EXTRA JUICE: "Do I tell my boyfriend that my boss kissed me?" #6
Hold My Drink
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Hold my drink with Charlene and Ellie. I go light original.
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Welcome to Hama Drink with Charlene and Ellie.
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Extra juice. Extra bonus juice.
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Brought to you by girl over how much bar is podcast.
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Welcome to another bonus episode.
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On Monday.
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What a great way to start your weeklads.
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What a great we're actually great for.
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We really are. We've had a coffee, a whole not derri milk bar.
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What do you got here?
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And water.
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My combo.
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My combo works.
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We're having a great time.
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Chris, I hate snacks.
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I love snacks.
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They're here to eat first.
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They're so nice.
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And they remind me of kids when they wash them in.
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And they're all white chair.
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Do you know why they get their eggs?
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They're kids because they go mushy.
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They get like when they're sliver hits.
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I love a pack of snacks.
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If I get chicken fillet, I'll buy snacks.
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I love babies but when they have food, I'll go down the street.
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I don't know what I'll do when I have a child.
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With all the doors.
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No Chris, no.
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They're sliver.
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They're slums.
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Ah, they try to touch it.
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I'm like, I'm going to wave.
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You know Chris, I'm a little girl who tries to try to get a little girl.
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We're tired again.
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And left.
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I've never bought a pack of hunky doors in my life.
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No, I don't.
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I need to make something else.
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I thought I wouldn't.
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I wouldn't.
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I've never bought a pack of hunky doors.
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I thought they were not regularly.
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I was in avid mainies look for years.
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I love all the weird like mainies, monster monies.
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Hot lips.
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My rings.
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All the cheap crisps.
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Why are there so much nice things?
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They're in a big blue house, Chris.
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Yeah.
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Do you remember the burning ice pops?
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Fat frog guys, remember them?
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They were good.
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They were nice.
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And now it's alcohol.
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So was that always the case?
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I was going to say, are they the same thing?
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Maybe.
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Maybe they just were like, fuck what my gals call instead.
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Because they took them off.
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They were done too.
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I have goosebumps.
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Oh, I think about Lolly who have sick.
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In between your teeth.
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I think now look at my arms.
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Oh my god.
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Rubbing the Lolly, it's one of my, I hate it.
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You know when you accidentally bite the stick?
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Oh my god.
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Because the fat frog ones had two sticks in them.
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They used to have two.
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One of them.
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Oh yeah.
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No, I just remember from a feast.
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I used to love these because not a way there was a hard bit of chocolate in the end.
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Because you know when you bite, you bite out your,
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and your bite your Lolly who have a stick.
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Do you know what I think fat frog did?
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What?
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When they took them off the Marriott.
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So when we had them, we were obviously a lot younger.
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So when they took them off the Marriott, they realized, okay,
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those people are probably now with alcohol age.
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That's true.
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Or else it's just not the same product as all of them.
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We're just absolutely.
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That might be, that's true.
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Yeah, I think that's a good one.
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Marriott in behind that is probably,
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no, I've never said, I don't think.
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It's nice to alcohol.
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Three good.
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Yeah, it tastes like that, then.
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Literally a lot of.
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Yeah.
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So good.
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But anyway, let's get into our dilemmas.
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Yes, so we try out these with dilemmas each week.
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So we obviously don't have the main podcast as well,
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but the bonus episode, which is what is the now,
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is gonna be just dilemmas.
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Yes, we get social influx of them.
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What do you do?
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First one is boyfriend of a year going traveling for a year.
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Don't know what to do about the relationship.
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Where are we?
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That's hard because it's like, it's your own interior.
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So new, yeah.
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And he's going away for the same length of time
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that he's a renaugater or shit.
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I wonder was it a case of you knew when you met him?
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He was like, I was traveling in two years.
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If it was something you always knew,
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like, I feel like you can prepare yourself for it more.
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Like, it doesn't make it, it doesn't make the sting,
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and he lasts kind of.
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Yeah.
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But if it was something that he always kept it in the loop about,
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I think you just have to let him do his thing.
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Would you say what's all?
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Yeah.
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Well, depending on how much you love them,
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and if you, if you saw a future with them,
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definitely, like, if you're.
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In your older years and so on,
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that age matters, but like,
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if you're, if there's, if that's the,
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oh, if there's no complaints in the relationship,
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if everything is.
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Great.
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Like, why not?
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Why not?
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Yeah, I think they're like, you'd,
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just like, you hate it if you held them back.
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Remember, yeah, you couldn't tell this.
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So, yeah, look at it.
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Like, this is going to happen.
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He's gone away for the year.
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He's going to either try and make a work,
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or you can say, uh,
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let's leave for even a minute.
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Where we try.
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We've answered these questions,
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but the girl wants to go away.
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And we've always had.
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We've always said, go.
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Yeah, you can't say any.
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I think her dilemma is more so to break up.
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Did they say together?
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Did they break up?
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I think try.
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Like, what's the herm and try it?
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Yeah.
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So, I mean, yeah, try it at the beginning.
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If it doesn't work, you can say,
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you did give it a go, and it didn't work out.
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And I think it's a big test, the ratio,
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because I think if you can't,
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I don't know.
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It's a different, different situation.
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I've been in the situation,
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but if you can't last year without,
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you see, like obviously, you have to see each other.
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Yeah, but if you can't, like, people go to like,
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jobs, not a rough like six months now,
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but if you can't go even one year without living each other,
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since you're all the time, then maybe it's not meant to be.
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Yeah.
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If you're not meant to be, then it'll work out perfectly.
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And who knows?
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You might, wherever he's gone,
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you might end up going over and you don't know what way things work out.
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So, I think always given something to go,
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but not like, don't put yourself in the pressure for things,
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or if something doesn't fear,
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right, don't keep down, but I always like to think,
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give it a go and see what happens.
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Yeah.
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And don't look at it as if like, oh, my friend,
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or living with her boyfriend, the mind's moving away.
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I think you're actually at an advantage,
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because he gets his cabinet the way.
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Say he does come out after the year,
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and he's like, loved it, and like, he's end up setting down.
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You actually have such an advantage in your race of the two years.
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Yeah.
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Because he's done that.
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He's never going to sit around when he's 35,
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and like, oh, we should do that.
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Yeah.
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I need to just do something by myself now and then leave it.
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Oh, yeah.
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He's doing, he's not, he's not that he's leaving, you know.
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He's doing his self kind of goals now,
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which is adorable for anyone who does that.
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Yeah, I think.
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And if the race should work so.
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Yeah, so I don't know.
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Yeah, you might find your way back to you today.
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Definitely.
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But yeah, I think it's a good thing to see.
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Definitely.
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So myself and my housemates recently fell out
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with one of the girls in the house.
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We have a house together again for the next college year
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to positive, it's already paid.
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She is very manipulative and lied behind all of our backs.
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We've confronted her about it.
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Do we try and put it all behind us for the sake of the next year?
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Or do we stand our ground and coher off?
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She really hurt us and some of, and some,
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and said some awful stuff about us.
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Oh, Eek.
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Forgive her to pause back and find someone else.
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Give her the boo.
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It's a year, like, it's not like a few weeks
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you can deal with it.
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That's a whole another year being with someone
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who no one gets along with.
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Who's horrible, say it by the sense of it.
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Like, yeah, I think if it was like, if I've never been in
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like a situation of sharing a house or sharing a space with,
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multiple girls, but I think if it was a case of,
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say if there's five girls living in a house,
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if two of them didn't get along,
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I think it would be something that you could try fix.
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Yeah, try either fix or just keep the two of them away from each other
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or whatever, but if it's literally
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one girl fighting with everybody else in the house.
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It's very different.
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Yeah.
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And someone just saying awful stuff about all of this,
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and they're like, why would you want that in your house
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and why do I want someone seeing it?
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Why don't you have that energy around you?
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Yeah, and like, you're obviously going to be talking
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chat in a way like who knows what they're telling your business to
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if they don't even like it.
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You don't really live so much.
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I don't know what she said about them.
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I know.
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Why would you go into space like on your own
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and just just bite the back off people
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that you're going to have to live with?
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Knowing that you're going to live with them.
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Maybe she's just a computational person.
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Like maybe she just, I don't know, enjoys the drama.
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See, she might like demand to like not leave.
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She might be like, no, I'm saying use can go.
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But in that case, you can be like, right?
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Use compared to you can be heard of us back.
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And you can find new housewares.
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Yeah.
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I just wouldn't want to live with someone for that long.
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A year.
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You'll be walking on a big shelf.
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No, you just be like, you want to be in a comfort.
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You think of your home as somewhere you're safe and comfortable with?
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Your home is your safe,
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yeah.
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And if someone there who's been talking shit about you,
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who I don't know if he's going to fix it,
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whatever, I don't know if it's fixable,
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but if it's not fixable,
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you're going to live in a hostile environment
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and it's not going to be a very comfortable place to live.
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And you want that in college,
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especially if you're for constressed,
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your eyeballs all the time.
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I think maybe give her, like if you and the rest of your house,
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my dog agreed, maybe give her the option of saying,
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we either need to improve on this work on it,
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leave a sort of, sort it, yeah.
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And move on from it in a positive way or
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she potentially maybe could find somewhere else to live
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or use can if you if you're able to do that kind of thing.
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Yeah.
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Only how much of the positive is.
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Like I feel like college,
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it's not that hard to find people today,
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which is because people are not very personal.
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Yeah, I'm sure it could be easy for him,
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but it's obviously a stress,
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especially when you're already living in a house,
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I'd say no one wants to live because there used to be in there.
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Yeah, that's probably where they're like,
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what would you want to live in?
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Yeah, you nearly feel like then she got her way.
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Yeah, if they are the one that was being there.
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Yeah, she pushed them out and she got her way kind of thing.
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If he's can't sort it out, I would.
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would not be living. I wouldn't be just sticking it out for the sake of living there.
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No. Because it's a whole year.
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Mm-hmm. Is it bad if your boyfriend paid for an only fan's account?
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Eat, yeah.
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We talked about this before a little bit, didn't we? Definitely.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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Fuck yeah, he got to buy you an ice cream or something like that.
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What is it, like tree or roll?
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Like, he could have, you know what I mean?
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Yeah. I would defend it on how much it is, I don't know.
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Yeah, it's a fan thing on the back.
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Yeah, it's bad.
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What do you look, unless it's a fucking cooking mama show or something or like one of them secret chefs?
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Oh yeah.
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And only fans.
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Yeah, different things only fans.
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Yeah, it's not just the boobies and the butts.
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Like I know, boys obviously.
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I'm a giant party waltz.
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Right, there's three pawns like.
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No, but I know they watch point, but then it's like when you see them paying for something that's like,
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so much worse isn't it?
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Yeah, that's what I mean.
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That's pretty pawns like.
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Yeah. What you buy it are for?
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Yeah. Yeah. Why do you want to see that one girl?
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Yeah. That's the thing.
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It's a bear being very specific.
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Yeah.
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It's kind of like cheating in a way.
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It's not like.
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Yeah, you can't stop for money to see her.
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Oh, her.
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Las Anise Philly is in board is the new thing.
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Okay.
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Shelly was so confused.
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Board came out of nowhere in New York.
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And Quiever.
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Quiever I just kept calling everyone board and then I started calling Quiever board.
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And now everybody is board.
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So shelly and his board.
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Lyanna's board everyone's board.
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Okay.
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So board is the new thing.
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So she hears the word.
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That's why that's not it.
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And yeah, right?
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So this birds.
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This bird.
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You're it's very personal.
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It's very personal.
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Isn't it?
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I think it's more of a thing as well.
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Like I don't think the girls on their own fans know who's paying.
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But you really feel like I don't know.
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I don't know.
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I don't think there's like a way you make your own use.
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I don't know.
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But like I'd say the girl who finds out we're boyfriend's paying for it makes me like I don't
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like it.
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I wouldn't say it.
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I know.
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I would say it is bad.
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Yeah.
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Definitely bad.
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Definitely bad.
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Like I said, there's other ways of.
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Yeah.
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It's just a little bit too specific for me.
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Yeah, there's other ways of.
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I don't even know.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Pulled it out for free.
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I mean, it itself.
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He does have a girlfriend.
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She doesn't.
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Yeah, never mind the free porn.
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So it's.
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Yeah, he has you.
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Yeah.
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Girl girl.
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Like no, I would definitely say it's.
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It's bad.
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I think it can be forgiven though.
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Maybe he's just one of these boys that just doesn't see like the wrong in it.
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Yeah, if it like most boys are fucking like.
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Things like this can be so broad.
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Like, you don't mean it could be some big American like.
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You don't know who it is that he's paying for.
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Not that that does make it any better, but like maybe she does now, don't make it.
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Yeah, but that's what I mean.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Like what if it's some girl from Dublin that.
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That yeah, good.
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If these people are even from Dublin, what if it's someone from his area who he might potentially bump into or something or like.
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I don't know.
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Would you admit to something like.
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Yeah, I got your only fans.
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A bread.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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I don't know.
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Oh, sticky.
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But I think why was in your shoes.
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I would lose the rack.
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I think it's break up with her like material though.
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Well, I'm a fucking gob shite.
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So don't ask me that question.
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Yeah, it's fine.
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I'd lose the head though.
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Yeah, wouldn't be into that.
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I think it would really depend on their reaction to it as well.
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Would they be like, oh my god, is it really nice how bad that was?
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Yeah, hopefully that's or if they're like.
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I want to encourage you.
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Yeah, if the defense I always always always find as soon as they get defensive when they know they're in the wrong.
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They will never ever admit to ever being in the wrong.
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Yeah, the whole defense thing and manipulate you to think that like you're bleeding crazy or whatever like it's.
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That's nice.
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Oh, it's fine.
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It's definitely fair to lose the head a little bit.
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Yeah, I would.
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I would.
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Yeah.
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So me and my boss commute up and down to an office outside Dublin.
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Sometimes we have to stay overnight together early the next day for meetings, etc.
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We were having a few drinks one night and he got a bit drunk and kissed me.
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I was in shock but then pulled back.
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He's a married kid.
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He's married wicked and I'm in a committed long term relationship.
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Oh, I'm highly tangled in it as I own some of the business.
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I've no interest in him and I told him.
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I've no interest and told him that and we agreed that it was a drunk mistake on his part.
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I swear by honesty in the relationship, but I don't know whether to tell my boyfriend as I still have to spend a lot of time on my boss.
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And I don't want him thinking that that that he will try again.
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Yeah, because the boy friends are going to think, um, actually the worst of it.
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He's probably not going to believe that it was like just.
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Yeah, I'm done.
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He'll think that that was going on for months.
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Yeah, his mind will go and if he's already maybe already has this fish.
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I don't know.
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Like he might be already thinking things.
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That's really, really hard.
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Because you're entangled in it with business business.
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Yeah, it's your livelihood.
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It's your job.
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I think if both of you know that there's never a chance to happen in again.
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Sorry, the last part doesn't affect.
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Do I try?
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I don't want him thinking all this time.
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He'll try again.
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Do I tell him or not?
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I didn't do anything wrong.
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Oh, you didn't do anything wrong.
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I don't think that you did.
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You pulled away.
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Yeah.
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So it'd be different if you were like one thing that's another.
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Yeah, yeah, to get out of that night or whatever we did.
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You literally said you pulled away.
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The fact is both agreed it was a drunk mistake like.
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I really don't know.
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When is that?
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She's all about honesty.
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She said, yeah.
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I think if you and your boyfriend have that kind of like trust and relationship.
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Yeah.
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He will believe what you say as in like your shock that you pulled away.
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All that.
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Maybe tell him.
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Yeah.
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And if you're not ready on first and that's going to weigh in your conscience like.
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I'll hang over you.
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Yeah.
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I think say it, but I just don't.
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No, I come to the movies.
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Then what you still go away with him or still in a business where I'm like.
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It's going to make things a bit difficult that way.
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Yeah.
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Depending on what type of person he is.
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Like I think.
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Like it would be different if she said like I have feelings from now and like I don't
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want to do something like that.
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The fact that they both literally agreed that it was a drunk mistake.
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If you think.
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That maybe it won't weigh on your conscience.
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Yeah.
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Then don't.
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Then I maybe wouldn't risk it.
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The fact it was literally.
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I don't know, but then again, I always say like being drunk is not an excuse.
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Yeah.
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So 100%.
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I think I'm taking that back actually.
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Yeah, I take all that back.
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So you say tell I think so.
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Yeah, yeah.
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I think he will understand as well because you're telling him.
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Yeah, honestly.
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Yeah, policy and telling exactly what happened how happened like.
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And just.
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Yeah.
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And whatever happens business wise after that is.
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Is work.
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So I mean it's he has to understand that as well.
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I think understand that too.
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It's hard to.
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Like would you bring your man in with with your fellow.
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And the two years explain.
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would that make him without making better or worse to think worse to think men are really like
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with mother man.
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They're the ego says.
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Yeah, they probably end up in a fist fight.
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Sure.
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Yeah, okay.
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Maybe don't do that.
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But I think do tell him.
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Okay.
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I think I feel like she sounds like a very nice person.
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He's going to be nice and that I hope you'll understand.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, because you didn't do anything wrong.
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No, you feel better about yourself for telling.
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Yeah.
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And at the end of the day, that's kind of all that matter.
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Yeah.
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So keep us updated.
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Yeah, please do actually.
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Hey girls, I'm still changing the idea of traveling or saving and building a house.
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I'm single, but would love to head off.
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Maybe teach a broad for years, too.
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But I really want to start saving to build my own house.
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I'm 25, but I'm just unsure.
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So I set off and explore the world for a year or live abroad and stay at home and live abroad or stay at home and save.
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You were also helped me with a previous term.
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So thank you so much.
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Oh, girl, you have good dilemmas.
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Wow.
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Oh, God's travel.
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Yeah.
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I know that I know I get that dilemma that because it's like a sony that just in the same bro.
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When I started here in a forest, I thought she meant like she had the money to build a house now kind of thing.
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Yeah.
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If that was the case and you were like, I don't know whether to travel this year or literally build my house this year, I'd say build a house.
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But the fact that like you're putting off traveling to be able to start the saving process and so on.
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That is an absolute fucking joke of a country for houses.
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We know that.
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So I wouldn't stay at home for save for a house.
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You'll find your feet.
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You'll build a house.
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Yeah.
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You'll actually really save more by living abroad.
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You would find a farmer.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Save more living abroad especially since you see some of our people do that.
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I think save something.
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It's a nice having a roof.
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Yeah.
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I wonder then when you come back from Dubai, do you have to pay tax?
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Wait a minute.
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That you made over it.
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I don't know.
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How long do you really have the money? So I don't know I don't have it easy as making it come straight back
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Yeah, I know I just go out for there and do that. It's probably like a Dubai bank can't that
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There's definitely ways that you can show his ways that people do it and legal ways obviously yeah like
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You don't have to stay here to save like I said you can go
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Abroad and still be saving and have a great experience
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Yeah, it might not be as much as you as you might like to save while you just be sitting in Ireland
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But like you're then upgo over a great and it's almost drawing you 25 100%
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Yeah, you need to see the world. Mm-hmm. That's how myself that as well
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Yeah, traveling is literally like
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priceless. I put a price on traveling and it's also
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You're not a password time. No, not timeless
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Like you can't really deal for your whole life because yeah, once you kind of advocate
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Obviously some people do okay then wherever else but
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There's kind of a stage where your life isn't all about you anymore. There's a part where it's easier to travel
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Yeah, especially your single
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Yeah, go out you might meet nice
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My friends
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I'm a world of land in Ireland and then he'll be like oh yeah
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That's my mom. I'll just get a farmer and just build a guy just have a little to land
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Like, ma'am that's terrible. Like just for his land. Any farmers listen. Let's know just for his land
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Yeah, I think definitely
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To live your life, too. Please do even if you're not saying as much even your life not saving at all at least travel for like a year
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Do it. It's a year and you'll always think about not doing it. Yeah, you'll be sitting on your porch
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We're 80 on your rock and chair and I wish I didn't
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I wish I went traveling and you get an American accent
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I'm gonna move to America. You probably never come back to Ireland wasn't you
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No, damn you girl travel. Yeah, do it. Yeah, 100% thanks for listening. Thank you
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That was this week's extra juice and like we said it's like an extra little snippet of
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Oh, bit of us bit of dilemmas your two favorite bit of tea
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And then our obviously our norm episodes are everywhere and say still yay
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We can hear more of that over on a land. Yeah, we need to get like a little team
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Chan where we have like a little open account. Is that a root for theme dude? I think the theme too
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Little written no, if anyone else what I'm talking about rope the theme dude
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I'll find you watch him or not that dude
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I'll find you
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Okay, we love you. We love you. Thanks for listening. Bye
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