EXTRA JUICE: "Right Person, Wrong Time?" #5
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Hold my drink with Charlene and Ellie. I go light original.
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Hello and welcome. Hi everyone. This is our bonus exotes.
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Bonus juice. Yes. Which you seem to be lovin.
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Yes. Already? Thank God.
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Where we answer extra seats in the sauce and help you with some issues.
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Yeah. We hope to help anyway. Like we said we're not viable.
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No. We always say we're not viable.
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But yeah, it's just kind of an extra little snippet of us.
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Yeah. Okay. She's my sister throughout the week.
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So the first dilemma is, so by the way, I've been with my boyfriend for three years now and I just
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constantly feel like I'm left out. For example, I'm literally never invited out with him in his
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friend group, which is a mix of boys and girls. I started out with me because it was because I was new,
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but it's the same now. One of the girls in the group got a boyfriend six months ago and he's invited
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every time without fail. He apologized once for it and said you don't want to bring me along because
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some of the other people don't bring their partners or something, but since then, the owners have been
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invited. He was recently on the weekend away with some of them and BF and GFs were there, but
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unfortunately it wasn't even though I hadn't seen them in over a month due to studying.
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I don't know what to do and I'm spoken to him about it numerous times, but he seems to go in one
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year out the other. I think it's okay to like, if he wanted to, he would. Yeah, yeah. I don't
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like why doesn't he want to? That's how it rooms. If he wanted to. Yeah, but I don't like why doesn't he
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want to? Yeah. I know friends are sometimes separate, but like it'd be nice to be getting
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by it now and again. Yeah, and how long should it be in three years? Three years. But when she got
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one in first, did he not like introduce her to the friend? Yeah, sort of. Maybe he wants to either
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just keep his relationship with his friends completely separate, but then again, like that's really
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hard thing to do sometimes. Yeah, and it's also like mean because everyone else is bringing
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there. Yeah, partners. I need to be a little boy and girl, and then she's just not getting
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invited. Fair enough with just the original group and they're like, we're doing something with
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just the friends. Yeah. But like if they're starting to bring other boyfriend's girlfriends, why not bring
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him here? I wonder, I wonder could she like, I don't know, maybe get close to the girlfriends in
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the group, like maybe try and reach out to them. And then, yeah. Yeah. I just don't see why it's
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one more than one time. Yeah, why wouldn't you want? If you know, like if he knows that his friends
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girlfriends are gone, why wouldn't you want to bring your own girlfriend? Yeah. Does he be a
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to think? No, I don't know. I don't know. Oh, no. Like so many things could run to your head when
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you're thinking of that. Mine, yeah. The more some feeling left out. No, whichever. So she
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buy your own boy, your boyfriend. Yeah. I know. That's just the last thing you should make you feel.
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Like, I just feel like he's not making an effort at all. Yeah. If it just goes in one ear and
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out the other, he won't judge once. And then that's why she hadn't even seen him in over a month
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due to sodium and he still didn't invite her on the weekend away. I'd bring it up with him again
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definitely and tell him how much it's like a four year. Yeah. That's a huge thing. And don't let
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it make you feel like it's not because it is. Yeah. To not be invited anywhere. Yeah. Like your
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boyfriend shouldn't make you feel shit in any way to perform. Yeah. Yeah. I think definitely bring
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it up to him. Explain to him how much it goes for a two. And if he continues to do it. Boy, bye.
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Boy, bye. Yeah. So one continues to do something that they know her. Yeah. Yeah. That's like
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and no, no. Yeah. Because that's then them doing it. No, it's hurting you. Yeah. You shouldn't have
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to tell somebody more than once that something's hurting you because then they just don't care
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about how they're affecting you if they continue to do it. Yeah. And then it shows lack respect for
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you. Yeah. No. Definitely. Definitely. Definitely. The next one we have them is. Hi, girls. I would
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like to get your opinions on this. When I was with my ex, I got us tickets to a festival.
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It wasn't a birthday present or anything like that. I just took it upon myself to order two tickets
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at the time. We've now broken up. It's been about two months and it was quite quite a civil breakup.
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But he texted me that they're looking for his ticket. I told him that he could buy it off me as I
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was the one who bought it. When I told him this, he got very tick. Oh, he got very tick and said,
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I was selfish as I had bought it for him when we were together so he shouldn't have to pay for it now.
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The ticket wasn't cheap and I have other people who would be interested in buying it. Should I give
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it to him free of charge since it was initially bought for him or should I stand my ground and tell
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him he'll have to pay for it? I don't want to seem like a bitch. Oh, I'm like in this situation.
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I have tickets bought. Oh, shit. He's not getting them tickets. I'd yeah, I don't know. You bought
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them your money. You're not together if he wants to buy it off. I think yeah, I agree. Well,
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if it was like say what she said it wasn't but if it was like a birthday present or something,
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I'd be like now giving my ticket like you bought me out of the present. Oh, if it was a gift.
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It was a gift. It was a gift. Yeah, that's true. No, I'd make a buy it. And say to him,
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I hear there's other people who buy it off me so what makes you feel so special in my ex? Yeah,
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that's true. No, sorry. So you know, I feel in violence. Yeah. We're choosing violence for the last
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few days. I don't know. No, I tend to buy it and if it was an expensive ticket as well,
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they're not going together anymore. They were sipping for the first while and as soon as he's not
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getting what he wants, which is the free ticket. Oh, yeah. We's getting tickets. Yeah, I think
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actually you should pay. No, pay for it. Unless I say, if you want to buy the children, I'll give you
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a discount. I give you a 10 or off by the school of the market. I'll send it to your house. Yeah.
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No, affect that. Like you're not you're not together. So I mean, like I think it's kind of where
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they are. So he expected it for not. Yeah, yeah. I just be like, I'm just, let's get new ticket.
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I'd be more satisfied to ask. I think no, no, it's there. Yeah. I like, if anything, if I was in his
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shoes, I probably would have reached out and been like, yeah, if there any chance, I can buy it,
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I'd ask you to get off you. I know you got it from me, but yeah, can I buy it? I actually did that.
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I asked one time for tickets back. It was very rare. I got them as a present for you know,
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okay, for my birthday and I loved the band like and a gaming. Yeah. Oh, yeah. He just said,
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I'm gonna have them. I was like, can you send me them tickets? Like, picture this. Yeah. No, I think definitely,
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you're not being a bitch. You bought them with your money when you were together. Even just
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pretend to be like, I don't know. Nevermind. I can say every hand that you've already sold it.
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I wouldn't want to go to jail. Sorry. I can't say that. Oh, sorry, I say that. You don't want that. Yeah.
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I wouldn't get kicked back when I'm because that's probably what you took with us and I went off. Yeah.
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So I just literally just be like, here are people who want to buy it off me. If you want to buy it off
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me, you can't. Yeah. If you don't want to buy it. Then. Then. Yeah. Yeah. Well, they're not in
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up gone like if the tickets were bought together, like what if they're like, see it and tickets?
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They're in opposite. It was like, did you know? I feel it's shake with her a festival. Oh, is it?
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My hang on. Yeah, I think so. Yeah, a festival. Okay. No, you can't see it. Thank God. Thank God. No,
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definitely. I'd say keep it simple. We'll just be like now. Listen, pal. I cough up. My money might
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take it. Yes. Hi, girl. My dilemma is me and this boy last summer. We were proper mad about each
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other, but it was right person wrong time. We were about out of abuse of relationships at the same
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time and didn't want to rush. We talked for over a year and we're obsessed with each other.
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And then I stopped talking to him about the frustration of it never going anywhere but missing him
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terribly lately. And everyone's telling me to text him, but I don't want the wrong reaction.
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I don't know what to do. He definitely doesn't care anymore and probably would just tell all of
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me to please help the girl out. Oh, I think I think you could text someone up and like, hey,
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I really miss you. I think just playing it like not very cool, but like yeah,
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like how have we been or like yeah, we're fine with story like a check it in. Yeah,
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a subtle way of making him realize that you're still kind of yeah, interested. There's not
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a problem with that. Like what's so wrong with that? What's going to have his friends? Oh, she's
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after a pint of story like no one's going to make good one. Yeah. Yeah.
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Do you know what I mean? No, definitely. I think reach back out again because you're
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alone if you don't, you're lonely. We sit and they're saying what if I hate that? Do you believe
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in a right person the wrong time? I don't know. Sometimes I think this saying is a bit of a
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couple. I agree. I don't know. I don't know. And they're like yeah, to make you we would be together
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one day. Yeah, it would it leaves these girls on like and slashing. It's left me on a stream
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like like maybe one day like and you're always waiting for this person and you're like what the
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fool? I do believe everybody has like a soulmate out there. I really believe that. Yeah, I believe like
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this one. I didn't maybe not one but I believe like when we were born like God put one person here
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and one person there and they were finding each other. Yeah, and they were going to find each other.
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Yeah, but it'd be bitch.
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Shit, if one's an Australian, one's an Ireland or something.
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Yeah, but they'll say, if they sell me, it's not funny today.
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Yeah.
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But I did out the right person wrong time thing.
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Yeah.
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I don't know, because if it was the right person, anything would make it work.
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Yeah, I agree.
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Time wouldn't be a thing of...
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Except for if someone sent us a DM, we talked about this for it, and then they were like,
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oh, this was the right person wrong time.
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Or a right person wrong time was a very very, very, it wasn't that situation.
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Sometimes it can be, but most of the time, it's a copy of it, I think.
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Yeah, so something that they say.
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If it works for people, and that was the thing behind it, then great.
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Yeah.
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It's a thing that for porous use to make you still be there.
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And the background is there, or want you back?
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They don't want you right now.
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Yeah.
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They're like, not really interested now over other options, but I want to keep you around also.
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Yeah.
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Just in case my options don't really work.
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So I can slide back in.
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Yeah.
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And they always slide back in.
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Oh, they always come running back.
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Every single one.
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They do.
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Honestly, like...
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I think reach out.
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I think reach out too.
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So all things like Charlotte and I like, I'm sorry.
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You're when I wonder when it was last.
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It doesn't have to be any big like, spay, love a thing.
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Cause who knows if you do end up getting back to all of it, and you don't know how he feels now.
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I know she said that like he doesn't care, but you don't know.
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He could be saying that about you or she doesn't care.
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Yeah.
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So I'm not reaching, like the two of you could be thinking the same things.
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Essentially, you know what I mean?
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So I think.
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Slide back in.
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Slide back in.
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It was so slow away.
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We don't like to be like all the way straight away.
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Yeah.
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And then what like, send him like a tick tock.
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I don't know.
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Like that.
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I'm over practice.
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Oh, good.
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Yeah.
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I think so.
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Definitely.
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Definitely do.
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Like, what's the worst thing that nothing bad happened?
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You went.
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Like, am I only so taken up these?
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I'll just hop for over a year.
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Well, we need to also take these chunks of them.
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Then I'm like, it never came from it.
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I'm like, should she even go back there?
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But she really loves it.
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Yeah.
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Let this be your last time.
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Like, let this be your.
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If you're really strong, like, if you feel really strong, me about him, let this be the last
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time that you say, right, give it a go.
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If it doesn't work, it wasn't meant to be anything.
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The next one that we have then is I've been on and off with my ex boyfriend near a year
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now and he wants to get back with me properly.
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I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like,
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I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm
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a ex boyfriend near a year now and he wants to get back with me properly.
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But my family don't like him because he's very shy.
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And my friends don't like him with me.
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But I always love to talk to him and everything since we broke up a year ago.
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I don't know what to do because he said he has changed and I do love him so much, but he always
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gets annoyed at me for stupid stuff and then he can do whatever he wants.
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By the way, I love you and Ellie of saved my life since listening to you.
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You're so relatable.
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We love you, we love you, OMG!
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Well thank you so much.
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Um, bless you very shy.
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She's shit like that.
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What did you say when you done wrong?
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What did you say?
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She's changed.
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Yeah.
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He said I don't know what to do because he said he has changed and I do love him but
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he always gets annoyed at me for stupid stuff and then he can do whatever he wants.
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I don't know what stupid stuff means.
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You can like someone and appreciate them from afar.
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You can be like okay that was a good time for him.
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I like him speaking to him and I like catching up where he is but I'm not going to go back
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there but myself and stuff.
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It depends on how the race should be.
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Do you feel?
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Yeah, how did you feel at the end of it or how did you feel while you were in it and
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so also don't let people get into your head too much either.
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Like I know family is such a huge part of your life and you never want to fall out with
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your family over being with someone.
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But I think just maybe sitting them down and I've had to do it.
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Sitting them down and talking them and saying how you feel and like this is your journey
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or path.
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Like you have to see it from both sides and I know they just aren't like them because
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they shy.
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Like that's not the thing.
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I wonder if they see things she doesn't see.
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Yeah, can you be blind?
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Yeah.
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And the friends also don't like them.
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Usually the majority isn't wrong.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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In that sense.
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They probably have a good sense for you because you can't see it in it.
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Yeah.
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But I don't know.
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I think if someone says they've changed, you have to back it up with actions.
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Yeah.
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And if the actions are the same is what they were.
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Yeah.
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And I think leave them in the past.
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Don't leave me.
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Yeah.
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They're running off the whole time off for a year.
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The first year should be like the best.
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Is it the honeymoon phase?
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Yeah, if that's what you're like the first year, I would just knock it back.
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If the red flags are popping up in the first year, that's how it's going to go for the
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next 10 years.
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Yeah.
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So I don't know.
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Like I said, it was such a thing though that you just like block out everything else.
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Like you purposely sabotage yourself.
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You block out everything else just because the feeling of love is so much stronger than
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like everything else.
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Yeah.
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But you have to put yourself first.
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This is our selfish year, girls.
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Okay.
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We're having a selfish year.
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We're all going to be selfish little sluts.
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No, don't be like that.
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But you know what I mean?
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Yeah.
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Somewhere along those lines.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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Hockerous summers.
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Okay.
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That's how it's better.
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I think, yeah, leave them in the past.
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Yeah.
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I wouldn't say go back there.
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I'm not for the first year.
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No one likes them.
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Not nice first in the scene.
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The world's better.
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He seems bad.
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No, not that.
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No, we don't really like that.
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But like the family red stuff.
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Like very hard when you're family and friends don't like them.
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Very, very hard.
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Yeah.
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Like you're walking on eggshells.
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Like, don't even mind my mention.
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His name sometimes.
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Yeah.
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I used to lie when I used to leave the house sometimes and go out to someone.
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I used to lie and say I'm gone somewhere.
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Because I just didn't want to deal with that.
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The people, yeah, I know.
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The disappointment.
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Yeah.
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It wasn't even I.
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It was a dream of yours.
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When your mother tells you she's disappointed in you, it's like a dagger in the chest.
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I'd rather my mom say I hate you so much than like, then I'm disappointed in you.
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It just feels like you don't them so wrong.
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It's just like you're about to just sink into your eyes.
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Seriously?
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It's tragic.
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But, cherish as leave.
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Yeah.
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I'm a lover of those.
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I think you're done with him over a year.
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Don't go backwards on it.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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You're only going backwards in yourself.
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You're not taking stuff forward.
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I think, girl, it's May.
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We're coming into June.
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Yeah, come on.
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Come on now.
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Come on now.
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Get your hug, girl.
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So my hat on.
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We need to be thinking of summer.
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If you really want to, you can go back on them and win it.
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Just wait until then.
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Yeah.
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You need to like someone to cuddle in the winter.
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I think just focus on yourself.
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Yeah.
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That's what plan is anyway.
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First round test for your podcast.
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I've been binging them loads last few weeks.
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I've been seeing this fella the last two months and he was making so much effort at the
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start.
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Like seeing me every other week.
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The last week he's been so off with him and he's making any effort.
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He's deciding to change in a job and helping him with that.
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But my guts telling me the things are off and I've messed them twice.
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I got no one sentence answer back and he didn't register the main thing.
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I've actually asked him, which is what if he's lost interest?
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If he's ignoring you and you're asking questions like that, I think he's.
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Sorry, hang on.
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There's more.
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Oh, shit.
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You've always said numerous times that we like each other and are only seeing each other.
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So I don't know if I should see how things go.
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The next while I call it off, I'm not really happy with that too.
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Like, the PS instance needs to make these responses longer.
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I had a situation like this where like I think it's just a typical thing that like for
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boys, I'm sorry, like they do.
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They just they like will like bombard you with like meshes and like compliments like the
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first two weeks.
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And then they just go cold and it makes you like really deep into it and then when they
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go cold, it's like someone take your field away.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And you're like, where is it going?
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And you're like, you feel so I remember just feeling so shit.
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But I was like, I haven't let myself feel that shit.
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But I think you've answered your own question that she said I'm not going to do it.
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Is that true?
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Does that what it was?
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Yeah.
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You've answered your own your you've answered yourself.
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They're saying that like these but you sound as true colors here because if he's being
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like this, I glue the interest this soon into it.
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I'll be worried about what he's liking a few months and it's not in to do with you with
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probably just him being a shithead.
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Yeah.
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They all are getting called fee being a fuck boy.
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Maybe it's senior people.
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Yeah.
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So many options, but somebody makes you doubt yourself and doubt is not.
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The ratio in is oh, no, no.
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They're meant to be a bonus on to your life.
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Like you know, and maybe feel good about yourself.
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I'm not sitting there with yourself.
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It shouldn't be like seeing someone and staring at you, but someone who's staring something
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shouldn't be the hard part.
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The hard part is when you get a few years in and things happen and all, but like this
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will be easy and fun and that's just a foul.
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Yeah.
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That's always the full part.
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I think you answered.
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I think you know what's right to do.
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I think I would call it off because over the next while it's kind of just knock on your
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confidence and make you feel shit.
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We don't want that.
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We don't want that.
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We're not about that here.
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No, no, I think run.
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I only said it can't.
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Yeah.
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It's so shit boys, just do that.
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They just like show you this fake side of them for a few weeks and then you think that's
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the real them.
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So when it's gone, you keep thinking of the fake side, going to come back in an hour.
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I've never do it. No, no, no, they forgot everything.
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They forgot everything.
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Return. No.
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That was an act.
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It was an act.
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They all do it.
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They're brilliant actors.
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They're brilliant actors.
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Brilliant actors.
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Yeah. Just be aware of that girl that you have another yet.
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Someone nice they might index right.
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It's a real cynical way looking at a book.
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It's also a protection like.
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Yeah.
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You have to some nice baby.
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Keeping your guard up sometimes.
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I've been selling.
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I even asked it so far.
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Yeah.
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And say,
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I'm in love.
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I'm in love.
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Yeah.
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No, no.
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Just catch yourself before you fall girl.
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Oh, well done.
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I like that.
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I'm so good.
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Very good.
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I'm so glad.
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I'm so glad.
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How do we go to do it?
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And that was it.
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Yep.
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That was our little snippet.
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Our bonus of this week.
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Hope you enjoyed.
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Yeah.
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For the episode Wednesdays, bonus on the Mondays,
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putting your calendars, putting your diaries,
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and we'll come back with an extra tea and extra juice.
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We love this.
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We love you love.
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Bye.
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Bye.
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