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Hold my drink with Charlene and Ellie. I go light original.

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One day I want to be like all black like grunge. Yeah rocker and then the next day I want to

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wear all pink. Yeah. You don't have to explain yourself to her. No. But what you wear. No. Yeah.

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If people are scared about their friends they they all dress certain way and you want to wear something like

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friend who's a friend that's fun and not be like watching where it is. Yeah.

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check out all their winter pieces beforehand. So on stage episode we talked about our way to

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tell you we've done stories from Manchester and Ben Fira and we went to the wrong venue for

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another event as well. Thank you John. We talked about fashion. Our styles have started, how they

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have evolved, changed and also main comments I've gotten about style and how I like to wear no clothes.

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And we also obviously don't have sex in the style. We have someone who has a friend that is

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drifting away and we have someone who has a boyfriend who keeps bringing up the past all the time

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and we also don't have a germany week and super skip as always and this third last episode

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for the live shows. So we're so excited. So excited. And we hope you enjoyed the episode. Love you.

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So we continue to everyone's day for full episodes and we continue to every Monday for

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full episodes which is how much I'd like to introduce if you haven't heard them yet they come

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every Monday and where we answer more your dilemmas of their answer in this episode they'll be

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answered there but welcome to our podcast. Hello everyone. If you're new listener welcome,

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if you're a return listener welcome back. We made this podcast to be like a group chat between

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your best friends. The drunk bathroom that I hi-roading in and you talk shut. Where you can

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fill out the gossip on relationships dilemmas at life. Yeah and we're a week no less than a week away

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to live shows. I know. Yeah. So we'll be done one. I know. How weird. Wait no. Yeah, it's Tuesday.

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Yeah. So we've we've we've we've already done one. Well, very excited. I feel I also feel

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a sense of pressure though. I feel like we we have a high standard to live up to. We started off

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on our high notes. We need to stay up there. I'm more nervous. Yeah. I like oh god. Like

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because I feel like the first one now and we didn't even know what to expect. Now we know what to

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expect. So it was something new but now that I feel like because we already have one under our belt

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people are like okay because I've got so many mashup people being like oh I went to the last one

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we're going again. Yeah. So I'm like okay they've been so they know what to expect so we need to

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bring it yeah make it even better. But I think the pressure is good though because it makes

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it bring your A game. Yeah. And it's gonna make us work. Yeah. It will. Yeah. It will be so good

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can't we. We have really exciting guests. Yeah. We've seen one that's flying over from the UK.

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And but they're not actually from the UK. No. But they've flown from the UK. Yes. And which is

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really exciting. I just thought of a guest there actually. Good to ask for the next live show.

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Who? Um I'm really cool. That was on too hot handle. She's on too hot. She's not watching.

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Oh it's such a good show. No. Oh my god. So good. So one of the things I actually watched. Yeah. Yeah.

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It's like love Island on crack. Oh is it? Yeah. It's great. Um so yeah we have really exciting guests.

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They're all confirmed. We also have new segments. Yeah. And new little get- do you want to game?

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Yeah. I'm so damn it. I was thinking we could do um a Mr. Mrs. but like I got two friends on stage.

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I'm like oh yeah. Couldn't we? We did a Mr. Mrs. Dr. Mages. Yeah. I love a T-shirt going. That's kind of

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ahead. What's a T-shirt going? You gotta T-shirt. You gotta T-shirt. Oh my god. Yeah.

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That's enough of the marketing. You guys might think of like a way T-shirt coming this. I was like

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could do that. If you wanted that. That's pretty enough. That's the type of show you're wanting to come

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Yeah. That's true. Yeah. People that came to the last show. We're like what have a leader.

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Um we have giveaways as well of course with lots of primer features. Um pennies like we do

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last time they are very funny fun to run the live show as well which is really exciting. So cute.

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They'll be there. That'll be adorable. I need to give that couch a scrub. Yeah.

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That's a couch. We can use the couch for our actual podcast. It doesn't really. It's the real couch.

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The real couch. The in in person couch but I have it destroyed in time. Yeah. We need to get like

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um like a little bit of the got a poll street cleaners. They clean like carpets and

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and get our blue couch clean. Yeah. But also you can't really have more time and fun. Yeah.

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Yeah. So I might as well just leave. I'll just leave. I'll just leave. I'll just leave.

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To be honest. I'm not in a district. So we went to visit the venue. Yes. Say.

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Hmm. I haven't been in a bigger street since I went. I was trying to think of the name

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with Guy that I went to see there one time. I've never been. I went on as I at 17.

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I went my ex at the time and we had this song that was like I heard of song. Did you have

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have you heard of your songs with all X's? Is there a song that you're like a hot song song?

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Oh wow. Kill my mom. Kill my mom. Kill my mom. Kill my mom. Kill my mom. Kill my mom. Kill my mom. Kill.

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Oh, the pain in my heart. No. I don't think so. You know what?

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Like their songs they come on now and they're harder on I'm like pet reminds you. Next yeah.

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I can't listen to Drake.

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What? I just can't.

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Why?

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I just felt like Drake.

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Oh yeah, he was kind of your art.

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Yeah.

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Now there was this guy that was...

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I saw him count you member's name.

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He was a country singer.

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Oh, I know it now.

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What is it?

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I asked...

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Hunter Hayes.

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Who's that?

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And it's like you know that ball of power without you.

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I think if you're a country singer,

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I think he sang it for everyone's knowledge.

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And you're like, oh that's...

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That's sexy.

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So we had to say I'm obviously didn't know any other songs.

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It's just that one song.

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But that's the last song in the industry.

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So, you've never been a singer ever?

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Gorgeous.

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Yeah.

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It's all in for a very special...

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No.

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Blading huge.

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There's like two bars.

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One looks like McDonald's.

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One is like, oh my god, it literally is like McDonald's.

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No, but it's no funny how...

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The two are straight away.

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Yeah, yeah.

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I agree with telepathics sometimes.

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Yeah.

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I was straight away with everything.

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It was like...

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Memorant when you're younger girls when you're in McDonald's,

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and they had like a little kid's section.

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And there's a classic Ronald McDonald's.

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The seats were like connected onto the table.

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I'm gonna look up night...

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What would have been 90s?

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Yeah.

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Well I don't know how I remember it then, but...

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You were a baller.

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I keep sounding rightly in the shoes bar.

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I know.

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There was so much in the shoes.

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There were burgers.

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I don't remember them.

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Oh, no.

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No?

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No.

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I feel like they might have been fancy Americans now.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, it was just real...

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Oh my god, do you remember these?

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Oh, yeah.

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Oh my god.

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Do you remember the classic seats McDonald's?

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Do you remember that?

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The kids, the baby chairs.

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The baby chairs and the run McDonald's on the back,

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and it's like spongy.

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Yeah.

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I still love feeling the spongy.

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So they still have the thing there where you can see what...

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No, they don't.

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That's definitely not safe with the wheels on them.

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It's definitely by the way.

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I don't know.

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They're bumper cars and the way we're at McDonald's.

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Yeah.

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So they still have the thing where you could see what toys

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and you're happy with me.

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I remember they had that big classic thing inside the chair.

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Oh, you see that?

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I love that one.

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Yeah.

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I love that one.

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I'm going to go in the back.

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I'm going to get kicked out of there.

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Also, I'm in my helis.

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Oh, did you?

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Yeah.

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Come on.

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Was that good floor to go on them?

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I'm like, yeah.

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I'm like a shopper and centre-flying.

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I never had a helis.

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Pupipu.

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No, I was thinking I was just scared.

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I broke my wrist on them to be there.

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Yeah.

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I went down around.

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I went down around.

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Yeah.

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Even the rollerblades, I told the phrase, scared.

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Yeah.

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Oh, no, I used to look my rollerblades.

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No.

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No, no, no, no.

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I used to hang out my bedroom window and I'm like, I love her.

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Sweet in my leg.

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Yeah.

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Just one leg.

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Maybe I leave that story for the live show.

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What are you hangin' this wingin' over?

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I love to make sure my mom is there that like, okay, yeah.

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She's like, you have PTSD.

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Yeah, I'll tell that in the room.

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She remembers it.

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Oh, very, very, she's still with Shaq's belt and stuff like.

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Oh my god.

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Yeah, deal with the live show.

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Tell her that.

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So we actually have, sweet and love show, we have some tickets left.

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They are single tickets.

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You could potentially, so single tickets basically mean that you're not going to be

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sittin' with someone you buy them with because it's a single ticket.

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Yeah.

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Both their potential to swap on the night, if people want to swap, there is that potential

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what you can do.

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It's a guarantee that definitely someone's going to swap with you to sit with your friend.

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So, Satan is assigned?

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Yeah.

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Yes.

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It is.

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Okay.

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Both their are single tickets.

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And like, even if there's obviously an inter-real in the middle of it, like, even if

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you go with your friend, but don't sit together, like, your friend is watching the show,

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maybe you'll put them a half time, maybe you'll put them a half to it.

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Yeah.

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Half time, if it's a full format.

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I love the afterwards and like, you can still be singing on the half time show.

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I'm saying, I will.

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I'm saying for anyone.

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You know what follow.

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I love who he's looking at.

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I know.

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I know.

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We'll have to listen to it, sir.

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Yeah.

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I was going to be, so I was cringey.

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Oh, gosh.

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Well, everybody's gone to the live show for one reason.

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Don't be afraid.

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If you want to come on your own or like that, if you want to go with your friend, it might

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necessarily not be sittin' together.

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So, there's table, seat, and but it's max four to a table.

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Yeah.

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Downstairs.

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So, basically, if three people bought a ticket, there's one ticket left.

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That's why they're ready.

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These are tickets, exactly.

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Yeah.

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But yeah, and you're making your friends here.

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Everyone's going to be nice, I hope.

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Yeah.

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To each other.

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They're where?

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Yeah.

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I love this.

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I love this.

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I love this.

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I love how much we can't wait to see his off in real life.

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We're going to see so many new faces.

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So, I know.

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I know, yes.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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I know.

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Uh.

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Um.

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Or you can post an Adan, people will reply to you as well.

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So, it's just called the whole major incredibly Facebook and all except your into the group.

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And my face by the way, it's basically my face whipped right out, dipped in a few times and

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like my hair and it's brown and a for sure.

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I think my..

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I think my like X axis in likeровro or something or even9.

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I only changed my pepper for chicken, yeah like on the really when you need me.

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Yeah.

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I don't use Facebook but get all don't eat there now.

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No.

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Only for this.

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I mean, yeah.

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But for weightторia today the space in where we tell you is a

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little story like drama.

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Yeah.

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ουo's a movie rental liner over a hat.

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story, a drama, life story, story time.

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It should really help to tell your story time.

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Yeah. Cause it usually is just that.

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So we went to Manchester last Tuesday.

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Myself, Ellie and Sean.

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I'm a little trip.

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A little trip we said, Ariana, we went over for an event actually.

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How did you find the event?

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Huge. Huge.

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Really big.

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Yeah.

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Sometimes I don't know, really big ones are ghost.

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I don't know.

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I feel like it's very.

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It means that there's going to be a big round of people,

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which means it's probably going to be more not nice people at it.

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Yeah, or like less kind of speaking to people.

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Yeah.

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Kind of thing.

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Yeah.

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We might actually mulley and Megan over there.

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Yeah.

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They were so nice.

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I followed them for ages.

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I mean, they were so nice.

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But um, and Holly as well.

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Of course, we already met her.

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But I don't know.

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I just feel like compared to Irish events.

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I know a lot of people always ask us like,

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I was Irish event events bitching and stuff.

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But like compared to that English one like, no.

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I was even so friendly.

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And I think it's because I always say this,

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it's a smaller group of people that if someone's giving you like looks

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and Irish events, you'd be like, what are you doing?

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Yeah.

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Everyone's just friendly like, yeah.

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When have people are a fake or not?

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They're like, I don't know.

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I can't, I can't really tell them.

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It's going to be a fake to be honest.

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But they're always me to it.

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It's like, anyway, and that was just what's like that.

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No.

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There was like tables when we got far over to the table.

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Yeah, around.

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At this event there was two girls sitting there and they were like, look at each other.

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Look on all sorts of things.

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Look and like, what are they doing here?

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Like, even though they were sitting at our table.

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I was like, do you want some more sex up?

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They're like, no.

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I was doing, sorry for asking.

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And then all the little violent people were there as well.

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And last year we spoke to Sammy,

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that's the only movie we spoke to.

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Yeah.

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He couldn't believe the way he Irish.

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Yeah.

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That's the first thing he said to me.

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Like, I wear Irish.

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Yeah.

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You just have to have instant action with someone.

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Especially when you're not in Ireland.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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You just start like, oh, home.

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Home.

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It gives you a little bit of a sound.

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This is cute.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I don't know.

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And then we got after the lights.

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It's like, waste.

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Waste.

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Waste.

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You were being chaotic.

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I was like, you were being so chaotic.

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Not after, not after the event guys.

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She wasn't her own drinks, but she was there.

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She was very brave, but her contact book went like, contactless.

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What you got?

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A phone book?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I know.

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I got the fear in Ireland.

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I know.

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We brave.

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But you didn't even have the fear in the next day.

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I wore it for my favor.

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You weren't joking enough to have the fear.

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Because you have knew what you're doing.

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But you just had the confidence to do it.

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Yeah.

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It's things that you want to do, but you don't have, and you're like, few drinks, you're like,

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oh, yeah.

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Yeah.

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It's like, fuck, I want to have that work.

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When you're having an alcoholic beverage, like, how does your brain be like, okay, just start wearing it.

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You're self-awareness is just like your juice.

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Like, does a cough, a certain sense in your brain?

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Like, no idea.

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You're inhibitions that aren't.

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Yeah.

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It's a window, but I was just being...

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Oh, God.

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It got you.

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It got you like, so nice.

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It got me the phone number.

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Yeah.

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It got you the number, which is perfect.

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Yeah.

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And then we went to McDonald's.

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Oh.

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Don't get me started.

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I love McDonald's so all my heart.

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We actually had it this morning, to be honest with you.

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Yeah, we do.

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Actually, mine got fucked up this morning.

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Oh, yeah.

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I wanted a bacon egg, my former former exotries.

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I got...

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No, I wanted a egg on it.

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No, you have to have no egg.

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Oh, yeah.

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Can I say that?

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Yeah.

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I don't want to have it.

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I don't want to have it.

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I don't want to have it.

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I don't want to have it.

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No, I want to have it.

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No, you have to have no egg.

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Go ahead and say that.

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No, you said that.

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I said that.

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No, I'm showing you that.

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Oh, you said that.

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No egg.

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That's why they obviously gave me no bacon cheese.

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No egg.

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No, I'm going to find the oysters right now.

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I said...

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You said that.

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You said that.

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You said that.

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So I got your extra cheese on that.

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You said no toast.

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The extra...

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Oh.

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Wait.

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I promise.

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Do you want egg on the Macbuffin?

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Just the bacon egg.

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Macbuffin.

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I'm sorry.

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I thought they really...

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I thought they really...

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I thought they really...

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I thought they really...

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So all the cane was a sausage on the patty and two sausages.

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Oh, like when they were sausage cheese, but it was sausage.

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Like what if it's like sweat?

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I'm sweating.

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It's disgusting.

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When I went to America, they do all day breakfast.

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So I'd be like, for a while.

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Oh yeah, I know.

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I used to get a full lunch when I worked in America.

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But anyway, I love my tunnels and last week in Manchester with a few drinks and as we

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all decided to go to McDonald's, there's a lot of sauce in there.

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Six sauce.

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I'll keep thinking of this.

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Did somebody say it?

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I just had so little.

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We did that to the restaurant, but if you saw me in it, we got our McDonald's anyway.

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Left McDonald's sat on a...

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It was like a train.

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It was...

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If you're every Manchester, it's where the traffic center is, I think.

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Yeah, there was like steps to...

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To the train.

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The train just be going either sides.

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So we all sat there doing this TikTok.

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I was sitting down with my legs, like the bread open.

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I had one double cheeseburger and one knee.

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I had the knee on my crispy on the other knee.

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I had to...

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I got another burger.

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I feel like I'm wearing my tree burger.

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You got...

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You spent about 20 pounds?

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I don't know what the tour burger was.

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I had natural cheese bites.

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I had six chicken nuggets, large chips, a fante.

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By the way, you saw...

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What else do I got?

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Did you get the natural things?

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You said already.

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You were looking at their scores.

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Yeah, you can't get my throttle six anymore.

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God, I didn't like them.

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I love them.

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But anyway, I felt violently...

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Like, while I was eating it, I could feel myself saying,

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Ellie, you're still...

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You kept keeping going.

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But I swear I have something grained in my head

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from when I'm younger that I find it really hard to leave field on a plate.

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Really?

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Yeah, I'll stuff for myself.

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And that's really bad.

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I'd like that's bad for you, like.

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I'm like that sometimes.

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My granny, I was used to say, you leave the table...

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Always leave the table a little bit hungry.

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I always leave the table with room for more.

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Yeah.

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I'm like...

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I'm like...

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It takes you 20 minutes to fully get full.

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What a full boy!

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No, I know.

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But I still...

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We'll spend 20 minutes here, even more.

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So if you leave a little bit more, 20 minutes you'll be like, oh, I'm actually full.

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It's really bad.

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Yeah.

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But it was lovely food and my crispy was pipe.

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It was the nicest I've ever had.

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It was delicious.

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I don't know why I think it saves the hangover.

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It is?

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Yeah.

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Well, I was a little tired back then.

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When you eat before around the bed, I was able to say, I was a little hangover.

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But if you had a night when we went out, I didn't eat for...

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I think it was like 20 hours and I woke up and my belly was roomed up.

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That was like me.

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Yeah.

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And I felt like all the alcohol went straight to my belly.

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Oh.

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And then also we got to...

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Went to the wrong terminal, fine, how?

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Oh, yeah.

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And then went to the wrong venue for the event.

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We flew straight from the airport.

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We landed in Dublin and went straight to the event and we went to the Stella's here.

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And it was meant to be in a random way.

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We had to wrap minds on.

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Yeah.

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We were walking, we had our suitcases, what was the spare of minds?

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We went for food for us because we were a little bit early.

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So the events started at half-five and I think we arrived at like five.

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So yeah.

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So we were like, well, get some to eat.

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before we go in.

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So here's our cylinder sitting in the salad iron.

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Right next door.

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Right next door I eat mutton rada six.

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I got hot dog, you got past it.

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Sitting there with two cases raised.

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And then when we were like, okay, we'll go in now.

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We went to walk in at like six.

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We went out at a half five,

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but we went to walk in at like six.

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I mean, we were walking in, there was like,

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just these random men walking in.

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Like, it's normally for these events,

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it's like closed off just for the people who are gone.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Like there was just people who you wouldn't think would be there.

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Go into it.

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And we were like, what?

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Sorry.

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And then like there was no posters or no.

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No, it's normally always done off for like that or for the event.

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And we were like, what?

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And then did you copy?

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No, I think Sean did.

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Because I don't know if there was a salad in the devil.

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You were like, there's not.

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I think there's only four in the room.

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Yeah, that's true.

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And then I think Sean was like, oh, this is the wrong one.

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He's like, I've seen people like that in Rana earlier on.

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He was watching people's stories in the other place.

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He's being like, oh, like not even innocent.

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Anyway, we got there in the end.

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Got there in the one.

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That was lovely.

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But it was very chaotic.

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Quick trip to Manchester.

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It was.

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Great.

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Then the weekend went out to 22.

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It was actually the.

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My day off for Halloween.

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Oh, I'm forgot about Halloween anymore.

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I don't like Halloween.

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I don't like Halloween.

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I hate Halloween.

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I've always hate it.

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But I was only telling my mom yesterday in the car because we actually drove around

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like last night was actually Halloween.

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But it's like a little memory during the last year in the year before.

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Obviously because it was locked down.

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So, for sure.

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Driving around looking at other vampires and the fireworks and stuff.

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But it was telling my mom last night we were driving around because

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we were talking about our.

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Because my sister talking about Halloween on used before when you used to go drinking

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and feels like yeah, I used to look like the preparation for drinking and feels.

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And your costumes up and I remember one year I still have the pictures.

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I think my hair might been horrible actually at the time.

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I dressed up as snow white.

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Okay.

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And I had three pairs of eyelashes on three.

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Yeah, I remember what the one.

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Yeah, I had three pairs of eyelashes on going and drinking and a feel dressed like

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snow white with a kind of god knows what my hand is.

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Touch girls hair.

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Oh my god.

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I never drank in a pack and Halloween something like hopefully.

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I grew up drinking and feels.

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I think I went to parodies and stuff.

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I was never a privilege.

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No, never.

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No.

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Were you ever allowed?

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No.

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No.

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Never drank in people's houses ever.

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Rarely.

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Really?

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Oh, like never.

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I had never had parodies.

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Not even over 18.

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Oh, over 18.

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Yeah.

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But like when I was only 18.

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Oh, I had Halloween party actually.

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One year.

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In your house.

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Yeah.

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Oh, my god.

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I was stressed out.

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Like everyone was allowed drink.

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Yeah.

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So what my dad was having to stress that like people weren't and some people were going

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to a drunk one.

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My friends actually got sick up in the bathroom.

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Okay.

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But yeah.

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That was fun.

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I think I dressed up as a nurse.

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Yeah.

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Ooh.

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Sock and the lot just Christ.

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Just Christ.

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Christ.

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Nothing changed.

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No.

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Still way no blow.

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Yeah.

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But yeah.

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But yeah.

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That was a little wait.

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I feel like I've been a little catch up over a week.

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I feel like we actually have an event for a week for once.

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Usually we're like November.

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November is going to be a bit more.

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Yes.

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On December.

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Yeah.

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And the rest right now.

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Woo.

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And we're going to be watching more of the week.

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This is one of this at live shows.

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I look.

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If you haven't been and you're coming, you're going to get to do a live during more

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of the week.

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And today's word is copper.

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Ooh.

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Copperberg.

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No.

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So here we go.

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Copper.

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Copper.

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Copper.

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Copper.

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I can't do that thing but you do.

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You know what?

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Copper.

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I feel like I should but I don't.

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You probably would learn it.

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But I tell you though, you just guess once and I'll give it in.

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Copper.

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Is it in the room?

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Yeah.

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Television.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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Is it in the room?

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Yeah.

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Television.

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No.

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Handbag.

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No.

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Copper's head.

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Headphones.

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Yeah.

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I'm going to.

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Yay.

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That was very quick.

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Copper.

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That word is funny.

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Copper.

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I'm going to learn the word head.

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You're not learning body parts when you're learning.

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Oh, I gave up after a while.

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Yeah, but you would learn it before that now.

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I only had hands feet.

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I only had hands feet.

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I only had hands feet.

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I only had hands feet.

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I think I only picked eye on these stars.

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I think I'm forward.

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Oh.

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Which skills do you have to do when you're not ready?

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I didn't do it for thebes...

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Did I?

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Did it for thedongi stars?

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What about my moves?

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I don't know.

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Don't remember saying i did this, but I still used to sit in the back of the class.

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I think that's why I know some of the words too.

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Yeah, because for me then it was a pre class.

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Because they were curious, yeah.

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They made me stay in the room.

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I was like.....

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Oh!

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Sorry.

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Sorry.

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Or at the shop?

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It was timidly doctorly class.

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This is why they hadn't asked.

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Yay.

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Can I release the Orion for my blood?

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I have to do the same for the school

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I can still sell well picture

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Everything in my school

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Can you see some of my...

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I'm trying to go on a walk

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Are we used to sit up the top of the stairs?

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These would be huge stairs

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It's like a big double one

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You'd sit up the top of the staircase

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I know, you could see it

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Put your hair if someone was coming in

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Then you just were on

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No, we didn't have stairs in the downstairs

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Was this huge actually?

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Yeah, it's a pretty big one

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It's your longest one I miss it

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Please take me back

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Would you ever do a talk?

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Yeah, they asked me before

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I feel like now anybody left and is going to go

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I don't know if I know I need to teach or something

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Well, I'm sure I would

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I just want to teach a dancer closer

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Like down to your horrible

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She's listening

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Anyw life's coming

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Clothes

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Where and...

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She's taking this off

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She's taking it off for clothes

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She's covering too much clothes

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Stripping for the occasion

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We're actually in audio save by the way I go

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She's now a video

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I keep hung these guys

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I don't know how that angrier

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Do you remember when you first started doing videos when in Scrumina

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I don't know how I became

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I think I say how you guys are doing

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What do I say?

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I think I say how you all do I?

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Yeah, you do say that

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I feel like you don't always say that

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No, I don't always

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I think it's only if it's for like war or something

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Because sometimes I feel weird saying guys

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Yeah, I'm like do I sound American

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Yeah, it is American

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I feel American saying

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Or I say hey everyone

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Hey guys, yeah

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Anyway, yeah we want to talk with this because

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People are

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I'm down, that's the right one

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Do you think your style throughout the years has changed?

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Yeah, dramatically

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Yeah, I remember when you were younger going through different phases

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Just to see if you like

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I remember going through my rocker phase

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Oh yeah, definitely

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What did you say?

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I used to wear big cargo, we kind of pants

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And small little tops

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And then you sort of like

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Fish necklace

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Oh, I was like

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On a daily basis

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Oh, I'm not paying in my own

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Oh my god, yeah

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But I don't think that that's very long I think that was because I knew somebody who dressed like that

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And I thought she was the girls person in the entire world and I was like

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I want to be there

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It's kind of every level of in-five

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Yeah, my cousin

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Yeah, my cousin

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I see an aggro election and take doctor dress was happening for Halloween

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It was great, I've seen lots of people dressed as brats

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Why did we do that?

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That was so cool

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I was panlamps and then everyone was panlamps

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That was Eddie Kelly

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That was absolutely nobody

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You kind of like wonder what my mother wrote here

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I think I went through loads of phase

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I don't think I even went through phases

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I think I just, well I had, I definitely had a rocker phase

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Oh yeah, I feel like we all did though

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Where I had the micro fringe, purple hair

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Orange fringe at the same time

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It was like Halloween in here

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Yeah, had that and then

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I think I obviously had that phase

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But other than that, like I can change my style

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Like putting a day

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But then go back to the other one

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I don't think I should have to be one

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Set so I have to stick to it

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Like people who have like, is jealousy people have a certain aesthetic

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Mm-hmm

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How is everything just going?

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I'm like one day I want to be like all black, like grunge

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Yeah

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Rocker and then the next day I want to wear alping

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There's a girl on tics outside I follow her

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She's more of like a woman

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Her aesthetic is like

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Rich, English, countryside, horse-riding

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Lady of Milan

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I love her, yeah, yeah, yeah, she's zoning

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I love watching her get dressed

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Yeah, I know

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I would never wear them, but they're unreal

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She wears a horse-riding boots

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leggings, a cashmere jumper

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And then the scent she uses the peony

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And I'm like, I want to dress like that

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She's gorgeous

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Someone like her because it's such a strong aesthetic

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She can only kind of stick to that she thinks

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Yes, she can't, that's why I don't like that

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I don't, I like being able to wear

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Lullaby different things. Yeah, and one day if you're I think my dress based on my mood like crudymood

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So it was Jim Jim mood Jim mood. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I think you're always stuck with that ending

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You know, you have to say what it but why do you yeah? Why do you have to then yeah? I like a little bit of chain

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Torn amin mm-hmm, but she's on rare. Oh, she's

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Stunning either guy when I grow up when I grow up

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I wanted her

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She's right in horses on a Sunday morning and just live my best life. She's just so good on her hair

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I always look for a fact she put a bow in her hair. I want to wake up in a little bit of my hair

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Yeah, and I'll and just feel like the rich is bitch alive. Yeah, and that for that that's the reason I don't like

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I could describe my style

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Because it's always different

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If you go through my feet like it's like the color just changed the style just changed at the moment

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I'm in my dark area. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah

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That's how yours is it yeah, yeah, I think I'll go back to pink and all yeah, I wish you were

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Yeah, I wish you were yeah, I need to do wardrobe clear actually. Oh, yeah, I played my health. Yeah, I do

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Okay, I'm just so you need to just be real with and just take it out my hand

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I'm not listening to you saying but I could wear it in six months. I like to talk to fuck. I know no

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I did mine on Friday and it was amazing very any yeah, because my hangar I had this rail and it's like literally lean and like the

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You need to carry the reverse. How do you think you found your sir?

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Where would you describe this sir? I think when I was younger I used to try and copy my sister queen for all the time

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Did you yeah, yeah, and I used to rob my sister. Yeah, I feel like if you have a big sister

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I was just like oh, I wonder where she's wearing because they always have cleaner things. Yeah, and I used to

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So I bought her stuff and now the tables of drastically turned and the broad just wraps my clothes every day the week

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Same as the other time and I don't know. I think it kind of depends on the people you hang around with and stuff

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Do you think I also think it depends on your parents as well

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like you ever see

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Parents who have kids and the parents have a certain aesthetic

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The child is always masquey, like that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I think it also depends on your parents too

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I don't know where I got myself from though because my mom used to make make me leave a match all the time. Oh

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We always wore the same clothes or like she'd she'd always have if if there was specific things that we wore

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She'd always have it in purple and I'd always have it in pink

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Oh, that's really cute. So I said no my mom used to dress as like

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dolls when we were younger like the pictures of us so she has a helmet like you that was leave their house

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Oh god, I don't know. I think it kind of yeah, and then the people you hung around with and yeah

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I think you just pick it up from your environment. Yeah, where you are and what I always wanted what everybody else had

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Really always yeah, like I like I like when I grew up. I always wanted

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Trans yeah, I always wanted I always wanted to fit in yeah to what everybody else was wearing. I never ever wanted to stand out really. Oh, yeah

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I just know I wanted to blend in and just wear what the popular yeah, we're wearing yeah

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I like it just stand out but I think I could have done what I was doing

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Why? There was no need of the fucking purple hair in the room. Oh, but that was you at time

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But also now to be honest we actually just dressed the same me and my friends. We wore we used to wear um

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I'm fucking like socks and heels

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All of us and we get like a picture before where is the disco like and we all been lying and just feel like socks

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And I remember one time we all wore the first every disco we were like 12 13 and we wore con white combers

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And then we heard that someone's flagged us because we were all wearing white combers and we were all going

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But oh like oh go we're all we just all happened to wear them

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We didn't mean to like yeah, he's just wearing like little skater dresses and and the concerts

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My husband sells you the trendy girl over you know younger when you look back to me like oh you know

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We're holy bracelets were a trend yep

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Yeah, a holy bracelet rose rewards what

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Uh, members shagbands is there yeah, I think I was a bit older for that trend in clothes

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Why is what what would have been trended my granny?

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I was used to say if you keep something for long enough that I was like a fashion. It's true

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It is literally true. Yeah, cuz I used to wear this is what I want my

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More stand out era when I used to wear it over the knee socks and I used to wear loafers

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Oh, yeah, and now that's all they're back in like yeah 13 or 16-year-old Charlie

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They do everything comes full sir. Yeah, it's just time in the year things just come around they go for a while

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Then somebody will pick a pack up and then every jump on the right one go lower as James brach

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Burst my belly couldn't and day

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Yeah, but they were trying like both the 90s maybe yeah, see and then their back

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Yep, car goes our heels now car goes the back power shoe pants. Yeah, that would have been 90s with like

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We call them pants from when I was younger really yeah, but they were well they were they were they're the ones they're like the they

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Can't knew what yeah like the Thailand on the sea and Thailand is a movie buff in pennies just gray huge oversized tracks

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Bounce yeah, we swear then we're all because I just can't the fat one pants. Oh

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I would so not like a cotton material

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No, just like when you buy in Thailand and I when you go oh, yeah, no, no, no, no, no, yeah, just men's tracks

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I want to put your a little tank white off and off and walk around Britsway looking for things to

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men

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So like feeling confident in your clothes

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I think people I would say to I don't know if they thought it says you said oh, I could never pull that off and something but like you can

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They can't put it on yeah, pulling something off is all about just

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Pulling it on yeah, yeah, and that's it you can see straight through someone whether they're confident or not kind of thing like yeah

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So like don't let the clothes wear you you wear the clothes

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Yeah, feel great. I'm watch your where and I tell you material and if that means getting your tits out

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Yeah, get you to get you to if it means being my modest is that worth cover up? Yeah, yeah

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Like anything people are afraid of like wearing something because it's maybe enough their style and they're afraid of someone

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Like that's not even her but like you don't have to fit yourself into one box of anything let alone like not even just fashion even in life like you can be

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I don't know I was really sure I'm put your finger in every part or something

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Yeah, you don't have to stick to one aesthetic or to one type but you don't have to be one type of person

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Hmm people are afraid to be like known as someone who does something else as well, but like change it up

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Yeah, I had my hair quave I was like oh god you in your your emo era

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Yeah, do you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, but stuff like that

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Like even me is using play like the classical violin but then I was really into my fashion of you

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Doesn't really match up in a life what like you can that society says that's the

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Yeah, stick to the status quo

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Yeah, because remember the dancer has to be actually dance what she also was real nerdy. I don't want to get out of it

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, her but you know just stick to one type of fashion or it's something like that

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Don't be afraid to try a new thing when it comes to fashion because

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Do you think your fashion will change when you go?

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Oh, I always think that makes it gonna be in the live all the time

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I don't know but like your own at my own time like I'm 24 once yeah

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Like you get old every day. You're always young as you are right now. You know every day right now

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You're like I probably won't be dressing like a dress now. I've forwarded in self-so why not too?

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And now people I got a lot of texts actually I got an essay job for woman and

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Last week after the disco

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Biggest this I wore a place. So which I thought for I've seen you someone text me goes

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I thought that was really covered up for you actually

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I've seen you in less like I'm regardless. What is it?

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You had a place you on an a pair of boots

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What was the problem range anyways? Yeah, I don't issue it and she's got a she probably good wear

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Or felt like she couldn't wear it. Yeah, sorry. She felt like she she wouldn't be able to pull that off and seeing you pulling it off

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She must have been annoyed at you. Yeah, yeah, like you care

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Text me saying that and I put up a screenshot of us. She was calling me all sorts of slander's words

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And I put it up and so many older women message me and we're like if I could do one thing and look like

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Go back in time. I might be doing all that. You're never as young as I know like they were like we think you should be doing that

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Yeah, so I'm the kind of I put people are just mad. What did you say back for I was just extending you love sending you

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I know and people get to help people

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When you give them love

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I'm a kind of that's what you have to do because if I start out myself into

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Well, you're rich. Well, you're like that's I'm glad you don't have to explain yourself to her. No, what you wear

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Yeah, so the sending love is the perfect is the perfect one and you just feel so great. Yeah, cuz you care

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You what's it called she's obviously just very very sad and herself got over that she couldn't pull off those for actually

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I remember remember I went to MK about fast as well. Mm-hmm, and I wore it became a first-est

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Well, yeah, I wore a bikini in jeans

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And I got a mess stuff that like that off a girl as well

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And then I got a few messages off people obviously mean and descended to their friend was sent to me

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And someone goes she was a real normal like girl

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You'd probably like my big person stuff. She was like imagine wearing that and

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I have a boyfriend. I remember a boyfriend time and I was like I hate that people have that idea

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But I get it like I feel like it's some people in grain as the people's heads

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To think like that, which way happy? I'm a boyfriend. I don't have a boyfriend

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Friends should change their style.

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Yeah, you meant to dress it like a non.

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Like a non.

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But I feel like that's in great.

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That comes from a really toxic place of people

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probably haven't been in or been in relationships

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that their fellow tells them what to wear.

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And I was really lucky and that was really healthy.

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I could wear wherever I wanted, no comments will be passed.

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I can still express myself.

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You shouldn't lose yourself when you get with someone,

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especially your sense of style

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and what you want to wear to a full dress.

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Yeah.

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It's not, I don't think it's just respectful

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to the person you're with to want to dress how you want.

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Yeah, I saw me, I was sure to take a talk.

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I think I actually stitched or something.

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And it was some girl singing to its song.

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But like the whatever songs she was singing,

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the writing on the screen was,

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you're a real wife if you stayed in

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I'll Halloween weekend.

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And me, I was sure it was like,

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I can't remember the specific words she actually used,

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but it was like,

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don't lose yourself, but something to do

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with like because of how insecure he is or something.

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Yeah.

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Like the girl thought,

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oh, you're a wife if you stay in, but like, no,

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it's scary.

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That's her mind.

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She was told to say it or whatever.

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Like, what was the same clothes?

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Like, I know I think I've said it before.

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I've never told me what to wear.

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Yeah.

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Huh?

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Literally, you're a silly or own person.

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Yeah.

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You shouldn't change how you dress.

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I don't think I'll have when you're

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get with someone.

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Like, no, they should want you to want to be yourself.

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Yeah.

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And like as long as you're not safe,

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okay, maybe a man might approach you more

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if you're wearing something less.

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Yeah, I don't think it's the case.

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No, I don't think it's that all.

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But if that was the case,

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like, you're still not going to act on it either way.

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So it's whether you act on whatever weird thoughts

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they're thinking like what happened just because you're

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specifically wearing something.

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I don't think either when I get like men don't

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approach me either, right?

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I'm like, no, it's helped me this way.

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So I don't think we got out in the nip of my approach.

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Yeah.

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It doesn't.

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No.

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Yeah.

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So if anything, I just think like men

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would be more intimidated by your white things

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that you wear or don't wear or like, yeah.

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Do you?

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Yeah.

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My have a certain idea of your head,

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which again is a ludicrous thing.

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Yeah.

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Thinking that like, oh, she's not going to see Twitter.

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I don't know.

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I don't think no.

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I know.

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Maybe they just don't like me and I make them

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wear their head off.

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I really don't.

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Yeah, do you think if you're ever afraid of

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specifically wearing something like if you have an idea

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in your head of, I'd love to dress like a certain person

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or I'd love to have a certain style.

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Yeah.

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How to start doing it?

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Like, one day, do you just wake up and fully dress

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a specific way or do you think there's easier ways

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to do it?

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Like, do you just add bits and bubbles in?

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I think my style changed a lot, actually.

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Did it?

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To do that, yeah.

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I love a suit.

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I love a blazer.

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Yeah.

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I'm very, I like that.

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Mm-hmm.

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And I remember there was one year where I think where I started,

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I think it might really actually when I worked in England.

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I think I started wearing blazers and pole necks.

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And I was like, ooh, I feel like a blazer.

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This is your thing.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Do you ever find that one thing where you're like, oh,

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I think this is my thing.

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Yeah.

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I feel like blazers had me in a choke on the pole.

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They really, something about putting a blazer

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on with a pole neck on.

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You feel like I could take over the fucking world.

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I don't know what it is.

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I went to view houses with a pole neck and blazer on.

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I was like, I could buy you.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I could buy them outside your check.

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I know.

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I haven't been bleeding, washer, but like, yeah.

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Something about it.

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Yeah.

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But that's the power that clothes can have on you.

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Yeah.

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And the mask.

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If you feel, if you look good, you can feel good.

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Yeah.

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Jay, I see an air tick.

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I'm like, we are so, we're ticking out.

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But it's so good.

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This girl, she was like, I do make up every single day.

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Because when I feel good, I look good.

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But she was like, if it's, if it's not make up for you, she's like, pick something.

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That makes your day is going to go better.

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You're going to have, because when you feel good, you're going to have a better day.

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It's a track for you.

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It's what you do.

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Yeah.

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Because you actually are ready to get into good energy.

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So she was like, whether it's either make up or an outfit or hair.

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No hair.

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Yeah.

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Whatever you're in to, like, do that.

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No, no, no, no, no.

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Clearly, clearly, where haven't we want to have a rainy day?

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Say, say, say, say.

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I'm in.

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Can you hear?

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No, my hair is like straw.

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Oh, mine's going to clip.

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Mine is.

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Oh, on the CMS.

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And then I was not afraid to make one.

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Today, we didn't choose that book.

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I was like, that makes someone say, oh, to do that.

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It's like when you try on clothes, when you have no, um,

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to make a run.

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Yeah, try to have on your like, oh, my God.

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Yeah, it's even this.

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I don't try on clothes.

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You know that.

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I don't do that.

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Ever.

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I just, I don't believe the house.

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Yeah, because I'll hate it.

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Yeah, try on.

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I just don't.

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But then when you have your hair, your makeup, your hand on, and you try it on, you're like, well, I've changed this outfit.

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I'm new.

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That's making the outfit.

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Yeah.

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I'm just a pair of wee have over the clothes.

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Except for mine, the pair of they give us.

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It's like fabric.

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It's us at the end of the day.

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It's how we wear it.

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I think though, if there's something you want to wear, just wear it.

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I wouldn't try like, I wouldn't overthink it.

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And be like, I'm going to transition to wear it like, adding a little bit.

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I'm going to have the background of my picture.

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Yeah.

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Don't soft lunch here for a new look.

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Yeah.

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But also, I think like if people are scared of what their friends say, if they all dress certain way,

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and you want to wear something like, friend who's a friend has gone enough, be like,

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one or two wear it.

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Yeah.

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That's someone who's maybe jealous.

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It's always common like that.

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They're jealous.

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They can dress how they want to, so they'll take it out on you.

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Yeah.

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And that's a them problem.

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But all those messages and all that like, even you were getting, you didn't even know

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yourself.

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It's a reflection on them.

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Yeah.

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Oh yeah.

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Women need, I think if women are looking at a woman who's dressed, what's the...

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Pervocatively.

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Yeah.

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The word just the word.

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The word just the word.

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Why is it pervocatively?

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But if they look at that and they're giving out about that, like, how can we expect men

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to have the respect for us that we want if women can't even have the respect?

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If we expect men, true or squarely, if a good, if women can't even treat us for us.

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You can't.

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No.

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If you have that in your head, like, that's not a good way to think it.

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No, yeah.

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Like, left, I also have just so confused why people are concerned about what other people wear.

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I would never think, oh my god, why is that person wearing that?

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Why is it affecting you, what someone else is wearing?

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Like, it doesn't in the slightest.

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It's not on you, people get so offended.

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You don't like it, you scroll, bye.

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I know.

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You don't like the picture if you don't want to think so.

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You don't have to, yeah.

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Yeah.

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That's not.

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I think we'll be just...

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I think people don't like someone's confidence when they're wearing less clothes, because they

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might not have confidence.

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Even though they might not want to wear less clothes, they might just not have...

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No, I think it's just confidence in general.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I think it can be an intimidating thing to somebody who isn't.

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Yeah.

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Because, I don't know, maybe they want to be like that or they want...

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They can't put themselves out there and serve some kind of way.

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Yeah.

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I think confidence can be intimidating to somebody who isn't.

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Yeah.

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So, take from this, sport or the women.

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Don't care what the people wear.

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And then when you stop judging people, you'll stop judging yourself.

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Yeah.

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So, you'll stop being like, why am I'm scared to wear this?

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If you're thinking about everyone wearing something.

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Yeah.

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Do you know if you stop judging people, you don't judge yourself.

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No, yeah.

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Very good advice for myself.

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I need to start taking that.

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She's ready.

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So, do that.

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sport women and be a bad bitch.

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Yeah.

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Wear it what you want.

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Don't be afraid of clothes.

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No.

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You're only this young one, you can let you die tomorrow.

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I know.

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I'm scared.

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Hopefully not like, but...

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I mean, not, I think not.

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You'll be dressing pretty well.

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It's...

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Anyway.

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I'm not sure if someone actually got it.

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Oh my gosh.

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No, don't do it.

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No, but you could put like, seriously, life's too safe for a girl.

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It's too hard to give a shout out to your fabric.

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Glowing is the least of everyone's issues.

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Oh, so just do it.

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Please.

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Different me.

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Send us some pictures of your new house.

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Yeah, your new house.

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Oh my god, yeah.

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Please.

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So, we want to go into our dilemmas, which is Seek and Stalls.

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We have an email address you can send them into.

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It's homeadrink.co.au.com.

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And we try to give you advice.

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Yes.

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As best we can.

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These ones are quite long, so keep your ears peeled.

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I think I could say so.

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Buckle in.

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Buckle in.

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How are you turning it in, Ellie?

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I'm listening to the podcast for a few months while I'm driving to placement or college.

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I'm studying nursing.

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Oh, and I absolutely love your growth.

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You put me in the happiest mood and your growth should be so proud of what you've achieved.

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Oh, not anymore.

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That is so nice.

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Okay, so I got out of a three-year relationship in May.

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And I met someone quickly after.

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Just a coincidence and he came in at the right time.

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He's 26 and I'm 21.

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I really liked him straight after that.

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And he made an effort and did stuff that my ex hadn't.

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And we got along really well, et cetera.

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Anyway, we'd known each other for around three weeks and I was out on the pool with my local town.

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There was a big match on.

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He just got off work and asked what I was up to.

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I told my Zanth, the local, et cetera.

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I never once invited him as I was new to single and didn't know what I was looking for.

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Anyways, he texted me back and said that him and his friends were gone and to come in for points.

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I said, yeah, no, while I'm just thinking it would be a bit of a crack he arrived in with his friend and said,

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oh, without his friend and said his friend couldn't go.

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So he was on his own.

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I was progressively getting drunker and the pub was jammed.

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It was like a big game.

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It was a big game.

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I think it was a big game.

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It was a big game.

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I think the thought of him arriving just for me and me nearly single, not knowing what I wanted was scary.

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Got chatting to my friends, causing a thibyre.

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That's called him Sam.

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At this point, I can't remember any of this until he lit a letter to Alback to me.

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Apparently I was all over his guy after the bear and put my hands in his face and was ignoring him.

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He was clearly angry and branched off with a few of the lads he knew and was with one of them.

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I then went to Sam's friend's house and got sold room.

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We were just chatting and I ended up kissing him.

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I couldn't really remember anything after that.

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At that time, we talked today.

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I felt so horrible.

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and send him a card and we met up and yeah fast forward like five months me and the

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the lad are in a relationship and I totally regret kissing Sam.

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Even though that was before we went into even a relationship and I had total reign of

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what I could do and I was so drunk I wouldn't want to hurt him like that.

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But even though that was five months ago he still brings up and quizzes me asking why I

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did it and if I saw now what saw him know what I would do and how it's still anoye

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him.

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I actually hated the guilt I feel for all of that but he isn't perfect either.

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I mean he still had to endure was up plain as pigs and we got together.

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We were getting progressively closer and gone on day trips away and I had to and I had

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to interdileet it.

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So we think he tries to bring up stuff that was imperfect.

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I was imperfect in so it makes up for his imperfections.

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Yes that's how true.

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It's a two sided door.

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I thought that's called.

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Yes double edged sword.

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Yeah.

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I love him to bits but I just feel like it's okay if he does something but not if I do

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it.

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I hate that.

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And I told him we need to close the door to the past after I've met X's stuff for

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we in a relationship.

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The question is do you think this is a big red flag that you managed to steal, watch

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I say or do or what your thoughts love you both.

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I love you.

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I hate that.

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I hate that.

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And you're so you already know like you're so right him him saying that's because he

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pretty has guilt over what he done.

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Yeah.

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People are reflection on themselves.

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People will accuse you of things that they're doing.

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Yeah.

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It's mental to hold hands.

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It's mad.

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How old?

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It's crazy.

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Yeah.

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It's but it's also like the more older I get in the more I'm seeing that I'm like well

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it's so obvious.

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Yeah.

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But when you were younger you were so naive to it and you're like oh he's just

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protective now.

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No, you know he knows what he's like.

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That's exactly what it is.

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What does he do?

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I think I can add a situation like this and it's to be honest both of us couldn't let

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go of stuff that was in the past but it was because the only reason I kept getting

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brought up was like one person usually him would bring it up and then I'd bring up

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well what you don't miss and I'm like a constant back and forth but it has to be both

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people forget and leave it in the past.

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Yeah.

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It can't be one key spring it up and then you're like well I'm going to bring mine

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up now.

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I'm not going to be like okay sorry even though he done something similar something

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you know.

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So I think you need to just be like here we need to draw a line on this completely and

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stop bringing it up because we bowed on stuff we bow made mistakes.

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Before we were together.

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Yeah.

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We also don't know what I mean.

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To move on we need to just forget about it.

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Yeah.

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Around it's always going to be a recurrent fight and that's straight in.

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That is draining constantly bringing up the same thing the same argument.

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Yeah.

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There is no point if you don't think there's ever a point of moving past it and it'll

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constantly be brought up it's like right where we even go from here.

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Yeah.

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What's the point?

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Yeah.

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What's the point in this if we're always going to keep having this argument I was going

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to keep bringing this up it's always going to take us 10 steps back.

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Yeah.

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Like you don't you don't fight and so fun like point and showy.

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Yeah.

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I like a little.

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I like yeah little but not even I think I know.

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I think I want to do that.

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Do you know I try my bitch.

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Yeah yeah yeah.

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Yeah but not over the same.

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Yeah.

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Fight me something.

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Something else.

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Yeah.

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Well I think you need to say to him like if you can't see this move on a step forward every

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day and he can bring it 10 steps back.

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Yeah.

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Bring this up like just saying listen is there even any point in this.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Just get around like yeah.

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Yeah.

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Why are we bothering to be together and be in this position if we're just constantly going

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for fight and argue over the same thing that happened before we were even together like

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why can't we just focus on the nail when we are now.

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Yeah.

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Rather than dwelling on something that haven't five months go get over it like yeah and

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I think he had bleeding tend or what he was around.

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Exactly.

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Fuck off.

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Like his one person like I don't think he's going to count and you want to even together.

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No they don't count.

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No.

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Like no.

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I just think if he can't move faster then is he worth it off.

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It needs to just be boat he has been like right we're left just from now from this very

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second we'll just stop and shouldn't stop and build on where we are now and go forward

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because I always think even in past relationships like as you don't quite own like immature I'll

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be bringing stuff up that he don't and stuff and like looking back then when we broke up

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I was like why is that obviously yeah why wasn't he just happy to be in his presence

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and to be like why did I want to always get out of this like he's with me now.

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There's a reason we were together like just like that's what he should be thinking the

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army land so I think say to him like look line needs to be drawn under this I'm sick

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at the same fight and if he can't go over then I'm supposed we're gonna have to leave

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and if he leaves it over that he's not gonna leave it I don't think but if he leaves

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it over that then he's not worth it girl.

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No.

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The next thing we have then is hi girls I just want to start off by saying that I love

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your podcast so much.

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Thank you for being so transparent I'm really about your lives little she don't know how

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much you've helped people with your amazing podcast just by simply being you.

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Why am I well enough?

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I'm sick.

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This is a long one but I really need your advice look at my eyes.

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Oh my gosh.

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I need to cry again.

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Oh that was a really nice cry.

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Okay my best friend and I have known each other it literally our entire lives since we

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were about four and now we're in our mid 20s.

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We grew up on the same street and we've seen each other grow travel gone and holidays

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together throughout the years and even have matching tattoos that's how close we are.

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A few months ago she became pregnant.

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Absolutely over the mail for her on her partner as you can imagine but this is where it all

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got really strange.

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First off she told me she was pregnant over text instead of in person like she did with

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other friends which I thought was a bit off but I didn't take much into it.

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For the past few months she's been acting so strange example never wants to meet up always

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excited to reply to my text on my birthday she sent me a general happy birthday message

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on Facebook.

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On my Facebook wall as opposed to sending me a text asking me up for my birthday.

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We always make a big deal of each other's birthday so not even to get a text of happy

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birthday from her was just a strange one.

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She also received an invite to my sister's wedding and she kept dodging my text about it.

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She took so long to reply to the invite itself that my sister had to message her and see

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if they were coming.

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Anyway I sent her a long text saying how I was genuinely concerned about her because I

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hadn't seen her in so long and state now all these points about her acting strange with

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me and also asking if I had done something wrong no one that I didn't.

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She sent me a message back to say she was offended by my text even though I had said nothing

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wrong if anything it was a really nice text.

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She then stopped replying to me and I said to her I'd leave a letter and I wouldn't

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keep messaging her until she wanted to saw things though.

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Two months later she still hasn't gotten in contact with me.

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I even messaged her boyfriend who also ignore my message.

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My boyfriend is friends with her boyfriend too.

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My boyfriend ran him to ask what was up who accused me of bombarding them with text.

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I sent three of them all and all.

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When they're trying to prepare themselves for a baby.

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My boyfriend said they still want to be friends with me just not right now.

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I've been so extremely upset over this whole idea I don't know what to do and I'm so

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torn right now.

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What exactly does not right now even mean?

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I've tried everything between trying to message, call, meet up and nothing.

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I'm so sad because I don't want to miss out on such an important time in her life.

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I would have never ever thought I should act like this.

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I've been made to feel like I've done something wrong when I haven't and I would really

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love your advice on this.

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Thank you so much Chris.

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I hate that feeling.

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Do you ever have that goofy feeling where you're like, oh my god did I do something?

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What did I do?

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Would I say something like have I been a bad friend?

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What I hate?

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I'm not.

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Like if there is something that has upset your friend.

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I obviously like they should tell you about you trying you having to guess but also then

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in this situation where she knows she hasn't done something wrong.

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That's an awful way to leave your friend feeling.

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That's like she's done nothing wrong.

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That's man.

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I wonder is it like the boy friends?

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I feel like someone people would draw from their friends.

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Sometimes it's not because they're not in a very healthy relationship.

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It's him taking her away.

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Taking her away.

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That's what some boy friends do.

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Yeah.

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Especially they've been friends since their four.

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Like maybe he's like extra reactive with her now that she's pregnant because it kind

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of seems to be from then.

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Which has been where it's like maybe he just doesn't want to go and I hope there's

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something I'm playing in this boyfriend.

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I don't know but like it could be something like that.

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But like what do you do?

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Yeah.

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How far do you go?

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Do you want to get in touch with him again or someone in their family or something that

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could make them even more upset?

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I don't know.

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I actually leave them be.

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The boy is the boyfriend of the pregnant girl.

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This guy is boyfriend.

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I wonder if could the boy friend be here like here bro?

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What's up?

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My girlfriend is really upset.

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He is and he said he's bummed by our partner.

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No he rang that the pregnant girl's boyfriend rang that boy friend to say that.

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Yeah.

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I wanted to go to the guy's friend.

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The girl he texts his friend.

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Like as in the girl friend that's wrote in.

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Him, her boyfriend texts the pregnant girl's boyfriend.

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Yeah.

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I've been like here.

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My girlfriend's really upset.

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Like what's going on?

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Yeah.

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What's what's so really?

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Something really short and like just to the point of like what has gone on.

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Why does not right now even mean?

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Well, because you're like.

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I don't know.

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Will she be a left?

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Oh, that would be how much it has to be, maybe, or what's going on.

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Very strange.

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There's me.

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Very, very strange.

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I think the not right now thing is very weird, but that's right.

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So it has to be something that maybe it's like, well, she's pregnant.

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They don't want to be friends.

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Why?

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That's the first time I've had three pregnant friends.

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I wonder what she said.

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She said she was offended by the text, but she didn't really say...

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She didn't say that wrong in the text.

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She was offended that she even texts her saying what's going on.

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But she also didn't get...

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She never told her what's going on.

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She just said I'm offended, and that's it.

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I think as hard as it is, like, lever-be for a few more months, even though...

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And you know yourself once you know something's true, like you don't know...

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You know you've not done that wrong.

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Yeah, once you know you've done that wrong, that's all the more.

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You don't explain yourself to anybody else.

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Yeah.

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That's so hard to...

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I know, just for your friend to randomly start with your arm from you,

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that must be like, oh my god.

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Yeah.

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What's going on?

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I get your boyfriend's text.

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Her boyfriend just made a care of what's up.

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She's...

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He doesn't want to feel like she's bombarding his butt.

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She just wants it out.

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What's going on?

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Yeah.

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What's changed?

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What's changed?

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You would be like...

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For a few more years.

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Yeah.

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Since he had to fall.

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Especially his pregnant now, so it's an exciting time.

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Exactly.

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Yeah.

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I think text.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Get the fella to text the fella.

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Yeah.

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It sounds like something to do with pregnancy.

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But...

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Yeah.

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I just think...

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And text and sayings are just pregnant, say it in person, or anything like that.

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Or like ringing...

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It's very strange.

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I can't wait until you want to pregnant.

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I know, yeah.

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I'll do a little surprise.

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Yeah.

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I'm tingling.

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It's so cute.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, we hope you're okay, but I think...

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If she just continues to not contact you and stuff, it's kind of like a break up in a way that you have to.

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It's like someone ghost, yeah.

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Yeah.

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Which is so shit.

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Especially when you have someone, imagine someone that you're holding a light.

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Which is like...

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And then the pregnant girl is my arm around and she's thinking that as well.

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Yeah.

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If her arm is in a life of ghosts and like...

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And if you know her...

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If you know her, you could be like, okay, just wondering how...

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And so it's all weird.

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Yeah.

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I haven't been talking to her.

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And she might be like, oh, well, you know.

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Yeah.

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So I think getting into it to maybe finding a member would be good.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Hi, girls.

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I'm a big finding podcast and I could do with some advice.

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I've been thinking about contacting you for a while and finding a bit of the courage.

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Courage?

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Courage too.

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I've been overthinking a situation as I'm going on for a short while now and I could

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read you with your advice.

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I have no one else to turn to and you'll soon find out why.

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I'm about to turn 24 and for the last six months I've been seeing this guy.

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He's also 24.

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We knew each other for over a year as friends and one night after a friend's date, we decided

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to get together and give things a serious go.

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On the first two myths I would usually not be my usual type and I think that's half the

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reason I'm drawn to him.

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He's very quiet, reserved and shy but when he's around people he's comfortable with.

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A lot more relaxed and has a very fun, fully sense of humor.

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I introduce him to three of my best friends and they don't like him for a real

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wish reasons.

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They think he's too quiet, boring and not that good looking.

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They keep telling me I can do better.

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I can't believe they're judging him based on his physical appearance.

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They don't see him the way I do.

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I never knew a million years expect my best friends to be so shallow and dodged mental

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and make me think that I should cut them off for good.

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I don't know what to do.

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Should I call off my best friends if they're being this cruel?

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I have strong feelings for my boyfriend and I can see us being together forever.

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He's so different to other guys and treats me with normal care and respect.

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What would you do in my situation?

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Thanks for reading my email and hope you can help me decide where to go from here.

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Your friends shouldn't judge your fellow on his paris.

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They're not here as fellow.

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I would never tell my friend that unless they're like, oh I want to text his guy and I'd

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be like, oh he's not the nicest one.

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But if someone's already the boy that I wouldn't be like, he's not a good looking

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sorry boy you are.

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That's terrible.

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That's awful.

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If he makes you happy and he cares for you, that's all your friends should care about

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you.

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Regardless of what the fellow wears or if he's shy or not or like, who cares, it's not

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them to have to go home with him at night time with you.

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They should want you to be happy.

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Yeah, I wouldn't say now that you're being looked after and you're in a good healthy relationship

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who honestly really gives a shout like, I never said that.

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The only time I've ever told any of my friends to get away for someone is when your man

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has been an absolute art hall and it's deserves to say get away.

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And then you say it's like in them.

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Yeah, but like, if there's no reason to be like that, if the only reason that they're

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saying to be like that is because of his appearance.

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Yeah, and that is so shallow.

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That's so quiet.

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Like so what?

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Who cares?

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Yeah.

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Not everyone's going to lose their first in their room.

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I love a quiet man I think.

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But really?

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No, it's not.

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I'm not into it.

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No, because I like being alone.

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Fair.

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Actually, I don't know what's going on.

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I like the attention.

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I don't know what's going on.

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I know, is that really?

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It's kind of one that's going to get to know them.

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Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, he is.

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Yeah, but I think don't I wouldn't cut your friends off completely.

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Would you?

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No, but you don't want to be left to like like when you cut friends off, you're left in

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a very vulnerable position where that person becomes your whole life.

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You rely on them for everything and I don't think we rely on somebody for your happiness

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or for like every sort of is good entertainment or whatever in your life.

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That can turn very dangerous.

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Yeah, because when they say I've been toxic, you don't live.

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Yeah, you don't see it.

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Because you're like, no, I'm just, he's my whole life.

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Why would I leave him?

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Yeah.

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So I think don't cut the mail, but I think if they make it really common, I'd just be like,

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shut the fuck up.

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That's what I'd say.

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I mean, why does that?

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Why?

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I'm a bum.

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Yeah.

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Or maybe bring him around the more so they can not that they'd be able to do.

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But he, I wonder just he know that there's a and that.

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No, it's out of.

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He wouldn't, I wouldn't want to, he wouldn't want to be around them then.

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No, that's true.

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They're so mean.

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They're so mean.

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They're what he's just jealous.

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He's an ice person.

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There were.

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He's jealous, he's like, he should have he treated like a quain.

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Deserved.

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I wouldn't cut them off, but I'd cut their bullshit comments.

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Yeah, and be like, I like it.

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They say something and I'm like, oh, he makes me happy.

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And I shit you as that is there, your friends.

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I wouldn't cut them.

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Leave you off.

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Maybe take a step back if you want to do that.

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Yeah.

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I'm just saying some girls, you know what I mean?

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Aw, full of people.

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They're planning to love me too.

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Yeah.

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He's good to me.

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Treats me with respect.

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He's like, oh, well, I'm happy.

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I'm happy.

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So can you?

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I've been happy for me.

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Yeah.

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And we're happy for you that you're with him.

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We're a nice man.

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We never hear a nice name.

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They love that.

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Woo.

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If you want to send us some to Lemons in, we have an email

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address to tellmydrink.goload.com.

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There are obviously always anonymous.

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And we answer more of them in our bonus episodes.

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That come out every single Monday.

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So you can listen to all the past ones and all the future ones

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if you haven't already.

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And you can listen to the goload app or wherever you get your

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podcasts.

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So super skip.

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Super skip is Kristen's decorations on November 1st.

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I asked Charlie and in the car.

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Can we talk about Chris?

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And she's told me to piss off.

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No, Ellen, please.

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I said, please, Charlie.

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We need to start doing super.

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Can I pull Chris on Instagram?

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I know.

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Can I pull Kristen's songs on the car?

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I know.

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Fine.

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Here you come.

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Bit of Mariah on the way home.

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Oh, yeah.

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I do like to.

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I'll be my element.

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Yeah.

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And I'm going to skip.

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I'm sipping if I could have to move yesterday.

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I would.

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The reason I don't like it.

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I don't love Chris has to begin with.

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I know.

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Yeah.

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Ebenees are screwed.

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I know.

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We can't lose.

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I just think it's a whole load of not something for nothing.

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I just think it's really.

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I feel like I'm very materialist.

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I'm very materialist, a girl, I'd say probably I'm self-aware.

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But I think it's very just.

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It is almost a whole some time.

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I don't have this whole.

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Yeah.

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It's nice.

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I like that you can see your family in the field now.

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But like all the presents are just like it's gone very wild.

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I think I put a lot of pressure on people and the kids and like.

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Yeah.

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That's either things I think is a bit.

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I think around a little bit.

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Yeah.

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But I'm also a giver.

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I love giving gifts.

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Yeah, I do look at.

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We do.

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What's called secrets?

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I speak that I need to buy gifts for people.

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Oh, don't.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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No, for birthdays.

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I need to write them in my notes.

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Oh, Jesus again.

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What's I think I'll see Chris and just know what's it called?

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Is that what it's called?

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Oh, Chris Kinlow.

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Chris Kinlow.

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Yeah, yeah.

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We do Chris Kinlow home, but I never go by it.

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I just get the person whose name I picked.

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I just get them the biggest gift.

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And then I also buy every ask gift because I feel too bad.

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Yeah, I just love wrapping gifts.

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I love watching people.

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I know.

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I know.

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I don't.

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I don't care.

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I give someone a gift and watch them open it.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I really want to see.

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I'm going to sell holes and I'm saying skip them.

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If also you haven't heard of Sip with Skip, it's basically where we pick it up with

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the topic and see if we agree.

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If we sip because it's called how we drink.

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If we sip on the thing, it means we agree.

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If we skip, we insist.

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Do you ever see your naked, your house, your take a Christmas tree?

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Do.

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Ready for your Christmas tree?

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Well, you don't get mine until December 17th because my brother's birthday is December

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16th.

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And then it gets Kane's birthday present.

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The 17th.

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I know.

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I know.

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Eight days before rainbow.

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Yeah.

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Does he get a real tree?

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Oh, a real tree?

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No, god no, my mom couldn't be.

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He has a long name saying, so it kind of makes sense.

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Okay.

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Well, I understand that.

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and then just take it out and see if it's okay.

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What's that?

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No, we don't take it that straight away.

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I think we're here but it's a little January.

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Little Christmas.

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The same thing as the 60s, yeah.

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Is it?

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Yeah.

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I love it so much.

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Yeah.

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No, no.

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Boy, yeah.

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I have to find out because we bring people in and decorate

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and she was like, oh yeah.

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I forgot I was doing it now.

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Oh yeah.

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Oh yeah.

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I was saying, yeah.

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Like Santa's grow up.

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Yeah.

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My husband and I have my own house.

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Oh my god.

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Oh my god.

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It's a little like, it's fire.

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It's a little like, it's a little like, it's a little like, it's a little like, it's a little

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like a mic.

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Yeah.

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Anything that sparkles diamonds glitter or sequence.

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I'll take it.

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Tacky out.

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Love it.

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Yeah.

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So I'm going to skip.

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And thanks so much for listening to these except subs.

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That was us.

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We said last episode before the live shows.

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Oh my god.

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They came around so quick from the last one.

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They'd be like, I don't know.

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They've been like, we were on in Liberty Hall.

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Liberty Hall.

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So the final ticket for our live show, I don't know.

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They're single ticket, they're single ticket.

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I don't know.

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They're single ticket.

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I think it's not like any other place in the world.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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So the final tickets for our live show are on sale now.

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There's single tickets they will sell out,

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especially if you've got a phone on the line.

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They will.

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It happened last time.

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It happened last time.

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It happened again.

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So yeah, you can get it last.

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You got to see it.

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The hand full of them left and don't be nervous

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if you want to come in your own.

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We're all there for you.

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Yeah.

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Exactly.

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You'll still ignore yourself regardless.

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And we'll see you all next time.

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Yeah, we love you so much.

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Bye.

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