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Switching_Off_From_Work_And_Breakup_Regrets_#152

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Hi there, it's Mario Rosenstock, host of the Mario Rosenstock Podcast.

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Now I had to jump in here quickly before you start listening to one of my podcast colleagues

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from the Goal Out family network because I'm very excited.

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I'm ridiculously excited.

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I can't even sleep with the excitement to be honest with you.

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Because it's coming up to Christmas and Christmas means great TV and great TV means Disney

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Plus.

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There are so many brilliant shows for you to stream like season three of the Emmy award-winning

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The Bear, which I followed and which I loved.

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It follows Karmie, Sydney and Richie as they do whatever it takes to elevate their beef

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stand, turned fine dining establishment to the highest levels.

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Or fancy a large helping of drama, excess and power grabbing antics among the social

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elite of 1980s England, then rivals the show based on the celebrated novel by Dame

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Gilly Cooper is the show for you.

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Die hard.

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Is it a Christmas movie?

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Is it not?

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Who cares?

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It's a classic.

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Going on Disney Plus this Christmas along with other festive classics like everyone's

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favorite, all alone.

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And all of this and last more for just $9.99 a month.

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So let's get streaming because Christmas is better with Disney Plus.

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Go Lade.

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I never feel how hot I am.

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Yeah, same.

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I'm like a big, cozy, cozy bitch.

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I'm like, wow, you're literally like a radiator.

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Oh my God.

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You will never ever hear me and like, oh, yeah, I have that tone.

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Never.

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Yeah.

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Could never be me.

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Are you mad at me?

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No.

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Role, crispy Role.

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Poor chicken gravy.

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Salth.

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Oh, yeah.

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No meat.

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So on this easy episode, how much drink we talked about work like balance, being busy,

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how does one juggle life, friends, family, boyfriends, work, dogs, extra critteries, dogs.

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Yeah.

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Get your 10,000 focus.

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Exercise mental health.

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Cooking.

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What is appointments?

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This way you get one error free.

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Yeah, we just not pleased.

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We got some really good advice in people of how they manage work like balance, how we

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manage errors, little bits and barbs, where we're job and that's health and employment

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is a little bit different to the time management that sense.

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We had a dilemma about a girl who regrets making up with her boyfriend who she broke up

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because she wanted me to be able to his home country and then she regret it.

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And then also a dilemma that was really such nice the answer by use of my friend.

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Oh, no.

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About finding mommy friends and how to find them and we got some offers of people who

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listen to what to be friends.

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That's so cute.

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We're going to try and organize some kind of weird meat opera, butter group or something.

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Of course we always chat.

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Normal at start.

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Mm-hmm.

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Chat.

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Tired girls this week.

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Tired girls.

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The top right laughland and a few other rites as well.

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Yeah, that was it this week and I hope you enjoyed.

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Thank you.

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Welcome to Howard Drink with Charlie and Ellie.

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Our podcast is a group of two new friends, the girls bathroom at night out where you spill

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all the gossip, our relationships, dilemmas and life.

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If you're a turn listener, welcome back and if you're a new listener.

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Welcome.

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Hello.

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I wonder because I feel every Wednesday at 12.

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We also have bonus episodes.

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Monday at 12 and full video episodes.

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Thursday at 12 as well.

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And we can listen to more of us now on the go-led app or wherever you get your podcasts.

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And yeah, we've already made it in today.

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Very, very, very.

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God love us.

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Very tired.

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Really had it in my head that I wasn't inside and I'm like, yeah, why?

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Shit.

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I don't know.

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You checked me.

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Are we in the water?

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Yeah.

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You're like, yeah, we're in the water.

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Yeah, it's like 20 to 10.

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I was in the chair.

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I'm still in bed.

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So, it was a day off.

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Yeah, I don't know what happened.

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It's because we work about, I think it's because we're doing a back week look.

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Yeah, whenever we record, we always have one already recorded.

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Yeah.

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Which is good if like something was, if someone was to be sick or something.

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There's no one there.

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Yeah.

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There's always one there, but we've to catch up then after it's, but I think that's

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why we're very confused.

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I think we have a few weeks off of our Christmas.

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Yes.

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A couple, I think.

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Smaller Christmas break.

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Just a tie.

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Just a two week go.

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Please.

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Yeah.

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We have another race since January.

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January, yeah.

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Which is long.

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But January was the only break we ever talked in the past.

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Yeah.

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And that was an accidental one.

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Yeah.

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How long was it again?

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I think it was like January, April.

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What?

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Three months.

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Yeah.

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Wow.

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I January to March.

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It wasn't just a month of January.

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Oh my god.

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Sorry guys.

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Yeah.

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It was accidental.

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It didn't mean it.

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It was sorry.

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These things happened.

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For like, for like, yeah.

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Yeah.

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We are just back from our live show in Limerick.

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Mm hmm.

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Ball.

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Ball.

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So it's a good time.

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Too much of a ball.

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Craig was so nice.

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Meet me.

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We were so lovely.

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Everyone was so glam.

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Loved it.

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I was just so lovely.

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It's just, and we became by themselves.

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So I'm behind the ones.

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I know.

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I'm so lovely.

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But yeah, we were all so nice.

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And we're just, excited to more.

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Sarah told me there was a girl at the Limerick live show that has been to every single one of

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her live shows saying, yeah, yeah.

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I don't want your name.

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If you can let us know for you, I really want to find and you find who it is.

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Yes.

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She's been to everything of our live show.

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I'm like, my God, please I canto.

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I'll speak it out.

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Yeah, we need to find out who you are.

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So if this is you and you were listening, please send us a message.

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Please let us know that it's you.

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Yeah.

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Because that is just mega look.

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easy, unbelievable. So when I see it, you literally can give us a full review. Yeah, what do we do better?

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I just make your opinion on 100% fully. Out of everyone, I take your

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everyone. Yeah. We went to house and after it. We did. I had a good time.

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They told the very end. And it was just a ball. Great crime. We're very

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remote. Still. Still. I think it's just, I think everything's actually good. This

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month for us is crazy. Yeah. We're black Friday everything. I just think

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November is always this time. The year always is very busy and just

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it I feel like a all goes really, really fast. And then there is like a little period of

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it's kind of down. I think November's works in December now for me. Yeah.

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Especially this year we had three live shows. Yeah. Hallelujah. We had laugh lands.

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And then everything between like work. Yeah. That was when I look back that month, I'm like, how

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do I do that? How are you? You're a trooper. Oh god. Yeah. You're like a sureselabony.

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But I don't know. One day I'm just going to be like, you're

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getting to that stage. Yeah. I think it's the age to put out the

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limmer because amazing. So thank you so much for so much everyone who came.

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I did Dublin as well. Yes. So all of the girls actually came down from Dublin to

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Limerick. I did it. Some thanks for it. Yes. My family were there.

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cousins. My mom and dad. Thanks guys. And I need to say a massive thank you to House

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Alana who did my hair. Oh yeah. Bad old nice. I had a ball before even got to Lysha. What

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you mean? A ranger and I was in the car. The owner of House decay Laura.

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It would drop me to get me tan and drop me up to you. Yeah. Got you a tail.

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She was like, say your cousins. I said, no, no, that was girls from the House of

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K. She was like, what? Yeah. I was so I was touched. She's got other cousins. I had a ball.

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An absolute ball. Oh. So thank you so much for that. Alana. Liz, you had my hair done like

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half an hour for us. I was so lucky. So nice. So nice. Amazing. So thank you so much for doing that.

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You're a sweet heart. So. We stayed in the strands. The strands? Yeah. Lovely room.

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Lovely hotel. Very, very like their staff lovely. Very nice. Didn't actually eat anything there.

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Nope. In the end. Didn't family shine there? No. Because we only checked in. Yeah. We didn't get to go

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to the show. We got to go to the bathroom and then didn't get breakfast right in the next

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morning. I didn't even until throw his for chicken that I got. Tisuna. Not properly. You know, I had

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like a snack and they go, we had to somebody see we were in the shop where like, is there any

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chickens coming out? Which are like 20 minutes? Do we wait? We just get home rolls. Now we need to

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wait. So we got them and roll. Krispy roll. Four chicken gravy. Salt. Oh yeah. No meat. I always

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forget when somebody asked me my death, tell me like what would it be? That would be.

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Have you seen people making the boards? No. Of like grocery street food? Yeah. So they have like

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their boards with their chicken, their gravy, their stuff and their bread. Like my, this is

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this you are. Bless you. It's basically like a charcoot rebord but Rochis street chicken chicken style.

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Yeah. Oh god. Very good. My mental disease style. Just be kind of vegan.

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Just for the live show I was in Lapland. Yeah, fill me in about oh my god. And like so magical.

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Did you feel like a child? I felt like yeah. Yeah. So the first thing that was like so we

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traveled we had to get stuff out of like because there was no direct flight Sunday we flew or back.

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So we flew to Milan. Milan? Milan. You went down it. You went down to go off. So we flew three hours

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down and then three hours up. So getting there in the end but like we've lined up from Dublin

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six three hours. Oh okay. So it looked doable. So if I tell me to check back in, put our bags

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back on and things like that. So enter Coca-Cola. Yep. And when I

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think of Christmas I do think I'm going to be at the end.

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You do!

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And the rest.

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Oh, the discipline.

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Yeah, yeah.

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So we went for a small to send us post office,

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which I didn't realize it was actually a real fully functioning post office.

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Oh, yeah.

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Oh, the letters have to go somewhere.

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Oh, the letters have to go somewhere.

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And we've seen all of Elves sort in them into little boxes.

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And they were in like easy, every country's letters and the thing.

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And they said that even, which is the matter of fact,

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I cried, they were like people even gone beyond the age of, you know,

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should you teenager a child will say right to Santa?

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The young adults and adults will say right and tell Santa about their troubles

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and they tell about their different wishes.

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And there were the elves are saying like how different it is from someone who lives

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in the country with a lot of poverty or like a terrible country compared to,

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like a, you're a first for a first for a country.

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And I was home with it.

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So I was all crying and then I, did you post your letters to Santa?

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Or did you leave them on the mantelpiece?

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I think I don't know a bit about.

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Did you?

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I don't know, yeah?

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I remember doing more of the mantelpiece I think because I used to draw on pictures.

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Yeah.

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And then you used to save the money from now to join me.

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Oh, show Mrs. Clothes and make them toys.

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Yeah.

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And then we had to write postcards at home to our family so I wrote on Dorea.

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I went down and I was crying right into it.

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I was like, we just all love each other so much.

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I can't believe it's only like your second Christmas here,

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but feels like she was just forever really.

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Yeah, you can't imagine when she wasn't there.

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Oh, that's so cute.

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And I can't wait until she can understand Christmas more.

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Yeah.

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She doesn't know, obviously, like she's only one half nearly.

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But Hannah was even saying that about Maryly, like,

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when they get to an age of actually understanding the mantelpiece.

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Yeah.

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I really haven't a child around really does.

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It's made Christmas I think.

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So cute.

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And then we went to meet Santa.

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I cried with me Santa obviously.

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We sang on the Ratland Bar.

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She was like, can you, do you have any songs for Ireland?

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And like, he was able to, we're like on the doorbelly,

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like Black Rock, like, I think his name and everywhere.

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Santa knows everything.

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And I was everything up.

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And I cried with me in here and that friend then went to the co-holocris

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was struck.

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So to ball there, I sent it again.

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Then he came to our dinner.

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He was so giftsy, I had lapish food, which was the.

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Yeah, what was it like?

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It was fish.

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Is that what we call it?

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Lapish lapish lapish.

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So boat night was fish.

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Okay, but they obviously have really fresh fish.

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Yeah, unreal.

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They don't think they'd have chickens when we had to vibe.

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And so I feel like we're thinking about what food they'd have.

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I feel like they don't eat chicken like really.

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And we just more fish.

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Yeah, how would they survive and that weather?

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So chickens.

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But the chickens couldn't.

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But the reindeer, we'd have a reindeer.

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The reindeer and the fish, that's like their main things.

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And everything was just unreal.

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And then what else do we do?

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That's Santa.

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Oh, we packed up bags for the Red Cross in laplands, which is like a charity.

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There's a pack of food essentials bags to give out the next day.

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Then to people who need them.

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And like, if that was just reneal, we'll see how happy people were over.

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Literally essentials of food.

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Yeah.

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And like, you think we take for granted?

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Yeah.

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But she's a time of year.

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Like, I just think over the year they've gotten so much.

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I couldn't care about what gift I got.

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I just wanted to be happy and healthy at my family friends.

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Yeah.

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When you're younger, it's so you think you're so very insecure.

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I remember crying being disappointed on Chris's one.

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The neck of me.

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How did my mom not absolutely slap you about?

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I don't know when you get older.

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I, I vividly remember being so upset with my brother.

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Did she?

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For me, like, yeah, that is so bold.

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I know.

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I know this year.

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I've asked for two things.

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I've asked for it.

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Hoover.

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Great.

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Because I want to cut my own Hoover upstairs.

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Yeah.

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And then eventually when I get the hair, I was like, I'm really good.

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And I asked, Graham, will you get me a slow cooker?

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Oh, that's a great.

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Yeah.

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I really want one.

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I don't have one.

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No room for appliances.

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No, but I really want one.

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Yeah.

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I want to make slow cooker meals.

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Yeah.

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What's the amount of money I have?

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A whole lot of parts.

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Yeah.

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It's a real tender.

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You know, you're touching on towards you when you ask for a Hoover and a slow cooker.

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I've, it's all I want.

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I've asked for a pair of broken socks off Dano.

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Okay.

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And then whoever has me goes to Chris Ken, but I've asked for a portable charger.

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You do.

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Actually, yeah.

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But I don't, there's not no other one.

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Honestly.

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Not my need.

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Not my need.

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I love, I love giving presents more than I love getting them.

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Yeah.

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I love seeing people say.

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Yeah.

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I love surprise people.

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Yeah.

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That's so fun.

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Yeah.

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I can't remember the time when I actually, we, we do Chris Ken, let home.

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Oh, yeah.

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You still get everyone?

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No.

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And I have a feeling my dad has me.

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Okay.

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He was fucking a fiam when he pulled out the night.

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Yeah.

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So I just said I just want to Hoover.

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Hoover.

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Really good.

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That's it.

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I then, Jack, who actually is really good.

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Is it?

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Yeah.

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It's like a cordless one.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I'd be so excited.

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Don't you got me one year back clothes?

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He got me for, um, that's good.

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Isn't it?

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See?

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You know, you're getting old.

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You know, yeah.

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I asked for a white and green back clothes.

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They're really, really nice ones.

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No, like the brand is called white and green.

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Yeah.

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Oh.

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They're really, really nice ones.

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Is it Christmas friends?

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No.

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I don't know where you get them.

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And I don't even know how I found them.

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But I found them online and they're like, good spending ones.

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But then I moved beds and I don't actually think anymore.

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Yeah.

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Oh my God.

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They're close, slow, cookers, who overs folk, man.

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Yeah, for God's sake.

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Get all on here.

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Oh, we're going to do a full Christmas episode, though, as well, obviously, about everything Christmas.

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Mm-hmm.

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So we will get more into all that.

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That's going to fly in, I feel.

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I think the fact that I'm away as well in December, it takes like a chunk.

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Yeah, it takes a chunk out of it.

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So when I come home, it'll be the 16th.

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Yeah.

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Nine days later, it's Christmas.

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Where do I go?

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To get Christmas presents.

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I'm going to try and get some bits on Black Friday.

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Yeah.

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If I know what I'm getting people, I'm like, that's actually a good time to buy things.

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Sure.

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I get electronics.

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It's good to buy.

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Nine, oh, it says good discounts.

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Mm-hmm.

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I'm like, there.

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But I don't know what I'm getting anyone.

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No, no, no, no.

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Have anyone thought of clubs?

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To see.

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Yeah.

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And we said we're not doing that in my life.

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Were you going to store them in the house?

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Yes.

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We usually go up to the top of the tree to the first place.

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But we just want to save for ten sheep whenever we get time to go in here.

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Yeah.

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Like, our dad just put that one into something.

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Or I obviously think something is going to do together a trip.

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Yeah.

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I'd more try to trip.

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Book trips into the evening as one time a year off.

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Sorry, girl.

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I'm sorry, I walked you for all the way in 2020.

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I don't know.

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We don't know what you're doing for a while.

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So we're going to want more freaks together and things.

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So I owe you a trip.

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Yeah.

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I owe you a trip.

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Sorry.

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I've been wanting.

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But yeah, how are you to get one gift?

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So I'm stressed.

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And then just maybe you forget about the annual.

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I'm like, I'm not going to.

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I know.

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What next day do you have?

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Have you ever re-gifted a gift?

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No.

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Never.

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I didn't re-gifted a bit.

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Like, if you got like a set or something, you didn't really think like, what for?

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Where's the next year?

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Or like around the Christmas time?

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Oh.

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No.

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No.

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I'm not sure.

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I'm not sure.

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I definitely have.

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I definitely, I actually have one this year.

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I might give, but I wouldn't get.

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I'd also give some it as a bonus gift that I would have otherwise.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I would use that as the gift.

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You just know you're not going to use it and just say, I'll give that to them as well.

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Yeah, I'd talk about it.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Yeah.

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Why are you re-gifted?

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No, I definitely have.

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I have to be.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Just something like that.

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I'd rather give it to somebody who I know will use it.

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We'll know better.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Don't I.

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I am.

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I don't have to pop your opinion by hate.

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I just this year I've gotten a hate for it.

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I've been counting this.

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Okay, I've been out of chocolate ones.

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The ones with the heat to shine in it.

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Yeah, I'm sorry.

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I have seen a few online and there was actually a video I watched last night.

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Oh, I'm sorry while it is, but there were six of like the same products in it in like

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half a shade of a different color and they were all minis.

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They were like, no, time.

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No, the only one I've seen.

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I don't know if it's out this year, but it was one year.

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It was just out of sale.

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Everyone.

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And that was good.

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It was at the box.

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It was the low.

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It was gold.

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Yeah.

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And it actually full size products.

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Yeah.

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And many of the stuff that you'd actually want.

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But like, so one of me say, and you're like, oh my god, it's like worth 900.

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And it's now 100 like it was.

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It was a shy.

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Yeah.

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Sashas of testers.

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There was one actually.

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It's chlor.

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And I can't have worked.

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I think we got it.

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One year it was a body shuffle.

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Oh, that was two years ago.

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I think.

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We got it.

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It was nice.

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And I gave it a half that's up to my mom.

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Because I was never a guy who had true love.

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That was nice.

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But like, then there's ones that make, wow.

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I do want to do it on this year.

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I'm safe.

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Now he's got me.

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I don't know what one of them.

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I usually say, I don't want one.

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No, I do like one fucking coin of.

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Yeah.

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I said, it's only a second.

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I'm back eating, going down six.

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I said, it's December.

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That's right.

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I'm waiting in January and putting this on.

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Oh, yeah.

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Now I'm enjoying myself too.

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Almost can't be ours.

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Yeah.

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Don't get it.

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I'm going to America.

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Comp yours. Yeah, don't go into it.

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Okay, come on.

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I'm in rude.

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And I have a list of places I need to go.

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Very felt so sick, I think, my trip.

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Do you know what I mean?

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So, I do raise the cans right now.

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I need to try it, yeah.

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Oh my gosh.

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It is nice.

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Oh, Jay is such a chicken, I wanna try that one too.

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I really wanna try a gym typhoon.

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Yeah, that's in the Chili's mozzarella stick.

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Yeah, but I'm probably not a little girl there.

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So it would be very upset for me if they see me go on a shoot.

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Oh, because he went, because I made my...

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I don't know if she Lee's in New York, is it?

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I don't know.

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I love the names of the stuff in America.

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Oh, that's a bagel place.

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Pop-up?

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Yeah.

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But I don't think I like cream cheese.

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I don't know.

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Do I like it?

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I love cream cheese.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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Would I like it?

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Yeah.

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I don't like cream cheese.

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Oh, a schmarin.

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Like a piglish schmarin.

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Oh, I like that word.

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Yeah.

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That's a good one.

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So, yeah, you'll like it.

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Okay.

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And if...

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Oh, yeah.

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I need to try.

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I love a jalapeno.

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I'm like, yeah, what did you say?

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I was in cinema and I had popcorn and ice cream.

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And then I had jalapenos and nachos.

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And I ate all my nachos.

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I had all these jalapenos.

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I felt like, what did you say?

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So I was like, hmmmm.

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jalapeno and ice cream.

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Ben and Jerry's chocolate brownie slapped.

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We're jalapenos.

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I will say it over.

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I'm sure.

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I got a new tic tac on it and I will make people up off.

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I thought you were at least going to say vanilla or something.

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But jalapenos.

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That could be nice.

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I feel like that would be nicer than chocolate.

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No, it was nice though.

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What was it?

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jalapenos ain't that strong.

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It's like a spice bit crunch.

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Yeah.

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Really?

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I sent you a pregnant all these weird things are you fun?

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This has always been me.

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All these crazy things.

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I'm going to be one of the people who eats the fucking inside of a coat

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and the fragrance.

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Yeah, it's somewhere.

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If this is what I eat now.

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Do you ever see the girl who I dry while she was obsessed eating dry while?

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Yep, that would be me.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, or something that you're not meant to eat.

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Wasn't it cold back in the day when I was a good little pregnant little cold or chocked

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or something?

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Or soap?

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Do you ever see the videos I love when tic tac when they could soap?

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Yeah, yeah.

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But they do well in nice squares and then they go.

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I'm like feeling anxious to watch something.

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Okay.

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I watch people eat.

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Oh yeah.

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Love that.

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Sometimes football makes me angry.

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From time to time it's made me follow where everyone and me friends.

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And me brothers.

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And me dad.

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That's why when the biggest games are on, I need the biggest telly.

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So they have to watch with me.

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So hotels, see so hotel.ie today.

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Valent for five years and emailed in minutes.

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So just last week I mentioned my wish for the new year is to be less busy.

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And I might just think about how often we hear people complain about poor work life

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violence.

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Like we hired to recognize in yourself.

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We'll have to sell for worse sometimes.

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What does a bad work life balance look like for you?

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A bad one.

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If you're having a bad work of hands, what would that feel like?

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I look like you're like, what's in your heads?

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She I feel like we're completely on two different wavelengths here.

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We really are and I'm having a first in this.

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I.

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Yeah.

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Like great work.

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No, life is my priority to me.

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Yeah, I take the piss of it.

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I know I do completely like I will leave everything to your work until the last minute.

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Yeah.

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I know.

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No, but I'm just like.

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I'm too horizontal for my own good.

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I say I'm just too.

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Chilled.

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Yeah.

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I wish I was more strict with myself about work and like actually getting up and like giving

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myself the hours of like a nine to five and being like right.

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Yeah, sick into that.

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I did all from work from nine to five at home and then switch off and then have a good time.

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Yeah.

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No, I'm home all the time living my best.

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It's boring to have no desire because you have that choice of what you want to do.

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Yeah.

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It's like in the morning, if you wake up in your hours to do something first thing, you don't

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have to wear it in your own app.

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You're in work.

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You kind of do have to like.

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I definitely more better in the evenings at home.

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Really?

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Yeah.

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Definitely.

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I used to be like I'm under the opposite name.

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No.

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I like to get up and I like to have my brecky, hang around my dog, chill with my dad.

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A Friday for me is me and dad's day.

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We go for a little coffee and all like that's so cute.

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Yeah.

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I just, yeah.

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Yeah.

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If I can put something off, I'm the biggest procrastinator in the long thing.

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Oh my god.

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I've been on this finger in Ireland.

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I swear to God.

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Yeah.

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If I can put something off, you would until I the last second until I need it, I will.

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Yeah.

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I know I will.

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You will never ever hear me be like, oh, yeah, I have that tone.

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Never.

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Yeah.

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Could never be me.

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Are you mad and that?

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I would then when I'm so busy, it's like I actually have to do things in advance because of everything

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to you on the same day.

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Yeah.

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I can't do them all in there before.

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Yeah.

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No, no, you can't fit them all in.

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If you're looking at someone else, you have to have to work like friends.

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What is their life?

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Life look like a bad one.

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Yeah.

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Just working all the time.

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Yeah.

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No.

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Obviously, I know we are like, we all need to work.

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We all need to make money.

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It's all, it's the way we all survive.

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I get in there.

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I think putting your job above anything else in life and everything.

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My fast doesn't seem, and I know some people are going to listen to this and like, oh God,

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I'll report, I'll implement such Jesus.

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I completely want to plan out.

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I have these job laurels.

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I know it.

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I cannot ever complain about the privileged position I'm in for my job.

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But like, say if it was like a lawyer or something.

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They work for like 12 hours a day on the weekends.

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I don't know.

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Should there be like a set amount of hours a day, like, should it be half and half?

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Work and life.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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The only place I've seen a great work life balance is Sydney.

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They have a bloody, a great work life balance.

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They all go on Sunday nights.

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Don't worry about being on an open air.

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They all hang around with each other after working off.

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Yeah.

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I think it's because they start walking so early.

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Remember that cafe we went in?

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It was open from like five.

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Yeah.

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True, and they're off, probably for 12.

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Yeah, I mean, lovely.

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Yeah, you have the whole day free.

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True.

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That would be lovely.

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Yeah.

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But what does the bad work life balance look like to you?

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Yeah, I think someone is working more than their life.

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But then if people who enjoy that and actually, like, yeah, true.

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I do like, most of the time, I do really like working, but then sometimes when I take you

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out, I don't like it.

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Because I like doing that.

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I think if you're prioritizing your job and you hate it,

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it would be a big sour, crumbly.

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Show me.

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Yeah.

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If you're enjoying what you do and you have no problem with being like, oh, no, I'll take on an extra job.

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I'll take on.

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Yeah, yeah.

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You're obviously reaping the benefits that you're going to be paid more and stuff like I get.

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Yeah.

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So if you're doing it and you're enjoying what you're doing, that's fine.

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That's your decision to do.

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Yeah.

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Put your down it and like, tread it.

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Yeah.

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That would not be fun.

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I think it's for your head.

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So that's important to not always have work on the brand.

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Yeah, just switch jobs.

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Sometimes jobs can be not saying ours is necessarily that stressful, but like, so now they're very high pressure,

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very high stress.

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Yeah.

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That like if you don't have that balance, that can really affect your outside of working.

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And maybe factor around health.

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Yeah.

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It used to scare me when I remember when I left second year's school, are you, are you

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used to scare me the fact of being in a full time job all year?

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Yeah.

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Because in my head, I was so conditioned obviously for all those years and skills to have like

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the summer all the Christmas all.

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Yeah.

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Are you single?

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Do you think like that?

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Yeah.

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And then like, I remember getting to the age of like, when I was going out, summer all day.

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Yeah.

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And being like, yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I work all year.

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I was watching me and I work all year.

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Like, what about, what about two weeks after Christmas?

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Yeah.

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So in its height of August, I have to go to work.

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I'm going to work.

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I'm going to work.

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I have to work.

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I was just, what ...

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I remember not understanding that, like, I couldn't picture that.

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I couldn't get it at all.

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It was so strange.

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It really ...

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It's nice and skilled to have to work.

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Oh, yeah.

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Just me.

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Just exist?

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No, I didn't.

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I wanted to work in school by coming at job.

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Really?

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Oh, no.

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Well, yeah, that's weird.

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And kids and young adults just exist.

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They have to work so hard.

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You just do your life and go home.

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I was like, what's the scale tomorrow?

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I want to say it all the time.

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Easy peasy, lemon squeezy.

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Really?

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We have to work.

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Then I have to learn.

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I can't really.

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You just go and have fun.

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Yeah, true.

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What was the biggest worry?

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You're busy working in there, for the day or the day.

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So fun.

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Just hang around with your friends.

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Yeah, I wish I kind of knew where I was at.

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School was so fun to me.

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I swear to God, I'd go back tomorrow.

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Yeah.

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Your biggest worry was your homework.

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God, okay, sir.

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Sorry.

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Good one.

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I forgot.

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I think it's a good thing to do it.

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I find it hard to like.

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I think as an adult thing, we all feel like there's like.

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To not be able to excel in everything at all at once.

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So it's always has to give.

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Oh, yeah.

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I would love to meet someone who has a perfect worker balance

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and can be in the gym five days a week.

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See all the friends much as they want their family.

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They're doing the work really well.

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Like I feel like whenever.

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There's not a fairers in the day for that.

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I'm sorry.

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Whenever I'm doing something well,

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I'm always so friendly.

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I hate that.

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Okay.

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And I also feel like I want to see some like, oh, works going

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really well.

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I'm like, book I haven't seen my friends in a few days.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And I'm nearly forgetting what I'm doing that because I'm self.

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I'm self-poked.

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I'm so my forget her from seeing my friends.

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I was a load of plans.

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I'm like, I can post an Instagram with three days.

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For how do you get free?

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So I'll be like, that.

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How do you?

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Like, you can't like, maybe you can't.

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I don't know.

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I think planning pre-plan is important.

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Like, if I look at my week, feel like, right.

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What does week look like?

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Where am I working, Grant?

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Okay.

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Where do I see my friends, Grant?

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Where do I fit into my family, Grant?

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Where do I go to the gym?

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Working it that way.

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So at least I have it in advance.

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Where it's in my soul, finish a week and be like, shit.

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I didn't do that.

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Yeah.

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And then a lot of people had to wear it in advance.

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If you know, okay, this is really busy week.

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I've less time for this this week.

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Like, that's fine.

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But when it's when I look back, or like, I get to the Wednesday,

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my fucker haven't thought about even exercising.

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I feel so bored when I do that, like, from my heads.

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Like, if you can acknowledge it before, going into the week.

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Yeah.

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It's not too bad, because you know it's common.

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Yeah.

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So then if you look backwards at it, you feel worse.

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Because it's the worst with myself.

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Okay.

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Yeah, I guess.

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Yeah.

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It's hard to divide time for us because we, with self-employedness,

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one thing we're obviously not saying it's a hard job.

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Like we just said that.

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Yeah.

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It's easy, but.

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No, it would take it easy.

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It's, yeah, what's the word I'm looking for?

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It's easy in the sense of some things, but then some things are really hard.

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And people question you as a person, and that, that's a side of work that a lot of people don't have to have.

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I think it's more of a case of, and say me things, you know.

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Yeah.

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I think it's more of a case of, it's not so much a job that you dread.

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It's not so much a job that I, I would never complain about what we do.

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No, I could never, ever, apart from trolls.

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Yeah, yeah.

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That's probably the worst part of it, but I could net, like,

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that wouldn't feel right to me.

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I feel like a dickhead.

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Yes, I'm complaining about what we do.

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Yeah, never.

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But.

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Yeah, I take back saying that it's easy.

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I don't know what kind of word I'm looking for.

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It's.

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What you trying to say, easier, hard.

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No.

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Yeah, not that it's easy, but it's definitely like.

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The easiest.

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I don't know.

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I'm fucking up.

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Yeah, that's brain is on a tree.

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And I hang over there.

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It can't.

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It's job I'd never complain about, but it does have its pros and cons.

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Yes, definitely.

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Yeah, definitely.

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But it's hard.

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I think when you're coming from college and school, like you have to set routine, then you go

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to a job and we decide we're doing other jobs, hours, the F clock, then whatever.

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Then when you're self employed, it's like, shit, I make them errors.

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Oh, fuck.

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Yeah, you're like, I pick what I want to do.

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And then you can move things around and like, it's nice.

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It's really, really nice if you're having a shit day or like your sick and you can just pick

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and say, oh, look, I'm able to do it for you.

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And it's always fine.

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Yeah.

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That also is better than the course because then you're like, you can put everything on the

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long.

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Yeah, then you do procrastinate everything.

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Yeah, because no one chasing probably into the last day.

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No.

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Yeah.

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You've no one to answer to accept yourself.

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Yeah.

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And by procrastinate and putting everything on the long finger, the only person you're hurting

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is yourself is yourself.

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Yeah, it's so true.

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Yeah.

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And how do you switch off from your job and phone and also sorry, we have to be able

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to have a good.

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You're always, when you're in a stereotypical job, you clock off and like there's things you

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can do to better yourself or get like promotions, but like with us, we have the power to always

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do more and and post more in our hands at all times in our phones.

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So it becomes a pressure of like, you're sitting there watching, well, I was sitting there

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watching them making.

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Making this video edit and this have this set like it's really hard to switch off and

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something that's right.

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Yeah, sometimes when it's in your hand, it's like, you see everything.

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And then you see other news content.

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You're like, there's more you can be doing.

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There's always more you can be doing.

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Of course, being self-employed, you can always post in every video and like, that's, I find

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that I heard because you're kind of in this hamster, you look like, should I be doing more

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and I'll, I never feel like I'm doing enough.

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Say enough.

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Never feel like doing enough.

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Ever.

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I don't like, I don't like I ever will.

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I think that's just.

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No, I think you will.

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No, I do.

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I think you will.

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I don't like I will.

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I think that's just me in life.

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I think I'll just always think that.

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Because there is always more to post and there's always things in my draft is like, I never

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feel don't are finished.

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Ever.

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You never feel like satisfied.

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What you do like, no, not that.

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Nothing.

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I'm happy with what I do.

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My work that I do, but like.

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I'm like, I could have done more today.

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Didn't do that.

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Like I'm just re-heard myself.

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I think you're very hurt yourself.

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Girl, what the hell?

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No, no.

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I wish I wish I was more like that.

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Really?

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Oh, yeah.

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No.

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I don't find a heart to switch on.

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I find it so hard.

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Oh, no.

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Telly goes on.

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The phone goes down.

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Good luck.

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Good night.

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Like, do you ever watch watch telly?

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Maybe you just have a phone series.

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Look at my fucking fluffy socks.

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I'm like, I'm going to go out.

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No, I don't find it too hard to switch off or like.

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I do have things I do that will.

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Do you know if you're still a scroll and do you not think you're still kind of switched

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on in a sense because you're still on your page and your job.

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You're scrolling and Instagram and tick tock.

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No.

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I think you're your brain a secret like what could I post next?

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Or I could do that I'll say that video because that's like what we are.

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I don't think I've ever done that my life.

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No.

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Save the video.

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I save videos because I just like watching them.

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I don't say even if you're like, I'm going to do that.

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Or like that's a good recipe.

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Or like I can.

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I'll never make it like.

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Really?

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But I'll save it.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Or like a trend and say on if you see that, like I say that.

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When you ever see a video in front of yourself.

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I'm useless.

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I'm useless when it comes to shit like.

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I'm not super.

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Yeah, no.

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Never.

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I'm shit at that like scrolling time to me is like switch off.

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That's switch off time.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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That's like I'm horizontal in the bed.

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Yeah.

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My brain isn't even probably consumed and have to shut and watch them.

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But to me that's it's switched off.

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It's quite a bit.

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Yeah.

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But then I feel bad sometimes like.

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I obviously are really bad now hang around my family.

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I think I've sent this before.

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Yeah, yeah.

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If I know my mom sitting downstairs and around watching Tally and I'm upstairs in my room watching Tally, I feel really bad.

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So I'll go down and sit with her like.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Something in my head just and then my mom's like, fuck off.

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I can't wait.

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Yeah, you're working on time.

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You were wrecking my head.

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Well, you're working on time.

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Yeah, literally.

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Well, yeah.

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Now I don't find it too hard to to switch off.

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No.

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I definitely am coming across like a ladies bitch.

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I know I do.

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They said this to me in school, as well, she just enough to get by, but she has so much more potential.

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Now, I'm searching.

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I'm sure they're reporting.

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I think I switched off.

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In Pilate.

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I think it can't be any phone.

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I knew breathe and I cut.

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Oh, that's lovely.

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Yeah, I love that.

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That's for me.

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That's it just for me.

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It's Okay.

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It's nice.

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I see.

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You have something that you can choose to go to where you know you're going to switch off.

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Yeah, yeah, I love it. I mean, I just so broke your heads. Um, it's saying no, something

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you're so good with. No. Yes. God, no. Like it'll work. Send. Yeah. No. Or in any sense.

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But I don't say no to people who say, because I'm like, oh, that sounds fun. Or like, yeah,

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if something, if something sounds fun, I'll say, yeah, if something makes apps and it definitely

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happened with both of us before as well. Like something like another makes no sense for us. Yeah.

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Yeah. So I say no if it's genuinely something that makes no sense for us to do or like, yeah.

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don't like what it is.

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I'll say yeah, even if I'm like back to that busy,

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but something really exciting comes up,

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I'm like, oh, that sounds really fun.

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That's different though.

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Yeah, because it's exciting and you want to do it.

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and put myself in.

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Yeah, you do do that.

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Yeah, I do.

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Just a summer year, never again.

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No, yeah, maybe this is a learning lesson for lecture.

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To even say, yes, that's fine.

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So yes, everything, but spread the mail.

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I know.

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So yeah, granted, I can do that, but I can't do it

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this week.

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And actually, yeah, I was overachieved.

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I'm like, I can film this business one day,

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I'm like, realistically, takes so much longer than people think.

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Can you take me like, yeah, something took me one video,

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20 seconds, yes, say, from start to finish editing

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and getting ready was five and a half hours.

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So it takes me, yeah, so I overanalyze everything as well.

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Then I, yeah, and I over explain things a lot.

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That's what my learned I do in like jobs and so forth.

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Yeah, I over explain things like,

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you do not need to go into that much.

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Yeah, I mean, I put something on screen.

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I mean, no, yeah, doesn't need to, doesn't need to.

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But what's your one-a-go show will me time during the day?

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Do you have that like, plateaus?

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But it's not I was going to go for the kind of,

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I was put in, but what I do, yeah, I like to do before and

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nine o'clock because I feel like that's my time in the world.

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So like before life starts,

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knowns like my phone's not being everyone's sleep.

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Yeah, I'm a friend there texting the group to that.

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Like everyone's just, just mind a little space.

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But I don't always get up at that time, so I need to start again.

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Get up early.

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I just got up at seven every morning.

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I don't feel me.

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But I love when it's bright, it's too dark right now.

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It's pitch black.

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Yeah, I love to be so we go out for five a.m.

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No, I'm sorry, how?

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It's that's middle of night vibes.

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That's I'm rolling over on my 10th dream.

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Yeah, now when Graham wakes up at six and when I,

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yeah, when I get up at six for him, you're actually fine.

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I'm grand, like, and he even says that he's like,

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you're actually not my only in the morning.

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I really thought you'd be like a weapon at this time.

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I'm like, no, I can get up and I'd be grand.

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Yeah, yeah.

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But I got home and I could go sleep again.

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So no, yeah.

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No, but then I'm more tired.

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The session I'm awake up taking a nap.

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But like when I come home, I have six in the morning.

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Everyone in my house is obviously asleep.

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I'm not gonna start fucking barge and around.

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Yeah, I'm not gonna, but whenever I'm, you might have more.

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Yeah, that's what I'm really learning what your routine is.

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What?

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My real routine.

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I go off the routine of my mom and dad now.

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I know I do.

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Yeah, she's hurting.

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And she's gonna cause her mom and dad's routine.

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But I know I do.

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Like I know the days my mom works during the week.

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I know the days she doesn't.

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I know that my dad look forward to it Friday with me.

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And that's half of kind of a switch off day.

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And like, we have dinner every single night,

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I have six together.

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Yeah, that like you're like following me.

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Yeah, and it's been like that since I'm living in that house.

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Yeah, yeah.

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So no, maybe it might be a case of what I do.

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Move out.

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I will get my home routine.

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Yeah.

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Have a strong wake enough of it.

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We'll still keep some things that you're like,

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maybe in the end of your time or something like that.

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Yeah, I feel like that.

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Like I always say my life would have a white.

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We don't have my own routine.

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And you see, and you can share with everyone.

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What?

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Dry your hair.

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Not wake anyone up.

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I turned the hair dryer on a half six more than my dad would.

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Yeah.

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Hair dryer.

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He'd get down turned the fields, wore it off.

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He'd switch.

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Oh, no.

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He'd help me.

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No way.

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And we also have listeners to talk about the managed daily work

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by balance.

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And here's what they have to say.

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This is also like if they're struggling and if they aren't

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managing really struggling at the moment, I started a level eight for your course in psychology.

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It's only too nice a week, but I work the other day.

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As my days go too fast to college work as well as job and friendships, boyfriends and family

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time.

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That's always that as well.

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It's just like you're like, you're like, always running after something, but I think

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you have to give yourself a bit of time without saying this like leeway because everyone

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feels like that.

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And like, you imagine if that's a that they're genuinely isn't enough hours in the day,

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but then you do hear on the other side of it like somebody, somebody could just like,

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well, just get up earlier.

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Well, fuck off.

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No, like, yeah.

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There's some sort of like, there's something that if you get up at 5 a.m. every morning

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and you're actually giving yourself an extra week in the year.

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There's some, maybe it's five, maybe it's a, I don't know.

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There's some math behind it that if you're getting up that early, you're giving yourself

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an extra week on top of everyone else in the year.

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But you know, let's sleep then though.

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No, no, you're a little bit ball of shirt, crank your neck.

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No, yeah, you do.

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Someone does that and it works.

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So please let's know.

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I look to hear like how their life changed or something.

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But like, what time do you go to bed?

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I don't go to bed really.

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It's just 12 hours.

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So that's normal for me.

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Like if I got to bed 4 to have like wow early nice.

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Yeah, I'm like, oh my god, I get so much sleep like eight hours.

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No, women need eight tenors to get like full rest.

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I couldn't tell you that.

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I got eight or ten hours.

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I got eight last night actually.

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Did you?

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Did you get a lovely A?

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Didn't make up one.

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I was six.

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I woke up to 10 hours, boom.

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Never does that.

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I didn't see it.

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It was not a spoon or it's too hot warm.

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It was too much for two months before I got sleep and then turn around.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Back to you.

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Back to actually the man is in the neck, not one piece of clothing on this body.

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Boyland off, boy.

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Boyland.

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I'm the radier.

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I was with no, I'm not.

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I'm with no open getting a little creeped garlic.

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That's well, I'm the radier and I love a cold room.

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Yeah, but I don't get what radier.

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I never feel how hot I am.

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Yeah, same.

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I was like, your big, toasty, cold bitch.

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Yeah, I'm like, wow, you're literally like a radiator.

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Oh my god, my.

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I feel like I'm not.

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Yeah, I know.

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Yeah, radier heat.

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Maybe we just.

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So lovely.

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We're just so toasty.

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Um, I have three kids work part-time.

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Look after my dad with dementia at me time as a morse.

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I yeah.

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I really feel like me time is something that we all should prioritize.

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And our lives are 100%.

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We need it.

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And it sounds toxic, but I work my wage.

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I'm a teacher and I love my job and try my best for my students, but I have to remind myself

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that it's a job and I'm not being paid for errors beyond my contract.

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I don't get, but if I don't get to it during school time, it's not getting done.

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It's sad, but I'm actually much happier now when I leave work.

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I'm finished.

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I don't bring my stress or work home.

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Life goes on.

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My kids in school are happy and loved in school.

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I really do get this.

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Yeah.

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Work your wage.

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Like no one's going to give you a lot of jobs.

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Most jobs will see as an umber and will not pat down the back for doing extra things.

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No.

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I'm putting yourself under so much pressure.

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I think people do that and they work their.

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Asked off too much for for nothing.

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You don't ask.

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Appreciate it.

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Like that.

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Like you say the skills don't appreciate it.

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Yeah, that just made in general.

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Like that.

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So many people do go up over beyond and left for your real life.

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If you left today, they've replaced it tomorrow.

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So like, yeah.

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Yeah.

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So many discussions that I don't take.

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Isn't there?

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Yeah.

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About like five o'clock homes.

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I clock off.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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The morning is mine.

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I'll say Jim or walk a coffee before work.

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Always your own.

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Oh, and your morning.

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Scaries.

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That's so nice.

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That like set you up for the day.

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I really feel like that.

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You're a time and no one else can.

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I like that one.

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I used to think I had no time and then I checked my screen time.

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And saw him which time I wasted scrolling.

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I set limits on apps and they close after 15 minutes.

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It forces me to decide if I want to keep looking or would rather do

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something I'd be more fulfilled by love that would because it

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kind of makes your brain think very way.

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And you can go back out if you want.

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You can also be like, okay, that's enough.

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Because you might as well get in a trance where you're like, oh, yeah,

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yeah, and an hour or two ago, buying your like, oh, fuck.

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I kind of have me essay told myself all day.

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I was going to good up and showered.

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That's why I didn't get into the four o'clock.

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Good off showered.

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Eventually did at four o'clock.

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But when I was when I was clipping my little bag close together and all

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I was like, I feel so much better.

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Why didn't I do this early on?

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Like what?

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Take your lunch break and get outside for a bit of air.

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I see so many colleagues work through at their exhaust at the end

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of the day.

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You need a break and you work better after it's whatever it is.

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Come way to laughter.

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I looked at it.

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There's loads of studies behind that like that apparently.

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Your brain doesn't actually like operate to like 10 minutes.

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10 o'clock in the morning and stuff for an Anakin only consumes so much information

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for a certain period of time and then at and stuff.

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And then after that it stops.

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So like it's better to take regular breaks and like actually be it fully.

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Come back to it.

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I guess.

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I always plan my week out on a Sunday as a trainees list.

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It can be tough to manage the workload when you're going to be in court in the office.

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I used to find myself staying late in the office after hours.

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I plan a day where we pick a pick day is going to stay late and days I'm leaving

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a five for four and actively.

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That's good.

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That's like you said earlier on.

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I plan it in advance.

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Doesn't you feel like you own the week in the week doesn't own you?

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Yes.

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I hate that.

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I hate when I'm like, oh, I can't.

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Not once fun for me in the week.

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You any sort of activity can't do a res.

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And I put that in for myself, which is I didn't think it'd be.

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Yeah.

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I'm really.

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Learn to say no.

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Whether it's a thing you don't want to do going out.

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Work events are hanging around people you don't actually want to hang around with.

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Protect your piece.

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Protect your piece.

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I definitely struggle by starting on today and before work last year to be changed my outlook.

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It feels like I have a whole day to go once I finish work and have that time for me.

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Also, Journalism's help is that personal boundaries of work and helps it off a lot.

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That's good. Very good. I used to always wait until 5-3 even if I was finished my work,

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I would hang around. I've started leaving when I'm finished even if it's at 5,

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I feel so much better for it. It's motivation to get my work done first thing and I'm more

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productive at work and have more time at home. That's good.

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One more. I stack things together when I'm ready with you.

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Meet a friend and get the both to work together, catch up and communicate together in one,

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or walk the dog to school guys to collect the kids.

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It's small change, feels good to take two things off at once.

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That's good. If you're like having a friend and one and you do like a walk together,

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if you're feeling the size of it. Yeah, you can both add something in that you can do one or two things off.

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Or like say you're doing your gym class but you drive up together and like

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that's not about it. You know, that's a very good tip. I love that one.

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Seeks and the styles we always want to help you and give it advice, kind of,

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conversations you have with the girls in the bachelor's and the nightclub.

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Just tell you everything you need to hear and give you the real talk.

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So these are today's Sixth and the Stalls and I hope you will give you some advice.

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So the first dilemma is I've made the biggest mistake of my life and I need some guidance from you.

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I'm 21 and just graduated college. I met my ex-boyfriend in college three years ago.

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He's from Norway and I was made clear he wanted to go home.

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Oh, he made it clear he wanted to go back there after graduation.

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Live in the countryside and work from home because he's homeward.

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But I've always had it in my head that I could persuade him to stay in Ireland.

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He's from a tiny world village in the Fire and War to Norway and wanted me to move there with him.

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But I didn't go because I felt like there was probably nothing there for me.

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So we broke over at three months ago. I instigated it and now I'm regretting it because I can

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and can't stop balling my eyes out. I've come to realise this is love my life and the only boy I've

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ever loved. I don't know what I do without him. I also part of the reason I do want to go was because

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I have to give up my life there here. But since he broke up and he went home I found out I have two

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of my best friends moving away in the new year and I got to think that I should have went with him.

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We had a graduation ceremony last week and I was really hoping to see him but he wasn't there.

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I've been thinking about contacting him too but I don't know if it's totally fair on him.

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Should I reach out to him or is it too late? I hate feeling that I've lost the love of my life

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and I also hate feeling like my stupid decision to end it means I'm being left behind.

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My friends are all travelling abroad with their boyfriends and some girls are on solo.

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What have I missed my chance to have real love? What should I do?

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Reach out. Oh life's too short. You were a witt and tree years. It's not as if it was like a

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fling of a thing and like you feel like a freak. Absolutely. This life is genuine. You are too short.

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What have you got to lose? I think at least you'll know the answer. Yeah. The living in limbo I feel

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will be so much harder. I'd rather reach out and him to be like, no sorry, don't see myself

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gone back there at least then you know. Okay, Grant, that you can move on with your life.

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Yeah, but in this part of do I don't I? Sure. If it's worse. Yeah and it's okay to make a

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mistake like that. Like if you just didn't think that you wanted to live where he lived and that's not.

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That's not wrong with that. That's no. Do not wrong with that and to make to realise your mistake

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afterwards. Like that happens sometimes and like it's a thing of like you might turn it away.

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Is the only thing and you know to kind of live with that but like I also think everything happens

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for a reason. Yeah and that's it. If he doesn't want to be with you then then that's okay too.

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Like if you stayed with him at the time. Yeah and did go there. You could have hated it. Yeah,

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you would have been so unhappy. You did what you taught was right for you in that moment and that's

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absolutely allowed. Exactly. But you're allowed to change your mind like. Yeah and you're allowed to

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what's right for you. Yeah and what you want but I think I don't think it's unfair and him reach

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out. No, but I do think if you're going to reach out and you feel and you feel and make sure it's

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been three months I feel like your ass. Sure but I'm not panic after and it's something like

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I was at the right thing like oh actually would you act for him or like this like I actually should live

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there but like you might actually feel it so make sure you're sure. Yeah and then voice that

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to him because you don't want to lead him on or lead him to Australia. Guys, how's up?

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Mm-hmm. Thinking that she wants to live here and then saying.

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Oh, shit, actually don't. Actually, actually. I'm just panic and I made the wrong decision.

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Um no, I feel like three months is like if you're still feeling that yeah and it's not only because

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your friends are moving away and so make sure you're doing it for the right reason. But I said

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we've known to lose. I was really sorry. I was like you really don't. Yeah.

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At least you will know. I'd rather know. I'd rather know and be hurt even. Yes.

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Then sitting in this we all have lived in Dululu land. Sitting in the middle of Dululu land and being like

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what if yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah what if it's worse than actually knowing then try yeah yeah

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so the answer yeah. Oh please reach out. Oh let us know. I don't know if you're moving to Norway

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but yeah and I feel like if he doesn't want to like you have to prepare yourself for that

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eventually is that you might say look I'm not I don't want this anymore like it's been

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if you want and yeah this not so prepare yourself for that but also I think if you never try

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you never know. Mm-hmm. If you genuinely feel this is a real mistake that you you made

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then just explain that to him and I think we should understand that as well. Mm. I think like

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yeah just do it. Oh let us know please do. So moving on to fun friends this is our dilemma segment

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every week where we put up a dilemma on the Instagram story so if you're not following us

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follow us and these are some we put up a dilemma on the way out and delicious. Yeah. We ask

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listeners for advice sometimes use but the majority of time you probably have a better advice

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than we do to be honest. They're honest here it's really nice to see different people's perspectives

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yes and we usually always get like both sides of it kind of thing yeah um so here is the dilemma

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so I'm a 24 year old say at home I'm me and since having my little girl and struggling to make

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friends I've two incredible girl friends but as they don't have kids they're talking about traveling

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and moving away and it's making me scared because I know as soon as they go I'll have no one. I've

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joined baby groups and classes to try to mingle but I felt like no one's looking for friendships

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there. Any advice would be amazing as I'm scared to have no support network at home when my friends

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do move on with their lives and travel or move away and here's what you such a say. So first

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thing is social media is on Z great way to make friends as long as you're careful about it.

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I'm the same I bought a house away from my friends and family but I kept myself busy and focused

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on myself and I've learned that that's what that what's for me won't pass me.

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Oh except in embrace the time you have your little with your little family kids are on a

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younger short period of time. Invest time with your family maybe your mom sister aunties or cousins

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Pilates is great if she's able to catch a child minor for a while.

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True. Join mom groups on Facebook reddit groups or try a new hobby. Just keep trying Pilates,

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mommy's groups swimming for mommy and baby and give yourself time. My sister-in-law met some of

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her closest friends through peanut. Oh my sister did too. Did she? Like someone she's

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just a friend that now and the boat gave birth in the same week in the same hospital and it's like

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yeah it's a tender for her. And they're still friends? Yeah yeah yeah. Who's that raised birthday? No.

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It's like tender for moms to meet other moms. That's so cute. Yeah so cute. Oh I like that.

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Peanut it's called it if anyone's isn't. I don't know if it's an iron though. This is the England.

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I feel like it wants to be. Yeah maybe. Surely. Yeah if not they need to get on it.

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That's over. Makes it. And even if you're into addressing sport I'd recommend going to your local

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GAA club to see if they have a mother's and others team. Just being involved can have

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them make friends you don't even have to play. Ask for a baby play date or one of the other moms to

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get a coffee after a group. Having one two friends can uplift. You can lift the phone to

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resolve the needs. Yeah. And there's a mom's and Arlene Facebook group and mommy's often post

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looking to meet up and make friends. Mommy friends are such a blessing she should definitely show.

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Yeah this is definitely it's such a thing when you have babies that like people who especially

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you have some before their friends. Yeah. How related them. It's a different way. Different

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friendships would be. So having mommy friends is definitely really important. It's hard but the only

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friend you'll ever need is your door. Oh no. I joined a book club before and it was a nice

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cheer away to meet people. Bumble BFF and that's definitely an art great for meeting new friends.

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All my friends left when I was a young man. It's hard but you'll be okay. Oh my god the last one

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says also so many girls have offered to be her friend and said that they're in the same boat. Oh

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my god my heart asks their balls. Oh my god. Girl we can set you up on a mommy play date. Oh my god

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I wonder should we try get like their contacts as someone send them on tour and send mommy's

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mail so it will be in the same place. Girl we're gonna try it. I made a little water group. Yeah even.

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What do we sell friends?

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We sell it, we have a separate, any couples know.

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So we can sell it friends easier.

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No, we should definitely try and do something.

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That's so lovely.

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I think it's so to,

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kind of to like how nice,

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and mammy's who listens to that.

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Oh, my friend.

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One doctor in health and these are all such lovely girls.

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You really are.

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And some men too.

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So you can send in your

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six and a half or your phone a friend every week

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to homeaduringgokaladnow.com.

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If you want to buy some other people,

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phone a friend in the caption or this,

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simply fine.

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And because their advice is really fucking good.

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And it's very nice.

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And peak and bleak of the week is where we give you one peak,

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which is a high and one bleak,

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which is our love week.

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And that's happened within the last week in our lives.

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And it's only right to get the negative out of the way.

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I think yeah, for the positive.

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And I would just say be tired.

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Yeah, great bleak to have.

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Yeah.

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Can't complain, but I'm just.

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My eyes are jammy eyes are glassy from my entire.

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Yeah, still.

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Yeah, just my bleak was the hangover.

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Yeah, they're really they really are just getting worse.

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I was I don't know.

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I wasn't even hungover.

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Yeah, I was just tired.

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No, I was definitely not really the hangover.

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Didn't hit me too late on the day.

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One no, Monday.

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Oh, because I obviously got such little sleep on Saturday night.

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It was nearly like I was basically still drunk on the day.

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Yeah.

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So yes, they did.

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Yeah, say it was hard.

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Yeah, yes, it was still supposed to be.

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I had to work so I had to get up and pull myself.

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Oh, I can't.

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So you know, I'm so tired that you're like, yeah, I was like, zombie.

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No, so the bleak, yeah, bleak is that where it bleakly tired?

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Yeah, but that's every good complaint of life and peak.

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So I shifted up land magical.

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Good night.

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It was and then there was firework for better for a self fire.

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Show like everything was just like magic and I was like,

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it's so nice to feel so many emotions.

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So awesome.

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Yeah, I just kept crying out to tears and I get so nice that we're able to feel these.

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That's so cute.

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Yeah.

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And my feet are not like off this weekend.

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Oh, they look like a white shrill.

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It's a breakaway.

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No, I'll come a hall going to go back on a really chill.

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Actually, I want to find really good oysters and it's like.

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It's like on the west coast.

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Yeah, it is.

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Yeah, it's like on the west coast.

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I feel like the west coast of Ireland has the best they do oysters.

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They do.

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So I always are even around November.

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I don't really know.

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I'm going to find out.

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I've seen them in Superlid today in my fish.

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Yeah, my local one in the fish.

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Munger part where it's like fit.

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You know, fish laid out.

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There was oysters.

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I was like, I'm on oyster.

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Shirley, are you serious?

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I'm like, I might need to go see oyster value.

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Yeah, yeah, fuck.

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Yeah, superlid slap.

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That one does oyster sense.

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Superlid.

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My needs to taste this.

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I might be like the 10 fish man now.

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Yeah, yeah.

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I'm going to start.

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Yeah, it's just.

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Oh god.

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Thanks for watching.

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That's what you're listening.

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You can go back to the set of all set of spells for Monday and holiday and get your

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extra juice.

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Make sure to visit backstatt now before a new one set of Saturday and next Monday.

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Make sure to like, ring the subscribe to podcast and we will see you on Monday.

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Hi, I'm at the Gargastation, but it's nothing.

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I tell the girl I've seen for a while that I put shots of her up online.

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Shots she sent me so they're mind really.

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I only said I do it.

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But the guy I was saying that's a crime now.

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It's not my fault, man.

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And then do anything I only said it was threatening to share intimate images is a crime with serious

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