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Any updates?

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So I made a hinge.

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For?

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A hinge profile.

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We like that.

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I kissed someone that's weekend.

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Oh my goodness!

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Welcome home, morning.

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Couldn't stop crying.

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Oh.

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He has got a chocolate milk addiction.

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He has four days at least.

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Hello!

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Welcome to how my drink was charlotte in an Ellie.

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We are a girls group pod guy.

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Girls group?

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You are.

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Yes.

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Like we're a band.

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And we have been around for years.

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Welcome to the look.

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We have episodes every Wednesday.

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We have episodes every Wednesday.

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We have episodes every Wednesday.

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We have episodes every Wednesday.

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How many of you have produced?

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What once a month is called extra spice.

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And it gives spicy dilemmas.

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And it has both.

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And it has both condoms.

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And it has both sex.

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And it has both.

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And it has both.

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Well.

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Everything's bedroom, really.

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Yes.

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All the bedrooms.

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All the staffs are spicy.

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Yes.

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And these dilemmas you've got going on there.

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Send them in to us on that little cell.

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And the first one of every month.

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We are here to help.

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Okay, it's gone.

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Whatever advice you can give.

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We have live show coming up as well.

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If you're interested in comment that is on Vickers Street on the 8th of May.

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Mm-hmm.

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Tickets are available now.

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There is a very few tickets left.

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A brief.

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It's going to be such a good night.

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We've amazing guest signed up.

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We are so excited.

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It's going to be the kick start of summer.

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Yeah.

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And we just can't wait to see.

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So if you've been to a show before, you'll know how fun they are.

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Yeah.

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And if you've never been to one before, I want to come.

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We would love to see you there.

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Nobody has ever had a bad time at a home age ring live show.

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Please go.

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Include no.

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That's a total.

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It's just it's a ball.

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It's holes on.

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It's fun.

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You can come get dressed up.

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But it's something different as well.

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I think to do.

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Yeah.

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For people like it's not a concert.

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It's not.

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It's got a nice kind of middle.

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Yeah.

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It's a nice girl.

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Yeah.

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It is.

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And we spill some secrets and stuff on live shows that we don't necessarily spill here.

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So you get a three real.

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Three of a half tee.

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The hot live shows.

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Yeah.

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We got a dilemma in during the week and we have to read it out because it was that I seen this comment.

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Actually, it was adorable.

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Oh, did you?

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So hey, girlies.

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I know you have your live show in the history and the eighth of May.

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I just want to let you know that on the eighth of May last year I was brought into my baby boy.

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After a whole day of nothing happened.

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I hadn't died late.

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I decided to listen to your pod to help me go sleep.

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30 seconds in your podcast.

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My water's first day.

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I don't know where.

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And then I relate it after midnight.

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My baby boy was here.

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I listened to live show as I used to celebrate this first birthday.

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But it just feels like a whole full circle moment that it be a year exactly.

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It's one to the share this week.

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Oh my.

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It's all so gorgeous.

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Oh, I wonder where we still play.

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And as you were given birth to her.

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Where are we?

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Oh, I know.

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I was in the top of God.

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Oh, that is so sweet.

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That's actually mad that it was.

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It's an actual exactly your later.

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That is so so now.

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I have the first birthday to your little boy.

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Happy first birthday.

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That's adorable.

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So cute.

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Oh, thank you for sharing that with us.

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I just remember that coming in my heart just broke a little bit.

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That is so sweet.

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So maybe like maybe I think babies like hear things.

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Yeah.

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Don't want to use to listen to something during pregnancy.

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Yeah.

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Maybe it was a voice.

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There's specific voice that you think get to talk to baby.

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Yes.

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What you meant to say are music apparently music babies.

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Yeah.

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And they know their mom's voice as well.

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Yeah.

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So sweet.

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Yeah.

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So cute.

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I love it.

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And they can be like, they can be hand by songs that they heard when they're in the room.

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I think it's mad when you see a bit like they're still like,

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or your room like move.

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Yeah.

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I know.

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Fascinating.

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That might just be what I've already put the book.

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And it's like, imagine how that feels in the inside.

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Yeah.

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What if you're like,

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I don't know.

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Someone is literally in someone like, yeah.

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Well, it's so magical.

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It's lit.

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Yeah.

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Not me trying to take, we're taking credit for this baby.

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Baby heard that boy.

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Women are just like, congratulations on your gorgeous day before.

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So sweet.

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And what a nice, what a like actual full circle.

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I want to be a wild days near.

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Yeah.

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The wild days.

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The wild days.

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Happy birthday.

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Happy birthday, boy.

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I had a really awesome again.

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That's again.

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You did your rain.

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Schnee.

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I flew down.

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You're not terrified of the chaos.

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No, sure.

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They weren't out in the open.

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Yeah, but I just feel like you'd be terrified of the chaos.

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Anyway, they were kind of scary.

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Yeah.

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I thought it was a bull.

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But it wasn't.

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They had horns, but it's called a short horn.

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Chaos or something.

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Was the bulls or some bulls?

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They're like, vicious.

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Really?

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The red-legged ones that are in the, they hold the red flag.

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Oh, fuck yeah.

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That's a bull.

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That's a man.

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Chaos, isn't it?

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Yeah.

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Are they just antagonized on those?

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That's what that is.

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Well, yeah.

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But they're like, I think they're aggressive.

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They're most snappy because they belong on bulls.

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I did think it was going to lick my hat or bite my hat or something.

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Well, they all come over down to the little baby.

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The baby cows and the most gorgeous things I was saying.

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Can you touch them?

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No, they wouldn't let me.

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Oh, they were scary to me.

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No.

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I was trying to be like, I was just moving my hand and they just slowly went.

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Move it.

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But they're adorable.

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But it did smell.

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Okay.

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It was obviously them.

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You know, probably little ones that wouldn't smell the very either part and parcel.

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If it was left on the ground.

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Yeah.

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But they were so cute and then we, I needed to get a care.

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Okay, for my TikTok.

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For the Hannah Montana one and I'm not you messing.

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When we were looking for cows, there was none.

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I went drive and it creeps my eyebrows around.

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It was not.

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Well, obviously was sheep.

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And then the way back to the airport then I'm not you messing.

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I'd say we seen about 200 cows.

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Oh no.

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Don't want to get in there and you're not looking for it.

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Yeah.

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And there we go.

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Like anything in life.

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Like you're looking for it or like if you have money that you want to spend,

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you want to go shopping, you know.

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You will find.

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No, it's when you don't have money or you.

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Yeah, you'll never.

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You won't be able to.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Someone texting.

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She's like sharing more views on my dad's cows.

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In her TikTok was not my bingo crowds.

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And then her sister and then text me.

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She's like, I love the same surname.

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Oh, cool.

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And Steve knew the surname.

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She's like, yeah, probably like.

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Oh, did you have to ask someone can we go in here?

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Like, we didn't go in.

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We just feel the pressure.

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Oh, sorry.

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Yeah, yeah.

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There was a guy.

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So we didn't go in.

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But then for the picture that I got.

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Yeah.

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We asked that forever.

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And he didn't even quit.

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And turning on the car.

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So yeah, just hot.

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I didn't even question why you not.

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Off you go.

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Yeah.

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So like sense of community.

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I feel like that Dublin.

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Doesn't have.

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Or maybe used to have.

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And doesn't as much anymore.

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Yeah, or maybe only in specific areas.

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Yeah.

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I feel like people in Dublin like wouldn't know.

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No, they're neighbors a lot of time.

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Yeah, I don't.

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Well, like I like I would now.

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From when I was younger, I was like real quick.

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My dad, my mom would be closer and stuff.

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If I was to move to the state now, I feel like how do you meet your neighbor?

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I know.

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Do you just not like that now?

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I feel like it's different.

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I don't know.

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Yeah.

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It's not as much sense of like you would knock in for a bit of what do you like.

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Like the milk.

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Milk.

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Yeah.

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But it was really awesome.

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Oh, lovely.

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And.

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That's name cream.

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From Rhinies.

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What's name cream?

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Oh, oh my God.

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I thought I'd tell it was unreal.

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They had to buy.

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I tried every flavor.

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That tastes.

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I thought every single layer.

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But your bike.

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I thought it was something that had to crunch in it.

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Ooh.

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It was really nice.

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I haven't had my chocolate now in a while.

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Do my chocolate is coming out of my room.

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But that's what's making me like where's the good one then?

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If there's so many of them everywhere, we best is my I know I make it.

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Would you make them regularly?

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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It's the best.

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Because you have to make it.

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You can't reach chocolate like.

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Yeah.

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You need the real stuff with it.

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You need the reals it like that's what makes it so nice.

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Yeah.

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And I love it being really crunchy like maybe like.

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Oh, that stuff.

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Yeah.

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And it.

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Someone said it reminds them of fingernails.

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Oh, oh, I can see that.

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I remember who it was.

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Yeah.

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Oh.

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Oh, no.

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Oh, I hate that when you get tired and you're ahead about something and you're like,

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I can never eat that again.

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Yeah.

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I've eaten it since I was a little sorry.

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It's a minute like a moment of that.

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But I don't know.

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Flues carry shoes.

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I'll very quick.

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Yeah.

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It was a very long way back.

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It's 25 minutes gone.

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I already 45 come back somehow.

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I think he went down around in the sea and up.

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Because we're over the sea at some point.

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So he must have went that way.

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A different way.

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Yeah.

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I was going to go around the counties with a paying was packed.

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It's a 35 seat right now playing.

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My row and he had two seats.

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Yeah.

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I had one then plays.

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I had multiple merch.

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Yeah.

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Because it's not just in the middle.

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I was like, it was massive.

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I was packed.

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What the hell?

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Yeah.

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And what was career for like time?

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Is it time?

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My name back home.

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I was told it was everyone else's because everyone else obviously goes really late.

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Right.

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So it was closed at five.

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I got there like 10 to five.

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But like so did I.

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Like it wasn't just me like the queue wasn't like massive.

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I think I only believe in the queue was for doorbell.

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Okay.

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That was the only flag going out that evening.

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What did they say?

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And Charlie and I think yeah, yeah, big like but it was a long list of people.

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I don't know why the other stuff.

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You know, your insecurity.

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Yeah, you're there.

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Anyway, the plane.

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I don't need to let you down.

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So I didn't hold anyone up.

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No.

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And for my Hannah Montana clip, I waited.

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So everyone was off to play and did you and came off last so that I was.

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Bogen, no one behind me.

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Why did someone try and say that you were someone come to me like.

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Yeah.

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She know it was someone joke when she was like, oh, someone was definitely coming now saying.

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that you held up again, then getting off the plane,

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like, by way, did I ever go?

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Me?

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Mine.

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Mine for girl, mirror.

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Urgent, mine for lady.

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How was your weekend?

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It was good.

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Did nothing, did I?

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Hung around my sister on, sorry.

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It went to be your house actually.

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Oh, yes.

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Yeah, and I'm sectional, you know.

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Like, house prices kind of, the price at Selenport,

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never, ever believe it's gonna go for that.

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Never.

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The house price went up like 80 grand

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or something like the highest bid on it,

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it was like 80 grand, it was just like 80 grand more

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than the price at Selenport.

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So that was fun.

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But I just want to get into my swing of going to View

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and like, I was speaking to the man that was shown to View

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and then he was just telling me what to do and to look for.

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Yeah.

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But it's really time to meet with other people in the house

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because you really feel like you're in competition with them.

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Yeah, I, because you're like, if they want it,

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you want it, you're like,

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Oh, no, you're kind of like,

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the fuck are you here for?

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Yeah, I know.

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I don't think much.

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Imagine like that was your home.

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Like, everyone's just been walking around.

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I know.

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Because that was the second view on that week

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of that specific house because I missed the first one.

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I focused up the time anyway.

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But I just walked around my sister and I said,

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where's this family go?

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Like, but then again, I paid the view on what's on for half now.

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Yeah.

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They just got to clean.

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Yeah.

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Well, having to have your whole house clean.

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And I'll, but it would also be a bit like,

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I kind of just end up, like it was some hair and room.

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Like it's, yeah, I just end there room.

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I know.

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I know it is mine.

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Yeah.

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Like on like, yeah.

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It's just a bit of, yeah.

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And when for a meal went shop and then Mcqueeva got a bit

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brachy.

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I knew the cold parts, you know, there's a lot of new jewelry.

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But we came clean and a new diamond spark or something.

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Yeah.

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Got a new diamond put into it.

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Oh, shine.

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And I got some rings and other cladder.

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Oh, go ahead.

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And this is called what's a cult.

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Signet ring.

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Yeah, go ahead.

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This is a signet ring.

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Am I never new?

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I think that's a big is it?

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I've had that on since my communion since I'm eight.

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I've had that on 21 years.

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Am I?

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Yeah, 21 years.

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I've had that on for.

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So that's a signet ring.

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So I said I'd get another one on that hand.

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What else do I do then?

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Nothing.

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Cleaned.

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Cleaned the house.

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Yeah.

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Milled around the makeup room.

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Got myself a little ward fire last night.

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Oh, so we just, oh, I get to buy on this one.

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Oh, I like, but I do like a bone doing.

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No.

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Has to be flat.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Like so many people will.

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Yeah, I lead to the ones last if I'm like, you know, all the flats.

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But, but I'm just handy.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, that was, that was kind of it.

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Welcome to morning.

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Couldn't stop crying.

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Oh.

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Watching all the Maritante talks.

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Oh, they got me last night watching my face.

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I was ball.

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Oh, my eye.

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The guy holds not a big tree to see him.

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Jesus.

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Oh, I can't.

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And there was another one I watched this morning and it was a fella after the Maritante.

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He was coming down the escalator in the tube and I'm like, oh, when everyone's clapping

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for him, they're all clapping.

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Oh, my God.

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I was balling.

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Ball and he's like, I'm so balling.

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Like, ball the comments were like, if we were only all so kind to each other all the time.

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I said, that's so true.

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I know I've seen that.

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Something about the Maritante.

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Graham is over in Madrid and he did the Maritante.

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Yes.

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Well done, love.

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You did it.

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Good.

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Amazing.

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Well done.

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But because I was saying to him, I was like, I want to fly over and I want to like,

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yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I want to be there at the end.

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Like no one else, girlfriend is going to like, don't.

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I was like, okay, okay.

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Well, this time for he said to me that he's going to do a full.

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He's going to do another one and he's like, I want you there for the next one.

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I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, awesome.

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It's amazing.

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Very played at anybody doing Maritante.

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One thing that would get me really sad though, I didn't know at the very end of a Maritante

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is a car and there's like a poster on top of the car and it's like race finishing here.

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So it's the very like you have to beat the car.

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The car is the very last thing that comes through.

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Like if the car passes you or like you're behind the car, do you just walk off?

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Oh, yeah.

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Because I've seen a few TikToks of so many people giving like big boulebles to the people.

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The last two very last person.

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Like that's such an achievement as well.

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Like to even say you did it.

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Yeah.

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What if you're behind the car?

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Do you just, oh, you know what I mean?

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Oh my god, that's heartbreaking.

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No, someone said just they were like, it's a hard day to be an empath.

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And I was like, yeah, literally.

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Everyone I see and it's the songs and all I just hold your's yell song in the background.

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Yeah, yeah.

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I just can't, it's far them running for that long.

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I don't understand it.

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Like I do a breath ever.

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Do they get everything?

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Like when?

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I don't get it.

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Is it like harder on your legs?

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Like what's going on in your mind?

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I just would love to pick someone's friend and just say, like the longest I was in the

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gym the other week.

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And I was like, I really want to like try and run.

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I was running on the treadmill.

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The longest I did it for was five minutes consistently.

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So I ran for five minutes consistently.

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And I was like, fuck this.

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How do you run for like two hours?

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How do you keep going?

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It's a very much a mind game.

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Is it even when I ran like, I just think where even when you feel like you want to stop,

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you can, you actually can keep going.

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Like you can.

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I think my mind is too much to be like, girl, you're going to die.

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You need to stop.

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I'm back running now a little bit.

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I can do like, I haven't tried a five K.A.

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Yeah, but I've done like four.

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I've never ran that my life.

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But like I've never like the breed in whatever they tell you to, I can't do that.

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I spent over two hours.

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I was doing it most.

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And with the more I try and do that, I got.

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I can't get enough rest in my into my nose to breed.

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And I breed out too much when I get dizzy.

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And I'm like, do you know what?

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I'll just keep doing whatever.

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A lot of people use them.

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No, things.

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Oh, yeah, true.

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Things that open up.

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Maybe you can breed them more.

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But yeah, true.

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But yeah, I'd love to.

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Fair play to anyone.

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My uncle does it without trying.

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Yeah.

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Just for the crack.

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Yeah.

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That's that's like what like I do think.

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Maybe love to hear more of it than other and like have that natural.

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Yeah, I said them, but I also think it's if you have a strong mind, you can just go.

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Yeah, look at Jamie Lang.

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He hadn't trained much for them.

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The wreck and he definitely didn't.

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Not much.

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Really?

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He was in bits when you still got on because obviously you were so motivated by everything.

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Yeah.

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You need a reason excruciating.

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You would need something really like motivate you to do it and like give you a cook

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up the arctic.

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Yeah.

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Fair play to anyone that did it.

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Yeah.

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It's very well.

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She is obviously couldn't do it.

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So if you listen to last week's podcast, you'd have heard our first episode of our new

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mini series, love bird.

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Woohoo.

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We have our love bird in the chair.

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No, we want to mission to find love for here.

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We're playing Q for basically.

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Yeah.

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We taught who asked us to get in and the one alone name is camera.

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I think I've been last week apart from any updates.

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So I made a hinge for a hinge profile.

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We like that.

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I kiss someone that's weekend.

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Oh my goodness.

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And they were 24 so we've gone up a little bit.

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Okay.

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We're going up the younger side.

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Yeah.

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We're definitely getting closer to 25.

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We're coming up a little bit more.

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Yeah, and that's it really.

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Okay.

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Can you tell us who you are?

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No.

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Where did you find them?

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I literally said I'm going to be a little bit more.

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I literally said I know I'm going to be a podcast.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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So I was like, oh shit, I can't make no.

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Do you know them?

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Yeah, obviously I had my tongue down his throat.

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No, I mean, you know, no.

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No, no.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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Is he in there or worlds?

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No.

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Okay.

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I don't know.

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What's in the other?

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What's in the other?

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School?

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No.

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School, no.

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Okay.

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You're school.

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Like when you're school.

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You're school.

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No.

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Okay.

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No.

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It's like I've never been guest here without a game.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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Any more hint?

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Happened to be in the same place as you or is this like a set up thing?

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Yeah.

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We happened to.

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We happened to.

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Get the words.

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No.

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No, no, no.

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We just bumped into each other and I was like, and you know, we're just like, no.

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Okay.

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I don't know.

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I'm long at all.

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But I just was like, I kind of felt it.

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Oh my god, I really want to know.

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I'm going to get some sober.

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I think it was a joke.

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She's so good.

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I feel like we know.

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No, he's don't.

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I promise he's don't.

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It's just really, really funny.

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Why?

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It's funny.

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It's just like how we met was really funny.

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Did you probably bump into each other?

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Yeah.

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Like I was leaving the venue and he was coming in.

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To re-kissing on the street.

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No.

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Oh.

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You're like, I'm going back in.

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No, like I was like leaving and he was coming in and I was like, oh shit, I kind of fancy him.

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And then I left and then I was like, right, I'm going back.

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Yeah.

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Did you feel my heart itself?

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No.

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I don't know.

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I was like, I'm going to go on the garage.

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I imagine I was walking back in my mind.

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I'm like, you're my myself.

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I got on him.

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Okay, I like this.

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Did you kiss themselves or like it was just one of them drum things.

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No, no, don't kiss themselves.

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Did you text you the day after?

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Uh.

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We're gonna have to cancel the tell show.

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No, I'm not.

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We're not.

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He texted me like two days later.

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Okay.

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I'm gonna do say what was his shout?

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Oh my god.

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Fuck my like, okay.

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I'm like, I'm panicked that people are gonna know who it is.

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But I'm like, he's only gonna know who he is.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I'm gonna do you know that you think.

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Yeah.

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So he just sent me a photo of his dominos and was like, have you ever had this before?

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I did it on the other side.

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He's on the other side.

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Oh yeah.

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Okay.

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I like that because it's something to do with you and like he's funny.

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Yeah.

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Aware of things you do for a work or whatnot.

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Okay, we like this.

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We don't need us at all.

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Fucking hell.

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No, but it's fun.

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Like I'm still like, I just kissed him.

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Like we're not like there's no problem.

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In a red love.

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No, no, no, no, no.

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We're gonna see him again.

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Maybe.

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I don't know.

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Okay, will you show us some laughers?

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I will.

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Okay, okay.

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Very much.

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I'm so thrilled through it and have a scan as if we're experts in hinge, but we are today.

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Yeah, I want you to like rate my profile and tell me if you'd like slides.

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If I would.

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Yeah, I would.

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Okay.

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Okay, let me see.

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Is that why hinges slide and slide?

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I don't know.

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I know.

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So obviously I never had it before.

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So I downloaded it to try and figure out how to use it.

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Oh my god, I have 50 plus likes.

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I just need you.

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I'm like, what are you doing here?

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I'm not doing something.

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How did I just stop?

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How did you?

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Hello.

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I'm out of here.

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Oh my god.

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I think I suppose the only thing I will say about hinges.

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So I basically went and I was playing it with my friend and like hinges desperate.

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Easy.

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Yeah.

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As I end the challenge compared to other ones.

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Yeah, I thought that it was a lot better.

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Like I understand the frustration from the girls just because like, okay.

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It's more so like this, this slide-ins and stuff like that.

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Like some of them are just.

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actually the people it's like oh no like whatever like there's all sorts

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there's plenty of fish in the sea like you can't do it like it's not necessarily

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that either but it was everything yeah I just was like oh and then some of them

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like people can like you I haven't actually liked anyone yet on hinge okay so

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like if you like someone it pops up for them that I've liked them so I haven't

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liked anyone yet so can you just text anyone if to match together you can reply

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to their prompts so that's what your prompts are for so your prompts are like

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things to get people to reply to you but you obviously don't want to make your prompts

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like serious like it's obviously kind of like show yeah sorry I did reply to one guy

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and he was like he was pretty he might have been there yeah he was 37 and I replied to him

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one of his prompts where I'm convinced that so you have like loads of different ones so like I'm

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convinced that I think that this is yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah

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so he was like I'm convinced that there's no such thing as a good leg tattoo and I was like

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the elephant on my ankle would beg to differ do you have a lot of power yeah did you get it in

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Thailand no I got it so I said that and then he matched with me from that reply that's better

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flying and he was like I'll have to have a look my generalizations might be too sweeping but then

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I haven't replied yet because I was like I like he's very good grammatically

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and that's not that sweet big word I think an English teacher or something yeah I like the way

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the hinge is like that though it's like your first initial text and is icebreakers like it's yeah

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yeah yeah just hi yeah were you like do you know what I mean there's something to spare

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a conversation instead of being real awkward yeah yeah that's true that's kind of good so now I'll

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give you my profile okay okay I feel like it's gonna be no no sexy yeah let me see gal

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reading the thing or yes that's the picture okay I would swipe so here it says together we caught

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and you filled in the next part yeah that would be a bit too much about your height that's a good one

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it is man air I never realized the guys lied about their heights like yeah like I kind of I knew

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that like save someone's like 5 11 they might say they're six four grams but like I never realized

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that they actually like but then I was like how the fuck would I know what six four days anyway

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I know yeah I know yeah I know yeah I would just be no but I wouldn't know what how top like yeah

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like I'm telling on a wall no like one sees Tyler knew I don't really hear by how much I mean yeah

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like I feel like a lot of girls they don't necessarily need a man chair run over them just once you're

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tall or yeah I'd be out well I think I'm really sound because like I go through the shorter

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kings because well I'm five five you do go for the shark king yeah it is really you're taking

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over the team what like I'm I'm leaving all the tall guys for the tall girls because I know the

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struggle of what like for my friends I have friends who are really tall and they're literally like I

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can't get with someone's order them so I'm like I'll go for like I just met a five seven guys just

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my type like fine I think I'm only five and a bit I'm not I wouldn't care for a really tall man

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as long as it's taller than me that was not that much like he's five eight yeah yeah yeah maybe

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the taller than that he says he's five ten I don't know see they all just add on and out

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on a few yeah am I start adding on I'm taking away no I'm sorry okay self-employed baddie did you

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really able to put in yourself yeah love love I love that this is your second pictures this is

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the care care on a our mom's bar yeah dance and we care what how like that's just very you you yeah

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but then I gave it to my housemates boy friends go through and review the profile as well and he was

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like I had a few other photos in it and he was like oh you look like you're a little bit too much fun

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oh you mean and he was like he was like because I basically had all like fun picks from like events

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and stuff okay he was like you look like a little bit too much crack like we might like yeah like

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he was like left because he was like you're into the gym like put in a gym pick but then I was

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like I don't want to put in a gym pick and be like oh like look at me I like the man yeah yeah

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that's the kind of vibe I got but I let them convince me I did it but I don't know if I should

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see but that's just how different me men and women think like the man would look at you having a

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good time and thinking like you she's a mad thing yeah you're a mad bitch you can't weed look at it

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as in a completely different way as in like she's mad bitch in a good way yeah yeah well I feel like

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the right man is gonna be like love her yeah ball wow yeah if someone's like oh no like then he's

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not your man yeah well I think you've got I feel like okay so gorgeous first picture good then

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fun thank you more I'm sexy and then he also show your family woman yeah you and your man yeah but

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someone replied to the photo of me and my mom and was like is your mom single your mom in the

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she is she oh my god and the makeup is on there for the award yeah oh my god great

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cry then you and a lemma wasn't it yeah yeah love a homer a homer I love that picture and the

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little play boy wait what's going to move that the right I'm really attracted to Peter Dinklage

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oh my god girls you know your man from Game of Thrones no you never watch John Snow look

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he's honestly don't tell me it's the Irish fellow with the whitebird no worst idea I've ever had

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using the guards as an uber explain you asked for it I did it before someone did tell me where

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they're like the guards have if you go up to a guard and you're like I have no money or my phone

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said like they have to give you a little we're really yeah I can imagine a lot of the

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ones for off they like half they're like Lee Lee it's funny I'm true it was just years ago someone

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tell me that ring the local official it wasn't that no it was you ring no basically I know someone

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in the guards and I was having like on a medical emergency but like kind of a medical emergency

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and like I could have probably just gotten a taxi to the um hospital but I was like having a panic attack

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wait that was the medical emergency ring no no no no I was having I was having a panic attack

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over the medical emergency and then my basically the guard that I know like picked me up in the squad

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car brought me to the hospital this is okay that's fine oh so you're in the guard car yeah I'm

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with you in uniform yeah blue light yeah no blue lighter for sirens or anything like that no

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no no no that's fine it was just a friend picking it up okay yeah yeah he might have been unjudged

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he bought like your what's the word on the floor hell yeah was that risk yes so like so it's fine

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he was doing the large work he's doing a shop yeah I thought I was going into toxic shock oh oh

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tampon yeah yeah tampon yeah tampon yeah and it was literally like a panic attack like I literally he

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was like and I couldn't move I was like lying on my bedroom floor and I was like I'm gonna die I'm

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gonna die I'm gonna die and they were like okay we'll bring you to the hospital yeah I'm really

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fine no I was grand after yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah okay that's fair yeah it was scary it actually

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is when fear that happened yeah that's scary if I whenever I sleep when I'm yourself but that's a good

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thing to put in like that's something that someone could ask you about like in a story to tell

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Evertona is like do I actually want fellas to ask me about that really well?

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I can just feel like you're like your ankle or something.

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I feel like you could change that.

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Yeah.

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Because if they were to ask if a lady needs to tell imagine how long you'd have to type that in.

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Yeah, it needs to be like a short and sweet response.

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You need to get into your response that you can really really win the end.

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Yeah.

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So I feel like of all things I would change this one.

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Can you send voice notes?

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Yeah, but on all my, are we doing a voice note?

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Definitely.

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Oh, because then you'd be like, oh, I'm a totally sexy.

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Oh, you can add a voice note onto your page, can't you?

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Yeah, but God, you liked it.

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I went through all the voice notes and you only had a voice note on there.

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So I was like clicking it and listening to them and someone had on their hinge.

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My biggest fear is when someone's face doesn't match their voice.

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Oh, there.

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I looked up down on YouTube before, man.

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I have to know what you sound like.

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Yeah, I kind of get like that as well.

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Like sometimes if I don't think you're facing your voice,

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yeah, because you have this image in your head about you think someone will sound like.

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Do you ever get your first voice note like from Graham, definitely did it.

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I'm not calm at all here.

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He definitely did it.

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Like the first voice note team said, you're like, oh, no.

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Yeah, I'm on the way.

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I like, I'm going to meet you there.

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And I was like,

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Hello.

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I'm not leaving.

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We have a language for each other along.

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So it's so.

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And then we were all like, yeah, like, yeah.

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I think like listening to a back and be like, you don't have to do that again.

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No, you, you record it like that.

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I need to try to be on the actual.

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I need to keep redoing it on or something.

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You're like, oh, sorry.

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I'm re-giggling again.

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Okay.

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The next picture is a unit friend that I gig.

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Love.

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She loves her music.

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Yeah.

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And then you're over the gym pick.

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Yeah.

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That needs to go up higher.

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Did you think?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I would put that.

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I just think it's so potent.

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I know that like it's literally our job.

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I think you have a wild.

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And then you've wild again.

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So I think put one wild down for it.

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Just about and put the gym up closer.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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I would switch that to the gym.

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I would switch it over.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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We're going to put up a green shot.

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So if I was a man, I would swipe.

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Yeah.

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I know one three fifty likes.

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It's quite left.

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Oh, you put in if you drink or not.

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Yeah.

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You can put in if you drink.

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You can put in if you like smoke weed.

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If you like do drugs.

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Well, you can like take them out if you don't.

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You don't have to.

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You do like not visible on my profile.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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So I just I just put like the drink one.

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Because that's all I do.

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So I was like, I don't think I need to buy the rest.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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So how can I edit your to change the order?

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So I think we got to have a.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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We're going to change.

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We're going to go sexy awards image pick.

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Okay.

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Wild on the bar.

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Okay.

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Alice.

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Who's your mom?

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The family.

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And Jim pick.

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Okay.

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Friend.

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Yeah.

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And then wild again.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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I like that.

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That's a good order.

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Okay.

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And then let's.

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Will we change the prompt?

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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I feel like a recently discovered that as a good one.

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A life goal of mine.

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My greatest strength.

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A random fact.

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I feel like you've a good random fact.

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Yeah.

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A random fact.

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I'm usual skills.

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I thought we must have like a hidden talent.

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I wish.

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I wish.

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I wish.

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I wish.

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I wish.

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I can't plan to literally.

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I can do this place when I'm almost.

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That's a good one.

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Yeah.

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Then I feel like that.

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I like my dream.

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Like I just think that's so attractive.

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When someone do this.

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I would do any.

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I would always do it.

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I would always do it.

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Any occasion just.

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I literally act to our contours.

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Zinner.

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You'll be well able to do this place.

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I'd say no.

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My hip stretches.

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No.

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My hips are the highest things.

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If you did stretches for a month.

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Really.

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You'd be well able to do this.

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Do this.

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It challenged 30 days.

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Yeah.

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You're glad.

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Yeah.

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I'm a bit more bendy now from that.

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But like not.

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Not stretch.

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Not hips or feet.

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What's called?

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Maybe I'll do it on TikTok and do it every day.

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Yeah.

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Because like I'm like a good case study.

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Because I can.

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Do it.

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You sure?

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If you know your lunges on the reformer.

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Like if you've used them back really far.

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You're like basically.

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I think it's.

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I don't know which way my hip is.

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Like when my arm fine.

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I didn't like this.

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But then there's the out way.

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Kind of.

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It was different.

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I can't go out.

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That's what my.

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For you to show.

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I don't.

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I'll be able to do it.

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But not sideways.

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Right.

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Yeah.

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Imagine your pelvis.

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Like.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it.

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Imagine your pelvis.

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Like, I think only certain people can do that.

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I don't have any tears with that.

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Yeah.

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My most irrational fear.

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I'm terrified of birds.

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Oh.

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Love birds.

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I'm terrified of birds.

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I'm terrified of birds.

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I am.

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Birds.

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I am.

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Birds spiders.

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Anything like that.

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I'm like, if there's a bird,

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I'll come beside me on the pavement dog grass throughout.

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Really.

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You know my bird.

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Are you afraid of them?

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in the middle of the world.

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Yeah.

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In London, it flew.

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Yes, it had touched my hair.

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Yeah, no.

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I thought it was just a bird.

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Yeah.

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Mine's whales.

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Wales.

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Never been in contact with a whale or a whale.

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I am terrified of whales.

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My dream.

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Yeah, that is.

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No, I could.

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I think I'd be afraid if I was on a boat and there was whale beside me.

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Imagine being in the ocean.

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Like in the top of the side of a whale.

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I can't even imagine what I do.

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No, even thinking about whales, I'm terrified of them.

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I'm terrified of whales.

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I'm terrified of whales.

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I'm terrified of whales.

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Yeah, I saw that.

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I kind of hate anything in the ocean.

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When I went to Barbados, we were going snorkeling.

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You were the stingray?

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They were like, let's go down to the stingrays.

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I was like, let's go down to the stingrays.

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Does no one remember Falcon's steve urine?

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Yeah.

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Why are we going to rest ourselves?

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We're going to go over it's hair.

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That's why if it had a storm,

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any rails, other than it's hard to be found.

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Oh, really?

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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So you don't actually die from sting.

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It's just because it's the longest hair I gave my hair attack.

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Oh, really?

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Yeah.

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Really?

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Yeah.

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It's strongly on the floor that we find.

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Oh, you're fine.

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Like, obviously, it's sore.

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Oh, I was literally on the floor.

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I was literally on the floor.

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I was literally on the floor.

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I was literally on the floor.

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And they don't cut really completely yet.

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I don't know, in his case, what he was doing.

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But my mom was just like, they're not afraid of you and you are of them.

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About everything.

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I'm like, I got a fire.

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I'm like, imagine the porous fire, they're looking at you.

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I'm like, I'm like, I'm kind of a fan of moths.

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Oh, yeah.

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I don't like how fast they are.

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I don't like butterflies.

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I'm actually kind of afraid of butterflies.

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I have one fucking tattoo on my shoulder.

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Oh, that's a bit silly.

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I never got a fat air.

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The butterfly hose in there.

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Oh, my dear.

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Oh, yeah.

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I saw it on the outside.

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Hell no.

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Not happening.

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Okay.

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Is that a rational?

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I think a rational is more like something niche.

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A rational is like mayonnaise.

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You're turning it in.

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I think I'm like, I'm going to be like, oh, irrational fear of men.

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Yeah.

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Dating me is like, I feel like that's a goal.

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Oh, what do you say?

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I'm like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be

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like, OK, I think the best crack ever.

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yeah.

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Ab lush or virtual.

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Okay.

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I do understand it.

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Yeah.

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Am in bras for sure.

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I am with you.

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It was not that kind of transformation.

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I'm nervous.

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Um, it was fun.

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You might be surprised if you had a baby.

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Oh, yeah.

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You know what?

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I don't pow wrong.

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Yes, but that was random is the Christmas Wolters and the World of

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England.

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Oh, it feels like forever.

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A bit like that.

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I like that extra scheduled day.

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Yeah.

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It's crazy.

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You feel like.

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Is soughtayn andание.

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Yeah.

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pop rock we need you don't want to be like too serious

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no no no but I want to what a pop rock nothing to put your mouth they're all sweet

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it's starting to go

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it's very crackling and all the chicken and the crackheads yeah yeah

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taking me is like I'm trying I'm trying to describe you as like a a thing or a

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food yeah something that

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em

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it's really hard come up with my palms

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I'm trying to think what it will be and then we can put it into the food after that like phone

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exhilarating that's why yeah that's fun

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so I am definitely keep a man on his toes yeah yeah I was trying to think of my

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type as well right so yeah I'm gonna spend the weekend I said what is my type like what is the like

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common team that I have personality it is that's what I realize it because no one really looks the same

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I'm like that they all look really different my news to be tattoos really yeah but then I found

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I'm not really none of my exes had oh I used to like a tattoo was really really deal for me not

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at tattoo but like tattoos and then it was only when I started my from tattoos I finally find

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that I've realized yeah but I think that like what my type has been like overall is like men who

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are slightly terrified of me oh yeah so like they have to be a little bit afraid of me from

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me to be attracted to them yeah yeah they can be like more comfortable yeah I don't know what it is

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but there's a real like there's a real certain type of guy like they have to I have to feel like they're

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slightly scared scared yeah I'm like I'm like I'm like do you think that like you have like mommy

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issues like no I've a really interrelationship with my mom like what's that and she was like no you go

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for guys with like mommy issues is in like they're afraid of like getting in trouble with you so they like

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I ignored it.

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Oh, I don't know.

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And I was like, I thought that it was my therapist.

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And half of them got?

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No, but they all have really good relationships with their mother.

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Oh, that's important.

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Oh, that's good.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Some of them might have been like, what is the mind of Italy's edging on a little bit too close

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with their mother?

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Oh, we've talked about that for years.

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We hate her.

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Yeah, I'm saying, the man thinks he can do no wrong in life.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I don't actually mind.

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I actually, obviously, really don't know what to think of.

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I go into relationships with their mother, but like, I think there's definitely like a

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fine line.

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There's a line.

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Like when their mother gets involved in the relationship kind of, yeah.

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I've had that happen.

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Oh, God.

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Yeah, and it really was a nice.

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Like, you can handle themself.

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Yeah.

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I'm just like, you're an adult.

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Like, why?

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Yeah.

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I've had like someone's mom give out to me.

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I have an argument with her.

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I'm like, yeah.

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And I was like, like, that's a line that you can't.

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Yeah.

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Any, any mother that's ever, I'm trying to think any mother that's ever like gotten involved

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in, like, a relationship with me, they've always taken my side.

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Yeah.

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Like, love that.

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Yeah.

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Give it to me.

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Yeah.

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Like, yeah.

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That's what I'm like.

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My mom would be like that as well.

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Yeah.

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And obviously, really close to my brother.

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Like, they're literally like, we have a sport.

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She'd be on the girls.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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What did you do to upset her?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Where is I had it where she was like, give it up to you.

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She was giving you to me.

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Yeah.

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She was like, you're being a little bitch in the airport or some shit like this.

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And I was like, uh, okay.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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It was like proper.

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Yeah.

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It ended very shortly after that.

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I was like, this is you.

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Yeah.

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What do we have in that now?

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I was thinking like on on the edge keeping on her toes.

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Like, what about dating me?

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It's like a bungee jump.

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Or something where your toes are over the edge.

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Or keeping on your toe.

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Ballet.

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What do you think this is?

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Like a

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like a puppet.

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Like, what is I don't know what it means.

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I love I would love so much here at public public.

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I would love one of my ex's come out of me like, what was that?

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What happened?

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Yeah.

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Do you reckon someone would send in voice message?

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Is there anything again?

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Good terms.

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Any of them.

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Um, I'm on like, I would say I'm on good terms with all of them.

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I don't know if they did the same back.

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But it's in I think that I'm like, I don't have any issues with it.

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Yeah, if I thought any of them out, I'd be like, hey, how are you?

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Yeah.

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Like, I don't like hold any hold any grudges, but I don't know if anyone.

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Maybe we can hold that for a future episode to send you get in contact with someone

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here as access and ask what was it like today?

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Care.

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We can put a voice effect on you.

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It goes.

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Yeah.

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Public Carla.

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We won't name a shame.

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It's don't worry.

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But we need the ins and outs of what.

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You know, the mouth document.

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Yeah.

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The documentary.

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They're facing like those toys.

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That was a bit of a point.

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I'm not wearing a mask.

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I'm so funny.

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Okay.

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We're going to ask the listeners.

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Instead to help us.

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I feel like it's on the tip of our tongues.

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Yeah, we're.

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It's hard.

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You'll come away from it.

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And then you'll be like, oh my god.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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So we have we're going to give us two options that you can send winning for.

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I'm options of what you can say.

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So one of them is dating me is like blank.

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That's what you think today.

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It's like.

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And what was the other one was that.

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I was talking about Irish.

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The rest of them have to be like, maybe I just do that one.

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Yeah.

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The other one is stuffy about you with that.

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People are not like, yeah, here's the stuff.

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And ideally if one of my X's could ride into that question.

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That would be.

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Yeah, that's.

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So dating me is like, blank and make it like.

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We're in for.

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Because obviously we can.

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What's the one just wrote in?

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I was like, shit, take me is like.

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Shit.

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Okay.

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Take me as like, shh.

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I'm like, forever.

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That's your opinion.

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Yeah.

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Okay, so I've sent them into us.

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Send them into us and let us know when then next week.

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Welcome back.

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Finish the profile.

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Actually, in the meantime, maybe you should reply to some wee

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planet and let us know next week as well.

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Okay.

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Is there a problem if you get people to send your voice notes?

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I think that would be hilarious.

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Yeah, I think taking reply voice notes about stuff,

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right?

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But is there something that you can put up that they have to

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reply a voice note?

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Oh, you should think of something to say that they have to send a voice note back.

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Okay, like, think they're favorite lyrics or something or like,

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you do.

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I recently discovered that and then you could say, you could send, no.

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Nevermind.

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But it's not.

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I don't know.

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It's not my heart.

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Oh, voice first.

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Yes.

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Can you do it?

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You cannot do my best, dad Joe.

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My best, lever impression.

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Oh, it must be yours though.

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Yeah, I have to do the voice notes.

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Oh, no.

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No, thank you.

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Thank you.

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You can do that.

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I think, well, I'm sure they can send them back.

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Some of them are so funny.

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The voice notes are actually the best part to be honest.

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Yeah, I think they're a profile and I see a voice note.

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I'm straight away.

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I'm like, let me see.

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She's came to her romantic thought.

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No.

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She's crazy.

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She's an awesome person.

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Thank you for that.

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She re-enacts the voice notes on it.

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No.

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It's the funniest thing ever.

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She's Irish.

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I know she's not Irish.

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I don't know where she's from, but she basically like,

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so she gets voice notes off guys on hand.

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And then she does like an entire show,

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social dress up as what she thinks the guy looks like.

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And like, does a voiceover like a...

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Oh my god.

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My voice note is so fucking funny.

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Does she like, proper like, act like them and all?

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Like, really?

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Yeah, like what she imagines their life.

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Oh my god.

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I would love to do that.

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I want to do it because I feel like we're going to scare people away.

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I think we should strive for voice notes.

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Oh, Kera's exes.

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This one might be FF's reason for why you should date me.

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Why don't we do it?

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Voice message.

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Do you want to?

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Yeah.

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You can do it.

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Yeah.

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Oh, right answer.

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Why is that?

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It's better.

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Let me just write it.

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It's not, let me do the voice.

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Why is it not?

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Let me do that.

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Oh.

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To be honest, I'm really new to it.

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I don't really know how it works.

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Yeah.

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Oh, sorry.

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I'm hinge.

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I could try figure it out.

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Yeah, try it.

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And then next week we can do that as well.

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Yeah.

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And we'll get voice notes and Kera's exes.

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Okay.

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Come back next week for an update.

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And Kera's lovely.

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FF now.

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Red flag radar is where we get to see.

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The side.

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Yeah, decide if what you've seen

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in someone is a red flag or not.

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Yeah.

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So are we a little give a hint for the live show?

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If you're coming to the live show.

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We're doing this.

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We're doing this.

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What it's going to be so fun.

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Yeah.

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Okay, your alarm valve.

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That's all I'll say.

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Yeah.

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It's going to be so fun.

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So this is today's first red flag radar.

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He has got a chocolate milk addiction.

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He has four a day at least.

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That's a lot.

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Well, he's getting his calcium in.

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He likes his chocolate milk.

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I'm also chocolate milk.

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It's nice.

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Lord's a chocolate milk.

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I do like chocolate milk.

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I don't really like milk.

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Before a day.

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Before a day is a lot.

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That's excessive.

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Listen, there's worse addictions to have.

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True.

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Come here.

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Is there hurt in anyone really?

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This addiction probably is bells, but probably is bells.

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Surely if you drink that much milk,

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yeah, he might want to run.

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I wish I was as not lactose intolerant it is.

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My God.

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God.

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I think it's not hurt in anyone.

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Why?

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You're trying to cue.

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I feel like chocolate milk is real like.

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Oh, yeah, in it.

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Chocolate milk.

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It's real.

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Childishness is not missing.

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Oh, green flag.

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Yeah.

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Oh, it's real sweet.

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Like, the man just loves his chocolate milk.

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He just loves chocolate milk.

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A man just loves chocolate milk.

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It's just a sweet thing for the day.

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Fortized.

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Sweet.

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I'm not saying right.

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I'm saying green.

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He's got a teddy on his bed.

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Tucks it in when he makes the bed and everything.

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I have a teddy on my bed.

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But if Dan I'll have one on his bed,

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we can't be sexist here about teddy's.

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Yeah.

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I have one and I expect Dan I'll treat you fine.

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And he just took it in for me when I'm not there.

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Dozy.

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Yeah, if it was one of them raggedy things we've talked for a part

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that like stings and like this is a fresh teddy like that.

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Yeah, I got it.

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I don't know.

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That's not okay.

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It's me a teddy every time he goes to a trip.

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That's so sweet.

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I know he got me one in the back.

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You know the dog in a ham bag.

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No, yeah.

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You know when people like

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it's the thing you showed me on your back.

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No, no, no.

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That was a tag with dogs on it.

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You know when people carry your dogs the bag.

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Yeah.

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But it's like a teddy version of that.

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Oh.

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I know.

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It's a little ham bag.

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I got.

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So.

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I don't know.

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So you can't say ref like they're like I think it shows he's.

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If that's the only thing he's doing what her.

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That means he'll be not like imagine talking to your kids in bed.

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That's why I think.

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Just don't watch him talk it in.

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But then if yeah, yeah, yeah,

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I'd like to see it like it would be really like precise.

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Yeah, talking it in.

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I think if he's doing a few other things with long with that.

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But I think green.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Do you think green now?

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Red.

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I let you take that one.

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Not red for just kind of in the middle.

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Yeah.

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What's red in green mix?

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Get it.

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Red and green makes purple.

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Mix but no, I'm singing the color song.

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You mix red pink and red for pink.

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No, I think you're making this opposite.

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No, the color mix and song.

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Never heard of that in my life.

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Blue and green for purple.

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It was like some English song.

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Sure.

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Oh, yeah.

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Mix.

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Nice and red for pink.

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All I'm thinking of is the, is it in Barney, the rainbow song?

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Barney, yellow.

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Oh yeah.

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Purple and orange and blue.

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I just love Barney.

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I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say,

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remember sleeping on my summer?

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Have you seen Barney recently?

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You know what I'm saying, boy?

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He just looks so good.

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Oh, he just looks a-o, he's skinny.

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Oh, my mom's face on me and American

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showed me like a Barney teddy in the shop.

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I was like, well I guess that.

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I was like, he doesn't look like real Barney.

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Don't get him.

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Yeah, change.

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No, I like the old original.

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I can't hollywoods.

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Yeah, he's got a real like, I can't look.

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Oh no.

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Oh, it's sad.

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Oh, he needs to look cool.

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And last one is, he doesn't talk to his sister.

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Ooh.

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I need to know the reason.

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Yeah, stuff like this, they need to be like,

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we need extra information here.

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Like, is it that he's held the girl driver something stupid?

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Because that's probably red flag that he held

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to so much.

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Or like, if it's something fair, if it's something

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that's fair, don't tell the girl

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to over, I think that's a green flag.

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Or what if it's a case of that?

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Nothing actually happened.

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And he just doesn't know.

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Do you just genuinely know?

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Don't know.

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Don't talk to my sister.

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That would be a red flag.

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Yeah.

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If he just is willingly not, if he doesn't,

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it's family.

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Yeah.

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And if you can like cut someone off like that.

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Yeah.

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That's red flag.

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He can then even probably cut someone else off.

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Yeah.

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If there's a reason, like a justified reason

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for it and something actually happened,

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okay, I'd be like, yeah.

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This all happens when I, everyone's having a...

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Yeah.

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Like, able to say in touch.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I would say it's not a...

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I don't know, because it's not on the context.

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Need more details.

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I'm gonna say, yeah.

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I'm sure of that one.

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Yeah.

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We're saying that to side.

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Yeah.

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Need more details.

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We are doing six-and-a-sales next.

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So we answered dilemmas and try to help you

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with some queries or questions or dilemmas you have.

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So this one is, me and my ex-boyfriend broke up

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nearly four years ago.

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We were together for three years

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and I just convinced I'd be with him forever.

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But I broke up with him because he was lying to me

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all the time and was so lazy,

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which just all caused me to mentally check out.

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For around a year after the break up,

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he tries best to make amends, send me flowers,

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but me things, et cetera, but it was too late.

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Around two years ago, I found myself wondering

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why he was up to.

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He lives two minutes away from me

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and I'd started to see him around quite a lot

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and he started working where I work.

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We ended up following him on Instagram

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and eventually got talking and catching up.

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He changed a lot when we broke up in a good way

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and I re-enjoys company.

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We bent out together a few times.

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I've always talked it as friends.

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We would message quite frequently

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and he'd ask if we were getting back together.

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I'm still dealing with the hurt

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that he caused me last time

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on the serious cross issues he gave me.

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I had another boyfriend after him,

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but he has never had another relationship.

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I really enjoy having him as a friend

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and when we don't speak for a while,

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I always find the urge to message him again.

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But he said he loves to me too much

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to continue to just his friends

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and it would be all or nothing,

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but I'm just not there.

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I don't find myself watching a boyfriend

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all of a minute as I enjoyed my own company a lot

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and still working on myself.

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But if I can imagine my future,

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I can only imagine myself getting married

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to having kids, et cetera, with him.

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But is this because I find confident him

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and just haven't met my person?

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I just don't know if I'm doing more hard,

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but with my continuing to reach out

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to try and keep some sort of relationship.

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Or is it some way to tell me

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that we're supposed to be together?

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Any depending,

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I would tell depending,

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not my family friends will open a lot

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and I always talk about what's getting back together,

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but obviously don't realize how much he hurt me.

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I feel like you can see it from both sides like that.

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Yes, it probably is a comfort to you because, you know,

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yeah, but then also what?

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How can you definitely say,

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no, I shouldn't go back there?

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Because there has been stories of that happening

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and like, and it works.

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Sometimes that genuinely does work for some people.

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So how can you,

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how can you rule out that either?

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Like it's hard to know where to sit with it.

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Like, I feel like he could have

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he might have actually changed.

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She's a can.

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Like, I don't know why he lied about that.

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I wish I did know.

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Hey, Lauer, that's the only thing.

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And girls really do mentally check out like that.

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Oh, yeah.

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Like when we're mentally gone,

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where there's no, there's no getting back.

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It just clicks one day, I think.

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Every year he sent flowers.

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Part of things.

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What was too late?

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I feel like I think.

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I think you'd know if you felt like that.

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I don't think you'd have to like ask, is this going to be?

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You'd be like, it is.

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I know.

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I'm sick of my pack of dinner like I just,

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it was just a knowing feeling.

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Yeah, you didn't have to question that.

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I wasn't like, oh god, like, like, yeah,

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I just knew I was like,

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well, it was just instant.

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But maybe that's not all the time.

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But I feel like if you knew you would know,

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I do think it's worth her trying.

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Or is she doing more damage to herself than in the future?

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I don't know.

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But if you don't try, you'll never know.

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I'd rather try and failed.

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Then not try to tell and said, what if I hate a what if?

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Yeah, but if she's not wanting a boyfriend right now,

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I'm like, what's the rush as well?

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Like, if you're liking your single time,

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you could just still continue on with your single time.

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And see where that takes you.

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And if something happens to me,

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time it happens, but don't like overthink it.

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So don't rule out anybody else in your life either.

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No, yeah, I don't think.

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And I think don't think about only because you can see him

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as having a future for him.

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It's probably just because you've been with him.

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And like, he's your most maybe longer straight.

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You should remote most like steady that you've put

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a scene that's so now you can't imagine anyone else.

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Because it's hard to imagine anyone else

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when your brain doesn't know that person.

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Yeah, you can't put them into your brain.

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Yeah, never met them.

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So that person obviously is going to stick

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more in your brain then.

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So I think, I don't know.

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I think keep our options open girl.

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Don't be real and out anybody else coming into your life,

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but also like, and don't leave it up.

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See, look, I'm just controversial as I was going to say,

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don't leave it all up to you to be the one trying.

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Like if he's, see, he's saying he can't be friends

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or anymore, he's like, he loves her too much.

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I'll go back with him, will you?

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I think you should put yourself in a situation

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where imagine your heads, he says to you,

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right, we can't ever see again.

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I don't want to let it hurt me too much.

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Would you kind of have said,

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but not, not obviously we can,

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but or be together like, how would you feel?

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Or how would you feel if you see him with someone else?

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Yes.

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Or he said to you, look, I'm after you're at the girl

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but like we can't talk anymore.

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Like, you're so used to having him there and having him handy.

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Like he's, he's always going to be there for you

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because he like, you love him.

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So I think it's imagine if that was taken away,

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like that might make it feel a bit clearer.

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Yeah, what would you do then?

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What would you do?

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Yeah, you decide then.

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Yeah.

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Let us know though.

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Yeah, please.

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I'm just off-tated.

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And see how it goes.

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I like to all your family, like my brother.

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That is a good sign.

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Yeah, but they also don't know him

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what she's hurt in the past.

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Oh, I take that back.

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Yeah, take it back.

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Take it back.

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We take it back.

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Let us know though and give us an update on how it goes.

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Yes, please.

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Phone friends, we get illisterous advice.

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Just grace.

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So this is the dilemma that was sent in.

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I'm 18 and I still have my V card.

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Did we call it that way, we're younger?

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No.

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No.

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Unless she, I think you would do.

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Thank you.

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Oh, not neither Dublin or now.

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What are your singles, please?

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Yeah.

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A lot of time, I'm very single, so you say,

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I have to do a Dublin.

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Yeah, that was a real satisfying thing.

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Oh, hello.

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Hello, pal.

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I just like the dust.

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Mine is.

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Great.

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She's an inner spread nurse.

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Yeah, you're loving me.

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Sorry.

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OK, phone friend.

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I'm 18 and I still have my V card.

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I feel so behind from everyone else.

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All my friends have lost it and I haven't.

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I still have never even had a boyfriend.

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I'm so embarrassed, especially when I get asked about it.

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I even lied once saying that I lost it.

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We've all been there girl.

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So don't be embarrassed.

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I don't know why I'm so ashamed about it.

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I don't even want my closest friends asking.

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I feel like I'm somehow less wanted than my friends,

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which I know isn't the case.

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We're all gorge and they have boyfriends.

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And I've done my fair share of pulling.

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I just haven't lost it.

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I need advice on how to manage this though,

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because I feel like I'm at the point now.

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I lose it to anyone just to get it done with.

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Oh, don't do that.

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So here I am that it's not a place.

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Girl, you're still so young.

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It'll happen when it happens.

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Don't procrastinate yourself.

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I felt the same, girl, but I met my boyfriend at 19

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and two and a half years together now.

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I wouldn't change a thing.

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Oh, I'm so respectful.

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I'm a jealous of people who have never lost it.

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I wish that I waited.

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Oh, wow.

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That's good to hear from someone who like you wait and is.

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Yeah, that's good too.

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Oh my god, absolutely do not feel bad about it.

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I lost mine at 18 to a loser and I regretted so much.

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Honestly, like think of that loser.

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No one that he has that like.

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Yeah, yeah.

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I see it.

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No, no, definitely.

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Like don't just let go for anyone.

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Yeah.

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I was 23 and still had mine and fell this way too.

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I waited for my boyfriend and we're 10 years together now.

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I'm so glad I waited until I was ready.

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There's absolutely no rush.

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See, they're lovely stories as well.

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Then because like imagine me and went in your part

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for 10 years and me and like, nope.

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That's the only one.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Your buddy camp doesn't do to her and your work the way till you're ready.

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So true.

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I think everyone around you like just because they're doing it doesn't always mean.

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Whatever they're doing, you don't need to do what they're doing.

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Yeah, I know at that age it feels like that though.

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My mom was just to say and if they took the part of the day to do it.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, man, probably.

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That age probably would be, yeah.

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Literally.

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When you're that age, you just want to blend in what everyone else

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and be the exact same as everyone else.

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But flip it on its head and really listen to what people are saying here now,

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because I feel like that will help you along with it.

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I was in a similar situation at 18 and it used to get to me.

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I waited until I met someone who I was comfortable with and was 21 when I lost it.

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When I started, you only found out that most of my friends also had their bee card

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and it made me feel so much better.

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Girl, nothing to be ashamed of.

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Sex is all right at anyways.

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We need to have put in timeline.

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Yeah, I went like at that your first time.

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It's not like in the movie.

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No, we need to have put in timelines on ourselves for things in life

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and just go at our own pace.

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I lost my V at 21 and I can beat you on a stand if the sister feels.

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I was surrounded by people especially at 17, 18, 19.

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That would just talk about sex constantly and it was like something that made me feel

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always so insecure.

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Everyone knew I hadn't and I dreaded games like never have ever et cetera parties.

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But I'll set 21 of my first boyfriend.

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I even liked him instead.

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I had sex for now, 27.

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I'm so grateful.

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I was on the other side.

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I was able to make wise decisions on who I let have my body.

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No one talks about sex as much as they did at that age anymore.

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So it'll pass and it will happen when it's meant for you.

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That's so true.

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Yeah.

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Like even at this age now, like we would not be around each other and be like.

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So yeah, you know what I mean?

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It's not something that when you're younger,

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it's not comfortable conversation because there's so much pressure on it.

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Whereas when you're older, no one barely talks about it.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Don't be embarrassed so many girls the same.

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It's all about when you are ready to have sex.

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Yes.

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Everyone has a different timeline.

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Nobody is behind at any age.

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Don't rush things.

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You will own your credit in the long run.

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If they're real friends, they will stop asking true.

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That's true here.

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But that age is like you just want me.

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You so badly want to fit in.

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Yeah.

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But like the older you get then you're like,

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you don't have to do that.

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Like Joseph Mann and he's like,

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you're actually like, it's really cool to not fit in.

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Yeah, you're the cool one.

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Yeah.

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You're cool to them.

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Yeah.

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You're different.

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Yeah.

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And I know what that is.

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You might feel like different is bad, but different is no.

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Different is your super parent.

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Yeah.

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Wait until you meet someone that you like.

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That's it for this week guys.

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And we will see you on Monday.

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