almost ate too long to pay because they're meant to be 30 days.
[19:56–19:57] Is it?
[19:57–19:59] It's in a contract that has to be 30 days.
[19:59–20:01] Yeah, but usually on your invoice, it's 30 days.
[20:01–20:02] Really?
[20:02–20:03] Yeah.
[20:03–20:07] Do you feel you're authentic as to who you are when you're working as an influencer?
[20:07–20:08] Yeah.
[20:08–20:09] I think so.
[20:09–20:10] I think that's a lot to think so.
[20:10–20:11] Yeah.
[20:11–20:17] And I think that's just a, that's a, a benefit to the job that you can be yourself and
[20:17–20:18] be.
[20:18–20:19] That's true.
[20:19–20:20] That's true.
[20:20–20:21] That's true.
[20:21–20:22] Yeah.
[20:22–20:23] Was that a good way to do it?
[20:23–20:24] That's very true.
[20:24–20:26] But, um, I think, Jeremy's, no, was anyone who's not authentic?
[20:26–20:27] Yeah.
[20:27–20:28] Because bottom line.
[20:28–20:29] Yeah.
[20:29–20:30] Yeah.
[20:30–20:31] It's bottom line.
[20:31–20:32] It's definitely in the job.
[20:32–20:35] I feel like that's the bad thing about one person, like one negative of his dad.
[20:35–20:37] Once one person does something wrong.
[20:37–20:38] Everybody is paying to be the same.
[20:38–20:39] Like the same brush.
[20:39–20:40] Yes.
[20:40–20:41] Yeah.
[20:41–20:44] Do you still get that Sunday night fear before another week of work?
[20:44–20:45] No.
[20:45–20:46] No.
[20:46–20:47] I love my job, my life.
[20:47–20:48] I love what I do.
[20:48–20:50] I miss working with people.
[20:50–20:51] Yeah.
[20:51–20:52] Yeah.
[20:52–20:53] I miss the way people were in Macature today actually.
[20:53–20:56] And the two of us were just like, because the bulk of us worked.
[20:56–20:57] And the counter after that time.
[20:57–20:58] Yeah.
[20:58–20:59] That's true.
[20:59–21:02] So, um, the two of us were just like, oh, you missed the boards this time of year, especially
[21:02–21:03] working on a counter.
[21:03–21:04] Yeah.
[21:04–21:05] Very fun.
[21:05–21:07] But it's like you only remember the good times they go after breakup.
[21:07–21:08] I mean, it is about the high light.
[21:08–21:12] You just fight on counter one day to be the part of sitting like, yeah.
[21:12–21:13] Yeah.
[21:13–21:14] We had a fight.
[21:14–21:15] I was her trainer.
[21:15–21:19] She came in after me and I was her, um, I was the trainer of the store.
[21:19–21:20] I was the trainer.
[21:20–21:22] So I was training them all on makeup one day and like, she's my sister.
[21:22–21:23] We're going to fight for folks.
[21:23–21:27] The two of us were killing each other on counter.
[21:27–21:30] We went, she stormed off and I went to the bathroom and we were killing each other up in
[21:30–21:31] the bathroom.
[21:31–21:34] And because the two of us had in got, yeah, Lanier, it's on.
[21:34–21:35] Yeah.
[21:35–21:38] They went, somebody passed them by or somebody was going on the counter.
[21:38–21:39] Oh, you weren't actually on the counter.
[21:39–21:42] No, somebody that was in the bathroom with us went down to the counter and reported to
[21:42–21:47] the manager like, there's two, two employees up there like fight with each other.
[21:47–21:48] They shouldn't be representing the brand like that.
[21:48–21:49] No.
[21:49–21:51] And my manager has to like, oh, that was to their sisters.
[21:51–21:52] Like, take no notes.
[21:52–21:53] They're actually sisters.
[21:53–21:54] Oh my god.
[21:54–21:55] The fact that someone actually won that.
[21:55–21:56] Where it is.
[21:56–21:57] The yikes.
[21:57–22:00] Someone said, do you find it overwhelming?
[22:00–22:01] Yes.
[22:01–22:02] Yeah, it can be.
[22:02–22:04] Yeah, especially at Black Friday.
[22:04–22:06] And you're painting your face there.
[22:06–22:07] Yeah, it's kind of, it can be.
[22:07–22:10] You can, there's just so much things to think of all the time.
[22:10–22:11] I forget.
[22:11–22:12] Why didn't I have my last name?
[22:12–22:13] I'd be absolutely fucked.
[22:13–22:14] Yeah.
[22:14–22:16] And still, I thought I'd have to, but I'm still absolutely fucked.
[22:16–22:18] I just leave everything to the last minute.
[22:18–22:19] There's a lot.
[22:19–22:22] Yeah, because especially with all the different channels that you have like, you have to take
[22:22–22:23] to our Instagram YouTube.
[22:23–22:26] But like, you always have to think of something.
[22:26–22:28] There's something, something you have to think of.
[22:28–22:29] Yeah.
[22:29–22:33] And also the amount of items that we have is out around.
[22:33–22:34] It's super.
[22:34–22:35] Yeah.
[22:35–22:36] It's ridiculous.
[22:36–22:39] Do you find it hard on my cell that you can't unwind properly because of the public
[22:39–22:40] know you?
[22:40–22:41] I still do.
[22:41–22:42] Yeah.
[22:42–22:45] I feel like, why shouldn't you?
[22:45–22:46] Yeah.
[22:46–22:48] I still end up on the island on the floor.
[22:48–22:49] Wait, your nickers, then.
[22:49–22:50] Yeah.
[22:50–22:51] Not like that.
[22:51–22:52] No, not like that.
[22:52–22:54] I don't think there's any nickers around the ankles in New York in my room.
[22:54–22:55] No, I feel good.
[22:55–22:56] Yeah.
[22:56–22:57] I don't think you'd enjoy yourself if you went to it.
[22:57–22:59] Like, there's a level to it as well.
[22:59–23:04] Like, I feel like, I don't, like obviously we're now in the job that we're in, but I'd never
[23:04–23:09] seen myself as like, like, surely those people in Ireland who can't go on like to, like,
[23:09–23:12] yeah, and really, really let loose because of who they are.
[23:12–23:13] Yeah.
[23:13–23:16] I feel like I think our sheepler more reserved than maybe other countries though.
[23:16–23:20] I don't want to come up as much to think as it like, if there's a big celebrity going
[23:20–23:21] out in Ireland.
[23:21–23:22] Oh, yeah, yeah.
[23:22–23:23] Not do you think?
[23:23–23:24] Yeah.
[23:24–23:25] They were just very a bit more to themselves.
[23:25–23:27] They were going to go out in Ireland maybe out of pride or something.
[23:27–23:28] I don't know.
[23:28–23:34] And next one is, do you not worry that you are as promote fast fashion that's unsustainable
[23:34–23:36] and killing our planet?
[23:36–23:41] I actually do know what, to be honest, at the last, like couple months I genuinely, I
[23:41–23:44] said, I remember I said to you today, about rewearing yourself or something.
[23:44–23:48] I was saying I'm just concerned, like I just have, I've been certain because I think
[23:48–23:51] before, it's really easy to be ignorant to it and say, well, that's just my point.
[23:51–23:59] I think I'm really starting to think about what I can do and maybe my future collapse,
[23:59–24:02] what I will do, what I won't do, what I can do to help.
[24:02–24:08] Yeah, because I scared, as in Glasgow for, see my agency, my management's over there,
[24:08–24:09] and COP26 was on.
[24:09–24:14] That's like the world meeting of all the world leaders and like the United States, I was
[24:14–24:18] there in Oxford, he was a volunteer environmental thing, environmental things.
[24:18–24:22] They were all there and we went this thing and there was a girl walking through the crowd
[24:22–24:26] and it was like a big statue of a girl and she's carrying around a tree behind her and
[24:26–24:31] she travels from like Greece, they brought her all the way through Europe up to Glasgow
[24:31–24:37] and the tree was like her, it was the end of the world and she's finding a place to plant
[24:37–24:38] the tree or something.
[24:38–24:42] And it really, I don't know, like proper, like shock me or something like that, like folk
[24:42–24:46] and apparently if you don't change anything in the next seven years, the world's going
[24:46–24:49] to be irreversibly damaged and think that's scary.
[24:49–24:50] Oh no.
[24:50–24:52] Yeah, seven years so we have like...
[24:52–24:53] Jesus Christ.
[24:53–24:55] I had three days to be like, oh well I won't be around then but I'll be around there and
[24:55–24:57] like imagine the world is ending like...
[24:57–25:00] I'm definitely not very conscious with it which is very bad.
[25:00–25:05] But I was like, I wasn't though, but it's like when I seen that it was like folk.
[25:05–25:13] I think like I'm on one hand of it I think as bad as it is and this is not an excuse
[25:13–25:18] for it as bad as it is, fast-session is always going to be around.
[25:18–25:19] It always will be around.
[25:19–25:22] That's not an excuse to be promoting it and stuff but...
[25:22–25:25] Um, another hand then it's our job.
[25:25–25:29] Like I wouldn't, I definitely don't, since I'm doing this job I definitely don't buy
[25:29–25:34] half as much clothes as I used to because of the fact that it is a job and I get them
[25:34–25:36] anyway, not get them anyway but like...
[25:36–25:37] Yeah.
[25:37–25:40] I don't feel the need to go out and spend so much because I already have so much or
[25:40–25:44] I'll try and keep what I've had more and reuse and stuff.
[25:44–25:45] Yeah, yeah.
[25:45–25:47] Because I was always a big shopper anyway.
[25:47–25:48] Yeah.
[25:48–25:50] So I don't think the job has made me get much more.
[25:50–25:53] Do you remember being younger and buying an outfit for a weekend and never ever wearing
[25:53–25:54] it again?
[25:54–25:55] Yeah.
[25:55–25:56] You were like, I'm not being seen in that.
[25:56–25:57] Yeah, yeah.
[25:57–26:02] But it's definitely something I need to be more conscious of but I also do think that
[26:02–26:05] it is just going to be a factor in the influence of war.
[26:05–26:08] And also there's, I think it's not right to assume...
[26:08–26:09] Yeah, I'm a more...
[26:09–26:10] More of a factor.
[26:10–26:11] Yeah, like a lot of the boobs.
[26:11–26:12] Well, they have to.
[26:12–26:13] They have to.
[26:13–26:14] Is really the same.
[26:14–26:16] Yeah, but what did you say you don't think it's fair?
[26:16–26:18] People like fashion impenses for...
[26:18–26:19] For road and everything.
[26:19–26:21] Yeah, because it's also a thing that happens gradually.
[26:21–26:23] You don't have to drop all your contractual.
[26:23–26:24] Yeah.
[26:24–26:26] But like, I think it's a gradual thing.
[26:26–26:28] I also think you don't know what's happening behind scenes.
[26:28–26:30] Someone's like how sale there in other ways.
[26:30–26:31] Yeah, sure.
[26:31–26:33] You don't know what else they're doing.
[26:33–26:34] Do you ever cycle in the home?
[26:34–26:35] God, yeah.
[26:35–26:36] Do you separate bins and all?
[26:36–26:37] Yeah.
[26:37–26:38] I feel like we're in an all.
[26:38–26:39] I'm like, we're all at the same time.
[26:39–26:40] I don't use it.
[26:40–26:41] It makes us sick.
[26:41–26:42] It has under the sink and this...
[26:42–26:43] Yeah.
[26:43–26:44] I'm not such an apothecary thing.
[26:44–26:45] But you know, I mean, a lot of stuff like that.
[26:45–26:46] Yeah.
[26:46–26:47] Or like reusing the water.
[26:47–26:49] I just think there's other ways to help as well.
[26:49–26:50] As well.
[26:50–26:52] And don't bash someone just because you see them from out to life.
[26:52–26:55] So, a fashion brand, you know?
[26:55–26:56] Yeah.
[26:56–26:59] And also, I know people say that influence is the ones dealing with
[26:59–27:00] like, it's also normal.
[27:00–27:04] I know we're fully influencing them too, but also we're not.
[27:04–27:06] Yeah, because not everyone, they're going to do that.
[27:06–27:08] I mean, if we show or not.
[27:08–27:10] Yeah, but I think we definitely do.
[27:10–27:14] I want to take more responsibility for definitely in 2022.
[27:14–27:15] It's a goal.
[27:15–27:15] Wait, is it?
[27:15–27:16] Yeah.
[27:16–27:16] Yeah.
[27:16–27:17] Yeah.
[27:17–27:22] And there was a question the last time the first part that we did
[27:22–27:23] of this topic.
[27:23–27:26] And it was basically just saying like numbers aren't a huge.
[27:26–27:28] Numbers shouldn't be a wider.
[27:28–27:33] Why do you want to say that numbers aren't a big deal, but then they get the 100k balloons
[27:33–27:35] and they hit 100k or whatever.
[27:35–27:38] Because I think it's important as well as numbers not being your main focus.
[27:38–27:40] It's also important to celebrate yourself.
[27:40–27:41] Yeah.
[27:41–27:42] You're absolutely allowed.
[27:42–27:43] There's nothing wrong.
[27:43–27:46] Whether it's 5k or 500k or one follower.
[27:46–27:48] It doesn't matter what it is.
[27:48–27:51] Like, celebrating little milestones in your career.
[27:51–27:52] If it is your career.
[27:52–27:53] Yeah.
[27:53–27:54] It's absolutely loud.
[27:54–27:55] And just because you've celebrated something,
[27:55–27:57] doesn't mean it's your whole life.
[27:57–27:58] No, yeah.
[27:58–28:01] That person basically saying that you're saying it's not about that, but then you're happy
[28:01–28:02] about it.
[28:02–28:07] That's like me saying your job isn't that important to you, but then you get a new, you
[28:07–28:08] like you get a raise.
[28:08–28:09] Yeah.
[28:09–28:10] And then you're happy.
[28:10–28:11] You celebrate.
[28:11–28:12] Yeah.
[28:12–28:13] It's like why you celebrate and I don't like it.
[28:13–28:14] Yeah.
[28:14–28:15] You said you didn't really like it though.
[28:15–28:16] Like, you're still allowed.
[28:16–28:19] Like, I know people can, people, I'd say people get the if looking at another number of
[28:19–28:20] people are like, yeah.
[28:20–28:22] I don't have them having their moment.
[28:22–28:26] Let me have I got slated on Twitter for getting my 30k balloons.
[28:26–28:31] And remember, it was actually even worse because I was having a really shit like time
[28:31–28:32] at that time.
[28:32–28:33] It was like a couple of weeks.
[28:33–28:34] I was just really sad.
[28:34–28:35] That's what I mean.
[28:35–28:38] I really said to me that she was like, you were so sad that we, we got her mammoth, she
[28:38–28:39] helped them for her surprise.
[28:39–28:41] And I put them up being I'll have something without.
[28:41–28:43] So it felt nice like for every.
[28:43–28:44] Try yourself.
[28:44–28:45] Yeah.
[28:45–28:47] And then people just rip it down.
[28:47–28:51] I got them for 100k when I came home from Toronto.
[28:51–28:52] Yeah.
[28:52–28:53] Yeah.
[28:53–28:55] Is that bother someone getting a life?
[28:55–28:56] I don't follow it.
[28:56–29:01] Like just like, honestly, if someone's happiness in any, in the amount or what they do, that's
[29:01–29:02] not hurt anyone.
[29:02–29:03] Yeah.
[29:03–29:06] If that makes you unhappy, that I have looked yourself and makes you an actually physically
[29:06–29:07] annoyed.
[29:07–29:11] It's more about you than a judge the person with, yeah, they, they, they give you cringe
[29:11–29:12] cringe.
[29:12–29:13] That's that's grand.
[29:13–29:14] But like, yeah, we all cringe.
[29:14–29:17] Yeah, we all cringe at things, but like, I think it's nice to just create like, like,
[29:17–29:18] it's not that.
[29:18–29:19] It's not that.
[29:19–29:20] It's a really bad thing.
[29:20–29:21] It's not that.
[29:21–29:22] And life's too short.
[29:22–29:23] I know.
[29:23–29:24] I've been laughing over celebrate.
[29:24–29:28] It not sound more, but what like, you know, you never know what they're up for.
[29:28–29:29] No.
[29:29–29:30] So celebrate everything we can.
[29:30–29:31] Like, it's weird.
[29:31–29:32] Yeah.
[29:32–29:35] And it's, I think that's a good note to end this Q&A on.
[29:35–29:36] Yes.
[29:36–29:37] Life's too short.
[29:37–29:38] People is.
[29:38–29:40] Do what the fuck you want.
[29:40–29:45] So we are doing our secrets from the stall segment, which is by seeing your dilemmas, confessions,
[29:45–29:47] secrets, whatever you want.
[29:47–29:48] Help with.
[29:48–29:49] We're not byable.
[29:49–29:50] Like we always say.
[29:50–29:51] God knows.
[29:51–29:52] Yes.
[29:52–29:56] But since they're so popular and since we're gotten literally more and more in each week,
[29:56–29:58] we decided to do a little extended version, please.
[29:58–30:00] So we have so do I.
[30:00–30:01] It's so insane.
[30:01–30:02] I feel like a bad therapist.
[30:02–30:03] Yeah.
[30:03–30:04] An awful therapist.
[30:04–30:05] I find it so juicy.
[30:05–30:06] Yeah.
[30:06–30:09] And I love seeing all different issues of people have all the different things.
[30:09–30:10] And I hope we actually help people.
[30:10–30:11] I hope we help ourselves.
[30:11–30:17] Like I think some of these things like when I hear myself given advice, I'm like, bitch,
[30:17–30:19] take your own advice too.
[30:19–30:20] It's so easy to give it.
[30:20–30:21] It is.
[30:21–30:22] Yeah.
[30:22–30:26] I hope you know it's a little extended version.
[30:26–30:30] And as always, I'll have them up every week for you to send them in.
[30:30–30:31] So we're going to get rid of them.
[30:31–30:36] So first of all, we have red flags from a boy after only talking for a few weeks.
[30:36–30:41] I think by this she means she's getting red flags from boy and what do you do after only
[30:41–30:44] a few weeks if it's starting that early.
[30:44–30:49] Don't don't don't I feel like it's so easy to it's easier said than done to like ditch
[30:49–30:52] them, but like I feel like sometimes it makes it even more like that.
[30:52–30:57] The more sometimes jet me if you're spot rest like you're like a guy.
[30:57–30:58] Yeah.
[30:58–30:59] No, yeah.
[30:59–31:04] Not like that, but like it kind of makes you be like, ah, but maybe like it's just I think
[31:04–31:08] a big thing that we do when we spot red flags is we think we can fix them.
[31:08–31:09] Yeah.
[31:09–31:10] Yeah.
[31:10–31:11] Yeah.
[31:11–31:12] Yeah.
[31:12–31:13] Yeah.
[31:13–31:14] Yeah.
[31:14–31:15] I think girls have.
[31:15–31:16] Yeah.
[31:16–31:17] You want to be the one to like fix him.
[31:17–31:18] Change.
[31:18–31:19] No, fix them.
[31:19–31:20] But like you know what I mean?
[31:20–31:21] Yeah.
[31:21–31:22] Yeah.
[31:22–31:23] And I think that happens.
[31:23–31:24] A leopard never changes.
[31:24–31:26] No, I mean boys need to fix themselves.
[31:26–31:27] Yeah.
[31:27–31:31] And in general people, it's hard to fix them when you have to let them do, but they have
[31:31–31:32] to want to do.
[31:32–31:33] Yeah.
[31:33–31:37] And but I think the first few weeks to be when they're only rest papers of their early
[31:37–31:40] show where flags in the first few weeks, it's probably only going to get worse.
[31:40–31:41] Yeah.
[31:41–31:43] 10 flags are going to keep them here and like.
[31:43–31:44] Yeah.
[31:44–31:46] And I think they definitely.
[31:46–31:48] So I'd say, I wanted to say to them.
[31:48–31:51] I should brought brought them up to him.
[31:51–31:53] I feel like boys that are like that would be like, oh my god, you're crazy.
[31:53–31:57] They just try and pass it off like manipatives of the year.
[31:57–31:58] So I think try.
[31:58–32:02] I think it sounds like you might have bought anything like.
[32:02–32:04] Just don't settle for a book and shout.
[32:04–32:07] Is that your dish or is this really on?
[32:07–32:08] Like is there literally you've seen?
[32:08–32:11] Well, I don't know if they're saying to it or bought a few weeks and it's already.
[32:11–32:14] And we're sure that's probably the easiest time.
[32:14–32:18] Not the easiest time, but like you're not going down a big four year relationship
[32:18–32:20] road on the red flags.
[32:20–32:23] I still have been so I say this is the time to.
[32:23–32:25] And you won't fix them so.
[32:25–32:31] And the next one that we have in is my ex is texting me what he has a girlfriend
[32:31–32:34] that last year and I wronged I want to reply.
[32:34–32:39] I think you're wrong that you want to reply.
[32:39–32:40] No.
[32:40–32:44] I think we want somebody had some sort of a part in your life.
[32:44–32:45] Yeah.
[32:45–32:48] You're wrong that you don't have to be like.
[32:48–32:49] We're blind.
[32:49–32:50] Yeah.
[32:50–32:53] And I think that he's you're obviously going to be curious as to what he wants from you.
[32:53–32:55] Because it's probably texting me and like, Hey, miss you.
[32:55–32:56] Can we talk?
[32:56–32:57] Yeah.
[32:57–32:59] And you're like, obviously you want to be like, OK, tell me.
[32:59–33:02] But do you tell the girlfriend then?
[33:02–33:03] I don't think I would.
[33:03–33:04] It's that.
[33:04–33:05] Does that ever be bad?
[33:05–33:06] I don't think I'd mix him with that.
[33:06–33:07] It's like a new.
[33:07–33:08] Like I wouldn't.
[33:08–33:10] I wouldn't be funny to ask them back.
[33:10–33:13] But I also wouldn't tell the girlfriend that he's been texting me.
[33:13–33:16] Like I wonder is it just harmless?
[33:16–33:17] It's not bad.
[33:17–33:20] Not checking in, but like, yeah, it's not bad.
[33:20–33:22] Yeah, like maybe he wants to just know how you've been.
[33:22–33:23] Yeah.
[33:23–33:27] He's like, I feel like we're saying my ex-text me means more.
[33:27–33:28] Yeah.
[33:28–33:29] Yeah.
[33:29–33:30] No.
[33:30–33:31] Why don't you think you're wrong that you want to reply?
[33:31–33:32] No.
[33:32–33:35] But maybe if I run a chat, like, and if it is just catch up, keep it as just catch up.
[33:35–33:36] Yeah.
[33:36–33:38] Don't let everyone be like, oh, what do you think?
[33:38–33:39] How's your week?
[33:39–33:40] How's your month?
[33:40–33:41] No.
[33:41–33:42] Like, if he's wanting to get in touch to try and like,
[33:42–33:43] wreaking.
[33:43–33:44] Yeah.
[33:44–33:47] Be like, yeah, break up your girlfriend and then come back to me.
[33:47–33:48] Yeah.
[33:48–33:49] And then we'll speak.
[33:49–33:50] Yeah.
[33:50–33:51] No, I don't think you're wrong at all.
[33:51–33:52] No.
[33:52–33:53] I think mostly if we would want to reply.
[33:53–33:54] Yeah.
[33:54–33:55] It's what I call human nature.
[33:55–33:56] Curiosity.
[33:56–33:57] Yeah.
[33:57–33:58] Humanity.
[33:58–33:59] To think.
[33:59–34:00] Yeah.
[34:00–34:01] So no, you're not wrong.
[34:01–34:04] So next up it says, girls, my boyfriend's friend, a girl, is constantly sending a voice
[34:04–34:06] notes and ringing them crying about her problems.
[34:06–34:08] It's like she's using him as an emotional crutch.
[34:08–34:11] It's never bothered me until I actually started affecting his day life.
[34:11–34:14] I know their friends, but he's my boyfriend and I feel like she's crossing the line.
[34:14–34:16] He has a girlfriend.
[34:16–34:19] They were never that close in the first place, but she has a big group of girls around her
[34:19–34:20] to say something.
[34:20–34:25] Oh, it's the fact that it's a certain hit to affect his day life.
[34:25–34:26] That's a surprise.
[34:26–34:27] It must be a lot.
[34:27–34:28] Yeah.
[34:28–34:30] But if she has a big group of girls around her, why is she ringing him?
[34:30–34:31] Him.
[34:31–34:32] Yeah.
[34:32–34:33] That's a lot.
[34:33–34:38] I think the fact that he, the voice notes and the ring and crying is with her problems.
[34:38–34:40] It's not just general, like, friendly.
[34:40–34:41] Cha.
[34:41–34:42] Yeah.
[34:42–34:45] She obviously sees him as an emotional crutch, like the girl said.
[34:45–34:50] I see him as someone to lean on and tell everything to you, but that's not always okay.
[34:50–34:54] Like, I wonder if she's thinking, does she want to look like that type of group of
[34:54–34:59] friends, the Texas, the fellas' friend to say, like, you need to, like, back off.
[34:59–35:01] It's hard as hell if she is going through problems.
[35:01–35:03] That is that what she's bringing up, do you know?
[35:03–35:08] And then, Texan, I think maybe get the boyfriend to say to her.
[35:08–35:09] I feel like, do you know what?
[35:09–35:13] He's got a big boys and is good either as being and emotional crutch as us, as we would
[35:13–35:14] be.
[35:14–35:15] Yeah.
[35:15–35:16] Cha and the girl, the friend, is ringing the crying, like, we're better to deal with it,
[35:16–35:17] whereas it's affecting his life.
[35:17–35:19] I feel like boys find a hard to deal with girls probably.
[35:19–35:20] They don't have a lot of that.
[35:20–35:21] Yeah.
[35:21–35:25] He's probably, like, the fact that it's affecting his daily life.
[35:25–35:27] Because he probably doesn't know what to say.
[35:27–35:28] He probably doesn't.
[35:28–35:29] Yeah.
[35:29–35:30] What does he do?
[35:30–35:31] Yeah.
[35:31–35:32] Yeah, exactly.
[35:32–35:34] They feel kind of like, like, at last with it.
[35:34–35:35] Yeah.
[35:35–35:38] But I think maybe even talking to, I don't know, your friends with his group of girls,
[35:38–35:42] or sorry, her group of girls, but maybe asking me like, how should we talk and do
[35:42–35:43] about these problems?
[35:43–35:46] Like, like, talk to them as if you actually care what you probably do.
[35:46–35:47] Yeah.
[35:47–35:49] Like, care about the girls well, be in a kind of get at that way.
[35:49–35:52] Because if the girls, I'll say, oh no, she's like, she's fine.
[35:52–35:56] Then it's like, why should I tell anyone else apart from him?
[35:56–36:00] Do you know, let's not fare on him or get him to Texan.
[36:00–36:02] the girls as well. That probably would be better option.
[36:02–36:04] Mm. And see. But that's a hard one.
[36:04–36:06] That's a very hard one. Yeah.
[36:06–36:07] Never been in that situation.
[36:07–36:10] I think first of all, try again to say something to the friends.
[36:10–36:12] Oh, yeah, yeah. Or her.
[36:12–36:14] But I think to the friends is the better place to start.
[36:14–36:16] And if the friends say we have heard nothing about it,
[36:16–36:18] then he might say to her and be like, look,
[36:18–36:20] over talking to your friends and they haven't heard about any of this.
[36:20–36:22] I'm just confused as to why you're telling them.
[36:22–36:23] You're telling them all about it.
[36:23–36:24] It sounds selfish, but in a way,
[36:24–36:26] you can have some important everything.
[36:26–36:27] Oh, there are problems.
[36:27–36:28] On you, do you know what I mean?
[36:28–36:30] You carry the burden. You carry it.
[36:30–36:34] Yeah. And so he must be a very empathetic person to feel that way.
[36:34–36:35] Because it's a vexion. Yeah.
[36:35–36:36] Oh, God.
[36:36–36:37] Oh, bless. That's a really hard one.
[36:37–36:38] But yeah, definitely.
[36:38–36:40] What I just said. Yeah.
[36:40–36:43] The next one that we have then is my boyfriend wants to move away
[36:43–36:45] in the summer and is telling me that we won't last.
[36:45–36:47] Do I end it now?
[36:47–36:48] Yes. What a lovely man.
[36:48–36:51] What a dick. Why is he telling you we won't last?
[36:51–36:55] If he's never let a man tell you twice that he does not want you,
[36:55–36:56] I think that's not an exact.
[36:56–36:56] Oh.
[36:56–36:57] There's another way.
[36:57–36:59] He's never let him once tell you that he doesn't want to.
[36:59–37:00] Yeah. Oh, my God. I like that.
[37:00–37:03] Put the fact that he's telling you how we won't last.
[37:03–37:05] Why are you doing that? Why are you with me?
[37:05–37:06] Yeah. Right now.
[37:06–37:07] What you waste my time for.
[37:07–37:09] Does he want you to like back from?
[37:09–37:11] Ew. Ew.
[37:11–37:13] Ew. I've never done that.
[37:13–37:14] I don't know.
[37:14–37:15] I don't know if you're moving away together.
[37:15–37:16] Maybe something else.
[37:16–37:17] No, I think just him.
[37:17–37:18] He's moving on as well.
[37:18–37:19] Yeah. Why is he going?
[37:19–37:22] Maybe it's like a J1.
[37:22–37:22] Feeze.
[37:22–37:23] Can you not bring someone on the J1?
[37:23–37:25] No, I didn't bring one on J1.
[37:25–37:27] Can you go for a long holiday though?
[37:27–37:28] No.
[37:28–37:31] Can you, or you can you graduate for your ZXL which is the year?
[37:31–37:34] You can be moving for a college which is six months or something.
[37:34–37:36] So, could we something like that?
[37:36–37:37] Yeah, I'd end it.
[37:37–37:39] Yeah, I don't, I wouldn't even even be offered.
[37:39–37:40] Don't even move.
[37:40–37:43] The fact is, I think just with more of the fact like,
[37:43–37:44] if that we obviously have no faith.
[37:44–37:49] Yeah, if that was a different way, like if she was coming to us to say like that she's
[37:49–37:52] worried how they're last or whatever, but the fact that she's literally telling us
[37:52–37:54] he told you we won't last.
[37:54–37:56] Yeah. Listen to him.
[37:56–37:58] When someone tells you something, listen to the words.
[37:58–37:59] Oh yeah.
[37:59–38:04] He's telling you what how he feels about his telling you what he thinks and that is fucking
[38:04–38:05] rude.
[38:05–38:06] That is fucking rude.
[38:06–38:07] And you're very better than that.
[38:07–38:08] Oh, you definitely think and that.
[38:08–38:09] Yeah, that's quite a lot.
[38:09–38:10] 110% by.
[38:10–38:11] Bye.
[38:11–38:16] And next one is, Matt and Man, not the best looking but the nicest you whenever it looks really
[38:16–38:17] matter.
[38:17–38:18] Oh.
[38:18–38:22] I like, it's her own sense.
[38:22–38:23] You have to obviously be poor.
[38:23–38:25] Attracted to someone I think.
[38:25–38:31] Like Pete Aves and is like, if I look a man, it's not like you can't think well, maybe
[38:31–38:34] not like you know, but he's a decent of man.
[38:34–38:36] It's like yeah, but look him.
[38:36–38:38] And Ariana Grande can crash it.
[38:38–38:39] I know.
[38:39–38:40] Just shows it looks as never.
[38:40–38:45] Because they both be with the like most unreal person in our world.
[38:45–38:48] But I also don't believe in people that like looks, I don't go for looks.
[38:48–38:49] I go for personality.
[38:49–38:50] No, you big fat lawyer.
[38:50–38:51] Yeah.
[38:51–38:52] Shut up.
[38:52–38:53] You're not going to know.
[38:53–38:55] You can't look at a personality.
[38:55–39:01] If you walked into a room and like you're, you're naturally going to be drawn to the
[39:01–39:02] body that you find attractive.
[39:02–39:05] Yeah, you can't tell the first thing you see.
[39:05–39:06] Yeah, obviously it is.
[39:06–39:12] Obviously, but what I think when someone is like kind and like a nice, just makes them
[39:12–39:13] that makes them.
[39:13–39:15] Yeah, that all grows on you as well.
[39:15–39:18] Because every now we like that, you're like they're not the best, but like they're actually
[39:18–39:20] because they're so nice.
[39:20–39:21] It makes it shine through them.
[39:21–39:22] Yeah, of course.
[39:22–39:23] Yeah, it looks really bar.
[39:23–39:27] Also, when you get old, everyone gets off looking.
[39:27–39:30] We're all going to be wrinkly little balls.
[39:30–39:32] We have no hope, ladies and gentlemen.
[39:32–39:35] No, I mean, the only thing that's, do you know the only thing that says the same is your
[39:35–39:37] eyes when you grow old?
[39:37–39:38] Do they?
[39:38–39:39] Yeah, it's not really nice.
[39:39–39:40] That's just your eye balls.
[39:40–39:41] Just the eye balls.
[39:41–39:42] Just the eye balls.
[39:42–39:44] Also, I'm thinking as well.
[39:44–39:47] No, I just don't know what I was going to say there in my head.
[39:47–39:49] Don't be able to say you can't have sex with personality.
[39:49–39:52] I think I've heard you say that's the same.
[39:52–39:55] Yeah, because you have to be sexually attractive.
[39:55–39:57] Yeah, because I think then it doesn't.
[39:57–40:00] Like you could have a nice look in person and not be sexually attractive.
[40:00–40:03] But say, obviously, what someone is not good looking, not best looking.
[40:03–40:07] But no, I don't think they, I don't know there to be all-end all about it, do you think they
[40:07–40:08] matter in a way?
[40:08–40:09] To an extent.
[40:09–40:10] Yeah, yeah.
[40:10–40:15] Okay, the next one that we have coming in is bad boys and a full stuff.
[40:15–40:16] Why slash why not?
[40:16–40:17] They're never good at it.
[40:17–40:18] They're fucking grey crack.
[40:18–40:19] I would not know.
[40:19–40:20] You know, bad boys.
[40:20–40:21] Why do we like them?
[40:21–40:23] I think it's the whole fix and mentality again.
[40:23–40:28] I think it's the thing of being like, maybe it's that like, if they're like a bit dangerous,
[40:28–40:30] that's like, who do you hang around?
[40:30–40:31] Like, dangerous.
[40:31–40:35] I don't know, I don't think we've actually ever been to bad boys.
[40:35–40:36] What if I'm bad boys?
[40:36–40:39] Well, like, every stage of memory and stuff.
[40:39–40:40] I think it's the same.
[40:40–40:41] I think it's the same.
[40:41–40:45] Maybe it's that like, if they're like a bit dangerous, that's like, who do you hang around?
[40:45–40:46] Every stage of memory and Hannah Montana.
[40:46–40:48] Why do I keep thinking of a man in a letter jacket?
[40:48–40:49] I don't even know.
[40:49–40:50] Yeah, yeah.
[40:50–40:51] I like the men in Greece.
[40:51–40:52] Why yeah, Greece?
[40:52–40:53] Why was Greece and why not?
[40:53–40:54] No, no, no, no, no.
[40:54–40:57] I don't know, I had the fella from Hannah Montana.
[40:57–40:58] That was like the bad boy.
[40:58–41:01] He was like, there was two of them that she couldn't pick between.
[41:01–41:05] But one of them was like, they're always like, okay, aren't they in films now?
[41:05–41:06] Yeah.
[41:06–41:12] They're just the pricks, but you somehow like, why am I not?
[41:12–41:14] I think they're older, I get the less I'd be into that though.
[41:14–41:15] A bad boy?
[41:15–41:16] Yeah.
[41:16–41:17] Do you want movies in your own mood?
[41:17–41:19] Like the bad boy would be like, oh, he's actually a dickhead.
[41:19–41:21] You're actually scared of him.
[41:21–41:22] Yeah, jump in.
[41:22–41:23] And...
[41:23–41:24] I'm thinking of these grey.
[41:24–41:27] Like, I think that, like, what is a bad boy?
[41:27–41:29] I think we all have different...
[41:29–41:30] Yeah, for reasons of it.
[41:30–41:31] Yeah.
[41:31–41:32] What a bad boy is.
[41:32–41:38] I think I'll stand down to get like confidence because somebody is a bad boy.
[41:38–41:41] I feel like we'll be someone who doesn't give a fuck about anything.
[41:41–41:42] Really grills and all that.
[41:42–41:44] And that comes from confidence, I think.
[41:44–41:45] A real break.
[41:45–41:46] A real break.
[41:46–41:49] I said, I'm that come from confidence, so that's where that all comes from.
[41:49–41:50] Yeah.
[41:50–41:51] I think.
[41:51–41:53] I don't think you should ever ask yourself, why not?
[41:53–41:54] Yeah, fuck it.
[41:54–41:55] I have to have every go.
[41:55–41:56] I don't think I'll rest.
[41:56–42:00] So if you want anything at least, you're like, boom.
[42:00–42:03] And don't try to fix them and probably don't be in a long term race with them.
[42:03–42:06] Yeah, probably tell yourself that before or go near them.
[42:06–42:07] Yeah.
[42:07–42:09] That, okay, it'll just probably be a fling.
[42:09–42:11] And usually they're only one fling, something like that.
[42:11–42:14] Yeah, and if that suits you, listen to it.
[42:14–42:15] Absolutely.
[42:15–42:17] Yeah, I wasn't saying that.
[42:17–42:19] Get your bad boy in the room.
[42:19–42:24] The last one then is my ex still calls me and tells me he loves me and misses me.
[42:24–42:25] But why don't text me after I do?
[42:25–42:26] I don't get that.
[42:26–42:27] Is that like you just want to leave a paper?
[42:27–42:29] Try not to just not leave a trace.
[42:29–42:30] That gives me that vibe.
[42:30–42:31] Does it?
[42:31–42:32] Yeah.
[42:32–42:35] Because maybe he has her name under something else in the calls.
[42:35–42:37] Have you ever done that?
[42:37–42:39] What changed someone's name?
[42:40–42:42] I think I did but not for that reason.
[42:42–42:46] I think it was for like, I can't remember why I was doing it for a half.
[42:46–42:47] Yeah.
[42:47–42:48] Not for every, have you?
[42:48–42:49] Yeah.
[42:49–42:50] Change someone's name?
[42:50–42:51] Yeah.
[42:51–42:52] Someone else would think of it.
[42:52–42:53] Yeah.
[42:53–42:54] Okay, is it wrong?
[42:54–42:56] You're like, oh, I couldn't be looking at that now.
[42:56–42:57] Oh, it's changed to just that.
[42:57–42:58] That's good though, because you wouldn't have that in sight.
[42:58–43:01] Yeah, you just hear it ringing and you're the only one that knows who it is.
[43:01–43:02] You bad girl.
[43:02–43:03] Bad girl.
[43:03–43:05] Well, I'm texting.
[43:05–43:07] I think that's so weird.
[43:07–43:08] I think that's really weird.
[43:08–43:11] I wonder if she texts him when he's not going to go out.
[43:11–43:13] Oh, my God, I have crack-crowed.
[43:13–43:19] Well, because you can't prove what someone's got in phone call, but you can screenshot a text message.
[43:19–43:21] Oh, that's that is.
[43:21–43:24] That's honestly, he's actually a smart man.
[43:24–43:26] He is a bad man.
[43:26–43:28] Bad man was a bad man.
[43:28–43:29] That's what it is.
[43:29–43:30] 100%.
[43:30–43:31] Yeah.
[43:31–43:36] Because he obviously wants to tell you love their, but if he sends it in the text, she can go show her friend.
[43:36–43:39] Because he can always deny a phone call.
[43:39–43:40] He's a morgue guy.
[43:40–43:44] He's probably not more than, maybe he's a new boyfriend.
[43:44–43:46] Maybe he has a new girlfriend.
[43:46–43:47] Yeah.
[43:47–43:50] That's saying someone definitely what is what do I do?
[43:50–43:52] I wonder if she texts him when he's not a fly-in though.
[43:52–43:53] Yeah, that's something.
[43:53–43:54] Do you think that's what it is?
[43:54–44:00] I didn't text someone when he's on the phone next time, if you do want to just be like, why do you not text him?
[44:00–44:01] Yeah.
[44:01–44:03] I mean, time for speakers broken and you can help me text.
[44:03–44:09] Or if you love me so much, why do you want to, I miss you so much, why don't you want to just text and chat like, why is that I was a phone call?
[44:09–44:11] It's like she's a secret or something.
[44:11–44:12] Yeah.
[44:12–44:14] Oh, definitely pull him off on her.
[44:14–44:15] Absolutely.
[44:15–44:16] Yeah.
[44:16–44:17] Bones your bad man everywhere.
[44:17–44:18] Yeah.
[44:18–44:19] And what have you got to do?
[44:19–44:20] Is this next anyway?
[44:20–44:22] The worst thing that happened is, you won't talk to him.
[44:22–44:24] And then you know exactly what he was doing.
[44:24–44:25] What he was doing?
[44:25–44:26] Yeah.
[44:26–44:27] Little shifts.
[44:27–44:28] Where is intentions light?
[44:28–44:29] Where is the light?
[44:29–44:30] Yeah, light.
[44:30–44:31] No light.
[44:31–44:32] Light.
[44:32–44:33] Where is intentions?
[44:33–44:34] Where is true intentions light?
[44:34–44:35] Oh, yeah.
[44:35–44:38] So, I really hope you enjoyed that episode.
[44:38–44:40] I hope the sequel is all very helpful.
[44:40–44:41] Yes.
[44:41–44:42] And, yeah.
[44:42–44:43] We really enjoyed the episode.
[44:43–44:45] Any topics you want us to talk on?
[44:45–44:46] Yeah.
[44:46–44:47] Let's do this real quick.
[44:47–44:49] Well, we love you so much and we hope you enjoyed the week.
[44:49–44:50] Bye bye.
[44:50–44:51] Love you.
[44:51–44:52] Bye.